40 True Facts For Getting Your Ex Back

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  • Опубліковано 28 кві 2022
  • Here's our new course, Relationship Repair: www.modernlove.life/rr
    Here's the 8 hour subliminal recording: • Affirmations For Love ...
    Whelp... I'm turning 40. So I wanted to share 40 important tips for getting your ex back based off of all the work I've done working with people and their relationships since 2009.
    These are lessons I've learned from coaching clients and witnessing countless success stories over the years... as well as failure stories.
    These are the things that I know work and I hope that you can take with you on your journey.
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  • @ClayAndrews
    @ClayAndrews  2 роки тому +4

    Thanks for watching. Here are those links I mentioned in the video:
    Relationship Repair: www.modernlove.life/rr
    8 hour subliminal recording: ua-cam.com/video/Jn2Ly1ysgHY/v-deo.html

  • @jessewilliams8038
    @jessewilliams8038 Рік тому +2

    Hey clay I know it's unlikely that you respond,but I would just like to say that I'm 17 and I believe that theres still hope in my situation and that as long as I put in the work and bet on myself, and trust the process I'll get the person I want to be with ( my ex) and I'll get the relationship I want. You've changed my mindset. Thank You

  • @Bluecloud289
    @Bluecloud289 2 роки тому +5

    hey clay! the situation with my ex and I is extremely confusing and I just feel I can’t find a clear answer anywhere. Long story short, I was the one at fault for the breakup (I shared a drunk kiss with another man and he found out) and my ex inevitably ended things with me. this happened about 2 months ago but my ex has remained in constant contact with me since. he texts me everyday almost all day, asks about my day and how i’m doing, what i’m up to, etc. he genuinely cares and puts in the effort to keep me in his life. we met for coffee last week (he initiated the meet up) and it was really great. he gave direct eye contact, body positioned towards me, smiled and laughed the entire time, kept inching towards me, just standard body language that indicates someone’s interested. at the end of coffee, he said it was great to see me and we should do it again sometime. He carries himself like he is interested but every time I bring the possibility of starting over up he completely shuts it down and says he is keeping in contact with me because i’m a “good friend.” he says he doesn’t see us being together in the future because he isn’t sure he can ever trust me. we were together for two years and shared A LOT of memories together so I just don’t know if he genuinely is done and JUST wants to remain friends or if he is still hurting from the circumstances of the breakup and wants to keep me close while he figures it out. he’s told me to “move on because i’m just going to hurt myself being stuck on him” but i’ve remained very serious in waiting and haven’t seen anyone despite his comments. is that just an emotional test or does he truly mean these things he is saying? sorry this is so long… I am just so confused! Any help would be appreciated… thanks!!

  • @MattyZ14
    @MattyZ14 2 роки тому +21

    Hey clay! Can you do a video on “when your ex is hiding you from their rebound?” Maybe like how do tell and what to do? I think I’m in this situation with my ex and I don’t know how to navigate it. She won’t respond when she’s with her rebound so I don’t reach out when they’re together, and I also don’t want to come between them and have it blow up in my face. Would love it if you could do a video like that!

    • @dylanleonmoore
      @dylanleonmoore Рік тому

      Agreed!

    • @fordfalcon85
      @fordfalcon85 Рік тому +1

      This!!

    • @Lewis-me7jr
      @Lewis-me7jr Рік тому

      Forget the rebound. He doesn’t exist in your mind. If he comes up in conversation just pause with a smirk and move on to another subject. He’s with your girl and if she’s “hiding” you she knows it. If he entered a rebound relationship he should have expected this if he’s had more than 20 minutes of relationship experience in his life.

  • @0x01sudipta
    @0x01sudipta 2 роки тому

    Happy Birthday Clay. Huge love from India.

  • @thefranglaisetouch109
    @thefranglaisetouch109 2 роки тому

    Happy Birthday Clay xxxx

  • @michaelbarbarich3965
    @michaelbarbarich3965 2 роки тому

    Happy birthday, clay.

  • @QuangTran-xv6jb
    @QuangTran-xv6jb 2 роки тому +1

    Happy birthday clayyy

  • @nataliyasattarova9423
    @nataliyasattarova9423 Рік тому +1

    happy b-day!

  • @jelenapiskin
    @jelenapiskin Рік тому

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @amr526
    @amr526 2 роки тому +2

    Welcome to the Taurus family mine's Monday happy birthday to us🎈🎉🎂

  • @melindakube5197
    @melindakube5197 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video I have watched so many of your other videos and you have helped me so much. It has been 5 months since my ex moved out and ended our relationship very abruptly and I was very unprepared. I love him very much and I have worked on myself and made so many wonderful changes. When you say 6 to 12 months it will be hard but he's worth the wait but we currently since the breakup have had no communication. He has had me blocked and I don't know if I'm blocked now or not because I'm trying to do no contact and not reach out to him for any reason. A week ago he sent me a text asking me if I had found any checks that he might have left here, I feel like that was just a way for him to reach out to me what do you think. So my question is if we're not talking or interacting how can our relationship be saved?

  • @user-zd4tg4hp9n
    @user-zd4tg4hp9n 2 роки тому +2

    Happy birthday 🎉 thanks for your advice and inspirations have a blessed day to you and your family much respect for the knowledge you help us out with the situations that we cant seem to figure out on our own lol and the psychological aspects to have a healthy way of life with or without our partner but your advice does work homie because being a human being and going threw these emotions isn't easy my bm monkey branched to another and lives with this person now it's been going on six months already but I shouldn't be but I do still communicate with her behind the other ones back and I still smash her up too even in the place they stay in lol I must be stupid tho to because I want her back but it ain't happening either way even for what we do on those times she says she is confused doesn't know if she is going to marry him will always love me and maybe her and I would be soon but I can't trust that cause shes still were she at lol I feel like my last resort would be have no contact but I really don't want to do lol didn't mean to go on a rant but haven't really spoken about it as much as I have texted this but 🎂 thanks once again broski happy birthday 🪅

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap👇👇

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      +190

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      5919

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      3258

  • @saraholland8743
    @saraholland8743 2 роки тому +1

    Help me learn to embody love. And he dialed in for optimal emotional connection.

  • @Jo-gf6ii
    @Jo-gf6ii 2 роки тому +1

    This might sound like a silly question, but how do you know if you’ve built an emotional connection? My ex and I are friends, sometimes with benefits, although I don’t think this is where he wants to be. I think he’s only “playing sometimes boyfriend” because he thinks I can’t do friendship (and he’s right, I still love him deeply and struggle not being in a relationship with him) but he does want me in his life, by his own pleading and admission. He’s a single father who got custody of his children only a couple of years ago. We were already living together but he had to move out when he got custody due to various circumstances. We’d planned on moving back in together and blending our two sets of teenage daughters but it never eventuated after trying for 2 years to get the kids to get along with each other. We broke up at Christmas 2021, and had 6 weeks with no communication at all. We reconnected on Valentine's Day and have been in a weird limbo since then. I'd say he's Riding the Dragon but given he's doing what he's doing to appease my needs (playing sometimes boyfriend), I’m not sure that's accurate. He feels that during the 2 years we had been trying to blend, he was under too much pressure trying to split his time between his children, and me. He told me this when he said he “couldn’t” have a relationship at the start of March. This included him spending two nights per week away from them, staying with me when my children were at their fathers, which took up a lot of weekend time. The two sets of children are all teenage girls, so not as easy a task to blend as if they were under 10 years old. He feels he "can't" have a relationship due to this, plus I'd put quite a bit of pressure on him to maintain "our time" together and to blend the families as I desperately wanted us all together before we drifted apart, which inevitably happened due to how I was. I was grieving losing him from our home life together, and was scared that would extend to losing him from our relationship. In my defense, he didn't help by being a relatively poor communicator so I never really knew where I stood. All I knew was that he did love me deeply and (in hindsight) was doing his best to keep "all the balls in the air". His mother is also in the picture as she lives with him to help with the children and he sees his children as “theirs”. She didn’t want to live with us all together (she doesn’t really like me) and he didn’t want her living in sub standard accommodation as she’s retired and has limited funds to get a decent home. Anyway, I don’t know how to recognise whether to apply the pressure and do the “dating other people” spiel, or whether to reduce the pressure and just be friends without the intimate connection we have at the moment as I don’t feel it’s actually mutual. I’m not sure how to recognise whether the connection is high enough, or if it even exists. He calls me a couple of times a week and we see each other at least once. He kisses and hugs me hello and goodbye, and will reach out to hold my hand at the movies or cuddle up to me on the couch at home, but he seems to be actively avoiding anything sexual unless (I think) he feels he has to. I live in New Zealand, and the conversion rate for your courses means they would cost me over $300 which unfortunately I can’t afford. I’ve just purchased your RR course. Can you please help with my question? I

    • @Jo-gf6ii
      @Jo-gf6ii 2 роки тому

      @Godswill Kamalu I am reporting you to UA-cam

  • @thomaspeaster4777
    @thomaspeaster4777 2 роки тому +4

    My breakup was a curse. I miss the connection we had in the relationship. She refuses to reconnect and disappears for months on end. Idk what to do anymore. Starting to feel that the love of my life is gone forever

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap👇👇

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      +190

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      5919

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      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      3258

  • @ReshoSagara
    @ReshoSagara 2 роки тому +2

    nooooo, My Ex just started dating a narcissist O.o

  • @phyllismontoroula6454
    @phyllismontoroula6454 Рік тому +1

    I'm only Ex girlfriend he talks to ever that tells me he has a crush on me and afraid things will repeat again invited me to his camp summer 2022

  • @cesarcastillo3250
    @cesarcastillo3250 2 роки тому +1

    Clay. What to do when ur in a limbo situation. Ex says she loves u. But isn’t ready for a relationship. It’s neither yes or no

  • @NBAJ3000
    @NBAJ3000 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Clay. We’ve been broke up for a year in a few weeks. The break up was bad, I lost it and threw her stuff out of my apartment. We have 2 kids together and see eachother almost daily because of that. We just came back from a big birthday trip to Disneyland and Knotts and she posted about it on social media which surprised me. We’ve been in a few trips with the kids so far and have a few more planned. She just said Happy birthday to our baby girl and mentioned co-parenting on her post. She asked if I posted about it and I asked if she posted the pics of me on there and she said yes. When we hang out, she only wants it to be us 4 together never just me and her… I think she’s is between Stage 3 and Stage 4, but I am not good at reading her. She hides everything well. I respect her space and boundaries so I don’t try to get physical with her in anyway when I would love to hold her, etc.. I know she still cares and loves me, what do you think? Happy Birthday!!!

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      Hello I’m so excited my relationship was fixed back again my partner is back to me and we happily together , I go help from a man who brought us back

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap👇👇

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      +190

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      5919

    • @suetann375
      @suetann375 2 роки тому

      3258