What She Thinks if You Wait Too Long to Make a Move (Surprising!)
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- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
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I made this mistake many times when I was younger. These days, I err on the side of boldness.
Correct. Experience gained from repetition is key.
Which mistake???
Sobering fact: if you don't ask her, someone else will.
I've never made a move.....period.
WHY do you wait too long to make a move? Because your "good boy" identity prevents you from making a move. A way to avoid this is to ask yourself: "What if I saw myself as a bad boy?"
I guess the inner motivation is different. It's a kind of freezing the chase/status. This way, she will love you forever (only in your mind of course). As long as she didn't say "no" or "yes" and the relations will end later...without a move, the thing rests in the middle and is a kind of "riskless". Just an illusion, of course, but for some people a nice one.
@@BlckJack123 it's an ok starting point to reframe your mindset like that but still won't take guys all that far, if it was that simple as switching your mindset every guy would be approaching women.
It’s nothing to do with that. Just jump in at the opportunity because someone else will. Make your point straightforward.
Dan, at 58 my dating days are long over. I wish your excellent videos had been available when I was in my youth!! Keep up the good work
I am 32 and virgin with childhood trauma and I don't afford to go to a specialist+ the period of the therapy is way too long.I have social anxiety ,I am introvert and scared of women,why,I don't know.
This video is outstanding! Many boys are growing up to be alone. The root cause may be learned helplessness due to narcissistic parents. They don't have a good grasp of psychological processes needed to develop their children's characters. The ensuing selfishness and inability to socialize lead to "fumbling" and ostracism. It hurts. To make matters worse, girls mature psychologically at a younger age.
The part about playfully challenging humour is spot on. I went away last weekend with two friends and one of them ("Happily" married) was getting quite ticked off with me because I was having fun chatting up women everywhere we went. Even on the plane back I was hitting on the flight attendants, and he texted me to ask WTF was wrong with me. Told him I'm just having some fun and getting my daily practise in.
I’ve had this same problem with colleagues on 2 occasions….
Both of them were showing strong interest in me, i wasn’t initially attracted to them but over time you spend more time with them, getting to know them better i started catching feelings back for them. But, i was refusing to ask them out simply because i didn’t want to make things awkward if i read the situation wrong and since its where i work, i dont want to be gossiped about. One day, i finally said fuck it and was gojng to ask them out the next time i was at work with them. I found through social media that they got into a relationship with someone else. I missed 2 opportunities with girls purely because i wouldn’t ask them out since i worked with them. I was left feeling hurt and disappointed. Shitty feeling
Dan really owns the topic.
Wonderful video, one of your best ones recently!
I was in a reversed situation in a school class after I entered because of moving into a new town. I quickly realized that there was a girl who was interested in me and cause of my low personal interest she lost it. (her hope). One day I naturally started to realise her nice looking teint from sun and gave her a compliment about that. And she was like "OH MY GOD, IS HE RLY SHOWNING INTEREST RIGHT NOW" at the moment I did cause I thought she looked cute. But in general I wasn't. So the point is, maybe when you missed your opportunity, you could give her a compliment everyone is happy about to hear (not to sexual and offensive) . About her nice clothing style this day or her good looking hair whatever, and when she's fall straight in love again (believe me you recognize that), you could bring the conversation forward. And act like you never missed a opportunity
Hey bro just wanna say thank you for all the videos. They help me to boost my confidence that it's not all about the looks/status. I'm still lost and don't know where to start
Fan here from the Philippines!!
Good video as always Dan. As the Spice girls reveal in Wannabe, 'Now don't go wasting my precious time, get your act together...'
I'm a caring mother I would never leave a man. I have a lot of patience and love to wait for him if he is healing and trustworthy ❤
❤️🙏❤️ for all you do 🙌
❤ my queen bless u
Bless you🎉
Things I wish I knew when I was younger.
Great advice!
My dad is a great guy but is very introverted, quiet, and shy. Hence, that might explain why he never really taught me how to flirt with women and be a wingman. I've been insecure for a long time but am working on it. I think this video Dan created is on my top list of favorite videos on dating and relationship success with women! These are just excellent points he made that actually boosted my confidence a little bit!
Authenticity: I just saw an example of this, a smart but rough around the edges aquaintance I made was talking to a couple of girls and said something not politically correct,one of the girls said he shouldn't say that. He said I don't care I say what I want,we have a right to free speech, and he went on to arranging a date with the cuter girl later on.
Why can't woman make a move on the man? What if you're already been rejected multiple times? Can you still make a move on a woman who is upset with you?
Women naturally like being in the pursued position because it is a feminine act in nature to be pursued and won over. Stop watching movies written by lonely woke nerds it’s not real.
We love you Dan, you are always providing the exact things I need to hear
Dan is so funny! Skilled actor! I love it when he does his little skits, they're gold
I did that mistake with woman i wait too long to kiss because i was shy ,she wait for it i know she liked me and now i live with regret that i didnt make a move.
She lost interest in me and im disapointed now with myshelf.
What a mistake i did, we where good couple lots of fun and laugh.She was amazing girl.
I have to take lesson from it And dont miss another oportunity.
Stay strong fellas and dont do that mistake like me please its painfull.
Yes, yes, yes, I am guilty of this--especially being #7 "stuck in my head". This happened to me *twice* in 2022. I am glad to hear that there is hope.
You have hit the nail on the head .
I did this to a coworker didnt take it further because i like my job, but Dan, what if she stills stares at me but with dissappintment sometimes looks mad but still stares at me we had a strong connection in the beginning
I have the hardest time remembering the things to say to make her attracted. That stuff just doesn't flow through my brain. I want to be able to say the right things. I'm really not scared to talk to a woman and use eye contact, the words just don't come out like I want them to. I got Hello, how are you? I'm fine, how are you? I'm good lol. My brain just stops after that. Like wtf. I wonder if there's something wrong with me. Maybe I'm to in my head trying to think of what to say. Maybe I'm putting her on a stand and that's messing me up. Am I that dull that I don't have anything to say? I'm answering my own question me thinks. OVERTHINKING! Wow, now how do I fix that? It's no wonder why I'm good at fixing things, I just realized. I can think about how it works and solve the problem in my head. Women don't work like that. I have a sick sense that I'm doomed to failure with women. I'm going to pray that I'll figure this out.
practice, practice....and be kind to you if/when you fail
Chill bro, just try to talk with another girl u didnt like or your younger sister, u can then understand why. U put too much stressing even before talking with her, and u overthinking everything, u afraid to make mistake to the girl u like (thats make u lost masculinity and put urself not as an alpha)
just believe u are a man and act like one, the she can feel and act as a woman, everything goes naturally
Stop taking yourself and your life sooo seriously. in 200 years time nothing that you do or say today will make any difference to the universe.
So you might as well chill out, relax. Take pleasure and fun from as much as you can in life. Including your mistakes and setbacks.
Today's disaster is tomorrow's amusing anecdote.
Having being on a meet/date recently there's a fine balance of waiting too long and making a move too soon... touch of the hand, shoulder etc. My thoughts are you need to make a firm move on the intro... hug. As the conversation moves forward direct eye contact, smiling, joking etc and reaching out and read the the feedback you're getting.
In saying all this the lady you're engaging with needs to be interested in the first place otherwise the whole situation can stall.
I'm no expert even though I've been on countless meet ups.
Certainly Dan and others can really improve your situation if you want to work on it.. it does take practice and you need to be very self aware of what you are doing and assess your actions afterwards.
I love how most of these lists are like 6-10 or more items long because most women have a tendency to spend way too much time in their heads! Which is ironic how #7 comes into play - they're not attracted to themselves because they're always in their own head, they have confidence issues, they question how beautiful they are, etc. Like, literally, this whole list is basically what women do and what women don't want in a man - the opposite of themselves! Just like how most women prefer a Hairy Man (Most women don't have a lot of hair), or prefer a Man with Rough, Course Hands (most women have soft, delicate hands), or prefer a Man with a Firm, Solid Chest, etc.
My number 1 problem is that I just get tired/exhausted or have compartmentalization issues. If I'm at work, then I'm there to work - not pickup girls. If I'm in a Library, I'm there to read or find a book - not pickup girls. I have a tendency not to pursue women between the compartmentalization, due to lack of desire to chase after dead-ends, or I just think too much about the other people who happen to be with me at the time.
There's 1 thing that this video doesn't cover. If a guy waits too long, she gets a boyfriend, then becomes single. Then, chances are there's a problem with that girl and the guy should actually consider himself lucky! Maybe if she's constantly single then there's a relationship problem that she can't seem to solve within herself.
The truth! Amen
..Awesome channel..!! Thanks😊
Awesome stuff learnt more in this single video than any other thing i have heard in regards to dating and attraction 👌.
How do I get a virgin between the ages of 18-24 with no tattoos and who isn't a gold-digger?
Hey Dan can you make a video about the difference between a woman rejecting you and a woman not contributing to the conversation?
ive waited 4 years to make a move and i dont think i will ever be able
Good stuff Dan... Thanks
amazing stuff, every video has smoe new valuable information 👍
Thank u so much man i was waiting for this topic
Man I messed up with a girl I liked… I still can’t make the move because of where I am in life… hopefully it won’t be a problem if shes still single…
Good luck, bro. You got this!
If she's good, she will never be single. Make the move now or never. If she likes you, it doesn't matter where you are in life anyway...
Your a married man huh?
This is me it’s not the confidence with girls it’s my life too much trauma dealing with an addict in the family and parents separating lost money
Like I have to fix that
@@mightymizzar9672 hahahaha no far from it!
Dan you have 100 % right, can you tell me, why the culture currently is doing literally everything so men do not act like men and they do not express themselves the way it is acttractive to women ? What is going on?
Wow, Dan, your videos simply gets better and better. So much on the point, no fuzzing around, Just high quality intelligent advice. Truely unique on UA-cam. Greetings from Germany. 💛🙏
The problem is when you know if you like her or not or if she is gonna bring you trouble in the future 😂
I met someone online for 5 days. She said I wasn't not responding quick enough and ended it😅. Who was wrong?
Bad thing about being an attractuve guy is that girls almost never really get over you
This is gold.
There was girl who has clearly given me the green light signal. I got nervous and showed some clear anxiety signals last time I encountered her and quit the place immediately. I know it's embarrassing. But I was very sociable with her until then even making subtle compliments. Do you think should I try again? Motivational or realistic comments. I really wonder if someone had a similar experience. 🙏 Women or men.. It doesn't matter. 2 weeks ago btw*
Yes, ALL Sounds TRUE To Me... 🙂👍 -70SomethingGuy
Pretty accurately about men fumbling about👍😅
Any specifics on RETURNING after a breakup - that might have taken too long? Fantastic advice Dan
Thank you Dan! ❤
He who hesitate's is lost...
I am already in a relationship with a girl and everything is good but now I have developed feelings of love for another girl. She is attracted to me too and is way more beautiful than my girlfriend. Would it be wrong to leave my current girlfriend ? I feel it would be ethically wrong but at the same time now I have better option.
Ultimately you will grow to be increasingly unhappy if you deny yourself what you want it's not fair on you or the woman you are currently seeing as she could be off with someone who is more interested in her, it's a tough situation to be in but the right decision is to move on if you feel that way.
Imagine leaving her now or 15 years from now in the future while having common kids.
The answer is obvious.
Staying with her will ruin your and her lives, not leaving now.
I dealt with this before 👆🏾 They are right. I value loyalty more than anything, but if you aren’t into it, it will show and it’ll not only make you unhappy but it will make her feel hurt as well. Girls are good at reading situations and she will know that there is something up. You never want to feel like you settled because it’ll always be in back of your mind. Life and love is all a risk. It doesn’t make you a bad person, it’s that finding the best partner for you isn’t always as straight forward. Good luck with whatever you choose. I hope it works in your favor!
Follow your ❤
I wish you would give some insight into older masculine womens behaviour Dan ?
thank you
First like from me Thanks Dan👍
Good content.
You have a sub!
Hi Dan I asked a girl out for Friday and then she said I can't go out Friday but I can go mid week ( Friday is weekend in Iran)
And now I'm waiting for her text
What should I do?
Very interesting 👌 👍 🤔
Hi Dan!
That happened to me this weekend. But that lady started to become very anxious watching to her cell evendo she was with her friend and there was a band playing, the more I was looking back to her.
She left when a guy too pushy went on her.
She probably had bad experiences with jerks 🤷♂️
So it wasn't the first seeing that lady in my town, I feel I haven't screwed it completly.
Maybe someone can tell me if I'm making something out of nothing. I've been flirting a little with the girl who works at business we go to. The last time I was there was four months ago, and I told her my name (Danny). Last Friday my two neighbors and I went there to pass some time, (husband and wife both in their 80's). She was at the counter and I asked her if she remembered my name. She said she's terrible with names, (well that wasn't too good). I have a pinky ring with skulls and sequins. I took it off, placed it on the counter in front of her and told her "this ring has some magical properties. If you still have this ring when I come in here the next time, you'll say, "There's Danny...the guy that wants to take me to Las Vegas for 3 or 4 days". (I've never mentioned Las Vegas to her before-this is the first time)..She said, "you know what I need"...and she took the ring. In my analysis of this, I thought if she was uninterested, she'd say something like "I couldn't do that, I have a boyfriend"..But she never did. And she kept the ring, she didn't hand it back to me. Maybe I'm being overly optimistic, but that seems like a good sign. An hour or so later, after we were getting ready to leave, I was briefly speaking with her Dad who is the manager there, and told him I have to say goodbye to your daughter. He said she's in the bar somewhere. (Like most of these type business's, they have their own bar section). She was sitting by the wall reading something on her phone. When I walked in, she immediately put her phone down. She smiled, and I smiled. I said "do you still remember..?" And she said "Danny..!". I said "You're one step closer to Vegas babe. She didn't say anything. Then I put my hand on her arm and said "Have a great day sweetheart"..picked up my stuff and left. We'll go back in two or three weeks.
Any thoughts...? Thanks.
What if you’ve had a gf and the girl would try to get you to flirt back for a year?
Hi Dan, any advice & examples on what to say and how to act when talking to a girl in a noisy club environment to make her feel attracted?
"Let's go outside, honey..."...noisy club is not the place to talk.
I'm talking to this girl online, she's from texas and im from germany, we have undeniable chemistry and she opens up to me alot, but she admits to still be in love with her ex (recently broke up 2months ago).
What do I do breh 😂, move on? or keep poking and hope for the best?
what happens if you are waiting cause she is married?
Move onto a woman to create sparks who's not married. Not so good things can happen it's not worth your well-being. If she's married and cheats on her husband to be with you, who's to say she won't do this to you.
how to approach a woman at work part 2 please.....!!! (like not rushing to ask phone number etc , but what is the speed of exclamation trial?)
Don’t dip your pen in the company ink. You’ll be sorry if you do.
Okay brother, you sound sane.
My friend. I entered a job 6 month ago. And there was this girl 32 very hot. And im 28.
Now. I felt really atracted to her, but she's not as interesting, and too childish for a 32 years old. So i never payed attention to her, because i can feel her toxicity, and she could have also been involved, in sex for money exhanges.
Now she's craving my attention.
The thing is. That she might be using voodoo tricks on me.
There is this haitian girl. She's my friend. But she's s sorcerer. And i've seen Ana talking with this voodoo. It was like only a few times.
And here's the thing. As a Chiloe Chilean descendant. I am a sorcerer myself. And i've seen weeeird stuff going on, inside of the restaurant.
And it has become really unpleaseant.
And is terrifying. Because this shit is dangerous. Playing voodoo is no joke.
So im confused, what is your opinion on this? What the hell is going on in this woman's mind?
Hi, Dan, love your work.
So, this was supposed to be our first meet-up. Yes, i waited too long to do this. I felt she was losing attraction, so i had to just shoot my chance; we both had mutual attraction towards each other. This is what the messages looked like (a girl from my college)
Me: Is your _ record complete from last posting?
(She replied after 15 min)
She: No its not. I'm not in town also
He: Shall get it from someone else not a problem
She saw my text without wasting a minute but didn't reply anything. I know i could have carried the conversation further (texting is for setting meet ups) but i thought she was trying to shove me off. Got to know today in college that she wasn't lying, apparently lol. Our holidays are coming up in a few days, so she took an early leave.
How to recover from this, Dan? Any suggestions?
Fresh drop
I wish i had u by my side in the club man. 2 days ago i was in a club and a 10/10 girl started grinding me and i just didnt know how to react....so eventually she walked of before i could figure out how to kiss her etc....
❤
Happens right now, seems like her bestfriend is now getting closer …. I will step up my game even more
If her best friend is getting closer, the situation changes ;-)
@@VladislavBabbitt wdym
100%
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Actually in my neighborhood i have a girl who is 17 i am 24 we cross paths i go to work she goes to school, sometimes she gives me eye contact from afar but when i get closer she moves the eye contact it is almost as if she sees me and wants to not be seen as she saw me, this has happened in multiple ocasions, the girl appears to be virgin, and shy, what can i do Dan can you give me some advice or what happens if i wait for too long ?
How about you just walk up to her and say hi? It's not rocket science
Let her turn 18 first
How about you stay away from minor girl and be bold enough to pursue someone your age
Ok Drake
In this case, you need to wait... lol
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