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  • @JasonSavorn
    @JasonSavorn 9 місяців тому +1407

    1) guard your past
    2) face the fear of being alone
    3) manage your time wisely
    4) celebrate your achievements
    5) safeguard your mental health
    6) be true to yourself
    7) don’t sacrifice your life for someone else
    8) prioritize your relationships with friends and family
    9) avoid obsessive devotion

    • @JonTheDestroyer
      @JonTheDestroyer 9 місяців тому +119

      I've literally fucked up all of these area in every relationship

    • @provost5752
      @provost5752 9 місяців тому +59

      @@JonTheDestroyer We all have.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +30

      ❤️

    • @HVACtuner
      @HVACtuner 9 місяців тому

      And dont spend time with such a bullshit vids like this...

    • @beesknees6970
      @beesknees6970 9 місяців тому +26

      @@provost5752 I think I've become the master at f--king up.

  • @alphamale3141
    @alphamale3141 9 місяців тому +1014

    I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck.

    • @MichaelBoltonsEntireCatalog
      @MichaelBoltonsEntireCatalog 9 місяців тому +78

      Buck then s**t in her shoes and ran away, as it was easier for him to hide and kill his own food.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +26

      ❤️

    • @Number6_
      @Number6_ 9 місяців тому +19

      And her name was Kelly. At no time was she buck naked.

    • @mack8488
      @mack8488 9 місяців тому +21

      Buck off........😊

    • @DustinWilton-l1h
      @DustinWilton-l1h 9 місяців тому +19

      So you told her to go Buck Herself! Lol

  • @bassaniobrokenhart5045
    @bassaniobrokenhart5045 9 місяців тому +294

    As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +5

      ❤️

    • @alexcerdan4500
      @alexcerdan4500 9 місяців тому +19

      I broke them all also, and I felt like a fool years after. Listen up young men.

    • @JSRF420
      @JSRF420 9 місяців тому +9

      I'm 34 and just had a bad break up. I'm hoping it is not too late for me.

    • @vipinkoul595
      @vipinkoul595 9 місяців тому +4

      God bless you

    • @earlharrell7750
      @earlharrell7750 9 місяців тому +10

      ​@@JSRF420It's NEVER too late to do better! I failed for many years with relationships until I started to love and respect myself more. My current life is not perfect, but my self esteem is in a much, much better place. Don't give up!

  • @vernondavis561
    @vernondavis561 10 місяців тому +1178

    “Women want the authority of a man…the privileges of a woman…and the accountability of a child”.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +30

      ❤️

    • @josephbournes1039
      @josephbournes1039 10 місяців тому +15

      Grate information

    • @briancummings535
      @briancummings535 9 місяців тому +14

      Wow! 👌

    • @LyingEyes-t3m
      @LyingEyes-t3m 9 місяців тому +46

      Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”

    • @man3429
      @man3429 9 місяців тому +17

      Golden words .

  • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
    @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 6 місяців тому +785

    Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 6 місяців тому +5

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 6 місяців тому +5

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

    • @linamoon-mi7wd
      @linamoon-mi7wd 6 місяців тому +4

      Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @edwardclarkson-ph1kl
      @edwardclarkson-ph1kl 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  6 місяців тому +20

      I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. It's tough to let go of someone you deeply care about. Right now, it's important to allow yourself to grieve and accept your feelings rather than pushing them away. Reach out to friends or family members who can support you during this time; talking about your emotions can help lessen the burden. Try to immerse yourself in activities you enjoy or explore new hobbies to keep your mind occupied. It might be helpful to see a therapist, who can provide a safe space to process your emotions and guide you through this difficult period. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel lost and hurt. Focus on self-care, be patient with yourself, and slowly, you'll start to find your way forward again. Even though it feels impossible now, life can and will get better.

  • @williamknopic7915
    @williamknopic7915 9 місяців тому +72

    Wisdom comes with maturity.
    I have learned all these things and am comfortable, content and happy being alone. I often tell people I came into this world without anyone or anything and will leave the same way. You will too.

    • @metalheart80s
      @metalheart80s 9 місяців тому +6

      Only one being in the whole world is the exception : our mothers. You were not alone, she was there for you. That’s the only exception to the rule. God bless

    • @crazyhorse2995
      @crazyhorse2995 9 місяців тому

      I paid mine back by not once ever setting foot in a courtroom. I didnt want t let her down.​@@metalheart80s

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  8 місяців тому

      ❤️

    • @kars6026
      @kars6026 8 місяців тому

      Have you ever tried dating a men? According to science men dating men makes you happier. So give it a shot

    • @geraldrozen1797
      @geraldrozen1797 7 місяців тому +2

      Wisdom comes with research and knowledge.Do the work.

  • @rubenk1414
    @rubenk1414 10 місяців тому +167

    Never make a doormat of yourself be the Door

  • @jderoma4382
    @jderoma4382 6 місяців тому +18

    I did not realize the meaning of #2 until after my divorce. After a rebound relationship i swore off dating for 4 years and just focused on my career, myself and my young adult children. It was exactly what I needed and will never regret it. Today, I am in a wonderful relationship with a woman who truly appreciates me, is very patient, and is her own person.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  6 місяців тому +1

      ❤️

    • @2maikoto261
      @2maikoto261 6 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for your support!

    • @biggiedondon292
      @biggiedondon292 4 місяці тому

      GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531

  • @1Tomrider
    @1Tomrider 9 місяців тому +95

    Excellent information - it borders on tragic how much so many people are willing to sacrifice for so little return and often no return at all, only erosion!

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +4

      ❤️

    • @matthewplehn4271
      @matthewplehn4271 9 місяців тому +5

      Try and figure out how long it took to learn Agriculture..or Animal Husbandry, it wasnt overnight. More like Thousands of Years..they sacrificed their time, effort and happiness to affect a new way of living. Maybe they should have given up after a few centuries with little or no return...sacrifice is sacrifice, in a field or in your own House.

    • @biggiedondon292
      @biggiedondon292 4 місяці тому

      GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531

  • @sandburgmartin7947
    @sandburgmartin7947 9 місяців тому +39

    It's appreciated how "by chance" you find something like this installment on the very weekend it is situationally most helpful.

  • @Exxeron-ob3tv
    @Exxeron-ob3tv 9 місяців тому +128

    Guard you past - Because they are not interested in you so much as in what information they might gather to use against you.

  • @easter_sunday
    @easter_sunday 10 місяців тому +236

    I consistently share these types of videos. If feminism is a sickness, stoicism is the answer.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +15

      But you know what? In ancient times, the naked was considered beautiful. There are also statues of naked men. ❤️

    • @easter_sunday
      @easter_sunday 10 місяців тому +14

      @@TheStoicismHubTM IT's not the form that is offensive. It is what people do with the form in the name of degeneracy, usury, and gratification that is offensive.

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 10 місяців тому

      @@easter_sunday Personally, I'm not interested in seeing naked dudes =)

    • @studyAt6
      @studyAt6 10 місяців тому +10

      stoicism , its not outspoken enough. High outspoken unapologetic Masculinity is the Answer !

    • @mcmerry2846
      @mcmerry2846 9 місяців тому +3

      Redpillers are also clowns

  • @onajiemmanuel1396
    @onajiemmanuel1396 10 місяців тому +66

    Literally just downloaded this...m gonna play it everyday (morning and evening) for a week cheers to everyone else watching this...!!

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +3

      ❤️

    • @RileyGagnon-ih2td
      @RileyGagnon-ih2td 9 місяців тому

      Pls how do you download UA-cam videos

    • @ClaytonFenton-p5w
      @ClaytonFenton-p5w 9 місяців тому

      If you don't know how to download it, you can save the link and add it to your favorites. @@RileyGagnon-ih2td

  • @yg-my2ro
    @yg-my2ro 9 місяців тому +25

    This philosophy can open your mind to new horizon,
    not many people seems interested though.
    I enjoyed it. It’s refreshing and mine opening.

  • @greymatters14
    @greymatters14 9 місяців тому +24

    Brilliant and concise. I appreciate this reminder/video. Thank you.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you sir 💕
      Please subscribe our channel and hit the bell button.🔔 Every day many helpful videos are uploaded on this channel 🙌

  • @ImperfectWisdom
    @ImperfectWisdom 9 місяців тому +29

    “You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” ― Marcus Aurelius
    👍 GREAT VIDEO! 👏Thanks for the valuable insights! 🌟

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +2

      ❤️

    • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
      @TheStoicBeacon-TGG 18 днів тому

      Thank you for sharing this video! It's interesting how Marcus Aurelius' words remind us that true power lies within our control over our thoughts and reactions, rather than external events. When it comes to relationships, how do you think we can apply Stoic principles to maintain inner strength and clarity in the face of emotional challenges? Would love to hear your thoughts on this!

  • @rajeshberepalli2604
    @rajeshberepalli2604 3 місяці тому +8

    I loved a woman, and I was ready to change anything about me for her. She always takes me for granted, and she is always comparing me with others in terms of looks and dressing style, and money. I was never happy with her constant comparison with others and i know i am earning decent and my next goals are aligned with my timeline. Finally I broke up with her and moving according to my plan, now I am happy and prosperous. Thank god, I made a great decision to leave her, i will never regret that decision, so far in my life, that's the best decision I have made in my life. now I got back my peace and after reaching my next goal within a year, i will marry someone who understands me and respects me, i will definitely respect her and treat her with utmost respect.

  • @ronniesen2522
    @ronniesen2522 9 місяців тому +121

    I'm 64, this is really good advice. Pay attention Young man.

    • @ronniesen2522
      @ronniesen2522 9 місяців тому +3

      Listen to this at least twice and write down how each applies to your own life.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +3

      Thank you sir 💕
      Please subscribe our channel and hit the bell button.🔔 Every day many helpful videos are uploaded on this channel 🙌

    • @Unknownmanufacturer
      @Unknownmanufacturer 9 місяців тому +3

      Age is clearly not a good predictor of wisdom.

    • @fungames24
      @fungames24 6 місяців тому

      @@Unknownmanufacturer Mistakes are good predictor of wisdom. In the end, one could end up with nothing except wisdom. Too much wisdom means they don't worth a dime.

  • @JugglesGrenades
    @JugglesGrenades 10 місяців тому +169

    Number 10: Never give them your credit card and tell her to return it when she's done. 😲

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +10

      ❤️

    • @sujithshetty9745
      @sujithshetty9745 10 місяців тому +9

      😂😂😂😅😅😅😅

    • @williamriedel1686
      @williamriedel1686 10 місяців тому +4

      Huh?

    • @jackmewhalle6937
      @jackmewhalle6937 9 місяців тому +25

      11 if they ever cheat on you no matter how much they beg and cry do not take them back. Because if you do they know that they can get away with it. And they will do it at every opportunity that they get.

    • @notacompleteidiot...1285
      @notacompleteidiot...1285 9 місяців тому +1

      *Never give them your credit card.
      Fixed.

  • @StoicMindset2025
    @StoicMindset2025 18 днів тому +1

    Epictetus’s idea of focusing on our own actions is life-changing.”

  • @CyberDV
    @CyberDV 9 місяців тому +24

    I needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @edwardpetersen4309
    @edwardpetersen4309 5 місяців тому +2

    After listening to this video and reading the comments, I have to thank you Stoicism Hub for providing a group therapy session for men. We usually don't engage in this way . . . at least in modern society. In tribal times, men sat around the campfire and shared experiences, insight and wisdom, This was a profound forum.

  • @joshuablack8221
    @joshuablack8221 9 місяців тому +17

    I agree with all except number 1. Sharing your past struggles and how you overcame is often a source of hope and motivation for others; of someone somehow wants to use it against you, that’s on them, you can’t worry about that cuz you should own all of who you are and never run from it or feel shame because if you have progressed and are a better person today, it should not matter 💯

  • @iamsuperb3714
    @iamsuperb3714 9 місяців тому +37

    making it about women doesn’t justify just how much wisdom has been shared here 🎉

  • @fromearth6896
    @fromearth6896 9 місяців тому +27

    The title and the photo is misleading. This is about yourself with nothing to do with the title.

  • @RealStoicSage
    @RealStoicSage 9 місяців тому +130

    "Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +2

      ❤️

    • @BalanCoach
      @BalanCoach 9 місяців тому +3

      Nice one! All men should know and moreover, do this.

    • @biggiedondon292
      @biggiedondon292 4 місяці тому

      GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP 0838807531

  • @oldskoolempire6314
    @oldskoolempire6314 9 місяців тому +10

    Woooooow, am so glad this randomly popped up in my feed, and that I actually clicked it 🎉 it's a gem for all ❤

  • @TheEssenceofStoicism0
    @TheEssenceofStoicism0 3 місяці тому +1

    The channel encourages me to look back at myself, helping me recognize what needs to change in my life

  • @khasi441
    @khasi441 9 місяців тому +12

    My girl knows everything about me...and the same i also... we shared everything there's nothing in secret,,,,we trust, support, share,and love one another... we've been in a relationship right from 2015.. both side of our parents have come to know about this but they are happy they just guide us to be on the right path 😊❤

    • @kjensen7819
      @kjensen7819 9 місяців тому +6

      8 years ... Let's hear from you in 25 years.

    • @duane5039
      @duane5039 9 місяців тому +1

      You got lucky most women aren’t like that.

    • @sriharshaujjani1692
      @sriharshaujjani1692 9 місяців тому +2

      wait till time exposes the true person.

    • @achaljoshi402
      @achaljoshi402 9 місяців тому +4

      Congratulations and wish you the best, buddy. You seem to be a good soul. May I add -not cynically - that just because I've been driving a car for 8years without accident doesn't REALLY mean God is watching over me and that I can ignore safety procedures/behaviours which is exactly what this video is about.
      You can do BOTH.
      Like a wise Arab once said: trust in God, but tie your camel first😊

    • @chriswelder9676
      @chriswelder9676 9 місяців тому +3

      Why isn't she your WIFE?

  • @juliochingaling5824
    @juliochingaling5824 9 місяців тому +15

    Excellent video, wise words. Blessings.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +3

      Thank you sir 💕
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  • @Herknungr
    @Herknungr 9 місяців тому +10

    A great video for young men who are not sure of themselves in life, at the same time for young women who trying to find the right man.

  • @stoicismphilosophy178
    @stoicismphilosophy178 Місяць тому +1

    "When you know you are enough, you no longer depend on anything external."

  • @chrishall8636
    @chrishall8636 9 місяців тому +9

    Im now old enough to fully understand and follow this but when i was young i was only able to understand this, not follow. Hormones, energy, optimism, not enough (bad) experiences etc

  • @StoicWisdom-3368
    @StoicWisdom-3368 4 місяці тому +1

    This video truly opened my mind to how Stoicism can be applied to relationships. The lesson about valuing your own time and not wasting it on undeserving relationships is really thought-provoking. Thank you for the amazing insights!

  • @chrisnsefu
    @chrisnsefu 9 місяців тому +7

    True indeed.Thanks,I am inspired

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

      Thank you sir 💕
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  • @ChrisHewitt-ps3sn
    @ChrisHewitt-ps3sn 9 місяців тому +160

    My partner was in the background and had been listening. She has now banned me from using the internet for a month.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +8

      ❤️

    • @julienrocher1
      @julienrocher1 9 місяців тому +38

      You need another partner. She is controlling you!

    • @daviddiaz1606
      @daviddiaz1606 9 місяців тому +34

      Now I know who wears the dress in your relationship😂😂😂

    • @Hiazhunter
      @Hiazhunter 9 місяців тому +22

      Dude, you need to grow a pair.

    • @jaredbawden6707
      @jaredbawden6707 9 місяців тому +11

      That's fuel to keep watching if you ask me. She's scared to lose her power over you.

  • @FitzroyStewart-jo7tq
    @FitzroyStewart-jo7tq 10 місяців тому +15

    Great information! This applies to smart women also. Not only men.....

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому

      Yes they do

    • @andrewcarlson2178
      @andrewcarlson2178 10 місяців тому

      Some of it, not all of it. Much of this is not feminine nature. Remember thatt they're not the same as us and this is good. Their differences, strengths and weaknesses balance ours. Part of the downfall of Western society is the emasculation of men and masculinization of women.

  • @TheCraftExplorer-k7k
    @TheCraftExplorer-k7k 8 днів тому

    Your insights often feel like they come at the perfect time

  • @grahamisamah6701
    @grahamisamah6701 10 місяців тому +15

    Thankyou full of wisdom

  • @RodgerHuse-bq1pr
    @RodgerHuse-bq1pr 3 місяці тому

    I really enjoy these Stoic Teachings. Great content and helps me to remember my past teaching. Selfworth, inner happiness, no one can take it from you. Not being cut off from the world or being distant, just realizing your inner worth and it is non-negotiable for some one else to try and take it. How to take a breath and not react. Seneca and Marcus Aurelius taught many great things. Socrotes, Plato, Aristotle, also. This channel carries on the Stoicism that we need. Thank you for the content. Im pushing the like button, subscribing and being a patron.

  • @Abeynoble
    @Abeynoble 9 місяців тому +4

    Awesome eyeopener and mind opening video. Thanks

  • @PhilosophIQ
    @PhilosophIQ 8 місяців тому +23

    God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference

  • @StoicDawn
    @StoicDawn 9 місяців тому +1

    nice video! good job mate

  • @agatoncolango6083
    @agatoncolango6083 9 місяців тому +28

    Number 7 is a cardinal principle in handling women. I was a victim of a manipulative woman which I mistook for love and paid the price of servitude. Only when I was cheated upon did I realize my mistake.

  • @MacmilanMtero
    @MacmilanMtero 5 місяців тому

    This is so inspiring and helpful.. Thank you so much i needed that

  • @sadiqali41
    @sadiqali41 9 місяців тому +4

    Very valid and useful information ❤

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

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  • @maulrat588
    @maulrat588 9 місяців тому +11

    Seems to apply to anyone and everyone not just "men doing with women" there is zero applicability to these wisdoms specifically to inter-sex relationships.

  • @protimanath3413
    @protimanath3413 10 місяців тому +8

    Excellent representation of moral dialogue .

  • @davidmartin1015
    @davidmartin1015 7 місяців тому +2

    I’m 78 and have been wed to the same woman well over 50 years , we get along pretty well and are pretty bonded and matched I guess. One observation I would make is that it very easy when you try to do things right to be taken for granted.

  • @IkramNabi-r9i
    @IkramNabi-r9i 9 місяців тому +5

    Brilliant information for self building on sound principles ❤

  • @H.Brett1
    @H.Brett1 9 місяців тому +5

    Needed to see this reminder right now

  • @emmagoodwin2790
    @emmagoodwin2790 9 місяців тому +9

    This advice is good for both men and women. It seems to be most relevant for young people without children. I would add to number three 'use your time to judiciously on activites that bring you happiness, foster personal growth and satisfy your soul' AND take good care of any children you have created... again ' don't compromise your path for someone elses..' Parents give up their joy, time, health and sometime their very life - for their children. People do this for their town/ kin / families. Stoicism might be relevant for young people who are fooling around... (?).. but it is not the best advice for all people, all through their lives.

  • @sandyperumal6042
    @sandyperumal6042 9 місяців тому +8

    Thank u very powerful words

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

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  • @FatherFH
    @FatherFH 9 місяців тому +20

    The price of a smile is a tear.

  • @StoicWisdomyt5
    @StoicWisdomyt5 8 місяців тому +2

    Stoicism's emphasis on humility and gratitude has enriched my life in countless ways."

  • @charlessasu3604
    @charlessasu3604 10 місяців тому +10

    Wonderful thanks .

  • @grenaleo
    @grenaleo 9 місяців тому +2

    I suffered from every single one, but here I am now with all nine of these qualities

  • @DJ-ty3sx
    @DJ-ty3sx 9 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much ❤
    Very inspiring ❤

  • @TheStoicPath-q5e
    @TheStoicPath-q5e Місяць тому

    The video is beautiful. Best wishes.❤❤

  • @BechungMeheshu
    @BechungMeheshu 9 місяців тому +4

    If I follow this 9 step deeply surely I will compromise with self. thank U for remembering the moral though of Aristotle..❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому +1

      ❤️

    • @TheStoicPath-t9r
      @TheStoicPath-t9r 2 місяці тому

      Absolutely! Embracing those steps will definitely lead to profound self-reflection. Aristotle’s insights are timeless. If you're interested in exploring more about personal growth and ethical living, I dive deeper into these themes in my content. It’s always inspiring to connect over such valuable philosophies!

  • @FCK223
    @FCK223 7 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the update brother, we Realy Appreciate 👏🙏👍

  • @sirusjohnsepar4248
    @sirusjohnsepar4248 9 місяців тому +3

    Wonderful 😂❤ very informative
    Thanks so much
    Sirus London

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      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

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  • @JOHNCHENSJCA
    @JOHNCHENSJCA 5 місяців тому +1

    Some great advice, I would temper it by suggesting also to avoid journeying into narcissism. The context is relationships with women, makes most sense on that topic.

  • @rshoe1023
    @rshoe1023 6 місяців тому +3

    My friend base is at an all time low, mainly because the ones I have distanced myself from have shown their true colors to me and I no longer want to be a part of what they are about! It's very hard to find a loyal and true friend anymore! I'm sure it's not me either! I don't have unreasonable standards! I really like these types of videos, they are very informative!

  • @LancerMyMan
    @LancerMyMan 5 місяців тому

    I have been following these throughout most of my last 30 years and believe that I have been far better for it.

  • @dalmar1985
    @dalmar1985 9 місяців тому +9

    New subscriber, thanks for this valuable information

  • @MrRedFrost
    @MrRedFrost 7 днів тому

    Wow very interesting video for my life

  • @chifunirochikafumbwa1212
    @chifunirochikafumbwa1212 9 місяців тому +3

    This is very significant information to a young man like me. I appreciate

  • @VincentZevecke
    @VincentZevecke 13 днів тому

    I want to thank you, because I bring up my past too much. I put this statement in my little journal.

  • @jarmstrong2843
    @jarmstrong2843 9 місяців тому +6

    To avoid issues discussed here, be wise in the person you have a relationship with. No relationship is worth compromising the value of another. Watch how the other person treats people. For instance, if they are rude, critical and demanding of wait staff, the same will happen to you. Look for someone who is caring, polite and considerate. Remember physical beauty is only skin deep. If a handsome man or beautiful woman are rude, self centered, impolite, inconsiderate, their ugliness is to the bone. Run away from them.

  • @ZabiHadees
    @ZabiHadees 9 місяців тому +2

    amazing video, which software you used for voice over? please

  • @Tye-g9s
    @Tye-g9s 10 місяців тому +4

    Definitely need to apply this 9

  • @JSRF420
    @JSRF420 9 місяців тому +2

    I'm doing my best to move forward.
    Idk how, but I am doing what I can.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

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  • @dephkhan1833
    @dephkhan1833 10 місяців тому +139

    cover photo for this video is kinda wild

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +8

      ❤️

    • @Rihla_a-z
      @Rihla_a-z 10 місяців тому

      ​@TheStoicismHubTM oh, so you don't speak English either! Just using AI to do it all for you cause you're not smart at all.

    • @dennissalinas704
      @dennissalinas704 10 місяців тому +5

      I'll totally have that statue as a welcoming present to myself each time i come home 🤪

    • @carlossakyi2391
      @carlossakyi2391 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@@TheStoicismHubTM❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @dimeandbiggie353
      @dimeandbiggie353 9 місяців тому +5

      What's wrong wit it? 😂

  • @nebra77t92
    @nebra77t92 4 місяці тому +1

    Just what I need to hear

  • @EdwardDuffin
    @EdwardDuffin 10 місяців тому +4

    I’m glad I found this video it makes a great deal of sense. Thank you

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому

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  • @lilianaloo4089
    @lilianaloo4089 10 місяців тому +13

    Applies to both men n women; relationships in general.

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +1

      ❤️

    • @Un.kno.wn_evil
      @Un.kno.wn_evil 10 місяців тому +2

      Nope, not necessarily, women and men are different + women's se.uality is always different from men's se.uality

  • @AllTheBestCO
    @AllTheBestCO 13 днів тому

    Valuable insight

  • @RayAtkins-wk9zv
    @RayAtkins-wk9zv 10 місяців тому +5

    Sounds good makes sense 👌

  • @alchemyglasslabs4202
    @alchemyglasslabs4202 5 місяців тому +1

    It’s been hard for my spouse to date a stoic man but she has literally said non stop “ your like no man I’ve ever been with, I didn’t know what a real man was.” An more men …. Stoicism is needed in this world

  • @nasserusman8056
    @nasserusman8056 10 місяців тому +7

    Thank you very much for the great information ♥️👍👍

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому +1

      ❤️

    • @Dahliakittykat
      @Dahliakittykat 9 місяців тому

      I hope this information does not cause men to push away the women who truly love them.

  • @jaexperience9357
    @jaexperience9357 9 місяців тому +2

    I needed this ❤

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

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  • @Melanie-on2vj
    @Melanie-on2vj 10 місяців тому +14

    And vise versa. Why couldn't I have learned this before destroying so much in my life?

  • @BamaNiiji
    @BamaNiiji Місяць тому

    🔥🔥🔥Thank you!

  • @HappyBlueLake-mq9dx
    @HappyBlueLake-mq9dx 10 місяців тому +5

    Thank you very much 😊😊

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  10 місяців тому

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  • @johnsondayal7842
    @johnsondayal7842 9 місяців тому +46

    I am married 38 years, got married at 21 years, up until now I had he'll from this women, she is bi-polar, two days it merry, 5 days it war, and I still don't know how it happens and why. I am the bread winner of the home, I am a professional and hold a Masters degree yet I am told I am useless, ugly and no good, she says I must leave home, and not come back, finally I had enough and plucked up the courage and went to divorce her, next month I hope to be divorced and find peace within myself with God's help. 🙏

    • @lightris547
      @lightris547 9 місяців тому +3

      I wish you all the best

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  8 місяців тому +1

      ❤️

    • @ageless1003
      @ageless1003 7 місяців тому

      Take charge n all the best.

    • @AlexL-n5h
      @AlexL-n5h 5 місяців тому +1

      Right move man. Enjoy the freedom and piece.

    • @DaveAmade
      @DaveAmade 5 місяців тому +1

      She don't like you and she's a cheater

  • @davidjaeger1791
    @davidjaeger1791 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for these interesting thoughts.

  • @kandegewa7-gg7dh
    @kandegewa7-gg7dh 10 місяців тому +5

    Great information But it's far away from the title..

  • @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue
    @ChuNghiaKhacKy_ConDuongTriTue 9 місяців тому

    Celebrate your achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your successes to build self-confidence and avoid neglecting your own progress in pursuit of pleasing others.

  • @dugoodsspotlights428
    @dugoodsspotlights428 9 місяців тому +3

    It saddens me that women lure weak men in their traps. It happened to me so much that I can see em comin... yep i was weak, but never again

  • @Stoic-Monarch
    @Stoic-Monarch 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful video and great performance, keep it up brother
    👍😀

  • @Ivor-nv4zo
    @Ivor-nv4zo 7 місяців тому +9

    This is the stuff kids should be learning in schools at an early age.

  • @cliffimages1785
    @cliffimages1785 5 місяців тому

    All the points are just as important, but (9 avoid obsessive devotion ) is the most importants to me. Thanks for this post.

  • @dammoneylumbala3284
    @dammoneylumbala3284 10 місяців тому +5

    THANKS So Much

  • @boanerges6886
    @boanerges6886 8 місяців тому

    Excellent! I subscribed to your channel and to stoicism

  • @demonicon1
    @demonicon1 Місяць тому

    Love these video's

  • @BuyhiselLow
    @BuyhiselLow 9 місяців тому +6

    Secret keeping with your mate is not a strength. It is a weakness. Embrace your past and learn from it. Enlist your mate to help you avoid reliving past mistakes. The right woman cares about your personal growth and will help you keep on the straight and narrow. It is not a battle to take on alone. Most of what is said here is taking into account you are with "just a woman" not "the woman."

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  9 місяців тому

      ❤️

    • @aditichandrasekar3279
      @aditichandrasekar3279 9 місяців тому +1

      I agree.. without being honest and vulnerable one doesn't really have a relationship. With anyone. Man or woman

    • @gkranthikumars
      @gkranthikumars 9 місяців тому

      where can we find the so called “right woman” these days😮😅

    • @aditichandrasekar3279
      @aditichandrasekar3279 9 місяців тому

      ​@gkranthikumars
      Right people are everywhere. When we focus on being the right person, they automatically come to us. This is my experience. In the romantic realm, one needs to be a bit more careful as hormones reduce one's rationality for a time. There too, the right people exist and one can perceive them. That right man or woman must also want to be with you. It's both ways if something has to work. Therefore, one needs to focus on being the right person as well.

    • @Blu3870
      @Blu3870 9 місяців тому

      I strongly disagree.

  • @VeerBADIGER-p5k
    @VeerBADIGER-p5k 4 місяці тому

    More than the content I got impressed by the background voice and graphics
    That's really great

    • @TheStoicismHubTM
      @TheStoicismHubTM  4 місяці тому

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  • @fourtywater77
    @fourtywater77 9 місяців тому +3

    I made many of these mistakes only to find out my wife was a covert narcissist. When she pulled off the mask my life was destroyed and she played the victim based of 100% lies.

  • @mack8488
    @mack8488 9 місяців тому +2

    Goes for men and women alike ...these advices....and good ones too🙂