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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
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  • @marls2023
    @marls2023 Рік тому +194

    I’m sorry for the snark reddit adding on top to an already emotional day. I think they have lost sight of the assignment but we haven’t Adam. You amaze me with the amount of grace and reservation you have with all of this. It’s a testament of what you have truly been through.

  • @corgilover825
    @corgilover825 Рік тому +197

    Adam, I kid you not, your content has been one of the only things I look forward to which says a lot as I’m in a really bad depressive episode. You are incredibly witty, resilient, transparent, empathetic, and wise beyond your years. I’m sorry the Internet is a cruel, judgmental place where everyone feels entitled to have an opinion about you and the way you do you. As long as you’re doing things the way you want to, at your own pace, you’re in the right direction and slaying. Your true Muckers will always have your back in any circumstance. So much love and appreciation for you 🩷

    • @marseillesulfur2592
      @marseillesulfur2592 Рік тому +13

      Same same! we will get through this💪 in the meantime thank you adam, i love his vids so much something about his energy is good for the soul

    • @syntheticnightshade
      @syntheticnightshade Рік тому +11

      Just made it through my own depressive episode that lasted a couple months, you guys got this and we're all here for you

    • @jessab8757
      @jessab8757 Рік тому +6

      Well said. Adam is very intelligent, insightful and entertaining. Knowing he’s 20 year old makes him all the more impressive.

    • @orteney.
      @orteney. Рік тому +6

      omg wait same! his content is literally the only thing i can watch rn without obsessing over my problems

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому +4

      Hope you feel better soon Mucker! You'll come out the other side, never give up on yourself 💛

  • @raeisdumb
    @raeisdumb Рік тому +219

    The reddit, twitter/X, and other platforms have been so outspoken about "talking too much" about it.
    It's disgusting. People have such a huge lack of respect for victims; ESPECIALLY victims who have been shunned for years.
    They see it as entertainment. They see it as something being "dragged on" and "getting old" because they see it as nothing more than some hot drama.
    Adam. I'm glad you spoke about this and I hope you never have to speak about this again. Good on yer.

    • @nailinthefashion
      @nailinthefashion Рік тому +18

      Media responsibility is dying. No one is forced to follow drama, scandals etc
      People hate read and watch WAY too much

    • @ad_kk16
      @ad_kk16 Рік тому +7

      Sadly, this happens in family situations too (offline). Family members will gatekeep the victim, will stand against the victim, thinks that you're overreacting or dragging this on, & they continuously enable the abuser. It's honestly so sickening how people treat these victims. Like damn, are we living in a world full of narcissists? lol....

    • @epicgirl65060
      @epicgirl65060 10 місяців тому

      THIS

  • @sydneylacy5662
    @sydneylacy5662 Рік тому +218

    I am deeply disturbed by how many people are “supportive of the victims of Colleen” or just “concerned for you mental health” yet criticize everything you do, saying it’s too much or too little. It is no one’s place to say how a person should deal/react to something that happened to them. I’m sorry and I’m sending love.

  • @cassiedelrae
    @cassiedelrae Рік тому +65

    You know what’s crazy. I used to watch Colleen’s vlogs… I don’t anymore because I don’t support her. And because all of this I found your vlogs, Adam. And now I find comfort watching them. Very proud of you standing up for yourself and other victims! I’m behind you 💯

    • @jaclynsoboleski614
      @jaclynsoboleski614 Рік тому +6

      I second this, same situation, & i couldn’t be happier! Rid of the toxicity & welcome the positivity, wittiness, & all around heart warming content of Adam ❤

    • @bubblealien
      @bubblealien Рік тому +2

      Same here!

  • @OiOiOi_8
    @OiOiOi_8 Рік тому +34

    As a mom I've loved the commentary you give on your channel about Colleen. My daughter will be 13 next month. It's a HUGE help to know how much I should be apart of her life online. I would LOVE for you to do a q&a with your mom even if it's just through text. I think you've navigated this so so well and should continue to speak on this. I wish I had a platform for when I lived through narcissist abuse, and if I did...I wouldn't shut up about about it. You are finally being heard...never quit until you have closure. Period ❤️

  • @myoung6067
    @myoung6067 Рік тому +52

    I've been a member of the snark page for a couple years now and I am so sick of it lately. It's gotten quite toxic as more and more people join and I miss the old days when there were less of us. Most of us support you Adam! Make as many videos as you want. We'll be here to watch.

    • @Taywanee
      @Taywanee Рік тому +5

      God if I see one more post asking about something that’s been discussed multiple times and could easily be searched in the sub im gonna explode 😂

    • @blandface9957
      @blandface9957 Рік тому +3

      ​@@TaywaneeHELP SAME😭 especially the swoop josh interview- I am at the point that I want her to release it just so I can stop seeing people asking/complaining about it.

    • @myoung6067
      @myoung6067 Рік тому +1

      @@Taywanee RIGHT lol

  • @natarshagunter
    @natarshagunter Рік тому +33

    I love your response to the Redditor’s post, whether or not this person was ‘concerned with your mental health’, I don’t get what makes them think they have a say in how much content you should or shouldn’t make about topics you’re DIRECTLY related to or where you are DIRECTLY mentioned. Super weird of them

    • @marls2023
      @marls2023 Рік тому +6

      Yeah it’s actually pretty dense to assume this is hurting his mental health. If anything getting it out after being silenced for so long would honestly feel so awesome and validating.

  • @annieg202
    @annieg202 Рік тому +30

    I'm very sorry that people are commenting on your trauma as though it were a reality show to them. I hope that you know for every one person that speaks negatively of you, there are hundreds of supporters making sure that your story is heard. Please continue to speak your truth anytime you feel that you are able to, and I know one day you will be able to heal from all of this. #justiceforadambeckyollie

  • @cinephial
    @cinephial Рік тому +81

    I feel like people need to understand that there are 24 hours in a day. You taking a few minutes to discuss something that's negatively impacted your life for actual years is more than justified. Love you, hope you're well.

  • @birdie8006
    @birdie8006 Рік тому +15

    that snark subreddit is SO nasty, they were coming for swoop and saying she's manipulating people for views because she had a story where she said she canceled her vacation. don't take anything those terminally online folks are saying about you adam

  • @emmas381
    @emmas381 Рік тому +125

    I’m sorry that the snark Reddit was misrepresenting your words and actions, Adam. I continue to appreciate your coverage and perspective, as well as your funnier/more lighthearted videos!

    • @minnie6164
      @minnie6164 Рік тому

      Why r u apologising

    • @emmas381
      @emmas381 Рік тому +22

      @@minnie6164 because “sorry” can be used as a way to express empathy and extend compassion? Why are you bothered?

    • @minnie6164
      @minnie6164 Рік тому

      @@emmas381 I am bothered because u did nothing wrong but youre apologising on behalf of those rude Reddit users. That is how I received the comment.

    • @errorarrow90
      @errorarrow90 Рік тому +9

      ​@@minnie6164 they aren't apologizing, they are expressing sympathy. Words have multiple meanings.

    • @minnie6164
      @minnie6164 Рік тому +2

      @@errorarrow90 English not my first language I thought “I’m sorry” means similar to apology?

  • @DemureDelight8055
    @DemureDelight8055 Рік тому +16

    We tried to defend you against that hateful concern trolling over there Adam. They’re judging as if your life is a reality tv show & it is fucked that they think there is a right way or correct amount to talk about this trauma. They can shove it tbh they must have a privilege of not having to experience trauma in their lives if they don’t understand that it blots out the sun. You deserve to be able to talk about it just as much as you need to. Also your dogs ❤ they’re so cute omg

  • @eva6750
    @eva6750 Рік тому +24

    You’re around the age of my little brothers so I feel pretty protective of you Adam. When people come at you I just want to go into full-on big sis mama bear mode and confront them about their intentions 😅 You are so honest & genuine, it really annoys me when you get misrepresented.

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому +1

      Same 😂

    • @bubblealien
      @bubblealien Рік тому +2

      Same, he’s the same age as my little sister 🥲

    • @themajesticspaceduck
      @themajesticspaceduck Рік тому +2

      My little sister is a couple years older than Adam and I feel the same way too.

    • @shanel4294
      @shanel4294 Рік тому +1

      He’s a year older than me and I feel the same 😭😭

  • @Lei-AICPhD
    @Lei-AICPhD Рік тому +19

    You’re absolutely one of my new favorite people. I empathize with you because even tho I’m late 30s I’ve been groomed by someone similarly in my medical World. You’re a phenomenal person. Prayers for you.
    Reddit ppl are all about getting all the attention and it’s like old Twitter:
    Full of junk.

  • @jazzy6204
    @jazzy6204 Рік тому +3

    was it not literally trisha who has continuously said “any victim should be allowed to make a 1000 videos on this topic if they want to” like not only are they making shit up, they’re also fully ignoring what she actually HAS said

  • @queenc2144
    @queenc2144 Рік тому +4

    The frenemies 3 snark subreddit just got banned today for harassment so this one should mind their Ps and Qs. Reddit has decided that snark Reddits aren’t worth their legal risk apparently. Their days are numbered.

  • @nikhilsonavane8939
    @nikhilsonavane8939 Рік тому +4

    this is such a pattern with the internet, they'll support someone and all of a sudden start hating them for no reason. the snark reddit post was so disrespectful to you and so senseless. trisha never ever said that adam should stop making videos about her. this is so infuriating. you have all the right to be mad and stand for yourself.

  • @elizabethanne555
    @elizabethanne555 Рік тому +14

    Honestly, it’s humbling (I think that’s the right phrase I’m looking for?) to remember that this IS your real life, real events, and real trauma. You are a real person with real feelings and experiences. As we all know, when we follow a creator and actually start to genuinely care for their well-being, you posting consistent/up to date videos about what’s going on is honestly… hmm… how do I describe it? We care about not only your well being but your thoughts and perspectives on things too, so getting updates from you- no matter how often- is almost relieving? Like- okay, this is how he’s feeling now, this is what he’s going through, because of his honesty we can now try to be here for him as best as we can. Or at least it shows that you care about your fan base enough to keep them in the loop, and because we care about you, it doesn’t matter how often you post about YOUR personal experiences, it’ll never be overkill or repetitive. It’s like a friends updating you in real time about what’s going on in their life and for that we should be thanking you for you caring enough about us to share your story. I hope that all made sense

  • @margonautica
    @margonautica Рік тому +10

    don't ever feel like you're speaking too much on your own trauma because truthfully it helps other people with their own, including myself. don't ever stop until you're done!!

  • @epohmp4
    @epohmp4 Рік тому +3

    the highlight of my day !!!!

  • @amacd07
    @amacd07 Рік тому +11

    Miscommunication is just far too common on the internet and the fact that people are so quick to "pull the trigger" on people, so to speak, is also so disappointing :(

  • @ChimeraTruely
    @ChimeraTruely Рік тому +3

    The people that are turning against the victims are bored. Colleen isn't publicly providing responses for them to respond to, so it feels Repetitive to read the same stuff.
    As far as I am concerned, you get the equal (or more) time allotment to talk about your abuse, as she spent trying to destroy you. So lets start with 3 years & see how things stand then. (Though we all know she is still attacking you, & working to get people to attack you, so the time frame is going to continue to expand.)
    You have always said Becky, Ollie, & others deserve just as much support, & have never said "well my trauma is worse." So they are still making ish up when they act like you want the title.
    Victims are allowed to speak as long, & as hard, as they need to while trying to find some healing. Victims become Warriors when they fight to expose their abuser in the hopes of preventing them from moving on to their next victim. Unfortunately, some only want to see the big battles & don't understand that the little ones are just as important when it comes to preventing yourself from being silenced by a pay for play media.

  • @annakatie7347
    @annakatie7347 Рік тому +5

    Adam I completely understand your attachment to places like your apartment, hotels, etc. I personally would have to gear myself up to say 'goodbye' whenever I left my grandparents farm throughout my life (my real home) & my brain go like 'last tuesday here' & i would literally have to countdown and cherish my time before leaving.

  • @jillmendoza6059
    @jillmendoza6059 Рік тому +8

    I’m only 5 minutes into the video but I’m also moving out of my first apartment on my own and it’s been super emotional for me as well. Watching your videos are been surreal seeing someone else go through it. (I vlogged a goodbye and cried as well lol)

  • @Dogwithoutaname
    @Dogwithoutaname Рік тому +8

    When my old landlord just showed up at my place, with the couple who was going to tour and knocked on my door and goes "i texted your roommate, they didnt respond. We are touring now."
    😅
    I was like wtf.
    "Hope you dont mind pets,or a mess...." (embaressed and caught off guard)

    • @Dogwithoutaname
      @Dogwithoutaname Рік тому +1

      I'm also emotionally attached to spaces, and objects. Visual reminders of memories is so odd,sad and emotional. I understand ❤ taking pictures/videos in a space to remember them is my way of coping.

    • @white_isnt_a_race2338
      @white_isnt_a_race2338 Рік тому

      Legally you could have told them to get F’ed

    • @fourofcats5803
      @fourofcats5803 Рік тому +1

      Pretty sure they have to give you 24 hours notice before expecting to come inside

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому

      You have a legal right to peaceful enjoyment of the property. They have to give 24hrs notice and you can refuse if it's inconvenient for you! In the UK anyway 😂

    • @white_isnt_a_race2338
      @white_isnt_a_race2338 Рік тому

      @@fourofcats5803 yea… and unless its for maintenance to repair something on site you dont have to let them into your place. You’re allowed to decline, allowing your place to be viewed by strangers while the unit is still under contract is a courtesy of the tenant

  • @BeesKnees1234
    @BeesKnees1234 Рік тому +5

    Adam, I get it. My husband and I just moved from our apartment and I absolutely bawled on our last day. We had been there for 12 years, was our first place together, so many memories. Now we get to make new ones.

  • @alexklose4777
    @alexklose4777 Рік тому +2

    "she's actually very strong" that's so sweet I love ur content. I would defend my furbabies abt anything and everything. please make sure u have plenty of time Adam I can't imagine how I would feel if I found false snark Reddits made about me. keep kicking ass

  • @gingerw7284
    @gingerw7284 Рік тому +3

    As a survivor myself of sa and other abuse. People love to tell survivors what to do. It's obnoxious and they really need to fuck the fuck off. I'm really glad you are standing up for yourself. It's truly inspiring and I'm sending you a big virtual hug 🫂💚

  • @Iffychris22
    @Iffychris22 Рік тому +6

    I sometimes wonder if people on Reddit have their own lives…

  • @CWazBroadwayBandGeek
    @CWazBroadwayBandGeek Рік тому +5

    Adam, I definitely know how you feel when it comes to moving. I moved from Wisconsin to Illinois to get away from a less than ideal situation back home, that situation being someone in my family. But I’m so close with my mom. And having to leave her and my sweet baby girl, my cat Finn, I felt like my heart physically broke. Then a few weeks after I moved into my new place, I fully broke down in the shower because I missed them, and my friends I made back home so much. But now that I’ve had time to process, I’m beyond happy I have my own space, my own room, because I had to share a room with my sister. I have freedom now that I didn’t have before.
    You already have that freedom, but a new city will broaden that freedom even more. ❤️

  • @gingerw7284
    @gingerw7284 Рік тому +2

    It's okay to get emotional about leaving a place you were at for a while. I love the Garfield hoodie btw.
    Oh I love all the spooky things. Halloween is my favorite holiday and honestly it's a lifestyle 😂
    If you ever visit Michigan I have friends with horses, we can go horse back riding😎💚
    I commented on Trisha's video that you're not making more videos about her. Not sure if that comment was deleted.
    I stay off Reddit unless I'm looking up a craft or a walkthrough for a game. That's just me personally. I'm sorry though that one was started, I have a feeling the toxic gossip trash lady has something to do with it.
    You know many folks have your back Adam, we are here for you and sending you love. 💚

  • @heyItsBillieJo
    @heyItsBillieJo Рік тому +3

    Seeing you and the dogs is the actual cutest. I’m currently sitting with my foster turned forever dog with whom I only figured out she was pregnant 2 days ago and she literally crawled in my lap to give birth. So miss Ginger gave me 3 of the most beautiful gifts. Names, Wednesday, Daisy & Scout

  • @StepInsideMyMind
    @StepInsideMyMind Рік тому +2

    Do you think that these troglodytes making assumptions about your relationship with Trisha are part of the Colleen/Miranda cult? I wouldn't put it past her sending them to the Colleen snark reddit to create havoc.
    Eff'em, Adam. Their opinion of you is none of your business. You continue to be the consistent and authentic work in progress that you are... that we ALL are. You are loved. You are cherished. You are enough.

  • @LawNerdAmber
    @LawNerdAmber Рік тому +6

    Hey muckers! Best of luck with moving Adam...it sucks, it's bittersweet... it's stressful AF

    • @LawNerdAmber
      @LawNerdAmber Рік тому +1

      Also sorry if there's two comments from me YT isn't showing me my other one 🤷

  • @starfiresreign
    @starfiresreign Рік тому +5

    I feel bad because people seem to forget you're healing in real time and this is your actual life. Not everything can be how they feel it should be.

  • @staffordshire1215
    @staffordshire1215 Рік тому +4

    you are the only creator i watch consistently, and i’m always waiting for an upload. you can never talk “too much” about a situation that hurt you. you bring a lightness to all of this that i appreciate. using the “worried about your mental health” when they’re picking apart everything you do isn’t a consistent narrative. not to mention, you make videos every week that aren’t even related to colleen. you got this. we’re rooting for you!

  • @tinyfig9708
    @tinyfig9708 Рік тому +2

    Your segments with the girlies always make me smile! Also, I find it so coincidental how we share the exact same favorite movies (and our personalities are so alike, haha). I don't know a lot of people who appreciate the same movies as me. And I'm in love with the bobbleheads!
    I'm so sorry that people are twisting the situation and talking about things they are not experiencing. It's so invalidating and uncalled for! I want you to know that your daily videos, vlogs, and streams have been such a joy and light in my day, I always look forward to it. Never stop being you.
    I hope your stress and sickness won't take up too much during this time. Much love

  • @Bozthecat
    @Bozthecat Рік тому +6

    Adam, it is common to feel a loss when you move and waves of nostalgia are expected. Moving is also one of the most stressful events in life. Enjoy your last few weeks in Brighton and feel your feels. ❤

  • @er8071
    @er8071 Рік тому +2

    hey Adam. im a cryer. when i was younger i would swallow my tears. if i cried i would be angry at my self cause i didn't want to cry. till this day i have to tell my self i cant cry here or i can't cry right now. the thing is i would surpress my feelings so much for so long, now i just cry uncontrollably, i cant hold tears back anymore. i think now that im older. ITS OKAY TO CRY. cry when u feel it just cry ur body needs it man it needs to release it.

  • @keyfiender799
    @keyfiender799 Рік тому +6

    I feel the same sadness whenever i move - or leave a hotel room! Or leave a campsite!! I cry pretty much every time. It feels like I'm leaving a friend, and they'll be lonely without me. It feels like we loved each other. The only thing that helps is, i know I'll get just as attached to wherever i go next. And the place will make a new friend. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's like this. 💕✨

  • @hugsandspoons
    @hugsandspoons Рік тому +2

    Adam, I completely empathize with the feeling of having somebody in your own space. I’ve moved twice in my life but I only was old enough to remember one of the moves. Most recently, in 2021, my parents and I were “kicked out” during the viewings of our house. It felt weird coming back in knowing people had been in our space. it felt even more solidified when the family who bought our house hired cleaners to come into the space despite us STILL LIVING THERE. They threw away food in the freezer, in addition to almost throwing out toiletries of ours. While I’m not saying this will happen to you, I’m trying to convey that I truly understand what you’re going through.

  • @Maiden_to_mother
    @Maiden_to_mother Рік тому +24

    You are so sentimental and I love that about you. Everything has meaning to you and that’s special. So many people miss out on the things that you take the time to appreciate

    • @jaclynsoboleski614
      @jaclynsoboleski614 Рік тому

      Took the words right out of my mind ❤Adam is an absolute gem of a human being; & in todays world- it’s so heartbreakingly rare! Adam-don’t ever let ANYONE dim that bright light of yours, you’re truly an Angel of a human being. 💜😊

  • @AngelsLieToKeepCtrl
    @AngelsLieToKeepCtrl Рік тому +3

    It's kind of scary seeing the line being blurred between real life and drama. People are starting to think it's the same thing.
    I hope you're feeling better :)

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому

      This has been treated like reality tv for a while now imo 👀 the way people are BEGGING Swoop for the next installment so they can get their fix. It's wild to me 😔

  • @bluelime83
    @bluelime83 Рік тому +4

    Talk your shit!! 💕The fact that you've been so open with everything and how you've gone about it all versus all the people on the snark just sitting and waiting for developments really shows how hard you're pushing through all the bs ❤

  • @pearlclamx
    @pearlclamx Рік тому +3

    "get sucked into drama" ooh boy.
    this is not DRAMA. its REALITY.
    this is what the truth has been hiding and its been revealed! why can't people realise this? i completely understand your frustration over this!

    • @LouderThanLife7
      @LouderThanLife7 Рік тому +1

      It's like what SWOOP says, " Is not drama, it's dangerous"

  • @charlotte_stevens
    @charlotte_stevens Рік тому +2

    You have every right to feel sad and melancholy about your apartment and moving! So much happened to you there, good and bad! I think it's becoming very real to you, and change is both scary and exciting! Your feelings are completely valid, sweetheart! 💖

  • @cheecheetara
    @cheecheetara Рік тому +2

    Haven’t even started, but I NEED THAT SWEATSHIRT! Love it!

  • @dandelion_official4812
    @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому +2

    You're still running a drama channel at the end of the day 😂 Does Trisha really think that the Colleen situation means you won't ever call her out again!? That's unrealistic imo. If she's posting about Colleen you have every right to respond as she's also talking about you, and if she goes back to her problematic ways you also have every right to continue calling her out. Keep doing what you do best 💜 This is your real life - no one else can tell you what you should or should not do 🤬

  • @ghostguru9156
    @ghostguru9156 Рік тому +2

    Nah you can tell that person doesn’t actual care. To call everything you went through with colleen “drama” shows that they haven’t been listening. It’s also so fuckin wild that people are so desensitized or just completely brain dead on the internet that they just think you need to move on from trauma immediately

  • @xuchilbarasheart8988
    @xuchilbarasheart8988 Рік тому +4

    I don't understand why anyone thinks its their right to judge you and tell you what you should and shouldn't be doing. I honestly think you are doing a wonderful job and you have been kind and fair and you literally have many times shouted of all of the other victims showing that you are wise beyond your years. That you know it's not just about you but you've never claimed it was, honestly this is sounding like a Colleen fan to me pretending to be a Trisha fan and trying to make problems where there are none. I hope that Trisha changes how she phrases things so that if this is a true fan they stop, you've been too kind to Trisha and don't deserve any blow back for Trisha miss-representing how things currently stand between the two of you. But anyone who actually watches your content knows that you are incredible person who treats everyone fairly, so shine on Adam! Don't let them anyone mess with you, except for maybe Milo, Bonnie, and Dolly. Those three adopted you as their person and love you but they I'm sure that they are gonna always keep you on your toes! Much love from myself and the hubs! Be happy and I hope less stressed! :D

  • @jessab8757
    @jessab8757 Рік тому +4

    Adam, you can talk about that for as long as you want. Not only is this your life, but you are a UA-camr and you’re reacting to other people still taking about this. It’s not like your repeating your story in each video.. you’re just responding or reacting and giving your input because you’re directly involved in this situation. Do people not remember that you know these people in real life? Don’t stress that, it’s bullshit. And don’t ever hesitate to discuss this topic in the future. We love hearing your thoughts on everything. This is your life and you’re allowed to talk about it.

  • @kellycatrina2891
    @kellycatrina2891 Рік тому +3

    Am I the only one who can’t watch the video? It makes the UA-cam app crash after ads or it stays stuck in a loading loop…

    • @LexFerraro
      @LexFerraro Рік тому +1

      me either, wondering what’s up

    • @frogurtcremebrulee5252
      @frogurtcremebrulee5252 Рік тому

      Same here as well. Hopefully it’s not something huge to deal with lol

    • @missliss2581able
      @missliss2581able Рік тому

      It wouldn’t play for me earlier but I’m watching it now, so whatever happened it’s fixed now 🙂

  • @er8071
    @er8071 Рік тому +2

    this is sad but i think when i was younger i would supress my feelings and my crys cause i knew there was no one there to comfort me. sometimes you just gotta cry and pick your self up, write down ur feelings and reflect, get informed about the topic and mental health in your situation. there's always someone who can be going through similar situations that might have answers or just advice.

  • @laarrensen
    @laarrensen Рік тому +2

    Adam you’re totally fine! Some people are jerks! You’re awesome! Sending much love your way! Ps. I also get sentimentally attached to hotel rooms and the like too!

  • @---Cybil---
    @---Cybil--- Рік тому +4

    If you want to make a 1,000 video's every single day about it, you have every right to. I think because it's not as mainstream as it was, people want to move on to other topics, and that's not right. I think people forget that all of the victims are real people having to live through all this. Stay strong Adam. We are here for you.

  • @Willow_moon364
    @Willow_moon364 Рік тому +3

    I'm totally with you on being sad even leaving hotel rooms and places i live even if im ready to leave i get emotional.
    The bellybutton tangent made me giggle and overyhink having one. When i was really little my older sister told me not to itch my bellybutton as it would come undone and i fully believed her 😂
    It sounds like you and Trisha have a good common ground and understanding after the emails. People really reach with filling in the blanks (and sometimes not even blanks but rewriting what people say) I feel as though when two people have a peaceful resolution some people try to stir up drama around it again. Its your story and experience to talk about as much as you like. You can never please everyone, if you didn't respond to things there would be people saying you should talk about it. Sending you lots of love and i hope you get a good rest xx

  • @superrobby3657
    @superrobby3657 Рік тому +4

    Good luck with your move Adam! So proud of you 🎉❤ love all you muckers 💖

  • @0T772
    @0T772 Рік тому +3

    Love when you post here!!! Been binge watching these, my ultimate favorite videos of these is the meeting Mariah, love it, and cry with you of happiness!!!! Take care of yourself.

  • @gabrielacardenas842
    @gabrielacardenas842 Рік тому +1

    just sending love to you adam because you deserve to hear from the people who believe in you and your story. you speak as much or as little as you, as the survivor, see fit. you’re doing amazing. people lack compassion and empathy these days and it shows, but you are surrounded by amazing muckers who do have your back through this. 💜 keep going mother mucker!

  • @MeganPugh
    @MeganPugh Рік тому +4

    my comfort creator

  • @sleepypup
    @sleepypup Рік тому +2

    You deserve to be angry honestly 🤷‍♀️ You're going through SO MUCH right now, all at once, and I'm glad you finally have a voice.
    (Edit for typo)

  • @enbyoonji
    @enbyoonji Рік тому +2

    Adam, I’m so sorry about this. You don’t deserve it at all. I would be bothered, too if people kept making wild assumptions about me. What you said about them always claiming they’re “looking out for your mental health” is actually something I always thought: it’s nothing but a scapegoat for them to avoid accountability for treating you like an object of entertainment and not like a person and victim. It’s also extremely presumptive for a complete stranger who doesn’t know you to say what is good or not for your mental health, so I agree that you needed to say something about those comments. You’ve become one of my favorite creators in the past month. I’m here for YOU and not “colleen content” because it’s not content, it’s part of your life. Take care, I hope that movie and maybe some of our comments will cheer you up (and on).

  • @venus.invirgo
    @venus.invirgo Рік тому +2

    The reddit comment is so tone deaf! You're doing amazing, Adam!

  • @lelouchemperor8424
    @lelouchemperor8424 Рік тому +2

    Trisha will always be wormy like that

  • @hanako_w
    @hanako_w Рік тому +3

    Love your videos ❤ I look forward to them everyday and they get me through the week!

  • @TwinMamaRN
    @TwinMamaRN Рік тому +4

    Oh Adam I am so sorry! As my husband says... stupid people are going to be stupid. Ignore the stupid as much as you can. This is about your experience, Trisha's experience, and your emails to each other are no one's business but your own. Personally I love watching your reactions and responses to different things that have come out about colleen as well as other topics! You have displayed so much strength and integrity through this whole ordeal. Don't let a few snarky idiots get to you.

  • @GaskeyGirl513
    @GaskeyGirl513 Рік тому +1

    I feel as if you have done a FANTASTIC job when it comes to ALL of the BS thats happened to you and so many other ppl!! No one has a right to say you or any other victim has spoken to much or made to many video's or whatever besides YOU and all of the other victims!!! You are a strong intelligent TRUTHFUL person thats has had such HORRIBLE DISGUSTING things done and said to you and if you want to speak on this till the end of time thats your prerogative!!! You have handed yourself with dignity when you absolutely did not and do not have to. This happened to you so whatever misinformed ppl decide to negatively say about you or any other victim in this situation makes them no better then Colleen Ballenger in my book!!!
    Sending lots of love and strength to you Adam 💞💪🤙

  • @JunkieSama
    @JunkieSama Рік тому +1

    Ugh!! You can never do anything right in the eyes of these types of people!! What also frustrates me is that people give you shit for being too nice with Trisha OR too harsh 😑 . And it boggles my mind that people can say you're milking this situation or whatever when it IS your life. If they want it to stop, they need to be messaging COLLEEN to finally give you that apology and take some sort of accountability! Until then we WILL NOT MOVE ON.

  • @Charlie_835
    @Charlie_835 Рік тому +1

    Colleen Ballinger snark… a huge group chat bullying someone and acting like it’s “for the victims”? biggest joke ever. This is bullying. And I’m not saying this to defend Colleen in aaaaanyyyy capacity.

  • @Poultry_ma
    @Poultry_ma Рік тому +1

    The fact that time and time again Adam is given shit for talking about something that happened to HIM, that literally EVERYONE ELSE on the internet is talking about, like even across fucking platforms is insane to me. When does the dog pile on Adam stop? At the end of the day, don’t forget what this story is about. A group of unhinged adults who purposefully manipulated and attacked the children fans who gave them the very platform they weaponized against them. Fucking miss me wit that dude.

  • @GinaGodfrey
    @GinaGodfrey Рік тому +2

    People forget they can just be quiet if they don’t like something! 🙄
    Love and support to you Adam 🖤

  • @lucylawal5370
    @lucylawal5370 Рік тому +2

    “Fake” blood in the bathroom, runs to the outside bin until 5 a.m, moving out soon after years? The neighbors are gonna start talking about a murderer in their midst

  • @Pointesouth
    @Pointesouth Рік тому +1

    The snark page was infiltrated by the colleen sings page. They’re allowed to talk about the snark reddit, but the snark reddit doesn’t allow them to talk about the Colleen sings reddit.

  • @elijolesy
    @elijolesy Рік тому +1

    Just like Peter Monn says, this isn’t Judy Smith’s channel! You can talk about whatever you want. Reddit can be such a nasty place.

  • @MsLittleFishBigPond
    @MsLittleFishBigPond Рік тому +1

    In the UK you have The Right to Quiet Occupancy. This means if you have a contract and YOU have paid to occupy for that time you can say no to viewings. They only insist for the benefit of the landlord so there’s no gap. They can’t punish you or anything you have paid up therefore it is your right.

  • @bunfeng
    @bunfeng Рік тому +4

    Adam I totally get you about some posts just eating you the fuck up. I haven’t watched the full video yet and I have such a problem of commenting as I go so sorry haha! Haven’t got into the situation yet but I get it. I’m even a redditor and kinda participate in snark subs but I think there’s a limit.
    I have a kinda similar experience where my trauma has been on UA-cam commentary channels before and shit, which generates conversations on Reddit and TikTok or whatever. It eats me up and makes me so nervous to see someone covering my trauma or how I react to it on Reddit posts or on TikTok comments. Sometimes I find the hate funny, but other times the dumbest criticisms just eat me the fuck up and I feel so upset ab it. It’s valid to feel this way.
    Sometimes I feel like fans or haters look for victims to be caught in a “gotcha youre just as bad as X” moment
    Off topic: Also, I don’t know if you seen, but jacksepticeye responded on his podcast brain leak on UA-cam about the Mr beast thing.

    • @dandelion_official4812
      @dandelion_official4812 Рік тому +1

      That's a lot, I'm sorry you're going through it 😔 So many creators are content farmers of other people's stories and don't actually care about the people's lives they make money from. I love Adam and Peter Monn because they come across as authentic and genuine in calling evil behaviours out rather than just looking for the latest hot topic to cover. It's a fine line, but compassion is so important when you're making videos on really dark topics imo. I hope you're holding up well 💜

  • @guccibird6862
    @guccibird6862 Рік тому +1

    I understand why you're annoyed bc like stfu you were not there and i can talk about MY story on MY youtube channel with My fans that are interseted in whats going on and updates whenever i want. Period. (speaking if i was you btw)

  • @raptoress6131
    @raptoress6131 Рік тому +1

    If Colleen had apologised initially and opened an honest dialogue, this could have been avoided. She chose this outcome, not the people who've spoken out about her abusing her power and general awfulness.

  • @QueenietheBoss
    @QueenietheBoss Рік тому +1

    Omg yes! lol Adam is a horse girl at heart! I knew I liked you lol I'd love to be your riding partner if we're ever in the same city, I'll show you the ropes!

  • @preslie5129
    @preslie5129 Рік тому +1

    Adam you have officially replaced cauldron ballinger in my morning routine

  • @dakotabodinski600
    @dakotabodinski600 Рік тому +1

    I think people get lost in the term drama in this sense, even trish said she would never stop talking about it because at the end of the day Colleen is a criminal, there is a difference between speaking on something for drama purposes and speaking on trauma I just think people on the internet get confused between the two
    Much love to you Adam

  • @marlieshilgersom3569
    @marlieshilgersom3569 Рік тому +1

    They only watch content that relates to the drama and only know you from watching that, and then get annoyed at you and think you only talkk about that drama?? Its theit bias, maybe they should diversify what they watch and read.

  • @lauramatz5746
    @lauramatz5746 Рік тому +1

    Just to let you know teddy fresh has a last chance sale,on right now,I thought. Maybe you’d like to know since you had to throw out some clothes

  • @gutternopedestal
    @gutternopedestal Рік тому +1

    Talk about whatever you want to talk about on your own channel. With all due respect to them, fuck 'em.

  • @fxirydreams
    @fxirydreams Рік тому +3

    haven’t watched yet ofc but no matter what happened or does happen. we love you adam. don’t let snarky posts consume you too hard. you’ve been through hell be gentle with yourself. much love

  • @LeahFairfield
    @LeahFairfield Рік тому +1

    I’m so proud of you for standing up for yourself and the other victims. It’s not often that I see content creators doing this and sometimes I don’t understand it other than those talking crap are just losers, it’s not worth their time.

  • @jckistan
    @jckistan Рік тому +1

    Very deserved rant in this video. I barely knew who Colleen was before finding your channel but even I recognise that we need to hold people accountable with pressure so they don't succeed with sneaking back into public view without taking responsibility. I might not be up to speed with what's going on but you have EVERY right to speak as much as you want about it because it happened to you personally and it has yet to be resolved. Good luck to you, I wish you and everyone involved the best :)

  • @ayeeeerin4999
    @ayeeeerin4999 Рік тому +1

    Adam don’t listen to that shit. Honestly this has been so healing for many to watch and realize/heal from our own experiences. It means a lot to us all. Don’t stop standing up for yourself! ❤❤ you’re so intelligent and strong it’s empowering so don’t stop. There is no perfect way to handle this but I will say you have handled it pretty damn close to perfect. Thank you Adam much love❤

  • @briannenurse4640
    @briannenurse4640 Рік тому +1

    Good on you. You actually got an apology from the person you called out in the reddit!

  • @peaches6932
    @peaches6932 Рік тому +2

    I wash my face with dove soap and at my wedding my family who is super picky about skin care kept asking what I did and was shook when I told them just dove 😂

  • @LouderThanLife7
    @LouderThanLife7 Рік тому +2

    Adam, you are doing so well. Moving is so emotional, stressful, exhausting, and overwhelming. To have that on top of everything else you are dealing with is a lot. Don't listen to those people, you stand up for yourself! ❤🎉
    We are here for you. You can heal as you need. You are soooo young and are dealing with all of this so well. You are healing and growing. A lot of times people dont like that. They would rather stay stuck than grow and change and accept they're wrong. I promise I am preaching to the choir- that is something I am dealing with in my healing journey. And I want you to know that you do inspire me to keep growing and make me feel less alone. Not in a creepy way, in a healthy parasocial relationship with solid boundaries
    You are amazing and deserve to speak your truth and heal. ❤

  • @WhoDeyThink
    @WhoDeyThink Рік тому +2

    Only a few minutes in but we got your back g! Rooting for u 💖⭐

  • @serotoninbaby420
    @serotoninbaby420 Рік тому +1

    I love seeing you play with your doggies aw😭😭

  • @grecianbeauty
    @grecianbeauty Рік тому +1

    You keep doing what you're doing Adam. That woman should be in jail

  • @jaynaelizabeth1385
    @jaynaelizabeth1385 Рік тому +1

    adam, you have been a pillar of strength and resilience throughout this entire ordeal. you all deserve to speak about this until you get justice. you deserve to talk about it too much. and you also deserve to be supported by the community through the entire process. you are not the villain that disgusting family is, and you, becky, oliver, josh, trisha and all of their victims have EVERY right to continue to speak out about it.

  • @stephmelin6693
    @stephmelin6693 Рік тому +2

    Adam, good for you for speaking up for yourself, as you should. It’s your story to tell and you can speak about it as much as you want, which you know. You’ve handled this entire situation so well. Some people will just never understand

  • @Idontwant1
    @Idontwant1 Рік тому +1

    At 13:48 the fake out throw made my day. You did what I suggested you do. Lol it’s a fun change up and keeps the girls on their toes. Lol

  • @artgirl1212
    @artgirl1212 Рік тому +1

    You’re bigger than ALL of them Adam. Honestly though, Trisha should NEVER have said what she said to start this. It’s not okay.
    Besides that, keep moving. You can and you will. We are holding you UP ! 🥰

  • @ebdgr
    @ebdgr Рік тому +1

    I'm sorry, king.
    I/the Muckers will forever have your back ❤️