The people making fun of you are honestly disturbing, extremely antisocial... Please know 0% of them seem emotionally intelligent, fair, or logical. It's frustrating so many are bothering you, harder to ignore...
Where ? Where are the haters please ? Don't mix people having a problem with a choice or a behavior and meanness. The extreme majority of people aren't mean on purpose. They can have a problem and yet, won't mix everything.
@@ellieweb-xl9gp I'm not sure what you mean here. Someone on Twitter said Adam "should be dead like his cat" (paraphrased). I think the confusion is on your end, respectfully, or we simply disagree. I wasn't referring to anyone giving constructive criticism as that's fine. But reading comprehension, I said those making fun of him. That entails bullying.
@@ellieweb-xl9gp yeah on youtube it's not as bad, maybe he is deleting the bad ones or it's a spam filter or something. on twitter it's been bad the last 24 hours, people think he shouldn't share anything about the death or pictures. I think it's very obvious that this is Adams way of coping and getting support, so it's vile af to call him sick for taking a last picture with milo.
@@Hauabhier Im so upset Adam haven't read the comments If you share that, at least that the good side of things, there will be good advices when you may have troubles to see things clearly or from a distance. Medical stuff blinds us with fear and despair... We are more easily influenced. I m so mad he didn't went elsewhere to ask for a second opinion. It upsets me so much. But to me haters are like unicorn like one in a million, i feel like most people make the difference between a disagreement with a choice, a behavior and the life of a poor innocent little one.... Am i wrong or what? Im even ready to believe that the evil people on Twitter are colleen and her lovely friends on fake accounts. It takes special people mostly raised in special circumstances. Of course they exist but most of us aren't that out of reality. Mammal intelligence is based on emotions Unspoken Moral laws are based on intelligence and even shared by animals. This is not innate to go against It We can even believe that the most simple intelligence is still based on emotions sensations and feelings like a unicellular organism for example Will feel good or bad if the environment provides what it needs or not Im french sorry if my English is not that good by moments... Im doing my best ;)
I’m so sorry about Milo. I’m 38 and live alone and you stayed it perfectly, your animals are your world when you live alone. Saying goodbye to a loved one is so hard, you did everything you could for Milo including the most compassionate final gift, you gave him a voice. I firmly believe that Milo and Tyler are waiting for you at the rainbow bridge ❤
No he hasn't. What a shame he tell his story and doesn't read the comments Im so mad. He should've never come back to that vet. Sue him, read the comments again, that story doesn't make any sense. And the worst is im just sure that it looks like they forgot something in his belly during the surgery. He should ve never die And yesterday it wasn't too late. It's a shame !!!!
@@ellieweb-xl9gp You lack medical understanding and are speaking from a place of ignorance. As a medical professional, Adam's story makes perfect sense and isn't uncommon by any means. Do some research, and maybe it will make more sense!
@@nullusernamex Yeah from a place of ignorance you say ? So explain me... As a medical professional..... First how come his first cat die with fip without him being made aware while having a second cat. Then, a cat having fip in his blood (virus) since more than a year, how come you can not see it while having blood work done just before the surgery . It's far more than enough time to be able to find the antibodies in the blood. The slowest virus to be detectable, take not more than 3month (i believe like the kind that attacks the immune system) to develop enough antibodies to be detectable, so more than a year is more than enough. And finally (just what s coming to my mind immediately), being bloated by fluids, doesn't look like that But enlight me please...
@@nullusernamex Oh yeah and you don't guess a cat has fip, it's science as sure as mathematics, you see it in the blood. It's the very first thing that vet search for in a cat's blood. The first vet, it would be worthy of a lawsuit if the first cat died having fip and as a vet you don't say it particularly when your client has another cat. The second vet, he would ve seen it in the bloodwork and it's not the kind of thing you guess... And 10 000 for treatment ??????? Make some research... Worthy of a lawsuit again and weird... Why ? To say it was a desperate cause... Don't even try to save him ? Too expensive and too much pain... The "humane" thing to do is to poison him ??????? Advising a second opinion is more than fair i believe
@ellieweb-xl9gp I mean from a place of ignorance literally, not as in insult. As in you don't understand. I'd be happy to take a try. Please note I'm not 100% certain I remember all the facts as I just briefly watched the video, so if I make a mistake please let me know. 1. If I understand what happened correctly, either the diagnosis was simply unclear at the time of death, thus no testing occured, or the vets messed up. Them messing up seems unlikely as medical professionals have just as much incentive for a good outcome as patients do (we have licenses, businesses, reputations, and hearts to consider). If it was negligence, that's awful and shouldn't have happened. 2. I think this is a common misconception. Blood work has thousands of options, and normally only a CBC, metabolic panel, chemistry, and TSH are ordered, depending on the issue. So it's not likely to identify a niche problem. Beyond that, it's very difficult to diagnose FIP. Essentially there are different tests with different issues, and the antibody test doesn't distinguish between a non-FIP strain of coronavirus and a FIP strain of coronavirus. There are other issues, but that's the gist of it - it's basically a guessing game until it's very clear the cat is sick, and even then, they might not realize it's FIP/be able to confirm it is FIP. 3. The virus may have been dormant until recently. It's just difficult to say - the reason you're confused is indeed because it's confusing.
Grief is the price you pay for love. I watch majority of your videos but your recent ones struck out to me during this time. I just lost my cat during the weekend, I had her for 13 years and she has lived through my worst teenage years to my adulthood but unfortunately she got hit by a car. I appreciate you for sharing your experience despite how hard it is. Sometimes it’s comforting not feeling alone. You’re not alone. Thank you again for sharing this so I didn’t feel alone either.
That's why when you are responsible you don't let your cat go out in town most of all... When you let a cat choose between playing with you or giving him her attention and going out, they always choose you
@@Killer.Queen74 your story isn't the same for sure. Anyway you should always question what doctors and vets are saying. Always try to be logical and if it doesn't feel right... Take the time to think about it. They often pressure,/ guilt people into not thinking it through with pain and diseases. It's hard to resist and to try to take the time to think clearly about it but if you can it's always better to question, ask for other opinions before than realize after when it's too late that the situation wasn't that desperate. It reminds me law and order SVU season 9 episode 17. And your story in particular Wouldn't you have realized it if he was blind ? I d say always trust yourself more, you care, you have the time to observe etc... You should watch that episode it talks about the Milgram effect under an interesting light. Have a nice day :)
Twitter bullies are the worst. They're miserable and they want to make other people miserable. I'm sending you the biggest hug. Milo, Bonnie, and Dolly have the best owner. Feel all your feelings right now Adam.
The vet you took Milo to sounds like a good vet, they seem very empathetic to your situation. I'm kind of miffed about the vet with Tyler, they sounded awful and I'm sorry you had to go through all that during such a difficult time. I'm so sorry again for Milo. Your story of bringing him to the vet and your talk with him in the room made me want to cry. I'm glad you got to have that time with him. ❤
I'm so sorry Milo had to cross the rainbow bridge. He knows how much you loved him and you did the best you could. I recently had to do the same thing for my beautiful cat, she was older but it's always hard. The diagnosis, the waiting, the deciding. It was all horrible. I'm so feeling for you right now and I'm sorry you had to do this twice this year. Definitely cuddle your remaining fur babies and just focus on them. It helped me after it just happened too. You'll be ok. Much love ❤
As someone who went through this in the summer my advice would be to keep at least one thing from Milo. I had three cats so I couldn't get rid of anything and keeping everything around is extremely depressing, but you will regret not keeping at least one thing from Milo.
That's definitely the difference of a good vet versus a bad vet. As someone who has helped a lot of people through this process I am glad you found a compassionate care provider. Sending you and the girls so much love.
This breaks my heart so much. I adopted a kitten last year to find out months later she had feline leukemia giving her at most 2 years to live. She was my first pet as an adult. She ended up going down hill this May and didn't make it to her first birthday. I work from home so I was with her 24/7. My bestfriend. Hearing all of this takes me back to the worst day. I know exactly how you feel and my heart breaks so much. I resorted back to being a child when they were asking me about cremation while she was still alive in my arms. I wanted my dad to make the decision for me. I couldn't do it. My partner stayed in the room with her because I couldn't do it. My heart goes out to you. Do something in honor of him (a tattoo, painting, anything) I still look at a painting of her everyday and say I love you. They leave us way too soon. It's not fair.
I'm glad to hear that you're taking things slowly and being gentle with yourself Mucker 💙 Like Peter said in his video, a trip away can be a real blessing in disguise 🙏 Twitter is hell on earth, I'm so so sorry. People are vile 😑
As a vet assistant, I’m super glad you felt supported through the second experience. Your telling of the Tyler experience breaks my heart and is so unacceptable. I’m wondering if that tech is still even working.. complaints about client treatment during euthanasias are taken very seriously. Sending so much love to you Adam. You are SO strong!!!
✨Adam, You’ve lost a member of your family. Go easy on yourself. You did nothing wrong. You love and care for your babies impeccably. I’m so glad your Vet experience was better this time. You shouldn’t feel pathetic at all. You are not pathetic. The people that giving you a hard time for grieving the loss of a beloved pet, are soulless and heartless. You are right to just throw the cat stuff in the bin. It can be highly contagious. I hope you at least keep his collar for yourself as a keepsake. The videos you did were beautiful. Treasure them forever.
My Mama heart just wants to hug you. I'm so very sad for your loss, Adam. Take all the time you feel you need to mourn and grieve. There's not just one way to do that. Everyone heals differently. Sending tons of love from Ohio , USA. ❤ 🐈 🐈⬛🌈
I'm so glad you did that Vlog too yesterday morning. You braced yourself for the worst due to past Trauma with being blindsided with Tylers situation. I'm so proud of you for being brave and strong enough to prepare yourself for best and worst case scenario. That always helps me process things and helps me move along better.
Sorry again for Milo's passing, Adam. When my mother in law's cat got FIP, she had to get rid of all of her cat's things as the vet said giving it away to other people could spread FIP. She ended up falling in love with another cat and adopted him, and since she got rid of all the stuff for her cat that passed, she got all new stuff for her newly adopted cat. I'm sorry for your bad experiences with having cats. I hope if you ever do get another cat, that you don't go through all this again. Losing a pet is never easy, and it is hard when you are told they have to be put down. My dog had his liver fail suddenly and we had to take him to the ER and after we tried all the treatments and such that we could, he just kept getting worse. The ER vet said either he is going to die in probably by the morning or you can be with him and he can be in less pain, and my heart was so torn and I just didn't want to give up. My friends were all there for me though and said "Sandra, it's time, you did all you could and you have to let him go peacefully." It's really hard. I'm glad your new vet had you feel comfortable. Wishing you the best during this difficult time.
I am so sorry Adam ❤ I am an RVT from Canada- please reach out if you need to talk or want to hear some educated thoughts on the topic. Do not blame yourself or any of the vets- everyone does what they think is best for the animal and sometimes it is just impossible to know about health issues brewing. Cats are so good at hiding their symptoms. Just please take care and reach out if I can help in any way ❤
I am so sorry for your loss, Adam. Milo seemed like a sweet, precious meowbox. Losing an animal is so hard because they’re not just pets. They become part of our family. When I lost my dogs, it was hard. I still miss them to this day. Sending you healing thoughts and love.
RIP Sweet Milo ❤❤ I don't follow Twitter, but the people there sound so hateful. I think your UA-cam family here is so supportive. I cried at rhe Vet's office when I had to put my cat down. I was so embarrassed, but the doctor was so kind to me. They sent me flowers!! My cat was the old cat in their office. 21 years old!!!! The ravages of old age took her down.
Twitter is a cesspit of people who enjoy others being hurt, I left it a long time ago, I could nearly guarantee that any of those giving Adam a hard time would be exactly the same if they lost their pet..I'm sorry your cat passed away, best wishes to you
I'm so sorry that people are being so terrible to you. People that have watched you , Milo and the girls. Know how much you love and care for them. I know it's easy to say not to let it get to you. You are a good person and have people who care.
I cannot say it enough Adam, prayers, well wishes for you and we will never ever forget Milo. The eyes pay the price all the swelling and crying. You'll never get another Milo. You know how they all are different with their little personalities. I'm just sorry you've been through it so much with the kitties. Much love to Bonnie & Dolly.
no cause WHO the hell is tweeting about making fun of adam grieving his loss. idgaf if they're just trying to be quirky because thats no justification for that cruel behavior. Please ignore them Adam, everything you feel is so so valid
I am so sorry for your loss. Milo isn't just a pet. He is a forever family. You're doing all you can to keep busy, and it will help. Milo knows you did everything you could do. He will love you always and forever ❤️🌈 Is it possible for the dogs to get what Milo got?
Adam, take your time with grief it’s been a rough year with you and your cats. You my dear are compassionate and such a wonderful cat parent. Don’t let anyone rush you through your pain…it just takes time. You did the right thing. After every animal I have ever had and unfortunately had to put down I always swore I wouldn’t put myself through owning another animal. Somehow time eased my pain and I am again a pet owner. Just know, when you are ready the Universe will bring the animal that you should have. On another note? Your nails are gorgeous.
I’m so glad that this vet was so much better with you. That’s how it should be, never rushed or made to feel like you are inconveniencing them because you are having genuine emotions and saying goodbye to you your fur baby. ❤️ may you and the girls find peace and comfort within each other ❤️❤️❤️
Adam the vets in Brighton sound horrendous! What a trauma they put you through! You are incredible and such a great pet dad you are doing so well. Devastated for you for milo but keep staying strong and celebrate his memory. Much love ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss Adam... Milo was an amazing cat, and streams won't quite be the same without him. He was so loved, and will be missed by so many, but he's at peace now. I like to think he's been reunited with Tyler. Take time to heal and grieve, and take care of yourself Adam.💙💙
Take the time you need to feel all the feelings. Don't keep it in. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this alone. The big sister in me wants to drop everything to go and hug you.
That lady vet is an Angel, sounds like the experience you had at the Manchester vet vs the Brighton vet was night and day. That’s how it SHOULD be imo, and look at the difference! It’s made you want to sign up both the dogs there for a full check up! I’m so sorry for what’s happened with all the cats, I’m glad that Milo made it to Manchester with you guys, take all the time you need to grieve Adam, f everyone who’s made fun of you and judged you. They have no compassion, please take care of yourself 💜💛
I’m so sorry Adam. But I’m thankful that you had such a caring vet that explained everything and allowed you time with Milo. As sad as it was to see his decline the 24 hrs prior, I’m guessing it helped you to make the decision to say goodbye to him peacefully. And never feel embarrassed for loving and grieving the loss of a fur baby. To many of us they are our hearts, our loves, and our family. ❤️🤗
I have severe cat trauma (we lost a cat tragically and more than five years later, I still haven’t grieved properly), and what you’re going through is so normal and OK. I’m glad you’re giving yourself space. And I’m glad you’ve found a compassionate vet. They are your children and it shows.
Anyone who feels the need to give so called "constructive criticism", realize that Adam literally stated he didn't wanna talk about Milo's health problems so none of us know the whole story or what he did or didn't do. what i do know is Adam loves his animals like they're his children. i know he did EVERYTHING he could to keep Milo alive and healthy. HE IS GRIEVING. y'all are projecting how y'all are IRL on him in his most vulnerable time and its sick.
Just continue being easy on yourself, Adam. Try not to spiral, but also let yourself feel your feelings and grieve. And hopefully you taking a vacation 8n Paris next week and seeing Madonna again will be the pick-up you need. Milo would want you to continue enjoying your life ❤ . That's horrible about the vets in Brighton, but Manchester sounds like how a vet SHOULD be. Ugh, I want to keep this short because I could go on and on about those awful assholes on Twitter, but yeah. Just ignore them. It's not worth the energy. Just know they are the minority. Most of us are here to support you in your time of need, mucker.
My condolences...im miss my pompón, my bunny, he passed 10 years ago, there is no one day that í dont miss him...i loved him, i love him and i will always love him....
I’m so sorry for your loss Adam! Please don’t pay attention to the mean asshats who have no soul. You just take care of yourself and thoroughly enjoy your trip to Paris❤
No one deserves those horrible comments. Your ladies are exactly where they're meant to be. With the person who loves them. ❤ Please do your best to take care of yourself. Be easy and gentle with yourself, Adam. Not every day will be a good one. Especially with such a major life event. Remember those of us who do support you. Eventually, we all will drown out the jerks. ❤
The pitiful people judging your reaction will never truly know the love of an animal. That's honestly just sad for them. Let yourself feel all the things you need to feel. You did every single thing the vets told you to do. Even the things that crushed you. Hell you were willing to pay $10k+ to help Milo feel better, if that's not dedication idk what is. Milo and Tyler knew they were loved every day with you, and they drifted to sleep knowing you were there loving them.
I am so sorry for your loss Adam, truly. I can totally empathize with you and how it feels to lose a pet. My cat had to be put down three weeks ago and it was very sudden. I am still processing it and healing, it’s harder than I thought it would be. Take all the time you need for yourself to grieve the loss. Focus on the positive memories between you and Milo, and be grateful of the time you shared :) Sending you love ❤❤
Cats viruses are so deadly. Rip. Sorry your cat passed away. When I got cats when they were babies. There was a virus that broke out and they moved to a different shelter in a different city. I adopted them. I was so lucky have got to them. And they never got sick. That so weird they didn’t even try it was transferrable.
How the vet in Manchester reacted is how a vet should act. What happened with Tyler wasn't how a vet should behave in that situation just so you know. You need time to grieve and say goodbye to your loved one. ❤❤❤❤❤
I am so sorry that you're going through this and that people are so f****** disgusting and pieces of s***! I saw some of that crap online and about lost my s***! People doing that just need to get reported! That's disgusting! You just need to do what you need to do to get through it and ignore those people! Those same people have probably never experienced any kind of loss at all other than their iq! One day they're going to experienced a loss and I hope people treat them the same way they're treating you! Imagine being not only ignorant but arrogant enough to try to gatekeep how people are supposed to cope with situations! As far as you going ahead and giving away or getting rid of the cat items I think that's a good idea! You already know firsthand that holding on to Tyler's things didn't help you mentally or emotionally and you're right that it is a possibility you could get another animal sick if you give it to someone so I think it's a good decision.
I’m so happy to hear that you had a positive experience this time around at the vet. It makes such a world of difference when you feel like you don’t have to feel embarrassed or rush into the process. You’re literally losing a member of your family when you put a pet down, I can’t believe you had to go through such a negative experience with Tyler, any vet that truly loves animals should understand how painful it is to lose them. Also, whoever DARES to mock you for mourning this loss is clearly a terrible human being. But no matter how much negativity they try to throw at you, just know that us Muckers are always going to be here to support and love you a million times more.❤️ Love you Adam!
I'm sorry for your loss, my sweet angel passed about a year and a half ago and said the same thing I don't want more animals my heart can't take it. In October I heard a cat inside my garage when I found him I took him to the animal shelter since my husband is extremely allergic to cats,. I saw this adult 4 lb chihuahua mix starring at me with sad eyes the inmate gave her to me and literally said "is a good time to adopt and she likes you" The moment I held her in my hand she laid her tiny head on my neck and liked me and that was it. I adopted her right there and even tho she is nothing like my sweet angel Lilly R.I.P. Rosie has been more than therapeutic and she has definitely helped me heal in a way I can't explain. My only advice is to take your time don't rush it, and mourn as much as you need time will tell if another pet is in the future or not either is okay as long as it brings you joy. Much love 🧡🧡🧡
The amount of likes that those hateful tweets have is ridiculous. I can’t tell if they bought their likes or if so many people are that heartless. Sending you love ❤
If you have no appetite, should be trying to eat at least like super soft foods like yogurt or ice cream or maybe some fruit just so you don’t lose weight like crazy or drink your meals
I'm crying with you sweetie. R.I.P sweet Milo! You will be missed by your papa and by your online aunts and uncles! I lost my orange boy Romeo on Friday the 13th of January without any warning. Now I'm constantly worried about his mum and sister. I miss all of my lost fur babies,they are pure love. Hugs Adam! ❤ ps Milo knows you love him,and he will be waiting with all of your other fur babies at rainbow Bridge. ❤
Jezus, those people need to chill. You are one of the best pet parents I have ever seen. commenting on someone grieving on twitter is so fucking low. Imagine how sad they are to bring someone down that is losing an animal.
Also fuck all of those people posting those things about you. They are just posting shit to get a rise out of you and attention. I hope they grow some empathy.
Yes cats hold on their pain a lot more than dogs do. You just got to notice any little different behavior they might do. Yes even in Peter video he said they had a trip booked already when they lost Pipi cause Alex said he couldn’t stay at home he needed the distraction.
Hi Adam, I'm sooo sorry. I had been putting this video off all day bcuz I didn't want to cry. I thought I was gonna be a tough guy and make it through, but I just absolutely lost it when u said that u 2 just sat there and talked after they left u alone for a bit. To me, there's nothing worse in this world than putting an animal down. I've been through... let me think... 3 dogs now and MY GOD there is NO pain whatsoever that's equivalent. Bravo to u for speaking about ur emotions and expressing yourself. I just have a few thoughts... I feel as if all the issues u were having with the 3 cats getting along could've been solved with everyone being neutered. I know that with my boy dogs, it is a night and day difference as far as fighting and all that goes when they're neutered or not. Oh well, water under the bridge now, but I've gone through a LOT of heartache as far as male animals getting along goes. I feel like u are an amazing dog, dad! I am currently mom to 4 boy dogs, and I struggle constantly with how damn much I love these guys. It's really just me and them. I don't have friends either. I just want u to know ur in my thoughts and u guys have been all day. I was even checking what time it was in Manchester several times, wondering if u had gotten word yet. I love u, Adam, from one dog lover to another! Keep ur head up, luv! Oh, and P.S. plz be careful with chicken wings for the girls. I know that they can poke their insides and hurt them and cause damage bcuz they're so sharp sometimes. Plz plz ignore the haters. Those fuckers are sick bottom dwellers who will never experience the unconditional beautiful love that comes from our animals. Fuck them Adam, fuck that! U are amazing. u are wonderful, and I adore u! And I am a 39 yr old American divorcee with 4 dogs so fuck that! Idk what significance that has lol but u need to know that a beautiful soul full of love will always prevail above evil. Just remember this quote when u see their BS, "you never look good trying to make someone else look bad" Ok??? Ok, gurl luv ya byeeeee!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Amazon food delivery is awesome. I got introduced to it when I had COVID last year. They raised their delivery fee which is a bummer. I just can’t justify it anymore. I’d rather the delivery person get not only the tip but the extra fees rather than Amazon.
The people making fun of you are disgusting, heartless individuals and I'm sorry you had to read their vile words during a fresh grieving process. My cats--all that I've had for the last 27 years--are extremely important to me. The loss of one is heartbreaking. Anyone who can't understand the pain of loss and has the audacity to _make fun of you_ for experiencing grief and whatnot are lowest of the low... We see how well you treat your pets and how much you love them, and Twitter Goons' opinions are irrelevant nonsense. RIP sweet little Milo. You hang in there, Adam. ♥
U sweet human. Ur in all our thoughts. Fr woke up 2 this mornings vid from a dream u were holdin up Milo at mb a rave & tha crowd was cheering for him. 💖⭐
Please don't pay any attention to the haters, Adam. You were a fantastic father to both Milo and Tyler. Anyone who says differently can bugger off. I have two cats of my own and I was in tears as I watched your "Goodbye, Milo" video. I thought it was extremely poignant and beyond touching. I never even met Milo, or you, yet I felt as if I had known you both for decades. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You were an amazing father; I promise. Your dogs are fortunate to have you in their lives. I would be honored to have you as my pet owner if I were an animal. Please don't stress about such things right now. Live your life with your animals and know that they love you with all their hearts. You are a great dad. You're a good man, Adam. You have a huge heart, and lots of integrity, and your heart is in the right place. Don't worry about what other people might think about you. Those of us that know you, know that you genuinely are a man of honesty, integrity, and a gentle soul. I am so very proud of you for doing the right thing for Milo and being an outstanding cat dad, and person, in this rough time. My heart goes out to you, my friend. My deepest condolences to you. 😿😿😿😿😿
Your love for Milo was palpable. I really wish some people had a better way of engaging with the world that posting crap like the sort of stuff you've seen lately. How absolutely dreadful! It's a further testament to your strength of character that you're dealing with it as well as you are. It it happened to me, I would have quit the internet entirely.
Twitter is where all of the hateful and toxic bullies come out. They have nothing better to do with their lives and want to bring other people down. Don’t even engage with them. All they want is attention. You are allowed to grieve however you want. It’s not easy to lose a pet. I lost my cat of 17 years last year and it’s been tough. Hang in there Adam! Milo will always be with you no matter what. Sending you so much love right now and I’m so sorry about Milo 😢
If I understand correctly, FIP cannot be transmitted to other species. I also believe it’s best not to keep nor donate Milo’s stuff. Better safe than sorry. ❤️🩹
I'm glad you are still doing what you need to to be kind and graceful to yourself. I'm absolutely disgusted by all these sick creeps that are kicking you when you’re down. It's so hard to not take them personally when you are already so vulnerable, so the only things you can do are distract yourself from them and focus only on the people who care about you. Hang in there Adam. ❤
My blood is boiling how the first vet treated you. I would be absolutely inconsolable… pets are your family… the second vet is an absolute angel and I am so so sorry for your loss you gave him so much love and is no longer in any type of pain. Losing a pet is so hard and take your time to grieve. Sending all my love ♥️
I get it. We had to put our cat down last week. My kids are still struggling. My youngest had a complete breakdown yesterday. Grief sucks. Hopefully this trip will help but I get not wanting to "people," as I call it. Sending you and the girls lots of love💜💜
i miss my vet near manchester, they were so kind with me when i took my snail there. i was scared of being laugh at for caring for my snail but they never did, they helped him and he is still with me today. i recently just moved to scotland and hope to find somewhere as caring as it always helps. so sorry people are being so cruel on twitter, it really isn't ok with something so sensitive as a pet death.
You should get a cut out of Mariah Carey (in her Christmas outfit & put it behind or under the stockings) glad your dogs are doing well, glad you and the dogs are dealing with the loss well 🩷🩵you should clean & destroy the cat tree. You should spend some time with your dogs to take the focus off your loss + they can help you process
adam, i’m so incredibly sorry about milo again. please know that his little heart knew nothing but love from the first till last moment you had him. also, i cannot express how proud i am of you, and you should be of yourself, for doing things like getting groceries. the pots are adorable, i love the color. same with the uggs. i love that style and the color is perfect. i have experienced a lot of pet loss. from childhood pets (which we had a lot of) to pets i’ve gotten as i moved out (a little hamster named crowley). the healing process is hard, and having their things out can bring you back to a dark place. but remember to keep the important things that we’re his favorites. like a toy or a blanket. when the healing is done, i never appreciated keeping those things more. because now i can smile when i see them. sending you so much love adam❤️
Hi Adam, please take time you need to grieve and please don't feel obligated to update us. Grief comes in all shapes and sizes and everyone takes a different amount of time to deal with it. Don't rush yourself, relax, do some self care, try to sleep. Much love Adam
Adam I am so sorry for your loss but I want to THANK YOU for giving me a safe space to cry and feel sad today even if we’re crying about different things I felt just a tiny bit less crazy and alone watching these videos today.
Adam my heart goes out to you. Loosing a pet alone is a terribly hard process. I’m appalled by this generations blatant insensitivity, cruelty, and ignorance. Milo and Tyler were loved greatly, and the real ones can see that❤
Adam the hate comments are written by 12 year old CB hornets. Ignore them - they have school tomorrow. Pets are family. I have had pets my whole life and goodbye is NEVER okay. Unlike human family or friends these are the “people” in your life who meet you at the door when you come home - they sleep pressed against you and kiss tears off your face. Mourning these relationships WITHOUT the friend who usually sits with you when you hurt is horrendous. You go ahead and be your beautiful self - let the tweens say mean shit. I hope they reflect on the things they typed when their own aged family dog walks into their bedroom to see them. It’s an ugly thing to do - full stop. Let your heart heal.
Sending you love and peace, Adam. Losing a fur baby is so so hard. I’ve cried several times seeing your updates of sweet Milo. He was so loved and you are an amazing pet parent. ❤
People can be so insensitive and heartless! You're a wonderful pet parent! I'm so sorry for your loss Adam, and don't listen to those hateful people! ❤
I have had a few cats. My heart cat was my little tortie. After she died, I knew once my last cat was gone (they were all from the same litter so passed pretty close in age to each other) there wouldn't be any more. She was my shadow. She has been gone for over 15 years, and I still think about her daily, because she's still my quick unlock code for my PC. There's no wrong way to grieve. There's no wrong way to process death. You are pretty isolated and it makes perfect sense that you'd reach out to your community for support, the same way you'd lean on people IRL if they were close by.
I’m so sorry. I hood you can recover. I hope your alright, we’re all here. If you need to vent we’re here. Or I’m here. It’s all gonna be okay, I know it’s tragic, but your pups are there to comfort you. I care about you Adam. (Not in a creepy way) Stay safe.
I lost my childhood cat a month ago, and I was there till his last breath. Very traumatic however, I got to talk to him and tell him my goodbyes how I’ve been coping with the loss of a friend. I have been trying to distract myself or I pull up funny videos of our cat and remember the good times. Sending so much love to you.❤
The people making fun of you are honestly disturbing, extremely antisocial... Please know 0% of them seem emotionally intelligent, fair, or logical. It's frustrating so many are bothering you, harder to ignore...
Where ?
Where are the haters please ?
Don't mix people having a problem with a choice or a behavior and meanness.
The extreme majority of people aren't mean on purpose.
They can have a problem and yet, won't mix everything.
@@ellieweb-xl9gp I'm not sure what you mean here. Someone on Twitter said Adam "should be dead like his cat" (paraphrased). I think the confusion is on your end, respectfully, or we simply disagree.
I wasn't referring to anyone giving constructive criticism as that's fine. But reading comprehension, I said those making fun of him. That entails bullying.
@@nullusernamex
Ok im sorry i didn't know...
It's just everytime i hear about "haters" and i check in the comments, i can never find one.
@@ellieweb-xl9gp yeah on youtube it's not as bad, maybe he is deleting the bad ones or it's a spam filter or something. on twitter it's been bad the last 24 hours, people think he shouldn't share anything about the death or pictures. I think it's very obvious that this is Adams way of coping and getting support, so it's vile af to call him sick for taking a last picture with milo.
@@Hauabhier
Im so upset Adam haven't read the comments
If you share that, at least that the good side of things, there will be good advices when you may have troubles to see things clearly or from a distance.
Medical stuff blinds us with fear and despair...
We are more easily influenced.
I m so mad he didn't went elsewhere to ask for a second opinion. It upsets me so much.
But to me haters are like unicorn like one in a million, i feel like most people make the difference between a disagreement with a choice, a behavior and the life of a poor innocent little one....
Am i wrong or what?
Im even ready to believe that the evil people on Twitter are colleen and her lovely friends on fake accounts.
It takes special people mostly raised in special circumstances.
Of course they exist but most of us aren't that out of reality.
Mammal intelligence is based on emotions
Unspoken Moral laws are based on intelligence and even shared by animals.
This is not innate to go against It
We can even believe that the most simple intelligence is still based on emotions sensations and feelings like a unicellular organism for example
Will feel good or bad if the environment provides what it needs or not
Im french sorry if my English is not that good by moments...
Im doing my best ;)
I’m so sorry about Milo. I’m 38 and live alone and you stayed it perfectly, your animals are your world when you live alone. Saying goodbye to a loved one is so hard, you did everything you could for Milo including the most compassionate final gift, you gave him a voice. I firmly believe that Milo and Tyler are waiting for you at the rainbow bridge ❤
No he hasn't.
What a shame he tell his story and doesn't read the comments
Im so mad.
He should've never come back to that vet. Sue him, read the comments again, that story doesn't make any sense.
And the worst is im just sure that it looks like they forgot something in his belly during the surgery.
He should ve never die
And yesterday it wasn't too late.
It's a shame !!!!
@@ellieweb-xl9gp You lack medical understanding and are speaking from a place of ignorance. As a medical professional, Adam's story makes perfect sense and isn't uncommon by any means. Do some research, and maybe it will make more sense!
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Yeah from a place of ignorance you say ?
So explain me...
As a medical professional.....
First how come his first cat die with fip without him being made aware while having a second cat.
Then, a cat having fip in his blood (virus) since more than a year, how come you can not see it while having blood work done just before the surgery .
It's far more than enough time to be able to find the antibodies in the blood.
The slowest virus to be detectable, take not more than 3month (i believe like the kind that attacks the immune system) to develop enough antibodies to be detectable, so more than a year is more than enough.
And finally (just what s coming to my mind immediately), being bloated by fluids, doesn't look like that
But enlight me please...
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Oh yeah and you don't guess a cat has fip, it's science as sure as mathematics, you see it in the blood.
It's the very first thing that vet search for in a cat's blood.
The first vet, it would be worthy of a lawsuit if the first cat died having fip and as a vet you don't say it particularly when your client has another cat.
The second vet, he would ve seen it in the bloodwork and it's not the kind of thing you guess...
And 10 000 for treatment ???????
Make some research...
Worthy of a lawsuit again and weird...
Why ?
To say it was a desperate cause...
Don't even try to save him ?
Too expensive and too much pain...
The "humane" thing to do is to poison him ???????
Advising a second opinion is more than fair i believe
@ellieweb-xl9gp I mean from a place of ignorance literally, not as in insult. As in you don't understand.
I'd be happy to take a try. Please note I'm not 100% certain I remember all the facts as I just briefly watched the video, so if I make a mistake please let me know.
1. If I understand what happened correctly, either the diagnosis was simply unclear at the time of death, thus no testing occured, or the vets messed up. Them messing up seems unlikely as medical professionals have just as much incentive for a good outcome as patients do (we have licenses, businesses, reputations, and hearts to consider). If it was negligence, that's awful and shouldn't have happened.
2. I think this is a common misconception. Blood work has thousands of options, and normally only a CBC, metabolic panel, chemistry, and TSH are ordered, depending on the issue. So it's not likely to identify a niche problem. Beyond that, it's very difficult to diagnose FIP. Essentially there are different tests with different issues, and the antibody test doesn't distinguish between a non-FIP strain of coronavirus and a FIP strain of coronavirus. There are other issues, but that's the gist of it - it's basically a guessing game until it's very clear the cat is sick, and even then, they might not realize it's FIP/be able to confirm it is FIP.
3. The virus may have been dormant until recently. It's just difficult to say - the reason you're confused is indeed because it's confusing.
Grief is the price you pay for love. I watch majority of your videos but your recent ones struck out to me during this time. I just lost my cat during the weekend, I had her for 13 years and she has lived through my worst teenage years to my adulthood but unfortunately she got hit by a car. I appreciate you for sharing your experience despite how hard it is. Sometimes it’s comforting not feeling alone. You’re not alone. Thank you again for sharing this so I didn’t feel alone either.
I remember that happened to my childhood cat. It's sad when they get hit by cars. I am sorry for your loss
That's why when you are responsible you don't let your cat go out in town most of all...
When you let a cat choose between playing with you or giving him her attention and going out, they always choose you
I'm so sorry that you lost your cat. My deepest condolences to you. 😿😿😿😿😿
"grief is the price u pay for love" rly just made me cry so bad ... i'm so sorry this happened to ur kitty, i'm sending u so much love ❤️
@@Killer.Queen74 your story isn't the same for sure.
Anyway you should always question what doctors and vets are saying. Always try to be logical and if it doesn't feel right... Take the time to think about it.
They often pressure,/ guilt people into not thinking it through with pain and diseases.
It's hard to resist and to try to take the time to think clearly about it but if you can it's always better to question, ask for other opinions before than realize after when it's too late that the situation wasn't that desperate.
It reminds me law and order SVU season 9 episode 17.
And your story in particular
Wouldn't you have realized it if he was blind ?
I d say always trust yourself more, you care, you have the time to observe etc...
You should watch that episode it talks about the Milgram effect under an interesting light.
Have a nice day :)
Twitter bullies are the worst. They're miserable and they want to make other people miserable. I'm sending you the biggest hug. Milo, Bonnie, and Dolly have the best owner. Feel all your feelings right now Adam.
I’m sorry for your losses.
You’re an awesome pet daddy.
The vet you took Milo to sounds like a good vet, they seem very empathetic to your situation. I'm kind of miffed about the vet with Tyler, they sounded awful and I'm sorry you had to go through all that during such a difficult time.
I'm so sorry again for Milo. Your story of bringing him to the vet and your talk with him in the room made me want to cry. I'm glad you got to have that time with him. ❤
I'm so sorry Milo had to cross the rainbow bridge. He knows how much you loved him and you did the best you could.
I recently had to do the same thing for my beautiful cat, she was older but it's always hard. The diagnosis, the waiting, the deciding. It was all horrible. I'm so feeling for you right now and I'm sorry you had to do this twice this year.
Definitely cuddle your remaining fur babies and just focus on them. It helped me after it just happened too. You'll be ok.
Much love ❤
As someone who went through this in the summer my advice would be to keep at least one thing from Milo. I had three cats so I couldn't get rid of anything and keeping everything around is extremely depressing, but you will regret not keeping at least one thing from Milo.
That's definitely the difference of a good vet versus a bad vet. As someone who has helped a lot of people through this process I am glad you found a compassionate care provider. Sending you and the girls so much love.
I'm so sorry again Adam for Milo's passing.
This breaks my heart so much. I
adopted a kitten last year to find out months later she had feline
leukemia giving her at most 2 years to live. She was my first pet as an adult. She ended up going down hill this May and didn't make it to
her first birthday. I work from home so I was with her 24/7. My
bestfriend. Hearing all of this takes me back to the worst day. I know
exactly how you feel and my heart
breaks so much. I resorted back to being a child when they were asking me about cremation while she was still alive in my arms. I wanted my
dad to make the decision for me. I
couldn't do it. My partner stayed in the room with her because I
couldn't do it. My heart goes out to you. Do something
in honor of him (a tattoo, painting,
anything) I still look at a painting of her everyday and say I love you.
They leave us way too soon. It's not fair.
Aww I'm so sorry. Feline leukemia is tough.
I'm glad to hear that you're taking things slowly and being gentle with yourself Mucker 💙 Like Peter said in his video, a trip away can be a real blessing in disguise 🙏 Twitter is hell on earth, I'm so so sorry. People are vile 😑
I lost my baby boy 11am this morning. (Gunner) (9yr old lab)
My heart is so broken rn💔
Big hugs 🫂
❤❤❤❤ I’m sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. May Gunner find peace on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge.
hope gunner and milo are hanging out together rn 🥺💗 may the boys get lots of treats in the afterlife
Paris might be just the distraction you need ❤
As a vet assistant, I’m super glad you felt supported through the second experience. Your telling of the Tyler experience breaks my heart and is so unacceptable. I’m wondering if that tech is still even working.. complaints about client treatment during euthanasias are taken very seriously.
Sending so much love to you Adam. You are SO strong!!!
✨Adam,
You’ve lost a member of your family. Go easy on yourself. You did nothing wrong. You love and care for your babies impeccably.
I’m so glad your Vet experience was better this time. You shouldn’t feel pathetic at all. You are not pathetic.
The people that giving you a hard time for grieving the loss of a beloved pet, are soulless and heartless.
You are right to just throw the cat stuff in the bin. It can be highly contagious.
I hope you at least keep his collar for yourself as a keepsake. The videos you did were beautiful. Treasure them forever.
My Mama heart just wants to hug you. I'm so very sad for your loss, Adam. Take all the time you feel you need to mourn and grieve. There's not just one way to do that. Everyone heals differently. Sending tons of love from Ohio , USA. ❤ 🐈 🐈⬛🌈
I'm so glad you did that Vlog too yesterday morning. You braced yourself for the worst due to past Trauma with being blindsided with Tylers situation. I'm so proud of you for being brave and strong enough to prepare yourself for best and worst case scenario. That always helps me process things and helps me move along better.
Sorry again for Milo's passing, Adam. When my mother in law's cat got FIP, she had to get rid of all of her cat's things as the vet said giving it away to other people could spread FIP. She ended up falling in love with another cat and adopted him, and since she got rid of all the stuff for her cat that passed, she got all new stuff for her newly adopted cat. I'm sorry for your bad experiences with having cats. I hope if you ever do get another cat, that you don't go through all this again. Losing a pet is never easy, and it is hard when you are told they have to be put down. My dog had his liver fail suddenly and we had to take him to the ER and after we tried all the treatments and such that we could, he just kept getting worse. The ER vet said either he is going to die in probably by the morning or you can be with him and he can be in less pain, and my heart was so torn and I just didn't want to give up. My friends were all there for me though and said "Sandra, it's time, you did all you could and you have to let him go peacefully." It's really hard. I'm glad your new vet had you feel comfortable. Wishing you the best during this difficult time.
I am so sorry Adam ❤ I am an RVT from Canada- please reach out if you need to talk or want to hear some educated thoughts on the topic. Do not blame yourself or any of the vets- everyone does what they think is best for the animal and sometimes it is just impossible to know about health issues brewing. Cats are so good at hiding their symptoms. Just please take care and reach out if I can help in any way ❤
I am so sorry for your loss, Adam. Milo seemed like a sweet, precious meowbox. Losing an animal is so hard because they’re not just pets. They become part of our family. When I lost my dogs, it was hard. I still miss them to this day.
Sending you healing thoughts and love.
RIP Sweet Milo ❤❤ I don't follow Twitter, but the people there sound so hateful. I think your UA-cam family here is so supportive. I cried at rhe Vet's office when I had to put my cat down. I was so embarrassed, but the doctor was so kind to me. They sent me flowers!! My cat was the old cat in their office. 21 years old!!!! The ravages of old age took her down.
Twitter is a cesspit of people who enjoy others being hurt, I left it a long time ago, I could nearly guarantee that any of those giving Adam a hard time would be exactly the same if they lost their pet..I'm sorry your cat passed away, best wishes to you
I'm so sorry that people are being so terrible to you.
People that have watched you , Milo and the girls. Know how much you love and care for them.
I know it's easy to say not to let it get to you.
You are a good person and have people who care.
I cannot say it enough Adam, prayers, well wishes for you and we will never ever forget Milo. The eyes pay the price all the swelling and crying. You'll never get another Milo. You know how they all are different with their little personalities. I'm just sorry you've been through it so much with the kitties. Much love to Bonnie & Dolly.
no cause WHO the hell is tweeting about making fun of adam grieving his loss. idgaf if they're just trying to be quirky because thats no justification for that cruel behavior. Please ignore them Adam, everything you feel is so so valid
12:56 That is SO special that she veterinarian allowed you to do that. 😢
EFFF the assholes on social media! That is awful!!! You are the BEST pet parent!!!! DO NOT LISTEN TO THEM! DO NOT. PERIOD.
What a sweet veterinarian to let you have time! Way better than the other vet
Save his favourite toy !!!! Something to smell him
I am so sorry for your loss. Milo isn't just a pet. He is a forever family. You're doing all you can to keep busy, and it will help. Milo knows you did everything you could do. He will love you always and forever ❤️🌈
Is it possible for the dogs to get what Milo got?
Adam, take your time with grief it’s been a rough year with you and your cats. You my dear are compassionate and such a wonderful cat parent. Don’t let anyone rush you through your pain…it just takes time. You did the right thing. After every animal I have ever had and unfortunately had to put down I always swore I wouldn’t put myself through owning another animal. Somehow time eased my pain and I am again a pet owner. Just know, when you are ready the Universe will bring the animal that you should have. On another note? Your nails are gorgeous.
I’m so glad that this vet was so much better with you. That’s how it should be, never rushed or made to feel like you are inconveniencing them because you are having genuine emotions and saying goodbye to you your fur baby. ❤️ may you and the girls find peace and comfort within each other ❤️❤️❤️
Its ok to not be okay. Im admire you for processing everything
Adam the vets in Brighton sound horrendous! What a trauma they put you through! You are incredible and such a great pet dad you are doing so well. Devastated for you for milo but keep staying strong and celebrate his memory. Much love ❤
sending you so much love adam 🫶
I'm so sorry for your loss Adam... Milo was an amazing cat, and streams won't quite be the same without him. He was so loved, and will be missed by so many, but he's at peace now. I like to think he's been reunited with Tyler. Take time to heal and grieve, and take care of yourself Adam.💙💙
Take the time you need to feel all the feelings. Don't keep it in. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this alone. The big sister in me wants to drop everything to go and hug you.
Wtf??? Those tweets are so Fucked up!!!!!!!!! I’m so sorry Adam.
That lady vet is an Angel, sounds like the experience you had at the Manchester vet vs the Brighton vet was night and day. That’s how it SHOULD be imo, and look at the difference! It’s made you want to sign up both the dogs there for a full check up! I’m so sorry for what’s happened with all the cats, I’m glad that Milo made it to Manchester with you guys, take all the time you need to grieve Adam, f everyone who’s made fun of you and judged you. They have no compassion, please take care of yourself 💜💛
I’m so sorry Adam. But I’m thankful that you had such a caring vet that explained everything and allowed you time with Milo. As sad as it was to see his decline the 24 hrs prior, I’m guessing it helped you to make the decision to say goodbye to him peacefully. And never feel embarrassed for loving and grieving the loss of a fur baby. To many of us they are our hearts, our loves, and our family. ❤️🤗
You’re experience with the vet in Brighton was so unfortunate I’m so sorry. I’m glad the Manchester vet was more compassionate.
I have severe cat trauma (we lost a cat tragically and more than five years later, I still haven’t grieved properly), and what you’re going through is so normal and OK. I’m glad you’re giving yourself space. And I’m glad you’ve found a compassionate vet. They are your children and it shows.
Anyone who feels the need to give so called "constructive criticism", realize that Adam literally stated he didn't wanna talk about Milo's health problems so none of us know the whole story or what he did or didn't do. what i do know is Adam loves his animals like they're his children. i know he did EVERYTHING he could to keep Milo alive and healthy. HE IS GRIEVING. y'all are projecting how y'all are IRL on him in his most vulnerable time and its sick.
Just continue being easy on yourself, Adam. Try not to spiral, but also let yourself feel your feelings and grieve. And hopefully you taking a vacation 8n Paris next week and seeing Madonna again will be the pick-up you need. Milo would want you to continue enjoying your life ❤ .
That's horrible about the vets in Brighton, but Manchester sounds like how a vet SHOULD be.
Ugh, I want to keep this short because I could go on and on about those awful assholes on Twitter, but yeah. Just ignore them. It's not worth the energy. Just know they are the minority. Most of us are here to support you in your time of need, mucker.
My condolences...im miss my pompón, my bunny, he passed 10 years ago, there is no one day that í dont miss him...i loved him, i love him and i will always love him....
Sending you love
I’m so sorry for your loss Adam! Please don’t pay attention to the mean asshats who have no soul. You just take care of yourself and thoroughly enjoy your trip to Paris❤
No one deserves those horrible comments. Your ladies are exactly where they're meant to be. With the person who loves them. ❤
Please do your best to take care of yourself. Be easy and gentle with yourself, Adam. Not every day will be a good one. Especially with such a major life event.
Remember those of us who do support you. Eventually, we all will drown out the jerks. ❤
The pitiful people judging your reaction will never truly know the love of an animal. That's honestly just sad for them.
Let yourself feel all the things you need to feel. You did every single thing the vets told you to do. Even the things that crushed you. Hell you were willing to pay $10k+ to help Milo feel better, if that's not dedication idk what is.
Milo and Tyler knew they were loved every day with you, and they drifted to sleep knowing you were there loving them.
I am so sorry for your loss Adam, truly. I can totally empathize with you and how it feels to lose a pet. My cat had to be put down three weeks ago and it was very sudden. I am still processing it and healing, it’s harder than I thought it would be.
Take all the time you need for yourself to grieve the loss. Focus on the positive memories between you and Milo, and be grateful of the time you shared :)
Sending you love ❤❤
Cats viruses are so deadly. Rip. Sorry your cat passed away. When I got cats when they were babies. There was a virus that broke out and they moved to a different shelter in a different city. I adopted them. I was so lucky have got to them. And they never got sick. That so weird they didn’t even try it was transferrable.
How the vet in Manchester reacted is how a vet should act. What happened with Tyler wasn't how a vet should behave in that situation just so you know. You need time to grieve and say goodbye to your loved one. ❤❤❤❤❤
Adam! please get a P.O Box. I think this is a way we can be with you in a more supportive way.
I am so sorry that you're going through this and that people are so f****** disgusting and pieces of s***! I saw some of that crap online and about lost my s***! People doing that just need to get reported! That's disgusting! You just need to do what you need to do to get through it and ignore those people! Those same people have probably never experienced any kind of loss at all other than their iq! One day they're going to experienced a loss and I hope people treat them the same way they're treating you! Imagine being not only ignorant but arrogant enough to try to gatekeep how people are supposed to cope with situations! As far as you going ahead and giving away or getting rid of the cat items I think that's a good idea! You already know firsthand that holding on to Tyler's things didn't help you mentally or emotionally and you're right that it is a possibility you could get another animal sick if you give it to someone so I think it's a good decision.
I’m so happy to hear that you had a positive experience this time around at the vet. It makes such a world of difference when you feel like you don’t have to feel embarrassed or rush into the process. You’re literally losing a member of your family when you put a pet down, I can’t believe you had to go through such a negative experience with Tyler, any vet that truly loves animals should understand how painful it is to lose them. Also, whoever DARES to mock you for mourning this loss is clearly a terrible human being. But no matter how much negativity they try to throw at you, just know that us Muckers are always going to be here to support and love you a million times more.❤️ Love you Adam!
I'm sorry for your loss, my sweet angel passed about a year and a half ago and said the same thing I don't want more animals my heart can't take it. In October I heard a cat inside my garage when I found him I took him to the animal shelter since my husband is extremely allergic to cats,. I saw this adult 4 lb chihuahua mix starring at me with sad eyes the inmate gave her to me and literally said "is a good time to adopt and she likes you" The moment I held her in my hand she laid her tiny head on my neck and liked me and that was it. I adopted her right there and even tho she is nothing like my sweet angel Lilly R.I.P. Rosie has been more than therapeutic and she has definitely helped me heal in a way I can't explain. My only advice is to take your time don't rush it, and mourn as much as you need time will tell if another pet is in the future or not either is okay as long as it brings you joy. Much love 🧡🧡🧡
The amount of likes that those hateful tweets have is ridiculous. I can’t tell if they bought their likes or if so many people are that heartless. Sending you love ❤
If you have no appetite, should be trying to eat at least like super soft foods like yogurt or ice cream or maybe some fruit just so you don’t lose weight like crazy or drink your meals
I'm crying with you sweetie. R.I.P sweet Milo! You will be missed by your papa and by your online aunts and uncles! I lost my orange boy Romeo on Friday the 13th of January without any warning. Now I'm constantly worried about his mum and sister. I miss all of my lost fur babies,they are pure love. Hugs Adam! ❤ ps Milo knows you love him,and he will be waiting with all of your other fur babies at rainbow Bridge. ❤
Jezus, those people need to chill. You are one of the best pet parents I have ever seen. commenting on someone grieving on twitter is so fucking low. Imagine how sad they are to bring someone down that is losing an animal.
Those making sick comments will get their karma. Don't even give those words a second of your energy
Also fuck all of those people posting those things about you. They are just posting shit to get a rise out of you and attention. I hope they grow some empathy.
Yes cats hold on their pain a lot more than dogs do. You just got to notice any little different behavior they might do. Yes even in Peter video he said they had a trip booked already when they lost Pipi cause Alex said he couldn’t stay at home he needed the distraction.
Rest in Peace Milo. So sorry for your loss Adam. Animals are our everything. The way we treat animals shows how good of a person u r ❤❤❤❤❤.
Hi Adam, I'm sooo sorry. I had been putting this video off all day bcuz I didn't want to cry. I thought I was gonna be a tough guy and make it through, but I just absolutely lost it when u said that u 2 just sat there and talked after they left u alone for a bit. To me, there's nothing worse in this world than putting an animal down. I've been through... let me think... 3 dogs now and MY GOD there is NO pain whatsoever that's equivalent. Bravo to u for speaking about ur emotions and expressing yourself. I just have a few thoughts... I feel as if all the issues u were having with the 3 cats getting along could've been solved with everyone being neutered. I know that with my boy dogs, it is a night and day difference as far as fighting and all that goes when they're neutered or not. Oh well, water under the bridge now, but I've gone through a LOT of heartache as far as male animals getting along goes. I feel like u are an amazing dog, dad! I am currently mom to 4 boy dogs, and I struggle constantly with how damn much I love these guys. It's really just me and them. I don't have friends either. I just want u to know ur in my thoughts and u guys have been all day. I was even checking what time it was in Manchester several times, wondering if u had gotten word yet. I love u, Adam, from one dog lover to another! Keep ur head up, luv! Oh, and P.S. plz be careful with chicken wings for the girls. I know that they can poke their insides and hurt them and cause damage bcuz they're so sharp sometimes. Plz plz ignore the haters. Those fuckers are sick bottom dwellers who will never experience the unconditional beautiful love that comes from our animals. Fuck them Adam, fuck that! U are amazing. u are wonderful, and I adore u! And I am a 39 yr old American divorcee with 4 dogs so fuck that! Idk what significance that has lol but u need to know that a beautiful soul full of love will always prevail above evil. Just remember this quote when u see their BS, "you never look good trying to make someone else look bad"
Ok??? Ok, gurl luv ya byeeeee!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Amazon food delivery is awesome. I got introduced to it when I had COVID last year. They raised their delivery fee which is a bummer. I just can’t justify it anymore. I’d rather the delivery person get not only the tip but the extra fees rather than Amazon.
its been a few days. take all the time you need, babe. just checking in. it will get better.
The people making fun of you are disgusting, heartless individuals and I'm sorry you had to read their vile words during a fresh grieving process. My cats--all that I've had for the last 27 years--are extremely important to me. The loss of one is heartbreaking. Anyone who can't understand the pain of loss and has the audacity to _make fun of you_ for experiencing grief and whatnot are lowest of the low... We see how well you treat your pets and how much you love them, and Twitter Goons' opinions are irrelevant nonsense. RIP sweet little Milo. You hang in there, Adam. ♥
I’m so so sorry,,, losing our animal family is heartbreaking 💔 😢
U sweet human. Ur in all our thoughts. Fr woke up 2 this mornings vid from a dream u were holdin up Milo at mb a rave & tha crowd was cheering for him. 💖⭐
A rave of dancing dinosaurs perhaps? 🦖🦖
Awww i love this!!
@@dandelion_official4812not tha dancing dinos! Hearts and stars 2 tha sweet word ninja, Dandelion. See u in tha streams babe... Milo forever 💖
Please don't pay any attention to the haters, Adam. You were a fantastic father to both Milo and Tyler. Anyone who says differently can bugger off. I have two cats of my own and I was in tears as I watched your "Goodbye, Milo" video. I thought it was extremely poignant and beyond touching. I never even met Milo, or you, yet I felt as if I had known you both for decades. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You were an amazing father; I promise. Your dogs are fortunate to have you in their lives.
I would be honored to have you as my pet owner if I were an animal. Please don't stress about such things right now. Live your life with your animals and know that they love you with all their hearts. You are a great dad. You're a good man, Adam. You have a huge heart, and lots of integrity, and your heart is in the right place. Don't worry about what other people might think about you.
Those of us that know you, know that you genuinely are a man of honesty, integrity, and a gentle soul. I am so very proud of you for doing the right thing for Milo and being an outstanding cat dad, and person, in this rough time. My heart goes out to you, my friend. My deepest condolences to you. 😿😿😿😿😿
Hey Adam. Sending so much love and hugs from Louisiana. I need to dm you. What’s the best place to do that?
On his main channel, it mentions that he’s on Twitter and Instagram.
Your love for Milo was palpable. I really wish some people had a better way of engaging with the world that posting crap like the sort of stuff you've seen lately. How absolutely dreadful! It's a further testament to your strength of character that you're dealing with it as well as you are. It it happened to me, I would have quit the internet entirely.
Twitter is where all of the hateful and toxic bullies come out. They have nothing better to do with their lives and want to bring other people down. Don’t even engage with them. All they want is attention.
You are allowed to grieve however you want. It’s not easy to lose a pet. I lost my cat of 17 years last year and it’s been tough. Hang in there Adam! Milo will always be with you no matter what. Sending you so much love right now and I’m so sorry about Milo 😢
If I understand correctly, FIP cannot be transmitted to other species. I also believe it’s best not to keep nor donate Milo’s stuff. Better safe than sorry. ❤️🩹
I'm glad you are still doing what you need to to be kind and graceful to yourself. I'm absolutely disgusted by all these sick creeps that are kicking you when you’re down. It's so hard to not take them personally when you are already so vulnerable, so the only things you can do are distract yourself from them and focus only on the people who care about you. Hang in there Adam. ❤
My blood is boiling how the first vet treated you. I would be absolutely inconsolable… pets are your family… the second vet is an absolute angel and I am so so sorry for your loss you gave him so much love and is no longer in any type of pain. Losing a pet is so hard and take your time to grieve. Sending all my love ♥️
I get it. We had to put our cat down last week. My kids are still struggling. My youngest had a complete breakdown yesterday. Grief sucks. Hopefully this trip will help but I get not wanting to "people," as I call it. Sending you and the girls lots of love💜💜
i miss my vet near manchester, they were so kind with me when i took my snail there. i was scared of being laugh at for caring for my snail but they never did, they helped him and he is still with me today. i recently just moved to scotland and hope to find somewhere as caring as it always helps. so sorry people are being so cruel on twitter, it really isn't ok with something so sensitive as a pet death.
Sending you tons of light and love dear.
You should get a cut out of Mariah Carey (in her Christmas outfit & put it behind or under the stockings) glad your dogs are doing well, glad you and the dogs are dealing with the loss well 🩷🩵you should clean & destroy the cat tree. You should spend some time with your dogs to take the focus off your loss + they can help you process
adam, i’m so incredibly sorry about milo again. please know that his little heart knew nothing but love from the first till last moment you had him. also, i cannot express how proud i am of you, and you should be of yourself, for doing things like getting groceries. the pots are adorable, i love the color. same with the uggs. i love that style and the color is perfect. i have experienced a lot of pet loss. from childhood pets (which we had a lot of) to pets i’ve gotten as i moved out (a little hamster named crowley). the healing process is hard, and having their things out can bring you back to a dark place. but remember to keep the important things that we’re his favorites. like a toy or a blanket. when the healing is done, i never appreciated keeping those things more. because now i can smile when i see them. sending you so much love adam❤️
i'm so sorry for your loss and for the terrible people making fun of you - you deserve all the love in the world right now
So sorry for your loss❤ i just know tyler was so happy to see him
Hi Adam, please take time you need to grieve and please don't feel obligated to update us. Grief comes in all shapes and sizes and everyone takes a different amount of time to deal with it. Don't rush yourself, relax, do some self care, try to sleep. Much love Adam
So happy you're taking time to yourself to grief!
Adam I am so sorry for your loss but I want to THANK YOU for giving me a safe space to cry and feel sad today even if we’re crying about different things I felt just a tiny bit less crazy and alone watching these videos today.
Adam my heart goes out to you. Loosing a pet alone is a terribly hard process. I’m appalled by this generations blatant insensitivity, cruelty, and ignorance. Milo and Tyler were loved greatly, and the real ones can see that❤
Adam the hate comments are written by 12 year old CB hornets. Ignore them - they have school tomorrow.
Pets are family. I have had pets my whole life and goodbye is NEVER okay. Unlike human family or friends these are the “people” in your life who meet you at the door when you come home - they sleep pressed against you and kiss tears off your face. Mourning these relationships WITHOUT the friend who usually sits with you when you hurt is horrendous.
You go ahead and be your beautiful self - let the tweens say mean shit. I hope they reflect on the things they typed when their own aged family dog walks into their bedroom to see them. It’s an ugly thing to do - full stop.
Let your heart heal.
Perfectly said
Awww that’s so sweet of the vet
Sending you love and peace, Adam. Losing a fur baby is so so hard. I’ve cried several times seeing your updates of sweet Milo. He was so loved and you are an amazing pet parent. ❤
People can be so insensitive and heartless! You're a wonderful pet parent! I'm so sorry for your loss Adam, and don't listen to those hateful people! ❤
I have had a few cats. My heart cat was my little tortie. After she died, I knew once my last cat was gone (they were all from the same litter so passed pretty close in age to each other) there wouldn't be any more. She was my shadow. She has been gone for over 15 years, and I still think about her daily, because she's still my quick unlock code for my PC. There's no wrong way to grieve. There's no wrong way to process death. You are pretty isolated and it makes perfect sense that you'd reach out to your community for support, the same way you'd lean on people IRL if they were close by.
Adam you are a wonderful young man. Your parents should be so proud of you’ve turned out. I’m sorry for the loss of your baby Milo. Prayers to you.
i'm so sorry for your loss, adam. sending so much love ❤ also, since you're going to paris, maybe the tana mongeau wine tour can be a fun distraction?
I’m so sorry. I hood you can recover. I hope your alright, we’re all here. If you need to vent we’re here. Or I’m here. It’s all gonna be okay, I know it’s tragic, but your pups are there to comfort you. I care about you Adam. (Not in a creepy way)
Stay safe.
What an amazing vet you and Milo had!! ❤❤❤❤ Your heart hurts because you love him so deeply!!!
I’m so sorry!! Sending love and comfort to you Adam! Please ignore the haters! ❤❤❤❤
I lost my childhood cat a month ago, and I was there till his last breath. Very traumatic however, I got to talk to him and tell him my goodbyes how I’ve been coping with the loss of a friend. I have been trying to distract myself or I pull up funny videos of our cat and remember the good times. Sending so much love to you.❤
Thnak you for sharing your experience Adam. Sending love from california