Life Update...it's been tough 💔

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  • @shirleysetia
    @shirleysetia Рік тому +420

    Malvika..
    Big biggggg tightt hug !!!
    Sending you all the strength and positivity 🤍

  • @SUGARCosmetics
    @SUGARCosmetics Рік тому +1830

    Sending you love, strength & best wishes.. Take care, Mals ❤️

  • @mywayfernweh
    @mywayfernweh Рік тому +166

    I’m not a regular subscriber to your content but just wanted to drop by and say that your handling this with dignity and grace is going to be exemplary and give strength to a lot of women. Healing isn’t linear, I don’t think people realise this.
    I wish you and your child the best.

  • @leezadamodaran1095
    @leezadamodaran1095 Рік тому +59

    Oh my God...when you looked right into the camera and said "You watching me... I know you are going through something." For a micro-second, I felt that we are sitting together and discussing our problems!
    Heal baby. Heal. Stay strong. ❤️❤️🧿

  • @anitadsouza8982
    @anitadsouza8982 Рік тому +191

    “Your light is coming , I promise you .” These were powerful words .
    I wish that for every person who needs this . And you Malz .

  • @mrinal_agarwal
    @mrinal_agarwal Рік тому +222

    She looked so lost throughout the video, like I could tell her mind was deviating to everything that's happening. I wish you all the love Mals and I'm so proud of you. You'll be the best mom to your kid ❤

  • @tiinabbillimoria1937
    @tiinabbillimoria1937 Рік тому +831

    A man who abandoned his kid and wife when they needed him the most for whatever reason needs to be dumped. Bravo Mals.

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 Рік тому +6

      Yeah Bravo ...tu b hogi koi divorcee....so keep it up

    • @SS-er9gw
      @SS-er9gw Рік тому +103

      ​@@fancyvogue3179 it's nothing wrong to be a divorcee rather than staying in bad marriage and playing victim... Which I think you are??? Like you are judging others....

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 Рік тому

      @@SS-er9gw You think I am in bad marriage 😂😂😂...n who do you think you are to think abt me...Am judging others?! N you are judging me 😂😂😂..divorces are so trending n hyped as if it is something to be proud of..you are going to be divorced soon I knw.. that's y your butt's hurt ovr my comment..

    • @mahakmonkey
      @mahakmonkey Рік тому +35

      @@fancyvogue3179 baat karne ki tameez hi nahi hai tujhe toh bilkul

    • @fancyvogue3179
      @fancyvogue3179 Рік тому +1

      @@mahakmonkey tameez konsi teri ma ki gaand li h ?Aai tameez sikhane...apne bap ko sikha jake

  • @anupriyaveda3550
    @anupriyaveda3550 Рік тому +52

    Even after going through so much, it was therapeutic to hear you Malvika. I have an exam tomorrow and listening to you made me feel so light and calm

  • @kaumadeemaneesha38
    @kaumadeemaneesha38 Рік тому +455

    This comment section is the definition of " Whatever you give out, will come back to you" ❤
    You have created a genuine community for yourself.

    • @TheKatChat47
      @TheKatChat47 Рік тому +26

      Exactly .. I felt so happy to see a community of women with love, empathy, and motivation

    • @anishamahanty2034
      @anishamahanty2034 Рік тому +2

      Yes yes true!! Malvika is the first influencer I loved! God, she has come such a long way.

  • @katedeanworld
    @katedeanworld Рік тому +90

    The way you said “everybody is going through something, you who’s watching.” I really felt it. You’re a very strong woman keep going the same. You’re truly an inspiration. I learned so much from you today. Thank you! ❤️ I will pray for you everything will be okay just stay this positive forever. Much love.

  • @randombitts286
    @randombitts286 Рік тому +21

    You mentioned on your first kiss video that ... Akhil used to say " every relationship has an expiry date". That date for him happened when you were pregnant and needed him the most. I cant help judge him Mals! What ever the reason was.. he shouldn't have left you during this time even if you wanted him to leave he should have stayed until you delivered your baby. Srsly! You will survive this alone and we are proud of you! Sending all the love!!! ❤❤❤

  • @nidhideoli
    @nidhideoli Рік тому +31

    Our Light is Coming!! Just needed to hear this...all the world's strength to you, Malvika! 💝

  • @ruthvipanchal603
    @ruthvipanchal603 Рік тому +133

    I stopped the video midway to tell you that Mals you are literally one of the strongest people I've ever seen. I myself see so much of shit happen between my parents and it literally has traumatised me but seeing you speak about these issues and being a guiding light really gave me goosebumps like you're going through a hard time and still you decide to come up here and talk to us and tell us about your life when you would've not cared and just shut down yourself, you're such a brave human do you know that? It takes so much courage to talk to people when you're going through such difficult times as anything can be a trigger. I appreciate you so much my love, I really pray and hope that you and all the other people suffering from difficult times find peace and light. You're going to achieve a lot of new things and unlock a lot of new levels while you go through this process of life. You're gonna be an incredible mother my love :') 💗💗💗💗 I love you so much Mals, it's all gonna fall into its place soon. Just hold on. Take care of yourself and don't worry okay? You got all of us! 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 I hope nothing but peace, prosperity and healing comes your way 💗💗💗💗 Love you! 💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @ARS1508
    @ARS1508 Рік тому +771

    I know you mean well when you said every breakup is the same but please don’t understate your pain. A decade long relationship and a marriage ending at the time when you’re heavily pregnant. This has to be one of the worst kind/timing for a breakup. My respect for you has increased dramatically M. Absolutely in awe of your strength. Sending you and your little one all the love and light in the world!!

  • @js170886
    @js170886 Рік тому +13

    Its very brave to be talking about healing while healing. Loved the talk and the eyes ! sending lots of good vibes.

  • @anumhussain5103
    @anumhussain5103 Рік тому +29

    As someone who went through a separation with someone I thought was end all be all, it takes such a huge toll on your emotional and mental wellbeing. It gets better but I think we ourselves have to make it better. Lots of love to you. YOU’VE GOT THIS TOO! ❤

  • @aanchaljaiswal2823
    @aanchaljaiswal2823 Рік тому +199

    Girl you have some real strength. I had gone through a bad divorce and i know how pathetic it feels. No words can describe that feeling. However its been 3.5 years since the separation and now i am at better place mentally and emotionally. Everything happens for a right reason. You will come to know once you have healed. More power and prosperity to you Malvika. You are stronger than you think. Wish you all the success and happiness. You deserve the best!!!

  • @harshitabhandari1186
    @harshitabhandari1186 Рік тому +67

    I can’t emphasize enough how much strength and power this video radiates. I can’t even imagine what your nights would look like. I always looked up to you, but my respect has reached limits. Being pregnant, and going through all this is so difficult.
    I know you will come out of this stronger, but just so you know, you’re an inspiration. I know every time i feel weak in life, this video and you will be my strength. Thank you for this mMals. You’re indeed one of the strongest women I know

  • @shrabanamajumdar5774
    @shrabanamajumdar5774 Рік тому +44

    Just watched this video... Not a regular follower of Malvika but still I watch her content every now and then. She is really good at what she does. It's great to see that she is so self aware and graciously accepting of times when life gives you lemons. All I want to tell her is 'this too shall pass'. Stay strong dear.

  • @chandreyeemukherjee381
    @chandreyeemukherjee381 Рік тому +47

    This video have me so much strength, I cannot even. Women are strong. They are extremely strong-headed and can literally go through anything without showing it externally. It is heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time. Your wonderful baby is going to have the best momma in the entire world. I just wish you all the happiness and health. Love and hugs. I have saved up this video so that I can come back to it once in a while, to save myself!! :)✨️❤️

  • @fouziafathima192
    @fouziafathima192 Рік тому +104

    This is a therapy session for every broken heart.. u r awesome & that baby is gifted to have such a strong mum ❤️ 💙 💖 ♥️ thank u for this mals..

  • @subhalaxmi111
    @subhalaxmi111 Рік тому +367

    I am in my 30 still unmarried.Trying to settle my career.I am still not completely independent but you have inspired me in alot of ways.I have started working digitally.Your every word gave me wings.❤️

    • @said5824
      @said5824 Рік тому +2

      Same here , living in the present!

    • @ekrasayyed2455
      @ekrasayyed2455 Рік тому +2

      Sameee

    • @Lakshmipriya-hc1wm
      @Lakshmipriya-hc1wm Рік тому +49

      I m 32 this yr..m single. I am financially settled but I am very careful when it comes to marriage specially in this Era where ppl are all about showoff .. big wedding without focusing on the basics of marriage .

    • @kabitakashyap709
      @kabitakashyap709 Рік тому +1

      @@Lakshmipriya-hc1wm same here

    • @christinal4158
      @christinal4158 Рік тому +1

      Sending you love and strength

  • @zenblessed
    @zenblessed Рік тому +31

    Mann she's the epitome of strength and bravery for me rn. So much going on and still getting the best of her out.
    Even i go through seasonal depression and I'd love to consume her content more coz just look at her... her mentality, her energy, her makeup, everything is bang on ✨✨✨
    I'd pray to God to send her loads of love and light💖😘

  • @antarajds
    @antarajds Рік тому +14

    I am not going to say, I am so sorry for you. I just am so excited for your fresh start, and I hope life gives you the best things you truly deserve. All the very best, Malvika!

  • @sharmisthadey1307
    @sharmisthadey1307 Рік тому +94

    I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. Well I am just 20. I lost my dad recently it's been 6 months. Well it's tough I recently moved to Delhi with my mom. Most days my mom stays in the hospital because recently we found out she has kidney failures. I am not writing this for any kind of attention. But just to make you feel that I understand what you are going through the heartbreak, the trauma and everything in between. But i hope and pray that it gets better for you mals. Most days I don't even remember my dad but on ther days it gets tough mostly the night when you have no one to talk to and I am an only child doesn't have any siblings of that sort 😍. But anyway it's going to be fine Mals 💜

    • @SuperRiya16
      @SuperRiya16 Рік тому +2

      You too stay strong dear!

    • @vaishali_21
      @vaishali_21 Рік тому +1

      I don't know wat to right but I just pray to God 🙏 for your mommy to be healthy and have a very good life a head 🤲😇😇stay strong ❤❤ everything will be good😊

    • @khushimalhotra2127
      @khushimalhotra2127 Рік тому +1

      Sending good vibes and positivity 🤗🤗🤗

    • @shrutis6320
      @shrutis6320 Рік тому

      Lots of strength and power to you, I'm proud of you love 🤍

    • @baileytales7207
      @baileytales7207 Рік тому

      Be strong honey..watever happens happens for a reason..god be with you n ur mum

  • @VintageLatte
    @VintageLatte Рік тому +41

    She's so strong. She is breaking inside but still smiling for us . Love you💖

  • @alizahdaniel2163
    @alizahdaniel2163 Рік тому +5

    Oh what a brave and courageous mother your baby is gonna have! ❤❤…… Congratulations on that.. and let there be light is my prayer for you… Lots of love and more strength to you!!

  • @shreyakhannadoodles451
    @shreyakhannadoodles451 Рік тому +82

    Honestly to come up here and speak about this without breaking down tells how strong you are. It’s your life- take all the time you need- feel all the feelings. Life is a roller coaster for everyone. You do you ❤ wishing you grace always 🌻 it’s all going to make sense someday!

  • @hamnahjujara3035
    @hamnahjujara3035 Рік тому +53

    This was the elder sister talk you didn't know you needed
    Thank you, Malz. Lots of love. You're carrying the pain very bravely. I'm proud❤

  • @juhiramaiya2412
    @juhiramaiya2412 Рік тому +12

    Virtual hug to you, Malvika. You are going through tough times but things will get better, whatever you are going through, you will heal. It's time for new positive beginnings

  • @vaishalisrivastava_
    @vaishalisrivastava_ Рік тому +176

    I remember myself just sleeping for hours to escape the reality. It was really tough for me. My parents knew something was wrong but my father did not handle it very well on the other hand my mother always supported me. If she wasn’t there I don’t know if I would have come out that pain I was feeling. It really turned my life upside down. And one most important thing that I realised during that period that your mental peace is above anyone any relationship and anything for that matter. Your inner peace is the most important thing.

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks Рік тому +2

      Dealing with the same thing, no one understands my pain. Everyone be like u will heal , have patience. But its hard, its hurts a lot..😢😢😢😢

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks Рік тому +2

      @@vaishalisrivastava_ fake promises, fake love, fake care, everything fake...whenever i think of it, i cry, i cry like a mad woman. I don't understand this why would anyone lie sooooo much. And then leave you and insult you like you never existed. Sometimes i want to cut open my chest and want to throw away heart. This heart has given me more pain than love. 😞😞😞

    • @yourstrulybooks
      @yourstrulybooks Рік тому

      @@vaishalisrivastava_ more power and healing to you love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @vaishalisrivastava_
      @vaishalisrivastava_ Рік тому

      @@yourstrulybooks Just remember All you have now is you. You can’t let yourself get lost. It take years to find yourself again and sometimes no matter how much you want to be that old person again you can’t be that, and sometimes you have to accept that “NEW YOU”. I tried so hard to find myself and be that old person I was before then I realised I have to make peace with NEW ME. That’s what it is. That’s who I am now.

    • @vaishalisrivastava_
      @vaishalisrivastava_ Рік тому

      @@yourstrulybooks to you too girl . Sending you hugs 🫂

  • @saipriyakiranshet
    @saipriyakiranshet Рік тому +12

    I never expected that your smile on face has been covering so much of emotional suffering from inside. Mals, I have been your subscriber on and off since 6 years. And I just love you the way you are!! But today, you raised your worth in my eyes by boldly sharing all that you are going through...!! It really takes a lot for any public figure to give all such information with so much courage!! We all love you and we all support you!! Let's create more content of makeup, self-care, motivation and real life stuff.. I love you alot more now!!

  • @amulyaguduri6277
    @amulyaguduri6277 Рік тому +52

    Never commented on a video like this but WOMAN !!! You are one of the strongest women I’ve seen. The pain is tremendous but your strength is 1000x more than that. The storm shall pass. We're all praying for you and the bebe❤️

  • @dearpriyanka
    @dearpriyanka Рік тому +6

    I personally feel everything happened for a reason, a good reason. your baby 👼🏻 will bring lots of happiness in your and your family’s life. Praying best for you ❤

  • @somyabisaria3274
    @somyabisaria3274 Рік тому +12

    Stay graceful & strong 🖤☀
    I have lost my husband last july, it is love marriage. I can understand how tough it is. Raise yourself and baby together ☀ I am a leo too ❤🐾🦁

  • @nikitasharma9880
    @nikitasharma9880 Рік тому +183

    You saved me at a point in my life where I was battling whether to live or not. You introduced me to makeup, you turned my life into something I'm proud of today without even knowing it. And today I just feel like if I could just give you a hug, if I could just bring you to my house and take care of you, spoil you, love you the same way I felt love from you through a phone's screen but I'm so relieved that you have support. I love you mals ❤️

  • @houseofnails5847
    @houseofnails5847 Рік тому +29

    I recently gave birth 2 months back and I went through the same feeling of fear, uncertainty, not knowing what to do. You have also been going through a breakup and I can’t even imagine what it must have done to your mental health. I am so happy to see this video, seeing you come out and talk about it. All the love and support to you. Also I love your makeup videos. Keep spreading positivity. We love you ❤

  • @khushisapkale5377
    @khushisapkale5377 Рік тому +9

    Thankyou for making this video
    I personally was going through bad phase where I had constant self doubts, breakdowns in the middle of the day and so many sleepless nights. After hearing you out, it has given me the will and strength that it’s okay to feel this way and look on the brighter side💛
    I wish you all the best in life🌸💕

  • @mrittikadas1156
    @mrittikadas1156 Рік тому +1

    This video is one of the best videos on the Internet right now, and for reasons more than one! A big tight hug to you. Lots of love! Hopefully life brings smiles to your way in ways you haven't even dreamt of.

  • @rheeaarai7915
    @rheeaarai7915 Рік тому +10

    It takes courage to be vulnerable & your real self after being in the public eye for so long. Honestly, this is the first time I am watching a life update video of yours & idk if you’d ever read this comment but for all it takes, I want to offer my respect & only respect to you for voicing your heart out. You’re truly an epitome of beauty if I may say. Sending trucks of love & kisses to the coming little toes & his/her nurturer. :’) ♥️

  • @sheezakhan6729
    @sheezakhan6729 Рік тому +18

    I never usually comment on videos but I really want to give you the biggest virtual hug ever. I have watched your videos since I was 12 and watch you grow and explore your womanhood at different stages has given me so much strength and inspiration. I am also dealing with a heartbreak right now. I understand and relate to everything you said. And each time, you described how you felt. I was like me too!!! This felt like I was at home having a deep conversation with my big sister. Loads of love and healing energy to you. And kissies for the baby ❤

  • @bhavanic05
    @bhavanic05 Рік тому +3

    I needed this video today.. to remind me that life happens and we have to push through, heal and move on. Thank you

  • @supriya7123
    @supriya7123 Рік тому +3

    I am going through alot but comparing you it's nothing.....I can feel you... But girl you are so strong.. You are the person I love to look upto. You give me strength. Stay strong 💪, love and hugs.

  • @gaurisharma2478
    @gaurisharma2478 Рік тому +169

    It's 3:23 am
    And I'm coming out of a 6 year relationship 🙂
    I can feel the pain in your eyes Mal
    But you'll feel ease. Hope it comes soon ❤️

    • @shrutisingh2303
      @shrutisingh2303 Рік тому +5

      Power to u ❤️

    • @aiman.k
      @aiman.k Рік тому +2

      ❤🕊️

    • @Spgcustom
      @Spgcustom Рік тому

      Well used

    • @hitanshibehl9459
      @hitanshibehl9459 Рік тому +5

      Dear Gauri, I know it might feel the worst time possible, getting used to the fact you don't have anyone to wake up with a morning text but trust me it's one of the MOST LIFE CHANGING process. It's a new journey and Alot of smiles and laughter holds your way. Sending you lots of loves n kisses. Take care bud🤍

    • @gaurisharma2478
      @gaurisharma2478 Рік тому

      @@hitanshibehl9459 Thankyou for your kind words!😇

  • @shwetashreevlogs6408
    @shwetashreevlogs6408 Рік тому +10

    hey... i started crying while watching you.... i could feel that pain.... the most beautiful thing you said was... "feel your feelings".... i used to follow your husband... saw his latest story , he is in Mysore and was talking about a soothing calming song.... well sis first of all I wanna say is ... WE ALL ARE WITH YOU.....regarding your husband.... I think whatever you both are going through is a part of your spiritual upliftment,... i am a tarot reader and a spiritual being as well... in fact we all are.... so take this period as a gateway to become the strongest version of yourself.... forgive him for is behaviour, whatever happened between both of you...the moment you forgive him and yourself for everything, the universe starts relocating everything on is actual place.... now i pray THAT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER MAY REALIZE EACH OTHER'S WORTH AND MAY RECONCILE AFTER BURNING AND RELEASING OUT ALL THE PAST BAGGAGES... MAY YOUR DIVINE BABY, RECONNECTS YOU AND HIM.... TRUST DIVINE... HE IS WITH ALL 3 OF YOU.... OM SAI RAM ❤ DIVINE MAGIC BEGINS NOW❤

  • @namithaanand-qh7uw
    @namithaanand-qh7uw Рік тому +2

    Oh man, so sorry for this. But you’re handling this so well & setting a great example whilst growing a baby, you’ll make a great mummy!! I pray and hope for the best things for you and your fam❤

  • @missbhoir
    @missbhoir Рік тому +3

    Sending you lots of strength and blessings. And ya, nothing is a lot, not your look, not your talks! You shine! 🍀

  • @Priya3
    @Priya3 Рік тому +63

    Your child will be so proud of you one day when they see this video as a reminder of their mother's courage and strength. You are truely an inspiration to all. May god bless you.

    • @nirmalaprachande7567
      @nirmalaprachande7567 Рік тому +1

      Yess , INDEED an INPIRATION SHE IS❤️

    • @hnhnhn797
      @hnhnhn797 Рік тому

      ​@@nirmalaprachande7567 why did they breakup

  • @vibhutibatra9523
    @vibhutibatra9523 Рік тому +12

    Even through all the hardships, you're literally the most uplifting person!

  • @sk06007
    @sk06007 Рік тому +6

    Malvika I am sooo shocked with all the strentgh and positivity you are filled with despie what you've been through idk how you have the strength to show in front of the camera and be there for whoever is facing this problem. Seperation can be terrible and to hear that you and your mother both are going through the same is what is the saddest part for the family but you are here talking with us having a baby in you stomach you are soo brave your baby is soo lucky and blessed to have you. YOU MAMA HAVE STRENGTH

  • @Gunnuputtar1997
    @Gunnuputtar1997 Рік тому +14

    Being through divorce was tuff but going through pregnancy is unimaginable.... sending u positivity as u r doing it so well ...u r an inspiration

  • @priyankaravi4562
    @priyankaravi4562 Рік тому +330

    Now I understand why all her pregnancy videos are filled with sadness. Used to wonder this girl has everything going for her yet she is always sad, now able to understand the pain behind the smile. More strength to you. Remember, this too shall pass!

    • @thaasinnoushad937
      @thaasinnoushad937 Рік тому +1

      So trueb😢

    • @chitsme
      @chitsme Рік тому +28

      So true.. I felt that too.. Now I understand she was going through all alone... When she was to be pampered. She was left all alone..
      Mals u r very strong... 😘😘😘

    • @yukta6968
      @yukta6968 Рік тому

      Yes❤

    • @inayaakhatri5651
      @inayaakhatri5651 Рік тому +1

      What happened .। Please explain

    • @thaasinnoushad937
      @thaasinnoushad937 Рік тому +6

      She has parted ways with her husband

  • @pujatripathi81
    @pujatripathi81 Рік тому +192

    Watching this for the third time because this motivation is what I needed I got married got pregnant with certain complications took medications throughout the pregnancy was on bedrest and caught up into a single bedroom ,faced domestic violence while I was 9 months pregnant got over all of it and delivered a baby boy on 13th Feb past month that is when I knew my baby is my world which shattered again on 22nd Feb as I lost my baby who was a ray of hope in my life and now I'm on same track as you are in my married life , first time I spoke about all of this felt better. Strength to everyone who is suffering!

    • @whisperwaves9930
      @whisperwaves9930 Рік тому +12

      More strength to you. God bless and may you come out of this pain soon❤

    • @shilpisinghal5534
      @shilpisinghal5534 Рік тому +5

      More strength to you. Follow your heart and you will get your light.

    • @ruchikasehgal6836
      @ruchikasehgal6836 Рік тому +6

      Sending you love and strength

    • @TheKatChat47
      @TheKatChat47 Рік тому +4

      You can overcome this❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @snehlatasingh7303
      @snehlatasingh7303 Рік тому +3

      More power to you. You are bravest my dear

  • @anisha.gosain
    @anisha.gosain Рік тому +2

    You are brave and you are resilient. Within that you have pain & fears and dealing with it all and that makes you a warrior. Sending you so much love & light. You have so much wisdom & within broken pieces we pick them up and figure it out with our support system we have ❤

  • @gshadeyshadow
    @gshadeyshadow Рік тому +17

    So so proud of you. This half an hour had a message worth a lifetime. So thankyou for this. You helped so many of us to cope up with our baggage inspite of you being in this state. Hence you are a wonder woman. May God always guide you and protect you and heal you because of the wonderful soul that you are. I'm sure your baby will be as beautiful as you inside out

  • @saltsugar1903
    @saltsugar1903 Рік тому +6

    I'm just halfway through the video and I'm watching your video after a long time and pain is quite evident and I honestly relate to so many things, all I have to say is- IT ACTUALLY TAKES A LOT. I don't know how you're doing it, filming and showing up amidst all of this. I admire you for this and always will. 🫂💗

  • @DebanjaniBhattacherjee
    @DebanjaniBhattacherjee Рік тому +302

    I am just 30. I didn't buy a house. Thank you so much for this. I am 30 too and my family and everyone around me wants me to settle down with a house and husband don't know why. Buy a house, get married blah blah. Noone should judge like that seriously. Your video is inspiring. You are a strong lady and this shall too pass.

    • @sayanimatilal2848
      @sayanimatilal2848 Рік тому +22

      Same here giirlll.... Don't know why getting married is the only destination 🙄🙄

    • @montykodwate8669
      @montykodwate8669 Рік тому +5

      Same here. 🙄

    • @aniketabiswas5783
      @aniketabiswas5783 Рік тому +3

      Same here yaar....😌😌😌

    • @miranda3
      @miranda3 Рік тому +1

      Same here.

    • @Sandeep_kaur007
      @Sandeep_kaur007 Рік тому +5

      Ya my parents are also pressurising me to get married because i m turning 31 this months.

  • @thatsmooothskin
    @thatsmooothskin Рік тому +43

    Everybody is going through pain when she said this I literally cried!! This is sooo real and the courage it takes to talk about all this..I could see at every sec it felt like she's gonna break but still holding herself ❤️❤️ May you heal day by day. Stay strong

  • @Nand_Snowwhite
    @Nand_Snowwhite Рік тому +10

    I have been watching you for more than 3 years. Your personality is incredible and I always saw you like a super women and you are. Talking about myself, my childhood was with my mother alone looking 3 kids in rented house. It was tough. Now we enjoy our little moments and praise how strong we were when we were at that time. I saw you grown up alone with your mother and siblings. They are gems. I pray for your feelings your baby your mother and a fresh start🥰Long way to go✌

  • @Dr.Sumedha
    @Dr.Sumedha Рік тому +4

    I’m teary right in the beginning of the video. I feel your heavy heart.
    I have learnt so much from you since the beginning of your channel. I grew up with you.
    You have a special place in my heart. I guess, its my bestie going through this. I can’t imagine how overwhelming this situation is for you.
    Sending lots and lots of love. I hope you only get good things in life 😢❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ayushimathur4334
    @ayushimathur4334 Рік тому +11

    You’re incredible Malvika. Incredible. The way you talked about your hardships, so graceful and kind. Thank you for this. Even the tone of your voice is so calm, I can’t even imagine what it must feel like.

  • @zebanoor9370
    @zebanoor9370 Рік тому +506

    I also got divorced when I was 3 months pregnant and life seemed to end. Those 6 months were too difficult but after the baby was born, I was a completely different person and a very strong person. I took my time to heal and prioritise me and my baby. People suggested finding another partner but I was in no rush. I worked on myself, my career. Today, I'm very independent financially. I'm working as a content writer. And I've got an amazing partner now! It's been a year to my second marriage. My little one is so happy and complete with his dad 🥺💖
    Whoever is reading this, please remember, life happens but leave it on God. Everything gets settled in the end. It takes time to heal but it happens. 💖 THIS TOO SHALL PASS!🙏🏻

    • @whisperwaves9930
      @whisperwaves9930 Рік тому +16

      Hey so sorry you had to go through so much pain.. My mom too went through a separation with my dad when she was carrying me. I’m so glad you were strong enough and put all of that behind 😊

    • @saram2017
      @saram2017 Рік тому +1

      Hi..if I may ask u zeba...wat was the reason for ur divorce

    • @ThatGirlInVogue
      @ThatGirlInVogue  Рік тому +76

      ❤ thank you

    • @wildatheart15
      @wildatheart15 Рік тому +10

      More power to you for prioritizing yourself and not giving into the pressure ✨️

    • @saram2017
      @saram2017 Рік тому +2

      I have been through a very traumatic experience myself during my pregnancy... it was tough

  • @priyadevasitham
    @priyadevasitham Рік тому +3

    Sending Lots of love... Strength... Prayers... To you and to your baby as well❤️
    The Divine grace is with you all your way❤️☺️
    Take care✨️

  • @rheasalez468
    @rheasalez468 Рік тому +11

    My fiance and i been together for 6 +year's recently cheated on me with a very very close family member it has been very very tough also both are denying it i am currently 25 and i have definitely changed i was introverted before it made me more nervous meeting or having female friend's ❤ you may feel as if you are alone but you are not alone❤ i also suffer from.anxiety and depression sending lots of flowers to you ❤ and love , you aren't alone i been very lost it took me 6 years to realize he wasnt the one, and he probably didnt love me

    • @Swarskly
      @Swarskly Рік тому +2

      Had something similar happen to me. My ex bf of almost 9 years cheated on me with his friend. Never admitted to me that he cheated. Never got the closure as well, been to therapy and dealt with lot of losses.
      But currently happily married with man of my dreams. Like she said in the video, you will get your light. Be patient and work on yourself.

    • @rheasalez468
      @rheasalez468 Рік тому

      ​@@Swarskly ❤❤😭💔

  • @uditirohilla5714
    @uditirohilla5714 Рік тому +20

    I just don’t know what to say. I am SHOCKED
    All I want to do is give you a Tight Hug Malvika
    I feel you girl and I wish to the God to give you all the strength in this world and all the love and support you and your baby deserve ❤

    • @uditirohilla5714
      @uditirohilla5714 Рік тому

      You literally made me cry girl and I can not even imagine how you are coping up with all this
      I have seen you since so many years, admired you and loved your attitude towards life
      I am so proud that you are fighting for it and learning self love more
      More power to you Malvika ❤

  • @richagupta4666
    @richagupta4666 Рік тому +26

    Grieving is a process, remember it comes in waves! More love and power to you ❤

  • @hriyashankar9044
    @hriyashankar9044 Рік тому +10

    Every single word you said I felt it so much. A similar story. We all have our own struggles and we all deserve to bloom and here's another similarity, I'm a Leo as well. Sending you hugs and love :)

  • @ayeshapasha7019
    @ayeshapasha7019 Рік тому +5

    This is such a healthy way of coping from grief not saying anything bad or negative abt the man or life in general just spitting facts and talking about struggles you are such a mature person and this much strength comes with alot of pain but you are healing for yourself and baby may god helps you with every sec of your day sending lots and lots of love you will figure out everything I really hope u find happiness in coming days

  • @losthappy972
    @losthappy972 Рік тому +11

    You radiate so much power, strength and positivity in this video. Wish u and the lil one all the luck and love on this new journey.

  • @priy8380
    @priy8380 Рік тому +15

    “Everyone’s going through pain.” This is so true. The world needs a little bit more kindness. ❤️

  • @beverlydash220
    @beverlydash220 Рік тому +12

    He posted so much about kindness. Yet you're alone on this journey. More strength to you. It's not easy doing this alone, im sure you're well wishers are helping you along the way. But still you're doing this on your own which is empowering! Your journey will help a lot of single mothers out there .

  • @anujaanusikha3541
    @anujaanusikha3541 Рік тому +10

    I am watching my own relationship break each day and it’s been 6 years and watching it crumble hurts. And to not have support is a lot. So this felt like there is someone out there. So THANK YOU 🫂♥️

  • @sakhshepeer2818
    @sakhshepeer2818 Рік тому +51

    I don’t know how you got the courage to speak up about this. This is huge man. I’ve never seen someone so strong in my life. If I were you, it would have taken me years to face the world and actually speak about it without breaking.
    Hats off to you. You are a strong woman and a true inspiration for anyone who is struggling with a dark phase in their lives.
    More power to you❤

  • @dobhalrishika95
    @dobhalrishika95 Рік тому +9

    A Leo woman ♌ once again proving that she got it all. You're a god's child ❤️ All the love & happiness coming your way soonest ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kidsbabies6768
    @kidsbabies6768 Рік тому +1

    You have somewhat healed my broken heart with your amazing words., I feel calm and relaxed after hearing you

  • @Ann-so9yp
    @Ann-so9yp Рік тому +8

    Malvika, you spoke to me. You literally made me cry. I've been going through a lot of inner battles and conflicts too the last year or so. And been on the hunt for contentment, like you said. This felt like talking to a girlfriend that GETS IT. Thank you. Even though you might never read this, even though I don't know you personally, I felt seen and heard and validated and I appreciate it. I hope you find contentment and henceforth happiness very soon. I wish the same for everyone here. 🥺💜

  • @sush0509
    @sush0509 Рік тому +32

    Just hold on Malvika. I can imagine how tough it must be for you. You are such a strong woman and I am so proud of you.
    I have been going through a similar situation in my life, married for 8 and a half years, having a 3 and a half year old baby and no support from my husband as he doesn't want to earn, lives with his parents. Its been tough for me since the last 4 yrs but I am still trying to navigate between work, baby and responsibilities. I am thankful to my parents who have been extremely supportive. Lots of love to you and baby ❤️

    • @meghadalvi8685
      @meghadalvi8685 Рік тому +3

      Hi... it's great to know story of women like you. I am in same situation. My baby just 10 days old and i had terribly painful pregnancy period. I maneged all alone without husband support. He abundant me as soon as i got pregnant. Its emotionally stressful to be cheated

    • @anitagond9522
      @anitagond9522 Рік тому

      i cnt dare to wtch d whole vd cn pllzz ny1 tell me d reason bhnd der seprtn pllzzz

  • @mayuripete2032
    @mayuripete2032 Рік тому +2

    Malzzz…this just felt so so so personal! I cannot put in words but I know you will understand!! Love and strength your way❤

  • @monikadutta3524
    @monikadutta3524 Рік тому +4

    You are so brave! You will go through it..we are here for you!

  • @raccoon3357
    @raccoon3357 Рік тому +6

    Ohmygod Malz the pain in your voice.
    I am teary as I say this but for the strength that you have, you will reach greater heights! Your baby is gonna be so proud of you and thank you one day for this Malzzz you got thissss
    I love you!!! All of us doooooo!!!!!

  • @trendingnow126
    @trendingnow126 Рік тому +6

    she said all this in soft voice , that itself feels like hope, its just nice to be kind to everyone , you just dont know what they are going/growing through.

  • @manishapathak5186
    @manishapathak5186 Рік тому +1

    You are Love Girl. I love how you have accepted your situation. Like you said" Feel your feelings" and I pray that life brings you to a good place to be in again ❤

  • @akritiiie532
    @akritiiie532 Рік тому +3

    My beautiful sis✨ you have came along from the beginning with so much courage and never giving up attitude ❤ i know things are not going as we expected but God is with us keep beleiving ❤❤

  • @abbyg8360
    @abbyg8360 Рік тому +10

    You know, you’re literally like a sister I never had. You’re such a personable and a genuine influencer. No naatak nothing. Simply genuine. There’s no one like you Mals, literally no one. But something tells me, your best is yet to come. You have no idea how much I’ve learned from you. It’s only onwards and upwards from here. I’ll always think about you. I love you BBG ❤

  • @monisha6592
    @monisha6592 Рік тому +9

    I firstly just want to say thank you for sharing all of this cause it will help everyone struggling currently! Just know we as a community are here for you and God will definitely help you. He has a plan for your life he is in control ✨

  • @abhivandyasinghrajpoot1151
    @abhivandyasinghrajpoot1151 Рік тому +4

    I didn’t see any news or something but my heart is shattered to hear it. I can’t just cant…. Man hats off to you! If it makes you feel better then you’re not just a youtuber. Malvika Sitlani is like home to many many people out there. ❤

  • @pavithrakundar6513
    @pavithrakundar6513 Рік тому +2

    Love you Mals... My heart goes out for you. you are a strong woman and it only makes me proud of being one of your subscribers.

  • @withlovejb
    @withlovejb Рік тому +19

    I needed this today. Thank you malz🤍 how I was isolating myself because of my mental health from last year and seeing this video I realized how some people have it all so much more bad than me but still they are working and getting themselves out with battling inside. Thanks for inspiring me to get out of my comfort or rather say escape zone and work hard irrespective of everything. Put myself out there and stop running away from my feelings and thoughts. Lots of love to you and your baby😘 you are one strong girl becoming a stronger mother. 💜

  • @jasminekalsi1169
    @jasminekalsi1169 Рік тому +13

    Can’t really believe what you just told, it’s sad but you are very strong just like your mom. I am proud of you!! Strong mothers raise stronger kids and yours is going to be strongest ❤sending you love and blessings

  • @nair8934
    @nair8934 Рік тому +8

    Dear Mals, that’s how I have always seen you! As bubbly as you were to me then, you are a woman with fire! Fire that we all want it to glow more.. I’m just hearing you talk and I wish can give you a hug and say- we are here. Tons of best wishes to you and the journey you chose ahead. Be kind, grow and glow more!! Happy Woman’s Day Mals… ❤

  • @payelsaha9878
    @payelsaha9878 Рік тому +1

    Bow down to you....u have so much positivity...i feel so relaxed after watching this video...u r so so so so so strong...I was fellling little left out and gotcha UA-cam suddenly suggest me this video...I was not following you...but i will definitely do from now...i feel so relaxed...thanks thanks thanks to you ..and I know u r already strong enough...i don't need to tell u...still stay strong babe..happy..lots of loves and hugs from me to u

  • @rakshikaaphale3824
    @rakshikaaphale3824 Рік тому +6

    It takes a lot to talk about such deeply personal issues that have caused you so much pain. People are so quick to judge public figures but Malvika, your courage has truly made you stand out. Thank you for being so honest and always spreading kindness. I've been a loyalist for many years and I am so so proud of you.

  • @sc1253
    @sc1253 Рік тому +16

    Hi Malvika . First off you are a brave , honest woman who is bravely holding herself amidst this tough season of your life . Your courage & grace needs to be applauded . My best wishes to you & your little one 🫰❤️. Let there be light ✨

  • @shinymohanty3797
    @shinymohanty3797 Рік тому +3

    You and me are starting fresh. The old must be lost, but, the new YOU nd a new ME is going to be born soon. I am so excited to see both of us in the future. We are gonna be ever better than the older self. More grown and more glow.

  • @kritika_96
    @kritika_96 Рік тому +2

    You are so strong and brave to be honest. Going through a separation, parents divorce and pregnancy altogether, you are dealing with the life's major crisis right now, still showing up and trying to heal is just beyond courage. You will feel better and happy sooner, "I promise" you will. More power and love to you ❤

  • @anokhasalson2396
    @anokhasalson2396 Рік тому +4

    You are so strong! I just saw your video in my recommendation and played it randomly, and its my first time in this channel, but instantly this randomly played video hit so hard!!! LITERALLY YOU ARE SO STRONG!!
    Your words have made me too believe that very soon life is going to get lighter. I pray God keep you and your baby the happiest in the world. Your kid is going to be sooo proud of you!!!♥♥♥

  • @arundhatibhattacharya8960
    @arundhatibhattacharya8960 Рік тому +26

    I don't know whether you would be reading this or not, but trust me from the bottom of my heart a huge round of applaud for you! Going through what you are is really really brave! This is really something to learn from, how to let life go on. Sending a lot of love for both you and the baby💕

  • @meghanayak3220
    @meghanayak3220 Рік тому +2

    It just breaks my heart 😢
    But all the love and light to you mama!
    You gonna be a great mother and you’re already a great , strong , kind woman ❤
    I love you xoxo

  • @haleyc283
    @haleyc283 Рік тому +1

    Everything and everyone can change .i was shocked and cried when i saw this u are special.dont knw how you are coping dear .i knw what u are going through

  • @shivangisen6186
    @shivangisen6186 Рік тому +20

    Mals I cried and cried after watching this . I always avoid listening to heartbreak stories and when I got to know about you . I avoided more .I broke up right after my birthday(2nd august) it has been months still I can’t accept it . When you are telling like there are some days you feel powerful and some days you can’t and it is Leo thing omg that I don’t need anybody ! Mals you are really strong and beautiful inside and out thank you for making me also understand.

    • @hellojaya123
      @hellojaya123 Рік тому

      Hey everything will be alright..love your way 😊🫂

    • @PrakritiPandey0208
      @PrakritiPandey0208 Рік тому

      Hey bday sister (my bday falls on Aug 2 as well) you are brave. There’s nothing in the world that you can’t do & bear. You’re beautiful and life will be beautiful for you again

    • @Grace-ov6lv
      @Grace-ov6lv Рік тому

      Hi! I hope you know how strong you are dear. As someone who has ended almost a decade long relationship, it feels like breaking from inside but the power & reassurance you gain back for yourself is rewarding. Sending you a virtual hug. It will be better ❤