How can in laws lead to divorce. I mean I understand there are shitty inlaws and they've probably made your life difficult. But there are ways round it. Boundries set by the husband. Husband speaking up, standing up for you when you are treated badly, moving out to a new home etc. And if he doesn't do any of those then he is to blame and you deserve better Hope you find peace and happiness.
@@Sskim-ue6 yeah probably and you think that husband is a very good person who brught her into that family of joint system,. and when she suffered then separted, like what are you portraying, that you have to follow a path to get a separet home, which deen has said to provide to her from the first day, so she didn't get to the torture
Honestly, this is very true. This is why it’s important to live separately from your parents and families and telling them that they’re a bit more after your get married if they’re intervening so much like that.
Very true. 😢👌👌👌 Subhanallah he created a wonderful way of living Alhamdhulillah. ❤ But, what is our society doing for their own sake? They are not following the deen in our houses but only follow outside the houses. It’s really bad and to change Inshah Allah. Thawakkalthu alallah. ❤ Jazakkallahu hair for such good reminders.
I remember when I got married, I felt like" all eyes on me".I was the first daughter in law in their family, their extended family.i was surrounded by aunty in laws whoes I wish, I never met them.
Communication is the key, interact with her calmly, lovingly, if she says something about ur mom, suck it up, even ur mom could be wrong. We all r humans, we can't be flawless, only ALLAH swt is. Talk to her , share with her, keep her mind occupied with only YOU.
So true,.. but of no use. Coz according to you, once you said, we are living in a prison of mindset "what others will say"? So, practically it's near to impossible bcoz our own family members will not let us free. They will say, "What will others say, if we don't let them intervene in between Everything.
So, What now, What is the solution? I'm getting married after a year, Inn Shaa Allah She likes me and i like her. We are Confirmed about Our Nikah , She feels like I'm the only Man who understands her , Who makes her feel Good and i feel like she is the ONE. Is this the beginning of Destruction? A typical Failed Marriage?
Friendship, love and marriage r all short term things, they have a very short shelf life. They suck after a certain period. Guys r such shallow beings.
Same here.....we just work for inlaws and husbnd but neither is satisfied...and blame is on me i m vry bad..vry diffult to stay with joint family when husband is mumma's boy ..facing truggles with only 1 option to get divorced..need prayers
No need for background vocals. Can we just please keep things simple. It is SO distracting. Im trying my hardest to keep music and vocals away...you make it so difficult. Its hard to listen without listening more to the vocals.
Wouldn't it be better if there no distraction at all? Like only the speaker and background is silent? It is veryyy similar to music. Like a new TYPE of music. So better to not have any type of music at all.. because it's very distracting.
@@themuslimpath that’s what he is saying. That light humming is kind of annoying and distracting. If u could avoid adding it from next vids it would feel better to listen to the vids.
How? I have 2 kids and even they're not part of my marriage and relationship. So my own family and husband's is definitely not. So no family should be either. Set boundries it it is your family interfering and he needs to set boundaries if they are his family.
May Allah protect us from the disgusting things your mouth says. Lacking knowledge and understanding of Islam, one is declaring about a Muslim’s heart what they cannot know, as each Muslim’s heart is seen only by Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى. May Allah protect us all, including you, from what exits your tongue, for what you say about other Muslims may become your reality instead.
Very True. Coz of other's (in-laws)intervention, I and my husband got divorced. Everything said by him happened.
Lemme marry you then
How can in laws lead to divorce. I mean I understand there are shitty inlaws and they've probably made your life difficult. But there are ways round it. Boundries set by the husband. Husband speaking up, standing up for you when you are treated badly, moving out to a new home etc. And if he doesn't do any of those then he is to blame and you deserve better
Hope you find peace and happiness.
@@Sskim-ue6 yeah probably and you think that husband is a very good person who brught her into that family of joint system,. and when she suffered then separted,
like what are you portraying, that you have to follow a path to get a separet home, which deen has said to provide to her from the first day, so she didn't get to the torture
Same here
I too got divorced coz of too much intervention from in laws
@@Sskim-ue6 You r right, husbands should do that but sadly they don't, they get mad at us only.
Absolutely true... we are in a similar situation right now and struggling to get out of it... pray for us.
May ALLAH make it easy for you 😢
This is so true😢
Honestly, this is very true.
This is why it’s important to live separately from your parents and families and telling them that they’re a bit more after your get married if they’re intervening so much like that.
What a beautiful reminder 🎗️.
I'll keep this in my mind for my future ❤ In Shaa Allah ❤
May Allah be pleased with you ustaad Nouman Ali Khan ❤
Very true. 😢👌👌👌
Subhanallah he created a wonderful way of living Alhamdhulillah. ❤
But, what is our society doing for their own sake? They are not following the deen in our houses but only follow outside the houses.
It’s really bad and to change Inshah Allah.
Thawakkalthu alallah. ❤
Jazakkallahu hair for such good reminders.
True said!!
JazakAllah khair!!
What a truthfull fact...it's a reminder
You are very practical but also very humouroys
I remember when I got married, I felt like" all eyes on me".I was the first daughter in law in their family, their extended family.i was surrounded by aunty in laws whoes I wish, I never met them.
I just wish everybody understood that.
So relatable
Excellently explained
How true it is!!
Very much true!
Could you please share the link of this whole episode?
Please share link somebody. Thank you
MashaAllah....
So true
Can anyone share its second part please....how to resolve this issue
Communication is the key, interact with her calmly, lovingly, if she says something about ur mom, suck it up, even ur mom could be wrong. We all r humans, we can't be flawless, only ALLAH swt is. Talk to her , share with her, keep her mind occupied with only YOU.
All marraige faced this , and destroyed the life of newly married couple.
Very nice
So true,.. but of no use. Coz according to you, once you said, we are living in a prison of mindset "what others will say"? So, practically it's near to impossible bcoz our own family members will not let us free. They will say, "What will others say, if we don't let them intervene in between Everything.
Where do I find the full lecture pls?
So, What now,
What is the solution?
I'm getting married after a year,
Inn Shaa Allah
She likes me and i like her.
We are Confirmed about Our Nikah ,
She feels like I'm the only Man who understands her , Who makes her feel Good and i feel like she is the ONE.
Is this the beginning of Destruction? A typical Failed Marriage?
True😢
Friendship, love and marriage r all short term things, they have a very short shelf life. They suck after a certain period. Guys r such shallow beings.
Evlo kashta pattu fd class la serndhen 😢 ennai nimmadhiyai kaththukka vidala😢
My marriage is going to fail because my husband can't control his lust 😢 He's very unkind towards me. I love him so much, ya Allah please help us 😢
Keeping you in prayers
May Allah make ease for you sister 🤲
Same here.....we just work for inlaws and husbnd but neither is satisfied...and blame is on me i m vry bad..vry diffult to stay with joint family when husband is mumma's boy ..facing truggles with only 1 option to get divorced..need prayers
So sorry this is so sad.
stop adding bg noise
Oh my GOD 🙈😅
❤
No need for background vocals.
Can we just please keep things simple.
It is SO distracting. Im trying my hardest to keep music and vocals away...you make it so difficult.
Its hard to listen without listening more to the vocals.
Do we have the persian subtitle for this video
May I ask link for full version of the lecturer
Some hummings resemble music like this
Our video does not contain any music. There is only vocal narration and light humming, with no instrumental or musical background.
@@themuslimpath some hummings are just trying to be music like beatboxing and etcetera
Wouldn't it be better if there no distraction at all? Like only the speaker and background is silent?
It is veryyy similar to music. Like a new TYPE of music. So better to not have any type of music at all.. because it's very distracting.
I wish I made the choice to stay single... 😢
What if that's not my choice its even worse
Can you please choose a good thumbnail for the speaker? Because the thumbnail is very creepy
He just has big eyes that's all
🤷🏿♂️
the background noise is too distracting
We’ll fix it in the next videos, sorry about that!
@@themuslimpath
I like it lol
the background vocals are distracting please do not add them in future videos
Assalamu Alaikum. our video does not contain any music. There is only vocal narration and light humming, with no instrumental or musical background.
@@themuslimpath that’s what he is saying. That light humming is kind of annoying and distracting. If u could avoid adding it from next vids it would feel better to listen to the vids.
This is from the guy who was reportedly unfaithful to his wife? 😅
Reportedly you say.
Bor ekan ku bir bu dunyoda ham bzani kelinlani tushunadigan bzani haqligimizi tushuntrib beradigan inson, rahmat katta!😊
So what do you do then? Because family is very much part of our relaationships
No family is not part od your relationship.
Family is part of your life but NOT Part of your relationship.
How? I have 2 kids and even they're not part of my marriage and relationship. So my own family and husband's is definitely not. So no family should be either. Set boundries it it is your family interfering and he needs to set boundaries if they are his family.
@@Sskim-ue6are u girl?
❤❤ 21:42 ... 13/10 sun
The munafiq who left his first wife with 7 kids
I don't like him but u talk about him right?
May Allah protect us from the disgusting things your mouth says.
Lacking knowledge and understanding of Islam, one is declaring about a Muslim’s heart what they cannot know, as each Muslim’s heart is seen only by Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى.
May Allah protect us all, including you, from what exits your tongue, for what you say about other Muslims may become your reality instead.
@@AaaAaa-fy7hn akhy that called hypocrite* idk about him so can't tell but im pretty sure he trying to say he hypocrite "imam"?
Be careful what you say about someone. Only Allah knows what inside our hearts. Only Allah is the judge not people.
How is hypocrite such a bad word. Nobody can say nothing not even facts without people getting upset.