The WORST Person I Have EVER Read About. (Emotional North)

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  • @Backstabmacro
    @Backstabmacro Рік тому +78

    22:24 “I don’t have a whole load of time left”
    *proceeds for another 35 minutes*
    Love it Exile. Your rage was palpable.

    • @evilstans
      @evilstans Рік тому +2

      crap - it's 57 minutes. Not finishing this one today...

  • @HipsterCthulhu
    @HipsterCthulhu Рік тому +49

    Pirate King here with some important thoughts-- I'm so happy to hear that the author of the second story has learned so much about Narcissism, and is in therapy. All of this is brand, BRAND new to me as well, and since leaving that relationship, learning she was a narcissist is honestly making me feel bulletproof. However, I'm gonna say this about whether to stay or leave because of the kid... mate, I honestly think that you should LEAVE.
    If you remember the first half of my story, my Grandparents were in a very similar situation: separated, but stayed living together for me. But my narcissistic Grandmother did everything in her power to make my Grandpa's life hell, to the point where she groomed me and turned me against him. She told me he said everything North recommended; "I'll take you to court, sue you for half of everything, you're trapped here with me, etc", and painted him as the villain. It would have been so much better for him, and by extension, me, if he would have left sooner, and perhaps tried to go for custody of me.
    At the end of the day, you can't take care of others if you don't take care of yourself first. Take that as one broken guy who always wants to lift others up, to another. Good on you for writing in, man! Stay strong, and have the strength to make a decision as soon as you can. Becoming financially independent is a great start. o7

    • @ironbomb6753
      @ironbomb6753 Рік тому +1

      I think I remember your story. Hope things are going good now for you.

    • @ClevelandSteamer0
      @ClevelandSteamer0 Рік тому +1

      All the best to you brother.
      Some fella’s on here just get a rough shake.
      As long as you can sleep at night knowing in your heart that your moral choices are just, then be at peace my dude.
      Your life is your own. It’s not a dress rehearsal. You owe it yourself to be happy.
      In the end, that’s all there is.

    • @KameSennin4209
      @KameSennin4209 Рік тому

      Tell 'im king

  • @jamesireland3135
    @jamesireland3135 Рік тому +44

    At the 22 minute mark where he gets back with her, again, I actually shouted out loud "F*CK OFF"
    😂😂

  • @matthewtucker1578
    @matthewtucker1578 Рік тому +19

    To quote one of my favourite quotes: '(she)can't be bargained with, or reasoned with... doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear, and absolutely will not stop, ever'

    • @zobazoba6418
      @zobazoba6418 Рік тому

      I heard this in one perturabo mix

    • @MikeJones-lf4bl
      @MikeJones-lf4bl Рік тому +2

      Lol terminator

    • @bibsp3556
      @bibsp3556 Рік тому +1

      They can however, be stumped, when you walk the fuck away. They by their nature will never see it coming

  • @carlfuruwidh1016
    @carlfuruwidh1016 Рік тому +20

    This was the most expensive video i have ever watched. It cost me 400€ to replace my desk after i smashed it so many times.

  • @nordenp
    @nordenp Рік тому +14

    Dude kept rolling ones on 2+ checks. Damn that was a rollercoaster

    • @wakingupat2pm349
      @wakingupat2pm349 Рік тому +1

      This. 😂😢

    • @thrrax
      @thrrax 6 місяців тому

      That and he kept playing a game with loaded dice. Addiction.

  • @ZontarDow
    @ZontarDow Рік тому +46

    I felt physical pain with this one.

  • @ryankrelic971
    @ryankrelic971 Рік тому +54

    At this point he has no one to blame but himself.

    • @adamsboringvids
      @adamsboringvids Рік тому +8

      Milk of human kindness mate!
      Honestly though being in an abusive relationship, coupled with the trauma this poor sod has already dealt with changes the way your brain’s wired on a physical level (as well as changing the body physically in other ways). Recovery from that can be a lifetimes work. As frustrating as it can seem from the outside it’s not his fault, chucking blame and judgement on top just makes it harder.
      If you can’t imagine why someone would keep going back to an abusive partner think yourself lucky.

    • @timbob1145
      @timbob1145 Рік тому

      @@adamsboringvids well said, the real mind f for me is feeling sorry for the narcissist... As you know they are a victim of their own condition.

  • @gregorde
    @gregorde Рік тому +16

    This hobby appears to attract some odd guys. These guys really need advice and support from older guys who have their lives together. Sometimes you just need an honest friend. Somehow this channel is therapy for nerds.

  • @USALibertarian
    @USALibertarian Рік тому +10

    Gray Rock and No Contact are the only known ways to deal with narcissists. If you are doing anything other than that you are losing and will eventually be defeated and possibly destroyed.

  • @Chasemcloud5745
    @Chasemcloud5745 Рік тому +14

    Northern please be careful about your finger. I cut my own finger at work last week. Thankfully not on my left hand.

  • @KameSennin4209
    @KameSennin4209 Рік тому +10

    Wow, words cannot express my bewilderment with that second story. This is what happens when you lack self respect and allow yourself to be a doormat.

  • @gehteuchnixan3052
    @gehteuchnixan3052 Рік тому +9

    That was an intense one. Had me yelling at my screen a few times. Thankfully, you said everything that needed to be said.

  • @verigone2677
    @verigone2677 Рік тому +11

    Therapy will eventually backfire if you don't remove yourself from the situation.

  • @kuato8418
    @kuato8418 Рік тому +9

    “ Pick the kid up and hit her with it!!!” Lol 😂that was hilarious

  • @Kharmazov
    @Kharmazov Рік тому +6

    I have nasty nagging feeling her realizing that the grasp is finally slipping might end up in a desperate move on her side of claiming domestic abuse and getting our friend in a boatload of legal trouble.

  • @jod8722
    @jod8722 Рік тому +6

    After all that, when it came to where they were now is truly heartbreaking. This poor soul is a slave to misery and self punishment. Sending positive thoughts and hope life gives you the strength to truly overcome and end this story

  • @mrshamster4077
    @mrshamster4077 Рік тому +3

    That girl should be avoided at all costs.
    "I'm still with Steph..."
    He can find someone so much better.
    I'd be sleeping with one eye open, make sure you have money etc put aside somewhere safe.

  • @crimsonknight7011
    @crimsonknight7011 7 місяців тому +1

    I remember a story of where this 20 year old girl had a kid and the father ditched and ran. Her friend than said he would babysit her kid for free so that she could go to college/work because she didn’t have money to hire a babysitter. He did this for like a year or so for free to help her. Than out of nowhere she turned around and sued him for child support claiming that he was “filling a fatherly role in the child’s life” and therefore she should be able to get child support from him.
    Some people are just insane

  • @jaytwokay3265
    @jaytwokay3265 Рік тому +13

    37:55 North is charging up his ultimate attack.

    • @BaronR
      @BaronR Рік тому +2

      INTO THE SEA BEAM ლ(ಠ益ಠლ)

  • @meager992
    @meager992 Рік тому +5

    It just keeps getting fuckin worse. MY GOD!!!!

  • @doomguy9049
    @doomguy9049 Рік тому +3

    He's afraid of being alone and thinks that if he treats someone right they'll treat him right, but people like his ex are predators and can sniff people like him out from a mile away. I've had to cut a friend off for marrying a woman like this guy's wife, it sucks but these guys can't see past the fantasy of their woman to recognize who she actually is.

  • @MrGibsn1960
    @MrGibsn1960 7 місяців тому +1

    These are great to sit and paint to. So many relatable stories and so much perspective. New sub.

  • @AdamMichalMarkowski
    @AdamMichalMarkowski Рік тому +6

    27:18 - setting up a store, while still being married to HER? FUCK
    37:59 - "Rest, Ophelia..."
    39:51 - am I the only one who thinks after he was all "BDSM or me" - Steph started cheating again?

    • @Phoenix8492
      @Phoenix8492 Рік тому +1

      Very likely she did, because she would rather be in the arms of a man who gratified her than her husband who doesn’t “know where he’s supposed to stand.” If he finds out she did again, then he’ll blame himself and she’ll “give him a chance to sort himself out again” for the transgression of telling _her_ what not to do.

  • @alohi79
    @alohi79 8 місяців тому +6

    I stopped waisting empathy on ppl who are this broken. Being around Hyper codependent ppl becomes as toxic as being around the narcissists that feed off them. Sometimes more so because its easy yo block out the narcissist, but the codependent hurting themselves constantly by going back becomes heart breaking to be around. Just pray for them and get away. Youre doing god's work brother.

  • @cadaverificRenegade
    @cadaverificRenegade Рік тому +1

    BRUH. Call CPS. Get the kid out of there. Supply your therapy records as evidence for her narcissism. After the kid gets removed, get out of dodge. CPS will allow you to remain anonymous while supplying evidence. She belongs to the streets. End of discussion.

  • @jaytwokay3265
    @jaytwokay3265 Рік тому +3

    IT KEEPS GETTING WORSE WTF!

  • @alexandercharlesedwards-ace-
    @alexandercharlesedwards-ace- Рік тому +2

    "Pick up the kid and hit her with it!"
    I laughed so hard I nearly vomited 🤣🤣🤣

  • @syteanric
    @syteanric Рік тому +3

    There are 2 types of people in life.. those who need a cuddle and those who need a slap (a reality slap)....
    I'll let others decide what our person in the story needs...
    Steph is a bellend... verbal doesn't love Steph, he loves the idea of Steph...

  • @joelcassin7486
    @joelcassin7486 Рік тому +6

    Isn't great to have something that's mine,,,,unlike the kid - classic.

  • @chunkymonkey55555
    @chunkymonkey55555 Рік тому +2

    You haven't lived until you install a laminate floor, mark out the cut for a doorway, then cut it out back to front because you are Dyslexic! Wow the second story, I might have gone to the old DIY store and bought a shovel, especially when she started on about the online BDSM hobby,

  • @Miniatureworld2063
    @Miniatureworld2063 10 місяців тому

    I'm currently studying to become a Psychiatrist because I've been thorugh having to live with a narsasist and seen the damage it can do, not only to the other adults they manipulate but when it DOES pass to the children they have. That is an AWFUL thing to have to be around and I want to have the knowledge and the ability to help anyone that needs it.

  • @classy_005
    @classy_005 Рік тому +1

    No way. I have never gotten so viscerally angry listening to a story before. WOW. I need to take a shower, I feel gross.

  • @matthewtucker1578
    @matthewtucker1578 Рік тому +3

    I would say this was enjoyable, but the utter 🤯 of this story is incredibly sad, but your responses gave me a chuckle for the wrong reason.
    Hope the writer's future life is better for him, he deserves far better

  • @yungchris6044
    @yungchris6044 2 місяці тому

    “It’s yours, unlike your kid!” SENT ME OVER THE MOON 😂😂😂

  • @katt7512
    @katt7512 Рік тому +1

    Around 38 minutes. "I am still with Steph"........... NO no no no nononononono... Awww dude just NO! Get custody of the kid and GTFO... please

  • @Dorneman
    @Dorneman Рік тому +1

    I’m screaming in my truck while listening to this. I don’t have anything to add that North didn’t say. His advice at the end sums up everything I would have said. I’m no therapist or anything but if Verbal ever needs someone else to talk to, hit me up!

  • @marcusgarcia06
    @marcusgarcia06 Рік тому +1

    Hearing norths "why?" At the model smashing was great

  • @jaytwokay3265
    @jaytwokay3265 Рік тому +2

    North is gonna get PTSD from this one. Fuckin emotional roller coaster.

    • @Kharmazov
      @Kharmazov Рік тому +1

      He is already there.

  • @benmorin1284
    @benmorin1284 Рік тому +1

    Man, this is just a murder waiting to happen. Save your life, and hers and RUN!

  • @NapoleonicWargaming
    @NapoleonicWargaming Рік тому +2

    Sounds like you've had kids after the first one. GET THEM PATERNITY TESTED

  • @evilstans
    @evilstans Рік тому +1

    They had to hit the greater demon? My greater deamon of khorne falls apart if you look at it funny - even soldered the wings on to no luck.
    It sits on the shelf with some series 1 space marines (the ones that look like they were copied out of Aliens). It only got used once in game

  • @benpid83
    @benpid83 Рік тому +1

    i think we all gasped out loud when he said he was still with her.

  • @andrewwesley3079
    @andrewwesley3079 Рік тому +2

    I could hear Northerns teeth grinding sometimes I swear 😂 good video m8.

  • @stevenmcgrath5114
    @stevenmcgrath5114 Рік тому +2

    Everything had to go . . . In the trink of my Jeep ! ! ! 😀😃😄😁😆😅🤣😂

  • @adamsboringvids
    @adamsboringvids Рік тому

    Interesting where you talked about the similarities between cults and narcissists. The BACP’s guidance on ‘working with cult survivors’ has some good guidance and makes some pointers that are eerily familiar to this situation.

  • @USALibertarian
    @USALibertarian Рік тому

    There is a lot of misdiagnoses of so and so is a narcissist, so with that said, if she is truly a narcissist the only good move is to be working towards going no-contact. You will not be able to beat a narcissist at their game. They are completely empty aside from being 100% devoted to using people and manipulating them for their own benefit. That is what makes them narcissists, and that is why normies can't compete with them.
    If it is when the kids move out of the house that you can bring yourself to go no-contact, then okay, but be working towards that and you still may not live to see it.

  • @korbanghost4752
    @korbanghost4752 Рік тому +2

    My goodness, this was one hell of a hobby nightmare.

  • @smoore6461
    @smoore6461 3 місяці тому

    To put that poor mans story into perspective, i struggled with addiction years ago and when i sobered up, the FIRST thing i had to do was GET AWAY from all my "dope friends" even the one I belirved i was deeply in love with. She ended up ODing and i would have too if i had stayed with her. It was MY LIFE litteraly or that relationship... staying in a full on toxic swamp will end you if you are not careful.... god that story almost broke my heart. For what its worth to the storyteller... GTFO for your own mental health. Wow what a heavy tale. Good luck and God speed to the OP.

  • @HexTableTop
    @HexTableTop Рік тому +1

    There isn't really helping people like this.

  • @raphaeljefferson9351
    @raphaeljefferson9351 Рік тому +2

    You are not the only one who screamed North!

    • @ironbomb6753
      @ironbomb6753 Рік тому +1

      Lol, at "I took care of her kid"...I shouted NO! IDIOT!...fuk, it ain't his fault tho.😑

  • @thrrax
    @thrrax 6 місяців тому

    His biggest mistake: getting into a relationship without having his shit together (relations, hobbies, finances). And even so, he had the opportunity to recover after the first break-up. The entire chain of events is his fault.

  • @zxsavagexz4502
    @zxsavagexz4502 8 місяців тому

    This story sounds disappointingly familiar to me.
    Thank you so much for sending your story in and help me keep my eyes open to what it is my ex is likely trying to do with drawing me back in.

  • @john12644
    @john12644 Рік тому +1

    This was another rough one, but man your asking for more hurt staying with her. Even if you tell yourself its for the kid. I hope that you really are doing it for that and not because you can't get yourself to leave and are just telling yourself its for the kid good luck man i hope you find happiness man you deserve it.

  • @thatbigmacinthewindow5762
    @thatbigmacinthewindow5762 8 місяців тому

    Honestly made me realize I was in a less worse version of this type of relationship.

  • @stujm84
    @stujm84 Рік тому +2

    Just want to point out that Steph probably isn't the one in her bdsm relationship that was doing what she was told. If she's a narcissist then she was probably the one enjoying being the dominant partner in that relationship and with our narrator. She won't change, her mentality won't change.
    I can only say what I'd do, and that is to run. Don't stop, just run. Leave her, she's toxic and she will try find away to reestablish what she thinks is the status quo and regain her dominance over you.

  • @ravenRedwake
    @ravenRedwake Рік тому +2

    22:24 people like that disgust me.

  • @side7oldtype298
    @side7oldtype298 Рік тому +2

    That decision making though, it's like a train has been derailed but the train still go forward instead if hitting the brakes.

  • @Underworld-Dark-Moon
    @Underworld-Dark-Moon 10 місяців тому

    The MOST IMPORTANT thing that men should do is seek the advice of a divorce and family law lawyer. How you handle the break-up can determine whether you'll be on the hook for child support etc, and for how much. Always seek legal advice before committing long term, or separating. Also, avoid 'general' lawyers. They'll take your money, but might not provide the best advice.

  • @daguy2015
    @daguy2015 Рік тому

    “Only this time it wasn’t just her, she a kid in tow”
    *turns down volume before North screams*

  • @mintoff1995
    @mintoff1995 Рік тому

    The noises north made in this made me laugh uncontrollably, whilst hearing this, helped me deal with it

  • @sheldon-g3p
    @sheldon-g3p Рік тому

    This is quite possibly one of the most disgusting stories I have ever heard. He wasn't exciting enough for her at all times, and she found someone who could fill the void, but was finally ready to settle down with him, and force him to raise her boyfriend's kids. The boyfriend fulfilled her short term desires, while our friend here would eventually be a better provider, which she obviously knew, as she stuck with him longer. She turned this man into a cuck. I'm sure this happens to hundreds of thousands of men around the world (likely even more) -- these types of relationships where he just cannot leave. He said she made him happy but did not elaborate on the exact details. I would make the case she gave him sex. She satisfied his sexual needs, and he couldn't stand to leave her because he wouldn't get any action anymore. Unreal man. She pussywhipped him so hard into raising her boyfriend's kid. This is a valuable lesson into the human nature, for both men and women.

  • @MnemonicNex
    @MnemonicNex Рік тому

    The therapist would help this person by walking them through it because this is abusive. They have an obligation.

  • @meewah_
    @meewah_ 7 місяців тому

    I'm crying laughing when he said "Pick up the child, and hit her with it" o m f g

  • @Sirax123
    @Sirax123 Рік тому

    OP really said: "this isn't a marriage anymore, this is a HOLY CRUSADE!"

  • @whisped8145
    @whisped8145 10 місяців тому

    31:20 Man, it's rare to hear someone who understands this dynamic and what's behind it so well...

  • @eezergoode8588
    @eezergoode8588 Рік тому +1

    Northern Exile just went Duper Saiyan 37:56

  • @greyknightexan
    @greyknightexan Рік тому

    Howdy North, have you been. To me this is by far, the best one you have done. Keep on keeping brother!!!

  • @cameronward9443
    @cameronward9443 Місяць тому

    I don't understand why GW stores just wouldn't sell these painted armies off. I mean they already costed them out, and if they sold them they likely would have been able to sold them for retail at least. It's so weird... it's pure cash...

  • @remarkzero
    @remarkzero Рік тому

    If he sets the terms with this expletive, would she not try to change tactics and try turning the kid against him? There is no tactic too low for this type of person. I would think it would be easier to not give her a list of conditions to keep her thrown off. Exert your will with no explanation, keep her off balance so she doesn't quite know how to engage with her games.
    (Edit: as it turns out pirate king kind of addressed this earlier)

  • @19chevelle72
    @19chevelle72 7 місяців тому

    Sorry I am not familiar with 40k, what game is in the back ground?

  • @biffmuncher23
    @biffmuncher23 Рік тому +2

    As much as he needed to leave immediately, I very much respect that man for sticking by the child. There's more to being a father than simply blood. What a tough one that was

  • @chillchinna4164
    @chillchinna4164 Рік тому

    This was one of the most infuriating things I ever did hear.

  • @fightforaglobalfirstamendm5617
    @fightforaglobalfirstamendm5617 8 місяців тому

    I went from feeling terrible for the guy, now I'm just laughing at him!

  • @thornback82
    @thornback82 Рік тому

    I hope he plays Chaos Daemons as Slaanesh. He obviously likes be physically and mentally tortured.

  • @greaterpainter7996
    @greaterpainter7996 Рік тому +1

    Dude that story was completely fucked from top to bottom! How could you destroy a fully painted Lord of Change?!

  • @CrusaderinBlack
    @CrusaderinBlack 7 місяців тому

    If they cheat, you will never have that trust ever again. Leave them.

  • @idiotluggage
    @idiotluggage 7 місяців тому

    What game are you playing in the video?

  • @mazimadu
    @mazimadu Рік тому +1

    I'm getting some Johnny/Amber vibes from this story!

  • @zxsavagexz4502
    @zxsavagexz4502 7 місяців тому

    It is amazing how much a covert narcissist can get under your skin, especially supported by our societies constant pressure to treat women better than men and for men to sacrifice themselves for women's needs.
    It's easy to say he's to blame and in part yes he is.
    But once your being manipulated it is so hard to see it until your out of it.

  • @fraserpace23
    @fraserpace23 Рік тому

    this guy needs to watch "Me, Myself, and Irene"

  • @shawkorror
    @shawkorror Рік тому +1

    A lot of buzzword and "i am blameless" excuses to sum up "leeches suck you dry, you just don't notice 'cos of the numbing spit".

  • @Junkwaffle1
    @Junkwaffle1 Рік тому

    I’m screaming at my phone! Bro!! Just no!!!!

  • @shadowpoet4398
    @shadowpoet4398 6 місяців тому

    23:45
    Noooooooo!
    What the fuck is wrong with him!?
    SURVIVE! STOP FAILING AND SURVIVE! WTF R U DOING!?

  • @paweb746
    @paweb746 Рік тому

    oooofff 😅 those levels of mental lows, where you would take shit like that, are not... nice. Best of luck to that brother! 🤠

  • @NornQueenKya
    @NornQueenKya Рік тому +4

    I don't know why, but I got worried when reading that title

  • @jackeldridge4225
    @jackeldridge4225 7 місяців тому

    BLOOD FOR THE CULINARY, I MEAN BLOOD GOD

  • @Sirax123
    @Sirax123 Рік тому

    Also message to OP: GET. A. LAWYER.
    before you do ANYTHING or SAY anything to her.

    • @Sirax123
      @Sirax123 Рік тому

      Also, having relationships outside of the marriage may look bad in court.

  • @jandrpeaple
    @jandrpeaple Рік тому

    Is the Discord private now? I tried to join and it said the link was no longer valid

  • @matternot666
    @matternot666 Рік тому

    Ive never been so sick hearing a horror story. I hope its all made up and not real

  • @blackstar2356
    @blackstar2356 Рік тому +1

    Stop using the kid as an excuse and what ever she offers that feels like a comfort blanket take the loss and find friends to give u strength .. don’t be a pensioner wondering what happened to ur life when U have no kids of ur own and no one but her to look at when ur adopted kid goes … if u stay donate ur baws to a man who can’t have kids .. if ur confused and cannot see what to do take blind faith in the comments and just leave take one step and then take another then another cos only you can affect a change … plz just leave

  • @Wheres_the_money_lebowski
    @Wheres_the_money_lebowski 10 місяців тому

    Some people need to look into the Depp/Heard trial.

  • @completelysober9171
    @completelysober9171 7 місяців тому

    The clenched teeth kickin in around minute 26 👌🏻

  • @liamharkin6134
    @liamharkin6134 Рік тому

    That story is the wildest shit I've ever heard

  • @stefank188
    @stefank188 Рік тому

    I think that's the first time I heard north say c*nt 😂

  • @ericcooper3792
    @ericcooper3792 Рік тому

    Damn, that was a little intense.

  • @t0masibrudoctor534
    @t0masibrudoctor534 Рік тому +1

    Swinging is heretical, be weary of worshippers of slaanesh

  • @hercules2342
    @hercules2342 Рік тому

    would black shirt be like the store manger or owner of that location then?

  • @81LiquidSnake
    @81LiquidSnake Рік тому

    North this story seems so absurde that I was sure it was a Troll 😂

  • @rickyvaldez5205
    @rickyvaldez5205 Рік тому

    To the last guy: DO NOT LET HER CONTINUE TO LIVE THERE AND NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING. KICK HER ASS OUT ASAP AND THE KID AS WELL! If you allow her to stay while paying for everything, you just enabled her to continue the terrible behavior. She can go chase men and still come back jome with her bills paid and kid taken care of by some poor dumb schmuck. Thats how she sees you bro and its too late to change her mind. You lost respect a long time ago. Kick her and the kid out and use the time you have to heal. You are badly broken because of how much youve allowed. You still have a choice to fix it. Its up to you bro .