MLLH&R: What it means and why respect is absolutely everything to bikers...
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- Опубліковано 22 бер 2021
- MLLH&R, what does it mean? Why is it such an important phrase to bikers, specifically those that are Harley Davidson obsessed? Something happened today that lit a fire for me. I was so angry to see someone with a serious struggle, a disability, disrespected. It launched me into a hissy fit so I thought I would talk about it with all of you.
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I think Mike Tyson said it best...
“Social media made you all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it.”
Exactly.
Gonna borrow this quote
It had to be said and I'm glad you did!! That statement had been thrown at me several times for trailering my softail custom from Atlanta to Daytona. My late wife had cancer and was going thru treatments and couldn't ride far. She loved to ride, in fact it's how we met in 1974. She insisted I buy this bike in 1998 while she was going thru treatments. She wanted to ride with whatever time she had left. She passed away in 2002. I still have her bike. She never piloted the softail, I call it hers because she insisted I buy it because she said I deserved it. She also said...I could never sell it without her permission.
Yawp...it's all about respect!! Thank you!!
Oh brother, what a great story. Keep that bike, and screw the mouthy ones.
@@ProfessionalMonkey my son the HD Master tech keeps her bike in top shape and I ride it, often with her helmet strapped to the passenger pillon.
If you like that story, I've got many more I plan to vlog on my channel as soon as I figure out the whole UA-cam thing.
Like you sir, I'm a story teller and have been a REAL biker all my life
When you put those stories up I will listen to them
Dusty, sorry for your loss Brother! Far too many people have been touched by the dreaded "C" word! Loved your story! Remember her always! Peace!
@@jaykelly7992 thank you Jay.
Just not a biker thing my friend, it's a life thing!! No matter who or what you are, everyone deserves respect!! Thank You for sharing!!
We only deserve what we earn...and give.
I'm with ya, brother. I'm 56, have rode with a diamond club since I was 20.
We would give the guys that would trailer their bikes till about 30 miles from rallies, then change into their dirtiest clothes and claim to have ridden the whole way. We called em "trailer maggots" (replace the m).
But if ANYONE wants to trailer their bikes the whole trip, then asks for help unloading, we would be more than happy to help. Then you have a woman that wants to bring her disabled daughter & trailers their bike the whole way... that is a woman with CLASS.
The first person I hear call her a fake biker because she didn't ride the whole way, he will be lucky if all I use is a ball-peen hammer. ML&R
Absolutely!
Everyone deserves a certain minimal amount of respect simply for being a man or woman created in the image of God. If you would like more respect than that, you need to earn it.
That is the sad truth there doesn't seem to be enough respect in the world.
I am a Veteran, 37 years old, never riden a motorcycle in my life, have spent some time as LEO in one form or another. I absolutely have to say, I completely agree with this video and your channel, I just stumbled across it. I remember dealing with the Banditos and the Angels one time in 2012/13 as LEO, I knew and still know nothing about bikes. I was sent on a noise complaint. They were all in thier cuts, total of maybe 50, and 2 of us. I respected them, they cop and bacon joked us, not being able to restrain myself I added one or two cop jokes. Who can dis me better than me. But I remained respectful, and didn't bs them about knowing about bikes. Finally someone in charge motioned us over, I explained the situation respectfully, and we all met a common ground, and I was happy to be able to walk back out of the pack. I fully believe and have for decades, give respect to get respect. I absolutely agree the lady and daughter mentioned, that's freaking awesome! I hope you all ride safe and enjoy the view.
Ascribing to the concept of "Old School Respect" would fix so many of our society's problems.
That is the truth! Get rid of xbox and spanking on the behind re-instated..make them work for allowance, would all be good for a little respect
Really liked this video. Thank you.
you're totally right, now that we got that completely disrespectful orange maniac outta the White House, maybe now the US can go back to some kind of normalcy. maybe there won't be any more mental cases with guns trying to overthrow our lawfully elected officials and stage public hangings during official proceedings.
i agree with you 100%.
Abosofuckinglutlly
You had me at "me and 6 other guys would man-handle that bike out for you" it's not just how bikers are but how we where brought up to help others, as others would help us when we need it.
ESPECIALLY help older ppl. Disabled and new people wanting to learn. It's starts somewhere,
I am 71 years old and I have a bad back. I trailer my bike because I can no longer do the long runs. I catch shit all of the time about it. I consider the source and ignore them. The person who said that has no class. Agree 100% with you.
hey anyone that talks shit to you? Ya got more miles backing your sled up to a bar than they got riding at all. 71 years old? Hats off to you.
Riding at 71 gives you a pass on most things. Not that you need one to put a bike on a trailer, but, f**k them. Do your thing. I'm almost there. Late 60s, fake hips, fake knees, riding more than a snowflake would believe.
You been riding long than a lot of folks have been alive! Check out Athlean X on here, he probably has some videos that will help with the back stuff. Sure helped me.
Keep on keeping on. New methods, gear, machines.....whatever it take, I'm going for it
Still on 2 wheels at 71... thats respect.
You're absolutely right sir, my dad said all the time you don't know everyone's story. Respect or say nothing.
Bless that lady and her daughter. RESPECT!
I'm not a biker, but I like listening to you. As the father of a daughter with a disability, your empathy and perspective is much appreciated!
Thanks for covering this - let me add, Don't call me "Brother" - very few have, or ever will earn that right. Pet Peeve.
Good point. I do when I really like someone, but not right off the bat. That's reserved for those that wear the same rag as me for the most part.
We need more people like you in this world. Looking out for those who sometimes can't look out for themselves or need a helping hand. Much Respect!
Thank you!
Ya man
No apologies, please! Good subject, good talk! Thanks
I appreciate that!
That is the one thing that all the things wrong in this world comes down too the lack of respect
Yeah if I saw that dude say that to her in person at a rally his ass would be taking a nap.
Thanks brother. We are better than that. 99% of us are big hearted like you.
Thank you.
I don't know...maybe maybe not. I've seen entirely too many instances of so called "brothers" acting like complete elitist 1%r morons. I have limits. I have witnessed far too many fellow patch holders exceeding them.
God Love You. I have been going to Sturgis with my brother-in-law for 19 years and we rode our bikes there for many years. He can no longer ride because of Parkinson and no longer can ride or be passenger on a bike, but we still go. The difference is I have a toy hauler and purchased a trike that he can ride on. I also need the trike for my wife because she also can not ride on a bike. I do have my Heritage which I still ride. Per you advice, I will now carry a ballpeen hammer ... Ha!
Re educate them MFers. Keep going as long as you can!!!
I'm a disabled vet. I wish I could ride all the way to sturgis. But there is no way I could. So if I was going I would have to trailer my bike.
It always goes back to the internet. People wouldn't say that to them in person. Keyboard warriors get their kicks off stirring shit up.
People on the internet are always talking about my bike (1994 Sportster 1200). "That's a girl's bike", "When are you going to get a real bike?", etc. Yet I've never had anyone say that to me in person. I've always had the mindset that I don't care what you ride. If you ride, you're a brother (or sister).
Every time I go to the Harley dealership one of the sales guys asks me if I want to trade it. I always tell them no. It was my dad's bike. He passed suddenly and it was my inheritance. I'll never get rid of it, and I ride it for him. It's the exact bike I always wanted. #1 because it was his, but also because it's just a bike. An engine, a seat, some tires and handlebars. Nothing fancy, no extras, just me and the road. Now after riding it for a few years I've started wanting another bike. Something that gets more than 80 miles a tank and saddlebags so I can store rain gear and everything else. But the Sportster won't be going anywhere.
So right! We gotta get better at this!
Love watching your videos. Have to say this is one of the best Brother. I have a daughter (grown now) with a disability, Tourette Syndrome. Watching her grow up was hard the adults were worse than the kids. The problem is people are too fast to judge before they open their mouth or make a comment. Thanks, MLH&R
MLLH&R. My best to your daughter, such a cruel illness, and yours right, adults are the worst.
This may be your BEST video yet! You are EXACTLY RIGHT. My wife and I both enjoy riding and we ride as often as possible. My wife has back issues and after about 150 miles, she's ready to call it a day and I respect that. To say she "isn't a real biker" is an insult. Thanks for the rant.
Thank you, and tell your wife to keep on riding as much as she can, and screw anyone that talks crap.
💯 agree. Loved this video. My wife also loves to ride, but does not like interstate riding. For the longer destinations, she either follows in her car, or we trailer. I’m not sure if I should be angered or truly feel sorry for those that feel the need to bash a total stranger about their personal choices.
In my van I installed a Harbor Freight remote control winch between the two front seats so if my bike ever breaks down or if I need to haul a bike I can easily load it in there by myself. If anybody's looking for an easy way to load a bike into a pickup or van by yourself I highly recommend a remote control winch and a ramp.
Good idea!
I was at an HD Event and a rep from S&S was there. While I was looking at slip-ons for my bike he came around and said "Whatcha Ridin' Bud?" I replied "Sportster" to which he laughed in my face. I instantly saw red, kept my cool and walked away. I got the Sportster because my father was killed and it was passed down to me. Thanks for the video, this one hit home.
Screw that guy... Man I hate judgmental A-Holes. Take care of pops ride, that's awesome that you have it.
We never know what is happening in someone’s life, keep it shut unless you want to help. While you were telling the story, I was like plenty of us will help you get it off the truck. Great message my friend!
Thanks for that
that lady deserves the utmost respect God bless her for wanting to give her daughter the experience of her life .. Hope to see you in Sturgis Im going to attempt to ride my triglide up from texas
Take care!!!
LOYALTY, HONOUR. RESPECT. These words were drumed into me as a young fella growing up in the UK. I was a "troubled" youth (which basically means i was always in trouble) A close family friend ( i called him uncle Bobby) who was a long serving member of an MC (of coarse i won't say which MC but surfice to say they are well known and are legit.) Anyway he took me under his wing and put me on the righteous path. He taught me to show respect to everyone, untill such time that they showed me they didn't deserve my respect. This is how i've lived my life and it's served me well. Uncle Bobby was a huge man coveved in ink and looked like he would rip your head off if u looked at him the wrong way but in reality he was a rightous man with a heart of gold and only those who disrespected him or those he loved need fear him. People are to quick to judge before they know what kind of person someone is, what they have achieved or what their going thru, so thats why i show respect untill such time they show me they don't deserve any. My uncle Bobby has passed on now but the lessons he taught me remain with me and i'am forever grateful that he was in my life.
RIP Uncle Bobby... thanks to him for setting you stright!
@@ProfessionalMonkey Yes. I owe him alot.
Been in the life for 50 years. Starting when I was 22. I am now 72. Heard "you should ride it" said by a lot of tramps hundreds of times. Never thought it was a cool thing to say. Always thought there were some good reasons for some to haul their scoot. Went to Sturgis 12 years in a row starting back in 1989 when it was even wild and woolier than it is now. Saw a jerk get his clock reset for hollering that at some club members once at Spearfish City Park. I always rode to the rally but as an oldie I can't do the ironbutt stuff anymore. A suggestion for the lady wanting to get her scoot in the truck. I checked into power lifts and man are they pricey not counting labor fees for installation. I got a nice utility trailer with a tailgate that is a ramp for under $700. Very easy to load the scoot on and tows like it's not even there.
You nailed the biker community on the head. If there is someone treating you like crap, there is going to be someone saying it's on. There are people out there willing to be a brother or sister and they don't even know your name. That's what it's all about. Respect.
I'm the small short dude that would not accost the a-hole, but damn straight I'd try and help those that need it. That's part and parcel of being a biker.
Respect is a huge word, you hit the nail on the head. A lot think they're super bikers behind the keyboard, but in reality, respect shows what type you are
I call those individuals couch riders . Most are sitting in momma's basement on the keyboard and go to the local Dealership and tell the salesman what a POS a 35,000 dollar bike they are and they ride a Vespa .
I learned the code of respect riding my dirt bike in Northern VA, where we rode through a small group of Pagans who were parked at a dead end where we accessed the power line dirt.
They stopped us.
They were drunk & high.
One of my buddies gave them a pack of cigarets.
They were Vietnam War vets.
We thanked them for their service.
They offered warm beer.
We chugged it.
We were 14 or 15 at the time.
We crossed paths other times.
Another Pagan lived at a motel where we drove him to a liquor store when we got our drivers licences.
The motel was our meeting point before riding the Grass Tracks before it became Shirley Industrial Park.
I bet there are some here who remember that place.
Hundreds of dirt riders tore that place up in the mid-'70s before buildings went up.
Amen. I rode for over 10 years including two trips to Sturgis, Tail of the Dragon, Arkansas Dragon, Iron Mountain, multiple cross-country trips racking up thousands of miles each time, and even Donners Pass on a really sh!tty! night to be doing it (look that up if it doesn't mean anything to you), and so on. Torrential rains, sideways winds, 120 degree deserts, you name it. Mostly on an older low rider.
Then some years back I got taken out while on my bike by a drunk driver who crossed the double yellow. I wasn't supposed to live. I did, even with compound fractures, crushed bone, and a broken neck just to name a few. I had to learn how to walk all over again twice due to complications.
Seven years later and I'm back in physical therapy. I still can't ride for multiple reasons, however I haven't given up on my dream to get back on a bike. I'll have to start back really small. There's always a trike if that doesn't work out.
However that will mean trailering for sure. There'll be some a-holes out there mouthing off about not being a "real" biker, when I'm certain this b!tch is way tougher and way more "real" than anyone with the nerve to say dumb sh!t like that.
Much love & props to that mom! People just love to judge when in reality they should keep their traps shut.
I am so glad you're still with us. I hope you get back on soon, like you said, there's always three if two just isn't in the cards. If anyone ever gives you crap just tell them that someday if they work real heard they might be as much of a man as you are... That oughta get em!
@@ProfessionalMonkey ain't that the truth 😀😀😀 Thank you!
Do not judge others Least ye be judged.Well said my friend.
Amen Brother!
Yeah, people are gettin all too complacent everyday.
You never know what what kind of day someone's havin, or where they're comin from...
I dunno, that shit's not me, and I don't get how they might think it makes 'em look tough, or whatever they're thinkin...
Much-love bro!
Love the channel!
I've walked away from a few groups. I've never fit in, I've never belonged, a Vet group didn't even respond to me and I'm a Cold War Vet, 22mo on the E/W German Border, 2/2 ACR F Trp. I don't have a Harley, my first bike was a 79' KZ1000 ST I paid $400 for (I've owned 2), my 2nd was a 79' GL1000. I just bought a 21' Vulcan 1700 Vaquero, my first "bagger" and I love it. Ironically, after I bought it, a number of used HD's showed up I could've afforded. Oh well, I'm happy w/what I've got, brand new w/a warranty. My wife actually talked me into it because I was having trouble getting parts & service on the other bikes. I live in NH and I've never been to Laconia during the Bike Week, never mind Sturgis. Mostly because I don't own a HD. Even been treated w/disdain during a Memorial ride. Just one more reason I usually say f%ck people and stay to myself. Just saying.
I'm sorry you have run into that sort of stuff, just know that it's not the norm...
Yea, that falls under the "if you don't have anything nice to say", because you never know their angle.
Thank you, thank you for this installment! I am in 100% agreement with you. I’m so sick of hearing people say “you’re not a real biker if.....” Some people need to get it thru their skulls that we’re a family even if we’ve never met. And as in any family, we have varying circumstances and problems that we deal with that weigh us down, that others may not even be aware of. The important thing is that we cast off those things to come together and BE A FAMILY of bikers. It doesn’t matter how a bike gets to a rally, it matters that we’re there to have a great time for the week. If I ever heard that guy say that in person, he’d be kissin’ the dirt. Been looking forward to the live stream for a couple weeks, count me in. Give my regards to Mrs. Monkey as well. Peace.
My lord, I was starting to think I was losing my mind thinking this way. Respect and common courtesy are becoming increasingly rare in this day and age. You couldn't have said it better.
THANK YOU for all the info that you provide ! No matter whether it's an MC or a riding group , there is almost always at least one individual that has something to say about everything and never has any respect for their self or anyone else , even local HOG chapters have these problems ! I learned respect from my Father and Grandfather , both being Veterans and then I gained even more respect for others no matter where they came from or the color of their skin , because we all bleed the same ! There is good and bad in all people , it's what's in your heart that counts . All I ask is that if someone is going to buy a bike and haul it to a rally and they have not ever rode or it's been years since they have been on a bike , PLEASE TAKE A SAFETY COURSE before going anywhere as the course not only will save your life but maybe someone else's to .
Hoss U.S.ARMY 69-71 RVN
This is a great channel. I stumbled onto it looking at tech vids for my dyna, and i'm glad i did. I rode with BACA back before i got hurt, glad to see you guys still having fun and living the mission.
Right on!
"You be You" - now that could go on a tee shirt!
You're alright sir, take as long as you need. It has been a long, bad year. You're right tho, respect has been lost over the years. Think it started when spanking was frowned upon and then got changed to "child abuse". It was back when I was growing up in the late 70's that my dad just had to look at me and it was understood to watch what I say or do next or it may be the last time I'm seen alive. I do that to my kids and yeah they feel "entitled" but I brought out the belt enough times and they know the look to say to themselves "maybe I ought to think about this before I act or open my mouth". They're getting to the point where they don't need to even re-think their thoughts so that's a sign that they'll be alright in life. Cheers to you good sir, happy "medicating". :)
Oh, THE LOOK.
Hey Monk! I agree with you. Whoever made the "real biker" comment probably ain't one themself. I've been ridin H-D's for over 40 years, and have rode to rallies all over this country, on everything from panheads and shovels to big inch wideglides and roadkings. My dad was an old school 1% patchholder since the 1960's. Bikes are my life. And yep, I've done an Iron Ass trip twice for the hell of it. But I'm in my 60's now, with a shot set of knees and a bad back - I just can't ride the 600+ mile days anymore, but I can ride 5-6 hour days when I'm AT a rally. So in 2019, for the first time, I trailered my bike to Sturgis, and I'm doin it again in 2021. I'LL BE THERE, and I'LL BE RIDIN MY BIKE WITH MY BROS. But, maybe I'm not a "real" biker anymore.... Nuff said. Ride free, friend.
I guarantee you're the real deal because I bet you do what you say, when you said you were gonna do it. You take care of yourself up there and I hope to see you!
Amen sir, it's all about respect. These youngsters don't get what it was like to be a biker in the 70's
Great video and great message for everyone! You never know what someone else is going through in their life and it’s best to keep your mouth shut and show some respect.
I saw you on the Firechat with the Boys and subbed. I'm SO glad I was not able to sit in on the live stream because I ride a scooter. NOT a 49cc scooter but a Suzuki Burgman 650 Executive Scooter. Also known as a Big A$$ Scooter. I've had hip replacements ( Both Hips) and a Left Knee replacement. Like you said, you don't know the circumstances on why I ride a Scooter. You have to have thick skin to ride a scooter, which I do. I have a bunch of HD riders at work that LOVE to bust my balls on what I ride. I know they're just kidding and love to kid me about it. I'm 61 ( Going to be 62 in July) and retiring from Bridgestone/Firestone Plant in LaVernge, Tn after 29 years this November. Man I am so ready.
I'm selling the Scoot and getting a 2021 Can-Am Spyder RTL. My balance is becoming a question so before it bites me in the butt, I'm going to nip it in the bud........bud. LOL Anyway, I asked a Can-Am Forum about if the new Can-Am's have a TPMS on board. Of course, some butt wipe says, "Been down and check it with a gauge and get some exercise. ( What a Do-Do-Head)
I've been on UA-cam since 2007. Been doing this for a long time. I don't do it for the money, I do it for fun and a record of my motorcycle journeys. Call me Old School. Great video buddy.
I have a son with Autism and it is an everyday thing. Unfortunately, empathy is a lost trait in a lot of people out there. Much less showing respect... I wish things were different. But thankfully there are people out there who believe in doing the right the thing, and helping your fellow man/woman out. People like you and the Mrs. That's why I love watching your videos! Not only is there great content, but you are good people. Thanks for being you!
We try but man the jerks wanna win don't they! Our best to you and yours. That is a tough road for sure.
Hell yes! Great message and I'm thankful you keep it positive.
Nailed it! Keyboard muscles!! I said on one of your other post. I rode it on my Softail from Jersey in 09. The guy that I had service the bike prior said , oh you’re riding it? I said yeah all proud of myself. He says , yeah you’ll do that once & that’ll be enough. Damn was he right. At least from Jersey it’s nothing but highway and cornfields unless you have all the time in the world. What a boring ride! Sturgis is amazing. Why would anyone want to take time away from riding in sturgis. Now I have a streetglide & guess what, it’s going in a trailer cause I wanna get there ASAP and enjoy the amazing roads in that area. If I’m not a real biker because of that. I’m okay with that.
It's true. I go about 5,000 miles from South Florida to Sturgis and back. With the exception of a few miles in Tennessee it is the most mind numbing drive on earth. I do three 800 mile days, sleep in my rig at night, then put on about 2,000 miles in the black hills when I am up there. Because I am fresh I love every freaking minute of it.
There are two ailments some people have; one is a brain mouth disconnect where they speak without thinking of what they are actually saying, the other is a heart brain disconnect when they talk without thinking of how their words will make others feel!!
I'm late to the party here, but what you're talking about is on thing I like about riding. As a subset of the population, we tend to watch out for each other.
I've helped and I've been helped. One of my favorite experiences was pushing my old BMW sidecar rig after I holed a piston. I was on the shoulder of a busy highway pushing it home. Cars whizzing by uncomfortably close and not givingva shit. A guy on an old weathered Honda pulled over and minutes later he's towing me with one of my straps. Wouldn't accept gas money. Just pay it forward.
Mad respect for addressing this. ML&R
Thank you for this video, for your empathy, and for sharing this. Hopefully we all learn from this. :)
Thank you!
A couple of years ago, I took on a 5 month contract job on the other side of the country. Heard a lot of
"Why didn't you ride?"
I'd have loved to, done it before and I'll probably do it again and, but let's step back and look at that particular trip a bit:
The gig required packing up quite a lot of tools and equipment and hauling it 3000 miles each way.
Moving a couple of tons of gear, my 235lb ass and my 14 yr old, arthritic, 90lb pittie who wants nothing to do with bikes that far seemed a lot to ask of my Heritage. That's why I have a truck.
Since I don't have an ol' lady and my dog refuses to learn to drive, the obvious solution was to load the bike in the trailer with the tool boxes.
But you still get idiots who are far better at beaking off than they are about thinking.
I'm glad to see you bring this situation up.
I'm semi guilty of this (towards myself), not where I expect everyone else to ride that distance but I expect myself to do so. I don't care how OTHERS get there, just how I do. and I will be one of the first to (try to) help someone load/unload their bike. Being disabled myself I completely get it.
I can see one advantage for sure of trailering a bike. you can come back with bigger/more stuff from the rally. I'm gonna turn into one of those old codgers with long grey hair and long grey beard that gets his shower riding in the rain even if I have to eventually be on three instead of two.
When its all said and done I don't care how my FAMILY gets there, I'm just glad they are and its a giant reunion.
something I learned from I'll just say a different lifestyle is T.H.R.I.L.L. Trust, Honesty, Respect, Integrity, Love, and Loyalty.
Hello from Canada. Keep up the great work. You rock.
I can relate to this and ill admit i am a rookie biker but nit to worry i don't wear premade cuts with patches that say hey kick this guys ass ha ha! But anyhow i have a neighbor that belongs to an organization he saw me working on my bobber a couple of times i finally got her in running condition that bike is my pride in joy he straight up told me that i have his upmost respect because i worked in it myself snd made it my own i was like wow what I've learned so far is the motorcycle community is awesome especially one time ehen my fuel pump stopped working i was on the side if the road then this guy on his bike stopped to help get my bike running again i think everyone should ride but of course when i am on the road i run into that one cocky dude time to time like I'll do the wave but not get one back no biggie 1986 VT700c bobber greetings from sodak
Love you Man!!! Awesome video!!! I was recently hammered by those comments on a facebook biker group page when I asked about trailer size for 2 Harleys. I even prefaced my question with how we rode our bikes for many of the rallys we attend but with age and more than one close call on the road, we just aren't as comfortable with it anymore.
There's always gotta be one, right!?
💯 percent agree!
Preach brother preach I'm behind you 100%
Thanks.
I've been trolling some back episodes of your vids and brother of all of them, this one hit home the most. Respect.
I remember at one time it was only L&R. The way crap is now, I only sign it to people I know. A lot of times instead of L&R, they should should just say "What are going to do for me tomorrow?"
Keyboard warriors...dislike them...thanks for venting what we all have been thinking!
You bet!
I totally agree, Well said!
Loved this video! You should remake a version of this every so often as a biker community reminder.
Like many, I started riding at 18 or so. I really was not good or acceptable as a rider, until I stuck my Ego in my back pocket and told it to shut up. I was the silent guy, unless asked. Then I just answered - with no attitude. It is sad that a keyboard is how people communicate right now. We have weathered 400 days+ of have our nerves rattled. Some don't handle that well. As parents - kids and all - we all know life is hard. I wish I could back in time and remove that message you speak of, but as you say any moron can blow out a candle in a second. It takes love and respect to hold back the breeze and light it again. Cheers!
I do like when you are in a good mood, but this was a great video. Keep it up and thank you!
Thank you! Will do!
I applaud that parent for putting in the work to have quality time with their children, ultimately creating memories. Violence doesn't always correct arrogance.✌Nice video by the way. Just checking inn
Thank you.
I am 35. I just bought my first bike. Its a 88 Harley 883 hugger. Its rough ish. It was laid down. But a guy thats been riding for years in my neighborhood has been stopping by every other day with parts for me. I road it for the first time yesterday. And today. Ive had people giving me tips and helping me find parts. Great community great people!!!! I will definitely be paying it forward whenever I get the chance.
i find myself telling idiots quite often: if you don't have anything to say to help, simply move along
Gotta love these FACEBOOK GANGSTERS!!! They wouldn't act that way in person!!! GUARANTEED!!!💯👍👍
I grew up in Brooklyn around guys in the life. When a real gangster walks into the room YOU KNOW IT
here here i totally agree
I was returning from a club event in Baltimore MD and stopped for fuel when I hit VA. When I pulled into the Sheetz I saw a Marine Police 4x4 getting gas and a pickup with a sporty in the back. When the dude and his ole lady came out of the store, I asked him if I moved into an alternate Universe. They were confused by my statement- so I explained the Marine Police was not in a boat and the Sporty was not being on the street. Then everyone started laughing, including the Popo.
That is pretty funny.
Had a friend of my moms tell me after I got my first bike "You are not a real biker unless you ride at least one day each month through out the year". This was in June and the fallowing June I told him I did it. Normally not a big deal but up here near Lake Erie, October through April is not a good time of the year to ride LOL. Needless to say he apologized profusely for saying that to me and said he thought I knew he was joking and thought I had been riding longer then I had.
Yup, what you said Monk! 👍
Truth Monk! Nuff said!
I run into this type of crap a lot...I ride a can-am when I ride with my wife because she has vertigo and cannot lean in corners. People talk shit cause it's "not a real bike" not knowing her issue and that she just wants to enjoy going out on the bike. I ride two wheels when alone but isn't riding just riding?? When did bikers become so consumed with what you ride and how you ride it?
Pro Monkey, you’ve said it yourself while explaining the respect aspect and how to behave at biker functions/bars/rally’s etc,,etc. you said Quote: “this is basic kindergarten shit”. I agree 100%!! It’s Sad that these days courtesy, respect, and basic manners and common sense have to be explained at all. The fact you have the intestinal fortitude to keep hammering these lessons to people who should already possess this knowledge from a young age, says a lot about you!You are appreciated, keep em’ comin.
Thank you sir. I really appreciate it!
Hell yes. Tell em brother tell em !!
Right on
wish i was going to sturgis. maybe next year. much love
You have to give respect to get respect what goes around comes around
Hello, thank you for bringing this foward its a big topic.Iam 62 built 2 of own Harley chops and road many many miles and still riding my chop. I want to say ( Respect )has been the most important part of all my riding memories . Thank you for infoarming the masses. Ride on ,Nick.
If I was at a rally and someone needed help loading or unloading a bike… I’m one of the first people that will be there to offer help. Same thing when I’m at the marina, if I see someone launching or docking, I put my work down and offer a hand. It’s just the right thing to do.
you are good person !!!!!
Amen man! You be you, ill be me, love and respect to each.
First time commenting on one of your videos. PREACH on man. This could not be more spot on! Thank you soo much for giving this topic air time and making everyone think beyond themselves!
I appreciate that
Dude , I am so glad you made this video ! The way to make yourself feel better about yourself is not to bring someone else down to your level , but by helping someone else and taking you both up to the next level . Much love and respect , and I hope I see The Monkeys in Sturgis this year !!
Well said! We will be there!
Never trailered a bike to the Rally. I've always had a touring bike and lived kinda close. Some day I want to take my Pan Chopper and I will haul it. Do your thing, it AIN'T my business.
Great video Monk. Totally agree 100 percent. I have a saying I've used for years for people like that. " If you aren't feeding me, fucking me or financing me, mind your damn business." Rock on brother, Safe travels
ABSOLUTELY!!!!
This story underscores one of my core ideals: Seek first to understand and ONLY THEN to be understood...
Anyway, found this channel recently and love it...thanks for discussions...
People who have no loyalty and honor do not understand RESPECT. SFMF
Good advice for anyone. I am a social worker and I often have to stop and consider what the other person is going through
You are absolutely correct, none of these keyboard warriors would say anything to anyones face … They need educating properly! MLLH&R
I live not far from Sturgis (6hr ride), last year I worked at the Ironhorse Campground and helped numerous people load and unload their bikes..now I do have a shirt that says "Nice Trailer You P*ssy" I very rarely wear it. My dad is 100% disabled, he can still ride but when he comes to a stop he tips over. This year I want to take my dad to Sturgis BUT we have 2 Corgis that will have to go with us as well, so I will have to find a trailer to hook on the back of my camper and trailer out this year for the rally. I want him to experience the rally since he never has. If I hear anyone saying we should have rode, I'll need bail money lol Now everytime I've gone, I've slept in a tent, so this will be my 1st year taking a camper let alone trailering my bike. Hope ya'll have a safe ride/travel out this year and maybe see ya at the Beaver Bar for a cold one!
As a Veteran of 25 years in the Army and two Purple Hearts, 11 deployments, and having some pretty decent everyday aches and pains, I would have a hard time not throat punching that guy! I, personally, would ride. But there are people that have different circumstances that dictate what they are able to do. I love your channel! Love what you are doing! Keep doing you Brother! MLLH&R!!
You just hit it on the head. To each their own, but respect each other for their choices. If it doesn't hurt someone else who cares, right?
@@ProfessionalMonkey if you ain't hurting anyone but yourself! Do it again!
I'm not sure how I wound up on your channel, and although I've enjoyed and been enlightened by (I'm not a rider) several of your videos, this is by far one of the best videos I've seen on UA-cam. Great job.
I've been watching your videos for a few days now. Been riding harleys for years but keep it pretty local. Going for my first long ride in a few weeks and was a little nervous about encounters with bike clubs. You have educated the s#$t out of me. Your videos are great man. Keep em coming. You've got nothing but respect from me buddy.
My man you’re so right and I am so glad you brought this up, so many “tough guys” love to hide behind a freaking keyboard, it’s really easy to criticize or bad mouth when they are clueless. Maybe people do need a hard reality check when they get mouthy when they’re in their house!
Welll said thank you for speaking your mind,and saying what we’re thinking!
Respect starts at home, I have a 5 year old biracial grandson, that’s probably gonna have his problems cause of it, but the little guy says yes ma’am, no ma’am, yes sir, no sir, please thank you, and if anybody says anything about him, they’ll get the ball peen, love the video, I show for respect my elders, LEOs, military, first responders, just a little more than average cause people tend to give them crap nowadays. But regardless awesome video, keep up the good work
Appreciate your thoughts and beliefs.... You are spot on and I know you will help her and her little one have the best of times and make memories that will last forever and show that there are still good people in this crazy world we live in now......