Can we just talk about Shivani i love how she didn't interrupt malvika when she's speaking like most of the interviewers nowadays won't let the person speak!! Shivani handled it so professionally 🤍🤍
Hello Shivani thanks once again to see your podcast with a Millennial Mind and bringing in Malvika to take her interview and know her & her family too. God Bless everyone 😊🤗❤❤
You have to understand that she is an influencer..her idea of broke is very different from ours...when she says no water and electricity means for the maximum hours there used be cuts in the building which I am sure most of the Mumbaikars have been through
Hi Malvika Keep the spirits going and God Bless you and your beautiful family always. It`s friendly suggestion nothing like meditation trust me will help you alot to gain positivity !! ❤❤😊🤗Good Luck........
I dont understand the concept of renting a 4bhk, having lavish vacations in first class air tickets, buying luxury cars but never investing in buying a house because "Mumbai is expensive" - the first thing anyone should do if they are living in Mumbai and want to continue living here is to invest in your own home - people don't invest in assets but liabilities this is what happens...I know people would say oh but she can move apartments and live in a dream house of her own.. its not convenient to keep moving places every 2-3 years unless you have a transferable job or something..the lesson one needs to learn here is also that they never invested in assets which is why the riches to rags story - I think this is also what she meant when she said her father had bad habits due to which they suddenly shot up to wealth. Crony means of survival don't always work if you do not have reliable assets and liquidity of the same to fall back upon. Seeing that she has a baby on the way it will be better for her to finally buy an apartment.. doesn't matter if it's a 1bhk or mansion - during tough times your assets help you and how..you can't even mortgage your house against a loan cos you don't own a house..I hope Malvika if you're reading this you don't do the same mistake that your dad did and actually invest smartly in the future.
@deeptigarg5939 are you new to her channel? See any of her videos or her earlier ones..she has said it a multiple times that they never owned any houses in Mumbai.. still don't own one...the 4bhk was also a rented one..here she clearly says they couldn't make the rent so had to rent a 3bhk and then eventually a 1bhk
A really sensible comment , don't mistake it for hate or troll .You are actually making a lot of sense , kudos to your maturity. Unfortunately very rare these days 🎉
But irony is ki hum jo b kuchh kar rae h, logo ko dikhane ke liye e kr rae h..dresses, mekup,brands n all .. all cultural n social n individual things are interlinked
So many things don't make sense here. Poverty is not a subjective matter, affordability is. Malvika couldn't afford her luxurious lifestyle after her dad lost all their money but she was in no way poor, based on her description. If she really was poor, she can't have done UA-cam because it takes a while for the channel to be monetized and for her content to start making money. She had the privilege and the option of choosing this career path despite it not generating money, at least for the first few months, if anything she was middle class but never poor. If she had been as penniless as she made it seem, she would've taken up any job, a sales girl or beauty assistant at makeup counters, or ANY regularly paying job because that's what actual poverty does to you. Desperation pushes people to take up real jobs, not make videos on youtube. I'm not hating on her but this is no UNFILTERED TRUTH. I've followed her on youtube for years now almost since the beginning of her career here but all this is just plain exaggeration. Six months without water and electricity... does that make any sense at all? Idk if the host was being polite by not countering her or just unbelievably naive. Also Malvika, you said money could've made you a very different person and a spoilt brat.. with all due respect, you're no different now. You reek of entitlement and privilege and sometimes the way you treat your audience speaks volumes about your ingratitude.
The fact that she still talks about the good memories with her dad so fondly shows how balanced she is as a person. It is so easy to talk trash about someone who has wronged you, but she continues to see the good times as they were instead of painting them in bad light. So inspiring, Malvika!
The day I randomly found Malvika's separation video, only after watching the first few minutes my heart dropped. Even though i haven't been following her for a long time probably years, just knowing the fact that she is going through a pregnancy & separation, my heart was wrenching for her. I just couldn't watch that video. It took me another 2-3 days to make myself sit though that and oh boy, each couple of mins of that video was another surprise and more deeper wound. I am not married, neither do I have a baby but as a woman i know what she went through is our biggest nightmare. No one ever in their worst of dreams ever wants this to happen all at once. Mals was living the nightmare with a smile on her face. I cried for her. This woman is the epitome of courage and strength. I don't know how she's even able to speak about it without breaking down, I could never. As someone who struggled mentally and was in depression, what she said is 100% fact. Only you can pull yourself out of the mess, it takes a lot of self love to understand that you're the only one who can fight for yourself and pull u through. It takes a lot of courage to realise only you can bring the change in your life and no one else is responsible for how you're feeling. Hats off to her will power, i am so so proud of her.
these were exactly my emotions when i first saw the video. i’ve never actually prayed to god for a content creator who i merely know through the internet, but my heart aches for her and i pray for her to heal soon from all of this. I feel totally. Her better days are coming for sure
Still confused about whether her father passed away or abandoned the family. The comments suggest that he passed away but Malvika mentioned going through the mother’s divorce and her own separation.. anyone who can give some clarity?
Akhil really lost the most precious diamond. No matter what the situation was, he should’ve been here with the most beautiful soul, she needed him the most. Nevertheless, Mals you got this and I wish nothing but the best for you and your baby. God had better plans for you. We love you. Prayers for you all the way!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@richagupta2665 A woman can't do wrong or anything terrible while being pregnant that makes a woman separate from her partner... It's just impossible.... 🙏..... He left her while she's pregnant...what more horrible thing than this, that a guy can do to Her partner... :(....
mothers putting their children first is pure love and not victimization, when you love someone its inbuilt it has nothing to do with self love, you can love yourself very much and still put your children frst, she needs to stop preaching blindly.
The host Shivani is so well mannered and did not interrupt her guest Malvika even once… she was listening very patiently and the conversation was so smooth… A lot ot journalists need to learn this from you Shivani !
I don't think one should dismiss off women who choose to stay married for their kids. It is important for a child to have a stable foundation. And if a mom feels that her issues don't matter as much as providing steadiness to a child, it's fine. It is possible for a man to be a bad husband but be a very good father. Or the other way around.
20 minutes into the video and I had t pause to comment. Being a content creator it takes so much guts to share the not so glamorous part of your life and look at her. Heavily pregnant, in the middle of moving houses, dealing with her own separation and her mom's but here she is looking like a million bucks and letting her thoughts flow so freely. The inner work she's done already is so inspiring. Her life seems like a movie from where I stand- somewhat like pursuit of happyness. I can't wait to see her happy ending where she and her baby have made it! Thank you so much for bringing us this. :)
STAYING IN ONE BHK DOSEN'T MAKE YOU POOR DEAR. INFACT LIVING IN UR OWN HOME EVEN A 1BHK IS A LOT FR LOT OF PEOPLE IN INDIA. BUT UR LATER JOURNEY IS ACTUALLY GREAT.
@@mousumi4465 also they were in 4 bhk n suddenly to 1. It’s hard to process obviously n that time would have felt like poor from previous standards obviously
You have to understand that people do not judge everything in absolute terms. She was RICH. From that perspective, shifting everything into 1BHK and navigating around a much lower income level makes one feel like they are POORER. For her, that's what being poor looks like. It's her phenomenological level of perspective and we are actually no one to judge that for her!
Subscribed because of malvika. I mean this girl's wisdom and courage is unreal. She's definitely breaking the old patterns and there's so much to learn from her.
Malvika, one day your daughter/son is going to see this video, and you have completely made him/her feel that shes unwanted into this world for the choices you have made in your life, for no fault or her/him. But atleast your honest!
As a mum to a one year old, I second that when she says 'it will be me first and then the baby'. This is the result of healing yourself. Only when you put yourself first, take care of yourself first, only then will you be able to put the best version of yourself to take the BEST care of your baby, do the BEST for your family. Abandoning your needs thinking it's selfish, you are only putting your priorities with a 'managed and compromised' YOU.
Sadness is addiction… can’t tell u how much it means coming from you. I have been feeling and realising this but always thought how can it be a sense of addiction. Such a powerful interview… thank you !!!!
I feel like when she spoke about "Dont say - I have anger issues; this is who I am" she was referring to Akhil. Even if she wasn't, that line is so powerful. Inability to regulate anger needs to be called our and not normalised.
31.42 I say it very proudly as a flight attendant myself we never say mask on the child first , we always say in the Public Announcement be it in Hindi or English “doosro ki sayahta karne se pehle apna mask pehenle “ which means “wear ur mask first before assisting others” and that applies even for infants & children.
We hv seen how he was with her!!! He was so supportive and suddenly this happened so we don’t know his side of story so let’s not judge him as it’s always easy to judge a man!!!! Malvika will surly is a good person but we don’t know what happens behind the camera… on camera everything is hunky dory
She is so freakin strong! More power to her!! Also the fact that Shivani didn’t even try to mint her divorce for views which I’m sure any other interviewer would have done was so respectful god that’s so fresh!
I don’t think she is speaking the truth here. I went to her UA-cam channel she said that she started it when her father and mother split and she lost everything whereas in her makeup video she says that her mom dad went to Thailand and bought keihls products for her
I can recall one of Mal’s video where I think they got their marriage registered and one of her closed friend said to her that “Put yourself first” and today we see Mals actually following that advice and doing the best for herself ❤ so happy for you have chose to be brave and courageous ❤
This podcast made me just feel how strong a girl can be.... Malz you are brave and your thoughts are so good and needed for this broken generation. Lots of ❤
Loved how the host was so supportive and non intrusive at the same time love the vulnerability of both the beautiful women. More power and love to us women and everyone reading this comment.❤
I had a very similar childhood where one day we had everything, and the next day had nothing. I was just 10, and had to stay without school for a year. I could relate to a lot of things Malvika mentioned, especially when she said how difficult it is to trust men and take something from anybody. Today I have everything I want and everything I earned, but some days this just hits me and makes me so damn low.
I have questions. Why does a story not match? she talks about being in college and doing runways and feeling that she isn’t making enough. But she also talks about being in a very rich and luxurious phase of her life till 21. Isn’t 21 when you graduate? So how are you having the best of phones? Latest iPhone, BMW’s, Mercedes and five cars under your building and still feeling you aren’t making enough? BTW, she also mentioned she had a lot of pocket money. So why was there a need to feel you want making enough? Second question, she talks about living in a 1BHK and not having water and electricity for six months but also about copying or getting inspired from the western make up community and teaching the same to Indian audiences. Hold-up! How are you affording the make up you were using to bake, contour conceal, and what ever the hell, the west, was is doing? While I can sympathise with her for her father, leaving without a word and then her husband while she is about to have their baby, I cannot understand what is the need to make up weird stories that do not match all the timeline she herself mentions. Also, as a person who has suddenly become poor in a drop of a minute, as mentioned by her, how does your conscience allows you to not look at serious methods or ways of income? Especially, when you say your younger brother had to drop out of school and the older one was is the only earning member and not to forget your mum a homemaker? How do you get the financial resources to buy is in light, still use an iPhone to film, be able to buy beauty products, and not be able to afford water, electricity, rent?! PS: no hate, just a curious mind, trying to understand the timeline and basic things as affordability for a a richest to rags household with a single earning member.?!
Umm yea.. I do get your question.. But now as we are digging into it.. Let me put forth my pov.. That when she talked about losing everything in a flash.. She would have lost an income, house and luxuries.. But she did have had her old stuff.. And stuff like makeup, clothes, phones, etc are personal belongings and does not count to assets or stuff that can be mortgaged or rented whatever.. So that do make sense to me.. And when we talk about the pageants and stuff.. Umm she did say that she was doing that for a long time and then she had to go through all the rough patch during that period only and that's when she would've realised that it wasn't working.. And in Mumbai 11-12th are also considered as college.. So all and all.. It doesn't feel a lie or a cooked up story.. It might seem messed up chronologically or whatever.. But umm.. Let's just not get into it and end up making it something negative..
I loved how Shivani was not too intrusive about Malvika's divorce but she was very empathetic and more focusing on how she dealt with certain situations in life. Literally No controversial questions for click bait. Just authentic discussion over life, relationship, mental health♥️ I loved malvika always but now I also love your personality Shivani!🤗
It was an amazing interview. I just wanted to add in India we cannot know the gender of the baby pre natally. It's a crime. The doctor can report to the police if a parent demands for it.
One of the most important thing I noticed is the host. What a beautiful and standard understanding she had for the guest. Gentle and valid questions that had clear points. Learnt a lot from this interview. Self love Heal It is ok to be sad , but heal out of this.
I have been following her for past 2years.. and oh my God... She as a woman..is so powerful so positive and clear with her thoughts.. i just love her ❤❤
No one is stronger than a mother. Malvika has gone through a lot and still she is. But becoming a mother made her stronger than before.. and look at her, she looks stunning❤❤
Yes, self love is very important. My mom says why do you buy makeup and new clothes and stuff instead of focusing on your baby? As a mom, your only goal should be to care for your baby. No, i do what makes me happy. I love my baby very much but the way i display love is not the same as yours. It's ok to love yourself first. Only when you love, respect and look up to yourself can you expect others to treat you nicely. Please women, keep this in mind. No matter what society or family tells you, you choose yourself over everyone else because you're the only person you'll have to live with for life. Be true to yourself, love and respect yourself
When you were talking i felt i've been through this .. im a mother of two and in a long distance relationship with my husband . When he calls he first wanna see his children talk to them than it was me he sees after.. i feel soooo neglected, ignored, alone 😢😢
How come they didnt invest in any assets , savings or insurance when they were so freaking rich, even middle class 9-5 working ppl have a chunk of their money in savings for the rainier days.
U didn't hear maybe a part where she is mentioning that my dad gave us a good life and money and then he took all of it. So maybe how she mentioned her mum maybe her mum never got involved in all savings and assets things and she and her brothers were not in that age where they could understand this. So maybe his dad took it all and gave nothing to her mum. That's just a theory of what i could understand when she was talking. But yeah she is so strong. And like taking all this in and coming out so Strong is just Hats off to her❤
Yeah exactly. And having so much wealth how come they don't have their own house. Even a middle class these days have a own flat they downlayment some for rest they take loan. These are all fake nonsense PPL.
I have worked with airlines and it’s always like put your mask first and then your child. Only if you can save yourself first, you can save your child. I don’t know which airline you have heard this from. But it’s always the other way around.
What is her side of the story it's only her story and people that were and are there in her life. She didn't even mention what really went wrong only how she handled through everything
Why? What his side of the story! She didn't even say anything bad about him! Stop putting men on pedestal! Whatever happened, he could have been there at least physically for the support instead of running to Dubai! She literally hasn't said single thing negative about him or anything! There is no his side of the story!
@@PratyushaMishra yea its Malz who is so respectful towards her ex partner. Yet ppl want to make a fuss about it. They jus didnt understand this entire interview
Umm,this wasn't a Gossip session on WHY they broke up or what happened.So,his side vs her side to get into private details wasn't even up for discussion & doesn't have to be.This was more like the healing process,trauma patterns & moving on.
Followed Mals for years up till her marriage to Akhil and lost her after that like I just unfollowed a lot of social media people in that time and the shock I got today discovering this video. Omg mals . Love and support and respect for you
I have not watched it yet, just started the video and only clicked because its Malvika Sitlani! I saw her UA-cam journey from start and will support her always! She is one of few Indian UA-camrs i adore the most
Love how Malvika talks about healing, it's all about learning, unlearning and learning again, it's a constant process. I'm in awe of how she is so positive after all that she has been through. Loved this podcast so much. Lots of Love to Malvika! ❤️
Malvika such a amazing person she didn't even mention akhil bad side or something kuch bhi hua ho wo personal hai ..we still hope they come together ❤❤😢
Breaking this podcast in 3 words- 1. SELF - LOVE 2. CONFIDENCE 3. POSITIVITY had the best 1 hour of my life love u malz and shivani i just saw u first time and i am soo hooked to ur podcasts now definately gotta finish every video by today night 😂🫶🏻❤️
I have so so much love for this woman right here…shes in so many ways like me and the fact that she normalized so many taboo topics is just so amazingly empowering to every woman out there. She is the epitome of a empowered self made woman that i have come to greatly respect and love. More power to you mals for everything you have been through and still learning to heal yourself as well as others on this journey of love, loss, sadness and healing. I hope there are better days coming for you and i hope you know how loved and admired you are. A QUEEN THAT DOESNT LET HER CROWN SLIP.
Ohh my good how much I loved this malvika was really being so genuine and truthful she is literally a queen love her so much and kudos to you shivani for bringing her and giving us this wonderful piece
Listening to this podcast, I'm crying for Mals and so proud of her as well. I've been following her since 2017. And I can definitely see growth in her and it feels like I'm growing with her and she is my big sister. She is a true gem.
Authenticity, acknowledgement of feelings, seeking help, motivation, inspiration, self love, healing, self work, shadow work, courage, breaking cycles, unlearning and showing up. So many takeaways from this so very raw podcast. Much love to both Malvika and Shivani. Thank you for being here and doing what you do.
Correct me if i am wrong. No offence meant. But malvika said she's surrounded by people from broken families. Does this mean she manifested her own divorce.?
Idk if she even read my comment on her separation post but that’s exactly what I said it’s better to have one Happy parent than two unhappy ones. I have just discovered this rebellious part of you and it’s so inspiring I need to learn how to keep my cup full , how to love myself , how to enjoy my own company (coz I hate being alone ).. I probably should start therapy !! U gonna do great Malz … very proud !
Can we just talk about Shivani i love how she didn't interrupt malvika when she's speaking like most of the interviewers nowadays won't let the person speak!! Shivani handled it so professionally 🤍🤍
Awww thank you so much ❤️❤️
You are rt❤
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Hello Shivani thanks once again to see your podcast with a Millennial Mind and bringing in Malvika to take her interview and know her & her family too. God Bless everyone 😊🤗❤❤
No current and water for 6 months straight how did she charge her phone, use her ring light and edit and post. Does not add up.
You have to understand that she is an influencer..her idea of broke is very different from ours...when she says no water and electricity means for the maximum hours there used be cuts in the building which I am sure most of the Mumbaikars have been through
Hi Malvika Keep the spirits going and God Bless you and your beautiful family always. It`s friendly suggestion nothing like meditation trust me will help you alot to gain positivity !! ❤❤😊🤗Good Luck........
I dont understand the concept of renting a 4bhk, having lavish vacations in first class air tickets, buying luxury cars but never investing in buying a house because "Mumbai is expensive" - the first thing anyone should do if they are living in Mumbai and want to continue living here is to invest in your own home - people don't invest in assets but liabilities this is what happens...I know people would say oh but she can move apartments and live in a dream house of her own.. its not convenient to keep moving places every 2-3 years unless you have a transferable job or something..the lesson one needs to learn here is also that they never invested in assets which is why the riches to rags story - I think this is also what she meant when she said her father had bad habits due to which they suddenly shot up to wealth. Crony means of survival don't always work if you do not have reliable assets and liquidity of the same to fall back upon. Seeing that she has a baby on the way it will be better for her to finally buy an apartment.. doesn't matter if it's a 1bhk or mansion - during tough times your assets help you and how..you can't even mortgage your house against a loan cos you don't own a house..I hope Malvika if you're reading this you don't do the same mistake that your dad did and actually invest smartly in the future.
They had to sell the house. They rented 3bhk after their dad passed, but couldn't make it so went to 1bhk.
@deeptigarg5939 are you new to her channel? See any of her videos or her earlier ones..she has said it a multiple times that they never owned any houses in Mumbai.. still don't own one...the 4bhk was also a rented one..here she clearly says they couldn't make the rent so had to rent a 3bhk and then eventually a 1bhk
@@deeptigarg5939 her dad did not pass..he left them ..their parents got separated
A really sensible comment , don't mistake it for hate or troll .You are actually making a lot of sense , kudos to your maturity.
Unfortunately very rare these days 🎉
@@Prachi608 whe u say we wer very rich n the way she says it ,probably means that had a lot of money n enough money to own a flat but did not
But irony is ki hum jo b kuchh kar rae h, logo ko dikhane ke liye e kr rae h..dresses, mekup,brands n all .. all cultural n social n individual things are interlinked
So many things don't make sense here. Poverty is not a subjective matter, affordability is. Malvika couldn't afford her luxurious lifestyle after her dad lost all their money but she was in no way poor, based on her description.
If she really was poor, she can't have done UA-cam because it takes a while for the channel to be monetized and for her content to start making money. She had the privilege and the option of choosing this career path despite it not generating money, at least for the first few months, if anything she was middle class but never poor. If she had been as penniless as she made it seem, she would've taken up any job, a sales girl or beauty assistant at makeup counters, or ANY regularly paying job because that's what actual poverty does to you. Desperation pushes people to take up real jobs, not make videos on youtube.
I'm not hating on her but this is no UNFILTERED TRUTH. I've followed her on youtube for years now almost since the beginning of her career here but all this is just plain exaggeration.
Six months without water and electricity... does that make any sense at all? Idk if the host was being polite by not countering her or just unbelievably naive.
Also Malvika, you said money could've made you a very different person and a spoilt brat.. with all due respect, you're no different now. You reek of entitlement and privilege and sometimes the way you treat your audience speaks volumes about your ingratitude.
You're right, it's not inspiring its misleading.
@@kathyson2683 and yet people just blindly believe whatever she says
It's okk everyone have there own way of living
The fact that she still talks about the good memories with her dad so fondly shows how balanced she is as a person. It is so easy to talk trash about someone who has wronged you, but she continues to see the good times as they were instead of painting them in bad light. So inspiring, Malvika!
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
Actually they say quite the opposite in a plane. They always ask you to put on the oxygen mask first before attending to others 😅
The day I randomly found Malvika's separation video, only after watching the first few minutes my heart dropped. Even though i haven't been following her for a long time probably years, just knowing the fact that she is going through a pregnancy & separation, my heart was wrenching for her. I just couldn't watch that video. It took me another 2-3 days to make myself sit though that and oh boy, each couple of mins of that video was another surprise and more deeper wound. I am not married, neither do I have a baby but as a woman i know what she went through is our biggest nightmare. No one ever in their worst of dreams ever wants this to happen all at once. Mals was living the nightmare with a smile on her face. I cried for her. This woman is the epitome of courage and strength. I don't know how she's even able to speak about it without breaking down, I could never. As someone who struggled mentally and was in depression, what she said is 100% fact. Only you can pull yourself out of the mess, it takes a lot of self love to understand that you're the only one who can fight for yourself and pull u through. It takes a lot of courage to realise only you can bring the change in your life and no one else is responsible for how you're feeling. Hats off to her will power, i am so so proud of her.
these were exactly my emotions when i first saw the video. i’ve never actually prayed to god for a content creator who i merely know through the internet, but my heart aches for her and i pray for her to heal soon from all of this. I feel totally. Her better days are coming for sure
Still confused about whether her father passed away or abandoned the family. The comments suggest that he passed away but Malvika mentioned going through the mother’s divorce and her own separation.. anyone who can give some clarity?
Akhil really lost the most precious diamond. No matter what the situation was, he should’ve been here with the most beautiful soul, she needed him the most. Nevertheless, Mals you got this and I wish nothing but the best for you and your baby. God had better plans for you. We love you. Prayers for you all the way!! ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
No hate to you but you cannot blame Akhil. You never know who did what, maybe she did something wrong. So don’t be judgemental.
@@richagupta2665 true
@@richagupta2665nothing,she just got married to a red flag
@@richagupta2665 you’re a paid bot. Saw your hate comment on the same post. :) get a life.
@@richagupta2665 A woman can't do wrong or anything terrible while being pregnant that makes a woman separate from her partner... It's just impossible.... 🙏..... He left her while she's pregnant...what more horrible thing than this, that a guy can do to Her partner... :(....
mothers putting their children first is pure love and not victimization, when you love someone its inbuilt it has nothing to do with self love, you can love yourself very much and still put your children frst, she needs to stop preaching blindly.
My dad also left us in my 20s. I am feeling so inspired hearing Malvika's story. So nice to hear about such strong women.. keep it going ladies!
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
Wait what, i thought she was a transgender all this while.
The host Shivani is so well mannered and did not interrupt her guest Malvika even once… she was listening very patiently and the conversation was so smooth… A lot ot journalists need to learn this from you Shivani !
I don't think one should dismiss off women who choose to stay married for their kids. It is important for a child to have a stable foundation. And if a mom feels that her issues don't matter as much as providing steadiness to a child, it's fine. It is possible for a man to be a bad husband but be a very good father. Or the other way around.
You don't believe me i watched this while taking shower . Because it's malvika's podcast i can't take a break in the middle of this podcast.
😂😂 love the dedication
So it took you an hour to get a bath?🤭
Let's appreciate the interviewer she is so good in her job ❣️
20 minutes into the video and I had t pause to comment. Being a content creator it takes so much guts to share the not so glamorous part of your life and look at her. Heavily pregnant, in the middle of moving houses, dealing with her own separation and her mom's but here she is looking like a million bucks and letting her thoughts flow so freely. The inner work she's done already is so inspiring. Her life seems like a movie from where I stand- somewhat like pursuit of happyness. I can't wait to see her happy ending where she and her baby have made it!
Thank you so much for bringing us this. :)
So well put. Wish you well too.
@Alena you are so sweet and empathetic like me so well explained
God bless you you are pure soul ❤❤
So true!! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
Tru
I have no idea who these 2 women are, but they are giving serious boss energy and I'm here for it.
STAYING IN ONE BHK DOSEN'T MAKE YOU POOR DEAR. INFACT LIVING IN UR OWN HOME EVEN A 1BHK IS A LOT FR LOT OF PEOPLE IN INDIA. BUT UR LATER JOURNEY IS ACTUALLY GREAT.
I guess shes talking abt rented 1bhk coz shes talking about the rent
@@mousumi4465 also they were in 4 bhk n suddenly to 1. It’s hard to process obviously n that time would have felt like poor from previous standards obviously
You have to understand that people do not judge everything in absolute terms.
She was RICH. From that perspective, shifting everything into 1BHK and navigating around a much lower income level makes one feel like they are POORER. For her, that's what being poor looks like. It's her phenomenological level of perspective and we are actually no one to judge that for her!
why do people need to tell such petty lies 😭😭
Subscribed because of malvika. I mean this girl's wisdom and courage is unreal. She's definitely breaking the old patterns and there's so much to learn from her.
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This anchor Shivani is absolutely gorgeous and authentic. Watching from South Africa
Malvika, one day your daughter/son is going to see this video, and you have completely made him/her feel that shes unwanted into this world for the choices you have made in your life, for no fault or her/him. But atleast your honest!
As a mum to a one year old, I second that when she says 'it will be me first and then the baby'. This is the result of healing yourself. Only when you put yourself first, take care of yourself first, only then will you be able to put the best version of yourself to take the BEST care of your baby, do the BEST for your family. Abandoning your needs thinking it's selfish, you are only putting your priorities with a 'managed and compromised' YOU.
Sadness is addiction… can’t tell u how much it means coming from you. I have been feeling and realising this but always thought how can it be a sense of addiction. Such a powerful interview… thank you !!!!
I feel like when she spoke about "Dont say - I have anger issues; this is who I am" she was referring to Akhil. Even if she wasn't, that line is so powerful. Inability to regulate anger needs to be called our and not normalised.
This is exactly the kind of host we need. No interruptions and bringing out the best in the interviewee. 🧡
Thank you so so much!!
Malvika saying I am *an extremely loyal girl* tells a lot about their reason behind their divorce.
31.42 I say it very proudly as a flight attendant myself we never say mask on the child first , we always say in the Public Announcement be it in Hindi or English “doosro ki sayahta karne se pehle apna mask pehenle “ which means “wear ur mask first before assisting others” and that applies even for infants & children.
The anchor is so good. She did not disturb Malvika.. She allowed her to speak her heart out
We hv seen how he was with her!!! He was so supportive and suddenly this happened so we don’t know his side of story so let’s not judge him as it’s always easy to judge a man!!!! Malvika will surly is a good person but we don’t know what happens behind the camera… on camera everything is hunky dory
Is 1 bkh poor, the am i ultra poor😅
She is so freakin strong! More power to her!! Also the fact that Shivani didn’t even try to mint her divorce for views which I’m sure any other interviewer would have done was so respectful god that’s so fresh!
I don’t think she is speaking the truth here. I went to her UA-cam channel she said that she started it when her father and mother split and she lost everything whereas in her makeup video she says that her mom dad went to Thailand and bought keihls products for her
I can recall one of Mal’s video where I think they got their marriage registered and one of her closed friend said to her that “Put yourself first” and today we see Mals actually following that advice and doing the best for herself ❤ so happy for you have chose to be brave and courageous ❤
Love to hear that! ❤️
Mals made it❤
This podcast made me just feel how strong a girl can be.... Malz you are brave and your thoughts are so good and needed for this broken generation. Lots of ❤
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why would you think a girl can't be strong? are you sexist or something?
Me too girl
You go girl Malvika. U r so strong. All the very best for u and ur baby
When she told she comes first … I felt so connected … ❤️ … mom’s often forget to take care of themselves once the baby is born
Loved how the host was so supportive and non intrusive at the same time love the vulnerability of both the beautiful women. More power and love to us women and everyone reading this comment.❤
Thank you sooo much
I had a very similar childhood where one day we had everything, and the next day had nothing. I was just 10, and had to stay without school for a year. I could relate to a lot of things Malvika mentioned, especially when she said how difficult it is to trust men and take something from anybody. Today I have everything I want and everything I earned, but some days this just hits me and makes me so damn low.
So much power to you. I am happy you got out of those bad days from your hard work. I hope you get everything you deserve and more
Here for Mals❤ love you gurl
I have questions. Why does a story not match? she talks about being in college and doing runways and feeling that she isn’t making enough. But she also talks about being in a very rich and luxurious phase of her life till 21. Isn’t 21 when you graduate? So how are you having the best of phones? Latest iPhone, BMW’s, Mercedes and five cars under your building and still feeling you aren’t making enough? BTW, she also mentioned she had a lot of pocket money. So why was there a need to feel you want making enough? Second question, she talks about living in a 1BHK and not having water and electricity for six months but also about copying or getting inspired from the western make up community and teaching the same to Indian audiences. Hold-up! How are you affording the make up you were using to bake, contour conceal, and what ever the hell, the west, was is doing?
While I can sympathise with her for her father, leaving without a word and then her husband while she is about to have their baby, I cannot understand what is the need to make up weird stories that do not match all the timeline she herself mentions.
Also, as a person who has suddenly become poor in a drop of a minute, as mentioned by her, how does your conscience allows you to not look at serious methods or ways of income? Especially, when you say your younger brother had to drop out of school and the older one was is the only earning member and not to forget your mum a homemaker? How do you get the financial resources to buy is in light, still use an iPhone to film, be able to buy beauty products, and not be able to afford water, electricity, rent?!
PS: no hate, just a curious mind, trying to understand the timeline and basic things as affordability for a a richest to rags household with a single earning member.?!
Umm yea.. I do get your question.. But now as we are digging into it.. Let me put forth my pov.. That when she talked about losing everything in a flash.. She would have lost an income, house and luxuries.. But she did have had her old stuff.. And stuff like makeup, clothes, phones, etc are personal belongings and does not count to assets or stuff that can be mortgaged or rented whatever.. So that do make sense to me.. And when we talk about the pageants and stuff.. Umm she did say that she was doing that for a long time and then she had to go through all the rough patch during that period only and that's when she would've realised that it wasn't working.. And in Mumbai 11-12th are also considered as college.. So all and all.. It doesn't feel a lie or a cooked up story.. It might seem messed up chronologically or whatever.. But umm.. Let's just not get into it and end up making it something negative..
iPhone and UA-cam equipments she must have got it before when father was already there. Business crashes take place at the drop of hat.
Creative personality are not fit for 9 to 5 and that's why they create better which most 9-5 people can't do.
Moreover water is free n india
Mals did not buy the light....it was gifted by Akhil ❤ She was so happy that day :))
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Sadly people forget that men have feelings too :(
Agreed on this.... Breaking the patterns , ❤❤❤
I loved how Shivani was not too intrusive about Malvika's divorce but she was very empathetic and more focusing on how she dealt with certain situations in life.
Literally No controversial questions for click bait. Just authentic discussion over life, relationship, mental health♥️
I loved malvika always but now I also love your personality Shivani!🤗
Wow what an amazing interview ✨❤️ Loved it.
I don't know how many lives this video is gonna save. It saved mine. Thank you so much !
This is so heartwarming to read! thank you so so much
Proud of you Mals..God Bless
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Without electricity how did you charge your phone, edit your videos and upload them on UA-cam?
😂good point karamchand
It was an amazing interview. I just wanted to add in India we cannot know the gender of the baby pre natally. It's a crime. The doctor can report to the police if a parent demands for it.
Thank you so much for saying this kindly, I had no idea at the time. only found out after reading some comments
An epitome of the beauty of a strong, independent, confident woman. Love you, Mals.
One of the most important thing I noticed is the host. What a beautiful and standard understanding she had for the guest. Gentle and valid questions that had clear points. Learnt a lot from this interview.
Self love
Heal
It is ok to be sad , but heal out of this.
I have been following her for past 2years.. and oh my God... She as a woman..is so powerful so positive and clear with her thoughts.. i just love her ❤❤
Living in a 1BHK in Andheri is a privilege.
During my pregnancy i felt same throughout-Alone, traumatic and depressed. I can totally relate and kudos to her the way she is dealing with it. 👏👏👏
U r absolutely right malz..lots of love 💕
I am so happy that you interviewed Malvika. She's such an amazing human being. I love her so much❤
Aw thank you so much! I loved recording the podcast too!
Each of her words screams of the maturity she gained over the time.
No one is stronger than a mother. Malvika has gone through a lot and still she is. But becoming a mother made her stronger than before.. and look at her, she looks stunning❤❤
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Malvika was in India's next top model season 1
Yes, self love is very important. My mom says why do you buy makeup and new clothes and stuff instead of focusing on your baby? As a mom, your only goal should be to care for your baby. No, i do what makes me happy. I love my baby very much but the way i display love is not the same as yours. It's ok to love yourself first. Only when you love, respect and look up to yourself can you expect others to treat you nicely. Please women, keep this in mind. No matter what society or family tells you, you choose yourself over everyone else because you're the only person you'll have to live with for life. Be true to yourself, love and respect yourself
She was broke but she had an iPhone😂
She also had Mac makeup already... I think her idea of broke was not having enough money for luxury which is what she was always used to
When you were talking i felt i've been through this .. im a mother of two and in a long distance relationship with my husband . When he calls he first wanna see his children talk to them than it was me he sees after.. i feel soooo neglected, ignored, alone 😢😢
How come they didnt invest in any assets , savings or insurance when they were so freaking rich, even middle class 9-5 working ppl have a chunk of their money in savings for the rainier days.
Financial illiteracy. This is the exact difference between rich and wealthy people.
Its possible that their savings was exhausted to pay debts
You enjoy your pizza! She get the money 😅
U didn't hear maybe a part where she is mentioning that my dad gave us a good life and money and then he took all of it. So maybe how she mentioned her mum maybe her mum never got involved in all savings and assets things and she and her brothers were not in that age where they could understand this. So maybe his dad took it all and gave nothing to her mum. That's just a theory of what i could understand when she was talking. But yeah she is so strong. And like taking all this in and coming out so Strong is just Hats off to her❤
Yeah exactly. And having so much wealth how come they don't have their own house. Even a middle class these days have a own flat they downlayment some for rest they take loan. These are all fake nonsense PPL.
Cheers! Malvika you are a strong woman and will be amazing mother for sure...
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I have worked with airlines and it’s always like put your mask first and then your child. Only if you can save yourself first, you can save your child. I don’t know which airline you have heard this from. But it’s always the other way around.
All the best dear .❤
Thank you 😊
You should call Akhil Aryan too on this show so that we can hear his side of the story too. He has built ION Energy and he is the CEO.
What is her side of the story it's only her story and people that were and are there in her life. She didn't even mention what really went wrong only how she handled through everything
How is it even related🤦
Why? What his side of the story! She didn't even say anything bad about him! Stop putting men on pedestal! Whatever happened, he could have been there at least physically for the support instead of running to Dubai! She literally hasn't said single thing negative about him or anything! There is no his side of the story!
@@PratyushaMishra yea its Malz who is so respectful towards her ex partner. Yet ppl want to make a fuss about it. They jus didnt understand this entire interview
Umm,this wasn't a Gossip session on WHY they broke up or what happened.So,his side vs her side to get into private details wasn't even up for discussion & doesn't have to be.This was more like the healing process,trauma patterns & moving on.
Followed Mals for years up till her marriage to Akhil and lost her after that like I just unfollowed a lot of social media people in that time and the shock I got today discovering this video. Omg mals . Love and support and respect for you
She is a therapist herself she don't know how she's motivating us how she's teaching us how she's healing us through her words ❤️
Omg malvika. You are the strongest woman i have ever came across.
Malvika inspires every women on earth ❤️❤️
I have not watched it yet, just started the video and only clicked because its Malvika Sitlani! I saw her UA-cam journey from start and will support her always! She is one of few Indian UA-camrs i adore the most
Love how Malvika talks about healing, it's all about learning, unlearning and learning again, it's a constant process. I'm in awe of how she is so positive after all that she has been through. Loved this podcast so much. Lots of Love to Malvika! ❤️
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Mal i love n learnt from u to love myself n i owe u, I never did dat, n i jst jst adore ur authenticity which is like almost a social mockery today
She might have chosen a man just like her father. Maybe unknowingly
Malvika such a amazing person she didn't even mention akhil bad side or something kuch bhi hua ho wo personal hai ..we still hope they come together ❤❤😢
Breaking this podcast in 3 words-
1. SELF - LOVE
2. CONFIDENCE
3. POSITIVITY
had the best 1 hour of my life love u malz and shivani i just saw u first time and i am soo hooked to ur podcasts now definately gotta finish every video by today night 😂🫶🏻❤️
Awww thank you Yesha ❤️
I have so so much love for this woman right here…shes in so many ways like me and the fact that she normalized so many taboo topics is just so amazingly empowering to every woman out there. She is the epitome of a empowered self made woman that i have come to greatly respect and love. More power to you mals for everything you have been through and still learning to heal yourself as well as others on this journey of love, loss, sadness and healing. I hope there are better days coming for you and i hope you know how loved and admired you are. A QUEEN THAT DOESNT LET HER CROWN SLIP.
Ohh my good how much I loved this malvika was really being so genuine and truthful she is literally a queen love her so much and kudos to you shivani for bringing her and giving us this wonderful piece
Thank you so much for watching Tasleem ❤️
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Listening to this podcast, I'm crying for Mals and so proud of her as well. I've been following her since 2017. And I can definitely see growth in her and it feels like I'm growing with her and she is my big sister. She is a true gem.
Why is the interviewer asking the gender of the baby? Doesn't she know it's illegal in India?
I had no idea! I’m from the UK! Thanks for telling me
You are an amazing interviewer Shivani!!
Aww thank you so so much
Malvika should be on Ted Talk. So much she said that many should hear, specially the loving yourself and pregnancy things.
@shivani, quick note, prenatal sex determination is illegal in India (owing to high female infant mortality rates in the past).
Authenticity, acknowledgement of feelings, seeking help, motivation, inspiration, self love, healing, self work, shadow work, courage, breaking cycles, unlearning and showing up. So many takeaways from this so very raw podcast. Much love to both Malvika and Shivani. Thank you for being here and doing what you do.
She really handle herself well.❤
Hey Shivani ! Hands down you are the best host. Really loved and appreciated how you hosted this show.
Awww thank you Ayesha! 💛
Correct me if i am wrong. No offence meant. But malvika said she's surrounded by people from broken families. Does this mean she manifested her own divorce.?
Idk if she even read my comment on her separation post but that’s exactly what I said it’s better to have one Happy parent than two unhappy ones. I have just discovered this rebellious part of you and it’s so inspiring I need to learn how to keep my cup full , how to love myself , how to enjoy my own company (coz I hate being alone ).. I probably should start therapy !! U gonna do great Malz … very proud !
Kudos to this woman 🙏😘😍🥰❤... God bless u malvika ✨😘🙏.. Stay loved and protected 😘🧿... And much appreciation to you shivani 😘🙏✨❤🥰😍🌼🧿.
Why the hell everyone blaming Akhil.. We do not know what occured behind doors so stop blaming one person only..