How My Nurse (& Work Mom) Became My Patient

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    Ginny Kaltenbach is not just any nurse, but my nurse, having working alongside me for the last 10 years in New Jersey. Ginny and I are great friends and coworkers, but we developed a new type of relationship this last year where Ginny actually became one of my patients. You see, Ginny was suffering from debilitating pain in her back, and after hearing her side of the story, I realized I wasn't happy with her treatment plan. So, I made Ginny book an appointment with me so we could get to the bottom of her pain. This turned out to be an excellent decision for many reasons detailed in this episode. We don't just talk about Ginny's health though, but also do a deep dive into our relationship and Ginny's opinions on the healthcare system as a nurse who has seen it all, and then some, in over 40 years on the front lines.
    00:00 Intro
    01:10 Our First Meeting / Fight
    04:50 How Ginny Started
    14:05 What Makes Doctors Special
    19:31 What Nurses Actually Do
    24:36 Memories Of Me
    31:30 Flirting With Doctors
    33:25 Ginny Going Viral
    35:18 Ginny’s Injury
    52:10 Ginny’s Retirement / My Boxing
    54:48 Advice For Nurses
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  • @JoelWende
    @JoelWende 3 місяці тому +1177

    I love that Ginny constantly calls Dr Mike ‘Michael’. That shows a genuine and real familiarity.

    • @VioletEmerald
      @VioletEmerald 3 місяці тому +34

      He spells his name Mikhail but yes :)

    • @JoelWende
      @JoelWende 3 місяці тому +12

      @@VioletEmerald Ahh yes, you’re totally right! I love that spelling actually!

    • @ClairesCreativeFinds
      @ClairesCreativeFinds 3 місяці тому +8

      @@VioletEmeraldso the subtitles are right. 😂 I was wondering why it kept spelling it like that.
      I guess because that is the Russian way to spell it.

    • @AJR-zg2py
      @AJR-zg2py 3 місяці тому +15

      @@VioletEmerald And it's common for people with European versions of names to go by the Anglicized equivalents just to make it easier for their coworkers to pronounce. My first name is Alain... and I tell people they are free to call me Allan because it's easier for them if they're a non-French speaker.

    • @lizad8627
      @lizad8627 3 місяці тому

      ​@@ClairesCreativeFindshe is Russian too

  • @LaRussaLand
    @LaRussaLand 3 місяці тому +3159

    Oh. My. God. I love how she said the nurses are there to protect the patients from the doctors. I got treated so horribly by a doctor when I was clinging on to life. She made me cry by blaming ME for not getting any better. All of the nurses treated me like their daughter, so I asked one of her if I could switch doctors. She arranged that for me. The new doctor was wonderful and took me off the medications that lady had given me, which were waaay too strong and were making my condition worse!!

    • @leigha2814
      @leigha2814 3 місяці тому +80

      I wish I had good nurses when my life was at risk after major surgery. Instead I got traumatized by nurses in the cardiac ward (the icu nurses were amazing from my few memories) and the only people who stood up for me were the physical therapists.
      It got to the point where I was drinking bathroom water those women were so unpleasant.

    • @Florina_12
      @Florina_12 3 місяці тому +12

      Yes! 🙌

    • @VIOThePokemonAddict
      @VIOThePokemonAddict 3 місяці тому +16

      Sue the first for malpractice!!

    • @LaRussaLand
      @LaRussaLand 3 місяці тому +27

      @@VIOThePokemonAddictUnfortunately it's extremely hard to go up against a hospital legally, so we never ended up doing so back in 2018.

    • @LaRussaLand
      @LaRussaLand 3 місяці тому +31

      @@leigha2814 Ugh I am so sorry, it's really scary being mistreated when you are dealing with one of the biggest challenges of your life! You feel so vulnerable.

  • @fox2mike28
    @fox2mike28 3 місяці тому +866

    I love this so much. Ginny is the perfect archetypal veteran nurse. A little salty, a bit of grit, and a no-nonsense attitude from decades of experience, but also a super sweetheart who is relentlessly caring and committed to her job and patients. And she’s such a Mom too; I love how she always calls him “Michael.” Just adorable. Lastly, I could listen to her accent all day. And good on you Dr. Mike for being such a fierce advocate and making a huge difference in her life as she brings her career to a close.

    • @ChristoWhat
      @ChristoWhat 3 місяці тому +5

      This is such an amazing way to put it but it's so perfect

    • @njmaryannez
      @njmaryannez 3 місяці тому +3

      Ha! I don’t think she has an accent. (I was born in the hospital where she was a candy striper.)

    • @oliverer3
      @oliverer3 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@njmaryannezTIL what a candy-striper is.

    • @fox2mike28
      @fox2mike28 3 місяці тому +5

      That makes sense if you’re from her area that you probably wouldn’t notice the accent as much. I live in the NE but am not from the NE and am always noticing accents that local residents do not. Unless I am seriously mistaken, Ginny’s accent is pretty classic old school North Jersey. And it’s just beautiful.

    • @keetrandling4530
      @keetrandling4530 3 місяці тому +4

      ​@@oliverer3
      A "Candy Striper" is a volunteer in a hospital. Back in the day (think 1950's) they wore red & white striped (like candy canes) uniforms similar to the nurses' uniforms, hence the name. Usually young women planning to become nurses or other med personnel.

  • @user-rg4sf8lg1v
    @user-rg4sf8lg1v 3 місяці тому +378

    For Dr Mike to openly admit that a nurse has taught him so much makes me love him even more as a doctor.

  • @fmdj
    @fmdj 3 місяці тому +1237

    48 years as a nurse, this is incredible. The number of people helped... I admire this woman.

    • @livgspink
      @livgspink 3 місяці тому +8

      Thank u for ur service🤗

    • @MonkeyJedi99
      @MonkeyJedi99 3 місяці тому +13

      My mother and grandmother were nurses.
      We were well cared for AND malingering and faking it were not tolerated.
      And if a doctor was (to put it kindly) missing things, they would step in and "nudge" the doctor(s) back on course.

    • @Yowzoe
      @Yowzoe 3 місяці тому +4

      Yes, me too. She is a hero.
      Think of all the types we hold up as heroes in our society. She's an *actual* hero.

    • @Luna-ml7id
      @Luna-ml7id 3 місяці тому +11

      You save one person you’re a hero. You save 100 you’re a nurse.

    • @fmdj
      @fmdj 3 місяці тому +3

      @@MonkeyJedi99 thank god nurses are there sometimes :) I mean, they're always useful, but I don't think their role as kind of baby-sitters for doctors gets all the recognition it deserves.
      Reminds me of nurse Carla in the TV series "Scrubs". It seems she's running half of the hospital all by herself. Really cool show btw (not for medical accuracy though, I've heard).

  • @whilethevossisaway
    @whilethevossisaway 3 місяці тому +553

    This interview describes many patient disappointing experiences. We want more Doctor Mikes out here to restore our faith in our medical system.

    • @wildlizappeared
      @wildlizappeared 3 місяці тому +21

      Especially in the chronic/invisible illness sphere. Stories like this of medical neglect, abuse, and mistreatment are incredibly common. If more doctors actually took the time to believe patients and actually cared to look a bit deeper than a blood test, that would be so nice. The medical world (or the world in general, tbh) is not set up for the care of those of us with chronic conditions.

    • @kkpaine
      @kkpaine 3 місяці тому +7

      Amen! Pushed by pharma, politics docs n nurses are under unnecessary pressure. Patients get short shrift.

  • @barbr100
    @barbr100 3 місяці тому +265

    As a retired healthcare worker myself, I truly enjoyed this interview. Your care and respect for one another is very evident.

  • @littleoneisnotright
    @littleoneisnotright 3 місяці тому +334

    18 seconds in and I already know this woman is a FANTASTIC nurse. One of my favorite nurses of all time told me, "I didn't like you at first. But I don't like anybody at first so..." She was such a boss and just a lovely, hard-working, kind beyond belief person. 🥰

  • @courtney.p.s.
    @courtney.p.s. 3 місяці тому +635

    I was saved by a nurse once after an emergency c-section. They deserve more respect than people give them, especially with all they do.

    • @Yowzoe
      @Yowzoe 3 місяці тому +5

      So true.

    • @sdust251977
      @sdust251977 3 місяці тому +7

      Well, I can tell you, this woman should've been a nightmare to work with. As someone in the medical profession, just because she was good to Dr Mike does not mean she was good to others. She was lucky the EKG patient did not have a cardiac event due to high potassium. That right there shows she knows nothing about text book medicine. If only people knew the amount of mistakes nurses make and get corrected by doctors, they would not set foot in a hospital. If you know, you know.

    • @Yowzoe
      @Yowzoe 3 місяці тому +20

      @@sdust251977 And the reverse is absolutely true as well. It's a dangerous world for sure, but what a weird, incomplete, and negative take you have. She knows *nothing* -- really? Are you drinking? From your tone and reasoning I'm betting that you're the nightmare.

    • @sdust251977
      @sdust251977 3 місяці тому +3

      @@Yowzoe" she knows nothing" l it's figurative speech. It's not my fault your comprehension skills are lacking. Textbook says that EKG is a mandatory step for patients with high potassium, no buts or if. You know it if you are a doctor. She denied this to a doctor resident, I can only imagine how she treated student nurses with less authority. I don't care about your negative takes opinion. Patient safety comes first. You know nothing either.

    • @Visitkarte
      @Visitkarte 3 місяці тому +18

      @@sdust251977 I don’t care how right you are (and of course that EKG was mandatory) but both professions are complementary. None can safely do their job without the other. We doctors need nurses and nurses need the doctors.
      Be kind and be courteous.

  • @maryminsky1782
    @maryminsky1782 3 місяці тому +347

    A Candy Striper was called such because their uniform was a red and white striped smock.
    Clara Barton was a nurse who founded the American Red Cross.

    • @blondeenotsomuch
      @blondeenotsomuch 3 місяці тому +22

      Finally. Clara Barton was a role model for girls of a certain era.

    • @RenayOpish
      @RenayOpish 3 місяці тому +10

      Came here to say this

    • @gelelied
      @gelelied 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you.

    • @MonkeyJedi99
      @MonkeyJedi99 3 місяці тому +9

      @@blondeenotsomuch Clara Burton's house is a historic site in Charlton MA. There is an attached summer camp as well.

    • @erynlasgalen1949
      @erynlasgalen1949 3 місяці тому +7

      I would call Clara Barton the Florence Nightingale of the American Civil War.

  • @TransConBrilliance
    @TransConBrilliance 3 місяці тому +178

    I have a special place in my heart for nurses. There are so many stories I can tell on how nurses heal our spirits even when we think we're going to die. The one story I'll share is this. My doctor had just done a colonoscopy on me. I was sitting in recovery waiting for the doctor. The doctor came and said to me "it looks like cancer". The doctor couldn't tell because I was stunned and silent but I was freaking out inside. As he said this a nurse happened to walk by and heard. She stopped dead in her tracks, walked over to me put her hands on mine and said "cancer is not a death sentence. There is a lot they can do now. Have faith in the doctors". That immediately brought me back from the brink. I still well up thinking of that incident. I only wish I knew that nurse's name. Any warm kind nurse I encounter these days I make sure I tell them how much I appreciate them.

  • @Trixie0026
    @Trixie0026 3 місяці тому +113

    her story is incredible. I can't believe no doctor did any physical exam for her pain. When I discussed back and shoulder pain to my doctor the first thing she did was to check my back to try and see where the pain could be coming from. I wish Ginny a happy pain-free retirement. She deserve the best for all of these years of work!

    • @sherylwillis3991
      @sherylwillis3991 3 місяці тому +2

      I have complained for years about doctors no longer doing physical exams. Just went to a urogynocoligist for a follow-up, and they didn’t even look! They asked me to tell them
      If I had improved! I expected a physical. I canceled my next follow-up.
      My neighbor has been in severe shoulder pain and even looks crippled up, and she just told me the specialist did not touch her!!! She is wanting surgery, too! I’m going to send her this video.

  • @heightsundergod23
    @heightsundergod23 3 місяці тому +395

    It's always a privilege to learn from the wisdom of older people whom we can feel safe with. It's beautiful to witness a work relationship like this.

  • @yvettejones5323
    @yvettejones5323 3 місяці тому +163

    I love the relationship between these two. The professional and personal respect and admire are wonderful to see and her. Can I also say how telling it is that she calls him, "My Michael"? She talks to him, in a personal way, like a mother would. It's a really sweet relationship. Congratulations on your retirement, Ginny, and we'd love to see a bit of your retirement party 😊

    • @kaiyakershaw1028
      @kaiyakershaw1028 3 місяці тому +4

      I was thinking the same thing. The glimpse into this intimate multi-layered relationship of care is so beautiful! I’m so glad they were vulnerable and open enough to share like this. “My Michael” made my eyes water!

  • @maryking4375
    @maryking4375 3 місяці тому +154

    My Mom retired after 45 years of nursing at John Hopkins Children's hospital in St. Petersburg. She worked in SICU and the stories we grew up with were heartbreaking and inspiratonal. At 80, she is still working for a doctor's office. She is my inspiration! Nurses will always be the backbone of the health industry. I'm so glad your "mom" is feeling better!!

  • @meganknotts1991
    @meganknotts1991 3 місяці тому +132

    I am a physical therapist and her story really shines a light on many of the problems within healthcare. Its amazing how many patients come in to my office without EVER being physically examined by a doctor or other therapists. All patients want to know, is that they feel heard and listened to. When you are able to validate their pain through examination and touch and most importantly education, it makes all the difference in the world. I am grateful to hear she has had a positive experience with physical therapy and hope it continues to help her get back to her end goals!

    • @alexandraos2845
      @alexandraos2845 3 місяці тому +12

      So true! As a PT student, one of the first things we learned was how lower back x-rays and MRIs are almost never beneficial for the patient, especially if they haven't had a proper physical exam first. Most of the time excessive imaging seems to create more stress and frustration in patients, either because the pictures are completely normal, or because of incidental findings. I am SO glad doctors like dr. Mike spread awareness on the importance of being hands on with patients, and the concept of treating a whole human instead of a diagnosis

  • @AlienKissy
    @AlienKissy 3 місяці тому +198

    I love this woman! Her passion, her humor, her honesty. Dr. Mike is lucky to have had worked with her, she obviously had/has a large impact on him.

  • @caseynoller6837
    @caseynoller6837 3 місяці тому +300

    I’m in nursing school. I hope to be around and learn from seasoned nurses like her! ❤

    • @Your_fav_brunette_bestie
      @Your_fav_brunette_bestie 3 місяці тому +5

      Slay

    • @maranathaschraag5757
      @maranathaschraag5757 3 місяці тому +5

      Congrats! Nursing school is fun.. You'll get a history of nursing section where they talk about Florence Nightingale. And....Clara Barton. She founded the American Red Cross, btw. It'll probably be on a test! 🎉

    • @ertsec
      @ertsec 3 місяці тому +2

      They’re all gone

    • @Yowzoe
      @Yowzoe 3 місяці тому +2

      @@ertsec Not all gone, but definitely fewer.

    • @retrograde126
      @retrograde126 3 місяці тому +1

      Don't be a nurse. Biggest mistake of your life.

  • @Kalvain14
    @Kalvain14 3 місяці тому +76

    I have tears in my eyes. This conversation between colleagues is so touching. They have clearly helped each other invaluably over the course of so many years. Amazing.

  • @Chelbsn
    @Chelbsn 3 місяці тому +79

    I am a 50 year old nurse and I relate to Gini on so many levels. It took me 20 years to get help for two autoimmune diseases. My entire work life I could save anyone else's life, but I couldn't save my own. I went to see some really horrible doctors through those 20 years. One rheumatologist told me that I didn't want to be sick like her patients and said I didn't need to see her again. What would my life have been like if I had treatment that many years earlier? I'm sure Gini has said this any number of times, but thank you Mike, for caring enough about your nurse to give her her life back.

    • @MacchiatoSwirlGirl
      @MacchiatoSwirlGirl 3 місяці тому

      Same with me almost five years, due to medical neglect, I have so much joint damage from ongoing inflammation

    • @Chelbsn
      @Chelbsn 3 місяці тому

      @@MacchiatoSwirlGirl I'm so sorry... I hope you are able to find someone that will care enough to give you the quality care you deserve❤️

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 місяці тому

      Did you know you can order your own lab work without referrals. Labcorp and another one did this. I've done it annually.

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 місяці тому

      Dr Mike please stop boxing. It's not good for the brain.

  • @user-ki3vz1mh1e
    @user-ki3vz1mh1e 3 місяці тому +157

    Our beloved GinGin! Way to go Doc Mike, she always spoke very highly of you! I’m so glad she’s seeing some relief for her back pain. She is an amazing nurse and friend. PS you wore a uniform with red stripes as opposed to a white starch uniform as a candy striper!

    • @angelachouinard4581
      @angelachouinard4581 3 місяці тому +11

      I'm old enough to have been a candy striper. It was when I was in high school. I haven't heard the term in years!

    • @spikeybunny6577
      @spikeybunny6577 3 місяці тому +20

      I remember Candy Stripers were volunteers and wore red & white striped adorable uniforms. They were also fairly young, cute, sweet, & bubbly. They were supposed to be a breath of fresh air in the hospital & went around visiting patients to help them feel less lonely, held their hands, brought around a cart of books to read, and things like that. I think they used to check up on how patients were feeling emotionally too. Too bad they don’t really have them anymore. I wonder how they would have changed with HIPPA?

    • @andie6666
      @andie6666 3 місяці тому +4

      I'm in the UK and learned about candy stripers in sweet valley high books😂
      Love this conversation, so much respect for her. A true angel 😇 💖 ❤️

    • @hattiebrazeley3351
      @hattiebrazeley3351 3 місяці тому +3

      @@andie6666me too! And Judy Blume books, too! X

    • @lubear413
      @lubear413 3 місяці тому +1

      Me too

  • @bandelay2134
    @bandelay2134 3 місяці тому +47

    It is terrifying that Ginny's doctors were on the verge of doing unnecessary spinal surgery, just because they failed to do a basic hands-on examination.

  • @ColorandChatwithJoanna
    @ColorandChatwithJoanna 3 місяці тому +67

    This is the best most moving interview ever! Ginny you deserve a medal of honor! I'm sure you've seen it all, but you raised Dr. Mike in so many ways, keeping him grounded, and teaching him your greatest gift, to listen, and to know when others are not listening. Your a true steel magnolia, I'm truly truly touched to meet you, thank you for a life of service and kindness and empathy.

  • @lisastoran2519
    @lisastoran2519 3 місяці тому +46

    Ginni is such a sweetheart. She truly does care about her patients. And as a patient of that office, we will miss her. We miss Dr. Mike being our Dr., because he really understands his patients and how the economics of their lives can dictate how they are cared for at some places.

  • @anophoria
    @anophoria 3 місяці тому +162

    This is such a sweet and tender video. I literally couldn't help but laugh and feel as if I was part of the conversation. As a young nurse, I find it so interesting to listen to an elderly nurse, mainly if she has such a kind vibe and the aura between her and Mike is just awesome. This video literally made it into my comfort videos playlist.
    Honestly though, hearing her talk about her experiences with him makes me a bit jealous because at the hospital i work at, doctors tend to be a bit rude and put themselves above others and stuff. (Some nurses do too but thank god my team is awesome)

    • @Yowzoe
      @Yowzoe 3 місяці тому +5

      Don't be afraid to shop around for your next position if your team gets less awesome!

    • @simonji2940
      @simonji2940 3 місяці тому +8

      Just hearing Mike being called Michael feels so motherly to me

  • @user-yt8hm4oc5r
    @user-yt8hm4oc5r 3 місяці тому +61

    Ginny is an amazing human being and nurse. awesome compliment when Dr. Mike refers to Ginny as work mom

  • @essie-j8420
    @essie-j8420 3 місяці тому +28

    An incredible career she has had. What a wonderful angel disguised as a human.
    (Dr Mike not knowing what a candy striper was, is kinda adorable)

  • @MP-ww9yn
    @MP-ww9yn 2 місяці тому +9

    A similar thing happened to my mom. She went to our family doctor complaining about her sinuses. & I'm so thankful the doctor gave her a hands on physical bc he laid her down to touch her stomach & she screamed in pain. She had a soft ball size tumor on her liver! Thank you Dr. Ackerman & Dr. Lyn for not just treating her sinus infection but giving her a full physical. It saved her life. truly! Thank you for great people that care

  • @95mudshovel
    @95mudshovel 3 місяці тому +26

    I appreciate that Mike fought for the patient to get an EKG. it feels weirdly wholesome.

  • @TsvetoslavaPopova-hf8rs
    @TsvetoslavaPopova-hf8rs 3 місяці тому +87

    My grandmother was a nurse. Hats off to these healthcare warriors!

  • @nursejoub5048
    @nursejoub5048 3 місяці тому +33

    I loved seeing such a good relationship between a nurse and a physician.
    Nursing is mostly a challenging and tiring profession that is very misunderstood by the public. It is hard on the body as well. However, there is no other work more fulfilling and ever changing. No regret from me

  • @srishttig15
    @srishttig15 3 місяці тому +40

    OMG!! This video was so wholesome for so many reasons. We know you, Dr Mike, are really good at what you do, but hearing that from your co-worker or, as you mentioned, "work mom" gives more insight into how caring you are as a doctor.
    Also, I felt the emotion when you asked her not to retire. Because we spend most of our time at work, having a healthy work environment is essential, especially when co-workers become family. It's sad to see things changing.
    This was a great interview; she is so sweet and adorable.

  • @jenreu
    @jenreu 3 місяці тому +70

    OMG every time you said Ginny, there is love in your eyes thats amazing she truly is your work mom.
    And I teared up when Ginny said " Michael my Michael figured out..." she surely is so proud of you and loves you more for helping her out of the pain.😇😇😇🌻🌻🌻😍😍😍
    I wish we had more Dr's who did the physical test and not only looked at the computer (talking from my own experience).

    • @lucilemcgregor
      @lucilemcgregor 3 місяці тому +1

      Mike - doctors often don’t believe women. It’s as simple and as complicated as that. I’ve had 9 surgeries, and every issue was dismissed until they couldn’t be ignored, including a collapsed fusion from an L-1 burst fracture.

  • @NewNurseOver50
    @NewNurseOver50 3 місяці тому +146

    Thank you for sharing this. I am a new nurse in my 50s (this is my second career). After having survived all my clinical experiences, I can say that this lovely lady is an absolute gem of a nurse. She is an inspiration.

    • @cindyj5522
      @cindyj5522 3 місяці тому +4

      I wish you the best as you navigate the polarization of medicine and human lives. You are very courageous to take this on.

    • @shelbydoughty5116
      @shelbydoughty5116 3 місяці тому +5

      How do you feel about being an older nurse? I too am looking at a second career and I would love nursing I'm just afraid of being too old

    • @NewNurseOver50
      @NewNurseOver50 3 місяці тому +5

      @@shelbydoughty5116
      You are never too old. There are so many options in the field of nursing - more than I realized before starting this. I know I had to study harder than the younglings but it is achievable. I hope you do pursue this. All the best to you.

    • @NewNurseOver50
      @NewNurseOver50 3 місяці тому

      @@cindyj5522 Thank you.

  • @amandamayfilms
    @amandamayfilms 3 місяці тому +36

    She definitely is his work mom, calling him Michael 😂

  • @ACaliangel91
    @ACaliangel91 3 місяці тому +20

    The emphasis that the nurse said about touching her back and hip is really poignant. I have chronic back pain and I saw a large number of specialists who never once did a physical exam. When a physical therapist finally looked at my hips and examined me and told me one leg is shorter than the other and recommended a heel lift, it made a dramatic difference.
    For a while afterwards I was very angry with myself and with the healthcare system. I am very glad that Dr. Mike and the nurse are emphasizing physical exams to such a wide audience.

  • @jparrish6360
    @jparrish6360 3 місяці тому +81

    She’s just like my mom 🥰 My mom was an LPN for 50 years too! I grew up going from doctor to doctor because if they didn’t do as good of a job as my mom thought they should do, didn’t know as much as she did from all her research, or didn’t treat us with the attention we deserved we would switch doctors.
    For that reason I was never scared to tell a doctor he’s full of it and find a different doctor.

  • @genuinely_lina
    @genuinely_lina 3 місяці тому +72

    Ginny!!! Honestly I’d want her to be my work mom too. She’s sounds like she’s not only sweet but fun to work with. ☺️

  • @BeebleBean
    @BeebleBean 3 місяці тому +37

    She is the nurse you want looking after you and your family! What an inspiration! I love her! ❤😊

  • @donneverae3050
    @donneverae3050 3 місяці тому +21

    Props to Ginny for giving such help to so many over such a long career! Two of my aunts were nurses during WWII, so I know something about the essential guts it takes to be a nurse. One of them made a career in the military. Her first tour of duty was WWII and her last was Vietnam. My other aunt became a nurse in what would now be called the neonatal ICU. This battle-hardened woman burnt out so badly she was discovered crying in a supply closet. She said she couldn't stand to see babies so sick and in so much pain.
    May God bless Ginny with a long and fabulous retirement. I hope you threw her a blowout retirement party.

  • @trick351
    @trick351 3 місяці тому +56

    Firstly, if cloning were legal, Miss Jenny should be the first. Everyone deserves a Jenny their doctor’s office. Secondly, the importance of nurses/candy stripers should be addressed at every med school. And lastly, when she addresses you as “Michael” says exactly how she feels about you!! Truly warms my heart.

    • @janemiettinen5176
      @janemiettinen5176 3 місяці тому +4

      You gathered all my thoughts better than I ever could, even the “Michael”-thing, which is so adorable!

  • @jacaslovania
    @jacaslovania 3 місяці тому +31

    It must have been heavy for Dr. Mike to see her 'work mom' age and retire. All the cherished moments coming to an end.
    This video was wholesome ❤
    Thank you Dr.Mike

  • @MutterallerDrachen2087
    @MutterallerDrachen2087 3 місяці тому +17

    As someone who has been a CNA since I was 18 and now works in the administration, thank you. Thank you for showing the doctor-nurse relationship. And just the love that both nurses and doctors have for each other AND the love razzing that goes on. She is amazing!

  • @maranathaschraag5757
    @maranathaschraag5757 3 місяці тому +15

    I feel her story! I had hip pain to the point i could barely walk. I had to use shooters and canes and it just sucked so much. Crying in pain, unable to walk when i used to go milesm The ortho surgeon said i wasn't a surgical candidate for my hip. It was just.....he was a hammer and i wasn't a nail.
    PT wasn't helping...very nice people, just not what i needed. One PT friend recommended a physiatrist. Hallelujah! She looked at the mri report and said "you have a labrum" (scratch inside my hip). She gave me an injection of.dextrose and my pain went grom like a 9 to a 4. Second injection a few weeks later and it was gone. She did a full assessment, asked a ton of questions. Hands down the most thorough history and examination I've ever gotten. We need more like her! (And mike, i guess....lol)
    I hate that this poor nurse had to suffer because doctors refused to do basic assessments . That's not the computer; that's just bad medicine.
    Ps....dry needling is MAGICAL! I love it! Ok. I hate it...but i love the results. Lol

  • @buschhuhn9197
    @buschhuhn9197 3 місяці тому +21

    I completely understand her reluctance to see Dr. Mike. The closer you are to colleagues the more difficult it is.

  • @LaSnob711
    @LaSnob711 3 місяці тому +53

    She's a medical professional and she couldn't get help, imagine anyone else who doesn't work for someone who cares like Mischa.
    ❤ from EU. Keep up the good work dr. Mike 😊

  • @jrauck
    @jrauck 3 місяці тому +22

    I feel her pain, after being to 12+ different doctors, all with different diagnosis and not able to resolve my problems. I’m glad that you were able to help her. She seems like a wonderful person.

    • @MacchiatoSwirlGirl
      @MacchiatoSwirlGirl 3 місяці тому

      Same problem 😢

    • @ALDCBoulevard
      @ALDCBoulevard 3 місяці тому

      Same here, and then you get accused of doctor shopping which makes new doctors mistrust you and everything gets worse

  • @DrHoangCuongMedical
    @DrHoangCuongMedical 3 місяці тому +19

    As a Oncologist, I always have a good ralationship with nurses cause I know they're trying their best to prevent patients from standing worry. ❤

  • @tiakolovos575
    @tiakolovos575 3 місяці тому +48

    I'm an LMT here in Jersey and when I hear low back pain I immediately think hips. SI joint is often missed especially among the non soft tissue specialists. So happy to hear she finally "found" a compenent doctor.

    • @karynstouffer3562
      @karynstouffer3562 3 місяці тому +4

      I can attest. My SI joints are a little hyper mobile, and I have scoliosis, so it's complicated. I know my pain originates in my hip, but damn, it sure does hit the low back hard.

    • @lenoreandreas4000
      @lenoreandreas4000 3 місяці тому

      Yes! I knew it was her SI Joint as soon as he said hip! Misdiagnosed as sciatica all the time, too, as in my case. :)

  • @user-rx1ky7xy3k
    @user-rx1ky7xy3k 3 місяці тому +49

    You can tell she is the purest soul, loved this episode ❤

  • @kendramandisa
    @kendramandisa 3 місяці тому +20

    Her getting choked up about the doctor who passed had me teary-eyed. What a sweet lady, I have no doubt that she's always been a wonderful nurse and person!! ❤ I hope she enjoys her retirement when the day comes! ❤

  • @vilmarysantiago3276
    @vilmarysantiago3276 3 місяці тому +12

    The sweetest interview. 47 yrs of nursing God Bless her ❤ you can tell she advocated for her patients.

  • @kengineer12
    @kengineer12 3 місяці тому +72

    Dr. Mike, this video resonates with me big time right now. I am 18, and I currently have a stress fracture in my hip and a large herniated disc. Like Ginny, I’ve been in debilitating pain since July and up to now. I’ve been misdiagnosed and still am on the road to figuring out how to solve this problem. I’m so young, and I feel like health professionals are not taking me seriously because of my age, yet I can’t sit, stand, or drive without screaming.
    Thank you for shedding light on this major issue!! I almost teared up watching this since I’m currently dealing with it myself. I went from being so healthy last year to being “crippled.”❤

    • @KJellyBeanut
      @KJellyBeanut 3 місяці тому +4

      I feel you, different pain but going on two and a half years now.

    • @muskanrathore6952
      @muskanrathore6952 3 місяці тому +2

      I hope you get better and find a good doctor who takes good care of you, no one deserves this, get well soon 😢😢

    • @kengineer12
      @kengineer12 3 місяці тому

      @@muskanrathore6952 thanks!!! I think I’ve found a place, but it’s definitely been slow going, unfortunately!

    • @cindyj5522
      @cindyj5522 3 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry you are struggling. I hope you can find someone to help you ASAP. Don't let anyone diss you or ignore you or reduce you and your symptoms. GWS!

    • @TiredMomma
      @TiredMomma 3 місяці тому +2

      I was a young teen when my hips started having issues I didn't understand why, I just had to say my hip was going out. I knew something was wrong and a physical therapist did an xray and checked me out to say it's the sacroilliac joints having problems. Oh, before that my primary did a type of test by having me step up on a book, bend my knees a bit, and as she began to press down on my shoulders I was to try to straighten my legs. I failed each time, and she was shorter than me, so I had a weak back and hips. Then I saw the physical therapist after that.
      Years later, a chiropractor noticed the same issue with me, and we found out something new during a basic nerve test, as in tapping on the knees and elbows. When he tapped on my right elbow, my left leg kicked up, thankfully he was standing in front of my right leg. He was suprised and confused, never saw that happen before. What might have caused that is 2 nerves overlapping or joined at one point in my upper to mid spine.
      What started all this for me was while I was having swim lessons (maybe at age 17) with a swim instructor at the YMCA. She noticed I wasn't progressing anymore and something was wrong with my legs. I'd get halfway across the pool and my legs would just stop, or one leg would stop.
      Now age 36, I know what stretches to do, and when my back has hit its limit.
      I'm thankful I can still do some chores and walk around, but sometimes my hips want 3-5 days of rest. I had more good days last year after going strict on my low sodium/low fat diet, tho that's not a cure for my issues, I just had more energy and more alert when I eat healthy. Sadly I can't do dairy it seems, so having less calcium is possibly causing dental issues and my back is starting to crack or grind more. I began asking for a wheelchair 2yrs ago, I could barely get out of bed. I need to, I want to, last 1 more year before that happens.

  • @lineprestkvrn9014
    @lineprestkvrn9014 3 місяці тому +46

    This is true; we, as Nurses, are always the advocate of our patient. We take care of their health, their rights, their care, their safety and overall well being. And as such, there will be discussions, objections, taking actions and involving other professions. Even going up in chain to get what You need for Your patient. Oh, I was a warrior. I respectfully disagreed and made my reasons clear. One of the doctors actually started asking me what I thought and would suggest before making a decision of care or medication of any of my patients if I was on duty that day. I suppose I made him a bit fearful. 😂 Now I am disabled, but I remember my job as fulfilling, demanding and filled with love and laughter.

    • @cindyj5522
      @cindyj5522 3 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for your service because what you did for others was as great a thing as any soldier did in my view. Decades long with lives in your hands. Saving, comforting, caring for and loving people through difficult times as well as joyous ones.

  • @pencilsniper
    @pencilsniper 3 місяці тому +6

    Dr. Mike... If you were to ever do narrations on the Calm app, I'd listen to them every night because your voice is so gentle and reassuring and easy to fall asleep to.

  • @Angie-zw8mo
    @Angie-zw8mo Місяць тому +3

    I am seeing a very dedicated and loving nurse, thank you for your wonderful service you deserve the best vacations ever!!

  • @cosmo1505
    @cosmo1505 3 місяці тому +276

    My grandmother who was a nurse felt the same way about doctors, she did not trust them.

    • @jparrish6360
      @jparrish6360 3 місяці тому +8

      I think that’s true of most nurses. My mom was the same

    • @oki__
      @oki__ 3 місяці тому

      Then they’d know to not trust nurses either, they’re the most known for being bullies to both patients & colleagues

    • @oki__
      @oki__ 3 місяці тому +17

      Don’t start fear mongering like a lot of jaded nurses like to do. You should trust one doctors opinion as much as you trust a quote. The same way no one’s trusting one nurse to necessarily be as good @ injections as the next - their job criteria is to do the procedure, you’ll get varying results depending on each person

    • @cosmo1505
      @cosmo1505 3 місяці тому

      Nobody is fearmongering. Apparently there are a lot of nurses feel that way about doctors, and rightfully so. Unfortunately, there are doctors out there that give bad advice.@@oki__

    • @LGBTQLegend
      @LGBTQLegend 3 місяці тому +13

      My mother was a nurse and stood up to a few doctors who were wrong but she never felt distrusting of all doctors. I would never want to live in a country where health care providers fight with each other regularly.

  • @Amanda-zn7ox
    @Amanda-zn7ox 3 місяці тому +22

    I was hoping for a little story about when Mike's mom passed because I imagine Ginny was there for that. Especially with her referred to as his "work mom." Either way, what a delightful relationship these two have. We need more medical professionals like them in the world. And I will try to emulate their demeanor once I step into the pharmacy technician field.

    • @udntknomeXX
      @udntknomeXX 3 місяці тому +4

      He has a vid talking about when his mom passed. He was still young (ish).

  • @cytavares
    @cytavares 3 місяці тому +20

    What a sweet wise lady, I wonder how many people she's helped. I loved Mike's attitude towards her and the conversation as well, so polite and respectful. ❤

  • @Kbenhamu
    @Kbenhamu 3 місяці тому +7

    I loooved and it melted my heart every time she called him “Michael” or “my Michael” I loved this podcast. Thank you!!

  • @perennialgypsy6491
    @perennialgypsy6491 3 місяці тому +13

    She’s is an absolute Angel😭💗she’s such a wonderful human being😭❤️💖

  • @sandyedwards2681
    @sandyedwards2681 3 місяці тому +21

    @DoctorMike this is such a good conversation to hear. And after a major motor vehicle accident and lots of soft tissue damage, I know what it’s like to see lots of specialists who neglect hands on examination in any meaningful way. Thank you for shining light on this. I hope other doctors are listening.

  • @maryroseleivas8236
    @maryroseleivas8236 3 місяці тому +8

    What an actual GEM of a human. She’s so humble and kind. I can see why so many patients ask for her! We would only be so lucky.

  • @thisisme1999
    @thisisme1999 3 місяці тому +17

    My brother suffered for years with leg pain problems, lots of tests and they could not find anything wrong until one doctor finally ordered tests on his hip and they discovered that his hip joint had worn right down and he ended up with hip surgery. Doing much better now and many fewer pain pills are needed and he is able to do so many more of his old activities. He was lucky he got a doctor who cared enough to look a little further.

  • @ciaracorreia2180
    @ciaracorreia2180 3 місяці тому +18

    I work as a medical coding specialist for UW Health and our doctors also don't enjoy us messaging them to finish up things however, the organization as a whole is pushing for efficiency and quickness. It's hard and frustrating sometimes. I'm happy she was willing to share her story and life. Thank you to both of you for all that you do!

  • @kadambariprasad208
    @kadambariprasad208 3 місяці тому +4

    “It’s the computer” you know that’s such a profound and important observation given her experience and wisdom of nearly 50 years. It might sound like just a rant but she has some very amazing insights for anyone willing to listen. She’s not just blaming technology and unwilling to adapt. It can be easy to miss.

  • @lexharding9908
    @lexharding9908 3 місяці тому +37

    She is SUCH a nice lady
    She’s so beautiful. She’s a hard working nurse
    Edit: THANK YOU SO MUCH IVE NEVER GOTTEN THIS MANY LIKES 🥹🥹🥹

    • @lexharding9908
      @lexharding9908 3 місяці тому +1

      O my gosh dr mike thank you for liking my comment!!!!
      Ps: you should do an a live show in Salt Lake City please❤❤❤❤❤

  • @bayoubabe6698
    @bayoubabe6698 Місяць тому +1

    I miss Nurses and Doctors like this-they obviously care about the patients!! Sounds like they listen and they don’t dismiss the patients. Imagine that!!! Thank you so much 🥰

  • @kyrielovesthelord
    @kyrielovesthelord 3 місяці тому +3

    As a physical therapist, I LOVE changing nurses minds who think physical therapy won't work! So thankful for good physicians like Dr Mike, redeeming the medical field.

  • @dawn-xc9sk
    @dawn-xc9sk 3 місяці тому +16

    Ginni is the most caring, genuine soul I have ever had the privilege of working with …❤

  • @christinesteadman7939
    @christinesteadman7939 3 місяці тому +13

    What a fantastic, loving, respectful interview. Such wisdom she shared with him. So thankful she allowed him to treat her & it was successful. I also am a retired nurse from her generation & have witnessed these changes. Dr Mike you have a big heart

  • @DNAConsultingDetectives
    @DNAConsultingDetectives 3 місяці тому +8

    I'm a huge proponent of PT. I've had to PUSH with my docs for PT MANY times. I get the "Well, it won't help, but if you want to, fine." I've been going to the same (hospital based) PT clinic off and on for years as I have multiple neurological conditions. PT has helped every time. They have helped with many different issues and I couldn't be more grateful to get back mobility and my life!

  • @tahudack7785
    @tahudack7785 2 дні тому +1

    Dr. Mike as a descendent of Clara Barton, I just wanted to give you a little back story. Clara was born Christmas day 1821 and passed away April 12, 1912. She was first a school teacher for over a decade before becoming the principal of the growing school. She was sadly replaced with a man because the school board did not think a woman could handle that position. When the American Civil War started she was delivering supplies and recognized many of the soldiers hurt because she either grew up with them or taught them. She eventually became a battlefield aid to the surgeons and doctors and was a one point appointed to assist at the front lines. After the war Clara ran the Office of Missing Soldiers, helping families learn about what happened to their servicemen. Clara later traveled the country and world lecturing on what she saw and learned. At one of those lectures in Switzerland learned of the Red Cross and met Dr. Appia. Dr. Appia invited her to start the American branch of the Red Cross which she did. She worked on the board until she was 83 years old. She died at 90 of pneumonia. Just a little history lesson for you! Tracy Barton Hudack

  • @michelebpinckney
    @michelebpinckney 3 місяці тому +88

    Let’s all appreciate how much work he puts into his videos

  • @ms.inspiration385
    @ms.inspiration385 3 місяці тому +9

    This was the BEST interview. It's very inspiring. She is a helluva lady & nurse. God Bless her in her retirement. ❤️

  • @JnWmMatt
    @JnWmMatt 23 дні тому +2

    My favorite medical staff are nurses. Dx of bc, surgeries for too many things, the nurses advocated for me when they saw I didn't speak up to the doctors.❤

  • @zme2712
    @zme2712 2 місяці тому +1

    She's from the era that my old family doctor was from. Dr Rose was amazing, a true hands on family doctor, he knew me from the womb and took everything i said seriously even as a teen. He would draw diagrams and explain everything, he passed away in 2017 and i doubt i will ever find a doctor like him again.

  • @AbstractOddity
    @AbstractOddity 3 місяці тому +13

    I’m so proud to have doctors and nurses like you two at overlooking which is our local hospital. It’s where I was born and my sister and her children. Thank you for all you do.

  • @TruHeart0306
    @TruHeart0306 3 місяці тому +3

    This is so darn sweet!!! You’re very lucky to have had that kind of relationship with someone!

  • @ericap6718
    @ericap6718 3 місяці тому

    What a blessing you two are to so many people!! This was a great interview. I wish there were many other doctors who cared for people the way you do! ❤❤️

  • @lindastafford6391
    @lindastafford6391 3 місяці тому +1

    That was adorable. Kudos for highlighting an important person in your life, both professionally and personally.

  • @lucilemcgregor
    @lucilemcgregor 3 місяці тому +9

    In 2018, my husband was admitted to hospital. As the nurse was getting him processed, an obviously young doctor came into the room with his head bowed. He proceeded to apologize to the nurse, he had recommended something which the nurse objected to. Turns out, nurse was correct. I asked how often she gets an apology from residents. Her reply was « not often enough »

  • @emmaobrie3012
    @emmaobrie3012 3 місяці тому +7

    I love how she keeps calling him Michael🥺 a true work mom!

  • @mmaseamoga
    @mmaseamoga 2 місяці тому

    this is so heartwarming. to see how special your relationship is and how you ended up being the biggest help to Ms Ginny...heartwarming 🥺

  • @TheMintoncynthia
    @TheMintoncynthia 3 місяці тому +1

    She's the sweetest I love her ... this makes me want to cry

  • @manuelastockel9440
    @manuelastockel9440 3 місяці тому +10

    You are so empathetic and kind, I admire you

  • @carinaroybal884
    @carinaroybal884 3 місяці тому +13

    This was the most wholesome interview I've seen in a long time. Thank you for sharing!

  • @georgiefreeman69
    @georgiefreeman69 3 місяці тому +7

    I love her, she is the mom we all need in our bad times.

  • @jeanettedz86
    @jeanettedz86 3 місяці тому +1

    I have watched every single Dr. Mike video and podcast and this is #1 for me! Please make more like this and with regular people (fans, people with chronic illnesses, etc.). But definitely my favorite thus far! Awesome job!

  • @estelerundil4497
    @estelerundil4497 3 місяці тому +3

    Her honesty. Thank God for nurses who have the courage to speak up and say what they think. Doctors and patients need the truth they can tell us.

  • @maryrumble8680
    @maryrumble8680 3 місяці тому +8

    Loved this❤️ You can feel the love and respect they have for each other.

  • @meganblankinship
    @meganblankinship 3 місяці тому

    She is such a gem, thank you for sharing her with with us ❤

  • @Mmcay
    @Mmcay 3 місяці тому

    I love this! And I love the way you both are with each other. We need people who care. People like you both. ❤

  • @Lazychick83
    @Lazychick83 3 місяці тому +8

    Wow that many drs and no exams, that’s so awful! I’m glad u helped her. We need more doctors like you!

  • @Beautuiful_Happy28
    @Beautuiful_Happy28 3 місяці тому +5

    “We are all stories in the end, just make it a good one”
    ― The Doctor
    This was a good one😊

  • @fannyp1378
    @fannyp1378 3 місяці тому

    Such an imperative and beautiful video to be shared.❤🙏 Thank you, Ginni and Dr. Mike.

  • @oliverer3
    @oliverer3 3 місяці тому

    This was very comforting to listen to, your relationship is an inspiration.

  • @prossywanyana9553
    @prossywanyana9553 3 місяці тому +8

    She talks with love and compassion. We need more of her in hospitals. ❤

  • @willow.rayne6
    @willow.rayne6 3 місяці тому +3

    I love this, your relationship is so beautiful. She is the absolute sweetest

  • @andree-annblais9221
    @andree-annblais9221 3 місяці тому +1

    Ohhh what an amazing one on one talk ! What a sweet lady. We can ear the love, the respect and the gratitude between you two !