The RIGHT Way To Nurture A Man Using Femininity
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In today's video we discuss the right way to nurture a man in relationships in a feminine way. Enjoy!
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Using your videos to prepare for my marriage.🙋🏾♀️🙈I watched you even before dating, I took your education to heart, prayed, trusted in God and now I'm a few months away from my wedding day. 😊 God is good. You are wise beyond your years and I can tell that you have Godly wisdom. Keep up the good work Dr Michelle 😊🥹❤
Ouii congrats love. Blessings on your union. You are living my dream.# someome's future wife
Congratulations 🎊 I can't wait to give the same testimony.
Congrats ❤
Congratulations sis!!! I just got married 4 weeks ago!
Wowwww congratulations!!!! ❤🎉
Every man needs a serene woman but lets remember that serenity comes from him providing emotional security. Some men gaslight and make you go crazy, they just can’t treat a woman right. So in the end he got to nurture me so that i can have the source to draw from in nurturing him back.
Under rated comment😂😅
We don't really need to mention those guys as we categorically should not be entertaining them in the first place x
Indeed
Yep. A woman can’t be feminine if she doesn’t feel safe.
Well said
I remember being given a job offer just because I smiled, they were like you actually didn't do well in our interview but because of your smile, we have an offer for you. My man also fell in love with me coz of my smile..I can truly relate....everytime I smile he is like wooow, you melt my heart with your smile...ladies smileeeeeeee 😂
Lml 🤣🤣🤣 true smiling makes you more attractive appealing and approachable.
As a married woman we dont have resource like this! thank you
You are so welcome love 🩷
❤❤❤❤ yes this is what I been looking for, as a black woman, I truly do want to be married one day. So this is something that helps big time on how to go about being that nurturing woman to my man.
PLEASE make this a series, to much single/healing content not enough married life content.
Yup I agree
I’m plenty healed I just want happy marriage/couple/wife-life content. My wifestyle content needs to be as big general lifestyle contnet
Protect this woman at all cost. She's a national treasure. ❤
Not just Words but also tones of voice are part of language and sends messages . Tones are so powerful , they can suggest guilt. Shame , or condemnation Tones can be soft and melodic and suggest harmony. WE MUST WATCH TONES FOR SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
Well said
I like this logic alot. Been w my boyfriend for 3 months now , were strictly friends for 5...he's showed me so much about what I need to work on...I definitely need to work on my tone. Got a therapist for myself. Working on myself just so I'm good not just for myself but for him while we are together. I truly believe relationships provide so much feedback.
I watched your videos when I was single then got into a healthy relationship with a loving man.
I got comfortable in the relationship and fell off with the self care so I came back for a refresher!!
I've been watching you and listening to your podcast for maybe a few weeks now. Right away, within a couple days my husband was saying I was so positive and he was just treating me differently. One day he mentioned that I'm not just being nice some days where he may think it's not real, but it's consistent 24/7 so he knows it's real. That made me feel good.
Tonight he was called in to work. Usually I hear, "it's fine, extra money"or"ill get more done there" tonight when he called on his break he was just saying how he felt bad he couldn't just be here with me, which we are really close and already hang out a lot(have 4 kids) but this is just different how he's cherishing me. Like he's feeling bad he left me here tonight and just wanted to be with me. It was so sweet. I won't forget these little things he's saying lately. One day he did say, "you get what you give" 😂 yeah haha he knew way before me. For me, understanding how a man is different and thinks, is what truly helped. I'm seeing no flaws in him and I'm not getting annoyed with any little thing anymore, accepting him for who he is. ❤
That is so wonderful. I bet it feels amazing!! I'm so happy for your love and the changes that have taken place in both of your hearts. May your marriage continue to grow and be renewed and restored by the grace of God. Thank you for sharing this!🤍✨✨✨
The things you were getting annoyed with weren't "little" tho. Your not supposed to minimize yourself & your needs.
@Heyu7her3 thank you, but I didn't minimize myself or my needs. Just realizing the difference between how we think has helped our communication and there is no arguing. I haven't changed myself intentionally; it was by realization. It just clicked it my brain. I hope that makes sense. If I were trying to pretend to be nice or accept him it would be minimizing myself and it wouldn't last or work. Learning all this from Dr. Daf (it's been 2 months now) my husband and I are just flowing and communicating and living. Our kids are fighting less. I'm still me myself and I, but I'm not getting upset with every little thing anymore now that I understand how a man thinks. And when I tell him that😂 he's like, "yeah I've been trying to tell you.. you get it now." I can understand my 3 boys better too now that I'm learning about male and female.
I love this ❤
I would take this advice with a grain of salt. Us women are very susceptible to people-pleasing and while observing your man, being one step ahead of his needs, being happy, being peaceful is good advice, it’s only good if that’s how you genuinely feel. Please remember to be authentic. Your man needs your authenticity. Don’t just pretend to be happy for the sake of keeping the peace. If your heart is concerned or upset etc, and you’ve prayed about it, you reflected on it, bring that to your husband. Don’t hold in your negative emotions. It will backfire -with vengeance- in the future. Authenticity will only make your relationship stronger. Don’t underestimate the strength of a man. If he really wants you to be in your healthy feminine, you have to be it all, not just the light-hearted parts of it. And trust me, he wants it all because he wants to be your rock and your support. A healthy man wants what’s real because he wants an authentic relationship that has love in the center of it all. We’re meant to help each other grow, not to forever stoke each others egos. It’s a journey worth embarking on. That’s my advice being married 7 years so far
When my husband’s footy team losers it effects him greatly..he’s very down and really grumpy,for days….so I do what’s best for him and for me…I get out of his way😁
That works too! It's too bad it takes so much control over so many men. Pray for him.
I feel like that's a safe space for them to feel emotional. My dad (a boomer) is like this. My husband not so much
For days??????
Michelle you look absolutely stunning as always. Thank you for representing the woman I aspire to be.
Aww that's so sweet thank you 💋💋
I needed that video thank you !
I used to be a caretaker but I learned how to be taken care of, and to take care of me.
I learned how to see us as a team and to be a supportive woman than a mother and it feels good, langage and words used are so important.
When I tell him the way he makes me feel, he does even more !
I see the the impacts on my relationship, I cant wait to get married and get even stronger with him inshaAllah !
So many women are right when they say don't do wifely duties for men who are just dating you. Some aren't looking for a wife and don't appreciate it. This is very basic to me as a soft person who's always serving and being positive
This is true but unfortunately it leads to burnout and sometimes significant attachenents to that person. But it is wonderful to serve and be positive but use wisdom to know how to create boundaries
Thank You So Much !!!!!! This was the First Video that I watched of yours. I know that the LORD lead me to this video Because of the things that I was dealing with, with my husband. I wasn’t sure on how to deal with it. But after watching this I understood perfectly how to deal with it. I just want to say Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for your wisdom and showing us a Christ Like way to nurture our husband instead of talking to him like a mother Or instead of talking about him or disliking things that he do. Just Pray about it or take it to God❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I Truly learned a lot coming from this Video. I feel kinda bad because I’m 50 years old and just now learning the Correct way on femininity. I Never had a mother to teach me these things. I was always raised up hard and had to protect myself and I Never Ever felt Loved until I came to Christ. I never had no one to teach me. Growing up the people around me was crazy and Loud and etc. I feel it’s really sad I have to learn this from a younger woman But better late than never. So Thank you again because I was definitely asking The LORD about how to deal with my husband and I open up UA-cam and there you were🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
You’re spirit is wonderful, I’m warm and fuzzy hanging out with you! Keeeep going love 😘
Yessss! I can’t wait to watch this
This is seriously tangible advice, I love love love everything you’re saying 👏🏻👏🏻
You’re advice is always spot on!
Yessssssssssssss! Keep the videos coming! Learning so much! 💛
Sis, I’ve been following you since your natural hair content…and let me tell you, you helped me then. But this wife content is IN SEASON for me. I’ve been married 1 month now and I know your content has been influential in the success thus far. I know there’s no such thing as perfect, but God’s match was undeniably perfect. I’d love your thoughts and advice about managing your femininity during “the time of the month”
These videos are EVERYTHING! Thank you Queen 👑
Shout out to you for being a doctor and beautiful. Love it👑
This is probably the best advice I’ve heard ❤
Loved this, especially the "double barrel compliment" comment. I do this unknowingly it's very effective.
Love all these tips especially the double barrel technique. Thank you so much 💗
This is really great advice 💜 Thank you so much 💜💜💜
Thank you Dr.Michelle. I appreciate your content. Your tools has helped me tremendously in my marriage💕💕
I love these videos, they help me in my relationship so much. These are the best tips for what it means to be truly feminine. ❤
Wow that is so wonderful to hear honey. I am so glad! Thank you for watching!
I’m not sure why this popped into my feed, but I am pleasantly surprised it did. I actually gained some insight from this and you gave me some things to think about. Thank you!
Great to hear! Thank you for watching love
Michelle your videos really are great 🥺 But can you also again make more on nurturing man and also what would man love in woman during relationship stage!?Would be much grateful 🥺🥺☺️
Wow this was very beneficial and insightful.
Michelle, I agree with you 💯
Like it would work with mentally healthy men. However, some men are impossible to deal with and so will not receive this type of nurturing.
Both parties must have a vision. Inspiration and encouragement comes from both ends my love.
it's so hard to nature someone in a feminine way when u have so much masculine energy yourself😕
It's true love. Hopefully my channel can help with that 🤍✨
I have so much masculine energy from the way I grew up. Been married for 8yrs, it’s still work in progress. Every now and then, I snap back, but soon as I realize, I try to rethink my actions and make amends immediately. My husband has been helpful because we communicate a lot and it helps.
When feminine energy feels fear , uncertainty and insecure then her masculine energies get activated. Just focus on your fears and insecurities.... heal those issues. Feminine energies works only when they feel safe , secure and trust in relationships.
@@Eleanor-kv9bdstart with you HAD so much masculine energy
@@Eleanor-kv9bd that’s very great. Mine doesn’t communicate so it makes it hard to know and pull through.
Great video 🩷 I was wondering about this and how to approach nurturing my man!
God bless you for sharing Dr.I have been blessed.
Thank you for this. I was not raised knowing God and was unfortunately raised to hate/fear most men and to believe I did not need a man in my life. Thankfully I found my husband who is a loving, God fearing man and I am learning this whole new way of thinking and living. This is like taking it a step further in stepping into what God has designed for us, and making it exciting!! 🤍
Wow!!!! So good!!! I needed this video!!! xoxo Thank-you!!! Amazing wisdom!!!! I'm going to watch/listen again!!!
I'm so thankful that it was helpful to you. God bless you sis 🤍
Hi lovely!!! Amaaaaazing video and I chime in with the others, not enough video to married people and how to keep it going/flourish.
Great video! Thank you for sharing the wisdom God has given you.
You are so welcome beautiful. Thank you for watching!
Totally awesome! Excellent communication! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💞🎯‼️
Thank you Dr.Daf! This was so good. Also looking forward to the content about feminine Mothering. ❤❤❤
I am happy you enjoyed it! Coming soon!
Thank you Dr.Michelle❤
You're welcome honey 🤍
OMG Michelle your glowing 😍
Thank you!
so good❤ thank you so much Doctor Daff 🌹👑
You are so welcome honey ☀️
Maaam if I had a million dollars to give you for this wisdom I would. You are so spot on and your tone confirms what femininity carries ❤❤
Aww you are so kind, thank you for your words love
Love the message and the video thank you ❤ very practical tips that we can immediately use 🙏🏻
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I could listen to you talk forever! You have such an amazing beautiful and calm spirit ❤
Aww that is sooo sweet!! Thank you 🥰
This video is so on point
Being grateful for what he does
Appreciate your time and gift that is stretched to us,personally i have learned somethings and iam thankful to come across your channel ❤, on repeat
Aww thank you so much darling!
Thank you Dr Daf❤
You're so welcome love 🤍
Wow, I realize the wounded part in me that was created by my father turned around my energy of “let me help because I see you need it and I CAN help” into a “you’re a grown man why do you need me to do that for you, are you a child?” Because my father abused that once my mother passed, and it’s seeped into my marriage. When actually, if I help him out, I’d nag a lot less and he’d really appreciate it! Sometimes with all they have on their shoulders he needs a little help with putting the keys away or finding his wallet! It’s not that he’s demanding me to do it like his mother. I love this perspective and I needed to hear it from someone.
Thank you Queen
Love this
Nice vid! First you almost say everything about femininity just looking at you, second you are very right when you say that we must think of our self being assets to our man❤ thank you for putting all together so nice
You're so sweet, thank you! I am glad it was helpful
Thank you Dr
You are beautiful! Thank you for your help!
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!
Really good advice. Thank you. No time to double barrero this content 😅
Apparently i dont do any of this. So will have to implement these tips and tricks ❤
Thank you, the divine led me here
Thank you Doctor
By the way, you look so beautiful
What your saying is true however for me the man has to know what he wants, goals and vision most importantly a communicator
Is the nurturing in dating video out? I neeeeed it.
I just got into a new relationship do greatful that i have fount your page
Queens code... !! Awesome content
I love this! Do you have any videos or could you upload one regarding handling a career/job and marriage? I’m currently stuck in corporate American and I’m not happy. Idk if I should pursue an education or a new career at this point. Thanks!
I can only hope and pray that the person I marry will do the same for me.
Great video.
I fail to find your Podcast on Spotify. I have searched and searched.
Hi 💓 - search for the “Dr. Daf Show”.
You can also use the link below: open.spotify.com/show/2e4ZURE6U1xRT7amuPxJ73?si=-1IqiuDZRC2UWoAbxVav6w
@drmichelledaf The reponse I'm getting is that is not available in my region. I'm in Africa and maybe that's why😔
Iam also on my way to marriage . Hope I can learn n use all those skills
You are so beautiful both external and internal ❤❤❤ and for me was nurturing just to see and hear you. Thank you 🙏
Wow, thank you so much honey
Would love to hear more about the dynamic of nurturing within dating context
Could u link us to the specific podcast episode?/youtube video?
God loves a quiet spirit in a woman.
No, God loves wisdom & virtue, which are not gender-specific
Does he? Or do MEN love a quiet spirit in a woman?
@@LeaverWildGodly men love a quiet spirit. That doesn't mean someone meek and timid. It's someone who is content with themselves and don't feel the need to be loud to prove themselves. Basically someone who is secure in their identity and their identity in God
Wonderful.
Currently single nurturing a high value male friend that I'm interested in and I think he so needs it.
Be careful. You may be building him up for another woman.
This video made me realize I am not very feminine at all...and it may be the cause of my marital issues when we really should still be in the honey moon phase of our marriages 😢hard to admit but I am not very nurturing as a wife but more like a mom...we need more content like this
If you don't voluntarily submit and let your husband lead then circumstances may be ordered by God so that you will fulfill your role in the marriage as help meet. I was very independent, took charge, handled everything , worked etc but now I am partially disabled can no longer do the things I did and I allow my husband to take the lead and he helps me a lot. We are more balanced in our marriage and happier than ever.
Thank you ♥️
You’re welcome 😊
Found the man that makes me want to nurture him naturally 🥰❤️❤️❤️
Profound
Hey I like relationship videos and all..I ran into your video this morning n it was so edifying..I have a lot of those qualities that I believe benefits my husband however when you speak about their sports and trying to show interest..girl I struggle..he'd be throwing down his phone because he lost a game and I play deaf ears cuz I ain't about that...how do you suggest I try? After watching your video I understand why that may be a great quality
I know the book fascinating womanhood!! It's wonderful 10/10 recomend it❤❤
It really is!
Please make an example with every point
Thanks @ Dr michelle
You're welcome honey 🤍
More married women thingssss
Thank you Dr ❤❤
You are welcome love
I can’t relate to any of this. I’m trying, but I have no desire to do any of these things. I’m still in my masculine energy
How does your lack of desire make you masculine? It's probably simply a lack of desire
Especially if you are dealing with a man who is not even taking the lead / or fully being in His masculine!
You are worthy and deserving to be cared for, loved, and helped in all the ways you need, it’s ok. Start putting yourself first. Most importantly when you feel safe, you can operate in your feminine energy
I'm.just done dating. I'd rather be single and have peace.
❤ “this woman is the greatest woman on UA-cam” my boyfriend 😅
LOL
hey what’s your better help discount code to support?
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Just be you✝️
What if you suffer with low mood
I think if you lessened the amount you included religion you would be able to reach more women. I’m not religious, I’m spiritual, so I’m able to bypass when you say “god” and still relate. When you keep going on and on about religious practices though I could see myself wanting to click away because I didn’t come here to be preached to. Great content though!
Are you going to do a video on how to encourage a man?
What if I’m the one making money and with the vision?
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How long have you even been married ?Dr
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