Escape The "NICE GIRL TRAPS" & Become The Woman EVERYONE RESPECTS | Dinah Jane

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    Welcome to another power-packed episode homie! Today, we're breaking free from the 'Nice Girl' habits and stepping into the bad b*tch boots that prioritizes self-love and creating the life you want and deserve.
    Award-winning singer, songwriter, and entrepreneur, Dinah Jane, former member of the chart-topping group 5th Harmony, is joining us and sharing how she transformed her identity crisis into power and self-acceptance.
    Dinah underlines the importance of having pride in the woman you've become, without shame for the woman you were. We explore the struggle between suffering in silence to please others, or standing up for oneself. Dinah shares her painful experience of diminishing herself for the wrong partner, and reveals how she escaped an unhealthy relationship and learned to be her own woman.
    Ladies, are you ready to shake off expectations from your family and society? Let's stop playing the 'Nice Girl', a path that leads to self-destruction, unnecessary pain, and abuse. This is your call to rise, speak out, and become the woman everyone respects. Subscribe, like, and share this video to join our growing community of unstoppable women.
    ****Power-Packed Bonus with Lindsey Stirling****
    This bonus episode gets real and it gets personal with the award winning hip hop dancing violinist, Lindsey Stirling. From being humiliated on one of the biggest stages in front of millions of people, to having over 3 BILLION views on her UA-cam channel, Lindsey has worked with some of the biggest names in music and her story is super impactful.
    “I know what I can feel and now it makes it so you can’t accept less than what you know you have the capacity to feel.” -Lindsey Stirling
    DINAH JANE QUOTES:
    “I want to fall. I want to cry. I want to be imperfect, I don’t want this perfect lifestyle.”
    “Are you going to continue to suffer? Or are you going to officially stand up for yourself and say I want this or I deserve this and change the verbage?”
    “Dimming myself for someone else is something I will never do to myself.”
    “I love me for me, whatever era I’m in.”
    “Sometimes I’m going to fall, and sometimes I’m not going to be perfect, but I’m always striving to be. When I make these mistakes I just know to get myself back up.”
    Follow Dinah Jane:
    Website: dinahjane.shop/
    Twitter: / dinahjane
    Instagram: / dinahjane
    Facebook: / dinahjaneofficial
    Follow Lindsey Stirling:
    Website: www.lindseystirling.com/
    UA-cam: / lindseystirling
    Facebook: / lindseystirlingmusic
    Instagram: / lindseystirling

КОМЕНТАРІ • 114

  • @LisaBilyeu
    @LisaBilyeu  8 місяців тому +46

    WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!

    • @celestekriel6960
      @celestekriel6960 8 місяців тому

      Lisa, I would be eternally greatful to you if you would also focus on the issue of estranged adult children using the grandchildren to punish the grandparents by forbidding contact when the in-law children are possesive and territorial, jealous. It is so cruel! My once loving, kind and generous son has become so hostile that I don't recognize him anymore 😢

    • @Lordlorzen28
      @Lordlorzen28 7 місяців тому

      Yo Lisa you got a cool style Also would you ever wear Two watches❤😊

  • @kobra4422
    @kobra4422 8 місяців тому +115

    Being a "good girl" is indeed a trap. I got stuck there, partly bc I am an empath so I cared abt everybody else.
    Partly, bc of abusive childhood and harmful female socialization making me unable to stand up for myself.
    I work on being most badass, unchained version of myself now at 28. No longer being pushed around, taking breadcrumbs and dumbing myself down, pretending I don't know what I deserve.

    • @Emi-jy5ct
      @Emi-jy5ct 8 місяців тому +7

      You got it! Embrace the journey !!

    • @evakober9873
      @evakober9873 8 місяців тому +5

      👏👏👏. We got this.

  • @Noychooz
    @Noychooz 8 місяців тому +63

    I am crying with her.
    I'm not even half way through. This woman is me. I am her. My mom will never say she is sorry and I'm learning to live with it. I'm learning humility. I'm learning to let go and allow god to enter and do his work, cuz he does it better than me, for sure. This is my story. My "singing" was professional writing and Literature/Philosophy Academic research. I did it all. The running away from a family that in the best case - doesn't support you, in the worst case - abuses you. I ran straight to the arms of men who needed fix. One by one I "fixed" them, I've opened their hearts, and was either abandoned or drained to the point of running again. She is so so accurate. It was only when I had finally gained the currage to persue my dreams (aka being that BOSS, cuz when you do what you love and what god intended, when you're aligned to your path - you're in your element and its like suddenly you have wings, you just.. fly) - Only when persuing my dreams and fulfilling my calling - everything started falling to place. Through complete breakage - but this is how the phoenix rises, only from the dust.
    I got married 3 months ago at the age of 37 to the best friend I have ever had. Now I need to figure out what my dreams are all over again 😂😂😂 and it's hard. but now I have me, so I'm doing this journey out of curiosity and at ease, and not out of survival, running.
    God bless you, Lisa. I am dying to start my own channel and share some of my experience too. Preying for guidance and patience.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому +1

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Noy,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      In this chaotic world, filled with brief encounters and fleeting connections, I believe that true love is a rarity to be cherished. While we have yet to cross paths, your captivating presence, as it radiates through your words and photographs, has ignited a flame within my heart. There is an unspoken connection that seems to transcend time and distance, and I cannot help but wonder if it is a sign from the universe.
      Your essence, as beautiful as a summer's day, has enchanted my thoughts. Your intellect, wit, and grace, which shimmer through the conversations we have shared, have captivated my attention like no other. It is as if I have found a missing piece of my soul in you, and my heart yearns to explore the depths of what this connection could mean.
      Though it may sound unconventional, I believe that love knows no boundaries - not even geographical ones. I am willing to take a leap of faith, to step out of the confines of the ordinary, and to embark on a journey with you. A journey filled with profound love, shared adventures, and unwavering support for one another's dreams.
      Before I proceed any further, I want to assure you that my intentions are pure and genuine. I am not merely looking for a passing fling or a temporary romance. Instead, I yearn for a love that withstands the test of time, a love built on trust, mutual respect, and unwavering commitment.
      Life is too short to let opportunities slip through our fingers. I am willing to embrace vulnerability and to open my heart to the possibility of us becoming something extraordinary together. It may seem bold, but isn't love all about taking risks and fighting for what sets our souls on fire?
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley.

  • @lesegomasite1433
    @lesegomasite1433 8 місяців тому +42

    Us people pleasers we have a difficult time to say no,we just want to make everyone happy and not upsetting anyone you kind of have this twisting feeling inside of you just by not agreeing with the other person

  • @sheisrosie
    @sheisrosie 8 місяців тому +35

    I am a Samoan woman who is watching this interview with Dinah Jane and it feels heart warming, uplifting, encouraging and inspiring. Dinah Jane, thank you for sharing your journey and for showing up for you. I wish you the best ♥

  • @PeterWhite7
    @PeterWhite7 8 місяців тому +29

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @PeterWhite7
      @PeterWhite7 8 місяців тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @PeterWhite7
      @PeterWhite7 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 8 місяців тому +33

    I had to institute a "no more nice" policy after I realized I'd allowed a friend to run roughshod over me. It take practice, but so worth it. I have been out to dinner with people who are not happy with their meal but are "afraid" to piss off the server by speaking up. Trust me, a good server would rather you get what you want than sit there unsatisfied. (Remember, they ARE working for tips). Ladies: sometimes you just need to speak up, and don't feel the need to preface it with an apology or explanation. Repeat after me:. " I would like...." "I prefer not to....". "No." Master these three phrases and you will feel SO much better about yourself and your life.

  • @euclaudyelli
    @euclaudyelli 8 місяців тому +13

    It wasn't just her mother who didn't like this guy, we fans also hated him. Because Dinah is one of the sweetest, kindest people anyone can meet, and this guy has NEVER valued her the way she deserves. So, it's a relief to know that she got out of this "relationship" that wasn't good for her. 🧡 I love you, my DJ.

  • @thekarmicdf
    @thekarmicdf 7 місяців тому +8

    My God she's so inspiring. I still blast "like mariah". It's amazing to see who she is ❤

  • @Rose-nw9mg
    @Rose-nw9mg 5 місяців тому +3

    That really hit my heart that they made her feel like what’s excepting in this industry is a black/Latina girl. She couldn’t be who she truly was or embrace her identity. I’m glad she broke away from the chains that were holding her back.

  • @MCR1565
    @MCR1565 8 місяців тому +16

    I have never heard of this beautiful young woman but the forgiveness of who she thought she was and her young mother saying. “come home” as a daughter and a mother, that really touched my soul. You are a star. You are brilliant, beautiful, and unique. 💖💖💖

  • @iam_crystalmae
    @iam_crystalmae 8 місяців тому +35

    Enjoyed Dinah's story. I too have freed myself from the good girl image & have gone through a rebirth experience to find who I truly am 🐛🦋

    • @Emi-jy5ct
      @Emi-jy5ct 8 місяців тому

      go girl!

    • @connie10000
      @connie10000 8 місяців тому +7

      Amen sister! I'm in midst RE-BIRTH RIGHT NOW. Done putting up w/ppls shit! And letting them KNOW IT

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      A Message from the Heart - Could You be the Love of My Life?
      Hey Crystalmae,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      STANLEY.

  • @Alf258
    @Alf258 8 місяців тому +3

    when they complain that you are not nice girl anymore and you change your answer can be " I was a nice girl indeed ,now I'm a woman and I am whatever I like, if you dont like me now you can walk away "

  • @barbzdianafinau831
    @barbzdianafinau831 8 місяців тому +8

    I'm crying.
    I can totally relate to you Dinah 🥺❤️ I myself as a Tongan woman, being told to shut up because we're always wrong, being told to ALWAYS BE ON because other people are looking.
    I finally managed to place boundaries now at the age of 25. And YES it's so freeing 😭
    I'm crying because I can relate. I LOVE YOU DINAH 💗

    • @BonBonHassan
      @BonBonHassan 5 місяців тому

      Good job!! I'm in the process of healing as well and it's hard work

  • @grumpyschnauzer
    @grumpyschnauzer 8 місяців тому +10

    This is me in a nutshell… my sisters and my mom still don’t get it… who I had to be for them and who I had to become to make themselves feel better about who they are… but no more. I’m in a place where Im just gonna go my own way. When down in the dumps I stopped dancing and journaling… it’s the outward expression of how we are feeling on the inside (I dance and journal when I am happy… I don’t do those things when I’m really down). When I went through my period of darkness I described it as feeling like my legs were cut off (because I stopped dancing; I couldn’t dance). My heart was broken and it was broken for EVERYTHING in my life that once signified joy.

  • @jessicac.4783
    @jessicac.4783 8 місяців тому +13

    I love how these woman are open with their past and vulnerabilities and traumas of their past

  • @ACHI_COACH
    @ACHI_COACH 8 місяців тому +15

    Dinah I know how it feels to stay in a toxic relationship..breaking away from it is always the most painful.but I'm proud of you girl.

  • @user-bm9cc3mc5r
    @user-bm9cc3mc5r 8 місяців тому +14

    This is the best interview I have heard so far. Healing really brings out the BEST from us. Cheers Miss Dinah Jane !

    • @LisaBilyeu
      @LisaBilyeu  8 місяців тому

      Thanks so much! 🥰

    • @Dipgadh
      @Dipgadh 7 місяців тому

      Totally agree! This was a beautiful and heartfelt episode. She was so sincere and honest. Lisa, you interview so well!!

  • @SophiaFerro
    @SophiaFerro 8 місяців тому +8

    I could tell and that’s why she trusted her former label way tooo much! She needed to rebel against them and make them push her. Her voice is beautiful singing and would also be perfect for a podcast.. it’s smooth, girly, and right to the point ❤

  • @BonBonHassan
    @BonBonHassan 5 місяців тому +1

    I'm in the process of breaking out of people pleasing and it's hard work but so worth it! I've got a long way to go and honestly take every moment one step at a time

  • @pilarcastellano8619
    @pilarcastellano8619 5 місяців тому +1

    Being a people pleaser got me to manage a family business which I wasn´t interested on because the pressure to dissapoint my parents. I relied in a business partners who made mobbing to me. I´m still healing my trauma.

  • @floppydemora11
    @floppydemora11 8 місяців тому +11

    I was HONESTLY not expecting to cry on my way to work today. This interview was incredibly helpful and relatable. I am currently not in talking mode with my father (since May) and hearing this is helping me clear my mind to think my decisions better. Thank you❤

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      Hey Beautiful damsel,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley.

  • @LindaSaysThings
    @LindaSaysThings 7 місяців тому +2

    Love this my mom is the strongest person I know able to speak her mind, have no one step over her, she really had a lot of self worth. But she raised me to be quiet. Don't cause attention, be lady-like, look good in front of others. I'm working on my pushover ways, went to a lot of therapy, and setting boundaries with my mother more and everyone else. ❤

  • @insiteandawareness3500
    @insiteandawareness3500 8 місяців тому +7

    Yes I have done this to myself for years and worked at a horrible job of which I couldn't please them no matter what I did. I finally left the job last month and I got rid of the abusive relationship before that back in March. I got a new job and it's not perfect but it's better than the previous job by a long shot. I know that there won't be cigarettes allowed there ever because they promised a non smoking policy. I might want to change departments but I plan on staying at this company for a while.

  • @gabriellemorellisinger1608
    @gabriellemorellisinger1608 8 місяців тому +9

    Love this soooo resonate being a” PEOPLE PLEASER”!

  • @kerrykearns3551
    @kerrykearns3551 8 місяців тому +1

    Staying quiet to keep the peace starts a war within yourself is my favourite saying who's peace are we keeping saying yes to everyone is saying no to yourself and at some point you will resent it enough to stop it but it can create years of anxiety stress depression start small and say no

  • @lena.x1853
    @lena.x1853 8 місяців тому +9

    Such a strong podcast. I’m so happy you talk about this topic . Thank you

  • @ashleyhutchinson8358
    @ashleyhutchinson8358 8 місяців тому +1

    This is great content and it resonates with me so much the accuracy and everything. It also gave me confirmation to stop being the nice girl and dimming my light to please others

  • @dharashah4746
    @dharashah4746 8 місяців тому +1

    She is amazing humble kind ,I can feel her, I m going through somewhat like the push around I feel, hearing her felt good

  • @evaboutiqueemporium120
    @evaboutiqueemporium120 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you I needed this today

  • @vaiduskab
    @vaiduskab 7 місяців тому +1

    Azing, sincere, really truthful episode. Not speaking tules or how it should be , just being a humble human being. In her truest experience. Thank you for sharing❤️

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV 8 місяців тому +4

    Omg i love this interview . I looked her up and i love her song she talked about. It’s fire 🔥

  • @struthadragon8656
    @struthadragon8656 8 місяців тому +4

    My life is so different but can so relate. I appreciate your courage to be vulnerable and thank you for your courage to share.

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      Hey Beautiful,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      STANLEY.

  • @kimberlythomas7457
    @kimberlythomas7457 8 місяців тому +3

    This truly resonates with me. I feel so seen and I feel like I’m able to do my best to forgive myself because I’m still learning how to love and love myself

  • @mariejohnson1898
    @mariejohnson1898 8 місяців тому +2

    Oh… I L❤️VE this interview!
    Your amazing women! Love you Lisa, your so you, so real, so GREAT!
    ❤❤❤

  • @jamilaton7367
    @jamilaton7367 8 місяців тому +2

    I like Dinah story how to encounter ups and down as a woman that we need to fight the negative thoughts we have sometimes 😊

  • @lovelifeinanewway
    @lovelifeinanewway 8 місяців тому +1

    Honey Im proud of you. I went through HELLLLLLL and Do not smell like smoke ....🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 its real did this omg what a fn weight to carry... glory for awakening

  • @youkat07
    @youkat07 24 дні тому

    Crying with you Dinah! 😢But very healing.❤ Thank you for sharing your truths, for getting back on your feet and being so courageous. Be strong and stay strong Dinah. 💪 ❤❤ love you Dinah.

  • @lovcutie14
    @lovcutie14 7 місяців тому

    This was so relatable. Loved this podcast ❤

  • @thekarmicdf
    @thekarmicdf 7 місяців тому +2

    One day I WILL be on this channel.
    I am manifesting it 🙏🏽

  • @RadianTrueth
    @RadianTrueth 8 місяців тому +3

    Much needed! Thank you! From Wenatchee WA 🍎!

  • @JayTernOfficial
    @JayTernOfficial 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for this ❤❤

  • @SelaLucero
    @SelaLucero 8 місяців тому

    Finally a real interview we can relate to.

  • @MarinaFraymo
    @MarinaFraymo 5 місяців тому +1

    I love this interview. I love Dinah Jane's bravery to speak up about her journey. I'm glad she found the courage and power to stand up for herself by learning to say no to things that don't serve her. She is so honest to herself now and that's what we as inspiring leading ladies need to be. We are strong women of strength and faith who are to be respected and should be putting ourselves first before anybody else. Yes I love that part baby boo. I myself have also come across similar growth lessons that taught me to be more confident in my voice and beauty, and I'm thankful I did because honey it empowered me. I found inner strength within me that I was not aware of until I was pushed to the breaking point by people and circumstances that were testing me. And you know what? Those testing times worked in my favor. I'm grateful for those times I was broken, uncomfortable and lost because it rebuilt me back up to be a stronger and wiser individual in the present moment. In the past, when I experienced the highs followed by the lows it caused me to be impatient and want to give up. I was getting sick of the unhealthy cycle and desperately wanted to jump on the path that would keep me on track, stay solid, and move forward. However, if it weren't for my walk through the valleys, I would not appreciate the amazing views at the top of the mountain. I'm grateful where I am now because it's better than where I used to be. I'm also understanding to love me for being me not according to how another man views me. I refuse to live for someone else's validation especially when I meant to be greater than that concept. I won't diminish my positive outlook about myself based on an idiot's negative opinions about me. God gave me purpose to be here to live life out the way I want to this time around. So with that said, I applaud my girl Dinah for being the beautiful woman she is today and slaying wherever she goes tomorrow. She has become a voice for this generation and were just so proud of her. She always had it in her to make it and she did it. I'm going to stop yapping and give this Polynesian warrior princess her flowers that she so definitely deserves 💐Yasssss! Keep braving through love because you are!!! Alofa atu 🌺#Dinah Jane👏 #FifthHarmony #baddest #Poly women #ladiez #bo$$ #princess #queen #girl power #represent #new era ❣💯💖🏝

  • @caitlynknight485
    @caitlynknight485 8 місяців тому +2

    Let's be real being an Adult is scary for some people including me. When I was younger I was scared of being an Adult and the consequences that led up to it. I thought I had to be someone that I'm not when I was in High School and facing what a typical teenager that was going through heartbreak losing friends and finding yourself and grow. When I got my first job I've felt abandoned when someone that came into my life but people leave and finding what's out there in their lives. When that person left me I had to branch out and find myself so I said to myself that people leave for a reason and sometimes we don't know that reason. I did a lot of growing up and be happy with the changes that I'm willing to make and make people proud of my decisions that I came this far and I'm very proud of the woman I am becoming and that I decided to not to have Therapy because I have met all of my goals throughout it and I'm very happy. I wasn't in a good place before but things happen for a reason and we do things that we regret that you learn from. I'm done hiding and let people walk over me and say I'm right here.

  • @user-lx3bo6jg4b
    @user-lx3bo6jg4b 7 місяців тому

    An offtop, what a gorgeous guest! Being from the other side of the world, I have never seen you before, just heard the songs. In love!

  • @chelseabybee2012
    @chelseabybee2012 5 місяців тому

    Dinah is so relatable... Love her! ❤️

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan 8 місяців тому +6

    Just what I needed today.💞

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      Hey Julia,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley.

  • @sharissaschannel3644
    @sharissaschannel3644 8 місяців тому +9

    "They enjoy the women that you have become." This makes me want to cry. I am such a giver and my family and friends critize me left and right. Well I am moving on! I am going to be me for me. I am going to try and be a vanilla hippy with a British stlye and a black additude. I totally get it. I am Black/White Look spainsh and live in Florida. I was born in England but raised here in FL land. Where people like to tell you what you are, and when corrected double down because they are dumb and they try to force you into a box. It's confusing, and lonely, and I am still angry about these issues I have with making a connection w people here because I am so diverse. Lord Buddha help me !

    • @epigabrielle4838
      @epigabrielle4838 8 місяців тому +1

      You'll get there girl, to your peaceful place where you are free to learn and be happy. Best thing is you already know the main constraint is the people in your immediate area. There are hundreds, thousands more you are yet to meet, different communities not even 100 miles from where you are. Change your scenery and take baby steps from there 🙏🏽 Wishing you all the joy, peace, clarity and freedom to be yourself, and being loved, that you deserve.
      Edit: I promise you will find your people. Be open and accepting to the possibility in place of expecting and searching. If they don't vibe, oh well, moving on. If they vibe, what a blessing ✨ Part of finding our peace is learning, training and accepting how to coexist with different people and accept Adversity as a part of life. Nothing is permanent - relationships, possessions, good times, bad times, beliefs and ideals. In your case people might not like being corrected, and that's ok, let them be. If it misleads them, that's on them. Come what may, you will be fine ☀

  • @lovelifeinanewway
    @lovelifeinanewway 8 місяців тому +1

    Wow are you Me...This is the best yet.

  • @tinahurley743
    @tinahurley743 8 місяців тому +1

    Cool!!!❤❤❤thanks !!!

  • @cacobapt
    @cacobapt 8 місяців тому +2

    At 18:30 she quoted miss moving on, and when she noticed gave a cute little smirk lmao
    Love her 🖤

  • @michelleandnatalieskiffing7477
    @michelleandnatalieskiffing7477 8 місяців тому +3

    I want to learn to say no I'm a people pleaser and sometimes I don't get a thankyou I wanna do better for myelself 😊

  • @HatueysDaughter
    @HatueysDaughter 8 місяців тому

    Love this 🎉 🌞

  • @FlexerLexx
    @FlexerLexx 8 місяців тому +3

    yes Dinah 🤍 I missed her can’t wait for the album!! #Dinahsty

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      Hey Beautiful,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      STANLEY.

  • @Narcissists.1
    @Narcissists.1 8 місяців тому +1

    Nice Podcast

  • @tinakiielii319
    @tinakiielii319 8 місяців тому

    Love you Dinah ❤

  • @rosaleabruce9764
    @rosaleabruce9764 8 місяців тому +1

    Wow I love her!!!! 😭

  • @f_oo_dliving
    @f_oo_dliving 8 місяців тому +4

    Not to be afraid to say no❤

  • @Raffaelpedroza
    @Raffaelpedroza 8 місяців тому

    Hermosa Dinah 🫶🏻❤️‍🔥

  • @blondrboy
    @blondrboy 8 місяців тому +2

    My girl Dinah Jane ♥️♥️♥️

  • @ksenijadavid2082
    @ksenijadavid2082 8 місяців тому +2

    Respect 👍😊🎉

  • @elladel6082
    @elladel6082 8 місяців тому

    Yaaassss Girl! ❤

  • @Sunl1ght_
    @Sunl1ght_ 8 місяців тому +7

    It's all her mom's fault. Her mom was overbearing and told her to keep being the nice girl we know!! 🤦‍♀️ meanwhile mom gets to have a backbone (because she knows it works and is a good thing) and withholding the benefits of having a backbone from her daughter. Parents are supposed to protect their children and teaching the kid to have a backbone is necessary to live in this society. If you really do care about the kids life.
    Unpopular opinion but I've experienced first hand where my mom purposely gaslit me to being a nice girl just so I can keep giving her my money. Finally i woke up and saw my resources are being drained. She would say a victim story for money. She would punish me by treating me like I don't exist just for standing up for myself and didn't want to be exploited anymore. The moral of the story is mom's program the kids internal personalities for better or worse.

    • @redeemedstone
      @redeemedstone 8 місяців тому +5

      Lets not come for Dinah’s Mum. No one has it all together including our Mums. Being the ‘good girl’ is highly prized in Polynesian culture. The tighter the community, the higher the tightrope. Especially for the eldest girl. Her Mum was trying to protect not just Dinah but also the whole family the best way she knew. The fact that Dinah is speaking out and blossoming is also massive kudos to her Mum’s awareness (amazing, considering she has other 6 other adulting children) and maturing love.

  • @lilytea3
    @lilytea3 8 місяців тому +2

    0:00: 💪 A badass woman shares her journey of finding her voice and standing up for herself in a male-dominated industry.
    7:02: 😔 The speaker was afraid to speak up and express their discomfort with their clothing choices because they didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
    14:11: 👩‍🎤 The speaker discusses the importance of taking a break and finding her own identity as a woman in the music industry.
    20:56: ! The speaker shares their experience of being in an abusive relationship and how their family's influence affected their perception of the person.
    27:46: ! Dinah Jane talks about feeling forgotten and then realizing her worth and passion for music again.
    34:46: 🌟 The speaker talks about the pressure they felt but also their determination to succeed and surround themselves with winners.
    41:49: 💪 The speaker embraces their journey and rejects the pressure to compare themselves to others.
    48:59: 🎶 The power of therapy and music in healing and connecting with others.
    55:37: 🎵 The speaker talks about her goals and aspirations, including winning a Grammy and continuing to release authentic music.
    1:01:57: 💪 Mental health is a constant journey and sometimes there is no reason for feeling depressed, but it's important to have hope and take steps to cope.
    1:08:12: 😊 Practicing gratitude can lead to profound happiness and help ease pain during difficult times.
    1:14:54: ❤ The speaker discusses her desire to have a family and the challenges she faces in finding a partner.
    1:21:23: 💔 The speaker discusses her experience of being yelled at by her husband and how she regained a sense of normalcy
    Recap by Tammy AI

  • @michelleandnatalieskiffing7477
    @michelleandnatalieskiffing7477 8 місяців тому

    Don't cry love ❤

  • @Amulett1102
    @Amulett1102 6 місяців тому

    YASSS MISS MOVIN ON GURL~ DINAH U GO GURL~

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 8 місяців тому

    Lisa looking so pretty pretty. I love it!

  • @tinakiielii319
    @tinakiielii319 8 місяців тому

    I feel you

  • @girlfromnowhere953
    @girlfromnowhere953 8 місяців тому

    THIS IS MY STORY!

  • @alahjiahminns2806
    @alahjiahminns2806 4 місяці тому

    Stand strong for the nuther fight

  • @christinasophieschultz5081
    @christinasophieschultz5081 8 місяців тому +1

    She is so much the same like me 😮 I will make it 🎉

  • @MarinSofin
    @MarinSofin 8 місяців тому +2

    When I say no it means NO.

  • @connie10000
    @connie10000 8 місяців тому +3

    2nd Part: People would have more 💞HOPE in this world, if others showed MORE kindness & edify VS xyx

    • @stanleychukwuma1052
      @stanleychukwuma1052 8 місяців тому

      Hey Beautiful damsel,
      I hope this message finds you in good health and high spirits. Although we have never had the pleasure of meeting, destiny has a funny way of connecting souls from afar. From the little I know about you, something within me feels an unparalleled connection, and I can't help but envision you as the love of my life.
      I understand if this message catches you off guard, as it resides in the realm of the unknown. Take your time, dear one, to process and consider this proposition. If your heart resonates with the same longing that now consumes mine, I would be honored to embark on this journey of love with you.
      May we have the chance to meet, to laugh, to create memories, and to embrace a love that surpasses our wildest dreams. Know that my heart is eagerly awaiting your response, hoping that you may feel the same as I do.
      With all my love and anticipation,
      Stanley.

  • @magicmegan4290
    @magicmegan4290 8 місяців тому +2

    belief is everything and that’s where it starts. This is why Jesus taught, “believe!” and he believes that his God, it was the internal spiritual force and source of LOVE itself!! the highest vibrational frequency-LOVE. Believe in love, and that all things are possible. Never give up God has made you worthy because he gave his only son to prove you are loved, and to literally be our “FIVE MINUTE MILE MAN”!! We CAN believe because of what was made possible. Jesus was narcissistically abused. And he said “remember when they hate you they hated me first.” narcissistic religious, transactional religious false teachers shifted blames He was the scape goat, his persecution was the smear, campaign, and their gaslighting was the deception that still leavens through the churches today.

  • @erikaamwaama551
    @erikaamwaama551 5 місяців тому

    the oldest children go through so much trauma by default

  • @user-xm5du4zl3r
    @user-xm5du4zl3r Місяць тому

    the content of the video is great but I really didn't want Dinah to be cut off in the end like that. I would of liked the entire video to just be hearing about her, rather than sticking the other person in the end.

  • @trissagilliard2982
    @trissagilliard2982 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @MonochromaticBlues
    @MonochromaticBlues 8 місяців тому +1

    1.3k views but only 152 likes sad

    • @ElizabethChee-rj7bn
      @ElizabethChee-rj7bn 8 місяців тому +2

      I agree, but let's remember it isn't all about the number of likes! :)

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj 7 місяців тому

    I don't have much back bone 🦴

  • @heidivonskye4627
    @heidivonskye4627 8 місяців тому +1

    Did anyone else come here trying to figure out who this is?

  • @charmainechan2801
    @charmainechan2801 8 місяців тому

    dinah is literally Moana and her mother is moana's father

  • @high8health
    @high8health 4 місяці тому

    The only reason why they didn't give her enough exposure➡️ SHE DIDN'T SELL HER SOUL OR 🍑 like most. SHE IS A TRUE POLYNESIAN QUEEN 1BILLION

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm real tired of these subpar women projecting nosiness, confusion, and drama in my life. Good women don't do that!!!

  • @Datb2
    @Datb2 8 місяців тому

    It’s so insidious

  • @lilyofthelabyrinth
    @lilyofthelabyrinth 7 місяців тому +1

    26:46 those eyes on you that you said meant you were "getting even" were literally just strangers objectifying you. How is that empowering? This interview sounded great at first, but it's sadly proving to be more pick-me fodder than anything. I like other interviews on this channel though

  • @cobybryson6668
    @cobybryson6668 8 місяців тому

    That Lisa Chick is fucking gorgeous MMMMMBABY ❤