4 Signs of MUTUAL Attraction
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- Опубліковано 14 лип 2024
- Curious about the unmistakable signs of mutual attraction between two people? Look no further! In this video, we will be talking about a few major signs of mutual attraction. These signs suggest that the person you're attracted to might be interested in you too!
So, if you're looking for dating advice on whether you should approach your crush, this video is for you! We'll discuss the signs of chemistry between two people, and how to determine if someone is attracted to you. By understanding these signs, you'll gain a deeper insight into the dynamics of your relationships and be better equipped to foster genuine connections and find true love.
Want more dating tips? We also made a video on the ONLY dating advice you'll ever need: • The Only Dating Advice...
#love #dating #attraction
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References
MHC-dependent mate preferences in humans. (1995). Proceedings of the Royal Society of London. Series B: Biological Sciences, 260(1359), 245-249. doi:10.1098/rspb.1995.0087
Montoya, R. M., Kershaw, C., & Prosser, J. L. (2018). A meta-analytic investigation of the relation between interpersonal attraction and enacted behavior. Psychological Bulletin, 144(7), 673-709. doi:10.1037/bul0000148
BetterHelp Editorial Team. (2022, December 22). The Science Behind Pheromones Affecting Attraction And Humans | BetterHelp. www.betterhelp.com/advice/attraction/the-science-behind-pheromones-attraction/
Evolution: Library: Sweaty T-Shirts and Human Mate Choice. www.pbs.org/wgbh/evolution/library/01/6/l_016_08.html
Fellizar, K. (2021, May 24). 12 Ways To Tell If The Attraction Is Mutual, According To Experts. Bustle. www.bustle.com/wellness/ways-to-tell-if-the-attraction-is-mutual-according-to-experts
Fugere, Madelaine (2022, June 13). Subconscious Physiological Responses Predict Attraction. www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/dating-and-mating/202206/subconscious-physiological-responses-predict-attraction
Riggio, Ronald. (2020, October 1). Body Language Cues That Increase Physical Attraction. www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/202010/body-language-cues-increase-physical-attraction
The Editors. (2022, December 27). 35+ Signs of Mutual Attraction. UpJourney. www.upjourney.com/signs-of-mutual-attraction
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No replies? Lemme fix that.
Sure
What is mutaul anyways
Thanks for confirming that no one has ever been attracted to me.❤
💀
RIP❤
😅
nah💀
Focus on yourself and learn to love yourself before anyone else. You will find your person. Maybe they're already there! Pay more attention
The problem with the whole facing each other thing is that if the person is really shy or has anxiety they'll most likely face away, especially if they like you.
yesss this is true!!! i like somebody and i get really shy around them!!! and even more shy when their looking at me!!!
And both slowly getting bored with each other 😂
See, I always try not to look at the person I like, and face away from them. ESPECIALLY when they are close to me. But when they are farther, I feel more comfortable looking at them.
@@Korii1029fter watching these videos I have stepped out of my comfort zone and started facing my crushes while talking to them and used many of these tips and have found that I appear more “approachable” and friendly and seem able to have longer and more meaningful conversations with them. It does work! Confidence goes a long way when it comes to attracting a crush! Even if you have to, just fake it till you make it
I would never look them in the face because i'm shy
Like i avoid the eye contact
But i never lost interest in them
My delusion is still stronger than the signs😭😭😭
Omg! I SO understand that feeling.
frr😭
I understand this so much rn 😅😂
I confessed to my crush who literally said she had the same feelings for me too but I still go to these videos just to make sure I’m not going crazy 💀
Unfortinately, this day is just your dream and you havent cofessed to her in reality yet.
Well good luck on reality
@@MoonGlow22 someone's salty about not having a gf💀
Saammee
Nah literally😭😭
*Timestamps:*
0:13 Direction
0:58 Mirroring
1:44 Excuses
2:36 Pheromones
yep-yep. a emotion hidden deep within the depths of the brain, unreachable for me…
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..
@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Feels like this interaction went lowkey wrong
@@mmonarosa7510 i know, it felt icky to read T_T
Honestly, this is perfect timing ❤
LITERALLYYY
IKR
Ikr!
welp, good luck, have fun!
gosh I’m really beating myself up at this point, can’t heckin stop it
Same
This might explain why i know my crush’s scents so well to the point where i can track/sense them with it 😂
@@yinja3406 precisely my point XD
a broken record here, but i love how these videos always come out or pop up on my feed when i need them the most. I've always found these to do one of two things, help me draw a conclusion that's positive or show me that I'm doing the things that are being told and get called out. its nice to know that while it could be true, and you do notice it a little, don't distort everything to be true because it might be misinterpreted.
It's scary how your videos seem to come at exactly the time you need them.
Sadly I'm in kind of a situation where I think I might start crushing over someone who is taken and that for a rather long time. The thing is we really like each other, such as we also noticed that we are very much alike and get along so well that we write each other whenever there is a spare minute to do so. The direction part would also fit somehow whenever we hangout in person. Of course it's off the table that ther could be more to it than friendship, since she's happily taken. But it's rather frustrating to some point.
I'm actually in a very similar situation, myself 😅
Except the guy who I like isn't taken and I'm not taken either. I'm pretty sure something else is going on that keeps us from being together. Anyway, sorry, I just thought it was crazy how similar our situations are 😅
Why would the person really like you if they're "happily taken?" I'm not trying to be rude, I just don't understand.
@@nyancat5393 Liking doesn't mean that it's in a romantic way, you know? I like my friends and am not romantically involved with everyone (that would be awkward). We get along very well and respect each other if you prefer to say it that way.
@@Wind_Cursed I'm sorry it doesn't seem to work out for you in your situation. But you got that silver lining that the person you want to be with is available (as far as I understand), so maybe it will work out when it is supposed to be. I whish you the best luck with that :)
@@Wind_Cursed yesss me too. I don’t think he’s with anyone and we meet every week at the same place. I noticed all these signs but then what? What should I do? Should I take it to next level? If we’re both single do we have to be romantically involved? I sometimes want a relationship but mostly feel comfy the way things are. I’m F23 and he’s M30. Would like to know your situation:)
Timestamps:
0:12 - Direction
0:59 - Mirroring
1:44 - Excuses
2:35 - Pheromones
Hope this helps you✨
What time are you watching this?? 👀
19:32
Thank you 😊
19:18
9:47 Alaska
20:30
We appreciate content like this. Keep up the good work
Bro I had the biggest crush in my life very recently, but of course none of the feelings were reciprocated. The story of my life lol.
i HAVE rn and that's my best friend who i friendzoned few months ago and i tihnk he no longer feels anything to me 😭
My main problem is I can't distinguish between someone finding it just awkward to be around you or someone being shy and making it awkward to be around you because they'd like you.
Like tf do I do about that
I just wanted to thank you Psych2GO!
because of you i understood many things much better and even got over my fear of asking a girl out. i was insecure first and didnt want to handle rejection, but your videos made me gather up some courage and ask her out.
how it went?
oh great! we ate ice cream and layed down besides a river. we watcjed the clouds and talked about fun things, she then had to go and i walked with her to the trainstation and on the way there i told her that i liked her!
she said she liked me too but wasnt sure if shes ready for a relationship. but told her that we could hang out more and learn more about the other person.
so yeah that was my first date with her and probably not the last!
and again! thank you for everything P2Go Team
@@yinja3406 thank you i indeed am a lucky man!
Aw I’m happy for u❤
@@bigvi9585 thanks man, so things got a litle complicadet, her parents are very strikt and dont let her go out even with friends so things are making it hard for me to meet her.
but i wont give up
I understand how attraction works. I feel like there were times where someone was attracted to me, but I never knew. The same goes for the other way around. I should keep an eye out for next time.
Okay
Don’t overthink it. If you like them you probably naturally give them a couple glances every once in a while. If you never see the person already looking at you when you see them they probably don’t like you. If you do see them looking at you then that’s great, go talk to them. 😄
Me sipping tea and thinking about my naive past: ☕😩
This is too relatable 😂
God i love this channel! How is it so relaxing and funny? Tysm for making this amazing content! :D
Timestamps
1). Direction 0:12
2). Mirroring 0:58
3). Excuses 1:43
4). Pheromones 2:34
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Ay be faster im waiting here
@@user-qx7dr9hz1d will do my friend
@@user-qx7dr9hz1d lmfao
Thank you
@@douglaspayne9914 not a problem happy to help
True! As someone with social anxiety tho i noticed that the more i hangout with new friends i start to slowly start mimicking some of their actions or ways of speaking subconsciously. Maybe its a safety precaution in my brain that i think people will like me more if im more like them or maybe im just wierd lol
Never in my life did i think i would be watching these kind of videos, but here i am. Me and him both have feelings towards each other
Gosh the artstyle is magnificent! Tge outline, colours and the eyes! They seem simple but seriously lovely.
People often to overlook it but you can tell a lot of work went into them 😊 are you an artist?
This channel is my all time safe place
I just had this happen, and i can't shake the energy. It was amazing.
Wow you guys gave no idea how much I need this today I needed to hear all of this thank you
Your videos help me understand people better! I love it!
GUYS! I DID IT! I GOT A GIRLFRIEND! AND NOT ONLY THAT SHE'S HOT AND NICE!!!
Good job I’m proud of ya son
The pheromone thing is so real to me, it's crazy. I often ask my partner to not wear cologne or even deodorant if she had just gotten out of a shower. I find her scent sexy and gets all the right gears moving. Of course, if we're going out, I won't object to her wearing whatever perfume she wants, she's free and I like her to feel confident and comfortable with herself
Writing poetry thinking about this video, which is in perfect timing. Thank you Psych2Go.
Great video, thanks!
Thank you for providing videos on Spotify as podcasts 🥀✨️
The closest i get to mutual is the parasocial relationship to this channel because its videos are always turning my way.
needed this, tysmm
Its scary how accurate this video is for me
“How did you two end up together?”
“His pheromones were just so strong 😍”
well, i always smile and make a large smile when i see a friend( the size is proportional to the friendship )and she is the only on of my friends that does that. she also turns all the way around to talk to me. the other ones are missing, but we are with each other for 70% of the day, so i fell rather confident
You know it gettin bad when im binging these types of videos
This makes me happy! 😍
Thank you for this Ma'am! 🙂
Wait what?? Early!
edit 5 min later: Okay what happened to this vid, it’s public but only 20 views?? or is it unlisted?
It’s unlisted
eeeee i needed this thank you thank you
It's weird how your videos are always recommended right when I need them...
I know he's attracted to me, we do all of these things to each other. but it's the slowest burn and it's killing me inside
Not that anybody is interested in me but, its entertaining to watch
thank u for making me more delulu
i love psychology so much ❤️
*hey, party people* just a reminder, do not depend on these signs to see if ur crush likes you back; these are just signs!! tho it is a big hint to u if they are doing these things, these actions aren't requirements for their attraction for u!!! gl for all ur relationships, and have a great day 😁
This has made me realize that I HAVE a mutual attraction to someone because I do most of these things. 😅💀
Thanks for confirming that my crush has a crush on me too but he’s probably oblivious to it
Even though I'm single its nice to take notes when it comes to your videos. Hopefully I find my queen bee someday
Idk how but you guys always have the perfect timing
perfect timing
trueee
I enjoy listening to your voice, it is very soothing.
She lock eyes with me alot, even when we're in a group. She mirrors me cutely, but idk, I think I'll play it cool with subtle flirting a bit more
ok
Thank you for confirming that no
one is attracted to me
Thank you for the video!
It’s crazy because my crush and i do all of these but I’m still not certain. Way too scared to confess for now but after this week we won’t see each other for 4 months 😩.
Cmon, you have to confess early before you won't see each other for 4 months, they might be even into you. Sometimes we have to take risks in order to achieve something, even if it's not successful atleast the feeling inside you will be let out
@@AJ-9896 You’re the voice of reason honestly. It makes sense and the signs seem to be there but at the same time I keep thinking I imagined everything. I’ll see later this week if there’s an opportunity, I might jump on it. Either way, the 4 months without seeing/talking to him will be pretty disappointing.
@@yinja3406 Thank you you’re so kind ❤️
@@Em-fz5uh hi. i just wanted to ask you if you asked him out. if you don't feel comfortable telling me it's ok👍
@@yinja3406 Hi ! No problem. I didn't so nothing really has happened. After our last exam, he invited myself and some friends to get drinks to celebrate. We chatted together and flirted quite a bit but we were rarely alone so it was difficult to ask him without "putting on a show" for the others. I had a lovely time but I chickened out. We might see each other again later next week so we'll see.
My someone, if you are my one and only, please confirm . I feel I’m able and caring enough helping you with patience to attain happiness❤
Once one of the friends of my crush, saw that i was looking at my crush's direction but when they started looking at me. I looked away into my phone.
After a a few minutes they figured it out that I had a crush on that girl and they started to whisper in her ear that I have a crush on he, even if the did not know me.
Oh great, at least this one was short♡
It was 4 minutes too long. These constant teenage relationship videos are irritating to say the least.
My crush, literally taps me and pats my back when I fall asleep in class. I swear I heard her say “my baby” while patting me when I was dozing off.
Either you dreaming ... or else this girl is a Dream Come True. That's some serious Warmth!
If I could ever feel this so-called mutual love, that would be nice.
Also:
UwU outro dance UwU
Every crush has either had a crush on someone else, was dating someone else and I didn’t know, or just wasn’t into me and they never knew I had a crush on them because I’m just that good at hiding my feelings hahaha hmmmm I need to communicate my feelings better
This just made me realise that I have a crush on sb rn and that no-one has ever had a crush on me😃
I luv your voice ❤❤ Can u do a video about mutual attraction in relationships please I’m a bit concerned abt my relationship 😢
My problem is that I’m lowkey clueless and high key awkward. I really really reallyyyyy like him but i literally can’t tell if he likes me too. Sometimes I think he does and then he won’t respond for a day and I’ll be convinced he hates me. Kinda sucks actually. Plus we work together so I can’t risk it cuz then work would be awful and I love my job
Early twice!
My crush and I were facing each other after finding an excuse to talk to one another😊.
We need one for our fellow ace's
It's in the Eyes ... and Voice.
Thank you Psych2go for another simply lovely video!! Everytime You guys are tryng to make a better world and I am supporting that being a subscriber and when I have free time, I try to help this community by just making them feel that are something and not think they are like failures. Let's keep pushing on!!❤️👍🤩
Thank for telling me I have severe delulu ❤️
I know a man who seem to like me. I say we are both handsome for each other. 💙👬
So what if you just get so focused on the moment when you're with that someone that you completely forget to look for any signs like this in them unless it's completely obvious? 😅
Yeah... That's me with the person I like. Something is telling me the feeling is mutual, but how can I tell if I'm never actively searching for signs like these in them? I just enjoy being around them, even if we aren't saying or doing anything. When I'm around them is one of the few times my anxiety can't take control of me and I finally live in the moment
Yep, the parrot next door has a good chance having crush on me as it mimic me pretty often… when I cry out in my sleep because of my miserable life
Good story 👍☺
loved the "at least on a biological level"
Thanks for helping me realise that I am just a delulu human being
Hello, I would love if you could do a video on trichotillomania, as someone who struggles with it I love to learn what to do and learn about it from you.
So I realized something my crush has been doing those signs more often than I have
Thank you I found my soulmate
I dunno if my crush even likes me but me and my friends were all on FaceTime. He was on a sleepover with his “dynamic trio” of boys lol and the boy that was on FaceTime with us said my name out loud and- my crush fr immediately whipped his head in the direction of his friend who had called my name and away from the friend he was fooling around with. Oof I cannot stop thinking abt that 😭😫. Even if he don’t like me that was adorable
He definitely likes you
Ended the video with less hope than I started 😢
Maybe I’m too invested
looks like i've been doing all of these things to my crush without realizing LMAO
I have a guy best friend whom I have known for 4 months even though I am married & this guy friend told me that he has a crush on me. 💜
With Your Amazing voice,
PETITION FOR AN ASMR VIDEO
👇
That video picture is just me
the characters are adorable
There literally anime turnip boys
@@bruintjesuus but they're nice turnips
psych2go is just remembering me how alone ill be for the next 76 years
I want to become a doctor, and the pheromone one was so interesting
Don’t feel too bad about being single, think about it there could be many other people who secretly like you and have a crush on you.. but you would never have a clue.
I’ve watched every video like this and still feel like they don’t like me even though they show almost every sign 💀
Very cool
well the smell one just made the interactions i’ve had with friends very awkward… especially since every time someone tells me i smell nice is usually when i don’t think i smell very good, or i can smell some sweat from gym class. i’m insecure that someone will notice the smell then someone says i smell good randomly… like ty ig??
2:35
I...actually did not know this!
Bro its playing the "Oh you dont know what karlson is?" Theme from danidev at the start!
I have a question for you physhc2go: I noticed that I have a hard time picturing what my crush looks like but I don’t have any problems recalling for example her siblings and what they look like and keep in mind I’ve known her for about 3 years now so I don’t think it’s not having seen her enough.
Dam watched this video to learn something I already knew that nobody has liked me thank you 👍
I don't think anything in my life is mutual...
same tbh
Merci beaucoup 🌹💐🌹
im gettibg delulu rn,HE IS ALL THIS