How To Get Motivated | 10 Essential Rules That Work
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Hi,
I am Jamila Musayeva, an international social etiquette consultant and the author of two books "Etiquette: the least you need to know" and "Afternoon Tea Etiquette." My books are available in English language in print only. If you wish to order, please email info@jamilamusayeva.com or my website: jamilamusayeva.com/order-books
In this video, I share 10 rules that I have collected over the years that have always helped me to get motivated. I hope they help you too.
Tell me in the comments below, which of these rules helped you the most or which one did you like the most? I truly appreciate your feedback.
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1. Surround yourself with people who motivate you
2. Write all your goals down in a notebook
3. Plan out your goal with concrete steps
4. Visualise: imagine and feel
5. Distinguish between lack of desire and lack of energy
6. Applaud and acknowledge the small steps
7. share your progress with others
8. Actions provoke actions
9. be flexible and easy on yourself
10. Celebrate your victories
7. Share your progress with others
@@breezinessmind thanks
Thank you for the summary ☺️
so stay away from my biological father and my ex which do nothing but degrade.
being my daughters mother
'I'm not lazy, just motivated to do nothing.'
I think in this world obsessed with productivity and always 'more' mentality, doing nothing can sometimes be one of the best things we can do and give to ourselves 💜
She is the role model young girls in particular need, very classy and intelligent!
I found her like 3 days ago. She's the exact depiction of the woman I want to be one day. Elegant, well read, calm and kind.
can we just appreciate her for all her effort? 🥰
Thank you 😊
Well of course!!!!
@ITACA why?😆
I do.
@ITACA yes
YOU JUST POSTED THIS AT THE PERFECT MOMENT!!! currently 3 am and i am working on my final papers and essays
good luck! Keep working hard :))
Good luck!
good luck!
U GOT THIS! 👉💪
Good luck with that !
Her energy is so delicate it’s the best 😊❤️
Thank you!
You really are. Can you share your lipstick colour and brand please?
I highly agree with you when speaking about your achievements rather than speaking about your desires/dreams with people. Because there are evil eyes or perhaps people who could jinx your dreams.
That's very true. But also if you have someone you can be accountable to it's much easier to achieve those goals 💜
Better for actions to speak for themselves but sharing with someone you trust can make you feel like you are accountable to them so makes you do something about your idea ☺️
Please make a video on telephone etiquette for:
1)formal call
2)informal call
3)group call.
Thank you so much, it will help me to finish my thesis.
Good luck to you!
The timing couldn't have been more perfect!
Especially with the new school year for me, I'm already tired lol
🙏🏻☺️
You can do it. ☺️
I totally believe in the power of writing your goals and dreams down and I’ve seen first hand what this can do. It’s totally amazing. This is how we got our new apartment (and G-d’s help of course)
Absolutely! ☺️ Congratulations on your new home ☺️
Congratulation👏 this Is a huge accomplishment. I think we sometimes understimate the power of writing down our dreams and goals, and not only writing something like "i want a new job/i want to lose weigth" but make a plan step by step which help us evaluate if we are getting closer or what needs to be improved.
Am I the only one who didn't even blink while watching this video because I didn't want to lose any millisecond? Haha🤭 I really enjoy spending time with you Jamila. Keep up with the beautiful content. You inspire me. ❤️
Aw thank you!❤️
Good advice and given in your soft voice. I also pamper myself now and then, like a child, feeling I have been "good". Don´t laugh, I love eating ice cream also, but once every month I drink a bottle of Coca Cola and really enjoy its taste.
I love ice-cream too and a bottle of Cola once in a while especially after a burger ☺️
You voice is so soothing and the tips were realistic and inspiring . You look beautiful as always. Worth listening tips❤
Hi jamila. You look so beautiful! And you posted this video at the right moment. Thank you ✨
Thank you ☺️
Many people don’t celebrate the small achievements in life and they should! We need more positivity these days. Another great video Jamila, very inspiring 👌🏼
Thank you! And that really matters a lot 🙏🏻
1. Learn to get inspired & motivated.
- surround yourself from inspiring people.
2. Put down all your goals in a notebook.
- “Life is like writing with a pen. Although you can cross out the past, you can never erase it”.
3. Plant out your goal with concrete steps.
4. Visualize: image & feel.
5. Distinguish between a lack of desire or a lack of energy.
6. Acknowledge and applaud your small steps.
7. Share your dream or success with someone else.
- once we have said it aloud, we realize that we have to get started.
8. Action provokes action & energy provokes more energy.
- the people with the busiest schedule, get more things done. The more you do the more you get done.
9. Be flexible and be easy on yourself.
- we have our ups and downs too.
10. Celebrate your victories.
- whatever gives you joy :)
Thank you for this summary ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva no no thank you so much for this awesome video! I admire you so much and I aspire to become like you when I am older.
hi! i just want you to know, you are really my favorite youtuber! Thank you for the videos that you made 😊❤️
Thank you, for sharing! 💕
🙏🏻❤️
I am so glad I found your channel! You are so sweet, gentle, and beautiful. I always feel so much lighter and peaceful after I watch your videos. I can always expect excellent content from your videos
Books. Movies. Podcasts after podcast. I thought i heard enough and yet, watching yours seems to be a summary of them all. Simplified. Practical and nothing fancy. Thank u for your work. May your kindness be returned and may you grow wiser even more.
Salamat, Jamila.
❤️ 💜 ♥️
Thank you 🙏🏻 ☺️
Girl..... You just saved me.... Thank you so much.... Stay Blessed
Hello Jamila, I was so happy to receive a notification that you posted this video. I definitely needed to hear this. I have been struggling a lot lately due to this pandemic and I have lost my motivation. I ended up crying almost every night because I just don't know how will I ever disembark this situation. I learned a lot from this video and hopefully I will be able to become strong for myself. Trust the process!
U got this, I'm rooting for u! Stay strong, i'm sure you'll figure things out and be happy again ✨🍀
I am so happy to hear that 🙏🏻☺️
Thank you for posting this. I really need motivation. I'm finishing all the papers for my requirements in all subjects.
Good luck to you! 💫
Thank you!
I just check youtube and when I see that you uploaded a new video I quickly press without even reading the title
Aw thank you!
Thank you Jamila for feeding us with great content, they sound realistic and motivates us to follow.
Thank you
Jamila plz make a video about how to face embarrasse situation or somebody shout or being impolite with us and how to deal with such a situation...love you ❤😙😍
Thanks for the video, it was much needed! I cleaned my whole house after watching it. And it didn’t even take me an hour ☺️ next video should be about how to have confidence!!
Happy to hear that ☺️
You should try making a video about your collection of books.
Thank you so much, Jamila! ❤
You are welcome ☺️
Another way to stay motivated is watching Jamila's videos.😊
I am very happy to find your channel. I am really proud of you as a compatriot❤❤❤
You look drop dead gorgeous 😘
Thanks! 🙏🏻
I’m keep smiling through out the whole video! You have amazing energy! So adorable. Enjoy all your videos!
Thank you 💫🧡
Dude I can't even pay attention to what youre saying, just mesmerized by your beauty.... Oh my lord....
Aww thank you ☺️
Thank you so much, I'm starting my own business, I'm a nail artist. This is the boost that I needed to get❤️
Good luck to you!
mam please give us tips how to be confident and polite in schools and colleges.
I will take a note on that ☺️
Thanku so much mam
you seem like a older sister who is giving you the advice you need the most.....i don't know why am i smiling by myself while watching your video, but i want to become optimistic like you:)) keep making more videos
Thank you! 🙏🏻
You are just lovely and I feel so much better now!
Happy to hear that ❤️
Lots of love to you Jamila from a British Pakistani.
Thank you!
Thank you for this video when I need it - just when I was dragging myself back to work after lunch. What wonderful tips! Scheduling, visualization, writing down goals and dreams, and tracking my progress work. As a reward for getting the proofreading job that I will start next month, I watched a special New Year’s Eve Concert online and treated myself to a special dinner! Now my goals are to speak at least one more language fluently and learn a few more, play Chopin pieces on the piano, and sing opera arias, so I practice every day to reach my goals. Merci! ♥️🍵💐😘
Thank you for your lovely feedback ☺️
Thank you for the video.
You are welcome ☺️
Listening to Mrs. Musayeva sometimes feels like listening to a beautiful poetry audiobook , just listen at 1:58
Aw thank you! 🙏🏻
Thanks Jamila, I always get motivated by watching your videos. They're all inspiring and remind me of my capabilities ❤
Happy to hear that ☺️
I’m a woman I’m 47 I don’t have real woman friends there isn’t any no one to look up too. The only woman I have are these types of videos that help a lot in helping me be a better person and that’s my goal. My behavior matters . I don’t like violence but I’m surrounded by a lot if ignorance and it’s hard to be beautiful when your surrounded by ignorance. I’m trying to memorize your advice . Love your videos and thank you.
Hi, could you please do a video about what to say/ conversations at different occasions or on phone/ to who? Thank you
Perfect timing for me also. Especially 6 and 8. Thank you.
Glad to hear ☺️
Watching Liziqi's videos keep me motivated
I appreciate your knowledge on this topic. How you present is gracious and understanding. I feel no judgement or impossibility from what you suggest. You are relatable and I feel more confident after listening to you, thank you🙏
Some of the tips I already follow and do, while some I'll be working on. The tips that were new to my ears are very reasonable and I agree on. I learned a lot from this video. Thank you so much! ❤
You are very welcome ☺️
Thank you so much for teaching us.I am always glad to learn about etiquette from you as a student.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Your video made my day. Thank you 🙏🏼
You are welcome ☺️
You speak really well Jamila. I've watched every second of this video and really took in what you said. Thank you 😊
Thank you 🙏🏻
We all need to agree that every piece of clothing looks great on her.
Thank you ☺️
Love that black hair 😍
🙏🏻
You are so positive and motivating. I could listen to you for hours! You offer great tips and skills for achieving goals. Thank you
Thank you for your kind words 💫
13:40 this is so well said ! I am going to use it so much this year :) "The ocean does not define itself by one single wave"
☺️
Thank you so much for this video, really need this. Love from India 🇮🇳❤️
You look so stunning here! Your skin, makeup, hair and outfit are on point 😍
Thank you 🙏🏻☺️
You do! Please share lipstick used in this video ♥️
We all need this let's get motivated 💯💓
I always learn SO MUCH from her, thank you ❤
I am so glad to hear that 🙏🏻
Excellent timing in this difficult period. I miss my lovely weekly Pilates classes . In the huge lounge of a lady friend of ours, we, five ladies, had a Pilates coach coming every week. It was so convenient and convivial, and our coach, she was so friendlyand efficient. Since covid lockdown, we've been trying to go on, each one in our own houses, and I tried to stick to the routine, roll out the gym mat, put on the gym outfit, do the exercises ( I know by heart). But it's hard to keep motivated, and out of laziness I've almost given up, though I felt my fitness slipping away, my joints less supple, my condition deteriorating. So you've really boosted me, I'm going to resume the sessions, write them down,and call the other ladies to motivate each others ! Thank you so very much.
Hi jam 👋 I hope you are doing well 😚 please make new video about fitness or some body streching excercise
Thank you so much I’m about to start school again and this will help me!💛
Perfect timing. I need to study for my boards but all I want to do is nothing.
Good luck in your studies ☺️
@@JamilaMusayeva Thank you 😊
I enjoy listening to you. You really inspire me in many different ways!! Than you!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you Jamila. Love your content!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Wow really great tips not the same ones people always give on YT :)
Thank you so much
You are very welcome 💫
This is my most favorite video by far :) grateful for this content. Very motivational. Right on time cause I’ve been lazy for a week now. Thanks Jamila. Loved to see more of your videos. :)
Thank you 😊 🙏🏻
Thank u so much for the motivation I needed right now❤ cz yesterday was a zero work day😪
You are welcome ☺️
Journaling on paper is better than a list on a phone for sure. Totally agree with you here. I would put mediation to your list here, something like Headspace and listening to ambient chilled sounds whilst working. Great video.
Thank you 😊
You are so good in making people love themselves and I thank youtube for making me find you.
Thank you for your kind words ☺️
Incredible life hacks for 2021! Thanks once again for the amazing content!
Thank you! ☺️
Thanks for sharing with us these brilliant and necessary instructions about etiquette and good attitudes.💐
You are welcome ☺️
Thank you Jamila. I love your channel’s awesome content.
thanks for uploading this video exactly one month before my German test. I really need to keep myself motivated and studying everyday for getting that C1.
Thank you for your kind words ☺️
Hi Jamila, I've been appreciating your videos! I like how they are full of context. And there something that I'd love to know your views/experience on. Hand-shakes as a classy woman! Men have their standard strong shake, but it has been confusing for me as a woman. Would love it if you covered it someday!💕💕
I will take a note on that ☺️
yayy finally new video is up!!!
much needed!! thank you
You are welcome ☺️
Littrally I need this bcz I felt so demotivated in past week but get to know how to pamper, believe & know the process of up & down thanku so much I'll try this it really helpful I like this content very much 😍🤗
Happy to hear it 🙏🏻☺️
Love it! Feeling super motivated and inspired after listening to you! 💓
So happy to hear that ☺️
The way you speak and your voice is so admiring I wish that I can speak the way you do 👀😍
Thank you 🙏🏻
Love from Pakistan. Thank you so much for telling such useful points with examples.
I couldn't stop myself to write down all these points in my notebook. Stay blessed dear.
Thank you!
Love this, thank you for sharing. Sending a big hug!
Thanks ☺️🙏🏻
These rules are amazing! You explained them in a really nice way, thank you for this video💚✌️
You are welcome 💫☺️
I needed this . Thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍
You are welcome ☺️
Thank you! Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷💛💙💚
You are welcome 💫
This is a confirmation for all the effort Ive been doing. I learned something again on how to achieve goals better. Thank you!
Glad to heart that 🙏🏻☺️
Recently found your channel and I can't help but watch your videos. I super like how you deliver it with that powerful and classy vibe of yours💗💗
Thank you ☺️
The way your channel grows like crazy really shows that people are still interested in etiquette and good manners.
I don’t know how I found your channel but I did not regret it one day! ♥️
I would recommend getting a nice pen like a Montblanc for writing down the lists you mentioned. It just makes it so much more fun to me 😋
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻 I am truly amazed myself every single day and very grateful to each and every one of you for spreading the word!
I needed this so much with the lockdown and home situation. Jamila thank you so so much again ❤️💯🙏🏼
You are very welcome ☺️
OMGG THANK YOU!! I needed this 😭❤️🌻
You are welcome ☺️
hey Jamila, that was awesome video and great recommendation. 🙏🙏😊 Good night.
Thanks!
How I love you Jamila Musayeve... I was really in need to a such video.
This is what i needed the most, thank you so much! ♡
You are welcome ☺️
Oh my gosh. Just what I needed. Sending much love!💗
Thanks! To you too ❤️
I resonated with tip 7 so much!! I have a certain dream in mind, and it's even a very realistic dream for me. Yet, I'm so nervous to share it with people in case I don't actually have the energy to do it, or fail :( I come from the same culture of not talking about your aspirations, and I am worried of how stupid I will feel and look if I talk about my dream, only to fail. But, I decided to share it with some people I trust and that was enough for me to start taking steps :) I also really appreciated your other tips. The way you describe the benefit of writing goals down convinced me to try it :)
You are very welcome ☺️🙏🏻
Thank you for uploading this video! It came to me at the perfect time. This is my last year of high school (the school year starts in February in my country), and I'm studying to get into law school, while also writing my first novel. I will definitely try some of your tips. Greetings from Brazil! ❤❤
Glad to hear that you will put them into use ☺️
Hi Jamila! I was wondering if you could show us how you do your makeup/ show us classy makeup tips :)
I have noted that down as a suggestion ☺️
omg I mean this in the BEST way possible but you know you're cool toned, so I wish you would apply a more pink (not yellowish) foundation! great tips as always
I know I am. My foundation has a pink tone to it. It must be the lights that make it seem more yellow.
просто хочу Вам сказать спасибо за такие чудесные видео! очень хочу продолжения!
И вам большое спасибо за добрые слова!