WOMEN'S Entire GOAL in a RELATIONSHIP is to EMASCULATE and CONTROL YOU (she will never love you)
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Hey I just had this thought about your content and I've come to the conclusion that in your periodic growth I think you need to start explaining to men more about how you are the way you are in terms of health and mentality I know you're not treating your body like s*** your mentality has two certain extent been created by your health habits and your supplementation
You're f......king right .
@Rocksteady-o1e I'd call it tragic entertainment. This man who wears sunglasses indoors has been hurt by some damaged women, and concluded that all 4 billion women on Earth are the same. So now he teaches men the "language" of damaged women, instead of teaching how to find less damaged ones and create a healthy relationship. Round and round the damage goes, men and women hurting each other.
When they disrespect you they say I was only playing with you. But if you play with them it's not funny
So true wtf
101 gaslighting
The SHOCKED look on this girl's face, when I gave it back to her harder, was PRICELESS.
Dread is necessary
That’s why you call her out on the hypocrisy of it.
13:27 “If you have made it this far, I encourage you to do one thing…” I thought he was going to say “Cheat!” (considering what he said until then).
After 5 years of relationship, what this man is talking about is the ultimate truth. I’m saying this from immense pain.
Bro this is not all women these are just toxic ass egotistical narcissistic women that develop these horrible behaviors. This dude is full of shit and half the shit he says literally doesn't make any sense at all. It's obvious a bunch of super hot girls have thrown this dude to the side many of times because they never wanted to settle down. Especially when they have the ego the size of a planet. they think they can always do better. I promise you most women are not like this just the type of girls he's going after
No it'snot. Women's main essence is feminine, which is chaos and you need to be calm. What he is talking about is about little percentage whore of women. That's all. And he sells app to i1ncels like you
Immense pain fertilizes immense growth.
If you want a bumper crop of apples, take a baseball bat to the tree trunk early in the season. One swipe works wonders.
been there man and you speak truth
Trust me my dude she was never the one and if you use these tactics it might spare you a few more years but this doesn't work long-term. Literally asked any 15 to 20 year relationship and they will tell you this guy is foolish shit and has no clue what he's talking about. As they say never take it financial advice from a poor man so why would you take long-term committed relationship vice from a dude who only is used to dating women short-term. He can teach you how to get super hot girls but none of this will ever work long-term. You're creating a toxic leveraging game that doesn't stand the test of time 30 40 50 years.
WHOEVER controls "YOUR SEMEN" controls your mind!! this dude is right 100% nailed it!!
So it really is my body her choice. It was with my circumcision at any rate.
Did he actually say that? . oh dear god give me strength..
@Pegleg.withakickstand what's your rebuttal?
@@Pegleg.withakickstand Do you not know how some dudes act? Latterly blowing things up bc their partner left and things of that nature. What about the dude that just ended is daughter and ex wife’s life?
Yeah that should be you! then non of it would happen its called SELF MASTERY
For men who have kids and an ex-wife who are dating or getting close to getting remarried this video is extremely important. My dad remarried a woman and violated all of Casey’s rules, and the result was that they pulled me out of the private school that I was in from kindergarten, made me lose all my friends, then sent me away to military school because she didn’t like children. My dad was willing to do this because he was so head over heels for his new wife. Fast-forward a year and she’s cheated on him and left him after having destroyed his relationship with his son. I haven’t spoken to my dad since and I often wonder if it was worth it to him. Never let a woman control you.
We men make mistakes learned from your dad's ones
But don't let dad's ex wife to win and succeed in her commitment to destroy your relationship
Go and talk to you dad and make your relationship even stronger don't waist time with stupid tantrums, show your dad your are a real man.
@ too late. He died.
Much the same happened in my family too, my fathers 2nd wife did all she could to divide and destroy our family; over years he poisoned himself with chain smoking and it killed him. At least he cut her out of his will, then she tried to contest it because she wanted all. That gentleman is the true nature of women, they all have their own agenda.
@@ardshielcomplex8917 Damn...😮
basically same thing happened to my friend.
Have watched him his whole life gets used and abused by women
he is nearly 50 and still hasn't figured it out
Hope things worked out for you better than my friend
And if she can't break you, she will STILL leave for a dude that she can. You cannot win.
Truth
Bro this is so true when they see you don't fall weak emotionally they rather leave...women are v smart they have so much emotional intelligence
@TheBlackGlovesOfficial well how to win then brother? What’s your view
Based off that literally no one should be married ever and no 20 to 30 relationship exist at all. Period. But that is not the case meaning this dude is foolish shit and is only used to dating a certain type of woman that carries these incredibly toxic horrible behaviors that have developed from extreme egotistical and narcissistic attitudes
When she leaves for the simps, that is you winning bro
Staying single has brought peace and quiet in my life. Why would I want to bring their craziness in my life.
Amen. Need me a good church girl with family values. Might become amish doode
I know why is he selling a dating advice company...what a bunch of crap...
Preachers daughters are the worst.... Stay away from them. @derekjay.s
For some poo nanny. Is the only answer :/
@@derekjay.s can't trust those Church girls either unfortunately
This is incredibly sad. I've been married to wonderful Swedish woman for over two decades. We're a team that pulls each other up when the other is struggling and we celebrate our wins together and get through the losses together. We're proud of the family and house that we've built up together as a team. I don't doubt that this is how it is now but damn, it's depressing. I'm 50 YO now and probably witnessed the start of this nonsense in the mid 90s when women started wearing these tiny back packs and then would go out just to act like compete garbage to men. I went to Europe to play ball for food money and everything was different there. Men were not the enemy there and people went out and had a good time, everyone was way more approachable. Maybe it's social media, maybe it's all the Disney stuff but man - I feel awful for you guys.
You are one of the lucky ones.
Bro this is how it's been for the last 20 years
America did this
My marriage is turning to mush because of the things I'm seeing in this video. Her passion is gone. She has no shared interests with me. And she's constantly acting annoyed with my advances. It's good to know it's not just me. I barely get a thank you for what I do working full time. I guess it's time to form a band and spend my free time doing something I enjoy instead of hanging out with her and being treated like a retard.
A lot of guys are butthurt because they chose a bad partner and ignored the red flags. Every bad relationship I was in, I take full accountability and can pinpoint red flags I ignored.
Once I started thinking with my big head and not my little head, I now married an amazing and supportive wife
Every relationship I've been in has had this dynamic. If the man gives in and is emotionally controlled she will leave and cheat. If you resist being emotionally controlled she will stay attracted to you but will get anxious that she doesnt have that power and will redouble her efforts with arguments and tantrums. Being in an exclusive relationship at all is enough of a concession for her to start acting up.
The need for emotional control stems from the fact that women cannot control the world in the way a man can. So they have evolved the ability to control men to control the world on their behalf.
Well, fortunately there are women who have risen above such futility. But I trace this behavior back to Eden. Adam failed to say, "No. This is a scam. We are not eating the fruit," even though he knew better. So women have not trusted us since, and the more evil, deluded ones play these games. Although they are incapable of handling it, they try to wrestle the control they believe men are incompetently exercising.
Wow. Great comment. So true. Thank you
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!...question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy?
@@BLACKMASKSOUL491both probably but don't take her too serious,she's toxic,she wanna give you a doubt to put you down in your masculine frame. Remain stoic and takes control the power of Dynamic.
I believe she's testing you how you'll react to it , if you get emotional by getting jealous thats shows your insecure. I would just act like its a joke and ignore what she said and she'll obsess over you@@BLACKMASKSOUL491
the reason why she tries
to emasculate you
is not to actually do so
but to make sure
that u r actually
as masculine as u seem
and as she wants u to be
women are children - I have had 5 relationships last longer then 2 years a piece - and every single one of them ended with her trying to break me, leaving me thinking she can do better and making a bet against my future. When you commit to a women, the mind games do begin, because they get bored.
Makes sense why islam treats them as children
I get bored too - that's why I ended before they did. Eight times. I'm the Lord.
When you commit, they have to keep you small, so you don't have the power to leave them, keeping you around as a value leach. Even our moms did it
yeah but it is all subconscious, they aren't even aware of it, and you can't call them on it, because they won't know what you're talking about
That seems to be the basic dynamic. That dynamic can be much more lowkey in some relationships than in others.
Have all those five relationships been equally toxic? If not, what made the difference?
I feel like I am a nice guy that provides stability and peace around me, but it is never enough. She is always unhappy about something: her job, where we live, that she lives to far away from her family (they are 30 minutes drive away, my family is on the other side of the country), the color of the tiles on the bathroom, that the view is not good enough… and so on.
As soon as one «problem» is solved she finds something else to be unhappy about.
I am starting to think women cannot be happy with what they have got.
wrong! and ZANDAR's presentation in this video is truly unhelpful. 1. start with deep authentic communication---allow her to share her frustrations and LISTEN to her, reflect back what she is saying-and keep a journal about what you and her agreed to do to make the situation better; 2. seduce her daily; 3. when she rants, cries, etc. stand up to that wall of emotional, drink it in, be strong, and let her see that you can handle her feelings. reflect those feelings back to her without taking ownership for them, without allowing her to blame you for her unhappiness. I could go on and on. Good luck in learning how to communicate, something Zandar never covered here since in his conception the unfeeling, deeply disconnected bad boy is what women apparently want (no they don't!). They want a man who is emotionally mature and a leader--they want the best version of you, not some motorcycle thug.
No, they can’t be happy, therefore trying to make them happy is insanity. Best you realise if she’s unhappy you are happy
Keep working on your grind and ignore her. Dancing to her rules will get you nowhere. Tell her this, if she leaves she leaves.
@@pf4773I have tried all this, believe me. Why is it that they cannont be happy with what they have got? Hm? It is not my responsibility do make others happy. I’m not beeing a jerk about it, but I can’t take that responsibility. Happiness needs to come from within.
she doesn't want the problems solved, she just wants you to listen to them
I must have found a unicorn. She’s absolutely stunning, I asked her out on the second date, then four month later I broke my back. She quit her job to be my carer while I recovered and has supported me every step of the way. We have build a business together, made a home and do everything together. We have been a solid team through thick and thin and I wouldn’t be without her. She had every chance to leave me and I told her to do so instead of being stuck with someone in a wheelchair but she refused arguing that I am the kindest person she’s ever been with and she wouldn’t leave me for the world.
Stay blessed
you sir is luckiest person in the world to get someone who loves u that much some people won't even get this kind of love from their mother stay blessed both of u
Does your wife have enneagram 2 personality type? Sounds like she is a carer/helper personality. You are blessed.
The fact that anybody/everybody can only get this info online and not from birth in their family, means we are all screwed completely
The sad fact is that the f&^kery didn't start with you, it didn't start with your grand parents, it started with whoever the first man and woman were... Perhaps Adam and Eve.
we all are here because men in the past have always been oblivious to this info. If men knew about that in the past most of us would not be here.
@ good point
@@nowhereman7413 Ultimate truth has been told. So it means moving forward, Men like us who’ve understood this brutal truth won’t be in traditional marriages any more n the world would be in a much screwed up place with all daughters having daddy issues, n they stop breeding n humanity ends n AI takes over. What’d you think?
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy....???
Women has always been like this but not at the level we are currently seeing, experiencing. Social Media and the illusion of abundance is turning women into something different. Men are forced to adjust and adapt.
Yes, the depopulation agenda is going as planned. What you are astutely observing is an integral part of THEIR agenda. The downfall of Westernized societies is THEIR goal.
I have noticed the same thing, social and dating apps have magnify this natural instincts
The more times they have gotten fuckzoned the more agressively you need to employ these strategies, some women are ruined
I agree
More food means they get pickeir with what suits their never ending taste
Spooky how accurate this is. Immediately after our wedding, my (ex)wife's voice completely changed. Her attitude towards me changed too, like she was always agitated and had to pick on me like a younger sibling. The scary thing about these issues with women is they keep it hidden until you're committed, so there's no way to know who you're with until it's too late.
Some men do this too
That sounds like narcissism. My ex waited until after she was all moved into my apartment to begin the devaluation phase. Sounds like your ex waited until you were firmly in her grasp, or so she thought…
Are women who look for preselected men the problem here?
You dun mucked up. Did you change as well? If marriage changes people, those got married for the wrong reasons
@@TinyBaluga ofc but if men divorce they're on the losing end. Women are rewarded for it.
Who TF wants to deal with this ?
women
All that hassle sounds like hell
Majority of men.
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No real man wants to deal with that and no real man has to deal with that. There are thousands upon thousands upon thousands of men out there in amazingly beautiful relationships that are not toxic that don't have to act like this because they chose the right person not these fucking toxic ass women that he chooses to date.
no joke. two girls were fighting tooth and nail to be my girlfriend. the moment I gave in and gave them what they wanted. they lost all attraction. I mostly did it as a test. I wasn't really that interested in them anyways. now I know. Casey knows what he is talking about. listen up boys.
Sure, they were....
You had two hoes dude. Think about it, hypothetically how would you have done if you didn't give them what they wanted for a year +.
You would be mentally EXHAUSTED. That's why this stuff doesn't work.
Happened to me, too. I then realized that all they need is to NOT GIVE THEM ANY ATTENTION OR VALIDATION, WE GOTTA TREAT THEM AS TOYS. That‘s when they will never ever ghost and reject you.
Treat em mean to keep em keen!
Never chase buses nor bitch*s son!
Women mostly only value us men as meat.
M oney
E nergy
A ttention
T estosterone
*shrug* just because you have girl problems doesnt mean everyone else does bub
I don't know what your background is, but you broke this down masterfully. In 15 minutes I understood what psychologists failed to explain to me for 10 years. Now the picture is crystal clear to me. This is exactly what happened to me. I always looked for faults in myself, and now I realize that the only fault is that I was a good person.
Deadass
Absolutely ... !
Very well said
They will also try to figure out what about you is attracting other women and cancel it out.
Facts
Wow!
Mind-blowing
This is so true. Happened to me freshman year but fortunately I picked up on it. Now it’s happening to my 35 y/o friend who doesn’t have much experience and it’s just sad. You really need to know yourself before you get into a relationship.
Can't cancel out my good looks everywhere I go a chick is looking in my direction some even hold doors for me while I'm throwing out trash. Girls I don't even know. She can't cancel out shyt
This is why I'm single because I can't let them do this to me, they have no power over me
Get married to end up divorced 🤣😂
@@Alex-gt5ho And blue balls in a consistent basis
Smart choice👍👍
Isn't that just cowardice? Why not play the game?
@@wandereroftheabyss-w2hchange the game
Yep. That's why I'm 60 years old and happily single. I don't date. I don't chase women. I have absolutely zero drama and stress in my life. I look around at my friends and brothers, who either still date or are married, and they are miserable. Man up, guys. The ladies need us more than we need them. Once you realize that, everything changes IN YOUR FAVOR.
All you did was give up, not sure I’d be proud of that
@kieranlougher6576
That's a beta male comment, Kieran.
I'm NOT a beta male, like you.
A-hahaha!
So, there is ZERO reason to be in a relationship.
What he left out is even his strategies are temporary she will find a way around your bad boy act will become immune to anything you do. My strategy is better it's romance her share love and enjoy yourself until it ends that could be 3 months or a year. Then find a new one.
In the modern world……basically. Women (generally speaking) are almost genetically coded to be cold hearted callous snakes. There are exceptions but what he’s saying is true. It’s funny in a way that without technically saying it……it’s like he’s saying your comment. Or go find you a 2. 🤣 But……..he is right regardless. They’re never happy. You’re a catch and don’t want me (she wants you) but by that reasoning it wouldn’t work obviously because you don’t give a fk. If you’re “truly” a good catch, high value good dude…..it’s like a myth to them & impossible so it becomes like a goal of theirs to destroy it (you) to prove you’re not. Even if……yeah you we’re you’re just a crzy btch who ruins shtt just to please their inner schizo. I read a study where over 70% of women “already HAVE” their backup & some have their backup’s backup. That math is TRUE. Is hella alarming. And should make everyone NEVER trust. That’s why it “seems” all these girls coming up now personify toxic. Because now they’re becoming more obvious about who they ARE. And why their dreams are to make it. Which is defined by high $$ success doing as little as possible which means having an OF site. It’s honestly pretty sad. And it all ultimately boils down to societal rot. In the 50’s it was Leave it to Beaver happy homes. 60’s largely the same but a step in wrong direction then 70’s the same & so on. So now in the modern world these women give absolutely 0 fks. I’ve seen them over & over do the most viscous shtt while smiling about. They’re like empty souls who are coded to destroy. What’s different from now & 50’s though? Divorce rates now make it almost inevitable. Cheating is normalized, overly sexualized society where it’s normal. I mean don’t even go looking for it & I feel I’ve almost seen every set of tits on the planet. Nuclear family largely destroyed so homes are split. Religion has been branded as toxic (I’m not even religious) so kids aren’t being raised in principled happy homes where morals values & ethics are engrained. And all of this, are the ingredients of why, as sad as it is…..really is almost pointless to “seek” anything worth any type of value as far as a relationship goes. Better off playing the lotto. That’s also why you see these videos of random women in the streets being asked how much a guy has to make for a “chance” with them. Like they’re fkn queens. And they’ll all say some ridiculous shtt like 500k
Drag them. Then it’s the men are dogs conundrum. But…..you have no choice. Because this is the absolute truth.
I think define what you want out of the relationship and find the right ones for the job whether it’s fun, companionship, children,etc.
Also keep in mind, all employees eventually leave. The company keeps going.
Choose wisely King
Bro, coming from a sexist, not all women are like this
@@James-hd7fpget outta here beta-male simp !!😅😅
i experienced the same thing between 2020 and 2022. The minute i told her i liked her and wanted us to be in a relationship, that was when the chaos started. She constantly tried to emasculate me, control me and tried to cut me off from my loved ones. Fortunately for me, i had a little bit of red pill knowledge at the time so i told her i was leaving because she was abusing the love i had for her. This was around 2021. She pleaded that i give her another chance. When i gave her a second chance and she realized that i was on to all her manipulative games, she purposely self sabotaged and destroyed the relationship. The funny part is, after we went our separate ways and she realized i was indeed never coming back, she started chasing me. But i never let her back cos she was coming back to finish what she started.
thanks for your report. Sad. We should have gotten Lilith instead of Eve...
Was in a relationship with a chick but I told her I’m never getting married to her or any other girl. Made that clear probably 3 months in. She was the first one to say I love you, my response was “ Thats good to know, if you really feel like that”? Never said anything back but instead checked her, so basically shit testing her. I dominated the first 6 months of the relationship being natural in all interactions from displaying of protection, being handy, having attention from other women, looking good and dressing well. Only thing was spending too much time with with her as e relatable relationship progressed. The tests later started. I would catch some right of the bat others I would catch early on preventing total emasculation, putting her back in place and not making mistakes after discussions. It was these little of mistakes I made that played out very well for me, as she had overreacted, getting very angry, then kind of observant as she was watching her own theater show, then having crocodile tears and being distant afterwards, classic. Next opportunity I had I told her “Hey I can’t do this anymore”. She cried and said what was I doing? Then left and called my sister telling her, in hopes of fixing it, kind of like she new it was the end. It was the end. Not long after that she got married. But before she got married she left me a letter under my car windshield wipers. Basically she was willing to stay with me unmarried. So we were both early thirties at this time so for her it was critical to settle. The guy she married was probably clueless of anything. To me it was suspicious she got married so quickly. She probably kept him as backup while she was with me.
Personally I wouldn’t have given a second chance. However what you mean by “she was coming to finish what she started?”
@@Reptifitness basically she wasn’t happy that I moved on with someone else. So she would message me out of the blue to start fights and arguments, trying to blame me for us not working out. It was something she used to do a lot and back then I would admit I was at fault just for peace to reign. So she thought she could continue guilt tripping me with that
That she needed to get the last word , to humiliate and scar him further, the need to make her self image amongst peers , a victim.
Wow, the timing of me seeing this video is perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not
I feel your pain , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
As soon as the directives start, you tell them it’s not negotiable and show them where the door is.
Stay strong, stay single. 👍
That’s the alpha
Iceberg Slim (Pimp: the story of my life) completely details every w0man's "psychology".
This might be your best video ever. I have experienced everything you talked about over a number of years and as far as I am aware all of your checkpoints are in order and they can be tested. Well done my son. I am 66 single and been wary of women since day ONE!
I've also personally experienced most of the stuff in this video. Including getting rejected after failing a SMV shit test (many times) and the only woman who ever truly loved me was a woman I did not love back.
Women you don't love totally humiliate themselves when you decide to break up!
Always like that!
Always!
So consistent, it's impossible to be only coincidence.
It's a female pattern!
66 and single - how do you get over the fear of dying alone? I don't want to be 90 and all by myself...
@@gnarlytothemaxget children they will be there for you
@@gnarlytothemax am interested in the responses to your question.
For what it's worth, ultimately we all die alone whether it's on a bike slamming into a truck in a ball of flame or surrounded by our loved ones holding our hands in hospital, we travel that final path on our own. Often you'll be medicated out of it, so don't worry so much, just enjoy what you have while you're here and make friends, maybe someone will be there for you.
I love how even the commenters that are happily married are basically like “yep that checks out”
Yes 😂 🖐
True
Correctamondo maximus.
How in the world does a sane and healthy man want even a relationship and put up with that crap? Pump and dump
that's the key word. "sane" that's why men aren't dating or seeking ltr
Find them feel them fuck them and forget them. Advice from a teenager told to me when I was in my 20's. He was out in front!
Don't pump and dump. Wrong mentality. Keep yourself as your top priority, but never ever feel like they are beneith you.
@@jb4021 cant believe im saying this, but i agree. pumping and dumping isnt even worth it anymore because of the mental drain it has on you when youre done. you will feel this strange, yet ominous sense of loss... like youre missing something... a desire to go back, and put effort into something you know isnt meant to work isnt as enjoyable as it may seem. not worth it imo. people are meant to have regular sex with one partner, if they choose to have sex at all.. atleast thats how i see it. im just holding out until i self improve enough to where im self satisfied, and i meet a woman i want to be in a long term relationship with. pumping and dumping is just as toxic as the shit that they do. 2 wrongs dont make a right.
They love and chase Chads 🤡🌎
This is why Leo always leases & never buys
And Scorpios F*ck & Say Bye ✌️
@@dweez4703 Be a strong emotionally balanced man and choose a partner wisely..one partner. Other wise you will be an old drunk 70 yr old alone at a bar
😂
Has his fun for a year or two, then dumps and goes for a new one. It’s like upgrading to the new iPhone every 2 years
Well...he was raised by a bunch of gremlin pedophile people too....dark stuff
I'm a happily married man, my wife and I have been faithful to each other for 10 years coming up this fall. I only watched the first minute of the video, but after reading many comments I'm impressed to share what I believe could help many men. Your woman NEEDS to know that she isn't the most important person to you, and also that you aren't the most important to yourself either. God needs to be the most important person to you. Trust in God and an equally faithful woman will find you.
i realized the same. It is easy to lose your self to blind love, but you get hurt only because you loved that person as almost like she is god and it implies to your children and to everything and everyone. If you love only right one then you get cared by right one and everything else is added to you!
Just don't lose sight and blinf if something glittering comes along amd start run for it.
God bless you all!
Nah people are literally killing babies because God, religion is a joke, a way to control the mind, such a soulless device
Thankful that it worked for you. The ~50% divorce statistic in Western churches (and what I've observed in churchgoing friends & family) suggests that it's still a gamble, probably bc Western women born after 1965 are de facto feminists.
If you doubt this truth, ask the married women in your church what it means to be in submission to their husbands.
1. you have no idea if she was faithful, you simply DONT.
2. that could very well mean that youre useful to her. A religious honest man, WAY too useful.
1 Corinthians 11:3
“But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.”
Unfortunately everything this guy says is absolutely true
He´s got it
Nonsense, only partially true.I really break down the truth on my page
@@Mountainofcharmunfortunately you are wrong because everything he says is unequivocally true. It’s the objective absolute truth that superior to the convinient lies you’re selling.
It’s absolutely not true. Caring reciprocal women still exist.
Not everything, but mostly.
This kind of childish relationship dynamic makes cultures with arranged marriages seem the wisest of all. All this crap is bypassed. In such a culture, you have no say. Either make it work or bring shame to the two families involved.
Just arrange marriage within a traditional Church community ☦️
As an Indian I can vouch for it. I was victim of games played by them while in university. I left all of them to work on my career. And then got a job. And could marry the most beautiful. It still works after 20 years.
Most ppl don’t recognize how important continuity is with family and how quickly a generation can disappear so to prevent that and misallocation of inheritances, arranged marriages in its purest form was made. Mainly to not let a family name disappear into obscurity. Do you see what we are going thru today mass whore-mongering, single mothers/parents men fathering children from other men knowingly or unknowingly, this is all satan’s plan to disrupt and destroy what God made which is the family unit. It’s that simple but because of modernism we can’t detect it and call it for what it is. I guarantee they won’t change their ways until ww3 hits and they will live in fear that law enforcement won’t save them from this grapist or murderer or robber once their perception of societal security and provisions is questionable that’s when they will cleave to men like their fathers and men of the family looking for them to find a good man for them instead of the shit show of them choosing and fucking up constantly.
@@ManJ-dc9iu not working like that since a few years. Now girls are working and they demand you have your entire life sorted before 32. Buy a car, a house in a metro city, move to a 1st world country, have the future of your kids secured and also take her out for vacations
Agreed
And if they can't control you, they will turn to controlling how people view you. That's where you gotta look out..
bingo
Don't give her ammo. Make her look crazy for talking bad about you. Women will make you a powerful force if you let them.
You just described exactly my 6 year relationship that just ended. Described better than any of the dozens of relationship videos I have watched. I have been so sad and just wanted answers. Thank you for rationalizing this so clearly.
Search the “ no contact rule “ it helped me after my break up. I followed it to a T…she eventually came back . I was never going to call her again. EVER
Keep preaching brother.. these simps will never learn
How the fuck are people still getting married?
This enlightened brother just broke down and gave out the entire feminine playbook and strategy!
I have huge respect for your content, I think that you are partially right in this video... but my parents just celebrated their 50th anniversary; they've been monogamous...and were both very attractive when they met... they are both very committed to their relationship, but my dad always had his own hobbies, wasn't needy and kept his autonomy, not groveling at his wife's feet.... something a lot of guys miss today, giving too much of themselves
The exception to the rule doesn't dictate the overall masses. That's why it's called the exception. You goofy.
The brain washing was very different back then, it is possible for a woman to be loyal but it takes a hell of a lot of social pressure which no longer exists
This@@hugevagiine
I am 99% sure that what he is talking about in this video is a product of the modern age we live in. Now don't get me wrong, of course it's part of human nature to want to have the best possible mate. But the commodification of humans is new, as well as the cold individualism that tells you that you can do whatever you want so long as it's legally possible. In other words, modern society has not only enabled, but even strengthened hypergamy to the point where it is destructive for all individuals and society as a whole.
@@hugevagiine exactly. 50 years ago was 1974.... Being promiscuous was absolutely shunned and she would be an outcast. This is not the case at all today .
Treat her like your life will be better without her basically . 🤷🏿
No brother, more like your life will still go on with or without her
With 90% of American women it will be.
Well, it will. The happiest times in my life my wife isn't home or I'm away for work.
It’s funny. A couple years ago I would have called this guy a misogynist. But having experienced what he is trying to describe I realize how I was, and so many other men out there are, so naive about the game of relationships. In the modern world, women have so much power because of the internet and technological advancements. Men need to understand what this video is teaching because it’s truthfully how the game of life works, and not only in romantic relationships.
@ completely agree. As the saying goes, the truth will set you free but first it will piss you off.
Same. The "maybe it's me" thinking was half true. Every average dude born after 1965 is indoctrinated to be a cuck.
Well said. Agree 100%
@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT a Morning cookie of culture, I see
So, you would really like to have a woman that you can cut off (if you could) from the internet and technological advancements?
Her goals are to get your money!
Fifteen years ago. I had a partner who suggested she taking control of my finances so I could save money. What a brave irony: Our relationship was my main expense.
@@DrNova-hj6comy soul has been struck. I see and feel these words my guy stay up !
😂😂😂 Great comment
Never pay a woman for sex
Get a sugar mama.
Wow! This guy is spot on. Best observations I've heard. He laid out the roadmap of every relationship I've had, and I'm in my sixties!
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So true ..... 50 years old and married 10 years ... They want the power ...
Always have multiple women on deck. Be loyal to your bag and purpose, nothing more.
That is the mindset of an insecure man with no morals.
@@RecreationalUseOnly Just stop making decisions on lust. Test her integrity. Increasing your chances of a fatal STD with multiple partners is not the answer
It's just a waste of time and money.
You’re still stuck in beta mindset smh
@@kojoefante
By definition, incorrect. Because he is moving on his own terms.
THANK YOU!!! FINALLY, SOMEBODY SAYS WHAT IT IS!! I talk about this topic often, but it makes most people super unconfortable. Only facts, Preach Bro 🙏🏽😌
One day I spent the whole day talking to her, giving her my whole attention. I thought she was already into me. Next time I speak to her she tells me she just kissed another guy who she met at a party and she is no longer interested in me. She tries to make me feel good telling me it wasn't my fault and so on. And dissapears. Never make them a priority or they will treat you like a piece of crap. They will laugh at you and loose every kind of respect they had. We had been talking for months, that one mistake and she was lost forever.
It’s like with a bank or insurance company: they don’t reward loyality. Only after you change do they call you with a better offer.
Many women truly are their own worst enemies.
Bingo - they need that reminder that you have other options
Yep - one take from this video for me is that basically women sabotage themselves. First, they enter a relationship with you because they feel attracted and excited. Second they undermine the very thing that made them enter the relationship - which is you, your value as a man and your strengths. Third, they are unhappy with the relationship they ruined so they move on to the next "host".
I guess I need to change insurance then, and see if they lower my premiums.
Oddly good analogy
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I have experienced all of this hands on this year with my past relationship. Still recovering months after breakup. Be carefull guys.
I get it man. Your girl is on her period. We are with you brother ❤️🙏🏼👍
Love is war . Constant battle . When you let your guard down , you lose.
Thats hard to hear
thats FACT with capital letters
That's not love. That's just a fight over resources. And yes, as a guy you are a resource.
Emotional rollercoaster, push and pull
Should be a dance
I’m 55 years old, I’ve been dating since I was 15 . Married for 15 years, divorced and dating for the past 14 years. I’ve had some nice relationships in that time and A LOT of real world experience and I can tell you this video is SPOT ON.
Of course not every single woman out there but the majority . Believe me , learn this when you’re young to save you a lot of unhappiness.
"Not every single woman out there but the majority". Judging by all the other commentors, apparently this is true. Its not even remotely true for my second wife. It may be partially true for my first wife, but in my first marriage, I was a major contributor to the problems of the relationship. But I will tell you this: Most people suck, men included. People are so easily warped and pulled off course of being good and set on a course of fear and destruction upon themselves and everyone around them. Its nice that this video points out the pit that broken women fall into. What's *not* nice is that it says "this is all women". That's total BS. These behaviors fit "broken" women just like half of the population of men is completely broken. The reality is if you aren't broken, then avoid broken women. Use this guidelines to detect bad women and find good ones. Also, if you've got a woman who exhibits bad behavior, show her what is wrong with the help of this video and help her fix herself. We're all broken and need help to improve. I hate the lie of this video saying "this is just how women *are* and live with it." You could tell the same lie about men.
TOP LIE IN THIS VIDEO: "Women feel love and passion for man who are NOT faithful and have options." OMG WHAT a lie! Maybe a broken jacked-up woman is like that. A woman with her head on straight will dump your ass in a heartbeat when she finds out your are not faithful. And it should go the other way. A man will be turned off and want to dump a woman who is also unfaithful UNLESS that man is an idiot! This video is all about toxic broken relationships -- it is NOT about partnerships where two people *want* to build trust and loyalty and faith in one another.
Based on the foolishness of all these commentors agreeing, I'd say humanity is in a worse state than ever. And its not the fact that we have jacked-up broken women that's the real problem. Its the fact that the guy in this video and all of these commentors think jacked-up broken women are an acceptable norm that represents a healthy woman. Pitiful
My wife left me, several years later she was crying and said I was supposed to beg her to come back. 😅
Many women relive their trauma when their daddy left them. As adults, they do this to 'feel something' rather than nothing. They create drama (trauma) so they feel normal again.
Psychology is nuts.
They only think emotionally. That’s nuts
She's wanting to make you feel guilty for her decision for leaving you.
She needed to assert dominance and you didn't alliw her.. good for you
Are you serious, she actually said you were supposed to beg for her back? Am I reading this right?
Mann I wish I had this video by April of this year. Coz that’s when all of the pulling away, picking up fights, shift in vocal tone n starts delusional fake scenarios n getting angry about it, n be resentful when I resolved them all commenced.
The dumbest thing I did was propose to her for marriage on March on her birthday in front of all her close friends. By the next month everything started going downhill. And honestly I couldn’t stop it no matter how much mature, honest n indifferent I played.
It happened exactly how Casey described it, she started distancing, then slowly picking up topics that she knows would agitate me and still did it. Later got a sick sense of satisfaction from it when I tried to resolve them. As casey mentioned above “look at how much he tries to save this relationship”. She even Saying that sex was great when you thought you’re gona lose me and laughing about it. I knew what was happening at that time and said she could leave n cannot treat me like this. That I was not fearful of losing her n so on. She imagined I got fearful of losing her where in a million miles I never even behaved or said anything that conveys that to her. Fast forward no matter whatever I did n stood my ground, she found ways n reasons to destroy this relationship one way or another and ended our 5 years relationship in August blaming everything on me. Saying she could not be herself and she’s gona find the best one for her.
Women are fckin ruthless n ungrateful creatures when it comes to their emotions n feelings. No matter how much of a meaningful life you’ve built with them. Which is why never trusting or take any woman seriously fckin helps.
It’s Dec 31 today and I’m still in pain of how worse and verbally abusively she ended things. That too over a phone call n refused to do it in person. Couldn’t digest is this the person I lived with for 4n half years. I’m Suffering mainly because of my guilt of what else could I have done if I had this video back then. How strong I would have held my frame n ground during that chaotic hurricane. 5 fckin years for nothing.
Hoping next year I’m going to be the best version of myself by taking all these brutally hard learnt lessons in pain and live accordingly. Wish me strength n positivity if you will, N I wish you the same for this 2025. Cheers
@human_08 - it wasnt for nothing. You have probably learnt more than you realise through this past relationship.
@@KJ-pu8dwTrue. Ukw mann The moment you realize you have a lot of experience with women, not make any weak mistakes n finally think you got this, the universe be like “Hahaha You know nothing child, now suffer in pain for even getting that thought. How dare you”. Only to realize there’s no end to this.
@@human_08It's a brutal awakening then you can learn that in the hard way, Women come n Go, Money come n Go, Bro keeps your dignity ,your confidence and your self respect intact and move forward with your purpose and goals. The Time is the best teacher.
@human_08. I can relate cause I went through the same thing last year same time. They just can't be serious and I learnt to give no fucks.
i experienced the same thing between 2020 and 2022. The minute i told her i liked her and wanted us to be in a relationship, that was when the chaos started. She constantly tried to emasculate me, control me and tried to cut me off from my loved ones. Fortunately for me, i had a little bit of red pill knowledge at the time so i told her i was leaving because she was abusing the love i had for her. This was around 2021. She pleaded that i give her another chance. When i gave her a second chance and she realized that i was on to all her manipulative games, she purposely self sabotaged and destroyed the relationship. The funny part is, after we went our separate ways and she realized i was indeed never coming back, she started chasing me. But i never let her back cos she was coming back to finish what she started.
My advice to you in your future relationships is never let her feel that you need her more than she needs you. And always be willing to walk away any time she gets disrespectful.
The only way to combat this is to have options, so you don't care when they start acting up. Once they do anything slightly disrespectful, you completely pull back first, then they start chasing. If they start arguing just switch your attention to another girl, and so on
Bingo!
The only way to combat this is to abolish all women‘ s rights, now
Our ancestors were right in everything, turn back the laws and only then society will return to peace and harmony.
This is 100% true. Everyone should watch this video, especially young men.
It’s not though. Plenty of good traditional women in the evangelical community; bad ones too for sure, but definitely a higher chance of good than the secular world.
@@hissingoose Gotta keep those feminist lies alive somehow right?
Sharon Stone in the movie Casino portrays this perfectly
I was thinking this, she is a really good archetype of modern, Western women. And Sam Rosthein is a good example of what a lot of redpill dating coaches say EXACTLY what NOT to do.
@@xxczerxxSpot on bud, Lester Diamond keeps her chasing by showing her he doesn’t give a f*ck about her. Rothstein goves her everything apart from what she really wants….
@@xxczerxxCorrect!
Then I divorced her but she loved me so much that kept my last name. 😂
They keep your name as a trophy, to humiliate you, like a scalp.
My ex kept my name but then I changed it! lol.
I had a gf that would always try to find a little comment to tear me down in front of other people and then say she was only joking.
Thats a psycho
Before adopting this world-view…remember, this mainly applies to low-quality women. Also, he’s not married so the guidance on managing relationships should be taken with a metric ton of salt.
I completely agree I’ve met women that are very different from what he explained and I’ve seen how a lot of what he said is bullshit, it’s only bs because he says all woman.
Yea, he’s spot on for the trash out there but I dont play with trash. Never, ever, have….but, the general idea of needing to be solid to handle the feminine IS spot on. They will ALWAYS test you, even the good ones. So be you, be strong, pass the test, and let her go if need be.
@@Igod708-G“i have met women who arent like this“ youre a naive boy with an anime profile pic.
I agree. It comes down to the level of consciousness. Higher concious, enlightened, God-loving, conscientious women aren't like that. But you still probably shouldn't get married if you want her to keep feeling the tingles down there. Always be willing to walk away - the cornerstone to any successful negotiation.
@ exactly attachment and over communication of how u feel about her will push her away. ❤️
The fact that he said that they will go through this process in their 20s, 30s and even 40s multiple times shows that it's unlikely to be a natural, sensible thing, and more likely to be a result of being spoiled rotten by modern society. Sad.
Yup
They're still "Figuring it out aged 50"
Oh no. Even the ancient Greeks talked about women like this.
This is how women are wired.
Now, father's treating their daughters like entitled princess makes it worse
Women don’t grow up, they just get older.
I could listen to this 100 times. The most engaging video I’ve watched in a long time
This is strain not only mentally but no healthy man who respects himself will tolerate such
Sigmas gonna sigma 🤗🤗🤗
@@starzgalaxy17 you know what the best solution is to not even have this in mind, like whatever she does shouldn't affect you, they are harmless really, unless they're psycho or smth
Why they start crying out on the TV
A battle between desolation and sorrow leaving behind destruction or strength
FACTS FACTS FACTS everything you explain is completely correct, I experienced it and the same patterns are recognizable during my dating processes, the point is and remains as an attractive man never shows too much interest!!!!
It’s surprising how people are only scratching the surface and don’t take the time to read Flirtosphere Seduction. Go out of the rabbit hole guys
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Nice plug diddy
I can assure you my Gs that Casey is just as horrified writing this shit on the whiteboard as we are reading it
I’m actually not. I could care less tbh
@ Strategies to adopt a detached and stoic mindset…the importance of self-love and masculine honor…would appreciate your thoughts in a future video - God bless my G.
@@CaseyZanderget a dog....
.and Lysol..for when ur chick leaves..spray the furniture down....snail trails 😂
@@CaseyZander lol
@@CaseyZander this is supposedlah the way that the jewish god made it? LOL this is why our ancestors went a-viking every summer before all the pussificemasculation bulllshit forced upon our people. Thank Gods it's only been a thousand years
One of the reasons I stay tapped in as best as I can to Casey is the fact he illustrates both hemispheres of attraction and maintaining relationships or atleast understanding them. Which is physical first but the internal & cerebral which is truly the battlefield where the mating game is fought. Most other relationship gurus barely skim the surface of this concept . We can look have movie star good looks and attract the opposite sex by the truckloads but keeping a woman or cultivating a relationship in today’s social landscape is where most of us falter. Understanding real social dating dynamics is more than half the game 🙏🏾✅👑
Under-appreciated comment. I think your explanation goes over a lot of heads.
Fellas, basically, a relationship is far more than just keeping her happy. While you don’t need to disrespect her, she needs to view you as an asset that she can lose to another female because of her actions.
This all starts with having boundaries and staying true to who you were WHEN she fell for you.
You need to be insanely good at reading the room and understanding all the social nuances that could lead your girl to feeling like the grass is greener elsewhere.
At least I hope I interpreted this comment correctly 🤷♂️
You can't make a silk purse from a sow's ear. The odds of finding compatibility are against you. Don't waste time on learning "tricks". Just keep sifting through the dirt until you find a nugget. Move to where there are better pickings. All relationships are temporary, because life is temporary. Keep your options open, seize opportunities when you get them, and forget about monogamy. That is a structural trap designed to advantage the woman. Never get married.
He speaks facts. Women will only be interested in you if other women are interested. Her attitude will become shitty as soon as she knows you are locked down. Men: don't be a punching bag or a doormat. She doesn't want a "yes man", she wants someone who she has to work hard & pursue in order to get your time & attention. Push back and remove your attention the moment she starts the game of shaming words, belittling you, criticizing, or loses interest in you. Learn how to maintain calm In the midst of her ridiculous tirades. It will infuriate her, and take away her power. The fastest way to get her attention is to remove yours. It's sad that we have to play this game, but so true that women will pine over the 1 guy they can't have, even if they have 10 others that are amazing. Women are never happy. I will say it again: women are never happy. They only want things they can't have, and if they manage to attain it, they lose interest quickly. Women thrive on drama, and if there isn't any, they will create it out of thin air. If you want to be in a relationship with a woman, you need to master these principles, and be aware of their true nature. Men love completely, while women only love superficially. Never expect more than that.
Finally someone that understands my pain. Thanks, Unc. I needed this. You just got a new subscriber.
Narcissistic women are like this, I don’t think all are. Not to an extreme extent. You must not let a woman control however. Or allow yourself to be devalued
Yeah, it takes time for some of them to show their true selves, but spotting a low-value woman as early as possible is key to preventing catastrophe. I look for the SIGNs: Shaming, Insulting, Gas lighting, Never wrong, or Needs to be handled.
@ agree 100%. I’m feeling pretty cynical about women atm. I’ve definitely notice many try and manipulate themselves into a position of power in a relationship. It’s tiring. It’s annoying when women show lots of interest then try to put me in a position of rejection just for a stupid ego boost. Even if I aren’t interested. It’s ridiculous and childish.
True.
@@richard.c.guitars Even the bible says women would try to dominate their husbands. Eve got a 2 part curse. The 2nd. part is the most important part.
"and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee". Desiring your husband is a good thing it brings closeness and creates babies, but here it's something bad. What is her desire that is so bad as he would have to rule over her? By context desire must mean to dominate, to control, to rule over. The Hebrew word used here for desire is used only one other time. Just before jealous Cain killed his brother. God tried to speak some sense into him. " Sin crouches at the door it desires you, but you must master it." Sin wanting to dominate him, but he must push back against it. Two different verses but same context, so you can rewrite Eve's and her daughters curse as this " and thy desire(is to rule over, dominate, for control) shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee( push back). The only difference between individual women are how well they can control those cursed impulses. In today's world women are encouraged to dominate men making them servants . and women viewed as the perfect sex thanks to feminism, and men needing fixing.
Fast forward several thousand years and Jerusalem is about to be taken into captivity by Babylon. The women have taken control over the society of the city.( not necessarily heads of government or power like that) They have fully objectified themselves, putting on whatever fineries they had to gain the male gaze. Walking around in a sexual manner.God had issues with that and told the women he would strip them of all they had and pluck their hair out leaving scabs, and their fighting men will die in battle. When women take over a society men become weak, and weak men can be conquered and everyone is left vulnerable. We see the same thing happening here today. Instead of women putting on excess clothing our version is taking off as much clothing as possible.
Yeah, I don't think all Women are like this either.
He is 100% correct when it comes to western women
I think the worst part is the fact they deny and act like were crazy when we say this... Even when you explain this to people you have platonic relationships with parents aunts etc. They will say youre buggin lol
Someone was puzzling why his oldest friend had started opting out of having a couple of beers together recently. His friend had recently moved in with his girl, who had become pregnant.
I shouldn't have said anything because if he couldn't see two giant red flags then he probably wouldn't like friendly advice. All I said was this guy had new responsibilities and most likely trying to navigate competing priorities.
As expected, he blew up. I really should have just smiled and said 'I hope it works out' because some people can't see the wood for the trees.
The part where he talks about the woman will watch you “try” really hit. It’s so true. Choose wisely kings. And always be willing to walk away.
Excellent Video Casey.
Bro., if you go through this again you will realise it doesn't matter as much who you choose. This is true for all women. Only some more than others but this is the definitive breakdown of what's happening.
The reason this is true is actually very simple.
Throughout history a man's survival depended more on him than anyone else. But a woman's survival depended more on her man than herself. Hence women are always scanning for the best man to improve their chance at survival just like men. They just do so in a different way. They look for higher value men.
Imagine this happening for thousands of generations. The women who survive more are these very women. Hence the instinct is passed on and represent more and more of the female population. This behaviour is in their dna.
My wife’s goal for me is about 80% love and 20% control I would say. And even the control part is usually motivated by love because what she wants to control is unhealthy behaviour like eating or drinking too much. And she has maintained that for thirty years.
Guess I am one of the seriously lucky ones.
My recent girl knew I was a cheater and adored me and wanted be with me everyday. But eventually they will still disrespect you. Which she did. With her foul mouth she still wanted control.
Exactly! Casey's strategy only prolongs her interest yet she will eventually become immune to the bad boy act. Why? Because the bad boy act is just another advanced form of simpery! She will discover your act is all to retain her attention then the inevitable will happen still.
@@kenkenichi7461that’s why you can’t have it be an “act”…. If you really are the “man” you will control the frame always. She will always be head over heels for you. Yes sure there are gross hos that aren’t worth it anyways but there are plenty of decent women and most guys can’t accept that they most likely lost her because of their own faults. It’s not a black and white world of course you have to pick the right woman too but all women regardless of who they are will leave you if you end up showing her you’re a lil b-ch
@@kenkenichi7461have a harem of woman ..that's the only way
@@kenkenichi7461 man you’re wise!
@@kenkenichi7461😂
exactly what i allways thought all my life, i have been with a lot of girls and is the same song for all, same manipulation tactics etc, omg they are so boring. thx for this masterpiece video, it made me feel so much better for real, u a master black belt
So the Valentine's Day ad with the Couple and the Diamond should say" "Are you in Love?...or is she in Control?"
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Hypergamy has its purpose and is a good thing. But today's hypergamy feels like it's on steroids thanks to all the social media. You can‘t keep a modern woman.. She‘s never your‘s, just your turn. Had to experience it this year too. almost 9 year relationship. hard pill but life must go on.
This is so true. 25 yrs in relationship. I truly don't care anymore. They all the same.
H. L. Mencken - “Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence”.
He also noted - "Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another".
They used to say "just be yourself". Well i was myself and it got me here
Sending a hug over to you. I’m lost as well in this world. We have been played
@Danleesixoneonetwofive thanks man. I know the right answer is not to be pathetic and wallow and self isolate and give up. But at this point dude. You look around and see people in the later stages of their life with nobody to love them and wonder if that will be you. There's not many things I value in this world other than connection with others and to find someone that loves you the way you love them. And apparently expressing that love is not the right way to go about it. You have to play weird social games. I just can't do that man. And guess what. Nobody gives a god damn if you don't ever find anybody. Because this existence is an awfully twisted horrible place. I just try and be a comforting zone to somebody but then you just get used for your comfort. And friendzoned. So idk man I appreciate your response. If you ever wanna chat hmu
@@Danleesixoneonetwofive I think I'm gonna take a trip to mustang ranch
@@Roland_Hubbes That’s good for the soul :D
@@Roland_Hubbesdon’t feel bad I’m 46 and never had a girlfriend 😂. My childhood friend was right, quit being nice to women and they’d flock to me like they did him. I would watch him abuse and treat them horribly and screwing 4 to 6 daily and he even beat up his girlfriend at my house and spread her open and told me to get me some, she was red crying screaming and everything. He was cutting his chest bleeding on her for fun cause he was nuts. And after I told him I wouldn’t rape her and I finally made him stop. She fell in love with him more and actually said, I hope you mess up and get me pregnant so you’ll have to marry me. I knew right then women are stupid 😂. He showed me the more he abused them the more theyd try to get his attention and approval. And he’s ended up with the perfect wife, she makes money refuses to spend money. And he hasn’t even kissed her since the day they got married, he told her, you gave me a BJ I’m never kissing you again 😂. And for years he abused her badly. He even trained her to not cook the same meal for at least 60 days or it’s going on the ceiling and floor. And she never refuses sex either. She did one day, and I was sitting by and he said, that’s the worst thing you can say because your not the only vagina on earth need me to prove it? He’s a master. And got a wife that actually told him to return the 3k wedding ring he gave her to help pay the rent that year. Not many women will do that. Lucky bastard
I think you're hitting some targets, but slightly off. A woman is a follower who occasionally checks to make sure she is still following. If a man cannot control himself emotionally, including love, then he loses respect and she feels less inclinded to continue to follow him.
Women take more than they give and are generally less loyal than men. Treat them as temporary, overpriced luxuries, until and unless they prove themselves otherwise.
Always place yourself first, always.
Cope much? Following is an emergent behavior and strategy, not a fundamental one. You should listen and learn.
@@justdoityourself7134..nah..comeon man it's true Tho in this deprived world..that's is a good strategy
@justdoityourself7134 It's fundamental for women, emergent for men. Fortunately, the mind is neuroplastic, and so men who have been traumatized can work themselves back into form
@@justdoityourself7134 It's fundamental for women, emergent for men.
Fortunately, the mind is neuroplastic, and so traumatized men can recover and heal themselves back into form.
I agree with the first part (you nailed it) but not the second part---women do not take more than they give and are not less loyal than men. If you allow bad behavior they will show it. If you spend money on a woman at the start of the relationship you've taught her that this game is in play. If she demands that you spend money on her or she will not even consider a first date, then she is not healthy, a bad woman, and no more attention should be given to her.
Basically, a good guy cannot be his authentic self in a relationship with a woman. I've experienced everything he talks about just being me. The song "Girls just wanta have fun" is true!
A long-term relationship always has different phases and the end result for women is boredom! Regardless of what others tell you, as long as women have options, they will apply them until they no longer have them. Once they reach that point, you don't want them!
I will not play their games, and I will not be someone I am not! That's why after one marriage I remained single. If you set boundaries, you can bet your ass that one day the woman will cross them.
Glad to hear that you and so many guys are out of the game of finding a committed relationship because you see women in such a toxic manner---just opens the field for me and other guys who recognize that Zander's points are incomplete at best. If a woman is behaving as Zandar describes there are only two conclusions: 1. the woman herself is emotionally immature and unhealthy, and you shouldn't be with her; or/and 2. the problem was YOU-that you were a weak, non-alpha, not a GOOD bad boy (strong, emotionally mature, a good communicator able to pull her true feelings out), etc. f YOU are a weak, girl-dependent guy who does not put energy into seducing your woman, who cannot stand up to her emotional tests and emotionality, than you have failed her, and deserve what you get. For every guy that said, "What?! Why did she leave me? It must be because she was this or that, you are completely missing the point, that frequently it was YOU who didn't know how to keep her attraction alive. 70% of divorces and separations (Pew Research Council) are initiated by women, not men. Since women are DISPOSED to nest and want a strong partner to nest with them, do NOT give me this BS that the women just want to flake cuz they are purposely out to look for a jerk who will cheat on them, who is irresponsible, can't communicate emotionally. Missing in Zandar's points entirely is the importance of regular and deep communication, authentic sharing of feelings, frustrations, with a plan to address them. And how to seduce your woman daily!
@@pf4773 It's a math problem, you can be all the things positive like you pointed out and keep a long-term relationship in place, but very, very few of relationships can hold a woman's feet to the fire indefinitely. Have you found your unicorn?
I never said I was out of the game, but they have to chase me because I don't care.
I'll bet I have been through more rodeo's than you, my friend. Don't lecture me.
When are you getting married Professor?
Contemporary women no longer fulfill any traditional female roles and they have no hobbies either.
Their whole worldview is that of prostit,utes.
spot on
Same here, divorced for over 25 years, I married once, put my "all" into it....and unfortunately she turned out to be the type that wasn't faithful to ANY man...according to my kids anyway. You try to give women the benefit of the doubt, thinking that they'll grow up....but they never do. She's in her early 50's and she's in the process of ruining her 4th marriage, splitting from her 4th husband, chasing after a married man, who was a H.S. boyfriend who refuses to leave his wife(he lives 1.000 miles away, so they reconnected online I'm guessing), I haven't spoke to her in many years, and I never initiate any contact. Neither of my adult daughters (30 & 32)have spoken to her in well over a decade, but they get the latest gossip from their younger half-sister when the kid (21) calls them to "vent" her frustrations over their shared mother. She leaves a wake of destruction, emptied bank accounts, scarred children, impulse bought pets, and ruined men in her "path" thru life chasing the next dopamine hit.
This man preaches the good gospel. Haven’t subscribed to a channel in years but this is worth it.
I can attest to this shit with several experiences. It is an utter and complete nightmare. so I checked out many years ago and now I couldn't be happier
Women are a nightmare dressed like a day dream.... or something. Its in the song... its in the song!
Listen up to 1:55. The solution to this issue is to date multiple women and when one woman starts to be difficult drop her from the rotation and add yet another. 😂 ❤
The reason women can be hypergamous and unfaithful is because of the 20% of men who think like that. That minority is destroying women and the dating market.
Bingo!
"Unfortunately" It needs to be like this so she doesn't control you.
sure if you're a Chad
But what is the solution to gaining a loyal woman like grandmother who stayed loyal from the age 24 until grandfathers death at 89.
I love this guy !! Thankyou brother you’re the only man that has the balls to call it as it is !! (Maybe an older less attractive woman desires a healthy relationship) but like us men power is where power goes !!
Dude, you and this whiteboard absolutely slay me 😂. Your content has HUGE VALUE. The thing to add is even women who appear CLUELESS to this vs the ones that are outright obvious, are one and the same. It is in THEIR NATURE. It’s absolutely hilarious when you take the red pill. You can’t go back. You can however go forward and forward my friend is a much better place to be.
Disagree. This describes 90% of women, your task is to settle with the 10%. Never stay with the 90%, your life will be hard regardless of your actions.
You are wrong is 100%
So basically the 10% rule apply to both men and women if we take into consideration women's hypergamy. So guys behave just the same - your words not mine.
You are correct it’s 90% of women in the west between 18-44
Inclined to agree, but the 10% are taken.
He is describing a 10% of conventionally attractive women who get carried through life by those looks and are toxic.
I noticed it's better to break up with a woman in silence, as it avoids a massive drama, and potentially other worse things
A good man actually loves himself and loyal to himself. Good men make women earn everything
Their are men and their are males
Good males don't get into long term relationships. Those are the dudes who lie to themselves by pretending like they dont want to be in an open relationship just because they want to keep the girl. Good men are honest to women so that the woman can choose to stay on her own on his terms. Go check out Mr Locario on the real information on dating
I disagree that a woman can't love you. I was married 26 years to a VERY loving wife. She always wanted best for me and never tried to control me.
You need to start going out with a better group of women.
That’s how she controlled you 😂🤣😂
While I have not experienced that in my 24 yrs, and seen many needless divorces, there ARE some truly loving women as I've seen in other marriages
@@computerhelpcc They exist and women at age 30 are far different than 21. I do admit social media which is new versus back when I met my wife is really bad for men as every average woman is told how hot she is. But, the good ones are out there.
*W.A.S.* married. So it wasn't successful.
@@πατριχορshe might have passed away
Sounds like many of you have been hurt by immature women. I'm sorry to hear that. Not all women are like this. Work on your heart, and don't throw your pearls to swine. I love you my brothers. Stay strong.
Casey you have a gift my friend. Thanks for sharing with us. This needs to taught to all males growing up. Seriously. The heck with Geometry. This needs to be taught in H.S. Through university level or even a trade school.
Bro is writing calculus level lectures for modern women. Love to see it.
Hoemath has a fun channel as well
I’m in a 4 year relationship plus we have a kid together and everything about this is true. It’s like the worse I act the better she treats me. It’s very strange.
smfh!! “women!!” always do the opposite to get better results
I might name my son after you bruh....You drop so much game for men & I've put some of these things into practice to see the reaction of women or I might think about why a woman acted a certain way in the past & everything you teach all adds up!!! You are a Legend bro...💯💯💪🏾💪🏾....I appreciate this game you drop because it's gonna keep men on top of their game 24/7 dealing with these women....& most of all not being played like a sucka....
I had a girlfriend who told me she would make me fat and happy which she did to make me unattractive to other women but then later told me i wish you were still in shape like when i first met you. She had also made me unattractive to her.
You did it to yourself.
That's your fault not hers, you compromise your health for a fling, you don't value yourself as you should
RJ you are correct about the health thing. But ended up lasting 18 years because I knew what really attracted the women to me because I have excellent hearing 👂 and can hear what women say behind my back. she didn't leave me.
This video should serve the ultimate reminder to put your phone down and stop wasting your time with youtube.
Yet here you are…
Commenting.
The irony.
The truth hurts.
But the truth is the truth.
And because I was a good man to my ex-wife, I was never good enough for her and never would be, because I never knew until you just explained it.
Thank You Bro.
Yeah, the moment you start complying it's over.
Yes, never give her certainty
@@brentonl Didn't even watched the video. I already knew this one mate.
Thank you for the much needed content.