Signs Your Ex Isn't Over You (Even Though They Are In A New Relationship)
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- Signs your ex isn't over you even though they are in a new relationship. There are signs your ex isn't over you even if they are dating someone new. It can sometimes be hard to believe that is the case, especially if your ex is acting cold towards you. However, we have seen thousands of breakups over the years and can assure you, that things aren't always what they seem!
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I can't stress enough "to do the work' I'm so grateful I committed to that. Your ex will reach out, mine did after 7 months of no contact, first was business related, 2nd was the following day bringing me a gift & wanting to borrow a book & telling he met someone, then today ( a week later) dropping off the book and wanting to share with me a project he had been working on.
I'm so glad I did/doing the work because I could see he was more rattled by how cantered & grounded I was. Do the work, it's a win win situation ❤️
My partner ended a long term relationship end of August she met someone else apparently she's happy, which I've heard from someone we both know. Been no contact since the break up heard nothing.. don't think I ever will
@@lewistaylor3267 mine was long term too, I know the pain & how hard it is right now, they will reach out you can't just switch of a connection unless of course the person is not emotionally healthy.
This is so true. I’ve had many compliments lately from people. They notice I’m calmer, I’m happier, more positive, got a different vibe.
In fact this is exactly what a guy that has always had a slight interest in me said last week. He’s definitely taken more notice of me now and I think will make some move in the near future.
He asked me what have I been doing, you’re different?
I told him, I worked on my anxiety!!
I didn’t go in depth but I always reference craig.
I don’t want my ex back, he’s a complete moron. I would love the ego boost if he did reach out though 😆
But I’ve come to realise he has avoidant and narcissistic traits, and I’ve blocked him anyway.
Although if he really wanted to contact me, I’m sure he still could. Pretty certain he won’t ever though.
And from my own senses, I don’t think his rebound is going great guns 😆
As Jerry Seinfeld says.. that’s a shame!
@@LG-ly7pw I'm so happy for you, how good does it feel to get/control over the anxiety & clarity on your relationship. I love bonding over Coach Craig's content too ❤️
@@sindamaricic7369 I’ve told so many people about Craig.
Ive been part of a Facebook breakup group with this guy putting out breakup content. Not certified in any way, just a guy relating his own experiences. He says a lot of good things but there is no one that teaches the skills like Craig! No one!!
And in the group, this guy made me an expert… yeah coz I would give advice and encouragement based off this channel!
I also picked off a few struggling ones to DM and send them specific videos of Craig’s.
Most people have no idea about relationships and break ups and I feel so secure and confident that I’ve learnt the skills and the reasons for things, so much so I’m about to go do a course in mental health because I want to help more people.
This breakup has truly changed my life!
ALSO WHEN THEY POST ABOUT HOW HAPPY THEY ARE WITH THE NEW PERSON IN PUBLIC POSTS WHEN THEIR PAGE IS PRIVATE....SO U CAN SEE THEM.
If your relationship ended on bad terms and they suddenly reach out on social media after about 6 months or longer, they could just be looking for an obvious ego stroke as well. Just sharing one of my recent experiences. I hope this was helpful.
She asked for a break up and i gave it to her . Will not speak or call for a long time . She must feel the pain . I dont care how she feels she played me gaslighted and lied .
I have to say... All of this happened between me and my then ex. We were both seeing different people but still talking to one another. Then it all came out that we both wanted each other back really. Crazy times! Really good points though Craig!
Give me some of your good luck, my ex’s rebound has ended, he’s single now and going out seeing other women, we have been talking more often and I will fly to see him very soon, we are both excited, looking forward to seeing him ❤
@@1226summer just head into it with zero expectations. Have to treat it like it's your 1st date again. You have to remember that you can find someone new if it doesn't work out :) best of luck.
@@1226summer Don't show him more interest than he does
7 years and she ended it to get with the guy from her work! Gone no contact since August, heard nothing. Working on myself best I can but I think for me and her now we will just be strangers.
The longer the relationship is, the more it is susceptible to infidelity. That is why you should be on the look for signs of declining attraction in two years time.
Same thing happened to me. We lived together for 4 years and over a 3-month period she left me for a co-worker. Dude knocked her up within the first month. Either way just forget about her because she's probably forgotten about you
Did your ex ever reach out to you??
He is still watching a lot of my Instagram stories even while (probably still) dating another person
Since my ex changed her profile picture to herself with her new boyfriend, she constantly blocks me to then unblock me again. I think she is trying to provoke a reaction out of me
Did your ex ever reach out to you???
The father of my children admitted to me that his girlfriend asked him if he still had feelings for me. He told her he does, he still loves me and he’s still very much attracted to me. He just left me because I’ve hurt him too much. 😢
broke up 3 weeks ago and she keep posting storys from days before having „fun“, and today she posted a story in a restaurant we visited. she even ordered the same meal. I think she is in a rebound and the guy looks half as good as me.
Impatiently waiting….I need this 1😩
You'd think their new partner would pick up on the fact that he or she is not appearing with them or there's no mention of them on social media. You'd expect the elephant in the room to be acknowledged at some point.
They can completely discard you …if they are narcissists.
If they want to keep one of the gifts you gave them (necklace, bracelet, ring, etc.), it probably still means a lot to them and they may still have feelings for you.
You really think so, my ex has various shirts at her home. She said she she’d bring them to work and give them to me, but it’s been over a week and a half. If she was done with me wouldn’t she of brought them and gave them to me already?
Not always. I kept a couple hoodies and other things when I dumped a controlling ex gf. It wasn't because I still had feelings for her. I just liked the hoodies and other Items. When I wear them I've never thought of her as the one that bought them for me. So sometimes It just depends.
My ex is currently doing everything on this list except contacting my family. However, instead of making me feel good, it really hurts and I’m not exactly sure why? Maybe because I know he has someone else and so why am I not good enough for him? Why am I not the one he’s taking out and being photographed with and shown on social media, but then I’m the one he’s dropping all these clues to.....it is a real mindfuck and has me right back at the starting line with our breakup😞
Was in 3 year relationship and she called it quits and ever since she broke up with me, I always catch 1 person I’m not friends with on Facebook looking at my stories
same here, wish I could know if it was her or not lol, nerve racking
Same here. It's a mystery person😂😂
But what if they’re not new people on their lives?? What if they’ve been friends with the person for years?
or they could try to make you jealous by rubbing the new person in your face, saying how happy they are with them. that also shows they are still into you, a lot of the time.
My ex and me broke up. It was my fault and I begged her I will correct it and still working on it. She has in a relationship now(after 2 months of breakup) and introduced her BF to friends and family. Only thing positive or negative is that she checks my IG stories and we don’t even follow each other. What do I make out of the situation. We were in a 5 year relationship and she told I was her soulmate. Now I am laughing at it
Did you ex ever reach out to you???
We were only together for a couple months and she’s still posting TikTok’s about being over me and moving on
My husband and I had a disagreement last week, he hasn’t messaged me since. We live separately- I think he has ghosted me
mine keeps reaching out, indirect direct mostly every 3-4 weeks...I answer back politely, otherwise I stay quiet in NC. Its been 1yr 3 months since the breakup. Recently it has become more direct messages. I invited her to dinner. We'll see what happens.
4 months post breakup, my ex always view my fb stories but recently, I posted on Facebook that I went back to our town for a week because of school break. Boy oh boy, he suddenly starts leaving comments on my fb stories and I even received a call from him but unfortunately, I wasn't able to answer it. I'll juat wait for him to reach out again
Interesting. Thank you Coach Craig
7y, broke up 4 months, she started dating someone right away. On and off contact. Told me she's still not happy...
She was already dating him while she was with you :( you should move on from her. It happened to me too. I spent months watching these videos for hope, but once you see they move on quickly its because they practiced hypergamy. You can never trust a person who does this.
Happened to me alex, 7 year relationship and ended it to get with the guy from her work. Been no contact since August heard nothing. Don't think I ever will hear anything, guess it's time for me to move on. Nothing else I can do. Hope you're ok.
@@lewistaylor3267 Craig's videos are good to understand female nature during breakup. Most of the time when a breakup occurs its not a good idea to take someone back. If a woman moves on to a new guy quick she was already cheating while with you and she lost all attraction for you. It happened to me too and there is always hope to find someone new, I did. All you can do is focus on being better in every facet of your life. Don't let women walk all over you, create healthy boundaries and don't be afraid of leaving her if she breaks the boundaries. She will respect you more for being strong and not tolerating her crap. #1 rule also is to not be boring so take a comedy class, dance class so you can take girls dancing and take an improv class. Don't make her your primary priority and you will do better in the future.
@@lewistaylor3267 ya things got distant for us for 2 years and she finally left. Def called her out on it, but ya I think it's cheating for sure.
@@ObscureManifesto everything Craig has said in this video my ex isn't doing anything of it.. she's not reached out.. she's not contacted any of my friends or family.. she's doing the complete opposite what Craig has said.. yeah it's well and truly done for because she got with the person she was cheating on me. It is what it is.. yeah I do miss her because we had great memories but nothing I can do or say plus I'm blocked on all social platforms. Just got to move on its all I can do end of day.
How would you even know this stuff if you're in deep No Contact & minding your own business 🤔? (Not creeping, etc.) I guess he's over me. Man. 🥺😭💔
Exactly why are folks checking to see if their ex is doing all these things? If they dumped you, move on. They will just dump you again if you take them back. You are weak if you take them back.
23m dated for 9 years. she was with someone new 2 months later lol
It's typical, girls don't wait.
Awesome video to look back at and to keep on watching again to reassure yourself.
My baby daddy left me for someone else last August. I finally stopped chasing and went no contact in April. We stay in minimum contact for our two kids. Recently he has been texting me about the girls and trying to get me to see how great of a dad he is, almost as if he is trying to seek validation from me. Two days ago he updated his Facebook cover photo to something that said “the best revenge, is no revenge. Move on and be happy.” He also posts photos of him and his gf all the time. Has he really moved on and is he really happy? Or is this just to piss me off?
When the new vids are hyper relevant 😁
my ex refused to let the kids talk about me around her but she knows they all talk to me and wanna see me
she also refuses to give back my stuff that has no value to her hut to me it does
Watch out first your ex has a narcissistic personality disorder, cause all these things )which are true, might have also other hidden meanings
What does it mean when she ends things but a week later checks your instagram stories every day for two weeks then blocks you?
Good evening Craig,
I have been in no contact since September after being booted, friend-zoned, and told to look for someone else by a girl I was seeing. She called me up out of the blue last week, and asked me If I had a bed in my spare bedroom that she could come use to stay the night because she was having a hard time sleeping at her place due to "noises". She was out doing stuff during this call, and told me she would stop by and see me if she had time later and would call me. She called about an hour later to say she couldn't come over because she didn't have time (around 6pm) but maybe another day... just as I thought she would say. She then said we'd talk later and then we hung up. So far, no calls, messages, texts; nothing. This phone call really perplexed me beyond any logical thinking or comprehension that I could understand.
Was she serious? Was she reaching out using a direct-indirect approach? Was she messing around with my head, or just bread-crumbing me? It doesn't make any sense....
"Do you have a spare bed I can come sleep in at your place sometime?"
Appreciate a reply if you end up reading this. I like your videos.
Thanks,
Still perplexed, in North Carolina
My ex still reaches out, and wished me merry Christmas first, (at 11:42 pm). She also posted a very affectionate ig post about her boyfriend the same day 🤔🤔🤔 also wants me to keep her updated on my new dog
Any advice on how to navigate a situation where my girlfriend is really angry with me and we haven't spoken for a whole week? Do I wait for her to reach out, obviously she needs time, or do I message to arrange meeting up? She is avoidant and I realise that I have messed up to an extent through my own anxieties. I just want the opportunity to apologise for the way I've handled things and I give her the chance to voice her frustrations. I really don't know what to do for the best, I just want to be able to fix things with her.
How'd it play out? Asking as a anxious preoccupied
What if she's pregnant
They left you for reasons. Don't accept their excuses if they want to get back.
My ex told me she didn’t have time for me and kept. Making little reasons to talk to me. By asking about a friend wanting to join Toastmasters ,or she would text. I don’t go bars there bad when she didn’t realize I knew she was looking at my Facebook
Coach Craig what about if your ex left you for someone else? What are the chances of them coming back and yes I'm doing NC
One year and half she stop talking to me. Im doing NO CONTACT since that time after many many try and beg to fix things but nothing worked. those days i think about her alot. Should i text her again after 18 months maybe she is waiting me to talk to her or maybe she wants me to text her first. Im lost. I really love her but im afraid that she will ignore me i have experienced that soo painfull. Advices please
Walk away if they want you in their life or vice versa then that's their loss, don't be desperate and reach out
After 18 months she's unlikely to text you and is disinterested in going back with you. But I would still text her, and if her response is negative, at least you'll know she isn't interested, so you will move on more easily. My personal opinion
Did your ex ever reach out to you???
Coach Craig
My ex nine months later after they ended the relationship still has photos of us on her social media page from time shared together. Why? Especially when they ask to stop contacting them
KG
Same here
Did yours ex ever reach out to you???
@@archangelelmo not yet , but hang in there , start projects and get busy living
the amount of illusion
I couldn’t help it, I know we are supposed to let them watch our stories and not make a big deal out of it. But every time her name popped up on social media it was so damn triggering to me. I just went ahead and unfollowed her and removed her from my followers.
been 2 years and im happy on my own but one thing i realize is that my ex still stalking me without even following me LOL
stalking ur ex after 2 years passed without following ? UGHHH WEIRD !
Word😗
What do you do when you reach out and get nothing back?
Its been 15 years and my ex's entire tiktok account is about me lol over 50 videos all about me lol
Smear campaign?
I don’t want to give anyone false hope as every situation is different! However I will say I had an ex I chased around after she split with me for 5 months begging etc bc I was completely heartbroken and basically did everything wrong! We both moved to different states and I Seder Patel the searched for knowledge on how to handle this and found coach Craig and kinda went no contact for a year and a half (and by no contact personally I just mean focusing on yourself and improving yourself and fixing your life and growing and healing yourself and you have to let go and focus on your life and improving yourself and most importantly healing your attachment style as hard as it is) anyways fast forward a year and a half and she was single till about 7 months after we split and then she had dated someone else for a few months and after that year and a half mark / almost two years I randomly messaged her one day based off of one of her Facebook posts and she messaged me back and came to my state for Halloween and we hooked up that same night and spent the next two weeks together before she had to go back home as she lived in another state and had her sister there and a place she was paying for etc but either way I got her back and I truly didn’t think I would! I did it by following Craig’s instructions! Every situation is different and there can be so many variables included in each individual situation but if you follow what he says it will most likely work! It did for me in a situation that seemed and should’ve been hopeless based off of how I acted but even still I was able to recover it!!!!