You did a great service by educating their mostly-female teen fans and countering some of the misinformation that Matt and Abby have posted about breastfeeding, birth control, pregnancy, birth, postpartum depression vs. hormonal baby blues, ice baths and fasting. You were the podcast guest that their viewers needed.
I absolutely love that Dr. Mike didn’t sit there and simply dog on homebirthers but presented the facts and research and left it at that. Exactly how we should be discussing these issues.
because homebirth is just as safe as giving birth in a hospital; when a woman isn't medical, of course. And if need be, you're in a hospital within 30min max.
Agreed! And when discussing home births the distinction between assisted and unassisted home births needs to be made. It sounded like they thought home births were mostly unassisted which is not the case. Two completely different things.
@@demi3115and for some people that 30mins is the difference between life and death for them or their child. That’s why it’s important to weigh the risks appropriately
I had 3 home births and all 3 were supported by two midwives with a ton of experience. I highly, highly, highly recommend exploring the option. Even if you don't make the decision to have a home birth, there are many different options these days including birth centers.
@@demi3115 Tell that to all emergency c sections out there 🤷 if the baby's heart rate dropped it is a couple of minutes and not 30 to prevent irreversible consequences.
He should teach through the CUNY system remotely/asynchronously or in person if he ever has the desire!! A lot of young people and working professionals would benefit from his teaching style and perspectives.
It’s very obvious Dr. Mike is attractive, but man…his passion and knowledge about medicine and the medical field in general is SO ATTRACTIVE!!! Loved this episode so much ♥️
“I never recommend something that’s going to do more harm than good” - a doctor that is pro patients as individuals, pro facts, pro information is the best and I wish there were more who cared like him!
Right, because every doctor who made a mistake was riding in like slim pickins yelling “yeehaw, we’re gonna cure your cold w/ jackhammer anemia!” It’s only Dr dreamy eyes who really cares.
I have my bachelors & Masters degrees in public health and we talk all the time about medical bias, research trials, evidence based practices, etc. and hearing Dr. Mike speak on these things accurately and rationally was so refreshing.
Dr Mike may be a well known fan,I,y doctor but he doesn’t follow natural medicine or practices. So I’d take his commentary with a grain of salt. I am glad he clears up medical misinformation though He seems to be good at that.
@@cindlandoky so to a degree I agree with you. Yes SOME natural medicines has benifits but not all. I am a cerified caregiver and I can't go around giving my cancer patients natural meds when they are laying there curled up in a ball because of pain. I can't give my dibetic patients natural meds when their bloodsugar spiked or fell. But sometimes yes it can help. But as he also said our bodies adapt so quick. As a teenager I used natural pills for my anxiety and within a few months it stoped working and my anxiety sky rocketed. Some stuff can be managed with natural medicine. But high blood pressure low blood pressure,heart disease,cancer stuff like that no you cannot use natural medicine to help those patients
I could listen to this guy talk for hours. In the age of social media, where everyone seems like they're trying to move away from nuance, its so refreshing to hear nuanced takes instead of "good" or "bad" categories. The world IS nuanced.
You realize he’s the bottom rung of medical competence, right? He’s a DO doing family practice so he still has time to make content and model. Maybe you should get medical info from someone who hasn’t spent 4 yrs learning which $300 pants are sexiest.
@@Billsbob I didn’t comment on his medical knowledge. I get my medical info from my doctor. Just saying that in a very polarized and divided social media landscape, where engagement is secured through all kinds of bait, I appreciate a nuanced perspective which acknowledges that things aren’t black or white.
@@Billsbob you’re clearly projecting how you feel about him based on his looks. He still went to medical school and is extremely knowledgeable. Having more free time to educate people on youtube has nothing to do with his competency as a doctor.
Dude I love this guy so much. He’s so realistic about overall health. I also like that he’s conscience of not scaring people with food and not this is “bad” this is “good” such a better way of looking at things.
8:35 - in my case, my doctor was the one confidently offering birth control options while i was asking questions about potential risks, but my questions were brushed off with the reasoning that the side effects were not likely. when i pressed further, i was told i could look them up if i was really that concerned. the reason i was even offered birth control in the first place was just because my period was heavy. i wasn’t okay with the potential risks, though, so i went back and asked more questions. i was finally offered blood work (these appointments/ phone calls happened over a year), and it turned out that i had a blood disorder. i felt like my questions and concerns weren’t taken seriously from the beginning.
Doctor’s wife here! Something that we have come to realize that shocked us in the health field is that there ABSOLUTELY are doctors that give into “fear mongering” media tactics. It’s actually surprising how many medical professionals-doctors, nurses, PAs, NPs-choose media opinions over their education. So I encourage everyone to listen to what Dr. Mike said, the doctor who gives OPTIONS and explains pros and cons of the options and explains that there is no “right answer,” etc. Those are the doctors you want. Never be afraid to switch doctors!! Doctors are humans too and are susceptible to believing false things.
I'm so disappointed Mike just brushed off side effects of hormonal birth control as if those concerns are just unfounded and stem from some fear rather than the reality that hormonal birth control generally sucks.
Sorry, but no, hormonal birth control does not « generally suck ». There are many different sorts of hormonal birth control and some of them may be better for certain people while others may be better for others. There are side effects that apply a lot more to certain people than to others. Having a blood clotting disorder is one of those where the combined pill is probably not the one for you but the progesterone one would be fine. It all very much depends. You as the patient should advocate for yourself and not just take the first birth control thrown your way but this does not mean all birth control is somehow dangerous for everybody.
@superasper Thank you!! The pill has been incredibly important and beneficial to me, and it's really disheartening to hear other people making inaccurate sweeping generalizations like naryainc was saying. SOME people have terrible side effects, SOME people have none. We can't listen to people who say "such and such medicine is ALWAYS bad" - or, for that matter, anybody who says "such and such medicine is ALWAYS good"!
I've had exactly the same experience with the doctors I've seen. It's so frustrating going to see a gynecologist, asking for guidance on birth control and being told that my worries are just some internet propaganda. No, I have seen girls around me suffer because of the pill, I'd been on the pill for a short time and I did not enjoy the experience greatly, I want someone to talk to me honestly instead of giving me cold looks and telling me to trust the professionals
Had two horrible hospital births and then two life changing beautiful home births with beautiful healthy babies. My homebirths changed me as a person. It’s not for everyone, but absolutely most favourite moments of my life ❤
Similar story here, one absolutely awful hospital birth (bullied constantly by staff, though nothing went wrong with me in any way) and had my second in my living room with a knowledgeable midwife. It was incredible.
Same! I had a very traumatic hospital birth. And to be completely open, I believe that the hospitals have gotten better since I gave birth the first time in one. But still my subsequent to home births were beyond amazing
Same here! I had 2 awful hospital birth, followed by 3 homebirths, that were the most beautiful, empowering experiences. My homebirths forever changed me in the best way, and they were without a doubt the best moments of my life.
I'd like to see the studies he sites his stats for regarding homebirth v hospital birth... I've heard opposing stats. Also come on, hospitals want to make money and that's not a cOnSpiRacY oooOOooOoOoo
@@odenjohannesebastianbach1463 same. I feel there's a lot of confirmation bias here. Midwives and doolas have been around since the beginning and were based off women who've been through birth many times themselves. So many doctors dismiss women even as patients so I don't trust that anything women have a hand in is taken seriously enough by the medical profession. Not to mention they have profits to worry about.
I had 2 homebirths, in the UK, and cannot praise the experience more! Midwife-led care is the default here and if I'd needed to transfer to hospital, my midwife would have been able to continue caring for me in hospital. I had 2 fully-trained midwives present at each birth and I felt totally confident that they had everything under control and would transfer me to hospital if the need arose (which thankfully it didn't). I absolutely loved my home births. Totally relaxed, in my own space, two midwives all to myself - - honestly, it felt like the VIP option!
Yes!!! Here in the US my mom done the same and her midwife was a past hospital midwife so she had ALL the supplies needed with being experienced in difficult births and we are only 5 minutes from our closest hospital which was a stress relief. Everything went absolutely PERFECT for her and it was her 6th child. Beautiful experience for everyone and she loved it!
Yes absolutely I’m in Australia and our midwife’s are unifersity trained just like nurses and are more then capable to handle a home birth safely. I would feel far more safe and taken care of by a midwife than a OB in pregnancy. Far less interventions, lack of information, birth trauma and being pushed into things for no reason.
With my first child I had at 18, I was told by my OB I needed to be induced because my “placenta was dying” even though I was 40 weeks and 4 days - hardly that well overdue for the placenta to fail so suddenly. The induction was terrible - the contractions were so intense, I got the epidural and it failed on one side, I couldn’t tell when to push, the nurse was lecturing me, the doctor gave me an episiotomy without my consent…awful experience. I placed my baby for open adoption, so on top of that, I had a traumatic birth. I told myself with my other children I parented in the future, I would avoid that again at all costs. With my second child, I had a more holistic-minded OBGYN and had an unmedicated hospital birth and I loved it. With my third, fourth, and fifth child(ren) I had a midwife and had home births. NIGHT AND DAY difference. It was such a beautiful experience, I felt in control, I felt loved, supported, and my healing process was much faster. If you’re a low risk pregnancy, consider midwifery care. Hospital care is there for high risk or emergencies, but so much trauma surrounds hospital births. Check out www.evidencebasedbirth.com for unbiased research and information about all things birth, labor, postpartum, etc.
@@kimc555a lot of states have regulations regarding this. And ACOG exists for this reason as well. I think you’re thinking of doulas - I’m a certified doula through DONA, BUT you don’t have to be certified to be a doula, which I believe everyone should be certified before becoming one.
I’ve learned so much from Dr Mike over the years. He’s so good at laying down the facts and putting things into perspective. I always feel smarter after listening to him! Thanks Matt & Abby
As a nurse practitioner, this is why I absolutely love Dr. Mike!! We need to debunk all these (absolutes) in medical care! Something I strive to do every day in my practice! So happy you had him on ❤. The other thing I love so much about your podcast is how much emphasis and awareness you bring to single parenthood...as a single mom of two and solo mom of one, I don't know if you realize how much of a mood boost it is for us single parents to be recognized for how much work we have to put in to make sure our kiddos have the best lives. Love you guys so much!
My daughter was a home birth. My midwife interviewed me to assess the risks of my pregnancy (which were low). I had to sign a contract agreeing to an emergency plan (that I’d go to the hospital in an ambulance if there were complications even if I wanted to protest), or a non emergency plan (that if I decided at any point that I wanted other interventions or different type of things around me, I could go). I really loved my labor and delivery experience at home. My daughter was posterior but didn’t need any interventions. I’m glad that women have options, I hope every woman gets the chance to have a care team that helps her figure out what her best options are. My best friend was a high risk pregnancy and would have been denied for a home birth, which more women need to be aware of. Just because you want to doesn’t mean you should.
Absolutely brilliant. I read the title “debunks birth control” and i thought, here we go again with some “social media doctor” trying to push out some fake information to become relevant, and i was reluctant to listen. However I started watching and I cannot fault him in the slightest, an amazing, passionate and straight to the point man with no ulterior motive whatsoever. He uses research and facts in the most logical way, considering the population and environment in order to deliver the most important information. Coming from a country (South Africa), working in the public healthcare sector with limited resources and overpopulated hospitals, this is exactly how we are taught to provide medical advice and information. No strong views or opinions and respecting the patients choices, and views on treatment is the most holistic approach and there is a lot to be said for it with the outcomes of treatment. He is so self aware and gives appropriate advice and reasons with not coming off too strongly and as if he knows better. This is the doctor I strive to be and these are the doctors the really make a difference in the world. WOW i am so pleasantly surprised.
If Dr. Mike was a professor I'd love to sit in one of his classes! The way he speaks makes you feel comfortable to ask questions without judgement! His patients are lucky to have him! 🥰
3 homebirths! We had 2 midwives and all the equipment we would need in case of an emergency and had all my information at the local hospital and a bag packed in case of an emergency. It was so peaceful, lots of laughs, lots of hugs and support from my sisters mother, children and husband. I got to relax in my own space after and it was beautiful! My sister has had all natural births in the hospital and she found a doctor she’s loves (6 kids!) and she’s loved her births. To each their own!
Yes! Midwives are medical professionals with all the equipment. Equating doulas to midwives is so ignorant. I'm a doula, I am not a midwife. One is a labor coach, the other is a medical professional who is proficient in all things birth related (aside from surgery).
I loved my home birth as well and wouldn't do it any other way. It sounded like they didn't really know what a home birth was since they think home births are unassisted. Assisted and unassisted home births are two completely different things. Home births started becoming more and more popular since COVID so it's surprising they don't know more or didn't research it more.
There is a higher risk with homebirths. My country has the highest percentage of homebirth in the western world. And also a higher birth-related mortality rate than our neighbouring countries where the majority of births take place in a hospital or clinic. I will also opt for a hospital birth. I live on the third floor of an apartment building. If I have complications they would need to transport me horizontally, which means they would need to call the fire brigade to get me down via the balcony. I've witnessed that happen to my neighbour (hanging there, while being in so much pain from the contractions. Luckily she and her daughter are both fine). If everything goes as planned home birth can be great and more comfortable. But when I look at what it would take to get me to a hospital in case of complications (and how much time that could take) it feels like too much of a risk.
I was on the pill 13 straight years never got pregnant. At 35 went on depo shots and went all the way through menopause at 53. No pregnancies and no problems.
I had an IUD for more then 2 years after my 3rd kid. They checked it several times, said it was placed right, but it was still low level painful. I could feel in whenever I folded my knees up or slept in the fetal position. Plus it did legit mess with my hormones. It was such a physical relief after I got it taken out. I was told that some people like me legit feel it more then most
Thankfully I’ve had a great experience with my Mirena. Only side effect I could tell was acne, but my hormones eventually balance out and my skin has calmed down completely. Going on 6 years with it. I guess everyone is different 🤷♀️
To link together two topics at different times, Dr Mike pointed out diet being more important for losing weight than exercise in general and fasting being a method of reducing caloric intake. For me intermittent fasting completely changed how I think about food, how I plan meals, and how I spend my time. So the effect was that I eat less and I eat better, and the easiest slow weight loss I've ever had in my life. I love it.
😊❤ Matt & Abby--I've followed all your podcasts to date and have to tell you... This was BY FAR the most fun, informative and easy flowing conversation you've done with a guest so far!! There were so many myths debunked, information & data explained in simple terms... I could have listened another 90 minutes! Great selection choice for a collaboration!! Just to give you an idea of the wide demographic that follows you both, I am a 69 year old retired female in Canada & always eager to learn something new. Keep up the great work! 👍👍👍
Loved this guest! What a wealth of knowledge Dr. Mike brings. He was a breath of fresh air when it come to social media and hearing medical advice that is usually fear based.
24:00 having extra sodium/salt can help people with low blood pressure , this is a prime example of people who say whats healthy or not healthy to eat , it completely varies/ depends on the person.
“Medicine is an imperfect science” - Dr. Mike I really enjoy his perspective. His empathy and knowledge is very admirable. As a woman I have been through a lot with my body. This podcast actually taught me a few things that I think I already know about my body because I’m a “know it all.” I love Dr Mike and Matt and Abby and this is probably my favourite Unplanned pod I’ve watched. Blessings to you all 💖
My two all-time favorite podcasters together. Thanks for doing this episode, chock full of great information, given in a down-to-earth manner. Love all three of you.
Great podcast! Thank you! As a remarried but still sole parent to the children…having support now is so helpful. When I was married to the father I had no support beyond financial. Single entirely was SO MUCH less stressful. It was so much easier. And now remarried to a man who is more mature and isn’t self centered or has poor emotional regulation….this is so helpful. It’s life changing to have real support.
I mean I will say that my mood was absolutely terrible on birth control. I was very moody and irrational but once I stopped taking it my mood GREATLY improved. Even my husband noticed how much better my mental health and attitude was
I had a really bad experience getting off the birth control pill. Getting off sparked huge mental and physical health issues that took months to resolve. It was almost like postpartum depression/anxiety. My hormones were messed up for about a year after getting off birth control. It's crazy how much/little it affects different people
So many women I know are frustrated because they are so emotionally/physically/and mentally different when on hormonal birth control. so so many. That is the truth.
I got on it at age 16 for acne and stayed on it until I was 27. All of the headaches, weight gain, disinterest in dating, irritability, insecurity and fatigue were not related to BC pills according to my doctor. I can’t count how many times I went back only to be told that “it’s just your age” I decided to quit and I feel like different person. Getting on it and staying on it for as long as I have is one of my biggest regrets in life currently
I had my second baby via planned induction at 37 weeks. I was 38, with high blood pressure and gestational diabetes. I loved it and was happy with my experience. Everyone is different and what I needed is different than what you may need. People needed to take everything with a grain of salt cuz everyone is different
The way Dr. Mike can quickly & completely shut down a conspiracy theory with logic, while still coming across as friendly and pleasant and amicable the entire time, is 100% goals to me.
Birth control can indeed be very harmful to MANY women and most of us are gaslit about it. God forbid internet "gurus" talk about it because we all know damn well the professionals dont take the risks seriously!
This is the collaboration I didn’t know I needed!! Matt and Abby are the exact same age as my husband and I, met in the same year and even got married in the same year!! I love watching how two people live their life so vulnerably to the world compared to how I live at the same age. You two are truly role models to look up to!! 🥰❤️
5 of my 6 babies born at home and there is actually way more research than he stated for the benefit of homebirth. I do appreciate that he talked about it more positively than I’ve heard other docs talk about this- instead of so much fear mongering out there!
I had a home birth with my daughter and I will 100% do it over and over again. Being home with my husband, my mom and the midwives was amazing because the midwives didn’t show up until 3 hours before my baby was born and I didn’t have people pressuring me or coming in and out of my room to fix IVs. I was also able to move around and do what I needed to do to make my body comfortable. Obviously, this is not the same for everyone, but home births aren’t as scary as people may think, if they’re done right.
lindsif2 Home births can be scary when things go wrong and even if everything is done "right." Just because your first home birth when as planned and without any complications that doesn't mean your next home birth will be the same. Hospitals have saved countless of newborns and mothers lives in emergency situations where it was out of midwives scope of practice. For example, an emergency C- section and a NICU team for the newborn,etc. In the US the midwives are NOT participating in the activities that are occurring to save you and your newborn life at the hospital.
@@cupcake1406 of course the next birth is going to be different, but that doesn’t mean women shouldn’t know their options for home births and working with midwives. All options should be learned about and not villainized. If it happens where the next birth needs intervention, then of course I would use those resources to keep my baby and myself alive. But in my opinion, being at home is very beneficial. But also being at a hospital can be beneficial as well. In my case, the hospital was a last resort. That’s not going to be for everyone. Giving birth shouldn’t be feared, it’s the most natural thing humans go through. I wish women were more educated on how their bodies work and how birth can be amazing with the right support and knowledge. There are a ton of resources on home births that people just look over because the hospital is the easiest solution. But again, this is my opinion.
Home births are how we got as far along as we did as a species, so I'm guessing they're okay sometimes. I know all kinds of women who gave birth in hospitals, birth centers, and bathtubs, and they were all in the right with their choices.
@@lindsif2 I definitely think that many women don't educate themselves on any of the aspect and resources of pregnancy, labor and delivery and postpartum. Women need to be more proactive in educating themselves instead relying on professionals completely. Many pregnant women will go to the hospital when they think they are in labor and demand an epidural,without first trying any and all natural non medicine inventions such as: walking, changing positions, massaging their back,etc. I agree with you, many women find the hospital the easy way out..."just give me the epidural and that is all the work I want to do." Then, expect the doctors and nurses to due most of the work without much input from the patient. I hope what I am saying makes sense. By the way, I am a nurse so, I have seen this play out many times. Congratulations on your the birth of your newborn. I wish you nothing but the best in life.
@@cupcake1406the United States of America ranks 41st in the world for mother mortality tied in 2020 with countries like Lebanon and behind Palestine in 2020 😮. Because of health issues I’ve had I don’t get the choice and have to have a C section. But the midwife that delivered 2 of my siblings had delivered over 3,000 babies. I think the Doctor had about 300. Midwives and home births according to Dr Mike are under 2% births. Home births are not the reason we are 41 in the world for mother mortality during birth. The US maternal care needs to be revisited! And women need to be valued in medical research!
When I was in labor with my daughter, after 36 hours and 2 epidurals, I ended up having a C-section. My daughter only weighed 4lbs 12oz. But what the Dr’s found was my bone structure (for birth) was only big enough for a lemon. So when I had my son 4 years later it was a planned C-section where I also had my tubes cut and soldered due to the fact of only being able to birth by C-section and that’s not a good thing. My daughter will be 35 this year and my scar still bothers me. Thanks for having Dr Mike on! It was such a fantastic podcast! You guys are incredible! Love and hugs from Canada! ❤
I'm actually glad dr. Mike addressed home births as well. In The Netherlands home births are a lot more common than in the US. Our healthcare system is also very different of course. I had a home birth and I would 100% do it again. With home births here, you have a midwife present, that is trained for this and knows exactly when to move to the hospital if things don't go as they should. There is usually also a nurse present, what we call kraamhulp. They help the midwife with the birth, and clean up after. (kraamhulp also stays for 8 days, a few hours a day, to help get settled with the newborn and for mom to recover) Even though I had a medical issue during/after birth. The placenta wasn't coming so I had to be moved to the hospital to get is surgically removed as I lost too much blood due to it. But even with that, it was a great experience. The ambulance personal was great, and swift. The hospital is within a 15min drive from our house, I had assistance of 2 experienced medically trained people, and my pregnancy was low risk. I was also considered "full term" at 37 weeks (that's the minimum for home births, before 37 weeks is always medical and at the hospital here) Medical intervention with home births is lower, in the netherlands, and because the mom is in a known and safe space, they often feel more at ease, making the birth "easier" (if you can call it easy). If you don't feel safe at home, than obviously it won't work as calming and the hospital might be the better option for you.
I’m so thankful that things went well for you. Unfortunately, we are on opposite sides of the spectrum with this. If I had NOT had issues carrying my babies, and was not further away from the hospital, I may have considered it. My daughter’s delivery was so scary. The cord prolapsed and came through the birth canal before her head. The cord was around her neck 3 times, so every time I pushed it was literally strangling her. When she was finally born her head was BLACK. I’m not kidding or exaggerating, as black as licorice. The rest of her body was white as a sheet. She looked horrible. Her first Apgar was 2. They had to shock her several times to get her breathing. It was so traumatic they drugged me without asking or telling me. By the Grace of God she had no lasting effects from the birth. If she had taken one breath before she stopped breathing she would have had severe brain damage. Too risky for me, I am paranoid. The nurse said to me (right after delivery) that this is a good example of why home births are not a good idea. Both her and my ob/gyn said that she wouldn’t have made it if I was home. I’m not saying that they are always wrong or risky, it’s just not for me. I will be praying for you. Especially that everything goes smoothly. Sorry this is so long. I tried to shorten it😂
@@stephanieann622 even at the hospital, a cord prolapse is a serious problem. I doubt things would’ve gone differently just because you were in the hospital. The hospital doesn’t prepare for every situation for every birth. They would have to do as much figuring out of what to do and get the supplies to help you as a midwife would. I lost a child who had super ventricular tachycardia…. his heart rate was beating at 260 bpm and our midwife felt something was wrong because the Doppler wasn’t picking up the baby’s heartbeat very well and it was sounding weird… We went to the OB, the GYN that was above her, and he pooped any issues with the baby, but made an appointment with the maternal fetal specialist, and obviously told them that we were overreacting because they wouldn’t let me come in for over a month. My midwife kept insisting something was up, and we ignored her and trusted the OB/GYN… Guess what, if I gone right away to the maternal fetal specialist and treated what was a very bad bad heart condition for a baby to have… he might still be alive today. But we waited till our appointment a month and a half later, and by that time the damage already been done and had hydrops at that point (that is when your body cavity fills up with fluid- it happened because his heart was beating so fast. His blood and other liquids in his vessels could not get through the heart fast enough as blood was backing up.) We lost him 14 days later, and they tried to blame the midwife at the hospital and I defended her and said no and gave the name of the OB/GYN who ignored the whole problem even when his own ultrasound tech was also concerned, he ignored my midwife and her. I told him he was the one that we trusted and shouldn’t have. So doctors can also make mistakes and it can kill babies… hospital does not guarantee safety, nor a perfect birth… people are people, and we are flawed and people make mistakes. There is no place on earth you can go to avoid all risks of anything going wrong… We need to stop, assuming that every single problem that could happen in birth is avoidable, just because we go to a hospital… Birth is mostly safe, but sometimes it gets dangerous for mom and baby and some situations. It doesn’t matter where you are it’s life or death, regardless . There is enough evidence, even in the United States to show that if you pick a certified midwife or a licensed midwife of any kind that isn’t untrained , there are evidences for that birth to go well. Most problems that could be an issue show up way before you even have your first contraction.
I loved all the responses to this comment. And they prove what I always say: EVERY BIRTH IS DIFFERENT. Every pregnancy is different. Just because something goes one way the last time doesn't mean you have to do it the same the next time. I've had two homebirths with midwife, two unassisted births, and two c-sections and they were all mixed up. Because every one of my babies needed being delivered differently, and that is TOTALLY fine.
@@Jaxmusicgal23 Most importantly I am sending my most sincere condolences. I am so sorry about the loss of your sweet baby boy. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you going through life without him. I also apologize for my comment if it offended you, that definitely wasn’t my intention with sharing my story. You are exactly correct. I still could have had a less favorable outcome if I was delivering at home. What I should have said was that having the operating room so close by, brought me comfort knowing they could get her out quickly if needed. Her heart stopped as her head was being born, I had to push 2 more times so they could get to her for resuscitation. Sorry to ramble on, I just feel really bad that my comment was expressed in a less than positive way. I was just trying to share a different perspective and I didn’t do so hot. Anyway Jax, I hope you are healthy and as happy as possible. I will keep you and your little man in my prayers🙏💙
On this podcast channel, they don't have many subscribers. People probably listen to their podcasts on other apps like Spotify or something. But on their original channel, they do have quite a lot of subscribers, like 7 million (maybe a little less). That is pretty high. Dr. Mike has more, like a little more than 11 million. I still think it's a good (aka beneficial) collab even for Dr. Mike, because I am sure Matt and Abby have many subscribers that don't follow Dr. Mike, but after this, they may subscribe to his channel.
A great podcast Matt and Abby! I birthed a 9 lb baby at home at almost 42 weeks gestation with midwives and also had shoulder dystocia which was probably caused by my gestational diabetes during pregnancy. I don't regret having a homebirth one bit despite having shoulder dystocia because my midwives are very well trained to handle these kind of situations and home is where I felt safe.
Ummmm according the medically industrialized birth complex that's a total impossibility *I'm being sarcastic* So happy for you and I commend your courage to believe in your innate ability to safely bring your baby into the world!!! ❤
My cousin did a home birth! She looooved it. The rest of my family does birthing Center…. Still not hospitals. (Unless high risk).. I’ve watched 4 birthing center births now by my sisters. And the midwives were superstars.. so awesome
Side effects of hormonal birth control are under reported and typically the people who speak the loudest against hormonal birth control are the one's like myself who have suffered consequences and been dismissed by their doctors.
YES!!! I had the mirena (sp?) IUD in for the 5 years and had problems with it the ENTIRE TIME, I asked for it to be removed repeatedly and was told things like "its all in your head", I went to get it removed at the 5 year mark and was delayed a further 2 years because they were convinced that they could get it out without putting me under a general, despite the copper bits being too short which was discovered in the first appt for removal and was noted, it took a dr literally grabbing the cervix with plier type things and yanking with all his might, and me reacting by kicking him and security being called before they'd let me get a surgical removal. so not only do I have trauma from SA/CSA but I have medical trauma as well. The current fall out from my medical teams negligence and narcissism, is ive been left totally unable to have more children, as well as having cysts and found out last year that I have a tumour between my bladder and uterus that may or may not be cancerous, im in and out of hospital and drs clinics almost constantly with problems relating to the tumour and things like getting my period, I get treated like absolute rubbish by all but my GP and yet these medical professionals have the audacity to complain incessantly about a variety of workplace issues, most of which they have caused anyway
Yes!! I got on it at age 16 for acne and stayed on it until I was 27. All of the headaches, weight gain, disinterest in dating, irritability, insecurity and fatigue were not related to BC pills according to my doctor. I can’t count how many times I went back only to be told that “it’s just your age” I decided to quit and I feel like different person. Getting on it and staying on it for as long as I have is one of my biggest regrets in life I know it can work for some people, I just wish doctors would be more careful when prescribing it
Amen to individually diagnosing!!! So many doctors today want to push Rx and not listen to everything with that person. It’s way too frustrating for someone who doesn’t want to take 10 pills a day just to function.
Go to a D.O. If you can!! They are still doctors but of osteopathic medicine, so they take into consideration your whole body and wellness not just pills. Been going to one for 5 years now and I’m way happier.
I began learning about the dangers of birth control over 20 years ago. It's great to see people with a large platform like Candace Owens speaking out about this now.
As a labor and delivery nurse, I am SO HAPPY to hear Dr Mike speak about various pregnancy and labor and delivery things- and that yes, a home birth can be done when things are done correctly. If you have a low-risk pregnancy, with medically trained midwives present, AND you have a backup plan in place if things start to go awry, then sure… but please, please, for the love of all things…. IF you have to go to the hospital because you’re not dilating, or things have stalled, or you or baby are in danger, please don’t be rude to us (the nurses) at the hospital. Whether you are part of the above group, or if you’re going to the hospital because that was always the plan, let me remind you that we all have the same end goal: happy, healthy, safe delivery. We all want the same thing. We are not the enemy. If you have a birth plan, and we ask you questions, we are NOT being rude. We are making sure you know what you’re asking, and know the risks and benefits. If it’s something we cannot do, most of us WILL try to meet you in the middle. We want to hear you, we simply ask that you hear us as well.
I think I struggled a lot with this when i gave birth 5 months ago. I was so set on a natural hospital birth and did a calm birthing course. I did so much research and spoke to mums. I was so set on it being natural and unfortunately due to the research and strong opinions I did see the hospital staff as being against me because things escalated and I didn't dilate or go into active labour on my own. I was asked to get an epidural and to get induced and in the moment i saw this as going against my birth plan. At the time i was highly stressed and couldn't think straight so I did see the staff as intervening unnecessarily. However, as you said in the comment, i can see looking back that they were just doing what they could to help me. I will approach the hospital staff very differently with my second. Looking back they did try to allow my plan to take place. They allowed me to wait 30 hours after my waters broke to see if i would go into active labour. They also tried to allow me to get dilated through an epidural before offering a c section. I did end up dilating but then my girl got stuck as she was face up. They tried multiple times to turn her with their hands before offering the c section. They really tried to get me a natural birth. It just didn't work out the way I wanted. Next time I am really going to try to appreciate the staff more and allow things to go as they are...instead of fighting it.
I enjoy all your podcast episodes, but this one was particularly good! You guys have mentioned wanting to have a doctor on our podcast so I’m glad it actually happened. I learned so much and I’m 8months pregnant with my second baby so I’ll be sharing this podcast with my husband because I thought it was so interesting and helpful.
Birth control does change your hormones, I was on a low dose birth control in for about 5 years when I met now husband and I can say when I stopped taking the pill it was like I bait and switched him, my personality changed drastically and I honestly don’t know why he stayed with me 😅
Agreed anyone who says microdose in your body every day with hormones is good for you, and it’s not gonna affect you in anyway, whatsoever is straight up lying to you. Same thing happened to me, I went on birth control to help with my endometriosis, and I turned into a complete and total psycho. I was out of control until I came off the pill.
I see the main message did not come across... he is talking about the general population. In general terms, it will not cause a change in hormonal interaction. It is also quite simplistic to just talk about a substance "changing hormones". Which ones? At what concentration? Is that concentration significant to actually manipulate physiological processes? I also think people tend to forget the researched proven benefits from being on hormonal birth control. Once again, a personal opinion is not a fact...
I too took several types of birth control,went down to the lowest dose possible and no matter what it made me absolutely CRAZY. Went 9 years off and tried it again for 2 months during that two month I had terrible headaches, felt zombie-like, and had so many angry moments. I can't do it. Not ever.
I’m an L&D nurse and none of the OBs I’ve worked with have ever seen a natural birth without intervention. We often intervene when it is not needed and this causes more issues. Hospital birth is great for those who are at risk of complications but home births and midwifery care are amazing for those who have low risk pregnancies. Midwives are trained to transfer patients in time if there are complications as well. There is evidence and data for both, you just need perspective.
So glad y’all had Dr. Mike on the podcast. It’s refreshing to hear him discuss evidence based information on controversial topics, like cold plunges. Also, I appreciate that he shared some detail on his personal experience in losing his mother and gave insight into life choices that can be risky but also totally fine like boxing or consuming caffeine, etc. It’s very relatable and respectable.
Abby’s questions were so intelligent and well articulated, I would have loved to hear more questions! But i like that Matt isn’t afraid to ask questions a lot of people might have. The curiousity in this episode is refreshing!
I had a shoulder dystocia at home with a 9 1/2 pound baby. My midwives were trained in maneuvers to manage it and my cute fat baby is doing great. Absolutely no regrets.
I'm always shocked at how little life info Matt and Abby have. Like not knowing you have to pay for an ambulance? They have two kids yet are still just so young and know so little about the world.
@bshrib72 yeah I definitely knew way more even younger than them, but I wasn't sheltered. I HAD to learn the real world on my own by 18. So it makes sense that they don't know "adult" stuff but it's still crazy to me they are mid 20s with 2 kids and sometimes seem even younger
There’s a possibility that they’re taking the fall for others who don’t know the answers to those questions. Good journalists will ask questions that seem obvious because there’s always someone out there who doesn’t know. I appreciate that they ask these kind of questions, whether or not it’s them being vulnerable to put their amount of knowledge on the line, or taking the fall for others
Natural family planning can be extremely predictable for the right person. It's not a chance red light green light game. I encourage you to read further about it. Mike dismissing it is frustrating. It can be very effective especially when taking hormones is not an option.
I agree… as someone with regular periods, tracking my cycle and various fertility signs has been so empowering for my husband and I to avoid conventional birth control. The apps “predictions” are not always reliable, but you can learn your body
I think what Doctor Miike was mainly focusing on was that just because you had sex during the period time doesn't mean there is no absolute risk of becoming pregnant. Family planning is essential to make sure that the couple is aware of the consequences of their actions & figure out the right time to do it taking into account the side quests or complications that could happen along the way, and what you could do to help yourselves if those were ever to happen...
THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I’ve been dying to hear Dr mike talk about pregnancy things because I feel like even L&D nurses on social media can get really divisive over some topics. Thank you for taking away the fear and making me feel more confident to chose what’s best for me.
I had a wonderful home birth. Home birth midwives are trained professionals (if they are licensed) and are equipped to handle emergencies, even shoulder dystocia and excessive bleeding. It’s not reckless to choose home birth like some people think. If you’re low risk, it’s generally safer to birth at home without medical interventions!
I live in the Netherlands. We have the highest percentage of home births in the western world (1 in 4). We have a good system in place with midwifes and assisting specialised nurses (kraamhulp, who also take care of the woman and baby during the first 8 days). I would still give birth in a hospital though, even with a low risk pregnancy. Because of the time it would take to get me to the hospital if complications occur. I live at the 3rd floor of an apartment building. If I had complications they would need to transport me horizontally (so using the stairs is out of the question). When my neighbour had complications during her birth they had to call the fire department to get her down via the balcony. While she was in a lot of pain because of the contractions. This takes extra time, in a moment when every minute counts. In a different house I might opt for homebirth. But in our current place it feels like taking an unnecessary risk. P.s. my neighbour and her daughter are both fine. Luckily.
I had a home birth with my oldest and she was healthy and fine. I on the other hand had 3rd degree tearing and my placenta would not detach. I ended up needing to go to the hospital for treatment and was sent home 12 hrs later. It did not scare me away from it though. I wanted to do it again with my second pregnancy until I found out it was twins and was instantly made to have a hospital birth.
Dr Mike helped me so much with this episode!! So I’m a young cancer patient and while I may never really know but I’ve been legit pissed most my cancer treatment thinking “is big pharma screwing me? Do they know the cure?” But honestly the treatments I’m on are super effective only recently discovered treatments, so what he said around that question he was asked kinda gave me comfort
I’m a Canadian, had a home birth for my second son this January and it was THE BEST. Don’t let doctors scare you if you are a low-risk pregnancy. Being in my environment and being able to stay in that environment for 2 weeks with our little one was so stress free. Used the Bradley Method of birthing and was able to be very calm and relaxed through most of the labour, completely unmedicated. Had 2 midwife’s through a midwifery present at the birth and the midwife was able to stitch up my 2nd degree tear at home. Got up after skin-to-skin to shower in my own home and made sandwiches for all of us. Felt great! Not sketchy or scary.
I had a hospital birth but I wanted to labor as much as I could at home. My water broke at 3am on Tuesday and my doula suggested going to the hospital to ensure my water had in fact broke and that there was not meconium. After ensuring my water had broke and that baby was looking good, I decided I wanted to go home because I wasn’t having any contractions yet and I wanted to be able to relax in my own home. Let me tell you the nurses and doctors went from being very kind and hospitable to being rude and judgy. They sent multiple people to try and convince me to stay. I left, labored at home. I got to eat breakfast and lunch, take a nap with my hubby and shower and spend those last few moments together before becoming a family of 3. Went to the hospital when contractions were 3-4 mins apart. Was 7 cm dilated and had my healthy baby girl about 5 hrs later at 7 am on Wednesday.
@anestassia6346 man I really wish I had done that. Same situation, but I stayed, and their medical interventions and lack of sleep and ability to eat for the next 31 hours was hell on earth
@@abigailloar956 it’s really ridiculous that they don’t let you eat and it’s not even medically founded . Women need their strength for labor and delivery. How are you supposed to get any energy without food? So sorry you had a rough delivery but I’m sure seeing your baby made it all worth it!
I've heard the IUD mentioned many times, there's also another type of birth control implant called a contraceptive implant. It's a implant that looks like a stick of a cotton swab with Etonogestrel inside it, placed in the inside of the arm. They usually last 3 years or 5 years (you can pick).
Had two home births here in the UK. I’ve since learnt I had precipitous labours. Meaning both births from start to finish were under 2.5hrs, I physically would not have been able to get to hospital. I also bled out after the first and lost a litre of blood really quickly and had an ambulance waiting outside my house to rush me to hospital… luckily the midwives were able to stop the bleeding at home and second time we had a plan in place, which was pitocin post labour to contract my uterus that had just worked so hard it gave up contracting post birth! 😮 I look back in awe of the midwives and their care at home was beyond any medical care I’ve ever received ❤ great podcast 🎉
I’m a doula in Austin, TX and no OB here would ever recommend a home birth even if you’re low risk. They consistently ignore the data which supports home birth unfortunately.
Listen to your bodies when it comes to hormonal birth control. I got on it at 19 because I thought it was the "safe" thing to do. The healthcare practitioner I consulted was so overwhelmingly pro-birth control. All of the stats she gave me made hormonal birth control sound like a godsend, the world's easiest solution. Even then, I remember feeling in my gut that she was being pushy. But since I already had the intention of trying it out, I was sold immediately! Fast forward 5 years. I finally took it out after listening to my body. I have never felt more physically and mentally balanced. I feel more in tune with myself and the vibrancy of my internal world has returned. I don't regret anything as it gave me the clarity I have now about my health and the choices I will make. But don't rely on research to assume it's the best option for you. If you try it out and it feels off, LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!
I really appreciate his perspective on home birth. Many people are misguided & believe that it’s always dangerous & irresponsible which I feel is unfair.
Copper IUD has some ups and downs and this is comeing from experience… any type of metal in the body has the possibility of causing inflammation. Ask these questions when putting foreign objects in your body ladies
I’ve been following Doctor Mike’s YT channel for several years now and the amount of useful information I’ve learned is priceless. He also helped me appreciate my primary doctor a lot more and to think differently about doctors in general. Doctor Mike and his team are a blessing to many of us.
Thank you for such a fun conversation AND allowing evidence based info to get prime time attention ❤❤ Wishing you guys the best!!
Do you have any experience working with people with health anxiety?
You did a great service by educating their mostly-female teen fans and countering some of the misinformation that Matt and Abby have posted about breastfeeding, birth control, pregnancy, birth, postpartum depression vs. hormonal baby blues, ice baths and fasting. You were the podcast guest that their viewers needed.
Does IUD stops your period???
@@alonalyons8685It depends on the person. For some people it does but for some it doesn’t!
love you doctor mike 🫶
I absolutely love that Dr. Mike didn’t sit there and simply dog on homebirthers but presented the facts and research and left it at that. Exactly how we should be discussing these issues.
because homebirth is just as safe as giving birth in a hospital; when a woman isn't medical, of course. And if need be, you're in a hospital within 30min max.
Agreed! And when discussing home births the distinction between assisted and unassisted home births needs to be made. It sounded like they thought home births were mostly unassisted which is not the case. Two completely different things.
@@demi3115and for some people that 30mins is the difference between life and death for them or their child. That’s why it’s important to weigh the risks appropriately
I had 3 home births and all 3 were supported by two midwives with a ton of experience. I highly, highly, highly recommend exploring the option. Even if you don't make the decision to have a home birth, there are many different options these days including birth centers.
@@demi3115 Tell that to all emergency c sections out there 🤷 if the baby's heart rate dropped it is a couple of minutes and not 30 to prevent irreversible consequences.
he’s literally amazing at talking. looking at both matt and abby all the time. confident but humble. i love it.
Matt took this as a personal consultation from dr.mike 😂 loved this episode
no because as a hypochondriac that would totally be me😭
THISSSS 😂😂😂
Dr Mike seems like he'd be a great professor
Yes! He's a wonderful teacher !
Hi is a professor of life ❤
@@m.m8555I was just about to say this
I would take his classes a couple of times, and probably get him as a speaker for events.
He should teach through the CUNY system remotely/asynchronously or in person if he ever has the desire!! A lot of young people and working professionals would benefit from his teaching style and perspectives.
It’s very obvious Dr. Mike is attractive, but man…his passion and knowledge about medicine and the medical field in general is SO ATTRACTIVE!!! Loved this episode so much ♥️
EXACTLY. Intelligence + science + that face lol
Couldn’t have said it better myself ❤❤❤
And the fact that he’s a not a rude-know it all- “thinks he’s better than everyone” type of doctor.
He’s sooooooo hot ❤
Sorry Women, he’s taken. He’s married to his work! 😂
Matt and Abby in this pod: 😮😮
Dr Mike in this pod: 😁
And Matt especially. He never stops.
Dr. Mike is such an eloquent speaker, I feel like I could understand any topic in the universe if he was the one explaining it.
He’s so patient and explains things in a way that people will understand without sounding like he’s dumbing it down for us
@SparklySara16 exactly! And he can explain complex topics using commonplace terms, which makes it applicable to me.
“I never recommend something that’s going to do more harm than good” - a doctor that is pro patients as individuals, pro facts, pro information is the best and I wish there were more who cared like him!
Right, because every doctor who made a mistake was riding in like slim pickins yelling “yeehaw, we’re gonna cure your cold w/ jackhammer anemia!” It’s only Dr dreamy eyes who really cares.
I have my bachelors & Masters degrees in public health and we talk all the time about medical bias, research trials, evidence based practices, etc. and hearing Dr. Mike speak on these things accurately and rationally was so refreshing.
Yes, we need more like him.
We appreciate your efforts getting Dr Mike on your podcast! Thank you Matt and Abby 💗
Thanks for watching!
@UnplannedPodcast....it's so enjoyable when you see youtubers that you love to watch come together❤ LOVE YOU GUYS
Dr Mike may be a well known fan,I,y doctor but he doesn’t follow natural medicine or practices. So I’d take his commentary with a grain of salt. I am glad he clears up medical misinformation though He seems to be good at that.
@@cindlandand you are? Many doctors claim to be using natural methods don't.
@@cindlandoky so to a degree I agree with you. Yes SOME natural medicines has benifits but not all. I am a cerified caregiver and I can't go around giving my cancer patients natural meds when they are laying there curled up in a ball because of pain. I can't give my dibetic patients natural meds when their bloodsugar spiked or fell. But sometimes yes it can help. But as he also said our bodies adapt so quick. As a teenager I used natural pills for my anxiety and within a few months it stoped working and my anxiety sky rocketed. Some stuff can be managed with natural medicine. But high blood pressure low blood pressure,heart disease,cancer stuff like that no you cannot use natural medicine to help those patients
I could listen to this guy talk for hours. In the age of social media, where everyone seems like they're trying to move away from nuance, its so refreshing to hear nuanced takes instead of "good" or "bad" categories. The world IS nuanced.
You realize he’s the bottom rung of medical competence, right? He’s a DO doing family practice so he still has time to make content and model. Maybe you should get medical info from someone who hasn’t spent 4 yrs learning which $300 pants are sexiest.
@@Billsbob I didn’t comment on his medical knowledge. I get my medical info from my doctor. Just saying that in a very polarized and divided social media landscape, where engagement is secured through all kinds of bait, I appreciate a nuanced perspective which acknowledges that things aren’t black or white.
@@Billsbob you’re clearly projecting how you feel about him based on his looks. He still went to medical school and is extremely knowledgeable. Having more free time to educate people on youtube has nothing to do with his competency as a doctor.
@Billsbob Yes the voodoo practice of the inferior DO. Many of which have taken both the DO and MD board exams for application competitiveness.
@@BillsbobAnd CLEARLY this makes him less qualified to talk about this than your TikTok certified influencer
i SWEAR they always have the best guests on the show!!
I was thinking the same thing. I wonder who's in charge of booking the podcast because these guests are phenomenal. Sending love from Los Angeles 💜💛
Dude I love this guy so much. He’s so realistic about overall health. I also like that he’s conscience of not scaring people with food and not this is “bad” this is “good” such a better way of looking at things.
8:35 - in my case, my doctor was the one confidently offering birth control options while i was asking questions about potential risks, but my questions were brushed off with the reasoning that the side effects were not likely. when i pressed further, i was told i could look them up if i was really that concerned. the reason i was even offered birth control in the first place was just because my period was heavy. i wasn’t okay with the potential risks, though, so i went back and asked more questions. i was finally offered blood work (these appointments/ phone calls happened over a year), and it turned out that i had a blood disorder. i felt like my questions and concerns weren’t taken seriously from the beginning.
Doctor’s wife here! Something that we have come to realize that shocked us in the health field is that there ABSOLUTELY are doctors that give into “fear mongering” media tactics. It’s actually surprising how many medical professionals-doctors, nurses, PAs, NPs-choose media opinions over their education. So I encourage everyone to listen to what Dr. Mike said, the doctor who gives OPTIONS and explains pros and cons of the options and explains that there is no “right answer,” etc. Those are the doctors you want. Never be afraid to switch doctors!! Doctors are humans too and are susceptible to believing false things.
I'm so disappointed Mike just brushed off side effects of hormonal birth control as if those concerns are just unfounded and stem from some fear rather than the reality that hormonal birth control generally sucks.
Sorry, but no, hormonal birth control does not « generally suck ». There are many different sorts of hormonal birth control and some of them may be better for certain people while others may be better for others. There are side effects that apply a lot more to certain people than to others. Having a blood clotting disorder is one of those where the combined pill is probably not the one for you but the progesterone one would be fine. It all very much depends. You as the patient should advocate for yourself and not just take the first birth control thrown your way but this does not mean all birth control is somehow dangerous for everybody.
@superasper Thank you!! The pill has been incredibly important and beneficial to me, and it's really disheartening to hear other people making inaccurate sweeping generalizations like naryainc was saying. SOME people have terrible side effects, SOME people have none. We can't listen to people who say "such and such medicine is ALWAYS bad" - or, for that matter, anybody who says "such and such medicine is ALWAYS good"!
I've had exactly the same experience with the doctors I've seen. It's so frustrating going to see a gynecologist, asking for guidance on birth control and being told that my worries are just some internet propaganda.
No, I have seen girls around me suffer because of the pill, I'd been on the pill for a short time and I did not enjoy the experience greatly, I want someone to talk to me honestly instead of giving me cold looks and telling me to trust the professionals
Had two horrible hospital births and then two life changing beautiful home births with beautiful healthy babies. My homebirths changed me as a person. It’s not for everyone, but absolutely most favourite moments of my life ❤
Similar story here, one absolutely awful hospital birth (bullied constantly by staff, though nothing went wrong with me in any way) and had my second in my living room with a knowledgeable midwife. It was incredible.
Same! I had a very traumatic hospital birth. And to be completely open, I believe that the hospitals have gotten better since I gave birth the first time in one. But still my subsequent to home births were beyond amazing
Same here! I had 2 awful hospital birth, followed by 3 homebirths, that were the most beautiful, empowering experiences. My homebirths forever changed me in the best way, and they were without a doubt the best moments of my life.
I'd like to see the studies he sites his stats for regarding homebirth v hospital birth... I've heard opposing stats. Also come on, hospitals want to make money and that's not a cOnSpiRacY oooOOooOoOoo
@@odenjohannesebastianbach1463 same. I feel there's a lot of confirmation bias here. Midwives and doolas have been around since the beginning and were based off women who've been through birth many times themselves. So many doctors dismiss women even as patients so I don't trust that anything women have a hand in is taken seriously enough by the medical profession. Not to mention they have profits to worry about.
I had 2 homebirths, in the UK, and cannot praise the experience more! Midwife-led care is the default here and if I'd needed to transfer to hospital, my midwife would have been able to continue caring for me in hospital. I had 2 fully-trained midwives present at each birth and I felt totally confident that they had everything under control and would transfer me to hospital if the need arose (which thankfully it didn't).
I absolutely loved my home births. Totally relaxed, in my own space, two midwives all to myself - - honestly, it felt like the VIP option!
Yes!!! Here in the US my mom done the same and her midwife was a past hospital midwife so she had ALL the supplies needed with being experienced in difficult births and we are only 5 minutes from our closest hospital which was a stress relief. Everything went absolutely PERFECT for her and it was her 6th child. Beautiful experience for everyone and she loved it!
The issue in the US is there is no federal standard of care provided by midwives. There’s no regulation of who can call themselves of a midwife.
Yes absolutely I’m in Australia and our midwife’s are unifersity trained just like nurses and are more then capable to handle a home birth safely. I would feel far more safe and taken care of by a midwife than a OB in pregnancy. Far less interventions, lack of information, birth trauma and being pushed into things for no reason.
With my first child I had at 18, I was told by my OB I needed to be induced because my “placenta was dying” even though I was 40 weeks and 4 days - hardly that well overdue for the placenta to fail so suddenly. The induction was terrible - the contractions were so intense, I got the epidural and it failed on one side, I couldn’t tell when to push, the nurse was lecturing me, the doctor gave me an episiotomy without my consent…awful experience. I placed my baby for open adoption, so on top of that, I had a traumatic birth. I told myself with my other children I parented in the future, I would avoid that again at all costs. With my second child, I had a more holistic-minded OBGYN and had an unmedicated hospital birth and I loved it. With my third, fourth, and fifth child(ren) I had a midwife and had home births. NIGHT AND DAY difference. It was such a beautiful experience, I felt in control, I felt loved, supported, and my healing process was much faster. If you’re a low risk pregnancy, consider midwifery care. Hospital care is there for high risk or emergencies, but so much trauma surrounds hospital births. Check out www.evidencebasedbirth.com for unbiased research and information about all things birth, labor, postpartum, etc.
@@kimc555a lot of states have regulations regarding this. And ACOG exists for this reason as well. I think you’re thinking of doulas - I’m a certified doula through DONA, BUT you don’t have to be certified to be a doula, which I believe everyone should be certified before becoming one.
I’ve learned so much from Dr Mike over the years. He’s so good at laying down the facts and putting things into perspective. I always feel smarter after listening to him! Thanks Matt & Abby
Brilliant. This was brilliant. He’s so self aware, well informed and intelligent. Love how he articulates himself and reasons
Dr Mike is probably the only doctor online who I listen to because he isn’t trying to sell something but rather give. He seems like a great guy
As a nurse practitioner, this is why I absolutely love Dr. Mike!! We need to debunk all these (absolutes) in medical care! Something I strive to do every day in my practice! So happy you had him on ❤. The other thing I love so much about your podcast is how much emphasis and awareness you bring to single parenthood...as a single mom of two and solo mom of one, I don't know if you realize how much of a mood boost it is for us single parents to be recognized for how much work we have to put in to make sure our kiddos have the best lives. Love you guys so much!
My daughter was a home birth. My midwife interviewed me to assess the risks of my pregnancy (which were low). I had to sign a contract agreeing to an emergency plan (that I’d go to the hospital in an ambulance if there were complications even if I wanted to protest), or a non emergency plan (that if I decided at any point that I wanted other interventions or different type of things around me, I could go). I really loved my labor and delivery experience at home. My daughter was posterior but didn’t need any interventions. I’m glad that women have options, I hope every woman gets the chance to have a care team that helps her figure out what her best options are. My best friend was a high risk pregnancy and would have been denied for a home birth, which more women need to be aware of. Just because you want to doesn’t mean you should.
Absolutely brilliant. I read the title “debunks birth control” and i thought, here we go again with some “social media doctor” trying to push out some fake information to become relevant, and i was reluctant to listen. However I started watching and I cannot fault him in the slightest, an amazing, passionate and straight to the point man with no ulterior motive whatsoever. He uses research and facts in the most logical way, considering the population and environment in order to deliver the most important information.
Coming from a country (South Africa), working in the public healthcare sector with limited resources and overpopulated hospitals, this is exactly how we are taught to provide medical advice and information. No strong views or opinions and respecting the patients choices, and views on treatment is the most holistic approach and there is a lot to be said for it with the outcomes of treatment. He is so self aware and gives appropriate advice and reasons with not coming off too strongly and as if he knows better. This is the doctor I strive to be and these are the doctors the really make a difference in the world. WOW i am so pleasantly surprised.
Yes Dr. Mike is legit! He’s great on being very nuanced . Love him. Check out his podcast where he debates one of the quacks.
Yes! He gave such unbiased, factual information!
Girl, go subscribe to his channel! ☺️
Dr. Mike is amazing. articulate, knowledgeable, intelligent, unbiased, presents scientific information with evidence without agenda and very nuanced.
If Dr. Mike was a professor I'd love to sit in one of his classes! The way he speaks makes you feel comfortable to ask questions without judgement! His patients are lucky to have him! 🥰
3 homebirths! We had 2 midwives and all the equipment we would need in case of an emergency and had all my information at the local hospital and a bag packed in case of an emergency. It was so peaceful, lots of laughs, lots of hugs and support from my sisters mother, children and husband. I got to relax in my own space after and it was beautiful! My sister has had all natural births in the hospital and she found a doctor she’s loves (6 kids!) and she’s loved her births. To each their own!
Yes!!
Yes! Midwives are medical professionals with all the equipment. Equating doulas to midwives is so ignorant. I'm a doula, I am not a midwife. One is a labor coach, the other is a medical professional who is proficient in all things birth related (aside from surgery).
@@alwayzjello my midwife had over 3,000 births in her career.. I fully trusted her! :)
I loved my home birth as well and wouldn't do it any other way. It sounded like they didn't really know what a home birth was since they think home births are unassisted. Assisted and unassisted home births are two completely different things. Home births started becoming more and more popular since COVID so it's surprising they don't know more or didn't research it more.
There is a higher risk with homebirths. My country has the highest percentage of homebirth in the western world. And also a higher birth-related mortality rate than our neighbouring countries where the majority of births take place in a hospital or clinic. I will also opt for a hospital birth. I live on the third floor of an apartment building. If I have complications they would need to transport me horizontally, which means they would need to call the fire brigade to get me down via the balcony. I've witnessed that happen to my neighbour (hanging there, while being in so much pain from the contractions. Luckily she and her daughter are both fine). If everything goes as planned home birth can be great and more comfortable. But when I look at what it would take to get me to a hospital in case of complications (and how much time that could take) it feels like too much of a risk.
I love how Matt is clearly fangirling over Mike and then Abby is totally cool 😂❤️
As someone going into healthcare, Dr. Mike is super inspiring, well spoken, and an admirable provider!
I was on the pill 13 straight years never got pregnant. At 35 went on depo shots and went all the way through menopause at 53. No pregnancies and no problems.
I had an IUD for more then 2 years after my 3rd kid. They checked it several times, said it was placed right, but it was still low level painful. I could feel in whenever I folded my knees up or slept in the fetal position. Plus it did legit mess with my hormones. It was such a physical relief after I got it taken out. I was told that some people like me legit feel it more then most
Was it the hormonal one?
Or was it the copper one?
Yeah I lost my hair and my hormones were completely whack with the mirena.
Never again
Thankfully I’ve had a great experience with my Mirena. Only side effect I could tell was acne, but my hormones eventually balance out and my skin has calmed down completely. Going on 6 years with it. I guess everyone is different 🤷♀️
To link together two topics at different times, Dr Mike pointed out diet being more important for losing weight than exercise in general and fasting being a method of reducing caloric intake. For me intermittent fasting completely changed how I think about food, how I plan meals, and how I spend my time. So the effect was that I eat less and I eat better, and the easiest slow weight loss I've ever had in my life. I love it.
😊❤ Matt & Abby--I've followed all your podcasts to date and have to tell you... This was BY FAR the most fun, informative and easy flowing conversation you've done with a guest so far!! There were so many myths debunked, information & data explained in simple terms... I could have listened another 90 minutes! Great selection choice for a collaboration!!
Just to give you an idea of the wide demographic that follows you both, I am a 69 year old retired female in Canada & always eager to learn something new.
Keep up the great work! 👍👍👍
I’m a nurse and have followed Dr. Mike for years. He’s so great at making you want to listen! Love this episode!!!
It’s good to see Abby after 2 weeks!
This was filmed 2 weeks ago
I could watch Dr Mike talk for hours. He speaks so well and is super engaging and intelligent. Good video!
Finally a guest that actually offers educated important information!! Love Dr. Mike
Loved this guest! What a wealth of knowledge Dr. Mike brings. He was a breath of fresh air when it come to social media and hearing medical advice that is usually fear based.
24:00 having extra sodium/salt can help people with low blood pressure , this is a prime example of people who say whats healthy or not healthy to eat , it completely varies/ depends on the person.
Also, sea salt has minerals that you literally need to absorb hydration. But mineral salt is different from sodium content.
“Medicine is an imperfect science” - Dr. Mike
I really enjoy his perspective. His empathy and knowledge is very admirable. As a woman I have been through a lot with my body. This podcast actually taught me a few things that I think I already know about my body because I’m a “know it all.” I love Dr Mike and Matt and Abby and this is probably my favourite Unplanned pod I’ve watched. Blessings to you all 💖
My two all-time favorite podcasters together. Thanks for doing this episode, chock full of great information, given in a down-to-earth manner. Love all three of you.
Great podcast! Thank you!
As a remarried but still sole parent to the children…having support now is so helpful. When I was married to the father I had no support beyond financial. Single entirely was SO MUCH less stressful. It was so much easier. And now remarried to a man who is more mature and isn’t self centered or has poor emotional regulation….this is so helpful. It’s life changing to have real support.
Sounds like Dr. Mike is one of the good doctors who truly believes in informed consent! Always appreciate an unbiased and open medical conversation.
I mean I will say that my mood was absolutely terrible on birth control. I was very moody and irrational but once I stopped taking it my mood GREATLY improved. Even my husband noticed how much better my mental health and attitude was
I think people have vastly different experiences. I know other women who have that experience. For me it’s the opposite.
I had a really bad experience getting off the birth control pill. Getting off sparked huge mental and physical health issues that took months to resolve. It was almost like postpartum depression/anxiety. My hormones were messed up for about a year after getting off birth control. It's crazy how much/little it affects different people
Dr Mike, thank you for being online and present. I love how you promote the scientific method in an understandable way.
This was one of the best guests. I’m just glad that you both chose him bc he is an unbiased, factual, & non-judgy medical professional.
So many women I know are frustrated because they are so emotionally/physically/and mentally different when on hormonal birth control. so so many. That is the truth.
110%
I got on it at age 16 for acne and stayed on it until I was 27. All of the headaches, weight gain, disinterest in dating, irritability, insecurity and fatigue were not related to BC pills according to my doctor. I can’t count how many times I went back only to be told that “it’s just your age”
I decided to quit and I feel like different person.
Getting on it and staying on it for as long as I have is one of my biggest regrets in life currently
I had my second baby via planned induction at 37 weeks. I was 38, with high blood pressure and gestational diabetes. I loved it and was happy with my experience. Everyone is different and what I needed is different than what you may need. People needed to take everything with a grain of salt cuz everyone is different
The way Dr. Mike can quickly & completely shut down a conspiracy theory with logic, while still coming across as friendly and pleasant and amicable the entire time, is 100% goals to me.
I love Dr Mike! I’m so happy you guys were able to collaborate with him.
Birth control can indeed be very harmful to MANY women and most of us are gaslit about it. God forbid internet "gurus" talk about it because we all know damn well the professionals dont take the risks seriously!
This is the collaboration I didn’t know I needed!!
Matt and Abby are the exact same age as my husband and I, met in the same year and even got married in the same year!! I love watching how two people live their life so vulnerably to the world compared to how I live at the same age. You two are truly role models to look up to!! 🥰❤️
5 of my 6 babies born at home and there is actually way more research than he stated for the benefit of homebirth. I do appreciate that he talked about it more positively than I’ve heard other docs talk about this- instead of so much fear mongering out there!
I had a home birth with my daughter and I will 100% do it over and over again. Being home with my husband, my mom and the midwives was amazing because the midwives didn’t show up until 3 hours before my baby was born and I didn’t have people pressuring me or coming in and out of my room to fix IVs. I was also able to move around and do what I needed to do to make my body comfortable. Obviously, this is not the same for everyone, but home births aren’t as scary as people may think, if they’re done right.
lindsif2 Home births can be scary when things go wrong and even if everything is done "right." Just because your first home birth when as planned and without any complications that doesn't mean your next home birth will be the same. Hospitals have saved countless of newborns and mothers lives in emergency situations where it was out of midwives scope of practice. For example, an emergency C- section and a NICU team for the newborn,etc. In the US the midwives are NOT participating in the activities that are occurring to save you and your newborn life at the hospital.
@@cupcake1406 of course the next birth is going to be different, but that doesn’t mean women shouldn’t know their options for home births and working with midwives. All options should be learned about and not villainized. If it happens where the next birth needs intervention, then of course I would use those resources to keep my baby and myself alive. But in my opinion, being at home is very beneficial. But also being at a hospital can be beneficial as well. In my case, the hospital was a last resort. That’s not going to be for everyone. Giving birth shouldn’t be feared, it’s the most natural thing humans go through. I wish women were more educated on how their bodies work and how birth can be amazing with the right support and knowledge. There are a ton of resources on home births that people just look over because the hospital is the easiest solution. But again, this is my opinion.
Home births are how we got as far along as we did as a species, so I'm guessing they're okay sometimes. I know all kinds of women who gave birth in hospitals, birth centers, and bathtubs, and they were all in the right with their choices.
@@lindsif2 I definitely think that many women don't educate themselves on any of the aspect and resources of pregnancy, labor and delivery and postpartum. Women need to be more proactive in educating themselves instead relying on professionals completely. Many pregnant women will go to the hospital when they think they are in labor and demand an epidural,without first trying any and all natural non medicine inventions such as: walking, changing positions, massaging their back,etc. I agree with you, many women find the hospital the easy way out..."just give me the epidural and that is all the work I want to do." Then, expect the doctors and nurses to due most of the work without much input from the patient. I hope what I am saying makes sense. By the way, I am a nurse so, I have seen this play out many times. Congratulations on your the birth of your newborn. I wish you nothing but the best in life.
@@cupcake1406the United States of America ranks 41st in the world for mother mortality tied in 2020 with countries like Lebanon and behind Palestine in 2020 😮.
Because of health issues I’ve had I don’t get the choice and have to have a C section. But the midwife that delivered 2 of my siblings had delivered over 3,000 babies. I think the Doctor had about 300.
Midwives and home births according to Dr Mike are under 2% births. Home births are not the reason we are 41 in the world for mother mortality during birth.
The US maternal care needs to be revisited! And women need to be valued in medical research!
When I was in labor with my daughter, after 36 hours and 2 epidurals, I ended up having a C-section. My daughter only weighed 4lbs 12oz. But what the Dr’s found was my bone structure (for birth) was only big enough for a lemon. So when I had my son 4 years later it was a planned C-section where I also had my tubes cut and soldered due to the fact of only being able to birth by C-section and that’s not a good thing. My daughter will be 35 this year and my scar still bothers me. Thanks for having Dr Mike on! It was such a fantastic podcast! You guys are incredible! Love and hugs from Canada! ❤
I'm actually glad dr. Mike addressed home births as well. In The Netherlands home births are a lot more common than in the US. Our healthcare system is also very different of course.
I had a home birth and I would 100% do it again.
With home births here, you have a midwife present, that is trained for this and knows exactly when to move to the hospital if things don't go as they should. There is usually also a nurse present, what we call kraamhulp. They help the midwife with the birth, and clean up after. (kraamhulp also stays for 8 days, a few hours a day, to help get settled with the newborn and for mom to recover)
Even though I had a medical issue during/after birth. The placenta wasn't coming so I had to be moved to the hospital to get is surgically removed as I lost too much blood due to it.
But even with that, it was a great experience. The ambulance personal was great, and swift.
The hospital is within a 15min drive from our house, I had assistance of 2 experienced medically trained people, and my pregnancy was low risk. I was also considered "full term" at 37 weeks (that's the minimum for home births, before 37 weeks is always medical and at the hospital here)
Medical intervention with home births is lower, in the netherlands, and because the mom is in a known and safe space, they often feel more at ease, making the birth "easier" (if you can call it easy). If you don't feel safe at home, than obviously it won't work as calming and the hospital might be the better option for you.
I’m so thankful that things went well for you. Unfortunately, we are on opposite sides of the spectrum with this. If I had NOT had issues carrying my babies, and was not further away from the hospital, I may have considered it. My daughter’s delivery was so scary. The cord prolapsed and came through the birth canal before her head. The cord was around her neck 3 times, so every time I pushed it was literally strangling her. When she was finally born her head was BLACK. I’m not kidding or exaggerating, as black as licorice. The rest of her body was white as a sheet. She looked horrible. Her first Apgar was 2. They had to shock her several times to get her breathing. It was so traumatic they drugged me without asking or telling me. By the Grace of God she had no lasting effects from the birth. If she had taken one breath before she stopped breathing she would have had severe brain damage. Too risky for me, I am paranoid. The nurse said to me (right after delivery) that this is a good example of why home births are not a good idea. Both her and my ob/gyn said that she wouldn’t have made it if I was home. I’m not saying that they are always wrong or risky, it’s just not for me. I will be praying for you. Especially that everything goes smoothly. Sorry this is so long. I tried to shorten it😂
@@stephanieann622 even at the hospital, a cord prolapse is a serious problem. I doubt things would’ve gone differently just because you were in the hospital.
The hospital doesn’t prepare for every situation for every birth. They would have to do as much figuring out of what to do and get the supplies to help you as a midwife would.
I lost a child who had super ventricular tachycardia…. his heart rate was beating at 260 bpm and our midwife felt something was wrong because the Doppler wasn’t picking up the baby’s heartbeat very well and it was sounding weird…
We went to the OB, the GYN that was above her, and he pooped any issues with the baby, but made an appointment with the maternal fetal specialist, and obviously told them that we were overreacting because they wouldn’t let me come in for over a month.
My midwife kept insisting something was up, and we ignored her and trusted the OB/GYN…
Guess what, if I gone right away to the maternal fetal specialist and treated what was a very bad bad heart condition for a baby to have… he might still be alive today.
But we waited till our appointment a month and a half later, and by that time the damage already been done and had hydrops at that point (that is when your body cavity fills up with fluid- it happened because his heart was beating so fast. His blood and other liquids in his vessels could not get through the heart fast enough as blood was backing up.)
We lost him 14 days later, and they tried to blame the midwife at the hospital and I defended her and said no and gave the name of the OB/GYN who ignored the whole problem even when his own ultrasound tech was also concerned, he ignored my midwife and her. I told him he was the one that we trusted and shouldn’t have.
So doctors can also make mistakes and it can kill babies… hospital does not guarantee safety, nor a perfect birth… people are people, and we are flawed and people make mistakes. There is no place on earth you can go to avoid all risks of anything going wrong…
We need to stop, assuming that every single problem that could happen in birth is avoidable, just because we go to a hospital…
Birth is mostly safe, but sometimes it gets dangerous for mom and baby and some situations. It doesn’t matter where you are it’s life or death, regardless .
There is enough evidence, even in the United States to show that if you pick a certified midwife or a licensed midwife of any kind that isn’t untrained , there are evidences for that birth to go well.
Most problems that could be an issue show up way before you even have your first contraction.
I loved all the responses to this comment. And they prove what I always say: EVERY BIRTH IS DIFFERENT. Every pregnancy is different. Just because something goes one way the last time doesn't mean you have to do it the same the next time. I've had two homebirths with midwife, two unassisted births, and two c-sections and they were all mixed up. Because every one of my babies needed being delivered differently, and that is TOTALLY fine.
@@Jaxmusicgal23 Most importantly I am sending my most sincere condolences. I am so sorry about the loss of your sweet baby boy. I can’t imagine how hard it is for you going through life without him. I also apologize for my comment if it offended you, that definitely wasn’t my intention with sharing my story. You are exactly correct. I still could have had a less favorable outcome if I was delivering at home. What I should have said was that having the operating room so close by, brought me comfort knowing they could get her out quickly if needed. Her heart stopped as her head was being born, I had to push 2 more times so they could get to her for resuscitation. Sorry to ramble on, I just feel really bad that my comment was expressed in a less than positive way. I was just trying to share a different perspective and I didn’t do so hot. Anyway Jax, I hope you are healthy and as happy as possible. I will keep you and your little man in my prayers🙏💙
Such a good episode! I love conversations that really make you think. Mike is such a breath of fresh air among the medical fear mongers online!
I really appreciate this as a medicine major!! :) One of my favorite parts was the analogy of the boulders vs the pebbles.
Dr. Mike is so professional and educated. Love this episode!!
How tf did you get THE Dr. Mike on your podcast? Bless up
They made a phone call and set up a date. He agreed because he likes them.
@@arfriedman4577most likely their management team set it up.
On this podcast channel, they don't have many subscribers. People probably listen to their podcasts on other apps like Spotify or something. But on their original channel, they do have quite a lot of subscribers, like 7 million (maybe a little less). That is pretty high. Dr. Mike has more, like a little more than 11 million. I still think it's a good (aka beneficial) collab even for Dr. Mike, because I am sure Matt and Abby have many subscribers that don't follow Dr. Mike, but after this, they may subscribe to his channel.
Im in my finals for my degree in Biology and i love mike’s analogy for the people to understand ! Great podcast and great job you guys !🙏🏻
A great podcast Matt and Abby! I birthed a 9 lb baby at home at almost 42 weeks gestation with midwives and also had shoulder dystocia which was probably caused by my gestational diabetes during pregnancy. I don't regret having a homebirth one bit despite having shoulder dystocia because my midwives are very well trained to handle these kind of situations and home is where I felt safe.
Ummmm according the medically industrialized birth complex that's a total impossibility *I'm being sarcastic*
So happy for you and I commend your courage to believe in your innate ability to safely bring your baby into the world!!! ❤
This podcast is so underrated, you’ve had some incredible UA-cam guests! Great job guys! ❤
I Love that you guys got Dr. Mike on the podcast!! He’s so informative!! Love this!
Thanks for this collab 😍 as a nurse, I love seeing people like the three of you on social media who share interesting, factual, and true content.
My cousin did a home birth! She looooved it. The rest of my family does birthing Center…. Still not hospitals. (Unless high risk).. I’ve watched 4 birthing center births now by my sisters. And the midwives were superstars.. so awesome
So sweet ❤ thank you for sharing.
Side effects of hormonal birth control are under reported and typically the people who speak the loudest against hormonal birth control are the one's like myself who have suffered consequences and been dismissed by their doctors.
Yes, we are gaslit whenever we tell them what it is doing to us.
The amount of doctors that tried to get me to go back on birth control after it caused me to have my gal bladder removed was so frustrating.
YES!!! I had the mirena (sp?) IUD in for the 5 years and had problems with it the ENTIRE TIME, I asked for it to be removed repeatedly and was told things like "its all in your head", I went to get it removed at the 5 year mark and was delayed a further 2 years because they were convinced that they could get it out without putting me under a general, despite the copper bits being too short which was discovered in the first appt for removal and was noted, it took a dr literally grabbing the cervix with plier type things and yanking with all his might, and me reacting by kicking him and security being called before they'd let me get a surgical removal.
so not only do I have trauma from SA/CSA but I have medical trauma as well.
The current fall out from my medical teams negligence and narcissism, is ive been left totally unable to have more children, as well as having cysts and found out last year that I have a tumour between my bladder and uterus that may or may not be cancerous, im in and out of hospital and drs clinics almost constantly with problems relating to the tumour and things like getting my period, I get treated like absolute rubbish by all but my GP and yet these medical professionals have the audacity to complain incessantly about a variety of workplace issues, most of which they have caused anyway
Yes!! I got on it at age 16 for acne and stayed on it until I was 27. All of the headaches, weight gain, disinterest in dating, irritability, insecurity and fatigue were not related to BC pills according to my doctor. I can’t count how many times I went back only to be told that “it’s just your age”
I decided to quit and I feel like different person.
Getting on it and staying on it for as long as I have is one of my biggest regrets in life
I know it can work for some people, I just wish doctors would be more careful when prescribing it
Amen to individually diagnosing!!! So many doctors today want to push Rx and not listen to everything with that person. It’s way too frustrating for someone who doesn’t want to take 10 pills a day just to function.
Go to a D.O. If you can!! They are still doctors but of osteopathic medicine, so they take into consideration your whole body and wellness not just pills. Been going to one for 5 years now and I’m way happier.
@@kianna270In case you didn't know, Dr Mike is a DO.
DO’s are the best doctors!
I began learning about the dangers of birth control over 20 years ago. It's great to see people with a large platform like Candace Owens speaking out about this now.
Woop Woop Candace for the win
As a labor and delivery nurse, I am SO HAPPY to hear Dr Mike speak about various pregnancy and labor and delivery things- and that yes, a home birth can be done when things are done correctly. If you have a low-risk pregnancy, with medically trained midwives present, AND you have a backup plan in place if things start to go awry, then sure… but please, please, for the love of all things…. IF you have to go to the hospital because you’re not dilating, or things have stalled, or you or baby are in danger, please don’t be rude to us (the nurses) at the hospital.
Whether you are part of the above group, or if you’re going to the hospital because that was always the plan, let me remind you that we all have the same end goal: happy, healthy, safe delivery. We all want the same thing. We are not the enemy. If you have a birth plan, and we ask you questions, we are NOT being rude. We are making sure you know what you’re asking, and know the risks and benefits. If it’s something we cannot do, most of us WILL try to meet you in the middle. We want to hear you, we simply ask that you hear us as well.
I think I struggled a lot with this when i gave birth 5 months ago. I was so set on a natural hospital birth and did a calm birthing course. I did so much research and spoke to mums. I was so set on it being natural and unfortunately due to the research and strong opinions I did see the hospital staff as being against me because things escalated and I didn't dilate or go into active labour on my own. I was asked to get an epidural and to get induced and in the moment i saw this as going against my birth plan. At the time i was highly stressed and couldn't think straight so I did see the staff as intervening unnecessarily. However, as you said in the comment, i can see looking back that they were just doing what they could to help me. I will approach the hospital staff very differently with my second. Looking back they did try to allow my plan to take place. They allowed me to wait 30 hours after my waters broke to see if i would go into active labour. They also tried to allow me to get dilated through an epidural before offering a c section. I did end up dilating but then my girl got stuck as she was face up. They tried multiple times to turn her with their hands before offering the c section. They really tried to get me a natural birth. It just didn't work out the way I wanted. Next time I am really going to try to appreciate the staff more and allow things to go as they are...instead of fighting it.
ehm, how is a midwife not medically trained???
I enjoy all your podcast episodes, but this one was particularly good! You guys have mentioned wanting to have a doctor on our podcast so I’m glad it actually happened. I learned so much and I’m 8months pregnant with my second baby so I’ll be sharing this podcast with my husband because I thought it was so interesting and helpful.
Birth control does change your hormones, I was on a low dose birth control in for about 5 years when I met now husband and I can say when I stopped taking the pill it was like I bait and switched him, my personality changed drastically and I honestly don’t know why he stayed with me 😅
Agreed anyone who says microdose in your body every day with hormones is good for you, and it’s not gonna affect you in anyway, whatsoever is straight up lying to you. Same thing happened to me, I went on birth control to help with my endometriosis, and I turned into a complete and total psycho. I was out of control until I came off the pill.
I see the main message did not come across... he is talking about the general population. In general terms, it will not cause a change in hormonal interaction. It is also quite simplistic to just talk about a substance "changing hormones". Which ones? At what concentration? Is that concentration significant to actually manipulate physiological processes?
I also think people tend to forget the researched proven benefits from being on hormonal birth control. Once again, a personal opinion is not a fact...
I too took several types of birth control,went down to the lowest dose possible and no matter what it made me absolutely CRAZY. Went 9 years off and tried it again for 2 months
during that two month I had terrible headaches, felt zombie-like, and had so many angry moments. I can't do it. Not ever.
You should watch the Ted talk “your brain on birth control”
I’m a PA I love watching Dr mike, I work in derm so completely different background but I loved this dialogue.
I’m an L&D nurse and none of the OBs I’ve worked with have ever seen a natural birth without intervention. We often intervene when it is not needed and this causes more issues. Hospital birth is great for those who are at risk of complications but home births and midwifery care are amazing for those who have low risk pregnancies. Midwives are trained to transfer patients in time if there are complications as well. There is evidence and data for both, you just need perspective.
Best guest ever! So informational and he’s so well spoken and brought some great povs!
God as a medical student, watching Dr. Mike dump evidenced based information onto viral Tik Tokers was a new level of intellectual euphoria.
So glad y’all had Dr. Mike on the podcast. It’s refreshing to hear him discuss evidence based information on controversial topics, like cold plunges. Also, I appreciate that he shared some detail on his personal experience in losing his mother and gave insight into life choices that can be risky but also totally fine like boxing or consuming caffeine, etc. It’s very relatable and respectable.
This is a collab I didnt know I needed and I AM HERE FOR IT
What a great conversation with brave honest questions and good extensive answers. Thank you all
Abby’s questions were so intelligent and well articulated, I would have loved to hear more questions! But i like that Matt isn’t afraid to ask questions a lot of people might have. The curiousity in this episode is refreshing!
I had a shoulder dystocia at home with a 9 1/2 pound baby. My midwives were trained in maneuvers to manage it and my cute fat baby is doing great. Absolutely no regrets.
I'm always shocked at how little life info Matt and Abby have. Like not knowing you have to pay for an ambulance? They have two kids yet are still just so young and know so little about the world.
This is exactly what I was thinking! It’s crazy to me because I feel like even at their age I knew way more about the world.
I think they lived a pretty sheltered upbringing
Which makes them perfect for this interview. Because if someone that knew everything interviewed him, they wouldn't have such great questions!
@bshrib72 yeah I definitely knew way more even younger than them, but I wasn't sheltered. I HAD to learn the real world on my own by 18. So it makes sense that they don't know "adult" stuff but it's still crazy to me they are mid 20s with 2 kids and sometimes seem even younger
There’s a possibility that they’re taking the fall for others who don’t know the answers to those questions. Good journalists will ask questions that seem obvious because there’s always someone out there who doesn’t know. I appreciate that they ask these kind of questions, whether or not it’s them being vulnerable to put their amount of knowledge on the line, or taking the fall for others
Natural family planning can be extremely predictable for the right person. It's not a chance red light green light game. I encourage you to read further about it. Mike dismissing it is frustrating. It can be very effective especially when taking hormones is not an option.
I agree… as someone with regular periods, tracking my cycle and various fertility signs has been so empowering for my husband and I to avoid conventional birth control. The apps “predictions” are not always reliable, but you can learn your body
I think what Doctor Miike was mainly focusing on was that just because you had sex during the period time doesn't mean there is no absolute risk of becoming pregnant.
Family planning is essential to make sure that the couple is aware of the consequences of their actions & figure out the right time to do it taking into account the side quests or complications that could happen along the way, and what you could do to help yourselves if those were ever to happen...
THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! I’ve been dying to hear Dr mike talk about pregnancy things because I feel like even L&D nurses on social media can get really divisive over some topics. Thank you for taking away the fear and making me feel more confident to chose what’s best for me.
I had a wonderful home birth. Home birth midwives are trained professionals (if they are licensed) and are equipped to handle emergencies, even shoulder dystocia and excessive bleeding. It’s not reckless to choose home birth like some people think. If you’re low risk, it’s generally safer to birth at home without medical interventions!
Facts! People have so much fear around birth in general its easier to say it's wrong 💁🏻♀️ look at all other countries lol
I live in the Netherlands. We have the highest percentage of home births in the western world (1 in 4). We have a good system in place with midwifes and assisting specialised nurses (kraamhulp, who also take care of the woman and baby during the first 8 days).
I would still give birth in a hospital though, even with a low risk pregnancy. Because of the time it would take to get me to the hospital if complications occur. I live at the 3rd floor of an apartment building. If I had complications they would need to transport me horizontally (so using the stairs is out of the question). When my neighbour had complications during her birth they had to call the fire department to get her down via the balcony. While she was in a lot of pain because of the contractions. This takes extra time, in a moment when every minute counts. In a different house I might opt for homebirth. But in our current place it feels like taking an unnecessary risk.
P.s. my neighbour and her daughter are both fine. Luckily.
I love him so much. I’m so glad yall had him on, i was so surprised to see he was a guest. Best episode yet by far ❤
Thank you for such a great conversation. It's one of my favorite episodes with you guys. Great info!! ❤😊
I literally just spoke to my husband about a home birth I’m glad Doctor Mike touched on it
A great podcast for that is called Birthing Instincts podcast with Dr Stu and Birthing Blyss
Watch the business of being born. Oldie but goodie.
I had a home birth with my oldest and she was healthy and fine. I on the other hand had 3rd degree tearing and my placenta would not detach. I ended up needing to go to the hospital for treatment and was sent home 12 hrs later. It did not scare me away from it though. I wanted to do it again with my second pregnancy until I found out it was twins and was instantly made to have a hospital birth.
Dr Mike helped me so much with this episode!! So I’m a young cancer patient and while I may never really know but I’ve been legit pissed most my cancer treatment thinking “is big pharma screwing me? Do they know the cure?” But honestly the treatments I’m on are super effective only recently discovered treatments, so what he said around that question he was asked kinda gave me comfort
I’m a Canadian, had a home birth for my second son this January and it was THE BEST. Don’t let doctors scare you if you are a low-risk pregnancy. Being in my environment and being able to stay in that environment for 2 weeks with our little one was so stress free. Used the Bradley Method of birthing and was able to be very calm and relaxed through most of the labour, completely unmedicated. Had 2 midwife’s through a midwifery present at the birth and the midwife was able to stitch up my 2nd degree tear at home. Got up after skin-to-skin to shower in my own home and made sandwiches for all of us. Felt great! Not sketchy or scary.
I had a hospital birth but I wanted to labor as much as I could at home. My water broke at 3am on Tuesday and my doula suggested going to the hospital to ensure my water had in fact broke and that there was not meconium. After ensuring my water had broke and that baby was looking good, I decided I wanted to go home because I wasn’t having any contractions yet and I wanted to be able to relax in my own home. Let me tell you the nurses and doctors went from being very kind and hospitable to being rude and judgy. They sent multiple people to try and convince me to stay.
I left, labored at home. I got to eat breakfast and lunch, take a nap with my hubby and shower and spend those last few moments together before becoming a family of 3. Went to the hospital when contractions were 3-4 mins apart. Was 7 cm dilated and had my healthy baby girl about 5 hrs later at 7 am on Wednesday.
@@anestassia6346so lovely ❤ thank you for sharing.
@anestassia6346 man I really wish I had done that. Same situation, but I stayed, and their medical interventions and lack of sleep and ability to eat for the next 31 hours was hell on earth
@@abigailloar956 it’s really ridiculous that they don’t let you eat and it’s not even medically founded . Women need their strength for labor and delivery. How are you supposed to get any energy without food? So sorry you had a rough delivery but I’m sure seeing your baby made it all worth it!
This is a great episode for modern times. I was so interested the entire video! Dr. Mike you are so intelligent and provide the best information! 👍🏻
I've heard the IUD mentioned many times, there's also another type of birth control implant called a contraceptive implant. It's a implant that looks like a stick of a cotton swab with Etonogestrel inside it, placed in the inside of the arm. They usually last 3 years or 5 years (you can pick).
Dr. Mike also mentioned the implant but didn't go into full detail as you did. It is good to give the extra information. Thank you
Had two home births here in the UK. I’ve since learnt I had precipitous labours. Meaning both births from start to finish were under 2.5hrs, I physically would not have been able to get to hospital. I also bled out after the first and lost a litre of blood really quickly and had an ambulance waiting outside my house to rush me to hospital… luckily the midwives were able to stop the bleeding at home and second time we had a plan in place, which was pitocin post labour to contract my uterus that had just worked so hard it gave up contracting post birth! 😮 I look back in awe of the midwives and their care at home was beyond any medical care I’ve ever received ❤ great podcast 🎉
I’m a doula in Austin, TX and no OB here would ever recommend a home birth even if you’re low risk. They consistently ignore the data which supports home birth unfortunately.
Ever since I saw a comment requesting Dr. Mike a few vids back I KNEW Y’ALL WOULDN’T DISAPPOINT👏🏻❤️
Listen to your bodies when it comes to hormonal birth control.
I got on it at 19 because I thought it was the "safe" thing to do. The healthcare practitioner I consulted was so overwhelmingly pro-birth control. All of the stats she gave me made hormonal birth control sound like a godsend, the world's easiest solution. Even then, I remember feeling in my gut that she was being pushy. But since I already had the intention of trying it out, I was sold immediately!
Fast forward 5 years. I finally took it out after listening to my body. I have never felt more physically and mentally balanced. I feel more in tune with myself and the vibrancy of my internal world has returned.
I don't regret anything as it gave me the clarity I have now about my health and the choices I will make.
But don't rely on research to assume it's the best option for you. If you try it out and it feels off, LISTEN TO YOUR BODY!
I really appreciate his perspective on home birth. Many people are misguided & believe that it’s always dangerous & irresponsible which I feel is unfair.
Copper IUD has some ups and downs and this is comeing from experience… any type of metal in the body has the possibility of causing inflammation. Ask these questions when putting foreign objects in your body ladies
I love @DoctorMike the way he breaks things down and simplifies things. I wish I had a doctor like him that could be my primary physician.
The most humble guy ever🥹 we love you Dr. Mike!!❤
I’ve been following Doctor Mike’s YT channel for several years now and the amount of useful information I’ve learned is priceless. He also helped me appreciate my primary doctor a lot more and to think differently about doctors in general. Doctor Mike and his team are a blessing to many of us.