I don't find intimate service work empowering at all because most women who do that want to leave that line of work most of them are trafficked into doing that also it gives the idea that womens' bodies can be bought and sold prostitution only benefits men i am not blaming or judging women who do it because we all live in diferrent circumstances
Exactly, so many are exploited as children - it's not what they dreamed of as children, and it's not usually something they want for their own children
It's not empowering because it involves catering to the male gaze. It is only "empowering" to the women's bank accounts. It doesn't help women at large but, in fact, harms us because it plants the idea in men's minds that all of us (even children) can be bought. It's not true, of course, but here we are, and men continue to approach women, girls, and even boys with that same assumption, fueled by the commodification of flesh. I'm no prude, but I'm also not ignorant to that fact.
You can’t convince me this is not extreme level of self sabotage. She needs to be put in rehab just like when someone cuts their wrist they need to be stopped
Men were held to the same standard. Christianity for example, if you really follow it the Bible way, saving yourself for marriage goes for women and men. Both needed/need to wait until they’re married to have sex.
Bruh the bible says both should be virgins at marriage it’s just coz women carry the responsibility of sex, if you want a good marriage you have to LEARN HOW to weed out the shitty guys, but nah you ladies won’t do that because you bully eachother calling em pick me’s
I respect sex workers, but I genuinely hope women who go this far NEVER have kids. It’s one thing to be a stripper or lady of the night, it’s another to film yourself needlessly pushing the envelope and posting it online; once there are national and international news articles and outlets talking about you, you’ve gone too far. You’re just begging for your future children to get bullied and harassed. Doesn’t matter if you have kids next year or a decade from now; once it’s online, it’s there forever. Her kids may have a grace period in elementary school. But once they hit middle school, all bets are off. Doesn’t matter how much mommy makes on OF if it’s all going into therapy.
All prostitution is. Testing every other week is not enough to prevent the spread of STDs, especially since some have latency periods, etc. Then these guys are taking it home to their unsuspecting gfs or wives. It should be illegal.
I am against sex work but have respect for sex workers and their livelihood but I don't support it because my sister was abducted and trafficked to become a prostitute and it had a very bad effect on her mentally and physically when we found her. I know that what's it's history and to this day it hasn't done any good for the women and mostly does worse and it only benefits men in the end of the day and not to mention I am just really really against sex industry as a whole and seeing these type of woman who literally promote these type of stuff, they just worries me a lot and not to mention the fact that this thing having sex with 101 men in a day is so careless, it will have so much effect on a person's mind and body and it just baffles me to this day a lot of women just misuse their sexuality and objectify themselves. And it is very well known that with the sex industry, sex has always been commodified and it's very harmful. And we cannot forget that prostitution was made to fulfill men's desire and lust and to literally traffic, abuse, objectify and sexualise women in it and not to mention because of this sex as a whole has been commodified.
I have to admit that I am with the reporter about the whole thing. Sex can be fun, but it is also something sacred in a way. Nature has given us a lot of hardships, but love and intimacy in the form of sex is a gift to men and women and we should start to remember that. I am Not against one night stands , but I believe sexuality should be lived in a more mindful way.(edit :spelling)
I blocked and Immediately unblocked the channel after realizing its Life With Melonie, am so sick of the person popping up on my feed, her whole quest makes me ill, she is out here trying to normalise what victims (who often die as a result) of traffickong go through smh i cant with this, she shouldn't be being given coverage.
She is definitely not well. The after math of the 101 and her realising what she had let them males do to her. And now thinking that she is the one going to be having ex with these 1000 males. Not the realisation that they will actually be the ones having ex with her body, not even her. So depressing for our younger generation of women, it makes me so sad.
I think the big thing here is consent. If everyone's on board, take precautions to stay safe. It's their life and their choice. This girl already makes money on her looks and body. As long as people interact, she makes money on this, a lot of money. Of course, she's going to keep it up. It's how she makes her money. It's her job. Do I agree with their choices? -No. Am I worried for her and everyone involved? -Yes Do I want to take action against this? -Yes Will I take action? -No Why? - Because this is how she makes money. Any interaction, view, or even a click is money in her pocket. Even if the intention is to get her help. Unless I can reach her personally and talk to her, no action is the best action. Any other action is an income and reward.
What are the penalties in place if one of these men goes home and gives an STD or something to their unsuspecting wife or gf? That is where consent is lacking.
Mind you after 101 she became extremely emotional proving she doesn’t understand the deeper ramifications of her actions. She didn’t even understand that allowing unknown/foul spirits to ram through you in great numbers is going to cause trauma, hence the crying.
I support and respect sex work and sex workers and what they do, but this worries me. Like I'm genuinely scared for this woman, and i believe she needs help because this is Self-harm, Self-Hatred, a sign of distress and a call for help all wrapped up in one.
UA-cam automatically deletes comments that use certain words. That's why you sometimes see people type them in a weird way. ETA: However, ironically, I see that all my other comments are deleted and I definitely didn't use "bad" words. So, you might be on to something. I tend to avoid channels that do this because why is only my comment validating the deletion left? Interesting.
It sounds like she understands the risk and is willing to take that risk. She clearly states there is medication she can take to help prevent the risk and if that fails we do have medications that can lower your viral load to undetectable. People not agreeing with her answer doesn't mean she avoided the question. She most likely has more control of the situation than many others who work in the adult industry so as long as she's of sound mind then it's her choice.
If one of the men has HIV or AIDS untreated, then everyone after him has been exposed as the protection used wA not clearly stated and therefore may not have been used or used effectively.
This is self-harm. You cannot convince me otherwise.
I agree!
There's a video of her crying after doing the 100 men (her last goal). I don't know if it's in the video because I've not watched it yet, but yeah.
Some guys didn’t even have ✨time✨ to get tested. This is actually a death wish and a super spreader event.
my thoughts exactly
It isn't a death wish. You can take a drug called PREP. Definitely gross though for all people involved.
This screams sexual trauma in her history. I feel incredibly sad for her.
I don't find intimate service work empowering at all because most women who do that want to leave that line of work most of them are trafficked into doing that also it gives the idea that womens' bodies can be bought and sold prostitution only benefits men i am not blaming or judging women who do it because we all live in diferrent circumstances
Exactly, so many are exploited as children - it's not what they dreamed of as children, and it's not usually something they want for their own children
It's not empowering because it involves catering to the male gaze. It is only "empowering" to the women's bank accounts. It doesn't help women at large but, in fact, harms us because it plants the idea in men's minds that all of us (even children) can be bought. It's not true, of course, but here we are, and men continue to approach women, girls, and even boys with that same assumption, fueled by the commodification of flesh. I'm no prude, but I'm also not ignorant to that fact.
Not a job. not a choice. I'd recommend this book.
@@cidercikthank you for the recommendation.
You can’t convince me this is not extreme level of self sabotage. She needs to be put in rehab just like when someone cuts their wrist they need to be stopped
But traditionally it was ONLY the women who were required to save themselves for marriage.....men are not held up to the same standards......
TRUE! it's like we can't win either way
Men were held to the same standard. Christianity for example, if you really follow it the Bible way, saving yourself for marriage goes for women and men. Both needed/need to wait until they’re married to have sex.
Bruh the bible says both should be virgins at marriage it’s just coz women carry the responsibility of sex, if you want a good marriage you have to LEARN HOW to weed out the shitty guys, but nah you ladies won’t do that because you bully eachother calling em pick me’s
Always a double standard
@ until the war starts…
I respect sex workers, but I genuinely hope women who go this far NEVER have kids. It’s one thing to be a stripper or lady of the night, it’s another to film yourself needlessly pushing the envelope and posting it online; once there are national and international news articles and outlets talking about you, you’ve gone too far.
You’re just begging for your future children to get bullied and harassed. Doesn’t matter if you have kids next year or a decade from now; once it’s online, it’s there forever.
Her kids may have a grace period in elementary school. But once they hit middle school, all bets are off. Doesn’t matter how much mommy makes on OF if it’s all going into therapy.
This is actually a public health issue.
All prostitution is. Testing every other week is not enough to prevent the spread of STDs, especially since some have latency periods, etc. Then these guys are taking it home to their unsuspecting gfs or wives. It should be illegal.
Along with prostitution.
Shes been abused in her past. We must pray for her 🙏.
I am against sex work but have respect for sex workers and their livelihood but I don't support it because my sister was abducted and trafficked to become a prostitute and it had a very bad effect on her mentally and physically when we found her. I know that what's it's history and to this day it hasn't done any good for the women and mostly does worse and it only benefits men in the end of the day and not to mention I am just really really against sex industry as a whole and seeing these type of woman who literally promote these type of stuff, they just worries me a lot and not to mention the fact that this thing having sex with 101 men in a day is so careless, it will have so much effect on a person's mind and body and it just baffles me to this day a lot of women just misuse their sexuality and objectify themselves. And it is very well known that with the sex industry, sex has always been commodified and it's very harmful. And we cannot forget that prostitution was made to fulfill men's desire and lust and to literally traffic, abuse, objectify and sexualise women in it and not to mention because of this sex as a whole has been commodified.
I have to admit that I am with the reporter about the whole thing. Sex can be fun, but it is also something sacred in a way. Nature has given us a lot of hardships, but love and intimacy in the form of sex is a gift to men and women and we should start to remember that. I am Not against one night stands , but I believe sexuality should be lived in a more mindful way.(edit :spelling)
I blocked and Immediately unblocked the channel after realizing its Life With Melonie, am so sick of the person popping up on my feed, her whole quest makes me ill, she is out here trying to normalise what victims (who often die as a result) of traffickong go through smh i cant with this, she shouldn't be being given coverage.
She is definitely not well. The after math of the 101 and her realising what she had let them males do to her. And now thinking that she is the one going to be having ex with these 1000 males. Not the realisation that they will actually be the ones having ex with her body, not even her. So depressing for our younger generation of women, it makes me so sad.
If intercourse is a soul act …. How many different spirits does she have in her!! 😢
@@ccd5942 good question, never thought of it that way
It’s an addiction
None should have participated
He was unreasonably aggressive about the aids
Yup it’s a game to men
I think the big thing here is consent. If everyone's on board, take precautions to stay safe. It's their life and their choice.
This girl already makes money on her looks and body.
As long as people interact, she makes money on this, a lot of money. Of course, she's going to keep it up. It's how she makes her money. It's her job.
Do I agree with their choices?
-No.
Am I worried for her and everyone involved?
-Yes
Do I want to take action against this?
-Yes
Will I take action?
-No
Why?
- Because this is how she makes money. Any interaction, view, or even a click is money in her pocket. Even if the intention is to get her help.
Unless I can reach her personally and talk to her, no action is the best action. Any other action is an income and reward.
What are the penalties in place if one of these men goes home and gives an STD or something to their unsuspecting wife or gf? That is where consent is lacking.
101 or 1000 men?
she did 101 and now wants to do 1000
Mind you after 101 she became extremely emotional proving she doesn’t understand the deeper ramifications of her actions. She didn’t even understand that allowing unknown/foul spirits to ram through you in great numbers is going to cause trauma, hence the crying.
I support and respect sex work and sex workers and what they do, but this worries me. Like I'm genuinely scared for this woman, and i believe she needs help because this is Self-harm, Self-Hatred, a sign of distress and a call for help all wrapped up in one.
There’s nothing respectable about sex work.
@@mikikiki okay?, that's your opinion. it's a stupid and wrong opinion but it's your so🤷🏿♂️.
S3x worker shouldn't be supported tbh. That work is sad for women
You explained it all perfectly
The audio is bit echo-y
I realized. Tried to fix it as best as I could
Maybe she needs to be checked ….. what if she already got something and trying to spread it 😢
I thought about that possibility too…. Sad
My comment was deleted. 😅wonder why...
I haven’t deleted any comments. What did you say?
@lifewithmelonie Maybe words we cant use anymore on youtube. The youtube police probably deleted it. Algorithim violation maybe. Its ok.
UA-cam automatically deletes comments that use certain words. That's why you sometimes see people type them in a weird way. ETA: However, ironically, I see that all my other comments are deleted and I definitely didn't use "bad" words. So, you might be on to something. I tend to avoid channels that do this because why is only my comment validating the deletion left? Interesting.
Sometimes I can't see my comment on the app, but it wasn't deleted and I can see it in my comment history on desktop
Landed on the female incel side of UA-cam 💀
It sounds like she understands the risk and is willing to take that risk.
She clearly states there is medication she can take to help prevent the risk and if that fails we do have medications that can lower your viral load to undetectable.
People not agreeing with her answer doesn't mean she avoided the question.
She most likely has more control of the situation than many others who work in the adult industry so as long as she's of sound mind then it's her choice.
your audio is so bad fix it pls
I figured it out now, thanks!
I dont see the issue. She not hurting or killing anyone
I beleive it’s illegal to have sex for money in the UK. It’s illegal in all states of USA except in some rural counties in Nevada
If one of the men has HIV or AIDS untreated, then everyone after him has been exposed as the protection used wA not clearly stated and therefore may not have been used or used effectively.
@ they are paying her to have sex? Thought it was free
She’s hurting herself
@ but it has no effect on on one else