the REAL Reasons Ppl are JEALOUS of Pretty Privilege
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Another banger of a video! I legit got the notification while sending a text along the same lines as this topic. I agree with everything as usual. The moral of the story is, switch things up so insecurity turns into inspiration and better yourself. The ethnic jealousy is real and never talked about. It reminds me of a friend of mine. She loves to go out dancing to Spanish music and be within the culture but would always get upset that she wouldn’t get as much attention in Latin clubs as those of us who are Latina. And she is beautiful and successful. I pointed out to her the only difference between her and any Latina woman is we are ethnically and culturally accustomed to certain aspects of our heritage and while we look more comfortable in that environment, she just came across as “stiff.” So I did take the time to teach her some of the nuances of Latin culture to help with her jealousy and it did work. Next thing you know she wasn’t worried about any of us while out dancing to bachata y salsa and was getting approached just as much as the rest of us. For cultural and ethnic jealousy a lot of people just don’t know how to relax into a new culture and position themselves as outsiders even if they want to be a part of the fun. She also did go to carnival with us later and by then was so comfortable she probably got more attention than the rest of us 😝. But she admitted to the issue, which is the mature thing to do and the problem was solved pretty easily. But like you are saying. A lot of this comes down to self awareness. Self improvement means it’s perfectly ok to look at another person, want what they have and be willing to work on it and turn that envy into inspiration. Right now Lala Anthony is my gym inspo and Kim K is definitely my fashion inspo. Thank you for your hard work beautiful!
fantastic comment and SO true omg. monoracial and monocultural people have complained about our multicultural backgrounds and fluid identities then they get mad because they positioned THEMSELVES as outsiders. then they call others racist etc and its like no all you had to do was embrace the culture (for real, not as a fetish or a meal ticket to privilege) and you wouldve been fine. btw this response isnt towards your friend but the part of positioning yourself as an outsider is so true. it hinders your entire social interactions with people from that group.
Great job and growth. It looks like she just needed to work on her confidence and own her own beauty.
@@ExoticalsUnitedI totally understood your response. Again, I agree. There are people that make accusations without even understanding and move us in and out of the black community in America because we are different. If my black card is revoked, so be it, but we are out here laminating our mls/exoticals cards lol. However I do understand some of this is rooted in a lack of understanding and fear for mono cultural Americans, and not just black. Just don’t meet us with jealousy disguised as snide comments and I’m good. There is room for everyone because all cultures, skin tones, mixtures etc produce beauty and innovation.
@@yellaninpoppin9919 I totally agree! She is genuinely a beautiful person inside and out but there was insecurity there. I’m happy to say she is still a very close friend of mine and had definitely learned from her internalized feelings and realized that we are all pretty out here, no matter race or mix.
My mother hated me for being a soft feminine person. Some people are jealous of pretty privilege because we have more freedom to live a happy,meaningful life on our own terms.
Exactly. I’m a firm believer that life is what you make it . I don’t see the pretty unambiguous women complaining because they’ve made lives for themselves .
When i was younger i hated the way my older sister talk. She was so sweet an féminin i felt like she was fake. Now I do not care. My problem was that I was the oppositee 😅 and society wanting me behave the same made me mad. Non that I accept myself and my masculinity life is better. And I apprecite hé feminity.
I recently lost 50 pounds and I was always the bigger girl in my friend group. All the other girls were very petite and slim but I constantly hyped them up and complimented them. Now those same girls have stopped inviting me places. They won’t post pictures with me in it. It gets so frustrating because they know my weight struggles and they can’t be happy for me.
They’re definitely jealous of your new body. Weight loss is one of the easiest ways to attain more pretty privilege
Your beautiful
@@nikicarrie4071 thank you so much! 💕
This happens a lot!! You have disrupted the hierarchy of the group. They’re threatened now
What did u do to loose weight?
My family dislikes that I’m so “bougie” as they call me. It’s natural hobbies for me that cost more, put me in more diverse spaces, and what I’m naturally drawn to. They say that I turn my back on how we grew up or that I’m ashamed of our humble beginnings. Not true. I work really hard in a profession that I love and earn what I’m worth. I went to school and worked for all I have. I just like what I like. Why make me feel bad for that? We all have the same opportunities.
Yeah some people are jealous of your level up abilities. People see things like beauty and personality as level up potential (yes, people actually get jealous of pure potential lol).
It's rooted in envy and the belief that they cannot get to your level so they want you down on their level.
Exactly. That’s why they try to ban us from wearing makeup or weaves . Because it’s like “you’re already privileged enough! You don’t need MORE privilege!”
I agree and I’m adding laziness to that as well. Hope you are staying beautiful and unbothered!
I think we've been unbothered so long we don't even address or respond and haven't until now. Yes. There is no such thing as an ugly Woman. Just a lazy one. I could be green and I'd still love me some me. You enjoy remaining unphased too, Sis! @@LaFlor718
Girl. I’m 38. Been taking care of myself for almost 12 years. I get compliments nearly every time I go out even without makeup. Honestly I thought someone was just being nice but it happens a lot so it must be true. I’m not trying to toot my own horn but pretty privilege is nice to have NGL. Anyone reading this. Please take advantage of your pretty privilege because it is finite. Trust me!
exactly! if you happen to be born meeting a certain standard whats wrong with embracing it? women with big booties embrace meeting the body standard! 😂 why cant we have our shine too?
@@ExoticalsUnited exactly. Whatever gift that is bestowed on us. We must use it to our advantage.
As far as the financial side, being the daughter of a physician, I recall NEVER volunteering information regarding my home life, lifestyle, or privileges or telling people that my father was a Doctor. As soon as people found out or those who knew my background, I was automatically treated differently. I remember hearing "You don't even have to work", "Why are you even complaining, you have everything you want", etc. I didn't realize until recently that I held in a lot of hurt and trauma because I always felt guilty for "complaining" or felt a lack of something in my life. I also used to hate when a previous best friend, whenever I would confide in her, would always say, "Why are you complaining, people have it so much worse". The invalidation of my feelings and emotions was always so triggering. Today, I do not internalize what others say, do, or feel about me as much as I used to. I am still a work in progress. But it is definitely an art to not giving 2 F*cks!
I agree, nothings wrong with leveling up on your appearance.
Exactly
@@ExoticalsUnited nah not leveling up as in ho to another level in life bcz of it it's super materialistic and plastic but maybe pay someone's bill or maybe pay the check bcz of it that's ifferent. I dont respect t anyone bcz they are beautiful. I will cutoff bcz of nastiness.
What I don't understand and dislike about all these pretty privilege videos online is the narrative that if you're pretty it's the lottery ticket to life and you can just coast through life because you will then have everything handed to you. What they don't understand is that if you have a certain privilege that's valued in society then there's people all around you who will resent you for it and actually make life harder for you. They think once they get attractive and in shape that everyone will automatically be kind and respectful towards them. A small amount of people will for superficial reasons but then they have to deal with all the negative resentful people trying to tear them down who refuse to work on themselves. You actually have a big target on your back. Like if you're an attractive woman then your life will be made hell by other jealous and bitter women and they are EVERYWHERE. From the supermarket, random strangers, to your work, in your own family, your own friends, your neighbors etc. You can not have peace. And even men can be jealous towards you and start rumors and smear campaigns towards you. It's like racism but towards the privileged but because they are privileged that makes it okay because they have everything already. Well they assume that you have everything but in reality you really have nothing and they just keep beating a dead horse and eventually you end up feeling so cold in your heart because how everyone treats you. People actually feel happy when they see you in pain. They have this sadistic smirk on their face. 'Oh look this pretty girl who gets everything in life finally feels pain like me!' Not one ounce of sympathy but no one cares because you are pretty.
Oh and you can't talk about your problems because the instant you call yourself attractive then its bragging. But a short person can talk about their problems and a ugly person can talk about their problems but the moment an attractive or rich person talks about the downsides of having that trait its 'Stop bragging, you're ungrateful, and actually not all that.'
It can be very dangerous being the target of people's jealousy. Some crimes that stuck out to me and the victims were targeted because they were attractive is Dana Vulin and Rachel Barber. Dana was a stunning blonde woman who experienced the male gaze everywhere she went. A literally barbie doll. One woman was so jealous that her husband was trying to cheat on her with this woman when she didn't even want anything to do with her man. The jealous woman tried to murder her by burning this woman alive and proceeded to laugh at her while she was screaming in pain. The woman is alive to this day and is still gorgeous despite her burns. But she is permanently disfigured. And Rachel Barber was a gorgeous teen model who's babysitter stalked her and was jealous of her. This babysitter was very unhappy about her life and she believed that Rachel had a perfect life because she was pretty. She idealized her life and wanted to be her. Eventually her jealousy led her to murdering her. There's plenty other cases out there with people doing out the evil that's in their heart towards pretty & attractive people but those are the two that stuck out to me.
Idk I just feel like it's not really a privilege and doesn't inherently make life so much better. There's too much downsides and negative people in this world to be actually be able to utilize the advantages to get far ahead in life. Don't get me wrong I hate how superficial the world is and as an attractive woman I wished that I wasn't pedestalized for such a superficial trait as well. But hating on people who have the traits that are pedestalized is only repaying the injustice you feel onto others. They didn't ask to be born that way either and don't deserve the hate for it. But maybe some people believe we do because 'we have it all'. I feel like being on this side and experiencing what attractive people go through, I would be fine being born ugly since I now know that being attractive isn't all what it's cracked up to be. I know they go through serious issues as well and I'm not downplaying their issues. I know how the world treats those that are ugly, short, disabled, in an inhumane way as well and I can understand their pain. What I'm saying is we all go through it even if you're attractive. As long as you're human we all suffer and so we should be kind to one another because there's too much hate in this world already. All I wanted is real friends, people who could understand me and love me for who I am. I want a family with a loving husband and children. I wanted my upbringing and my family I grew up with to not have been as tumultuous as it was. But being attractive doesn't even guarantee you any of that. It doesn't guarantee you love which we all as humans want and crave so badly. It will get you attention sure and if you have poor self esteem you may use it to try and feel accepted and praised but it's not really love. It's a short term dopamine hit and actually makes you feel worse in the long run because you realized that's the only reason why people like you.
I'm sorry for my rant but I spoke out everything that's in my heart and what I truly feel and wanted to tell people but I've kept my mouth shut because I've been invalidated all my life for saying these things. I can't say these things to people in real life and I don't even try because it's just not accepted. And if I do I feel secondhand embarrassment later lol because even I cringe at calling myself 'attractive'. and it's just not relatable to most people. But this is what life is really like I'm not trying to brag I believe in being humble and I don't think I'm all that. I believe true beauty is in the heart. I'm just trying to tell my experience which everyone has a right to.
yes and this is why i encourage pretty privileged women to isolate themselves from spaces with a lot of bitter betties (9-5 jobs, ghetto/ratchet jealous family members, and insecure men.)
@@ExoticalsUnited I was literally forced into finding a job where I didn't have a boss and could work at home lol. The amount of bullying and abuse I went through at jobs was horrible. I would come home all pale in the face and with knots in my stomach and I have a chronic illness and the stress made it worse. I would find a new job hoping it would be better but it never was and I job hopped a lot. In a way it forced me to work harder but dang those scars are still there and it's hard to get over them.
You are absolutely correct. I recently lost a lot of weight and now everyone ask if I’m a model. But I feel like women hate me now more than ever. I can’t trust anyone anymore. It can be very lonely
@@zaraa1222 sorry to hear you’re going through that. That’s what people don’t understand is people are inherently jealous. Most people, when they see someone attractive or successful or anything positive that they lack they just can’t be happy and celebrate that person because they want it themself. So if you actually start improving your appearance and gaining more success you actually will get more haters instead of lovers.
But I think it’s always important to remain humble and not think your better than anyone and treat others less than. But you don’t have to be someone’s punching bag and you’re allowed to feel pretty and confident as well. We just need to break this stereotype of the mean popular pretty girl lol. I feel like I’m suffering the sins of Stacy and Chad in high school and I wasn’t even popular and sometimes they tried to bully me too lol.
@@ExoticalsUnitedI agree. I can’t work 9-5 jobs I have to start working jobs in a field in art like films modelling acting. Real jobs aren’t working for me because of women and managers who want to sleep with me. Like tbh I’m not sleeping with a manager for a 9-5 job like a CEO okay sure makes sense. But not 9-5 sorry.
It's not really pretty privilege, it's confidence privilege that people don't like.
It’s Both! People Are Jealous When You Have Pretty Privilege & If You Are Confident On Top Of That They Will Try To Tear You Down…
@@jjewelxoright, external validation is linked to building confidence in teens and adolescents. Since “cute” babies and children often stand out and get more attention, they often receive more positive feedback, creating a loop of positivity for the child . However, the opposite can be true if a child has a jealous family member . But when that child grows up, as long as they’re NOT around jealous people they WILL receive positive validation in society from people who aren’t threatened by beauty.
@@ExoticalsUnited I meanits also important to not give th child every last thing it wants bcz of it bcz pretty Don pay the bills.
I can relate to this topic very well. As a pretty girl, I used to get a lot of hatred and jealousy from the other girls in school. It was really frustrating because they would give me bad energy without any specific reason. One of my friends even told me that they were jealous because I was pretty. It was so annoying and made me wonder if this was the reason why some people resent others.
I also went to university a bit late compared to my peers, so I was in classes with girls who were 5-6 years younger than me. They would act really bitchy towards me and assume that I was the same age as them because of my looks. They never really complimented my accomplishments and always gave me a 'bitchy' look.
I know that being pretty has its advantages, but it can be difficult to find a true friend who isn't just jealous of your looks. Everyone can be so mean and bitchy. All I want to say is that we should be kind to each other and try to be more understanding. Jealousy over someone's looks is so immature. Let's keep the positivity alive!
Exactly and some people want to become friends with you so they can study you, copy you, find out your flaws then exploit them against you. Kind of like how my “friends” would find out I was wearing extensions or lashes then they would call it out in front of guys .
I wasn’t allowed to wear make up growing up because my mother was convinced I was trying to get attention from boys. I just wanted to be pretty.
I thought I was receiving hate because I was ugly, now I see it’s because I’m beautiful…
9:15 i have so much resentment towards my parents they literally didn’t teach me nothing, just nothing because they in survival mode. That’s why I’m so passionate about spreading the message marry before you carry or have money before you have kids, having kids is not a joke you can’t be playing with peoples future.
I remember my old best friends. Smh I just got around to realizing that I was codependent on them because I was so lonely. I stopped being friends with them for multiple reasons. But I remember coming back from the military having lost some weight. And the first thing one of them said was “dang now I’m the fat friend.” I’m embarrassed that I tried to excuse it and stayed friends with them for a good while afterwards. But tbh, people are always gonna have a problem with you, I’d rather take care of myself and be hated on than be hated on everyone and myself. I was one that tried to dim myself to not make others insecure because people weren’t just jealousy and gossipy. I was physically assaulted by guys and girls and my items were sabotaged. So that’s what I was tryna avoid. Now I just stay to myself and work on my finances and such so it won’t hurt as bad. But there’s a saying “I’m not gonna water myself down to me more digestible. You can choke.” And that’s what I’m trying my best to live by now. And tbh I’ve been sad about not having certain privileges in the past but I’ve never looked at someone and said, I don’t have it so you don’t deserve it (if they were minding their own).
Yes I’ve been that way before too keeping mediocre friendships around in order to not be lonely
@@ExoticalsUnited Yeah. And tbh I believe the anger is misplaced. It makes no sense to get mad at someone getting treated a certain way when the power is in the place of the individuals treating them that way. Especially if I haven’t let it make me a bad person and bully. If someone treats me better because of the “halo effect” or whatever, your real gripe is with them not me. They’re the ones controlling the privilege. I’m just taking care of myself and living. Maybe if people treated each other like basic humans as a principle, things would get better. I have no sympathy for the people who take that frustration out on me.
And why nobody allows you to say that people are jealous of you? Why people always say maybe it’s in your head or maybe it’s your behaviour. Why Is it so unbelievable that people are jealous of you all the time?
Cuz it's seen as:
"You REALLY think you all that?! That someone is jealous of you?! Bitch, stop being so arrogant and go do your makeup."
that’s always bothered me too but i’ve come to learn that the people who question it either A are the jealous ppl in question lol or B have never experienced it before and are surrounded by other average, non threatening people so it’s almost impossible for them to believe.
I realize they try to break you down when you have confidence in the BC
Thank for the pretty girl club and making these videos! Me and my daughter love watching them and I went 30 years without knowing why people were so rude and mean to me. I just wanted to be black to be accepted but I’m multiracial/cultural. Thank you for insight!! ✨💕
My roommates are so jealous of me bc I have pretty privilege
Pretty female character in fiction the hyperfeminine one. who love wearing make up, care about fashion, love the colour pink, worrying about their apperance a lot time they being framed as shallow mean conceited and cruel. The formula of pretty woman being the mean girl, the bully, who use their beauty for her selfish desire that could somehow explain a lot people hatred toward pretty privilige woman. They see this on fiction so they feel justified to being rude and cruel. I just finishing my favorite manhwa get schooled or true education in one their arc they have this k idol who's really pretty behind her pretty face she's a sadistic cruel bully. The one who she bullied is a average looking girl after she was being exposed then there's this questionable punishment
1. Her boss pretending he will not drop her from the agency after she left he call her a bitch behind her back. Note she was a minor and her boss is adult man
2. Another adult man almost choke her to death
3. Before she got famous she was being fat shamed by adult woman and that's the reason why she become a bully
Before that arc they have another horrible character who a pimp exploiting runaway teenage girl and she's ugly however she was seen as much more redeemable
Yea the way we are portrayed in media definitely effects us
Nothing wrong with being pretty/handsome
My therapy back in the day was The Oprah Show lol it definitely helped me.
Omg I remember Oprah! Lol i was not usually at home when it came on though. I used to watch the Tyra show .
I’m a 39yro, mother of two who has been bullied all of my life because I’m pretty/attractive. My own mother and 2 older sister were the first culprits. They tried to put me down every chance they got .. especially when I became a teenager and people started gravitating towards me!
I would cry but over the years I got better they stayed the same and I began to see that as long as I was taking care of myself holistically the hate would never stop.. woman who are not self aware are the worst.. they project alllll the time.. through research and applied knowledge I’m just know truly understanding their behavior and choosing to be happy and beautiful in-spite of!!❤️
I mentioned my age and children because I look much younger than 39 and jealous women want me being a single mother to be a reason to make me feel lesson than!! I have sooooo many stories.. ❤
I swear you spoke to me, I went to a private uni and omg these kids were sooo rich! & yass!! Kudos to you for changing yourself to get the things that you once envied. I found myself being jealous of my sis in law until I started to realize I wanted to be respected on her level, so one by one, I'm literally doing even bigger things than her. haha, it's such a good motivation!
So yeah, to answer your question, my mom experienced generational trauma at the hands of her mom and then was also told she was hideous by her mother in law, we're afro Latinas so we're definitely exotic looking but my mom would literally tell me I was a witch (not in a good way) and that she never wanted me and to lose weight since I was basically born. It took me all of my 20's to realize that she was traumatized and that I had learned to hate myself in order to shrink my beauty only to realize, after a ton of self-love and therapy, that being naturally pretty is actually a super power and one of my assets. Now I have so much confidence and will interchangeably use my pretty privilege depending on what situation I'm in. It took so long to call my power back to me. I wish I had a channel like this when I was in my early 20's and my life would of literally been so different. I definitely internalized my moms self-hate and the hate that society tells us brown girls. Never again.
The best advice I can give on how I overcame is to work on yourself and accept that the person or thing you want isn't for you but still seek for other opportunities and keep trying.
Exactly
Yeah my mom tried to deter me from red lipstick and eyeliner but she used to wear it.
I didnt think about it when i was in college my teacher in english told me i am beautiful women in my class i was thinking what does that have to do with english my other teacher said i had nice teeth i said thank you i didnt think about my looks even when i was at McDonald's people smile look at me i thought it was weird because i was with my friend to hangout and eat and talk know looking back i didnt know that was pretty privilage
yes thats pretty privilege
What if you actually like the features, hair, and skin color you were born with but want the treatment of a person that has a different skin color, hair, and features ? Also, would you say that the slaves was jealous or envious for wanting to be treated with dignity and respect? Why so or why not?
Thank you for that video. As a woman with “pretty privilege,” I have faced many challenges from unattractive women who have been jealous of me for decades. Their actions made me hate myself, and I couldn’t see my own beauty until years of therapy helped me recognize it. I’ve learned to appreciate my appearance, which aligns with my positive character traits, and this has helped me feel beautiful inside and out.
I have empathy for all the pretty ladies who have endured similar experiences and the psychological damage it has caused. Some of these women looked like Jabba the Hutt, and part of their jealousy stemmed from the fact that I exercise and keep the fork out of my mouth. I used to be overweight, eating a lot as a way to cope with the self-hate they instilled in me. However, through therapy and self-care, I lost 50 pounds, and I now take better care of myself.
These women seemed to have an “ugly privilege” because they will never experience the pain, psychological damage, and years of therapy that I had to go through. 😂
Please make more in depth videos on Stephco!!
Ok ! I can do another follow up to this video!
@@ExoticalsUnited Appreciate it! 😊
@@ExoticalsUnited yes please ! I’d love to see that. Also I’m one of your patreon members! 🎉💖
oh yay! thanks for joining it!
Most of what you said is actually done on purpose alot of them are well a ware,of these emotions,but they wear it on theyre sleeve
Yes. I have been consistently wearing a red lip and notice gaining more attention and, in some places,😎💋 pretty privilege...
I would work out early in the morning before school. I remember one time my mom came in the front room to tell me stop working out. I was disturbing her. She was so mean about it. I remember that I just quit working out that early in the morning all together. I do know that my mom was multiracial her natural hair was straight and skin light skin. My father was darker but I took off of her side of the family. I always felt she tried to compare herself to me. I hated that.
Wow that was mean of her
Most mothers do . They are extremely jealous of their daughters beauty
Wow thanks for this.
Excellent video!
Thank you very much!
thank you for this . this explains my life history !
I am a young girl about to turn 17 i do not know much about what other girls really think of me but sometimes i don't know why they behave with me like that ignore me in the class , ignore me in class projects , don't reply when i talk , when i greet them sometimes they seem good but i don't know what goes in their brain even my close friends seem to little bit like that they sometimes left me out too. Out of all the girls there is one girl who greet me and i greet her we hug each other and i feel so good . I just don't know why but from last year i seem to really noticing people's behaviour and i am that girl who is good to everyone i talk with them nicely i want them to be nice to me too . But i think i get it now i understood that i just don't need to change myself i am good as i am i just need to be more aware and make my life more beautiful along with my looks , improving my body and working on myself . I understood it i am happy , i will focus on myself 🎉🎉🎉🎉 thanku for inspiring and guiding a little girl . I will never forget this lesson i will not reset people behaviour on me but i will rather improve myself and try being happy with myself
Great video . I know your a cutie 😂……you video is excellent in explaining jealousy and envy.
This girl (She was darker than me, obese with 4c hair and no makeup on plus pizza face) suddenly stop talking to me once I glowed up and girls in class always try to make fun of my look and try to convince me to stop wearing makeup and long wigs . I feel like they are obsess with my and try to get my attention because I'm naturally someone calm and don't care that much about them . I only go school do my work and mind my own business you know . And since my glow up I noticed all women I know told me "Oh but you looked better when you were natural" if people say that to you then they don't want you to shine and are triggered by your beauty . Even some guys at school tried to get my attention but once they don't get it , they start making bad comments about my look . And they do that like almost every day I'm at school . I'll probably tell principal if it continue cuz this is almost bullying . I'm glad school is ending up in like 2 weeks . So I went from being insivible to getting attention just because of my look . Pretty privilege is real . Even my own mother was cold with me when I looked good but was super friendly when I looked a hot mess . That's crazy isn't it ? But this is only the start of my glow up journey . And this provoked millions of reactions . But I actually like that . This literally makes me laugh and feel good at the end of the day . The fact that I can easily manipulate them only by my look . And the fact that I'm talked about (Whether it's positive or negative I love being talked about) . It's fun for me actually to switch hairstyles and makeup and everything to make them react and they always do . Even when I added a mole on my face they got angry and asked me to take it off . I didnt ofc it looks so good on me .Do whatever makes you happy in life . Because I remember days I had my afro hair they were all making fun of me and comparing me to a lion or whatever . When I put that straight wig on, they started saying that the wig looks fake .
I'm just realizing I almost wrote a whole book 😅
being good looking and having pretty daughters my daughters are hated because of there looks it's sad 😭😭😭😭😭😎
pro make up, pro plastic surgery i'm a man so definitely do not understood the feeling i could only listen. When i was young i do have this mindset woman who do plastic surgery is not grateful for what god give to them because people around me said people who do plastic surgery is not being grateful. I never think my mindset is wrong. i grew older little by little i try to see the perspective of people who do plastic surgery. Having plastic surgery is not wrong, wearing make up is not wrong. beauty enchantment is not wrong. Tiktoker who i follow she said in her video discussing about tomie manga series by junji ito people project all the negative quality to the pretty woman. So tomie in the first chapter tomie kawakami a middle school student is being groom by her teacher, A boy who liked her got jealous accidentally kill her, people believing she's dead they insult her and trying to burry the crime of their teacher. They chop her body into different pieces not one person ever hold the boy who push her and the teacher accountable
wow that sounds scary. but yes if a surgery like a facelift etc will increase your pretty privilege and you want the pretty privilege/have the money for it, i dont see why not. when i get old i am going to get a face lift.
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Thanks for watching !
people dont like hearing the truth
As a dark skinned person I keep watching your videos and it’s interesting. Keep it up!
Yay! Btw this channel has thousands of dark skinned women on it, the only difference is they’re dark skinned mixed or ABW.
@@ExoticalsUnited I’m not mixed but your points helped me to see things a bit different and understand from people who aren’t fully black or dark skinned!
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Thanks for watching ! 🤓
I'm east African Ugandan multigenerationally mixed from the UK and i was always told i was beautiful and pretty by mixed and lightskin girls and other races except unambiguous darkskin girls. I used to be darkskin and it was always darkskin girls that hated on me and tried to bully me. I have nice eyes symmetrical face i look a bit like Liyah Mai but point is East Africans usually go through the exact same bullying that mls ppl go thru. And in some cases its worse for racially ambiguous darkskin east africans. Please do a video on us love u and ur channel 💖xx
I’ve said this multiple times on my channel that East Africans are welcome here . Multiple people try to comment and say “make videos on Afro latinas! Make videos on East Africans! Make videos on XYZ types of women!” Lol the more content you watch the more you’ll see that this platform is for you. I tend not to single out one type of mix or ethnicity on here . But yes, I see what you’re saying. Also you said you used to be dark skinned, did you bleach? (Not judging because I don’t care lol)
I'm pretty much red with red curly, my son is two, and their clawing (girls)their way to my son in high school. How about some content for mothers to look out for Tatiana's
Def talk to your son about protecting himself and his seed (of course when he is old enough). My partner was used for a child because he is lightskin, loose curls and handsome. The baby mama only wanted a mixed child. So sad and this happens A LOT, esp with women who are married to other women and do not want to pay for a donor…..
Pretty privilege only exist in certain parts of the world and usually those parts are the most destructive. Some people judge people based on morals, depth and values.
Being beautiful for anyone only last so long. Enjoy it while it last and learn to nurture the world so that when your “pretty privilege” is over, you still feel a purpose in your life and not all used up for your beauty.
this is exactly what i teach on this channel its called privilege stacking. pretty privilege is just one of many privileges a woman should have.