We're finally back home! || Healing begins || The Abbika Series

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  • Опубліковано 23 чер 2023
  • Hey guys!
    In today's vlog, I'm basically catching you up. I started my first pumping session and I'm trying to find a rhythm with my newborn at home. I was in a lot of pain because of my stitches si I'm just trying to heal, it's all so overwhelming... I hope you are tuned in with us
    We love you
    Xx
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  • @shwetaghosh6193
    @shwetaghosh6193 Рік тому +97

    Literally wait for your vlogs every single day🩵
    Absolutely, you ALWAYS HAVE TO STAY WITH YOUR KID. I'm so glad you told this!!!

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому +2

      Such a good video saavi

  • @Rapunzel-zs8zn
    @Rapunzel-zs8zn Рік тому +6

    You are an absolute warrior gal. I'm a first time mom to a 11 months old baby and I am just like you, super protective of my baby and watching him all the time like a hawk. Though I am blessed to be living in a joint family so have more than enough help around. I wish the same for you. Love and blessings

  • @mahirane8979
    @mahirane8979 Рік тому +300

    i honestly can’t imagine how you do this alone! you’re so strong! all power to you mals❤️

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

    • @monikamehta7597
      @monikamehta7597 Рік тому

      Where is her husband??

    • @sanjana_sahu886
      @sanjana_sahu886 Рік тому +18

      she vlogs the whole content and some one edits the video nd she'll post the vid in yt thats how it works .she's not doing it alone

    • @abigailkhongwir
      @abigailkhongwir Рік тому +5

      ​@@sanjana_sahu886she means that she's parenting all by herself 🥺

  • @mansimalviya2499
    @mansimalviya2499 Рік тому +4

    Literally after my mother you are the strongest female I have seen in my life and trust me when I say this!! 🥹❤️🧿 God bless you both ❤️🤞🏽

  • @nehachakraborty9058
    @nehachakraborty9058 Рік тому +4

    You're an incredible woman, Malvika. Baby and you are gonna be fine. Much love to you.❤

  • @NN-ku1mj
    @NN-ku1mj Рік тому +22

    In most of the hospitals there is a separate NICU station for phototherapy. They keep it sterile and wear scrubs as babies are prone to infection. That's way you were asked to stay out.

    • @eshasingh5379
      @eshasingh5379 Рік тому +16

      I swear, as a doctor I'm pissed. I understand she is a mother but we take care of the patients with utmost respect and care.. she is the kind of attender that makes a fuss about everything.

    • @shriyasingh4774
      @shriyasingh4774 Рік тому +11

      Thank god somebody said it!
      Influencers don’t fully understand how a system works, and are the first ones to jump on to a stupid conclusion.

    • @taradutta3052
      @taradutta3052 Рік тому

      She's a Karen that's what is expected of her. She thinks the entire world revolves around her and her problems. So sad that her parents couldn't teach her basic mannerisms where you learn to trust your doctor (who probably has more experience than her cuz she's a first time mother and they handle 100s of babies). Her daughter will probably grow up and become 100x annoying version of her. Never liked Malvika since INTM (because that's where her true personality can be seen) and her milking from her divorce and this baby is 🤯🤯 Has so much mental health issues but won't take a break from social media.

    • @RitusStories
      @RitusStories Рік тому +2

      It's not even about the system, no one gulping your baby. It's very annoying when patient parties like this create a fuss for no reason. Makes life soo soo difficult. There are 20 lakh reasons why you aren't allowed inside.

  • @sudarkheenaphukan2707
    @sudarkheenaphukan2707 Рік тому +1

    Praying for your speedy recovery…you are such a strong woman..love and blessings to the little one 🙏😘

  • @dhvanimehta9501
    @dhvanimehta9501 Рік тому +39

    You're the strongest mama !!!! 🫶🏼🥺🥰🫂Lots of hugs to you mals 🫂🫶🏼you'll get through this ik..🥰we all love you a lot ❤️❤️

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @harpreetkaur5211
    @harpreetkaur5211 Рік тому +5

    Stay strong,, more power and love ❤️

  • @theskindoc.aestheticclinic8980

    Lots n lots of strength and love to you!Stay calm happy and chill

  • @sadafmaher1265
    @sadafmaher1265 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for the talk Mal's really needed that ❤️ you always say I love you guys ..I love you more Mal's ..thanks for making my Sunday better ❤️ I really want to see you happy, healed and on vacation ❤️ more love to Abby ❤️ stay blessed

  • @TheKatChat47
    @TheKatChat47 Рік тому +6

    Malz❤❤Take care and rest❤ you are a warrior.. I can't imagine myself in your place😘😘 Thank you for showing the real and other side of pregnancy ❤

  • @nalsa03
    @nalsa03 Рік тому +2

    Malzzzz you are a strong strong woman!!!!Keep shining Loveyou❤

  • @divyaverma8344
    @divyaverma8344 Рік тому +7

    what a hands down mom you are 😻 love the way you're managing everything

  • @shriyasingh4774
    @shriyasingh4774 Рік тому +11

    When doctors ask you to step out, it is because they don’t want your emotions to distract them from giving your near dear ones the best quality care that they deserve! I have seen mothers fainting on top the small child at the site of the child getting cannulated.
    So please don’t comment on anything that you are not fully aware of.

  • @nehabhele2827
    @nehabhele2827 Рік тому

    keeping it very natural and real. hats off to you!! you mentioned she is not a cranky child, I think she is taking after her super mom!

  • @jyotirmayiswain2431
    @jyotirmayiswain2431 Рік тому +3

    You are so strong Mals! Proud of you girl ❤

  • @salmaazad8157
    @salmaazad8157 Рік тому +2

    Mals just tight hugs for you dear we are so proud of you 🥹🤍🫂 this video so much to say but no words!! Love you so much 🥺🥺

  • @manishabahrani
    @manishabahrani Рік тому

    Looking at your vlogs I get all the passion for vlogging ❤❤ i am sure you have inspired so many people

  • @gunpreeshduggal1424
    @gunpreeshduggal1424 Рік тому +1

    Mals you're such a strong mom... God bless you and Abby.. show us more of Abby ❤❤

  • @AqsaMunshad
    @AqsaMunshad Рік тому +1

    Literally wait for your vlog you are motivation for other single parents that's really good you are very motivated person

  • @Dimplevemu
    @Dimplevemu Рік тому +24

    Thank you for the update Mals. There is a purpose in pain. This too shall pass. You are stronger than you know. Know that God is the healer. Baby Abby and you will be in my prayers. Wishing you a speedy recovery. Good health to you and baby❤

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @anisaislam8441
    @anisaislam8441 Рік тому

    Your every word relates to me so much ...I just gave birth to a baby girl 22.06.23 ..n I'm in such a stage as you are..your videos are helping me heal n to know that I'm not the only one dealing with all the same things..take love mals ❤

  • @yagsinidas9471
    @yagsinidas9471 Рік тому +1

    U are extremely strong Malvika! Love u Abbie❤❤❤❤
    Don't worry Malvika! Everything will be fine! U will recover soon! God bless u & ur baby! ❤❤❤❤

  • @gunjandogra4931
    @gunjandogra4931 Рік тому +1

    I love how you talk....its just mesmerize me.....hope ur baby as pure soul as you...❤

  • @mayrakashyap7485
    @mayrakashyap7485 Рік тому +3

    Apart from everything the moment you said " but then she stopped crying" ( at 12.16) there's a vibe that's making me watch it again n again 😘 😘 i m keeping it repeaaaaaaaaaat...
    I literally felt it..that's why m writing my first ever comment here lots of luv and blessings from chhattisgarh to u and li'l malvika ❤❤

  • @bhumikadutta3384
    @bhumikadutta3384 Рік тому +31

    Watching u right from ur start...i feel stunned to see u grow so much..as an youtuber...a matured girl and thn a transformation from girrl to wife and now completing ur life by becoming a mom...it feels great even just watching u. Hope u stay happy with ur baby...watching ur recent videos makes me emotional. I am trying to concieve but not happening....love watching u😚

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @karunachauhan5685
    @karunachauhan5685 Рік тому +12

    Don't worry it's happens with all the new born babies so stay cool & calm 💖

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @prahansaa1909
    @prahansaa1909 Рік тому

    You are so strong Mal's...you are a stone to many...may god bless you and abby & may you heal soon🤍

  • @sukritithakur6657
    @sukritithakur6657 Рік тому +2

    More power and love to you ❤

  • @HR16rana
    @HR16rana Рік тому +8

    How beautiful is this series ❤

  • @user-lg8ob3lx7o
    @user-lg8ob3lx7o Рік тому

    Salute to your Strength ... Thanks that you didn't collapse❤

  • @suhanabhattacharyya758
    @suhanabhattacharyya758 Рік тому

    Thanks for taking your time to vlog. You are doing great

  • @shalakaverma4530
    @shalakaverma4530 Рік тому

    You will get well soon...God blees you and Abigail both❤

  • @ahnhyejin7043
    @ahnhyejin7043 Рік тому +1

    More power and lots of love to you ❤do
    all this ....post delivery post divorce

  • @shrutisrivastava1855
    @shrutisrivastava1855 Рік тому

    Lots of love..tight hugsss❤ This too shall pass😊

  • @Bonggirl07
    @Bonggirl07 Рік тому +2

    Malssss I've been waiting for vlogss soooooo long...
    Lots of love to Abby❤

  • @RupswetaRiniUnfiltered
    @RupswetaRiniUnfiltered Рік тому

    U gonna be ok very soon. Take ur time take care of yourself and baby 😘

  • @happysoul6674
    @happysoul6674 Рік тому +1

    More power to you girl❤. You are doing greatttttt❤

  • @shubhamgarg8370
    @shubhamgarg8370 Рік тому

    I just wanted to say thank you. My daughter is exactly one month younger than yours and similar to you I was struggling with limited milk supply and extreme discomfort due to the stitches. She hated the doctor suggested formula and then after watching your video I got Similac for her. Though she prefers mothers milk the most… but Similac has been a saviour for those difficult moments when my milk is just not enough. Thank you for sharing that.

  • @geetas925
    @geetas925 Рік тому +1

    Ur my inspiration literally...as mother ,she has to go through so much yet cnt say anything. Strong mama...love you mals...❤❤

  • @desigirlz2500
    @desigirlz2500 Рік тому +11

    I was expecting the labour story that 17 hr and giving birth to Abbi . Can you make a video on that ,this will definitely help lot of new mom to be.

  • @sakshi55897
    @sakshi55897 Рік тому +4

    My strong Mammaaaa ❤ tight hugg 🦋🦋🦋🌺🌺🌺🌺

  • @bindiachandel5014
    @bindiachandel5014 Рік тому

    love u mals.. praying for your healing

  • @twintrouble7625
    @twintrouble7625 Рік тому

    You are brave one just good positive vibes to u🥰

  • @amijoi08021502
    @amijoi08021502 Рік тому +10

    Strict with doctors 😂 no need to be strict with anyone dear!! Sometimes yes doctor also need space to work...if u want join ..upto u ...but it's ok if they also ask to get some space to work properly!!!

  • @itsjustsudha1511
    @itsjustsudha1511 Рік тому

    You inspire me alot love you alot and I missed you alot welcome back new mama❤❤❤

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @priyankabalaji1850
    @priyankabalaji1850 Рік тому +19

    You ve always had these motherly instincts maals ! Even we feel like you're our mamma

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @psingh360.
    @psingh360. Рік тому +2

    I don't know for what reason u just talking abt abby's condition had me teary eyed. Ur already a great mom mals❤ i really love you lady ❤😊

  • @akshadakadam8875
    @akshadakadam8875 Рік тому +1

    More power to you❤
    However when doctors ask you to wait, it’s so that they don’t have another patient and can do their job without any interference 😊

  • @_medhasharma_
    @_medhasharma_ Рік тому +11

    Lots of good wishes and good health to you both ❤

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @ananyachaudhary9223
    @ananyachaudhary9223 Рік тому +1

    You are soo strong Malzzz❤❤ love you lotssss

  • @kiholikiho3168
    @kiholikiho3168 Рік тому +1

    🎉congratulations🎉

  • @gurpreetsodhi123
    @gurpreetsodhi123 Рік тому +3

    She looks like a perfect blend of you and Akhil. Her eyes and eyebrows are exclusively like those of Akhil.

  • @anushka___0809
    @anushka___0809 Рік тому +2

    Strong mama!!!🥰

  • @Deesworld05
    @Deesworld05 Рік тому

    Proud of you mals
    Lots of love
    Lots of strength ❤

  • @smriti1181
    @smriti1181 Рік тому

    take care yourself and lots of love and happiness

  • @mabelcardozo257
    @mabelcardozo257 Рік тому

    U will be amazing mom for sure ❤

  • @pikamahajan5762
    @pikamahajan5762 Рік тому

    You will go through this phase n won't remember it... This all happened with me last year but you are strong lady .. you will survive this.. Also I used Medela harmony breast pump.. its really good

  • @amber_skies
    @amber_skies Рік тому

    God bless you ❤
    Love your longg vlogs

  • @komalkumawat7869
    @komalkumawat7869 Рік тому

    mine 8th month running...love you woman❤

  • @aarusheeshukla1241
    @aarusheeshukla1241 Рік тому +1

    Wondermom in the making❤❤❤

  • @eleven8408
    @eleven8408 Рік тому

    I wait for her vlogs. Literally!

  • @amyravyas7799
    @amyravyas7799 Рік тому

    Hey malvika,
    I am your subscriber from last 4 years.
    I never comment on any video,
    But today I want to say " you are going to be a superb Mom".
    God bless you and your baby ❤
    Lots of love and happiness sending your and baby's way 🎉

  • @manishabahrani
    @manishabahrani Рік тому +2

    Hope you heal soon and Abigail is so cute ❤️

  • @ieshitadey998
    @ieshitadey998 Рік тому

    I hope by the i am watching this you have healed Malvika or at least are better!

  • @tanushreemukherjee7966
    @tanushreemukherjee7966 Рік тому

    You are so strong diiiii❤
    Love you so much 😘😘❤

  • @bibibatoolpaknejad8754
    @bibibatoolpaknejad8754 Рік тому

    U got it girl motherhood has transformed u into this mature lady and possessiveness for u child is so OG and cute my God I can relate the situation it with my first born as I was just weeping to have her in my life but one suggestion if u are a non veg or veg whatever u need lots of protein to the strength back that y the weakness and shivers etc

  • @ysa9
    @ysa9 Рік тому

    You are a warrior❤❤ stay strong

  • @aishwaryaraikar6128
    @aishwaryaraikar6128 Рік тому +3

    Love you malssss❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @moumitadas6386
    @moumitadas6386 Рік тому

    Love your vlogs dear.. whats the glass frame that you are using? I really liked it.

  • @dalevaz9830
    @dalevaz9830 Рік тому

    There is a lot more to come. Enjoy the ride

  • @inshaali9618
    @inshaali9618 Рік тому

    Congratulations 🎉 May Allah bless uh all

  • @shovanamprakashhh
    @shovanamprakashhh Рік тому +2

    Good to see you...take care

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @sayantibhowmick9845
    @sayantibhowmick9845 Рік тому

    God bless you n ur angel❤❤

  • @shanmukhisiddhee4225
    @shanmukhisiddhee4225 Рік тому +1

    Mals u can have fish curry and rice, milk comes… love u Mals ❤❤

  • @hussainamra9843
    @hussainamra9843 Рік тому

    I feel you!! About not being able to see your baby in the photo therapy

  • @vinadasari616
    @vinadasari616 Рік тому

    Stay strong.... This too shall pass..... Wait for 6months to get life into rythm...

  • @jayglam332
    @jayglam332 Рік тому

    Lovely ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mehwishnosheen8693
    @mehwishnosheen8693 Рік тому +9

    I had a C section that was scary as hell, too the aftermath is a nightmare, initial days were unimaginable, my baby slept throughout the day nd was up all night, had mum by my side, was a tiring process thn breastfeeding her was a whole new task, I was a bit late ny body didn't produce at the start , And cz of major surgery I was unable to sit and feed her, all this tough beyond imagination, took me like months to heal. I was stay at home mom, left my job was taken good care of by my mum, nd healed nd happy and healthy,

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @Mahaahmedvlogs
    @Mahaahmedvlogs Рік тому

    Malvika❤ u deserve for millions ❤❤

  • @Nuwu94
    @Nuwu94 Рік тому

    Loving this series!

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @kanakchoudhary9225
    @kanakchoudhary9225 Рік тому +8

    Your voice when you speak tells a lot about how much have you gone through because you talk a lot and I can tell the difference from previous videos. Congratulations and more power to you for going through all this while recording your experience.❤️

    • @saavi5332
      @saavi5332 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/PP4W-kta9zw/v-deo.html&feature=share8
      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father

  • @shriyajainvlogs
    @shriyajainvlogs Рік тому

    Strongest ❤

  • @nehabhele2827
    @nehabhele2827 Рік тому

    thank you for sharing these experiences with us! you are brave and inspiring us be too!

  • @PsychiatristDr_Sangeeta_Hatila

    For most babies, day/night confusion lasts anywhere from one to eight weeks

  • @snowflake652
    @snowflake652 Рік тому

    Uhh r such an angel ❤

  • @mrh797
    @mrh797 Рік тому

    Can you please share how to you store the pumped milk and how to you use it when you have to feed your baby?

  • @nishachaudhary6720
    @nishachaudhary6720 Рік тому

    ❤❤god bless her😌🥰🥰🥰

  • @Anushka_konjerla
    @Anushka_konjerla Рік тому

    Love you so much malls and mini mals❤❤

  • @skincare_with_shraddha3484
    @skincare_with_shraddha3484 Рік тому

    Could u please link which pump u r using from pumping 🙏

  • @yashica90
    @yashica90 Рік тому +2

    I am a mother of 3months old baby. And had my baby through c-section, so for about two days I wasn't able ro get up to feed, but as soon i ate my food, i got so much pressure of breast feeding my baby, while i was bor able to sit by my own.... i was tired exhausted and in real pain... formula milk was a boon for me at that time. But after about a month I started exclusively brest feeding as then I understood my baby's mood and I was also feeli g better.

  • @nanditaroyale
    @nanditaroyale Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤

  • @kriturajputkarishma350
    @kriturajputkarishma350 Рік тому

    After watching your pregnancy videos I understood what i will go through in future when I will get pregnant, i tell you I really don't have so much energy, so much strength to get pregnant 😢

  • @pripri8814
    @pripri8814 Рік тому +7

    Your mother is a god Malvika. Not all mothers are. Worship her.

  • @DrSahaanaDentisTa
    @DrSahaanaDentisTa Рік тому +1

    I appreciate abt u being open abt combo feed … I somehow found most of the mothers in india are not ready to talk abt it and kind of hold a pride about “exclusively breast feeding” I mean- I get it , but at the end of the day- fed is best

  • @AnishaKG
    @AnishaKG Рік тому +1

    This lady is so so so strong !!!!! 💕

  • @bajuwaliaunty
    @bajuwaliaunty Рік тому +85

    Darling i know you feel like a mamabear. But trust the doctor, their experience . It is your first time but they have seen hundreds of kids. The mom is not allowed because it hurts them to see their babies pricked and prodded, which is necessary. You said it yourself that you cried while she was being pricked And often infections are most spreaded by the hands of caregiver. So it is plain disrespectful to hear you talking like this about doctors. It is you who need them and not the other way around. Anyways best of luck❤

    • @abigailkhongwir
      @abigailkhongwir Рік тому +11

      Awww you put this out so compassionately when compared to the other doctors in the comments section who's just straight up rude

    • @amijoi08021502
      @amijoi08021502 Рік тому +1

      👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

    • @swatinath
      @swatinath Рік тому +3

      It's interesting how some of her opinions are so strong that logic leaves side. I was also told to leave room when my 1 week baby had to have a blood draw. I asked them why so and the nurse told me that mothers freak out, their bp falls down, they even faint, have anxiety attacks. I told her it's ok, I will be ok, let me stay and she said ok, if you can manage to not lose your calm. So yeah, sometimes doctors know what to do. When you are in doubt, you can question them. So yeah, Mals, not everyone is against you, not everyone is judging you. Some people genuinely care. 😊

  • @desigirlz2500
    @desigirlz2500 Рік тому +2

    Please share your birth experience and how to keep yourself positive for normal delivery

  • @drishtibasor8351
    @drishtibasor8351 Рік тому +1

    Big hugs to you and abigail 😘,and more strength to you
    God bless you ❤

    • @namrata566
      @namrata566 Рік тому

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      Malvika Sitlani EXPOSED her Father