How to Set Boundaries with Difficult & Toxic People | Terri Cole & Lisa Bilyeu
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- Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
- What's up homies?! Today I'm live with the Boundary Boss and my girl, Terri Cole. We're answering your questions about how to stand up for yourself and set boundaries with difficult and toxic people.
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"Don't make yourself vulnerable to someone who already proved being umtrustworthy" wow! This really needs a highlight.
I've heard "therapists" encouraging ppl to cater to their abusers, saying that narcissists "can be safe people and we can't judge them".
I feel I learn a lot from the short question answers live.
Setting boundaries with myself part, very enlightening….. I appreciate this avenue of open and free - safe - flow of conversation…. It’s art
The first question and response about how to set boundaries with MIL was fantastic.
Lisa, you're an Incredible, Phenomenal, Confident &, Inspiring Woman!!! Glad, Excited &, Super Thrilled and, Pumped for you, your topics &, to be a part of your Community. 💙
Soooo excited for you to be a part of it my homie!!
Can you provide a link to be a part of your community !
@@LisaBilyeu
@LisaBilyeu Homie 💯
Two of my favorite lady heroes!! ❤❤❤
Thank you for hosting such excellent guests…love Terri Cole.
She just oozes wisdom, grace and compassion. ✨🫶🏻✨
Thank youuu ❤
Prohibited from having boundaries with family, I’m learning. All these amazing women & men helping us all. Wow, thank you 🤍
You're so not alone ❤
Hi Lisa! Glad I caught this! What a nice surprise. Love you! Hi Tom.
Thank you for this! I think sometimes it is so hard to set boundaries with family or friends. 🙏❤️
Lisa, thank you for this great interview and for reading my question 18:54 ! No excuse now not to achieve my goals! 💕💕 🏋🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Ahhhh thanks for watching and asking such an impactful and important question!!
Lisa you look beautiful and radiant. Thanks for the live Ladies
Lisa, Thanks for doing LIVE Event! You truly care about your audience❤
Thanks so much. I honestly cherish this community and I so appreciate you and your comment!
@@LisaBilyeu Awwe thanks! Back at you ~my powerful sister. TEAM TENACITY 😎 GIRL POWER
Loved this! Thank you, ladies! ❤️
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I feel you HBunny. I'm currently living with a narcissist mother 😢 I think the real problem is finding and maintaining a job (dealing with more toxic people in the workplace)
Great program Lisa! I didn't know Terri and I love her advise on limits, which I'm practicing from now on😊
I wanna be like Terri Cole when I grow up. Can't wait until my workbook arrives 🤗🎉
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Aww, thank youuu ❤❤
Hey Lisa, I’m new here and I believe You nailed it with your answer to having a discussion regarding speaking your truths with each other! Truth with Love and Compassion when spoken to another regarding personal issues that are there between them.
As far as the “Let’s be nice” for the sake of them being uncomfortable.
You nailed it, Toots! Face it head on and address the issues. That sounded like a You problem, for him! Especially a person of age, I may be 68 and it took me this long to learn to face them, eye to eye, and not back down! You disrespect me once, we’re done. I don’t have to accept being crapped on from Anyone!
I didn’t come this far just to… Come This Far!
Keep telling as it IS, Soul Sis! 💜💜💜
Thank you especially for the part about narcisistic mother.
Time well spent, informative and will be helpful🙏♥️
Great show love the interviews 🥳
Recently at work a colleague yelled at me and I didn't know how to handle it in the moment and I talked about it afterwards. She now pretends all is good but I don't feel comfortable with her.
LOVE THIS!!!🥰
Thank you!! Keep it up, love it girl!!! 💄💪👍🙏❤️
#3.4.5. ☑️ Liked. Loved. Yay🎉
Please please do this again miss lisa b, miss b and miss Terri cole you help me to open my eyes to have boundaries, but to learn about myself to take the time to know what and how to maintain healthy boundaries in my life sincerely yours Mrs Amber m Powell-Mccutchen
Your podcast is a Godsent. Truly.
Started today wondering what was THE book on boundaries and then this popped up. I'm getting the book!
MY SON BEAT ME UP 2 YEARS AGO on Valentines Day in front of my granddaughters. The girls have not been allowed to see me but still see their Dad, my son...he went to Anger Management....I went to 3rd floor mental ward in my local emergency room, got out and am putting my life together my way. Actually, Gods way.
Two of my favourite women together ❤️
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Rewatching and love it as usual, very helpful content Lisa, power on 💪🏼
Absolutely loved this live Lisa! So much helpful advice and great examples of life situations. Love and light from North Yorkshire ✌️💜💜🇬🇧
Great content! Thank you both!
Oh damn, I missed. I love Terri and you too Lisa very much.
No worries! I’ll be doing more so stay tuned and check in on the community page for a post about the next one. Seeeee you thereeee 🥰
@@LisaBilyeu Will do, catch you next time.
This is really good!
Interesting and informative.
This is very good! I like all the questions! 😊
thank you❤
im so confused and exhausted from a lifetime of toxic parents who just trample over any attempt at a boundary ive put in they gang up and deny reality or rage or plead ignorance....how do i know when to give up trying to set them and painful as it is end contact
I slowly had to LET GO~ it was completely affecting my health. I was constantly asking for advice from others in what to do. IT wasted so many years of my life. ❤ I Journal now asking questions and waiting for Holy Spirit/Inner Spirit of mine to answer. Then I sense better how to handle someone. *Think about how MUCH of your SOUL ENERGY & others' are being depleted by the toxic people in Your life.
Do you live with them? If not, limit the contact and be persistent in your boundaries.
You can talk abt "safe" topics like weather, world events and ignore them when they want to interfere in your private life. The less you share with them the less they can interfere with.
If they try to push your boundaries, ignore them, don't get into arguments.
And if they still trample you, even though you put those boundaries then you need to limit the contact more.
SHARE LESS of personal info of any kind. I understand it won't be easy YET SAFER Subjects are Best as another person commented. 😇Praying & thanking God you can SENSE when it's time to END the conversation & Walk Away without emotions. ☆☆ Even go into bathroom to take mental break to DISCERN.
When it is negatively affecting your health, which it sounds like it is, then you step back and focus on you. You have have right to. Good luck ❤
@@kobra4422 Amen
My husband has a family that gaslights him alot. And I find him gasligting me sometimes. Whenever I say I like something he will gaslight me by saying I thought you didn't like that. Almost as if he is trying to make me seem as if I'm inconsistent with my opinions. It's very strange because I'm very diligent & thoughtful with my opinions. I rarely make snap judgments on liking or disliking something. I like giving things a couple to tries before I give a positive or negative opinion. But his mother always makes snap judgments and it's usually always negative judgments. Is he gaslighting me or projecting his mother's tendencies onto me?
Me recuerda tanto a Samantha Jones.
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unfortunately stepparents can be heinous and hateful to the children of their spouse. Teenagers don't know how to have conversations with an abuser, and it is not their responsibility. In many cases, the parent leaves the parenting to the wicked stepparent and takes a backseat to their job as a parent. Abuse by stepparents is very common and many youths dont realize they are being abused, because their biological parent is allowing it. this happened on both sides for me and both parents allowed their partners to abuse me, and in the present day, the stepparents forbade their children, my half siblings, to communicate with the first born.
Steps to overcome psychological abuse
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Days/times of future lives?
Stay tuned!!! It will all be guest dependent so I will post on the community page as soon as I have another one scheduled!
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What about your sister-in-law?
How about Boundaries on adult children? Why does this always start with "bad" parents!
It's so negative AND I've been following Terri Cole for decades and now she's coming out with this? I'm out...
I sent you an email. I'm sure you get tons. I'm available
"When you get married that family becomes your first priority" Um, no? You don't abandon your family just because you're living with a man. He shouldn't become your "first priority" atThe expense of everything else, that would make him the narcissist. This is some bizarre first world or third world stuff. Many things she talks about only work in specific contexts.
These people sound like they need therapy themselves.
Why are they always pointing their fingers in these photos?😂 That's some messed up marketing manipulation going on there. Not for me. Unsubbed. They look bossy.😂
Oh gaslighting she forgot to add how they can also say ( him )oh you took what I said literally?? ( me) yes because that’s what you told me so I thought that’s what you meant. ( Him) no you can’t take everything I said literally I don’t always mean what I say… why is everything so black and white with you? Your insane. When are you gonna realize I’m always right and your always wrong. I adore you but I can’t live my life always fighting. ( me) Iooking at him and thinking I am the problem? maybe I’am crazy?
🩷Lisa
We want more.
Tell us the days
Hells yes!! Working on the next one! Keep an eye on the community page and I’ll post as soon as I know!