How To Set Goals And Achieve Them: A Powerful Technique That Actually Works | Jamila Musayeva

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  • @JamilaMusayeva
    @JamilaMusayeva  2 місяці тому

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  • @coffeesunset1965
    @coffeesunset1965 Рік тому +113

    "Consistency is always more important than intensity." 👌🏼

  • @yavannakementari521
    @yavannakementari521 Рік тому +95

    *Key points:*
    -write down 10 goals every morning; challenge yourself to do this for 1 month
    - do this with paper and ink
    -focus on yourself, write with I and using present tense
    - give yourself a timeline to complete the goals in
    -keep the goal realistic and achievable, yet challenging
    -prioritize which goals are most important
    -write out a list of actions needed to achieve that goal
    -take out actions immediately
    -do little actions every day rather than waiting for one day to do a lot of actions
    -consistency>intensity
    -focus on what you wanted initially; don’t focus on what others are doing, focus on what you want and what you are good at
    -identify what is hindering you from achieving the life you’ve always wanted to live

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +12

      Thanks for the summary

    • @tiffanyfoster5771
      @tiffanyfoster5771 Рік тому

      When should we start prioritise our goals? After 31 days. At something, I realised jamila said we have to continue this writing down until become a habit like brushing. So , my question is, we start prioritising goals while writing our next month goals?

  • @gisschavez7520
    @gisschavez7520 Рік тому +12

    This video was like a sign when i saw it, because im trying to achieve lots of wishes, but somehow i didnt know how to start. So this video have a very strong impact, in notice that once you want something, it starting to be present in diferents ways. Thank you Jamila for this ✨

  • @chanikarn751
    @chanikarn751 Рік тому +7

    Noticed you wear a lovely bracelet made by your child and that melts my heart 💗

  • @TheEmaile
    @TheEmaile Рік тому +18

    Jamila: The Frequency Illusion and our cognitive biases are responsible for how our brain focuses attention on certain things in our environment. Doing this 30 day challenge is a good idea so thank you for featuring it. It sets us up to invest in what we really want. I often write goals, but don’t actually know what’s most important to me on a daily basis and therefore just stick with the old goals that I set because I once found them important.

  • @cupcake86eg
    @cupcake86eg Рік тому +1

    I watched this video yesterday and as a stationary lover, had a mental note to but a spiral notebook. An hour later my brother came to visit and out of no where asked me if I wanted a notebook! I asked him is it spiral and he says yes and hands me the most gorgeous spiral notebook/planner I have ever seen. This must be a sign to follow my dreams. Love you Jamilah.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому

      I am happy to hear that! Start making a wishlist now ☺️

  • @marianapadilla9634
    @marianapadilla9634 Рік тому +2

    Thank you very much Jamila, I've lost the focus on setting goals and working on them, and this video helped me remember how to do it 🙌🏻

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 Рік тому +14

    Jamila you and your videos are so so so inspiring for me and your videos are too too helpful to me in my life💓💫☺️

  • @SharonMoist
    @SharonMoist Рік тому +4

    Love Brian Tracy!!!

  • @YaraAhmedT
    @YaraAhmedT Рік тому +7

    This is life changing information. Thank you Jamila for sharing!! ❤

  • @Carmen0777
    @Carmen0777 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this helpful video Jamila, I enjoyed and loved listening to Mr. Brian Tracy too ❤

  • @sawdatasmin
    @sawdatasmin Рік тому +4

    Thank you, form Bangladesh ❤❤❤

  • @sonaxanmcfrova8330
    @sonaxanmcfrova8330 Рік тому +3

    Hello Jamila watching and listening you makes me so happy thank you God bless you and your family 👸🙏💯🧿🥰

  • @vanvan-rj4bq
    @vanvan-rj4bq 8 місяців тому

    No words are enough how much I thank you Coach Jamila. I learned a lot from you

  • @antoinette4729
    @antoinette4729 Рік тому +3

    Kudos for another remarkable video! The minimal background allows us the focus on your speech and body language. You are 100% correct that writing, especially with a nice ink pen, on spiral notebook pages, is a great way to keep the concepts congealed in one's mind. Using handwriting uses many senses. The more senses we use, the more we can retain what we try to learn or remember. Goals are important and must be realistic as you say. I am retired over 15 years now but I set goals and use spiral notebooks daily in studying the Thai language, taking notes for what I learn in news, my hobbies and interests, etc. Thank you again!

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 Рік тому +2

    With gratitude and appreciation for sharing tips and strategy to help us fighting proscratination

  • @5TibetanRitesMerisWay
    @5TibetanRitesMerisWay Рік тому +4

    Jamila thank you so much for this and every other video you make, you are such an inspirational person, love all your content☺

  • @vidishadevi2090
    @vidishadevi2090 Рік тому +7

    12:00- summary
    13:40- action

  • @usernamedunno7784
    @usernamedunno7784 Рік тому +5

    What a brilliant video Jamila! I bought the book "Everything is Figureoutable" from on of your book reviews and it talks about how your 42% more likely to achieve your goals writing them physically down. Also many people suggest believing you have attained what you want- and it is crazy to say this but it works. Thanks for your brilliant uploads- hope you do another book review soon 💕

  • @gordanaplackoska1961
    @gordanaplackoska1961 Рік тому +2

    Excellent video. Thank you for making it.

  • @normai.m.330
    @normai.m.330 Рік тому

    Dear Jamila, I really needed this video. Thank you so much. I played it twice, then realized I had two brand new spiral notebooks just sitting in my printer cabinet! Pulled them out and went to bed, because it was 2:00 A.M. and I didn't want to wake up my mom, but was very eager to start in the morning. Wonderful advice.
    I remain,
    Sincerely
    Norma Iris Montalvo

  • @allynmarin
    @allynmarin Рік тому +1

    Thank you! I came to your channel because your videos always inspired me to do better! I'm starting this today! ❤

  • @the7seer
    @the7seer Рік тому +4

    Excellent video on goal achievement with new distinctions that are extremely valuable. Combining this methodology with Jamila’s 10 tips for time management takes this to a whole new level. Thank you so much!🙏🙏

  • @irhasiraj8397
    @irhasiraj8397 Рік тому +1

    Hello jamila!I think it would be great if you post a car etiquette video,your videos are the most helpful for me.

  • @vidishadevi2090
    @vidishadevi2090 Рік тому +3

    Hey Jamila❤
    Please make a video on entrepreneurship and job - pros and cons!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому

      What exactly do you mean?

    • @vidishadevi2090
      @vidishadevi2090 Рік тому

      @@JamilaMusayeva Job vs Entrepreneurship - benefits, harms, suitable etc

  • @scrap_donetsk
    @scrap_donetsk Рік тому +3

    so pretty, so beautiful Jamila😍 thanks for visual inspiration🌿

  • @jesicarosaline
    @jesicarosaline Рік тому +12

    Hi Jamila, thank you for the video. Appreciate it so much! I am curious on:
    1. When do you think it is best to make a priority list after several days of writing down the ten daily goals? Because the goals can change daily.
    2. And how many daily priorities that you focus on? I believe too many daily focuses are too unrealistic, and we can lose our focus.
    3. Do you have any advice on allocating the time for each task without under/overestimating the time required?
    Thanks a lot Jamila!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +6

      Thank you. 1. Best to do it immediately
      2. You first prioritize your goals then actions 3. For doing the task or making a list of actions? That depends on your goal. It is very individual. Something like buying a pair of flats vs. a house requires different amount of effort and time.

  • @ba-ov5tr
    @ba-ov5tr Рік тому +2

    Kind of a different and a bit of a funny request.
    I think with the way you speak you would be very good at asmr 😌 so if you ever consider and get curious about trying something new and different then that would be an idea 😌
    And thank you for your great work :)
    It’s very interesting to learn these kind of things. I really enjoy watching you.
    I wish you much success with what you love to do :)

  • @1821femina
    @1821femina Рік тому

    Brian Tracy is one of my favorite self-development authors. Thank you for this video. You made it crystal clear on the steps I need to take to think deeply about what I want at this stage of my life and the steps I need to take to achieve my goals.

  • @Rishita_Naik
    @Rishita_Naik Рік тому +4

    Thank you for posting such helpful videos🥰

  • @imadina31
    @imadina31 5 місяців тому

    Always so inspiring and helpful 💙

  • @stefaniasica954
    @stefaniasica954 8 місяців тому

    It’s fantastic: thanks for sharing a so interesting technique!🌺

  • @swapnilpawar1495
    @swapnilpawar1495 Рік тому

    So Beautifully Explained Jamila

  • @deebeemehmood
    @deebeemehmood Рік тому +4

    hello your videos are unique. kindly make videos from turning rural to modern. and on hair care and styling etiquettes

  • @ChinnyIvy
    @ChinnyIvy Рік тому

    I really love how you talk. Thank you for this great insight

  • @tiffanyfoster5771
    @tiffanyfoster5771 Рік тому

    Really good content. Thank you. I am really grateful for this. ❤

  • @nikitamisra.
    @nikitamisra. Рік тому +1

    I always love her educational videos but I liked the beige video background more like in your earlier videos

  • @TriviRocks
    @TriviRocks Рік тому

    Thank you Jamila! This video came just in time for me :D

  • @helenahu
    @helenahu Рік тому

    Fabulous video - thank you very much

  • @sami2612
    @sami2612 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for the video

  • @beautymixtress
    @beautymixtress Рік тому

    Loved this! Will put this into practice.

  • @annareblfleur2369
    @annareblfleur2369 Рік тому

    Great video, thank you. Can you make a video about habits to become / stay slim fit and healthy? Thank you 😊

  • @sangitawaghmare6336
    @sangitawaghmare6336 Рік тому +3

    Your my idol jamila ❤

  • @Evsophiee
    @Evsophiee Рік тому

    Hello! I love your your content very much, I was wondering if you’d be willing to show us everything you’d pack when going on vacation/holiday with a luggage/ carry on? If not it’s okay thanks so much for all of your wonderful informative videos ♡

  • @MsSyed8
    @MsSyed8 Рік тому +5

    Hey Jamila, Hope you're doing well! Once again you have brought a Master piece in the form of this video. Words fall short to explain how perfect is each and every video of yours. This one was much needed. If possible, Please start azerbaijan language lessons too. I am sure many of your subscribers would love to learn the beautiful language. ❤

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. I am not equipped to teach Azerbaijani lessons. I am sure you can find online resources for that.

  • @alivaroy6513
    @alivaroy6513 Рік тому +3

    Hi Jamila, Hope you are well 🙏 could you please make a video on how to be confident on interview

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому

      I have done videos on confidence. Check out my self development playlist.

  • @Jade-wb6fd
    @Jade-wb6fd Рік тому +4

    This was a very helpful video. The concept is quite interesting. It kind of reminds me of manifesting but in a more practical way. After the 31 days are over, do you go back and look at all of the goals you have written for each day?

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +2

      You can but it is recommended to write new goals.

  • @Grattitude85
    @Grattitude85 10 місяців тому

    This is wonderful dear, weĺl understood.

  • @Wandertheworldwithme
    @Wandertheworldwithme Рік тому

    You’re so awesome and poised Jamila ❤

  • @bridgetvictor4140
    @bridgetvictor4140 Рік тому

    Much love from Kenya❤🎉

  • @frixz5489
    @frixz5489 Рік тому

    Thank you, Ms. Jamila, for this inspirational video.

  • @cogito1903
    @cogito1903 Рік тому +3

    Merhaba Jamila hanım, Türkçe’de geniş değil şimdiki zamanı kullanarak yazmamız gerekir değil mi? Yaparım değil de yapıyorum diye, cevaplarsanız çok sevinirim ❤

  • @marijamance9529
    @marijamance9529 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Jamila, this is a very useful video. I have a question. When we create this list, we have to put the most important goal on the first place, and under this goal, we make a list of actions that we need to take, right? Than we put are 2nd goal on the 2nd place with actions to take and so on? So, we will probably need a few pages to make this list.
    Your refinement and intelligence are highly appreciated by lot of us!

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +1

      You can do goals separately and then write goals and actions on a different page. That is why spiral notebook is so useful.

  • @yomnaelasser7926
    @yomnaelasser7926 Рік тому +3

    Love you❤❤❤😊

  • @minecraftplayslmg9608
    @minecraftplayslmg9608 Рік тому +3

    Love the leather notebook. Where did you purchase it? ID

  • @soniarasul1950
    @soniarasul1950 Рік тому +1

    I have a question. How does one find what you really want to do or find what one is good at naturally. Let’s say fashion brand or studying English to be an IELTS teacher or a News Broadcaster they’re opposing things but I happen to love both and cannot leave one entirely to focus completely on the other. Can you please give any tips how to find one’s true and correct path. What is that one thing that one has to look for in order to start in a particular direction when there are many things to choose from. Thank you

  • @greatpassion9844
    @greatpassion9844 Рік тому

    Iam a girl who is always in a rush, im not organized, i always want to finish what's in my hand to move to the next without caring if i do it perfectly, impatient aaaaah i said alot hhhhh im working on myself i guess i improved 40% of my bad habits but still alot to change please do a video about having a calm personality and patient

  • @cargr2236
    @cargr2236 Рік тому

    So hapoy to have discovered your channel.

  • @saniyauzumaki
    @saniyauzumaki Рік тому +1

    Hi Jamila, I am curious to know do you believe in law of attraction or manifestation?
    I see this topic is picking up nowdays again with female influencers for self help videos. Would like to know your take on it as well 😊

  • @aidajameei1552
    @aidajameei1552 Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @narminismayilova5817
    @narminismayilova5817 Рік тому

    Salam Jamila, such a nice content ❤
    One quick question, I couldn’t catch the part where we need to divide our goals into small action items, will we analyze and choose the closest to end date/priority goals at the end of the 31 days or we will do it daily ? First variant is much more logical to me.

  • @meerabanurahuman9404
    @meerabanurahuman9404 Рік тому

    Hi
    Your videos are interesting . I have problem when I speak to others they think I am ordering them or showing attitude but I am normally talking to them . Can you pls advice me how to solve this issue

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b Рік тому

    Hi, The ranking according to the order of priorities and small steps to be taken are also rewritten every day? After we have taken a certain step should we stop writing it?

  • @lucial.3958
    @lucial.3958 Рік тому +3

    Where is your watch from?

  • @mirindalizfigueroa2784
    @mirindalizfigueroa2784 Рік тому

    Hi, I love your channel I just didn’t get in this one. If I need to said the goals every single day as I do with the 10 wishes

  • @jerseyjulia
    @jerseyjulia Рік тому +7

    How am I so early to this? 😄

  • @tessasense2584
    @tessasense2584 Рік тому

    I am a little confused about something. After the 31 day challenge and all my dreams and goals are written down; do I go back over every one of those goals/ dreams and prioritize them all? Or is it day 32 and I just prioritize the goals of day 32? I hope you can understand what I'm asking. But I'm just a bit confused.

  • @soniamedrano988
    @soniamedrano988 Рік тому

    What I don't understand is how is it that we write them down in the present moment but have a deadline or timeline to achieve them?

  • @noirfidelity
    @noirfidelity 8 місяців тому +1

    what does it mean etiquette trainer?

  • @sevin6
    @sevin6 Рік тому +5

    Kaş ki videolarda Azərbaycanca alt yazı olsaydı

  • @ReinaLissetteMena
    @ReinaLissetteMena Рік тому

    Where can I find the notebook you are talking about? Can you share the link, I can not find it 😢

  • @GeekettePHL12
    @GeekettePHL12 Рік тому

    Privacy is power. Do not share your goals or anything else that is important to you with anyone. Other people will sabotage you. Keep silent! Your results will speak for itself.

    • @JamilaMusayeva
      @JamilaMusayeva  Рік тому +1

      Always but it is good to share your goals with the closest ones so they can keep you in check.

  • @Uni-u1r
    @Uni-u1r 5 місяців тому

    Jamila, duso moja kad cemo se videti poljubac , Radomir Eric, Beograd, Srbija.

  • @Aylinjaafari
    @Aylinjaafari Рік тому

    Is the purpose of this technique to be reminded of the goals everyday in order to bette achieve them and think of them unconciously throughout the day?
    How to plan and take actions for goals that change in this 31 days?(goals that you only write for the fist few days)

  • @tammylynn1
    @tammylynn1 Рік тому

    How can I apply these principles if my personality is less feminine?

  • @sashap9691
    @sashap9691 Рік тому

    Isn't this very simialr/pretty much Earl Nightingale's 30 day challenge?

  • @AhmedBristolskiy
    @AhmedBristolskiy Рік тому +5

    Fırst!

  • @mr.goldenproductions_0143
    @mr.goldenproductions_0143 Рік тому +5

    Girl why u gotta be married already! It's not fair! You're so beautiful and smart!

  • @selikamayen
    @selikamayen Рік тому

    Looking so beautiful in this video my dear 🤍💎

  • @pek3978
    @pek3978 Рік тому

    Amazing Russia 💘