Signs Your Ex Is Hiding How They Feel About You

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  • Опубліковано 21 кві 2022
  • Wouldn't it be easier if we didn't need to look for signs your ex is hiding how they feel about you and we could just clearly see someone's emotions?
    Well, I can't promise you any secret trick to look into your ex's mind, but I can show you some ways to piece together how they feel about you.
    In this video we'll be sharing some ways to tell if your ex is not sharing their true feelings with you. After all, your ex might feel very deeply about you, but they could be holding it back for various reasons.
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  • @ClayAndrews
    @ClayAndrews  2 роки тому +3

    Do you think your ex might be hiding their feelings from you? If so, what are they doing? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

    • @scrfred
      @scrfred Рік тому +1

      My ex blocked me on social media and phone messages yet I noticed that anytime I posted videos on social media I see some sort of reaction from her post

  • @cwigg7728
    @cwigg7728 Рік тому +20

    I knew the moment she reached out via text after I’d been in no contact for 3 months, that she liked me….then, she started sending me selfies and videos, and sending me cutesy memes. Now I’m getting pictures of fond memories of our past.
    I’m fully convinced I will get this woman back.

    • @johnnyboy_3336
      @johnnyboy_3336 Рік тому +6

      Hey how’d it go? Any tips cause this is kinda starting to happen to me and I don’t want to mess it up

    • @Jakuboooooooooo
      @Jakuboooooooooo 10 місяців тому +2

      Same here. I’m who reached out, but I knew the moment she showed emotion abt what happened between is and showed that she’s still bothered by it… especially since she got pissed off when she heard a rumour abt me and another girl and even admitted that she still wonders if we would’ve worked out and is scared of reopening the same chapter.

    • @BigSoul29
      @BigSoul29 2 місяці тому

      So... Did you ? Lol....

  • @victoriadolan9889
    @victoriadolan9889 2 роки тому +29

    I've found it hard to find the correct balance between connecting on the emotional level (post-breakup) and not becoming his emotional crutch. He did decide to end the relationship, after all, and I don't want to provide girlfriend benefits when we are not together. Where is the line/what is the proper balance? Thanks as always, Clay!

  • @capone5069
    @capone5069 2 роки тому +4

    My wife and I separated 2 months ago and at this point I don't think we are ever getting back together.

  • @jejarhavillarmia5791
    @jejarhavillarmia5791 2 роки тому +4

    Is it possible that someone with a “don’t settle for less” mindset is still coming back?

  • @jennamarienumber3
    @jennamarienumber3 2 роки тому +1

    Clay why would he break up with me after 20years BUT never actually leave or move on? 3 years now and he always either comes back or lets me back in. This is a equal monthly thing. He went no contact for 3 months once. Blocking me and eventually made contact and hasn’t done that again. We continue to cycle and will ask each other to “leave me alone”. That will last for maybe a week and always forgive and start over with the cycle again. Neither seems to actually give up and permanently break up. Texting, being physical, giving effort and then it goes back to bad. He has yet to have a rebound. I’m still the only girl in his life. He never says what he wants. He may be a narcissist, yes it’s toxic, of course I should give up already… but is it possible that he still loves me? Because as foolish as I may be that’s what I feel is the truth. It isn’t just me who won’t give up. His he hiding his love or is he using me?

  • @Poizin77
    @Poizin77 9 місяців тому +2

    Before me and her dated she did all the things that showed that she liked me and now that we're broken up she's doing those things again but she's telling my friends that she thinks I'm really annoying but yet she's staring at me and blushing and whenever I catch her doing those things she seems really nervous about it so I'm really confident that she probably still has feelings for me but is nervous to talk to me about it

  • @brego12317
    @brego12317 2 роки тому +10

    My ex bottles everything up so it's hard to tell

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Рік тому +4

    Love hurts

  • @ShayCat
    @ShayCat 2 роки тому +1

    I've been doing the stupidest thing these days by not understanding and bringing up the past. She told me that everyone else is surface level with her which is great. It means only good vibes would flow. And that anytime anyone is trying to be on any other level or she even thinks they are, she realizes it upsets her. She said before that if we were friends before the relationship, we would have never gotten together. And that she's fed up things being done and not done n it's exhausting. I barely feel like I have a chance :(

    • @Gbb93
      @Gbb93 11 місяців тому

      This is why friendships rarely ever work out into intimate relationships: it just doesn’t feel right. Now, I have found that usually when they work it’s when the guy friend zoned the girl and she has had feelings for him almost the whole time.

  • @HB-pu6gz
    @HB-pu6gz 2 роки тому +3

    Holding your cards close to your chest!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back 💔💔again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman💔

  • @ryansmith6231
    @ryansmith6231 2 роки тому +2

    Hey Clay! Thanks for being there for us all! Say, can you do content on separation and time apart? And the woman wanting perspective and time? This is marriage by the way.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  2 роки тому

      Great suggestion!

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back 💔💔again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a great woman💔

    • @yakubusani7172
      @yakubusani7172 2 роки тому

      Contert her right now 💌.....

  • @kitty2doggyMeow
    @kitty2doggyMeow 6 місяців тому

    I think silence can be good but only when you get to know someone well then it can become comfortable, if you only know someone for a year or are still getting to know someone then silence is a bad sign.

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Рік тому +2

    Silence is golden Clay.

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Рік тому +16

    I don’t want to waste my time pursuing a woman I can’t have.

  • @chaosandduality931
    @chaosandduality931 Рік тому +8

    If it didn't work then let it go. Maybe you can get along in the future but, in terms of this kind of love, there's no point going back. Always walk forward. Never backwards.

    • @AlexVNL
      @AlexVNL 6 місяців тому +4

      Bullshit, you can fix it if you want to fix it.

    • @creatureofstyle
      @creatureofstyle 5 місяців тому +1

      If you aren't willing to put in the work then you aren't willing to be in love. Nothing just happens on it's own, it has to be nurtured. Sometimes people need to step away and regroup before they come back together stronger than ever, especially since early relationships are seen from an idealistic mindset. The reality hit of separation can make the bond so much stronger if you end up coming back together

  • @shubble3bd170
    @shubble3bd170 2 роки тому +1

    Well, he hasn't talked to me since we broke up, but he was balling when he did and he still watches my stories on snap. He said he wanted to talk to me about what I said after the break up. He hasn't contacted me yet and that was 22 days ago so it's safe to say he won't call. I did contact him after like 2 weeks on something that was totally random that reminded me of him and he was super friendly and flirty but we haven't talked since 🤷‍♀️

    • @GoLiveJeez
      @GoLiveJeez 2 роки тому

      He wants to keep you on the hooks. During a conversation slip it lightly and observe how he'll react.

    • @lioncross1849
      @lioncross1849 2 роки тому +1

      So why are you doing no contact?

    • @shubble3bd170
      @shubble3bd170 2 роки тому +1

      @@lioncross1849 He asked for space and I want to be respectful of his request and emotions. Plus, I feel like if he really wanted to talk to me he would.

  • @sabajanjua9323
    @sabajanjua9323 2 роки тому +1

    What if youre in no contact

  • @MiekeRobberecht
    @MiekeRobberecht Рік тому +2

    "Hold there cards close to there heart".

  • @williamdolan7189
    @williamdolan7189 Рік тому

    My ex knows exactly how I feel,and she told me she can’t find romantic feelings for me anymore? What ever that means.but also said I care greatly about you,and a pert of me has love for you,and let’s build a friendship it’s very confusing

    • @bobbooey45
      @bobbooey45 5 місяців тому +1

      Never accept friendship.

  • @russjergensen2241
    @russjergensen2241 2 роки тому +1

    They aren’t revealing their cards.

  • @user-zk7mc3jv5m
    @user-zk7mc3jv5m 7 місяців тому +1

    We still live together. Our relationship was 27 years long. 3 months ago he ended it. He said he was tired of being put down, that his opinion didn't matter. That I was too controlling.
    We do talk and get on. The other day he rang me to say he was nearly home and be ready to go for a drive.
    I have sent him a couple of flirty texts. He never responds to them which I don't expect him to. Am I doing the right thing. He never tells me to stop....What do you think?

  • @andrewboyddotcom
    @andrewboyddotcom 2 роки тому +3

    So I ended it four months ago out of self respect. As you see below I was in the friend zone. So about a week ago I asked her for one of her recipes to which she replied with a video. Happy with that. Much too quickly - four days - much too quickly... I sent her a photograph of my cat nicely perched on a cushion gift she gave me for Christmas. To which I got this reply.
    "Andy I wld appreciate if you wld refrain from sending me anymore texts. I am trying to move on from this painful period in my life and it does not help when you approach me and text me. Your wish was to end our friendship and I have honoured that and I only ask that you allow me to move on. Thank you."
    Well I'm privileged that she admits it has been painful for her. She's an Avoidant and I'd been feeling ill treated for a long time. I actually felt she had done all but dump me. I think the best thing to do is to leave this for a few weeks even a month or so and come up with a reply. The question is... what reply. I love her dearly and have immense compassion for her. Stick around for further installments.

    • @andrewboyddotcom
      @andrewboyddotcom 2 роки тому +1

      Nice tip. I'll ask the Lord about it. Learning to go to the throne before I go to the phone.

  • @user-ce8fh4kx5t
    @user-ce8fh4kx5t 8 місяців тому

    They are holding their cards close to their chest

  • @phyllismontoroula6454
    @phyllismontoroula6454 Рік тому

    I don't want scare my Ex boyfriend away we met 2 day before Halloween 1990

  • @chrismcevoy2503
    @chrismcevoy2503 Рік тому +2

    I think my ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick is hiding her feelings from me and won’t say those three little words to me I Love You.

  • @phyllismontoroula6454
    @phyllismontoroula6454 Рік тому

    My Ex calls me all the time

  • @anniefalconer3062
    @anniefalconer3062 Рік тому

    Mine dumped me
    Wants to be friends
    Invites me to family outings
    Invites me to dinner at his place watch movies
    Really don’t know what to make of all this ?

    • @Nateda
      @Nateda Рік тому +5

      He no longer wants the title of the relationship but still wants the benefits of the relationship. Cut him cold turkey and force him to go all in or lose you.

    • @Ace7of7Cups
      @Ace7of7Cups Рік тому +3

      if you don't want to go to all these things, tell him you got other plans. I mean, actual friends don't always have time to do stuff together. So if you're afraid of hurting his feelings, by turning down all these invitations, dont. Seems like he doesn't quite get that regardless of the reason for him to choosing to break up, he also loses the constant companionship. I still don't get people like this. Don't stop living your life outside of your time with him including being around other men. At this time, you owe him nothing.

    • @frankdrebin5554
      @frankdrebin5554 3 місяці тому

      Or he could be slowly trying to make it work out

  • @spencerfrankclayton4348
    @spencerfrankclayton4348 3 місяці тому

    5:04