Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.
My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Yeah it's the man's fault that someone decided to emotionally manipulate and bully them because of insecurities and a strong desire for companionship. Yep...that's definitely a healthy attitude to have. And no, I'm not projecting. But I've seen the damage a horrible person can do to someone who is an easy target. Naive or having an inability to see certain signs in people is not an excuse to blame the victim of abuse.
Holy shit. You seriously think that if someone cheats on you, its your fault???? That is the most disgusting and disturbing thing i have ever heard. You ever heard of responsibility? Taking ownership of your actions? There is nothing that excuses cheating. Nothing. If you cheat on someone, that is on you and no one else. Take ownership of your actions. Seriously. You need, NEED, trust in a relationship. You need to give it before you get it. So its my fault for believing my wife/girlfriend when she lies to me???? That is the most blood boiling thing i have ever heard. People make mistakes. Sometimes, people arent right for each other. But cheating is not the answer. It is and never will be. Leave them. Break up. Divorce. Go to therapy. Work it out. Or never talk about it again. Do anything but cheat. Cheating is unacceptable. People like you are the reason the world has gone to pure shit. Blaming someone who has been cheated on, saying its their fault, that is appaling.
"it's the woman's fault that he cheats" See? It's stupid, why don't you, you know end things? No? This could be easily solved by making the AP pay for getting in between a legal contract between two partners and making the part at fault pay for absolutely everything durin' divorce
The problem is that this does NOTHING to address what's wrong with toxic women to begin with, yes as men we should know better to begin with since women do give SECRET hints as to who they are on the inside BUT don't let this distract you fellas from figuring women out to help yourself first. Not the other way around, she'll take advantage of you otherwise.
She completely contradicted herself by first saying all cheaters do it it because they “settled” for a partner they aren’t really attracted to and later said it’s to meet an unfulfilled need. The more I hear of this women the less impressed I am with her pseudo intelligence. She also carelessly uses words like “always” to make points when she has no clue individual motivations.
This woman can go to hell. Just because someone's a pushover doesn't mean it's okay to cheat. If you cheat unless your partner was being physically or emotionally abusive then you're a horrible person period and you don't deserve a happily ever after with anyone.
It's easy to look out for the signs if you're a completely objective person. But majority of humans aren't. We're ruled by our emotions and our desires. So to say it's the man's fault if he gets cheated on because he ''didn't see the signs'' is a load of waffle. No one wants to see the bad in their partner and therefore may look past certain red flags to begin with. But once emotional manipulation and gaslighting come into play, it completely ruins a person (man or woman) to the point in which they can no longer function logically. Perhaps instead of victim blaming, the perpetrators should be held to account by society and ostracised for the self centred arseholes they are.
I like how the statement that "it's the man's fault for not seeing the signs and being naive" puts us in control of our own lives. It helps us to learn from our mistakes and even though it's harsh, makes us better. Sure, the other person did something really fucked up, but we can still do a lot to prevent something like that from happening again.
dating a prostitute who belongs to the street is indeed a personal fault. You just have to price relationships and never give exclusivity to someone who doesn't know what it is.
I honestly agree with her, because she’s establishing the fact that it’s supposed to be men that to set the pace not women. Men are the ones that establish strong culture and women are the ones that follow suit. That’s the fault of men when things go awry, for taking these women more serious than they take themselves. Not practicing proper discernment, so I agree with her. Men, you’re always supposed to think better, think higher, and understand that she supposed to follow you, you’re not supposed to follow her. Not supposed to fall in love with her, supposed to love her. Falling in love is like being addicted to a drug. You’re supposed to love your head, and not your heart. Look at this whole Travis Hunter situation. She embarrassed him so much that she starting to ruin a lot of esteem. He had as a man. So always be on your square.
It's both partners' fault for taking each other for granted, but it's the cheater's fault for cheating.
Modern women call you toxic if you have a "protective jealousy" for her
Every relationship experiences challenges, but there is always a way to progress. My marriage was tested by significant problems, but with appropriate help, my wife and I worked through them and strengthened our bond. Solutions are available if you’re ready to put in the effort and work together. Stay hopeful-there’s always a way.
My relationship is going through major troubles, and losing her is unbearable for me. I love and miss my partner more than words can express and am ready to do whatever it takes to have her return. Any suggestions or guidance would be greatly appreciated.
Parting ways with someone you deeply care about is never easy, but in my particular circumstance, I was aided by a spiritual mentor who averted the collapse of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll immediately seek her out online. Appreciate it. I'm hopeful that implementing this method will also bring me success; I miss her dearly.
You should..
You can make many mistakes and i will forgive you. Nobody is perfect. But if you make the choice of hurting me, then we are done. Goodbye.
"it's the man's fault" = disagree completely
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"it's the man's fault for not seeing the signs and being naive" = 100% agree
Yeah it's the man's fault that someone decided to emotionally manipulate and bully them because of insecurities and a strong desire for companionship. Yep...that's definitely a healthy attitude to have.
And no, I'm not projecting. But I've seen the damage a horrible person can do to someone who is an easy target.
Naive or having an inability to see certain signs in people is not an excuse to blame the victim of abuse.
@ then you will always be a victim.
@@Tarack1 Never cast pearls before swines. Sadly, today too many men can't tell the difference cos they get too caught up with physical features.
If you are a push over your going to get cheated on. That is your fault😂.
@@zero1188 If you're not stronger than someone, you're going to get beaten up. That is your fault.
Retarded logic.
in china theres a saying, theres food on your plate... but you still look at the food in the pot
She just admitted that all women are the same. Thank you miss🙂
Holy shit. You seriously think that if someone cheats on you, its your fault???? That is the most disgusting and disturbing thing i have ever heard. You ever heard of responsibility? Taking ownership of your actions? There is nothing that excuses cheating. Nothing. If you cheat on someone, that is on you and no one else. Take ownership of your actions. Seriously.
You need, NEED, trust in a relationship. You need to give it before you get it. So its my fault for believing my wife/girlfriend when she lies to me???? That is the most blood boiling thing i have ever heard.
People make mistakes. Sometimes, people arent right for each other. But cheating is not the answer. It is and never will be. Leave them. Break up. Divorce. Go to therapy. Work it out. Or never talk about it again. Do anything but cheat. Cheating is unacceptable. People like you are the reason the world has gone to pure shit. Blaming someone who has been cheated on, saying its their fault, that is appaling.
You knew exactly who she was, you knew it in your soul, and you loved her anyway.
"it's the woman's fault that he cheats"
See? It's stupid, why don't you, you know end things? No?
This could be easily solved by making the AP pay for getting in between a legal contract between two partners and making the part at fault pay for absolutely everything durin' divorce
She just gaslighted the entire Manosphere.
The problem is that this does NOTHING to address what's wrong with toxic women to begin with, yes as men we should know better to begin with since women do give SECRET hints as to who they are on the inside BUT don't let this distract you fellas from figuring women out to help yourself first. Not the other way around, she'll take advantage of you otherwise.
She completely contradicted herself by first saying all cheaters do it it because they “settled” for a partner they aren’t really attracted to and later said it’s to meet an unfulfilled need. The more I hear of this women the less impressed I am with her pseudo intelligence. She also carelessly uses words like “always” to make points when she has no clue individual motivations.
This woman can go to hell. Just because someone's a pushover doesn't mean it's okay to cheat. If you cheat unless your partner was being physically or emotionally abusive then you're a horrible person period and you don't deserve a happily ever after with anyone.
Bury your head in sand. Keep being a pushover and getting cheated on😂
100%, it's your fault for a woman cheating. Of course it is.
It's easy to look out for the signs if you're a completely objective person. But majority of humans aren't. We're ruled by our emotions and our desires. So to say it's the man's fault if he gets cheated on because he ''didn't see the signs'' is a load of waffle.
No one wants to see the bad in their partner and therefore may look past certain red flags to begin with. But once emotional manipulation and gaslighting come into play, it completely ruins a person (man or woman) to the point in which they can no longer function logically.
Perhaps instead of victim blaming, the perpetrators should be held to account by society and ostracised for the self centred arseholes they are.
I like how the statement that "it's the man's fault for not seeing the signs and being naive" puts us in control of our own lives. It helps us to learn from our mistakes and even though it's harsh, makes us better. Sure, the other person did something really fucked up, but we can still do a lot to prevent something like that from happening again.
When she said every partner will cheat🙂
All women want to be loved by a man they 'need'. The few women who need their man, 'want' him
My IQ is dropping with every second of this stupidity..
"Protective Jealousy" is just another phrase for women to say "controlling." Your entire argument is null and void.
I disagree with most of her logic, the partner who is cheater should have accountability
Personal accountability ftw 💪🏻
and you will be always to blame personally.
dating a prostitute who belongs to the street is indeed a personal fault. You just have to price relationships and never give exclusivity to someone who doesn't know what it is.
So … no accountability
I have to cry bs with your interpretation of cheating.
Cry.
She is correct
There as many reasons as there are people. Its never, ever a simple one size fits all reasons.
😂and most of y'all believe what this beautiful woman says? Think please
I honestly agree with her, because she’s establishing the fact that it’s supposed to be men that to set the pace not women. Men are the ones that establish strong culture and women are the ones that follow suit. That’s the fault of men when things go awry, for taking these women more serious than they take themselves. Not practicing proper discernment, so I agree with her. Men, you’re always supposed to think better, think higher, and understand that she supposed to follow you, you’re not supposed to follow her.
Not supposed to fall in love with her, supposed to love her. Falling in love is like being addicted to a drug. You’re supposed to love your head, and not your heart. Look at this whole Travis Hunter situation. She embarrassed him so much that she starting to ruin a lot of esteem. He had as a man. So always be on your square.
Inderect relationships
lol this is so toxic