Why Is My Ex Hot And Cold With Me?
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- Опубліковано 1 сер 2024
- Clay Andrews answers the question, "Why is my ex hot and cold with me?"
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Why is my ex hot and cold towards me? Well, the answer is that they probably aren't doing this to be mean to you (probably). They probably aren't playing mind games either. The real reason is that they are most likely confused about how they feel about you.
And what you want to do when your ex is hot and cold or when you're getting hot and cold behavior is to respond with curiosity and to enroll them into the idea of a Same Team conversation. - Розваги
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No!!! I missed the livestream!!! 😭
The hot & cold behaviour has been brutal, continuously inviting me round, having a fantastic time, then tells me she never thinks of me, and has no feelings romantically and loves me like a family, then sends sexy selfies to me and flirts, then goes into NC. It's all over the place and confusing! 😔
She admitted she vilified me because it was "easier to leave an a-hole than who I've become", and would've never left who I've become! I was still an emotional wreck at this stage, even when she said she wouldn't have left, and since I got a new positive mentality and outlook, and mental strength, she was responding well, then I had a panic attack that reminded her of my worst behaviour, and has now gone into NC. I genuinely believe she was teetering between Riding The Dragon and Crisis Point, saying we COULD get back together, then the next, "how do you know you still love who I've become?" So yeah, EXTREMELY confusing.
Sorry, I'm rambling, take care 💩
I genuinely hope you are well Clay, and whoever is reading this 😊
Hey, I noticed you weren't there today :)
Anyway, sounds like you would really benefit from walking back the pressure and expectation that you're putting on yourself and the situation. Just slow down and be more connection focused. Respond to her hot/cold behavior with the curious stance and I think you'll do a lot better. Hope this helps.
Thank you for the continued help and support Clay, it means the absolute world to me, as I'm sure it does to thousands of people all over the world! 🤗
She may be a covert narcissist...
I’m getting hot and cold right now. Cold lately, has me concerned there is someone else.
What if your ex is with a new person during all this? We talk everyday and she’s Been saying more “warm” things like I love you, but then unsending it, then I miss you etc. we’ve had a same team convo which has helped us make progress. But I can’t say the whole “let’s agree your not leading me on etc and gob with it” to decrease the pressure because we’re only “friends”. So I couldn’t say that. She doesn’t feel that she even has feelings for me apparently.
Hi Clay, definitely riding the dragon ATM. However I got upset with her last week and set us back after it was apparent she had been confiding in another guy about us. Since then I suggested we have the tough talks @ councilling and we start dating and only good stuff then. She agreed however will only call to talk to kids ( we currently in iso ) and can't hang up on me quick enough. Try 2 push for contact or hang back?
I'd say start with a Same Team conversation, then use the Curious Stance if you're getting any additional resistance at that point, anchoring back to the Same Team conversation.
@@ClayAndrews thanks Clay, much appreciated mate, I sent her a text this morning saying to her to call me when she feels like talking. I want us to talk bit she takes it as me being pushy.
Going through this hot and cold frfr Shit crazy told me earlier she don’t want me dead ass to calling me at night to meet up and talk about her feelings about us pretty much she wants me but scared 😕
My is doing this hot and cold thing but she’s in a rebound relationship too she says that she doesn’t want to hurt no one ever together for three years they’ve only been together for four months she talks to me only on the weekends when she’s at her job and the ones around she keeps me a secret from the other guy I don’t know what’s going on to a lot of unfilled blanks and she says she wants to rebuild as friends but I don’t know Just tell tell me the problems that her her rebound have I talk to her and she told me she just wanna be friends and then she turned around and dad complete 180 and was like well I’ll just see where things go I don’t know what’s going on
This isn’t fair though clay. My ex and I have a baby together, but I’m tired of the back and forth. Every few weeks he changes his mind and tells me he’s going to leave the rebound he ended up marrying 2 months after we broke up while I was pregnant. He came to me last week and told me he left her. We spent the night together and the next day the wife showed up. His demeanor changed and He told me to my face he actually wanted to be with his wife. He’s been dragging me along like this for months. I’m tired emotionally and mentally. I want to be with him but I don’t know what to do anymore. Help me please. I’m a single mom and I don’t know what to do.
Please read the book 'Women Who Love Too Much' I really believe it will help you ❤️
How about just cold
This will explain it for you: ua-cam.com/play/PLBHfQVp_OsaXcb26tD1RgX_zd0IMYe76L.html