🇵🇭 The NUMBER 1 SCAM Foreigners Fall Victim to in the Philippines EXPOSED!

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  • Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
  • American Expat in his 40’s living in the Philippines since 2022 exposes the number 1 scam foreigners fall victim to in the Philippines!
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  • @dougblythe5358
    @dougblythe5358 11 днів тому +20

    Sage advice, never send money to a girl you have never met in person, I tell every guy that...

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +5

      Facts

    • @vidong1704
      @vidong1704 10 днів тому +3

      And do not send money even to a girl whom you already' did' meet in person until you two have agreed to become BF/GF **after** you have finally determined she is not scamming you.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  7 днів тому +1

      True indeed

  • @BlizzardAbroad
    @BlizzardAbroad 11 днів тому +19

    Having to explain this to grown ass men over and over again must get tiring

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +6

      Common sense ain’t common & many new subs.

    • @vidong1704
      @vidong1704 11 днів тому +2

      The become blinded by the charms and lose all caution.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      🎯

    • @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
      @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in 11 днів тому +2

      It’s not common and it’s needed. Many of us may have had tremendous success in other aspects of life but are dating idiots. Especially Filipina dating

    • @BlizzardAbroad
      @BlizzardAbroad 11 днів тому +1

      @@JasperinthePhilippines I get it man. I'm just starting to realize that as much as men like to complain about the ways of the "west" men are the problem.

  • @ProvincialExpat
    @ProvincialExpat 11 днів тому +8

    Solid advice. Personally I don't understand why anyone would get on a dating site worlds apart. IMO you should have "boots on the ground" and be adjusted to the country before hopping on dating sites. Think the probability of things going south is much higher in a LDR situation.

  • @nelsonsack2694
    @nelsonsack2694 11 днів тому +18

    A simple test of her sincerity. Check to see if she's still online the web site you met her when she's not talking to you.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      Ok

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +10

      Still follow my instructions, she can have 7 other dating profiles.

    • @yoyoventura
      @yoyoventura 11 днів тому +6

      She’ll just block you on the dating app you met her at so you don’t see her. I’ll be there in the Philippines with boots on the ground with her in my condo. Don’t send money, or do it, & she will pay the dinner with me on your expense. Great video Jasper to keep this fellas focused with a better mindset. 🤙🏽

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      🎯 you got it. We’ve all done it

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      Yes sir I’ve had that exact scenario when the 10000 pesos hit from the foreigner and guess who had sashimi that night 😂

  • @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
    @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in 11 днів тому +4

    This is the most important video concerning the Philippines. Ever.
    I needed it like a slap in the damn face. Jasper is providing a public service here.

  • @Kuma_Cordova
    @Kuma_Cordova 9 днів тому +3

    I've witnessed this happen over and over again since I've been in the Philippines. They usually have a roster and keep them in rotation. Keep your head on a swivel fellas.

  • @silverfox2957
    @silverfox2957 10 днів тому +5

    My advice to guy's that are sending money to a girl is stop sending money keep your money in the bank then book a flight to the Philippines meet the girl and have a great time together.
    I want to add as much as i don't like girls that go online to scam foreigner's.
    The people to blame are the guy's that are sending the money let's face it there wouldn’t be any scammers if guy's didn't send money they are the people that are encouraging it.
    In a country with a lot of poverty when a girl tells her friends how easy it is to get foreign men to send money i understand how tempting it would be for a lot of girls.

  • @Eatpinktacos27
    @Eatpinktacos27 10 днів тому +4

    Simping is not pimping

  • @blackwonderBW
    @blackwonderBW 11 днів тому +3

    Well said, Jasper! Thanks for sharing the harsh truth. Headed to PH in a few months and this helps.

  • @gibbee1
    @gibbee1 10 днів тому +2

    This is a great video. The latest one was “ you don’t love me because you can’t send me “. After talking for 2 weeks and not sending money. It’s just common sense. Thanks for letting everyone know. Because I know most of us work hard for our money. 2 Thumbs up

  • @oceanearth2243
    @oceanearth2243 7 днів тому +2

    Filipinas will tear rookies apart!
    And if any lady tells you she is “ not doing well”, tell her good luck on her personal problems, and to call you when it’s solved

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  7 днів тому

      I always I’m not doing well either and ask for 30k php towards my rent 😂

  • @robertfox1975
    @robertfox1975 9 днів тому +2

    Great advice mate. Your video saved lots of heartache for many guys.

  • @michaelwilliams741
    @michaelwilliams741 7 днів тому +1

    Well said Jasper . I been there done that and they all used me . When i got there not one woman that i gave money to were willing to meet me in person. I will never give money to women again. I'm going back again soon and this time i don't care if none want to meet. That's their lost

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  7 днів тому +1

      I speak the truth and here’s a guy that lived it. Thank you for the co-sign brother. I’m literally drawing the road map but everyone wants be smarter than me and teach lessons in my comment section. Salute bro 🫡

  • @chiefbobdavis99
    @chiefbobdavis99 10 днів тому +1

    Outstanding tip. Shame it has to be said over n over again.

  • @etfremd
    @etfremd 10 днів тому +1

    Jasper knows what he is saying! You need to keep sending this message! I know I need to hear it again and again!

  • @rocboivillan
    @rocboivillan 8 днів тому +1

    Good feedback! Appreciate the content 🙏🏽

  • @andysnyder4603
    @andysnyder4603 10 днів тому +2

    If you are on a dating site, put in in your profile that I'm not going to send money to someone that I haven't met in person. It cuts down on a lot of scammers.

  • @seans7228
    @seans7228 11 днів тому +2

    Jasper, when you buy vegetables and fruit etc at the store or market do you wash them? If so, do you use purchased filtered water for that? Thanks

  • @NumadDude
    @NumadDude 11 днів тому +2

    Very true Jasper,everytime I come to the Philippines Im shocked how many men do that.If you are that guy,you can invest that money to your self of that would be fitness wise ,hair implant (I know it sounds weird but believe me thats better than being a simp),or invest in your style and clothing ,if you do those things its alot better and you can have those girls be attracted to you without the money.

  • @mrbHanoi
    @mrbHanoi 11 днів тому +1

    Exactly right Dont get played

  • @user-ew3hh1mv9l
    @user-ew3hh1mv9l 10 днів тому +1

    I love how honest Jasper is. If you don't listen it's your fault at this point and you deserve to get clowned

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  10 днів тому +1

      Thank you my friend. 🤝

    • @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in
      @TrevorMelbourne-ef1in 10 днів тому

      You’re right and I’m one of those that tried but fails to listen 😝
      Successful in many areas of life but put a pretty face and I smile in front of me-I simp out 🤦‍♂️
      I need like an AA for simping for beautiful young women!
      At least I’m man enough to admit it

  • @pogopiratepete
    @pogopiratepete 11 днів тому

    jasper, your well-spokenness serves you well... ( and me) you always have a topic, stay on topic, dig into the topic give lots of examples/illustrations/truths... you tell it like it is ...even if it hurts!
    its really helpling me build the framework for my understanding and prepare me for my journey to eastern asia....
    thanks, brother!

  • @orvilledyer9904
    @orvilledyer9904 9 днів тому +1

    Preach, my brother.

  • @SickocrowAU
    @SickocrowAU 11 днів тому +4

    All sage and sensible advice.
    Lead with your wallet and you're a Mark straight up.
    Looking to come check it out early next year.

  • @christiantramsen
    @christiantramsen 7 днів тому +1

    A great video. The reason it is great is that most men who dream of the ideal wife, they dont expect any negative sides. But even negative sides can be a learning necessity, however expensive. If you have enough money, take the Challenge if you feel you need it.

  • @ukadventures5660
    @ukadventures5660 11 днів тому

    Spot on 👌

  • @ronaldvaughn7087
    @ronaldvaughn7087 9 днів тому +1

    Very Great Top Of The Class Info, About The Philippines & Filipina Women I Not Only Lived Their Years Ago But Was Also Married To A Filippino Woman Who I Brought Her Here From: Scratch from Her Country & She's Now Quite Well To Do As A Longtime State Of MD, 6 Bed Rooms Homeowner, & Ofcourse We're Now Divorced Over 20+ Years After She Achieved Her American Dream Goals. So Guys Be Very Cautious Of: Filipina Women 🤨😒 End !! Of Story.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  9 днів тому

      Look at that. Living proof.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  9 днів тому

      Maybe I can get you to do a call interview? Would love to hear this story. Email me if you’re open to that. It’s in my about section.

  • @bockskarr6626
    @bockskarr6626 11 днів тому +1

    Salamat kuya 🤙🏼

  • @psychafunkapus
    @psychafunkapus 11 днів тому +2

    You can't get a 10 in your country, you won't get a 10 in this country either.

  • @KuyaStorm
    @KuyaStorm 11 днів тому +4

    🎉

  • @charlesdiputado28
    @charlesdiputado28 11 днів тому +2

    Investment scams nowadays if someone knows who is a retired foreign expat or a Filipino returnee(balik-bayan)who lived in abroad for many years before🤔🤔🤔

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      So true.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      It’s like the telemarketers back in the day.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      Don’t send strangers money ever.

    • @charlesdiputado28
      @charlesdiputado28 11 днів тому

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Correct, it's a form of bait from some local extortionists and scammers if they find out people like foreign expats and overseas returnees have big pensions in their bank accounts. Don't just trust some random strangers to you👍👍👍

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      Exactly in any scenario. Always keep your money in your pocket. 🤝

  • @Damo_Raze
    @Damo_Raze 11 днів тому +1

    This should be LDRs for Simps 101; but sadly, the 80/20 rule will still be in effect, and nitwits will still fall into the trap SMDH

  • @John_X_77
    @John_X_77 3 дні тому

    Definitely meet the Filipina first before sending money. I am currently in the Philippines and I met a female on a dating site. Her photos and life story were great. We scheduled a face to face meeting and YIKES! Never again will I make that mistake. I recommend doing several VCs before meeting.

  • @michaelbarron4009
    @michaelbarron4009 11 днів тому

    Right on just say no don't send them Money.

  • @andrewcarlson2178
    @andrewcarlson2178 10 днів тому +4

    There's a modern proverb: if you loan someone $20, they leave and you never see them again, it was the best $20 you spent

  • @tonybattaglio4625
    @tonybattaglio4625 11 днів тому

    My ldr's caribou is sick , she said she didn't get it so I sent another $500 . both cows seem happy.

  • @Lawrencerice
    @Lawrencerice 11 днів тому +2

    Don't you love the "But it's our culture" line of shit? Really? Interestingly enough, that crap almost always will get pulled ONLY on a foreigner.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      Correct.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +4

      If it ain’t the culture with your Filipino ex. It ain’t with me. My presence is a present 😂

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +4

      I had a guy in my comments saying. You don’t wanna support her family so you can eat another Kobe steak every week? I said are they worried about her Filipino ex missing out on Kobe steak to support her? Nope. I know many many Filipinos being supported by Filipinas TBH.

    • @Lawrencerice
      @Lawrencerice 11 днів тому +1

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Q:What do you call someone who gets C*** Stuck?
      A: A weak man.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +1

      😂🎯

  • @user-ew3hh1mv9l
    @user-ew3hh1mv9l 10 днів тому

    Quick lesson no man that values himself or is actually truly high value will ever send money to a woman. To a woman that actually signals low value it starts the relationship or whatever the hell you want to call it when it's long distance which is also a complete joke and low value it starts that off completely misguided. Saying no to a woman although they might throw a little bit of a fit it's actually very sexy to them. Do not forget you're the one driving the vehicle in the direction that you want to go hold your frame always

  • @Otingocni
    @Otingocni 10 днів тому

    Already being married going to philippines im already dodging the biggest trap there....women.

  • @johnp4000
    @johnp4000 11 днів тому

    The interesting question, is why do guys think they have to send money to a girl they have never met personally? A vlogger years ago must have given some really poor dating advice that some guys seem to act like it is a requirement? But it is so common now that it is scary and ultimately is a total waste of money and doesn't guarantee you will even meet the girl!

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      Correct

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      It actually lowers her respect level & your chances as articulated in the video. I know these girls I’ve been with them when the money hits and some are laughing

    • @johnp4000
      @johnp4000 11 днів тому +1

      @@JasperinthePhilippines Unfortunately now, it is seen as an easy way to get money. Look at a channel called 'catfished' and you see the problem isn't just the Philippines but so many people have this notion that giving money seems somehow to create a false assumption that you are in control while in reality it is the reverse.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      100%. Yes all my videos are generally universal. I just apply them to the Phil’s. 🤝

  • @CountrySingerWannabe
    @CountrySingerWannabe 11 днів тому

    It depends on the kind of man you are and what fantasy you are trying to fulfill by searching online. If you are just looking to fulfill a fleshly fantasy in searching for a much younger woman yes, you will attract the scammers.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +1

      Actually, scammers aren’t selective based on your sincerity

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      It comes with you being realistic about your sexual marketplace value. If you have any the age group, you decide the wealth level of the woman, and if she has any genuine burning desire, and if she is in fact, single.

    • @CountrySingerWannabe
      @CountrySingerWannabe 11 днів тому

      @@JasperinthePhilippines That is certainly a worldly statement.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  10 днів тому

      🫡

    • @CountrySingerWannabe
      @CountrySingerWannabe 10 днів тому

      @@JasperinthePhilippines I have never asked myself or anyone else what my sexual marketplace value was. Sexual intimacy is not a marketplace, it is a gift from God to enjoy in the confines of being married.

  • @user-qs5hz4mf3p
    @user-qs5hz4mf3p 11 днів тому

    It doesn't matter Jasper you can't help these guys. They'll keep getting played. I want the guys to know that when she receives your money 💰 she views you as a fool and weak. Then calls her friends and tells them how gullible Americans are. Next time when she asks for 10,000 pecos just send $1 and vanish. I know its a sad sad world but most people will take your kindness as a weakness. They see your empathy as opportunity. The only way the perfect world works if your nice and she's nice and reciprocates. But you won't know the truth by just communicating thru the internet. You'd have to live there a while and basically cohabitate 2 know. And still you may never know the answer. Like Jasper said she has someone already all women do. But would dump that poor guy in a minute if you were there but your not...

  • @Phan-Xu
    @Phan-Xu 11 днів тому +1

    What is LDR?

  • @marvindockery-lo9cw
    @marvindockery-lo9cw 11 днів тому

    Will a Filipina scam you???
    Will a duck seek water??

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      lol.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому

      It’s pretty simple find a desperate low self esteem western guy online far away. Make him your “boyfriend” have him support you and your local age appropriate partner digitally NO MEETINGS. Or you and your family. When & if he arrives GHOST 👻

  • @marcef100
    @marcef100 10 днів тому

    What kind of guys even need this advice? And FYI, even after you have met a chick, you're a tool if you think you need to spend big $ on dates....aka LOSER!....If she ask for the date she pays, If I ask I'll buy her a drink, this guy sounds a little desperate, don't pay this guy for advice on chicks!

  • @David-Buster
    @David-Buster 11 днів тому

    Someone really done you wrong

  • @mwg500
    @mwg500 11 днів тому

    My "LDR" does semi-porn videos (non-nude) that can be purchased online. I knew this BEFORE I developed a "friendship" with her (it actually kinda led me to make first contact). If she asks for money, she always "repays" me with videos which I can check the actual price she charged to other guys online for said videos. I have also gotten to know a few of her female friends and am aware of their social media. If they have local BFs, they are well hidden and I don't give a shit since the "relationships" have never been defined as "exclusive" and I have zero interest in managing their entire lives. Relationships always have weird snags, you never know what the other person is REALLY thinking, but they are easier if you are prepared for the possibility that they could go south at any time.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +3

      The content you’re buying is worthless you can get it for free

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      Realistically. You’re not in
      A LDR.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      You’re purchasing content via “loans” enjoy.

    • @mwg500
      @mwg500 11 днів тому

      @@JasperinthePhilippines So basically just steal it? Remember Netflix don't like password sharing now. Pretty much all girls (and gay guys, ladyboys) try to make money if they believe they are the more attractive one in a relationship. Not just in Asia, it started in America and Europe. Webcam girls can be found all around the world, they have existed as long as the internet has.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  11 днів тому +2

      No she’s not famous and likely not miss universe.

  • @gspotjazz
    @gspotjazz 10 днів тому +2

    Who the F gives money to someone they never met? Really? Wow.... Didn't know that this actually happens. SMH