Timestamps 1). An honest response 0:32 2). The intimacy is in the eyes 1:06 3). Anxiety-related reactions 2:25 4). How long do your hugs last 3:21 5). Tone and pitch changes 4:07 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I have a crush on a shy girl recently and she does 4 of these signs with me and in fact I am so confident in myself and have a creative mind for jokes and I just try to make her laugh all the time. I hope one day I have the ability and courage to show her how I feel about her and show my interest in her because I am just looking for a girl with the same core value as mine and never find one and something inside me told me that this is the girl you have to be with her your whole life and this girl is so good in most of the aspects that I wish I could see in a partner so I hope that I don't misunderstand things and she likes me back too. Edit: One girl took my phone number in front of her and she was mad, I went to her and tell her "what's wrong" and she said " I am fine" and although I know it is not fine but she was mad at me and ignoring me. Later I asked her out and she rejected me by saying this is not the proper time in my life to date anyone and I moved on with my broken heart. End of my story. And thank you guys for giving the energy to go for it 😜
as a shy girl who had a crush on someone who made her laugh in 6th grade but he left before I got a chance to say anything and now I regret it still. : I think u should go for it. She most likely likes you and if not at least you tried.
@@Oopzitzgabby thank you😊 but something happened I just try to be a little bit friendly with her with using some informal verbs(not that informal verbs to insult her or laugh at her just some words to make it a little bit friendly and I am pretty sure that asking her about what was your exam?! in a friendly way is not a big deal) because thats the way I treat most of friends and I even tell her before (we used to talk formally with each other) but she just ignoring me completely for 3 days and she said to me that I prefer to chat with you in formal ways just like before although she is the one that talks with other guys in the chat in a complete informal way and I saw her chat with my friend in the class and she sometimes ask him something not that personal from my friend but she never ask me something what do you think about this situation?! Is she hate me right now?!! What do you do when your crush suddenly act friendly with you?!!
Who knew that physical attraction could be so complex? This video breaks down the science behind it all and provides some fascinating insights. From dilated pupils to primal instincts, the signs of strong attraction are not always what you might expect. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this video is a must-watch for anyone interested in the mysteries of human attraction. Thank you for sharing! 👍👍👍
i had a hunch my crush liked me.. turns out,few days earlier,I found out she has a boyfriend already,and I already fell in love but hey,atleast she's still a good person to be around with
Man how could I miss the HUGS! THE FRICKIN HUGS! When we had our baccalaureate mass my friend Nicole approached me and wanted to sign my uniform after that she gave me a lingering hug!!! She even called me cute countless times during college!!! MAN I SUCK AT TAKING HINTS!
How do we know the one we are physically attracted to is the one? I know it's different for each individual, but I doubt myself too much when it comes to this. Doesn't help that the ones I find attractive either may not find me attractive or already have a boyfriend or just are happy to stay as friends. I wished finding the one was easier and less complex.
You don't because chemistry and compatibility can be mutually exclusive in other words you can be attracted to someone but incompatible but you can be compatible with someone but not attracted to them
Yeah, I am right there with you! At this point, I don't even want to fall for someone unless they're the one. I guess the best way to describe why is through one line in Demi Lovato's song "Heart Attack": "Pain's more trouble than love is worth"
Timestamp for 5 Signs of Strong Physical Attraction Backed by Research 0:00 intro 0:32 1. An honest response 1:06 2. The intimacy is in the eyes 2:25 3. Anxiety-related reactions 3:21 4. How long do your hugs last 4:07 5. Tone and pitch changes 5:02 outro/final thoughs 2nd Easter's day Everyone!!! 🐰🐣🥚
Well, confirmed, nobody's ever thought about me that way. Noted, nonetheless. Being less ignorant about this sort of thing never hurt anybody. I think.
Yeah a guy at work used to tease me blush around me got nervous would make eye contact with an eyebrow raised mirroring my body language everybody I asked thought he was flirting but when I said I liked him he said I'm sorry you got the impression I sometimes get mistaken for flirting so either he was doing it just because he was subconsciously needing an ego boost because he recently had a breakup or he's lying about not being into me
Could you maybe make a video about religion and how it affects us based on our beliefs? I always wondered how it affects individuals as a whole and if they are comfortable or uncomfortable about it. ❤
Throughout my life, I've never been on a date but I felt attraction to many girls especially because of their appearance and how they look toward me. But out of all them either steered a different direction or they never had feelings for me at all. I never asked because I felt scared but they were never faithful to me as a friend. I'm trying to stay away from girls at the moment. I've been told like I'm the smartest person they met or felt special towards them but it wasn't from the heart. I wished it was. I almost wanted to be in a relationship with this girl I was close with that I was obsessed with her but then I realized the friendship was toxic on both of our ends. It ended horribly. In the end, it doesn't even matter.
There are ways of determining your SMV (looks) which is the most important thing (the passion metric of romantic love per the Sternberg's triangle). If you not getting lots of choosing signals, like shown in this video, then it may be due to your height, weight, strength, face, etc. Don't be ashamed, only the top 20% get most of the attention. If you are reasonably attractive, game can help along with going to the gym. Good luck.
@@bobbruce4135 thank you! I did go to the gym in the past but not the reason for attraction. But it can be my appearance which I'm not ashamed of but I appreciate your encouragement and background knowledge.
Same. This girl used to talk with me and I was happy but recently this semester she never interacted with me so I messaged her on Instagram, asking if I did or said something uncomfortable or wrong, but nope. Turns out she has a boyfriend and because of that she no longer wants to be seen talking with another guy. It sucks because in the classroom, I always sit in the front, alone because all the other students prefer to sit at the back and now I'm all alone again.
@@KnightsofGaming2016 Had that happen to me. A friend I know who now has a boyfriend has changed her attitude and isn't the same person I thought to be. I was sad but I know I couldn't go through that.
@Isaiah Voss Bro are you directly asking these girls out after talking a little bit with them? Or are you waiting too long to let them know you are attracted to them? They probably know anyways, but its always good to be bold and make a move early on. If they feel the same way, then great. If they don't, then its still great because it saves time. I know rejection can be hard, but try to think of it this way. Rejection saves time and gives you the opportunity to meet someone more compatible with you. I definitely agree with what the other commentor said. Definitely improve your looks, but social skills are important too. Work on talking to different people, so that you can carry a conversation easier when you see a girl you like. Don't play it safe my dude. Approach these women you are attracted to. Some will like you off the strength you have the balls to act and/or like your personality. Not every man has the courage to try.
I had strong feelings for my married female boss, but I could never tell her how I felt. I will die loving her and she'll never know. She probably wouldn't care anyway. Isn't life beautiful?! 😂 No Serial Killer.
No one would ever be blushing around me... but I've made people nervous! Well, nervous that I might like them, so they make it clear they don't like me asap🎉🎉🎉
There are these guys at work that keep staring at me daily (I’m a girl). Sometimes they talk to each other while staring at me and smiling or giggling to each other. They don’t talk to me at all but the entire friend group stares. I’m trying to figure out if they like me or if I’m getting bullied as an adult 😂
@@unpopularsoul sometimes a more subtle approach, or a less aggressive one, would be more ideal. If she walks over and talks to them in a friendly tone, they might be rude or immature. Or they might be welcoming and friendly. However if she asks them “what they find so funny,” that aggression is probably going to be an instant turn off for these guys who might just find her attractive as a whole. It does sound to be a group of immature kids, but an aggressive approach is always less than ideal. Immaturity isn’t fixed with aggression. It’s fixed with positive interactions that actually have a chance of showing these kids the flaws in their ways. In summary, aggression is only a band aid
An honest response, maybe more than her saying it. Which she has. We've glanced at each other before. Every awkward moment I can barely get the words out and we just try to laugh it off. I'm more nervous around her than she is with me. And when I try flirting she gets flushed, even while calling each other I notice she's getting red just by hearing her. And her hugs always feel nice to me. I should know, I'm a hugger. I've brushed my shoulder on hers when we get close. Even holding hands for the first time felt firm maybe because I sent that intimate message. I'm very quiet when I talk to most people, but I don't always know what to say, or stumble on my words and nothing comes out. She might just say speak up since I'm so nervous.
There are different types of people. The way they behave changes based on how confident or shy or even arrogant they are. I've seen it all Ex. Shy girls won't look you in the eye, they'll fidget, can't stay still, you can hear their breath, they'll occasionally glance. Confident girls make eye contact for too long, flick their hair, lick their lips, bite their lips, invade your personal space, touch/brush you, look you up and down or give you that look, think a lioness looking at dinner, do suggestive things to seduce you Ex. Bend over both knees locked, knee down on both knees in your personal intimate zone to supposedly look for something or pick something up, they don't quickly get up so you get the idea. Yeah strangers do this. Girls won't admit to this. But ive had it happen a few times Neutral girls that arent shy nor really confident in themselves, will laugh, giggle for no reason, make eye for too long, then aviod looking when they realize they looked for too long and you didn't reciprocate it. They'll be really nice, smile and try to not look obvious but doing secret glances when they think you're not paying attention. They do the side eye and get near you or are always nearby. So they show they like you but they think its not noticeable. Arrogant girls will act like you don't exist and look away when you walk past them. Even though they were secretly watching you before you turned around. They'll talk to everyone else except you basically acting like you don't exist. Whats happening here? They know you're above their league and want to play it off as cool since they already rejected themselves. Think people who can't afford a Lambo so they look away (too arrogant to look) even though they secretly like the car
I did notice one time a girl was staring at me and I looked back and she turned away. Unfortunately, I don’t see her anymore. On the other hand, whenever I see someone I like, I get nervous and heart starts beating really fast. And there were some awkward moments.
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” - Maya Angelou. You might have a tiny, wobbly step to celebrate. If so, bravo! You might have already integrated a change. If so, bravo! Even when you’ve ignored things for a little while, notice that right now, you are here. Give yourself credit. Delight in the beauty of the butterfly and don’t forget to stop to appreciate the changes it has gone through to get there.
There is that one girl at school she is popular but she is shy when around me and normally stares at me then looks back and like thousand of boys like her do I um and I kinda blush every time she tries to make contact with me 😅
See something though, you can find someone attractive physically or appreciate their aesthetics and thinks it's good looking, but not be into them all the same. However you will still act in the ways that portray attraction, this is kind of like how I used to be before maturing a bit and I got mistaken for the "flirty" type all the time, and I would always say "well I'm not into them, I'm just mistaken as a flirty person all the time" So it's important to know, that even if someone is physically attracted to you / finds you good looking, they will respond these ways, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're into you or wanting a relationship or even crushing really. It's very person dependant so I wouldn't say to necessarily rely on these indicators to "make a move" on someone.. unless it's a hookup or something but I never really want to encourage that 😂 Just my two cents!
I love these videos that teach about love and attraction. These videos I think will especially help men notice little cues women give when they like you. I know they can be hard to miss since they can be very subtle. Unless you a chad. haha.
I'm not really nervous around her. We have good convos but I've never asked for a hug even though I've witnessed her hug someone else. I'm introverted so asking for hugs isn't something I do.
I have to confess here, the last 2 crushes I've had were with someone new who I recently befriended but quickly learned they were in relationships. (I'm currently in this situation; it's been over a year since the first situation). Our energies are so compatible and full of love I am genuinely thankful for my friendships with them, but being the romantic that I am, it does hurt to ground myself in the reality that they're "taken." This new friend I have just feeds my delusions bc of how well we mesh and how much we love each other already, but it still hurts. I just wanted to share, in case anyone feels this way too. Hope you all are having a good day-- take care ❤ Edit: AND no matter what, their friendships mean a lot to me, so even though I can't pursue a romantic relationship with them, I cherish our current relationship now.
Aww this crush I have about just since last year was also apparently taken which is really sad but I'm happy for him although it kinda hurts on my part. All that aside, I'm contended of where I am today because I'm healthy and doing my own thing and hopefully find someone someday
I'm in this situation now. I met this boy in my new school and we immediately clicked. I started to develop crush on him, but then I found out that he has a girlfriend already. It really hurts cause now we're best friends but I can't stop liking him. He recently even jokingly said that we look and behave like a couple and it broke my heart. He has no idea and I hope I'll stop having crush on him soon so it doesn't ruin our friendship.
Even when things are uneven one should be honest and loyal to others. That particular Monday when a lady teacher was suffering from high blood pressure and breathing problems,I took her to the Primary Health Centre in my SUV. I waited for her diagnosis and reports.Though my duty time was over I waited for her till she started feeling better.I dropped her back and when I was holding her while getting down from my SUV I noticed someone looking at us from the canteen.Little do they know that I caught their sight.It was probably 5.30 pm by them,three hours extra time of my duty. Imagine how much I would have cared for them when I cared this much for a stranger. They would never know about all this.
When I speak to my favourite people who I think are cool or like I like them I tend to Inherrit things they do like for example, I waved at my friend and saw that he didn’t wave back but saluted me and I was so amazed and thought it was so cool that I started saluting to people rather then waving to them aswell.. heheh 😅
I think I accidentally made someone think I was attracted to them because I was staring into their eyes for a while Tryna figure out why the patient mannequin we were practicing on looked off in the eyes, then looked away hastily when I realised what I was doing-
The thing is that this girl just stares me in the eyes and smiles. Even when I look away, through the corner of my eye, I can still see her staring at me. When I look back at her, she’s still staring at me and smiling. During those times I’m just freaking out the whole time because I don’t know what to do around say except stare back.
last last week my crush asked me if I have a crush on one of our classmate who's also his friend i said no coz it's not really true( he said that someone said i don't know who, but it's probably a humour) and ask again who's my crush and i say none, i never expect that i was so shocked he even asked me while leaning at my back and close to my right ear, he always do or ask random stuff and I'm not just ready.
Hey i have some girl in school and we're like kinda unknown, when im in class i try to finish what the teacher gives me as fast as possible and then i focus my eyes on her, and when i go back home those feelings dissapear and i think "its ridiculous, why would i have 12 years and try to have a romantic relationship when the next year i will go to highschool and never meet her again" and stuff like that, i reject the idea of loving her but when i see her i can't stop admiring her beauty, yesterday when she was going home i kissed her cheek, oh man i felt her skin was so soft, it felt that good that it almost made me smile, i still remember the feeling when i did that But i don't really know if im really falling in love in a serious way, like this video treats it
i tried to hide it, but i don't think i hid it well enough. i saw a video saying that if someone has a crush, they will look away quickly, so... for some reason... i thought it would be a good idea to make sure i didn't look away too suddenly. BAD IDEA. i stared too long. and from the sudden furrow in their eyebrows, i realized my mistake. so then i turned in the attempt to face my dad through the door left half open, to talk to him. but he was further in the room, not at the door, and i was at an awkward angle, meaning i was staring at the door.. making it worse. for a while i just tried to pretend i could see my dad through the door, making it worse and worse every moment. even more awkward. another time he wanted to show me some boxing moves, and i stood there embarrassed saying "i really can't...". a very VERY long minute, him trying to convince me, as i stared at the ground. he's a friend I've known my entire life. which makes this kinda awkward. my family keeps saying they think he likes me. AND THEN... THEN... he asked to hang out, AND MY STUPID IDIOT BROTHER said it's a date. we both threatened to bash his head in. but we did have fun, did some bad minton and joked a bit about how i'd fallen down the stairs, a minor twist to the ankle. "it's still attached, isn't it?" "more or less"(me) "why not chop it off, that way it's no longer a problem!". you can imagine how that sounded: thud thud clang. "I'M OK!". it was pretty funny. after that my dad asked if he has a crush on me. all i could say was that i don't know, and that it's annoying he's asking, while trying to hide a stupid annoyed grin on my face. had a crush for 2 years... what's interesting though is that during a sleep over, i partially overheard him talking to my best friend trying to find out more about me. also plot twist, my best friend, I somehow accidentally turned her lesbian a bit of a while ago and she has a crush on me. many advances that i felt slightly awkward about and flirting... but i let her know i'm straight. i made it clear i'm straight. i don't know... i seem to be having more dramatic teen years than i thought... at least it's not boring! in the meantime, i'm gonna hang out with him more. you know what? screw it. i don't care if this feeling never goes away. i first tried avoiding him when we first met again after years of lost contact 3 years ago, but all that did was make me a nervous wreck around him. i feel more and more comfortable the more i hang out. it's kinda morphed from a punch to the gut to excitement being around him. i'm gonna just go with the flow and be myself.
well then. i guess i initiated a one-sided crush... After i think about it, I've obviously shown the first 3 signs to my crush, but they haven't shown any signs to me, instead i can feel them trying to just slowly distance themselves away from me.
For some reason i feel like there is one girl i know that now i see show more and more of these i got at least 1 if remembering right but i also know she a very kind soul
Hello, I would like to know what it would mean, in silence, we didn't talk, he looked deep into my eyes, then at my lips and quickly at my neck, then he looked at me and smiled. Or sometimes, when he was facing away and talking to friends, he would turn his upper body and smile, too
Psy, or others, would you perhaps have any advice for a teen who asked a boy to a school dance via a note than ran to the bus before he could reply right before a 4day weekend 😢😭 Update I ended up going to the dance alone than finding afew friends that I knew and stayed with them :) and he said no sadly
There is nothing like a patient but nervous girl pressing fingerstip together and waiting for a reward. I laughed way to much... Keep that up. The fingertipping is supreme for sure)))
Yeah I attract the wrong women the ones I attract are psychotic and always stalk me I'm not blushing I keep trying to avoid them but they're always finding out where I go it's stressing me out really.
There's this girl I want to start a conversation with. But I will only have two more chances to do it. That is making me feel nervous. But I will do it anyways!!
Society is trash and will always treat you badly. Also my ex-crush treated me so bad while I was being nice to her, but yk, Im ugly af. But now she is with someone who is way worse than me. I wish you best, but still you have to focus on yourself more. Trust me, being nice to everyone changes your whole life.
Yalll I need advice I have a crush on this boy for like 7 years now he knows I like him cause their siblings that my friends told him and then after some years I confessed and he said no cause were to young and stuff but I wasn’t asking Him out I just wanted to let him know how much I like him and wanted to know if he liked me back , when we were little we were like kinda friends cause we talked to each other and stuff and now we don’t even talk and I feel like he’s awkward around me and I am too I only say hi to him and that’s it idk how to start a conversation with him and then be friends with him idk how to be friends with him and also ask him a little bit better if he does like me cause last time he misunderstood me, his sisters told me they think he likes me cause they see him look at me a lot idk if that’s a sign lol I have seen him myself him lookin at me, someone please answer and help I need advice plsss 😢😭 idk what to do
@ it’s not as easy as it sounds and I already confessed bruh but according to his sisters they said he said. He doesn’t believe it and that they prob forced me to do it
You know, I think I'm in love with someone who really loves me who I've neglected because I feel I'm handsome and I'm waiting for her to confess her love, and now I'm always thinking her sweatness, I know i suck ☕
Some of this makes too much sense with what's happening with me and this guy. I dont want to assume, though, but at the same time, I want to have hope. 😭
I wish I couldn't feel romantic attraction. It makes me look so stupid and I get so afraid I retreat back to my anxious little self. Sometimes it gets so bad I completely avoid the one I like. I know it's simply ruining any chance for our relationship to further if they feel a similar way, but I can't just stop my anxiety. I guess I'd rather feel as though I'm in a living hell than risk being rejected or have the relationship failing later down the line ... I was ruining any hope of the relationship because my anxiety was so bad. By the time I realized that to the fullest... I fear it is too late...
Lest this goes unmentioned in the video. After several second of maintaining eye contact with each other If one person quickly looks away and keeps looking away, this can be a sign of emotional unavailability; thus a toxic relationship.
The staring at you by the opposite sex while you’re not looking, is definitely a “sizing you up physically” moment…..👌🏾😂😂….Women tend to do this more than men it seems…Me being a man, we look at a womans body, face and her physical attributes from an intimate aspect, almost immediately, whereas, although lots of women do to, women are more so charmed with “intellect” vs the “physical”…Not always, but in most cases….After a date, or spending time together alone, I’ve caught women staring at me out of my peripheral vision….It’s a quiet and quick pause/stare out of the blue most times, almost like a googly eyed trance…LOL….I sometimes ignore it and prolong the stare, just to boost my ego……LOL. Once you notice them, they quickly change back to a more serious demeanor…😄
Wait so it’s actually a sign? I’m not just getting stared at randomly like I’m a robot in a field of cows? You’re kidding right? I knew I was kinda smart, but I mean not that smart, like I can solve a Rubik’s cube and get kinda good grades but like I’m not romantic or anything. So I’m not imagining?????
Timestamps
1). An honest response 0:32
2). The intimacy is in the eyes 1:06
3). Anxiety-related reactions 2:25
4). How long do your hugs last 3:21
5). Tone and pitch changes 4:07
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
0:34 BLUSHING
1:09 STARING
2:27 NERVOUS
3:23 HUGS
4:10 VOICE
The end ♥️
@@perfectsoulmates2023 so true 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Much blush
Much staring
very Nervous
Big hugs
And normal voices
And You?
although I only saw this at the end and I watch the full video, thanks for trying to help people who look into the comments section first
@@jammonkey6249 not a problem happy to help
this girl is basically the type of ppl who will ship anyone
0:34 BLUSHING
1:09 STARING
2:27 NERVOUS
3:23 HUGS
4:10 VOICE
The end ♥️
THANK YOU
Me: sees this and gets excited
My crush:*Actually hates me and is disgusted ☠️
Let's be honest... the best thing about these videos is the narrating voice 🥰
I have a crush on a shy girl recently and she does 4 of these signs with me and in fact I am so confident in myself and have a creative mind for jokes and I just try to make her laugh all the time. I hope one day I have the ability and courage to show her how I feel about her and show my interest in her because I am just looking for a girl with the same core value as mine and never find one and something inside me told me that this is the girl you have to be with her your whole life and this girl is so good in most of the aspects that I wish I could see in a partner so I hope that I don't misunderstand things and she likes me back too.
Edit: One girl took my phone number in front of her and she was mad, I went to her and tell her "what's wrong" and she said " I am fine" and although I know it is not fine but she was mad at me and ignoring me. Later I asked her out and she rejected me by saying this is not the proper time in my life to date anyone and I moved on with my broken heart. End of my story. And thank you guys for giving the energy to go for it 😜
If you dont go for it you will regret it even more than a rejection
@@Arthurm690 wise words
as a shy girl who had a crush on someone who made her laugh in 6th grade but he left before I got a chance to say anything and now I regret it still.
: I think u should go for it. She most likely likes you and if not at least you tried.
I say go for it if she’s single 👍
@@Oopzitzgabby thank you😊 but something happened I just try to be a little bit friendly with her with using some informal verbs(not that informal verbs to insult her or laugh at her just some words to make it a little bit friendly and I am pretty sure that asking her about what was your exam?! in a friendly way is not a big deal) because thats the way I treat most of friends and I even tell her before (we used to talk formally with each other) but she just ignoring me completely for 3 days and she said to me that I prefer to chat with you in formal ways just like before although she is the one that talks with other guys in the chat in a complete informal way and I saw her chat with my friend in the class and she sometimes ask him something not that personal from my friend but she never ask me something what do you think about this situation?! Is she hate me right now?!! What do you do when your crush suddenly act friendly with you?!!
Eyes is a really strong indication to me and honestly the best way for my crushes to indicate that they are into me
Who knew that physical attraction could be so complex? This video breaks down the science behind it all and provides some fascinating insights. From dilated pupils to primal instincts, the signs of strong attraction are not always what you might expect. Whether you're single or in a relationship, this video is a must-watch for anyone interested in the mysteries of human attraction. Thank you for sharing! 👍👍👍
@Mathcoolb you know who else is psychically attractive?
Lmao this is a comments section not a highschool book report 😂
Bro wrote a blurb for a youtube video 💀
@@slayrNebulous Did you really just combine psychologically and physically? ☠️
i had a hunch my crush liked me..
turns out,few days earlier,I found out she has a boyfriend already,and I already fell in love
but hey,atleast she's still a good person to be around with
feeding my delusions
🤣🤣🤣
SAME 😂😂😂
Exactly 😹
😂
OMG ME TOO😭😭
Man how could I miss the HUGS! THE FRICKIN HUGS! When we had our baccalaureate mass my friend Nicole approached me and wanted to sign my uniform after that she gave me a lingering hug!!! She even called me cute countless times during college!!! MAN I SUCK AT TAKING HINTS!
It would be interesting if you made a video on tips on how to talk and confess to your crush to help people that are socially awkward or very shy
Exactly
They did
How do we know the one we are physically attracted to is the one? I know it's different for each individual, but I doubt myself too much when it comes to this. Doesn't help that the ones I find attractive either may not find me attractive or already have a boyfriend or just are happy to stay as friends. I wished finding the one was easier and less complex.
You don't because chemistry and compatibility can be mutually exclusive in other words you can be attracted to someone but incompatible but you can be compatible with someone but not attracted to them
Yeah, I am right there with you! At this point, I don't even want to fall for someone unless they're the one. I guess the best way to describe why is through one line in Demi Lovato's song "Heart Attack":
"Pain's more trouble than love is worth"
Stop searching. The end.
Timestamp for 5 Signs of Strong Physical Attraction Backed by Research
0:00 intro
0:32 1. An honest response
1:06 2. The intimacy is in the eyes
2:25 3. Anxiety-related reactions
3:21 4. How long do your hugs last
4:07 5. Tone and pitch changes
5:02 outro/final thoughs
2nd Easter's day Everyone!!! 🐰🐣🥚
Thanks for the timestamps 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Well, confirmed, nobody's ever thought about me that way. Noted, nonetheless. Being less ignorant about this sort of thing never hurt anybody. I think.
Yeah a guy at work used to tease me blush around me got nervous would make eye contact with an eyebrow raised mirroring my body language everybody I asked thought he was flirting but when I said I liked him he said I'm sorry you got the impression I sometimes get mistaken for flirting so either he was doing it just because he was subconsciously needing an ego boost because he recently had a breakup or he's lying about not being into me
Man this video is great but my main grudge is that I got zero female and no chances
Aye, same here...
I feel ya but I'm not giving chances in my life.
@@isaiahvossAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH 🤢🤢🤢🤠
@@bigPoopy389 Just Indiana Jones said in The Last Crusade: I don't like fast women.
@@isaiahvoss I identify as a peanut 🤓
tf your voice is so alluring, tbh can't stop listening to it.
Could you maybe make a video about religion and how it affects us based on our beliefs? I always wondered how it affects individuals as a whole and if they are comfortable or uncomfortable about it. ❤
Throughout my life, I've never been on a date but I felt attraction to many girls especially because of their appearance and how they look toward me. But out of all them either steered a different direction or they never had feelings for me at all. I never asked because I felt scared but they were never faithful to me as a friend. I'm trying to stay away from girls at the moment. I've been told like I'm the smartest person they met or felt special towards them but it wasn't from the heart. I wished it was. I almost wanted to be in a relationship with this girl I was close with that I was obsessed with her but then I realized the friendship was toxic on both of our ends. It ended horribly. In the end, it doesn't even matter.
There are ways of determining your SMV (looks) which is the most important thing (the passion metric of romantic love per the Sternberg's triangle). If you not getting lots of choosing signals, like shown in this video, then it may be due to your height, weight, strength, face, etc. Don't be ashamed, only the top 20% get most of the attention. If you are reasonably attractive, game can help along with going to the gym. Good luck.
@@bobbruce4135 thank you! I did go to the gym in the past but not the reason for attraction. But it can be my appearance which I'm not ashamed of but I appreciate your encouragement and background knowledge.
Same. This girl used to talk with me and I was happy but recently this semester she never interacted with me so I messaged her on Instagram, asking if I did or said something uncomfortable or wrong, but nope. Turns out she has a boyfriend and because of that she no longer wants to be seen talking with another guy. It sucks because in the classroom, I always sit in the front, alone because all the other students prefer to sit at the back and now I'm all alone again.
@@KnightsofGaming2016 Had that happen to me. A friend I know who now has a boyfriend has changed her attitude and isn't the same person I thought to be. I was sad but I know I couldn't go through that.
@Isaiah Voss Bro are you directly asking these girls out after talking a little bit with them? Or are you waiting too long to let them know you are attracted to them? They probably know anyways, but its always good to be bold and make a move early on. If they feel the same way, then great. If they don't, then its still great because it saves time. I know rejection can be hard, but try to think of it this way. Rejection saves time and gives you the opportunity to meet someone more compatible with you.
I definitely agree with what the other commentor said. Definitely improve your looks, but social skills are important too. Work on talking to different people, so that you can carry a conversation easier when you see a girl you like. Don't play it safe my dude. Approach these women you are attracted to. Some will like you off the strength you have the balls to act and/or like your personality. Not every man has the courage to try.
People be saying "We feel chemistry to each other" well no shit, i literally poisoned both of your drinks with pure uranium 💀
LMFAO
Real
Wut is bro on about 🗿
WELL,I DON'T KNOW,BUT I'VE BEEN TOLD
THAT URANIUM ORE COSTS MORE THAN GOLD🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
Could you all do a video on the signs of attraction between coworkers? And/or the pros/cons of dating a coworker?
YESSSS!!!!!
@@isaiahvoss sometimes ppl are friendly like that
I had strong feelings for my married female boss, but I could never tell her how I felt. I will die loving her and she'll never know. She probably wouldn't care anyway. Isn't life beautiful?! 😂 No Serial Killer.
The tone changes make a lot more sense now tbh❤️
No one would ever be blushing around me... but I've made people nervous! Well, nervous that I might like them, so they make it clear they don't like me asap🎉🎉🎉
😂
I can relate to that one too...
There are these guys at work that keep staring at me daily (I’m a girl). Sometimes they talk to each other while staring at me and smiling or giggling to each other. They don’t talk to me at all but the entire friend group stares. I’m trying to figure out if they like me or if I’m getting bullied as an adult 😂
@@unpopularsoul I’m just going to try to ignore it. It must not be that interesting if they have to keep it amongst themselves.
@SparkOfCorn They look at me solo too. But idk you’re probably right.
@SparkOfCorn That’s so weird though. To gather in a circle and watch someone all day just to bully them. Strange behavior
@SparkOfCorn 🤣🤣🤣 will do
@@unpopularsoul sometimes a more subtle approach, or a less aggressive one, would be more ideal. If she walks over and talks to them in a friendly tone, they might be rude or immature. Or they might be welcoming and friendly. However if she asks them “what they find so funny,” that aggression is probably going to be an instant turn off for these guys who might just find her attractive as a whole.
It does sound to be a group of immature kids, but an aggressive approach is always less than ideal. Immaturity isn’t fixed with aggression. It’s fixed with positive interactions that actually have a chance of showing these kids the flaws in their ways.
In summary, aggression is only a band aid
for some reason this art style is my favorite out of all of them
Does anyone else read the comments rather than really focusing on the video after playing it or is it just me??? 😂
An honest response, maybe more than her saying it. Which she has. We've glanced at each other before. Every awkward moment I can barely get the words out and we just try to laugh it off. I'm more nervous around her than she is with me. And when I try flirting she gets flushed, even while calling each other I notice she's getting red just by hearing her. And her hugs always feel nice to me. I should know, I'm a hugger. I've brushed my shoulder on hers when we get close. Even holding hands for the first time felt firm maybe because I sent that intimate message. I'm very quiet when I talk to most people, but I don't always know what to say, or stumble on my words and nothing comes out. She might just say speak up since I'm so nervous.
Glad to know that man! Good luck!
There are different types of people. The way they behave changes based on how confident or shy or even arrogant they are. I've seen it all
Ex. Shy girls won't look you in the eye, they'll fidget, can't stay still, you can hear their breath, they'll occasionally glance.
Confident girls make eye contact for too long, flick their hair, lick their lips, bite their lips, invade your personal space, touch/brush you, look you up and down or give you that look, think a lioness looking at dinner, do suggestive things to seduce you Ex. Bend over both knees locked, knee down on both knees in your personal intimate zone to supposedly look for something or pick something up, they don't quickly get up so you get the idea. Yeah strangers do this. Girls won't admit to this. But ive had it happen a few times
Neutral girls that arent shy nor really confident in themselves, will laugh, giggle for no reason, make eye for too long, then aviod looking when they realize they looked for too long and you didn't reciprocate it. They'll be really nice, smile and try to not look obvious but doing secret glances when they think you're not paying attention. They do the side eye and get near you or are always nearby. So they show they like you but they think its not noticeable.
Arrogant girls will act like you don't exist and look away when you walk past them. Even though they were secretly watching you before you turned around. They'll talk to everyone else except you basically acting like you don't exist. Whats happening here? They know you're above their league and want to play it off as cool since they already rejected themselves. Think people who can't afford a Lambo so they look away (too arrogant to look) even though they secretly like the car
you described me :(
@SparkOfCorn but I am arrogant / neutral...
@@theinnominatoidk3821 and like he said you're already rejecting yourself
I love the jazz music in the background
I did notice one time a girl was staring at me and I looked back and she turned away. Unfortunately, I don’t see her anymore. On the other hand, whenever I see someone I like, I get nervous and heart starts beating really fast. And there were some awkward moments.
I've been there
“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” - Maya Angelou.
You might have a tiny, wobbly step to celebrate. If so, bravo! You might have already integrated a change. If so, bravo! Even when you’ve ignored things for a little while, notice that right now, you are here.
Give yourself credit. Delight in the beauty of the butterfly and don’t forget to stop to appreciate the changes it has gone through to get there.
I experienced a cluster of anxiety-related physiology and behavior
There is that one girl at school she is popular but she is shy when around me and normally stares at me then looks back and like thousand of boys like her do I um and I kinda blush every time she tries to make contact with me 😅
See something though, you can find someone attractive physically or appreciate their aesthetics and thinks it's good looking, but not be into them all the same. However you will still act in the ways that portray attraction, this is kind of like how I used to be before maturing a bit and I got mistaken for the "flirty" type all the time, and I would always say "well I'm not into them, I'm just mistaken as a flirty person all the time"
So it's important to know, that even if someone is physically attracted to you / finds you good looking, they will respond these ways, but it doesn't necessarily mean they're into you or wanting a relationship or even crushing really. It's very person dependant so I wouldn't say to necessarily rely on these indicators to "make a move" on someone.. unless it's a hookup or something but I never really want to encourage that 😂
Just my two cents!
so true or they’re just a very friendly person, if it’s possible seeing how they interact with others is helpful to observe
Your videos always make my day.
I'm glad I now have a scientific set of guidelines backed by research to confirm that I will die alone.
I love these videos that teach about love and attraction. These videos I think will especially help men notice little cues women give when they like you. I know they can be hard to miss since they can be very subtle. Unless you a chad. haha.
"love" 🤦♂️
Could you make a video about “Friendship PTSD”?
I'm not really nervous around her. We have good convos but I've never asked for a hug even though I've witnessed her hug someone else. I'm introverted so asking for hugs isn't something I do.
despite everything... Its still you!
undertale reference??????
Plz more 🙏 I really need crush advice and this has been helping a LOT
Huh. Could be true. But if it's on a professional channel, I'll look out for it, considering I'm looking for a relationship. Thanks Psych2Go!
I have to confess here, the last 2 crushes I've had were with someone new who I recently befriended but quickly learned they were in relationships. (I'm currently in this situation; it's been over a year since the first situation). Our energies are so compatible and full of love I am genuinely thankful for my friendships with them, but being the romantic that I am, it does hurt to ground myself in the reality that they're "taken." This new friend I have just feeds my delusions bc of how well we mesh and how much we love each other already, but it still hurts. I just wanted to share, in case anyone feels this way too. Hope you all are having a good day-- take care ❤ Edit: AND no matter what, their friendships mean a lot to me, so even though I can't pursue a romantic relationship with them, I cherish our current relationship now.
Aww this crush I have about just since last year was also apparently taken which is really sad but I'm happy for him although it kinda hurts on my part. All that aside, I'm contended of where I am today because I'm healthy and doing my own thing and hopefully find someone someday
I'm in this situation now. I met this boy in my new school and we immediately clicked. I started to develop crush on him, but then I found out that he has a girlfriend already. It really hurts cause now we're best friends but I can't stop liking him. He recently even jokingly said that we look and behave like a couple and it broke my heart. He has no idea and I hope I'll stop having crush on him soon so it doesn't ruin our friendship.
The advise is helpful hopefully I'll find the right person.😊🙏
Thank you, may God bless you and everyone. ❤
I love that the artstyle makes all chars technically blush but when they're blushing its just more intense blushing lol
Y’all giving us some signs frfr we gotta go out to find some people lol
Even when things are uneven one should be honest and loyal to others.
That particular Monday when a lady teacher was suffering from high blood pressure and breathing problems,I took her to the Primary Health Centre in my SUV.
I waited for her diagnosis and reports.Though my duty time was over I waited for her till she started feeling better.I dropped her back and when I was holding her while getting down from my SUV I noticed someone looking at us from the canteen.Little do they know that I caught their sight.It was probably 5.30 pm by them,three hours extra time of my duty.
Imagine how much I would have cared for them when I cared this much for a stranger.
They would never know about all this.
When I speak to my favourite people who I think are cool or like I like them I tend to Inherrit things they do like for example, I waved at my friend and saw that he didn’t wave back but saluted me and I was so amazed and thought it was so cool that I started saluting to people rather then waving to them aswell.. heheh 😅
@SparkOfCorn WOAH WTF
"Adaptive human behaviour and psychology "
But... The screen says physiology.
This video helped so much that I have a date on Friday
I think I accidentally made someone think I was attracted to them because I was staring into their eyes for a while Tryna figure out why the patient mannequin we were practicing on looked off in the eyes, then looked away hastily when I realised what I was doing-
This channel just feeds my delulu mind😂😭
I loved learning some new things for me in this video
This is an informative video about relationships. 😊
Wow! I am watching your video for the first time and your voice is so nice and soothing that made me subscribe to you channel.
1:00 yes!
good video keep up the good work
Thank You ❤
The thing is that this girl just stares me in the eyes and smiles. Even when I look away, through the corner of my eye, I can still see her staring at me. When I look back at her, she’s still staring at me and smiling. During those times I’m just freaking out the whole time because I don’t know what to do around say except stare back.
last last week my crush asked me if I have a crush on one of our classmate who's also his friend i said no coz it's not really true( he said that someone said i don't know who, but it's probably a humour) and ask again who's my crush and i say none, i never expect that i was so shocked he even asked me while leaning at my back and close to my right ear, he always do or ask random stuff and I'm not just ready.
Hey i have some girl in school and we're like kinda unknown, when im in class i try to finish what the teacher gives me as fast as possible and then i focus my eyes on her, and when i go back home those feelings dissapear and i think "its ridiculous, why would i have 12 years and try to have a romantic relationship when the next year i will go to highschool and never meet her again" and stuff like that, i reject the idea of loving her but when i see her i can't stop admiring her beauty, yesterday when she was going home i kissed her cheek, oh man i felt her skin was so soft, it felt that good that it almost made me smile, i still remember the feeling when i did that
But i don't really know if im really falling in love in a serious way, like this video treats it
i tried to hide it, but i don't think i hid it well enough.
i saw a video saying that if someone has a crush, they will look away quickly, so... for some reason... i thought it would be a good idea to make sure i didn't look away too suddenly. BAD IDEA. i stared too long.
and from the sudden furrow in their eyebrows, i realized my mistake.
so then i turned in the attempt to face my dad through the door left half open, to talk to him. but he was further in the room, not at the door, and i was at an awkward angle, meaning i was staring at the door.. making it worse. for a while i just tried to pretend i could see my dad through the door, making it worse and worse every moment. even more awkward.
another time he wanted to show me some boxing moves, and i stood there embarrassed saying "i really can't...". a very VERY long minute, him trying to convince me, as i stared at the ground.
he's a friend I've known my entire life. which makes this kinda awkward.
my family keeps saying they think he likes me.
AND THEN... THEN... he asked to hang out, AND MY STUPID IDIOT BROTHER said it's a date. we both threatened to bash his head in.
but we did have fun, did some bad minton and joked a bit about how i'd fallen down the stairs, a minor twist to the ankle.
"it's still attached, isn't it?" "more or less"(me) "why not chop it off, that way it's no longer a problem!".
you can imagine how that sounded: thud thud clang. "I'M OK!". it was pretty funny.
after that my dad asked if he has a crush on me. all i could say was that i don't know, and that it's annoying he's asking, while trying to hide a stupid annoyed grin on my face.
had a crush for 2 years...
what's interesting though is that during a sleep over, i partially overheard him talking to my best friend trying to find out more about me.
also plot twist, my best friend, I somehow accidentally turned her lesbian a bit of a while ago and she has a crush on me. many advances that i felt slightly awkward about and flirting... but i let her know i'm straight. i made it clear i'm straight.
i don't know... i seem to be having more dramatic teen years than i thought... at least it's not boring!
in the meantime, i'm gonna hang out with him more. you know what? screw it. i don't care if this feeling never goes away. i first tried avoiding him when we first met again after years of lost contact 3 years ago, but all that did was make me a nervous wreck around him. i feel more and more comfortable the more i hang out. it's kinda morphed from a punch to the gut to excitement being around him. i'm gonna just go with the flow and be myself.
What I learned is I’m definitely crushing on my crush 🤦🏻♀️
I just like your style
can y’all make a video on how to lose a crush 😭😭 i really need it >_>
I like watching these videos because I'm curious to see if I do any of these hahaha
How to know if the person is just shy to talk to people?
I know I enjoyed watching the video. 😉😏
People are an open book you just need to know how and where too look
well then. i guess i initiated a one-sided crush...
After i think about it, I've obviously shown the first 3 signs to my crush, but they haven't shown any signs to me, instead i can feel them trying to just slowly distance themselves away from me.
pain lmao
For some reason i feel like there is one girl i know that now i see show more and more of these i got at least 1 if remembering right but i also know she a very kind soul
Funny how I’m watching this when I haven’t noticed anyone physically attracted to me, I don’t even have a crush lol.
Think its possible to form a physical attraction based entirely on voice and speech patterns alone?
Hello, I would like to know what it would mean, in silence, we didn't talk, he looked deep into my eyes, then at my lips and quickly at my neck, then he looked at me and smiled. Or sometimes, when he was facing away and talking to friends, he would turn his upper body and smile, too
Psy, or others, would you perhaps have any advice for a teen who asked a boy to a school dance via a note than ran to the bus before he could reply right before a 4day weekend 😢😭
Update I ended up going to the dance alone than finding afew friends that I knew and stayed with them :) and he said no sadly
Hey what should I do should I go to my girlfriend graduation 👨🎓 in June
There is nothing like a patient but nervous girl pressing fingerstip together and waiting for a reward.
I laughed way to much... Keep that up. The fingertipping is supreme for sure)))
"How long do your hugs last?"
Ha!.... funny...
Yeah I attract the wrong women the ones I attract are psychotic and always stalk me I'm not blushing I keep trying to avoid them but they're always finding out where I go it's stressing me out really.
@SparkOfCorn Yeah I guess
The way I see it attraction is on the inside just much of the outside
thanks for the subtitles ❤
There's this girl I want to start a conversation with. But I will only have two more chances to do it. That is making me feel nervous. But I will do it anyways!!
Ok
Aw man, now I have to second guess everything again!
When I talk with my friend I talk in English a lot more then with my crush I speak French with her subconsciously some one knows why?
How can you tell that you like someone/have a crush on someone? In media and in real life it seems to happen spontaneously, so I don’t get it
Society is trash and will always treat you badly. Also my ex-crush treated me so bad while I was being nice to her, but yk, Im ugly af. But now she is with someone who is way worse than me. I wish you best, but still you have to focus on yourself more. Trust me, being nice to everyone changes your whole life.
@@officalaccountofsomebody I meant how yourself is supposed to know if yourself likes someone
@@VantaDraws idk but thanks for replying
#2 and 3
Yalll I need advice I have a crush on this boy for like 7 years now he knows I like him cause their siblings that my friends told him and then after some years I confessed and he said no cause were to young and stuff but I wasn’t asking Him out I just wanted to let him know how much I like him and wanted to know if he liked me back , when we were little we were like kinda friends cause we talked to each other and stuff and now we don’t even talk and I feel like he’s awkward around me and I am too I only say hi to him and that’s it idk how to start a conversation with him and then be friends with him idk how to be friends with him and also ask him a little bit better if he does like me cause last time he misunderstood me, his sisters told me they think he likes me cause they see him look at me a lot idk if that’s a sign lol I have seen him myself him lookin at me, someone please answer and help I need advice plsss 😢😭 idk what to do
Just confess dawg is it that hard or move on to your life finding money soon ppl will like u
@ it’s not as easy as it sounds and I already confessed bruh but according to his sisters they said he said. He doesn’t believe it and that they prob forced me to do it
@daniela-x6y1v then move on dawg
@@tantesesat you say like it’s easy to let go someone I have liked since I was 8
You know, I think I'm in love with someone who really loves me who I've neglected because I feel I'm handsome and I'm waiting for her to confess her love, and now I'm always thinking her sweatness, I know i suck ☕
I have a dream of you saying "goofy" and I laughed and I don't even know why
ah I thought it was to notice the signs in yourself X) would help me more lol
i zone out and look at people how to make them know that I don’t find them attractive!!!! (it’s gotten problematic before)
Some of this makes too much sense with what's happening with me and this guy. I dont want to assume, though, but at the same time, I want to have hope. 😭
I can’t tell what any of these are
I wish I couldn't feel romantic attraction. It makes me look so stupid and I get so afraid I retreat back to my anxious little self. Sometimes it gets so bad I completely avoid the one I like. I know it's simply ruining any chance for our relationship to further if they feel a similar way, but I can't just stop my anxiety. I guess I'd rather feel as though I'm in a living hell than risk being rejected or have the relationship failing later down the line
... I was ruining any hope of the relationship because my anxiety was so bad. By the time I realized that to the fullest... I fear it is too late...
Can you do “how to know if you’re a toxic friend”
Lest this goes unmentioned in the video. After several second of maintaining eye contact with each other If one person quickly looks away and keeps looking away, this can be a sign of emotional unavailability; thus a toxic relationship.
Why am I watching this I already know one of my (plutonic) girl friends like me
The staring at you by the opposite sex while you’re not looking, is definitely a “sizing you up physically” moment…..👌🏾😂😂….Women tend to do this more than men it seems…Me being a man, we look at a womans body, face and her physical attributes from an intimate aspect, almost immediately, whereas, although lots of women do to, women are more so charmed with “intellect” vs the “physical”…Not always, but in most cases….After a date, or spending time together alone, I’ve caught women staring at me out of my peripheral vision….It’s a quiet and quick pause/stare out of the blue most times, almost like a googly eyed trance…LOL….I sometimes ignore it and prolong the stare, just to boost my ego……LOL. Once you notice them, they quickly change back to a more serious demeanor…😄
Wait so it’s actually a sign? I’m not just getting stared at randomly like I’m a robot in a field of cows? You’re kidding right? I knew I was kinda smart, but I mean not that smart, like I can solve a Rubik’s cube and get kinda good grades but like I’m not romantic or anything. So I’m not imagining?????
What if you don’t talk to your crush much? How do you get around that?
I suspect you really like someone but are afraid to open up and talk to him?
@@qrpcoaching8198 yeah you are correct
i understand you :(