everything you need to know about elevating and styling flat shoes

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  • Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
  • Ciao everyone! Today I'm sharing how to style flats so they look elevated and chic and not frumpy. Styling flats can be a challenge so I am sharing all my tips on how to elevate flats and how to elevate outfits with flats. I hope you feel more confident and chic when you wear flats now!
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    *I am sharing links to similar flats in the video below because I have been getting a lot of questions about finding a good pair of flats, which I understand - they are tough to find! But I hope the biggest takeaway from this video is learning style TOOLS to use what you already have, and not buying more STUFF. My wardrobe is specific to me and my tastes - yours will be different! And that is great because fashion is about creativity and expression! NB: some of these items are affiliate links and I will make a small commission if you make a purchase. This is part of my strategy to make valuable slow fashion content free. A lot of these items listed below are not the actual product because most of my items are either very old or secondhand, so I've tried to find the most similar item.
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    Thank you for watching! xx
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  • @heatherburrell8412
    @heatherburrell8412 3 дні тому +64

    Medical providers here, I am on my feet all day long (8-13hr) in a professional style……I refuse to wear anything but flats….my health is more important.

    • @soniashepherd21
      @soniashepherd21 2 дні тому +1

      ditto!!! Shout out to Sambas baby🎉🎉🎉 all the colors 😆

    • @lidiaanoushmusic
      @lidiaanoushmusic 2 дні тому +1

      I'm completely on board! I had to bid farewell to high heels because of my back problems.

  • @vickiknits
    @vickiknits 3 дні тому +35

    This was really great information about flats. I am 76 years old and working a job that requires some kind of flat shoes. Do you have any information about flats that have a really nice interior that feels a little bit like the inside of a tennis shoe, soft and supportive for people who have jobs where they need to stand up a lot during the day. I really love your channel. I have been working on my closet this year, even though I have been watching your videos for many years, I think it’s fun to shop my closet and to notice how many repetitions I have too many pink tank tops for instance when I might be able to just get along with only one or two, I’m trying to weed out the things that I don’t really need to give more room for the clothesthat I love and wear keep up your good work. You are a great value to all of us.

    • @kimjohnson8471
      @kimjohnson8471 3 дні тому +9

      "76 years old and working a job...." I WANNA BE LIKE YOU WHEN I GROW ❤😊

    • @AmyeTevaarwerk
      @AmyeTevaarwerk 3 дні тому +6

      Try vivavia shoes….

    • @hillerycrawford1062
      @hillerycrawford1062 3 дні тому +4

      I got an adorable ballet flats from aerosole last fall and wore the heck out of them. So comfy.

    • @modamus
      @modamus 3 дні тому +3

      I second this suggestion!​@@AmyeTevaarwerk

    • @dianecyment1715
      @dianecyment1715 3 дні тому +3

      ECCO and SAS shoes have very comfortable and stylish shoes.

  • @UserinBerlin
    @UserinBerlin 3 дні тому +9

    Hi Alyssa, thanks for yet another great video. As a mom who walks in a city a lot every day, I wear flats all the time. I find relatively easy to style them without socks. The challenge starts when it gets too cold and rainy for that, but perhaps still too early for winter boots. So, as an idea for a follow up video, how about styling low flats with socks and also, styling different types of ankle boots? Thanks for giving it a thought. Have a fantastic day.

  • @samanthascavulli2484
    @samanthascavulli2484 3 дні тому +5

    I have recently become obsessed with Vivaia flats for the comfort factor… and I’ve previously stuck to heels. This video was great in helping me figure out how to style different types of flats!

    • @Sonyacita
      @Sonyacita 2 дні тому +1

      I've been wondering if these are worth it! You love them?

  • @mariecurie7491
    @mariecurie7491 3 дні тому +10

    I haven't worn heels for longer than I can remember... but discovered that in the 21st century you can find lots of gorgeous shoes without heels. I have worn a lot of Giuseppe Zanotti (many models available from his own outlet or discount websites) loafers: comfortable and glamorous. Also slim pointed toe ankle boots!

  • @lidiaanoushmusic
    @lidiaanoushmusic 2 дні тому +3

    Ciao Alyssa! I wanted to let you know that I've had to switch from heels to flats due to some back issues. It's been a bit of a style adjustment, but I've been learning to work with flats and I'm actually finding it quite fun. Plus, at 5'10", I really don't miss wearing heels all that much. Thanks for sharing your tips today! Bravissima 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @paulasahms3668
    @paulasahms3668 3 дні тому +11

    This info helps me see the flat in a different light. Thanks

  • @kathysteele3071
    @kathysteele3071 3 дні тому +8

    Thanks for this video. Because I have plantar fasciitis and high arches , I have a hard time with really flat shoes and I am always searching for flats with just a little heel. I love loafers so it’s always pleasure to see you style them.

  • @susanalsembach6026
    @susanalsembach6026 2 дні тому +1

    I gave up heels about a year ago, and now have flats and compensated heels, which are so comfortable. This was such a useful video and I loved seeing you narrate the images, thank you :)

  • @marycole434
    @marycole434 3 дні тому +3

    Thank you… I’ve been wondering about exactly this! Shoes are tricky at times. I’m never sure how to select the shoes to go with pants these days. Your content is always so helpful!

  • @amyg.8592
    @amyg.8592 3 дні тому +10

    I did learn something new! I always look for flats with a high vamp so my feet won't hurt (a low vamp cuts across bunions and irritates them). Now I know why most flats have low vamps--to be more flattering!

    • @bethrichter9380
      @bethrichter9380 3 дні тому

      Same!!

    • @irairod5160
      @irairod5160 3 дні тому +3

      If you have bunions, try Vivaia flats. I have bunions and plantar fasciitis. I'm also a teacher and on my feet for 11 hours a day. Vivaia shoes are what I wear these days almost exclusively.

    • @amyg.8592
      @amyg.8592 3 дні тому

      @irairod5160 great info-- thanks!

  • @arianiv
    @arianiv 3 дні тому +8

    Brilliant video Alyssa! I love the style of pointed flats for special occasions, but as I have a walking commute plus have to keep legs covered and am on my feet a lot in a lab, I’m usually in trainers or boots. I’ve been wondering how I could make a high-vamp loafer work as a petite who still wants to look feminine and not “weighed down” at the feet - so thanks for the great outfit examples and using some “technical” terms to help articulate specific features of shoes and styles of clothing to pair together 😄

    • @user-vx2pp2io7m
      @user-vx2pp2io7m 3 дні тому

      You might want to look up Vessi shoes. They have a new flat that is waterproof(Vancouver weather) and very cute, reminiscent of a Venetian slipper but practical.

  • @m.l.9332
    @m.l.9332 2 дні тому +1

    Unbelievably useful video - thank you! I think I've always instinctively gravitated towards flats with the qualities you've described, but I've never thought about why that is in such a structured and articulate way. Love this :)

  • @SusanH-b3z
    @SusanH-b3z 3 дні тому +5

    I recently retired after 31 years in heels. Boy did I need this! I struggle (!) with flats but I’m moving to Madrid so I really have to figure this out! Thank you! 😊

  • @katem3961
    @katem3961 3 дні тому +6

    Such great information, Alyssa. I do struggle a bit with shoe choices, but this certainly makes it easier. Thank you ❤

  • @kimjohnson8471
    @kimjohnson8471 3 дні тому +3

    60 years old and Momma had to give up the stilettos almost 10 years ago. "High" heels today are no more than a 3"heel. Ty for this AB❤

  • @amanthichandraratna9361
    @amanthichandraratna9361 2 дні тому +1

    Thank you for this! I used to live in heeled booties, a thick heel which is way more comfortable than a heeled pump.
    However, I am recovering from ACL reconstruction surgery and heels are not in my foreseeable future. I have been wearing a barefoot ballet pump from vivobarefoot for now and it’s functional but by no means stylish. Can’t wait to pick up the right loafers and put these tips to work. This was very timely for me!

  • @Teverell
    @Teverell 3 дні тому +4

    I can't wear anything higher than about an inch or so, having lived in flats all my life (learning how to walk in heels when you're trying to make a good impression at a party or interview is really not the time!) and have a wide variety of shoes for different occasions. I still haven't found a good pair of ballet flats, though, because they don't tend to be sturdy and supportive in the way I would need if wearing them for a long time while on my feet.
    I do have a pair of 1940s inspired flats with just a bit of a wedge for that subtle lift, that I have worn when I need that bit of elegance that fill that role for me, at least for now. Having the right pair of shoes for the right occasion is so important. Look after your feet, and they'll look after you!

    • @JuniorCharles-k6q
      @JuniorCharles-k6q 37 хвилин тому

      Try the ballerinas from Salvatore Ferragamo. High end prices but beautifully made and sturdy; They last decades if taken care of!

  • @Mikiki1988
    @Mikiki1988 День тому

    What a refreshing approach to style. TFS ❤

  • @cehand8143
    @cehand8143 3 дні тому +6

    I love heels but have lost all interest in wearing shoes that hurt. I life in a walking city and want to hit the streets in comfort and style. Thanks for the excellent video, so helpful.

  • @dianecyment1715
    @dianecyment1715 3 дні тому +2

    This was so helpful. The majority of my shoes are flats because I love the look and they are oh so comfortable. I've had my days of wearing heels and platforms in the 70's.

  • @heatherframpton9693
    @heatherframpton9693 2 дні тому

    Thank you, Alyssa! I rarely wear heels, maybe a chunky, platform type occasionally...not the standard heel. This will be a helpful video for me. 😊❤️Great point about the flat shoe with something more voluminous like a maxi skirt or dress...which are wardrobe favorites of mine. ❤

  • @pamelakellow4225
    @pamelakellow4225 3 дні тому +3

    Love all the examples in this video. Really illustrates the concepts!

  • @carriehodges6566
    @carriehodges6566 3 дні тому +2

    Excellent as always. I still don’t love most dresses with flats. But maybe I can apply your ideas and make the look work.

  • @pattyloubryant2840
    @pattyloubryant2840 3 дні тому +8

    Lol. I saw styling flats and thought decorating my apartment. Thanks for another brilliant video.

  • @minnesotamiki
    @minnesotamiki 3 дні тому +1

    This is soooo helpful - thank you, Alyssa! 😍I have flats but they all have rounded toes! I'll keep an eye out for pointed toe styles that are both comfortable and stylish. All the examples were great, too! I especially liked the black mini, light blue slim crop with light blue flats, and the red mini.... okay, who am I kidding. All the looks were terrific!😉

  • @marygillespie2028
    @marygillespie2028 3 дні тому +2

    I needed this! My recent foot surgery means I can't wear heels for many months. Thank you, Alyssa.

  • @francesdobbins2964
    @francesdobbins2964 3 дні тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video.

  • @Sacha259
    @Sacha259 3 дні тому +2

    Great video, Alyssa! ❤

  • @TraceyJennings-c2x
    @TraceyJennings-c2x 3 дні тому +1

    I only had two pairs of colored flats when in March I started having a Bakers Cyst issue. Its particularly important as a petite that I chose low vamp pointed toes. Years ago I donated ballet flats and won't go back. One note on flat footwear is sneakers, which are definitely having a moment now! I found this video to comfirm my choices and to explain why, thank you 😊

  • @despinastrongilos3977
    @despinastrongilos3977 3 дні тому +1

    Love this video. I always avoided flats other Thant a sneaker or boot because I felt they looked geriatric. My feet can’t take the heels anymore so I’m excited to make the transition. Thank you for the tips!

  • @dinapawlow1622
    @dinapawlow1622 3 дні тому +2

    ❤ great analysis of a low heel shoe.

  • @jbar234
    @jbar234 3 дні тому +1

    Thank you for this, I have a very hard time with higher heels. Flats or low heels are best for me ❤

  • @lisamcallister6534
    @lisamcallister6534 3 дні тому +4

    Thanks for this. I've found M Gemi to have great flats! Italian.

  • @bethrichter9380
    @bethrichter9380 3 дні тому +1

    Very helpful!!!

  • @analumonaco
    @analumonaco 2 дні тому

    Hi, Alyssa! You always bring very good content to us. And you never sound like a IA in a way of speaking which makes you unique, I can say. Thank you for being so natural. Its so pleasurable to listen to you ❤

  • @GK-gx2jb
    @GK-gx2jb 3 дні тому +1

    Great video. I have been gradually reducing my heels height as I’m getting older (turning 50 soon). Hard initially but those Chanel black tip ballerina made it easier.

  • @cindyboughen9933
    @cindyboughen9933 3 дні тому +2

    Awesome video!😍

  • @fashionandluxury101
    @fashionandluxury101 3 дні тому +1

    So happy for this video 😊

  • @karelmillard9854
    @karelmillard9854 2 дні тому

    This was very helpful and informative! Thank you 🙏🏼 ❤

  • @LizzyC-nf1sv
    @LizzyC-nf1sv 3 дні тому +1

    Great video with useful information! Thanks Alyssa

  • @autumnellingham5712
    @autumnellingham5712 2 дні тому

    Thank you for making this video, it's been so helpful, will be restyling my flats with a new approach.

  • @antoinettemarsling2274
    @antoinettemarsling2274 3 дні тому +2

    Great advice thanks

  • @terridelozier7780
    @terridelozier7780 3 дні тому +1

    This was great! can't wear heels so I loved these tips!

  • @suzanschneider6163
    @suzanschneider6163 22 години тому

    Great video!

  • @mybagoftheday1722
    @mybagoftheday1722 3 дні тому +1

    I can see you are a shoe girl, you really know your shoes 🩶 These outfits, with these shoes, are visually very pleasing.
    On another note, I would love to see your ideas on how to wear sweaters without doing the tuck! It took me years to master the different tucks, but now, it feels so dated that it no longer looks good, I think it ruins the look if we do it! While I was watching this video I paid attention on that your cropped tops looked very nice, and also a cardigan or sweater (a slim one) looks good when fully tucked in. Also, the denim on denim look was on point, when the denim shirt was not tucked in at all.
    I look forward to wearing all my sweaters, many of which are oversized, and longer, the coming fall, but I also don’t know how exactly I would wear them now. Tucking in is no longer an option.

  • @marilynburgess7349
    @marilynburgess7349 3 дні тому +1

    Thanks,Alyssa! This was very helpful & informative. 🥿

  • @MAW-g3r
    @MAW-g3r 3 дні тому +1

    Great tips! ❤

  • @elizabethsmolens2752
    @elizabethsmolens2752 3 дні тому +1

    Great tutorial.

  • @hillerycrawford1062
    @hillerycrawford1062 3 дні тому +1

    I was a stellito girl for 25 years. Then I needed both hips replaced and a new knee on the horizon. I am now a flat girl with an occasional kitten heel. Pointed toes are my favorite.

  • @loissage3630
    @loissage3630 3 дні тому +1

    OMG just the style inspiration for me! Thank you

  • @MerlynBarkhuizen
    @MerlynBarkhuizen 3 дні тому +1

    Loved the video because I love flats❤

  • @ellenroberg-askim1779
    @ellenroberg-askim1779 3 дні тому

    Learned so much here, and BIG thanks for slowing down so I can listen AND think when watching

  • @tanvimehta
    @tanvimehta 2 дні тому

    this is gem

  • @anaalves3658
    @anaalves3658 2 хвилини тому

    Perfect timing, i need to replace my black leather ballet flats. I don't like pointy shoes, i think that it makes my feet look long, which is really silly as I have small feet for my height, but I really prefer round toe over pointy 😊. I very seldom wear heels and definitely not on a daily basis 😂 I live in Europe and the cobble stone streets are a hazard 😂😂😂

  • @sylvievicenza179
    @sylvievicenza179 3 дні тому +1

    Ciao Alyssa, I love that you have presented the looks at the same time, it is easier to understand.
    I have been in sandals all summer and have a lot of difficulty to wear shoes in september. I have sling back and other "higher hills" that I would like to wear with skirts or pants but I do not know if I need to wear a stocking (yeark!) or not. Can you talk about this please.

  • @juliagoolia72
    @juliagoolia72 3 дні тому +1

    I’ve always shied away from heels because if my height and comfort, and I’ve never felt frumpy. Sometimes I find them harder to style but never frumpy. I guess im lucky!

  • @noellepycior
    @noellepycior 2 дні тому +1

    Hi! Thank you… question what do you wear for “socks” with the low vamp flats? They can be difficult to find and seem to not fit well.
    Thank you and great video 😊

  • @annieritola904
    @annieritola904 3 дні тому +2

    I am 5’8 with a long torso and short legs. If I put a pair of flats on I feel like my legs look like little stumps. I always have to wear a heel to elongate my legs instead.

  • @anne-marielandry4465
    @anne-marielandry4465 3 дні тому

    I’d love to wear flats but I haven’t found any that give enough support. But I don’t wear heels either. Comfort is key for me so it’s tennis style shoes and ankle boots for me 😊 regardless what I wear.

  • @Anna-Anna53
    @Anna-Anna53 3 дні тому

    Oh Thankyou thank you Alyssa someone who understand us ❤❤❤ love it. I struggle ao much how to style flats. Yes higher dose look great and sexy.👠

  • @drnicolebeaumont7884
    @drnicolebeaumont7884 3 дні тому

    Nice🎉

  • @fannyberlincourt4234
    @fannyberlincourt4234 2 дні тому

    Hi Alyssa, thanks a lot for yet another great video ! I'm nearly always wearing flats, as I am 185 cm and in summertime this works great with the "cropped" look of all my jeans and trousers (as it is nearly impossible to find good jeans that are "long enough"). But I tend to struggle during the colder season. I'm not an adept of the couloured or tennis socks trend and as I live in Switzerland going with open shoes in winter is not an option. I do not really can get warm with the skin ("sausage") peaking above my boots when I sit down as the season changes and this always gets me into an urge to find new longer jeans, thing I by the time know I will not find. Do you have a stylish suggestion on how to manage this ? Thank you ! Have a good week !

  • @melbraks9142
    @melbraks9142 2 дні тому

    This was so helpful. Im a heels girl but have had to go to lower heels and flats for hip and back issues. Im still struggling finding cute comfortable flats to wear with a knee length pencil skirt. Any suggestions?

  • @loub1733
    @loub1733 3 дні тому +1

    being tall have never got into heels with much gratitude. Don’t dislike them just not interested .however beware flats that are too flat with excessive walking can cause injury so think about footbed structure.

  • @marleneparker8702
    @marleneparker8702 3 дні тому +2

    I never feel frumpy in flats.

  • @szfrj
    @szfrj 2 дні тому

  • @katrin4163
    @katrin4163 3 дні тому

    "This is like toe cleavage" 😂

  • @feliciag4726
    @feliciag4726 3 дні тому

    Alyssa, will you leave a link to the cream cardigan and the black v-neck sweater you are wearing, please?

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis 3 дні тому

    I just bought 8 pairs of flats from Amazon, 6 pairs with various designs with pearls or crystals on vamp. They have pliant outsole. Some have pointy toe box, some have more square-ish toe box. I call them Bollywood flats because of the bling factor. They aren’t made to last but because they cost me $15/$20 a pair I don’t mind not having them for a long time.
    I love wearing those flats with jeans, especially skinny and wide leg style. I also have quite a few linen dresses I can pair with. I love having one unexpected element in styling to break the mode.

  • @notmyrealname6272
    @notmyrealname6272 3 дні тому

    I struggle with this evacuee I have big feet. Heels make my feel look smaller and the elongating pointed toe flat make my feet look huge.

  • @MELANIEFOWLER1
    @MELANIEFOWLER1 3 дні тому

    Literally at 5ft3, I struggle with flats. I have very short legs and a long body.....so much easier if you are tall and long legged. I feel invisible in flats.

  • @marleneparker8702
    @marleneparker8702 3 дні тому

    So flats only look good with pants or mini skirts?

  • @kake646
    @kake646 3 дні тому +1

    I always want to wear flats but heels slip out of flats. I would love to find the ones does not.

    • @sigriddjernaes
      @sigriddjernaes 3 дні тому +2

      Have you tried Mary Jane style shoes? There are so many available at the moment.

    • @jl82714
      @jl82714 3 дні тому

      Yes, try Mary Janes! I have the same issue and don’t have that problem with Mary Janes. Also trying a narrow fit may help - I thought I had medium width feet for years until I tried narrow fits and realized my feet were actually narrow.

    • @kake646
      @kake646 3 дні тому +1

      @@sigriddjernaes I will definitely try them!! Thank you 😊

    • @kake646
      @kake646 3 дні тому

      @@jl82714 I will and I think my feet are medium but good idea to try narrow ones as well. Thank you ☺️

    • @kake646
      @kake646 3 дні тому

      @@jl82714 I will try and also will make sure my feet are medium width or not. Thank you.

  • @donnaer
    @donnaer 2 дні тому

    Honestly, pointed toes may look great, but how many guys are walking around with bunions, neuromas (pinched nerves between toes that zing you when you walk) and big toe arthritis by 50? Do people a favor as an influencer: do a styling video that at least includes some barefoot style ballerinas or loafers. You don’t get it now - I certainly didn’t- but you’ve made this your job. Worth considering - you’d certainly be doing a favor to some people in your demographic.

  • @DonnaMalin
    @DonnaMalin 3 дні тому +2

    Never considered flats to be “frumpy”…

  • @mariyavasylyk9589
    @mariyavasylyk9589 3 дні тому

    Thanks a lot for another very interesting and useful video! 🫶💝

  • @annieritola904
    @annieritola904 3 дні тому +1

    I am 5’8 with a long torso and short legs. If I put a pair of flats on I feel like my legs look like little stumps. I always have to wear a heel to elongate my legs instead.

    • @MLiesel
      @MLiesel День тому

      I have a similar leg-to-torso challenge, but I hate wearing heels, and I find that wearing high-waisted skirts or pants, or focusing on defining my natural waist in other ways, helps me to elongate my legs. Thought I’d share, in case you ever want more options in your style toolbox!