Not sure how I landed here but have to say my wife does all those things. Never puts me down. I married a better person than I am and would die a thousand deaths for her.
I love this. ❤ I feel like belittling, and being patronizing towards our husbands is all we see on tv and in movies these days. Women forget that they chose their husband, and made that covenant with them. Love him the way you want to be loved.
Yes! I was just chatting with a friend about this last night. We chose our husbands, so when we talk poorly about them.. it’s really just a reflection of ourselves and our choices!
@@AnnaDysett This is exactly what Feminist MSM portrays; these women are never accountable for physically and verbally abusing their own husbands while husbands aren't allowed to talk back or defend themselves...
excellent point. i would recommend, ditching social media. my ex wife got on with one of these "ministries" that was founded by a bitter woman who was a DV victim and she turned her into one of them. She used DV to avoid any accountability for her own double standards and faults.
@@marvthedog1972yes so true. I was almost a victim and I left those groups and saved my marriage. I listened to my husband more after I left those toxic groups
I agree 👏 Sometimes we get caught up in the drama of these outrageous reality tv couples and make it seem like ALL of us ladies are like that with our husbands
Girl I needed this! My husband goes above and beyond to provide for us where I am able to stay home with my babies. And this just really encouraged me to honor the Lord by treating him better. Thank you ♥️
Loving honouring and respecting each other is Biblical because both spouses are of equal value in Gods eyes. It's not more right that you should treat him better because he works outside the home and you work inside the home or whatever arrangement you have decided together. The value is in the person themself, not in what they do.
My wife and I have been married 54 years+ now and at year 27 we started to seriously pray together each day. During that 1/2 hour there is an approximately 5 minute period where we swap prayers for each other out loud in each other's presence. We thank God for bringing us together and we describe what we like and love about each other. We also bring each other's needs to our creator. I would not trade those 5 minutes for any other daily activity. Thank you for doing what you do so well!
Thank you so much for your wonderful content. My wife and I have been married for over 8 years now, and from the very beginning, before we got married, I read to her Ephesians 5:25 , and I told her that if I couldn't love her each and every day just as this Bible commands me to, that we had no business getting married. Through that verse and other verses, we have had the very best marriage you could ever imagine. I want to thank God our Father for such a wonderful marriage. I love my wonderful beautiful wife with all my heart ❤️
Anna i can remember when my husband was alive and we shared 33 yrs together... There were times we degree with issues or spoke the wrong words to each other But we always got on our knees and prayed for the answers and ask Forgiveness to each other...when you really Love your mate your truly one in spirit and strengthen each other everyday...iam so Thankful God gave me 33yrs with a Godly man .. So i would say to all you young wives remember to Love your husband in all respect of life because you certainly miss them when they're gone ... but let me say he left me the best part of himself with me the 5 children and grandchildren and now greatgrand babies...iam blessed thank you Anna for this video Love to all ❤
As a husband, I often miss the mark God has called me to and I am so grateful for my wife’s mercy and understanding. She helps me to want to be the best husband and father I can be and to sacrifice for her.
Younger guy in a beautiful relationship, wanted to leave my gratitude. Excellent points made and you seemed soft spoken, gentle, and humble about your short comings or previous mistakes. Obviously I’m not a woman but it’s so nice to see such content, I hope your marriage, as well as your family are and continue to be blessed by the Lord, God bless you.
Thank you Anna, I recently had my second child and I have been feeling overwhelmed lately and I feel like I don’t get enough help. My husband is gone 8 am-7pm most days, and I should be lifting my husband up instead of dragging him down when he gets home, because my toddler had many meltdowns between 5-7pm. By the time he gets home I feel like dumping all my frustrations of dealing with a toddler and newborn on him, I just want someone to listen. When in fact, I should be resetting my mood so he wants to come home and be with his family. I should be seeking more advice from my mom friends for solutions, so hopefully, I have less of a need to rant to my husband about common toddler issues. I should just be enjoying those precious few hours we get with him every day. Thank you for giving me the talk I needed the last few days.😊
You are in a very hard season that will pass quite quickly once everyone starts sleeping better. Give yourself grace. You are certainly not yourself right now. I spent some time in prayer for you ♥️
I was in the exact same situation 5 months ago, my baby is no 7 months but i remember the first two months was no joke. I was thinking of running away, now baby is 7 months and it is so much better. I know at times you are so tired you cant even read your Bible or feel like praying. I felt guilty for feeling that way seeing you always hear you are blessed to have a husband and a baby, but it was the worst time. I changed my daily routine with baby in order not to feel stuck, i will make baby asleep with gospel music so that i can sit with the Lord, i had bible scripture notes on my phone all so when i wake up in the night and feel like its too overwhelming i can read them. You will feel better in no time.
I think you're halfway truthful here. It's ok to tell your husband you are not coping and to come up with a plan together as to what would help. It's very tough if he works long hours and cannot help in any way with the children. They are both of your children and your health and happiness matters not only for your sake, but also for your marriage sake and for the health and wellbeing of the children. A stressed mum does not make for healthy children or a healthy marriage. You are right, simply being in a mood with your husband when he comes in daily is not the answer, but neither is either pretending to him that you are fine or not feeling like you can discuss this with him. It's really a joint issue and together, tenderly taking and caring about each other and what would help to manage better would be the Biblical way to work together.
You should spend a day in his shoes and you’ll see how much harder his role is than yours. Then you’ll do your job without trying to get someone else to help you
I'm currently in courthsip with my furure husband (God willing) and I'm basically a future wife, in training! Please pray for the Lord to equip me as I sometimes find myself constantly disappointed at his short comings even though he tries so hard with everything else. I want to be the one he longs to talk to as sometimes I get into bad moods and end up complaining 😅. My name is Cristina - please hold me in prayer 🙏
Thank you for this ❤ I feel like I give my husband a hard time even though he is a very patient, diligent man. I'm trying to let him know I appreciate him more
I’ve learned to refrain from talking to my husband about my work. It started with a comment made from him that angered me and made me not feel like I could trust telling him about my work, but really it’s been a blessing. All I did was complain about work anyways, so now I just keep my mouth shut and I don’t get into a negative, complaining mood. Sometimes, if things are really stressful, it will spill over and I won’t be able to shakes it, but I just say I’m stressed and nothing more. It’s helped me stay happier.
Wow, that is wonderful and truly amazing self control on your part 🙌🏻 When you combine that with prayer and conviction of the Holy Spirit.. nothing is impossible! I am still praying that the Lord make a way to lift the stress from you and for you to be home like you want ♥️
@@AnnaDysett Thank you, Anna. It has been a test of self control, because sometimes I just want to rant about how someone slighted me or annoyed me, but I remember that no good come from it and I just let it go. It’s amazing. I was really upset one day this week and I remember Caitlin from Mrs Midwest talking about a Set Apart podcast episode called Victory Over Meltdowns and I listened to that while I cleaned the kitchen. I kid you not, it was like the most divine peace settled over me and I just kept cleaning and doing but so calm. I can’t even explain it. It couldn’t have been anything other than the Lord!
It sounds like you are learning emotional regulation. It's not about not acknowledging your feelings, but knowing that they are a warning system that God gave you. If you are feeling upset and annoyed that is telling you something. It's how you then process that and what you do with it. The interesting thing is, if it's because of someone else's poor behaviour, then that is what you need to work through. That's interesting that I'm annoyed, when really the onus is on the other person. If they have poor behaviour, then I might, feel sorry that they don't know how to regulate themselves and two, learn how to gray rock, not answer or give minimal attention to them... Like Jesus with the Pharisees. He didn't feel the need to answer any of their questions directly at all since he knew the motive behind them was unkind, to trap him or trip him up. He also walked away and didn't engage further, no need to make a relationship with them. He let people make their own mistakes... Peter, Judas, the rich young ruler....
@@KJ-lb4tj Yes, I think you’re right. I am learning how to regulate my emotions. I was not taught as a child. The old saying “if mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy” was law in my house growing up and I’m trying to break that cycle. I want to be a constant for my family. Someone they can come to, not a source or turbulence.
God gave you emotions. That worry is telling you something. Without emotions you would get into huge issues. Imagine not feeling scared, you might trust a very bad person, not feeling pain, you would walk into terrible trouble.
It's what you do with the worry that is either helpful or unhelpful. It's not that you won't feel worried ever, it's just that you then need to process that and know what you do with it. Look up therapy in a nutshell, Christian therapist that gives very helpful little sessions on emotion regulation.
I’m so grateful for having stumbled across your channel. It’s helping me understand how to be a better wife and a Godly woman. It brings so much peace to my soul and I hope with time it brings peace to my husband as well…and maybe leads him to God too. Thank you! ❤
This is my first time seeing your channel. So wonderful. Thank you. As a woman who has been married for 42 years I can say that each thing you talked about is absolutely true! I wish I had know it in year 2 or even 10, but it has been a labor of love the whole way through. Through our journey we have run up against many of these things, but we took the time to talk about each one and humbly see our individual flaws and repent. Forgiving each other is key, too. The only thing I would add is that my husband and I pray together every morning before scripture study and again at night before we fall asleep. It has been so unifying.❤
I love this soo much! Thank you for sharing. Congratulations on 42 years 🥹 This is honestly so inspiring. We currently do our quiet time separate, but I pray all the time my husband and I can get to this very deep level of spiritual intimacy. So beautiful.
More content like this needs to be online. There's so much division sayan trys to create. We have to make conscious decisions to fight the enemy and not fall from our own stability.
Anna, this is such an important message! Every night at dinner, when we are saying grace I thank God out loud in front of my husband while we hold hands in prayer and tell God how thankful and appreciative I am of my husbands faithfulness and hard work to provide for us. I try to never let a day go by without saying it out loud in that manner. I'm amazed that you spoke about limerence, as it is not talked about and recognized these days as being potentially harmful; it is accepted as a "feel good" thing. When I first became a new Christian, a lot of the Christian music at that time sounded like love songs to Jesus, reflecting a romantic Jesus. This was dangerous as many of the women developed an abnormal "romantic" image of Jesus, and not a solid, Biblical one. This is why I am still very careful about the Christian music I listen to. We have to be so aware and awake now days!
Been with my wife going on 37 years two boys 8 grandchildren. The secret is marrying someone smarter than me. We compliment each other. Religion is huge with our family and also donating to our faith 10 percent of our income. Family prayer and communication holding hands. It's all the little things. At 60 yrs old the sex is still fantastic
I’m reminded of a point I learned recently, that even Jezebel was submitted to Ahab. Still studying this but that we’re to submit (outside of physical abuse) to our husbands bc we chose them to be our “lord”. We both must submit to God first. However unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen so having to submit to one who isn’t submitted to God, will be HARD & can be attributed to our not listening; submitting to God to choose a truly godly man. There are pretty good con men out there too, who know how to perform “nice Christian guy” & the real them come out (narcissists, psychological /emotional abusers etc) after marriage. Would love for more pastors & Christian influencers to address this problem that I believe is growing. 🙏🏽
Wow. Yes. That is a serious can of worms to open. I’m definitely going to look into the relationship between Jezebel and Ahab further now.. you’ve sparked a new interest! This was so good. Thank you for sharing!
Just wanted to say I found your channel yesterday and have been binge watching all your videos. Absolutely love your content, love your heart for the Lord and you’re a great inspiration for me. I have been Christian my whole life, but have been in a dry place and feel burnt out for a while, but you have given me some renewal, and hope, and the motivation I need to turn things around and get my life back in order. Thanks for being faithful and sharing your story! ❤
Praise 🥹♥️ thank you so much for sharing this with me. I started this channel as a pure act of obedience, and rarely do I get to see how the Lord uses it to work in peoples lives. I’m okay with that, but it is such a blessing to read comments like this!
@@AnnaDysett I think today especially, women need good advice and examples on how to live a godly life, how we’re supposed too. And you do it so humbly, and have such a calming spirit. ❤️
Anna I’ve been married 37 years in September and I have a difficult time after all these years to build up my husband or myself for that matter. And he has hard time with me too. I love him but all these years and three kids and 6 grandkids things are just different. I guess you could say we are friends also but of course we have our times. I definitely need more reading of the Bible. I love your channel!❤
I encourage you to start with the book of Corinthians and just read a chapter every morning! It takes less than 10 minutes. There is so much wisdom starting there ♥️ remember we cannot live by bread alone - we have to be in the word daily to sustain ourselves spiritually just like we have to eat daily to sustain energy for our bodies.
Thank you for these tips, I grew up without an father figure , but I gave my life to Christ and I want to strive to be a good Christian wife and have a good man of God by my side ❤
You are so brave to say these things in today’s world. Your strength and character are to be commended. Please continue to stand and face the fiery darts and set the example for the younger generations.
A few months ago I commented on a video of yours and I was practicing Islam, but then I met a Son of God and he opened my eyes and through him I developed a relationship with God, I’m in love with him and your videos help so much, I am not married, nor am I his girlfriend but when I am, I intend to implement your advice 10 fold, I love being a woman, watching these videos and learning how to treat a man makes me Giddy, God bless all of you my beautiful sisters! Jesus is Christ! And thank you so much Anna for making these videos, never stop doing what you’re doing!
PRAISE GOD! I wish I could hear the full story.. but I am soo happy that you are walking with Yahweh the true living God who sent his Son Jesus Christ to die for us. This has honestly made my entire day/week/month/year ♥️
I'm not your normal target for your channel. Always believed that marriage is a partnership. I had this argument just recently. I was brought to task for describing my partner as MY wife. I don't own her I was told. But my reply was that I'M her husband. We are equals, and respect each other. It's our 50th Anniversary this year so we're doing something right. I really enjoy your videos, and the common sense you speak. Thanks from England.
Thank you so much for your comment! You are right, my target is mostly women and building them up to be godly. It is so refreshing to see a man’s perspective on here so thank you so much for sharing! 🤗 God bless you, your wife, and your beautiful marriage!
If you described her as 'the' wife, I'm not sure that sounds very respectful. Nor is she someone else's wife. You are her husband and she is your wife. Playing with semantics doesn't sound very productive. That you're married and content for all those years should be enough.❤
@@KJ-lb4tj Perhaps I did not explain myself very well. We are equals in a partnership, but with the added element of equal ownership of each ownership of each others hearts.We owe each other obligations. For instance she is seriously ill , and so because we own/love each other I care for her. I know if the situation was reversed she do the same for me. After she's put up with me, I realize how lucky I have been to have met her. Hope it clears it up a bit. I believe the section on a wife being a "Help meet" is in Corinthians. But it has been awhile since I read it.
Lovely video! I will share that in addition to all the wonderful things mentioned in the video, having scheduled intimacy/ physical affection time (on my own agenda minimum 3-4x per week) is also very helpful. I've found my husband feels loved when we are intimate in the way only husbands and wives can be, regularly. I heard on another channel, to take 10 -15 minutes to freshen up, shift my mindset into being ready to comfort and be comforted by my husband in gratitude even on tiresome days. He recognizes the sacrifice and sees my love for him in action. I want him to know he is so much more than my best friend, he's my Superman, a true blessing and answered prayer from Jesus. God bless you all!!
All such wonderful acts of Biblical love! Being cheerful when he comes home is so helpful to me as my husband works nights and I’m a grumpy am person haha Whenever my husband has an ailment, I research/ make natural ways to heal such ailment. Gods medicine. Maybe it’s making him a watermelon lemon balm electrolyte drink after a day of 100 degree weather yard work, or infusing oils to sooth a pulled back. And I pray thanks to the Creator both as I make it and as I apply it to my husband. 🙏💛
I’m a grumpy morning person too 😆 That’s sooo beautiful! You just encouraged me so much by sharing this. I’m going to start praying over the little things I make like that for my husband now ♥️
Thank you for sharing your insight. As I am listening, I am curious to hear whether it would be best to show respect than say it out loud that you respect your hubby. Actions speak louder than words. Same goes with "I love you". I have seen how empty words can be if they are not backed up with deeds. And please keep on sharing what it takes to be a godly wife ❤
Showing is certainly more important! Definitely need to walk the talk - but I do think there is something really special about saying it out loud. Especially if your husband’s love language is words of affirmation 🥰
No amount of saying you respect him will help if you don’t show it through your actions. That said, sounding it out loud from time to time will help him see/notice is more. No harm in doing both, to solidify your position of certainty. Men don’t need as much confirmation but it’s nice once in a while. It also makes us reciprocate more, reminding us to respect back.
Thank you so much for this! Our wives have such a wonderful opportunity to build their husbands up with genuine respect. I believe this can literally make or break your husband’s spirit. Please ladies, hear how this encouragement can deeply affect your husband so that his love, affection and appreciation for you, his Godly wife will grow.
We need to be carful to not idolize our husbands/wives. There is a very thin line and it should not be crossed. It’s very simple the Lord left His instructions. Treat others the way you want to be treated, wives respect your husbands, love your neighbor as you love yourself, submit to one another, love as God loves us with patience, kindness, mercy not jealousy or hate or envy. We just need to follow His example, instructions and commandments. Seek FIRST the kingdom of God and everything else shall be added unto you. ❤
@@AnnaDysett Children can become idols as well as jobs, careers, educational goals, hobbies, basically anything that we strive towards and make priority. It’s important to keep God as number 1 first and foremost and He takes care of the rest. We serve a good God, hallelujah!
What’s so wild about this comment is that I was just putting myself down the other day thinking my hair was looking awful lately.. Thank you so much for your kind words 🥹♥️ I do cut it myself and I use the shark air wrap (similar to the Dyson but more affordable). Maybe I’ll be able to do a video in the future.
@@AnnaDysett Oh wow, I am very glad that I commended then! Your hair looks wonderful, please do not put yourself down for your hair, we love the way you put yourself together everyday. Hair can be difficult to manage at times but yours looks beautiful. That is wonderful that you cut your own hair! I hope to do that one day as well, for now I will stick to cutting my husbands ❤️
Respect is one of the most important things for a wife to give to her husband. Respect by not over-talking, genuine interest in his goals & needs makes her worth more than gold or rubies that Proverbs talks about. So important and yet not taught.
The title says it all. I actually found one by accident. Growing in my relationship with God, i see where i used to fill in the void with other things, but with God after praying and worshipping him, everything else falls in place
One when you are stressed or angry or scared wrap your arms around him burying your face in his chest or shoulder hold tight and just be held untill the stress leaves then talk about it while still being held. In time he will begin picking you up and carrying you somewhere comfortable to sit where he can hold you. Two when he is stressed or angry or scared go put on something comfy eather soft T-shirt and soft shorts or flat out pajamas then take his face in your hands and gently kiss him a few times to get his attention on you while running your fingers through his hair. Lead him to the couch, I say the couch because your children need to see this. Lie back reclined with him lying back against you with his head on your chest and wrap your arms and legs around him. Hold him and run your fingers through his hair and wait. In time he will talk and in the completely safe space you have given him he will be able to put things into words that he would not be able to normally. Listen all the way through and keep running your fingers through his hair. After he goes quiet take a few minutes to think then acknowledge the circumstance and that that is definitely something that causes stress fear etc. let him know he is NOT weak to feel that way and then if you have advice and you know scripture to back it, give it. If not it is perfectly ok to say you don't know how to handle this situation and say let's pray about it and put it in GODs hands. Verbally tell him no matter what you are right here with him and each time he shows fear or you speak love squeezing just a bit harder silently saying how much you love him and give him that strength. Use this as well any time you are relaxing, eather you should be holding him or you should be in His arms. Any time you are in the same room (if) you can be doing your thing right next to him so you can be right next to him or go squirm your way in front of him take his hands off of the dishes etc and wrap them around your waist and lean back into him head on his shoulder and sigh contentedly then wrap his hands tighter around you silently telling him to stay and you take over the task. Any time you can be giving and receiving comfort with touch DO IT it's a lost art but we need it in ways we usually don't realize. Back to the being in his arms face in his chest do the same when your mad at him. If you are going to address an issue, first show him you need your safe space and take time letting him hold you till you feel safe and he feels you relax and melt into his arms. Then when you start let him know you are frustrated with something concerning him but first kiss him then after saying that kiss him again like you are a pair of adolescents making out. When you are both feeling safe and safe in each other's love THEN Calmly begin talking. Address the thing it's self and not his connection to it and let him know how it makes you feel. Make sure to make it clear that your love for him comes first and that he and the issue are separate things, you are stressed at the issue, but you LIVE (punctuate with more kisses) your husband. Wrap the little tiny (when compared to all the years of life) issue up in ALL the years past present and future of Love you have for each other. Also after letting him know your frustrated and then lots of kissing begin with aaaaaaaaalllllllllllllll the things you love and appreciate about him and all the things about him that you find sexy THEN lovingly discuss the thing that's bugging you. As you two talk, each stress you bring up and ANYTHING that can be miss used as an attack? Kiss him or sit in his lap facing him with your legs wrapped around him and snuggle closer show desire for him and trust in him before and as your saying it. When all is as resolved as it can be for now acknowledge that fact in love and then go for another round of kissing and then snuggle as close and as tightly wrapped around him as you can and bury your face in his shoulder again and let him know again all the wonderful things about him. Later that day/evening do the lying on the couch with his head on your chest and you wrapped around him thing and put on something you both love that makes him laugh, if it's something like cartoons or lord of the rings or something else that brings out his inner kid definitely pick that one and reward that inner kid the way you do gallantry and sexiness. Make your chest and your arms and legs wrapped around him His safe place and make being wrapped in his arms Your safe place. And get absolutely as much touch as you can. Again just the being pressed up against him or standing beside him and leaning into him. Any time you can steal one of both of his arms and wrap them around yourself. Standing in public ABSOLUTELY wrap his arms around you. When you dress up pretty use it to say yup he is with Me and I have eyes only for him. Let us be protector and use all touch to name us husband and safe space and don't ask to be our safe space just do it. We get used to you doing that when we ourselves don't yet know we need it. First in your life is GOD then spouse third children. . . EVERY THING EVERY ONE AND EVERY TASK comes AFTER those at all times no matter what! Get into the habit of Dropping EVERYTHING and sealing and giving safe place. If there's no time for that DO IT ANYWAYS and while you have him pinned on the couch with his head on your chest call your friends from church to come take over dinner and kids and chores etc and when others make that call the two of you grab your kids and answer. We have all the help we need we just have to start acting like GOD knows what he is talking about and work together to walk it out.
Wow... it's the first time I hear someone say a lot of times i pray for this person or that person but totally missing the point that God changes our hearts first..❤
When we had a big fight he told me “I am respecting you for years!! “ so in our case he was the one to say he respects me even though it was through a fight but I realized how important it is for him to respect me and know I am respecting him back. And I guess he felt I didn’t respect him in that fight and this is why he said that. The problem is though that in his mind respecting me is so different than what I felt I needed from him and what I felt is most important to me… like back then in his mind he did his best and gave his best but for me it was far from my wishes of what I wanted from him. Tragic really.
Thank you for this rich exhortation. Unfortunately, both husbands and wives who lead their married life according to biblical standards are increasingly rare. But may the Lord help me to find this wife according to biblical prescriptions and also to be the husband according to biblical standards.
Unfortunately I was not married to a Godly husband but an abusive narcassist. If the husband can't love a wife the way she should be, very hard to submit and do anything nurturing for him. Been free for 4 years now. Thank God
You are very right 🥺 I’m so sorry you went through that, but so relieved to hear you are learning on the Lord and did not turn your back on Him even when you were suffering.
So happy that you are free and out of that garbage and insanity. That is great! Now join a great community in a Baptist Church or Orthodox Church Also watch videos by Suzanne Venker and Carrie Gruess. They have great advice on relationships.
I think that verse in proverbs is interesting because honestly that’s how I feel. My spirit is broken because my husband doesn’t give me the things I need emotionally and though I try to be a good happy wife I just can’t do it because I am so unhappy and depressed because I feel alone. But if I cry to him and try to bring up my pain because of that lack of connection and lack of his awareness of my needs then I’m just the nagging wife causing problems
I remember when mums use to teach us to look after our husbands and family's..... My mum did bless her I've been with my husband 26 years and I'm 43 and certainly didn't need a UA-cam channel on how to look after him ....... Thanks mum you were the best teacher you just went too soon
So it might sound silly, but I always say to use the "customer service" tone with your husband. Especially when in an argument/disagreement. It helps keep the situation from escalating but also it keeps YOU calm and respectful so that we do not sin in our anger.
I often feel under appreciated. I work a 12 hr shift from 2:00am -2:00pm. I come home wash the dishes, clean the house. We have a 6yr old, 10 month, a set of foster twins that are 6month old . On an average I only get 4-5 hrs of sleep per night. Most women think we only want sex but it would nice to have a back rub or foot rub to ease the sore feet at times.
There are several Bible verses that emphasize the role of women in society. One good one is Proverbs 31 - this whole chapter talks about how women should take care of their families and even their servants. In particular, it talks about how good women get up early to provide for their families, and can even acquire property in their name. Another Bible verse that emphasizes the role of women is Titus 2:4-5. This verse talks about how older women should instruct young women, especially about how to treat their husbands and children. It mentions issues of subordination, self-control, purity and kindness. Proverbs 18:22 is a Bible verse that talks about what happens when a man finds a good woman. It emphasizes that when a man finds a good woman and marries her, he receives God's mercy. However, this is not the only Bible verse that talks about the importance of finding a good woman. Even Proverbs 31:10 talks about it. In fact, comparing a wife with a noble character with a treasure more valuable than rubies goes even further. Even in Proverbs 12:4, this is repeated, referring to the fact that such a woman is an excellent wife and the crown of her husband.
Anna Dysett, I just came here to tell you that , please don't mind any body talking irrelevant things. Don't mind the haters. May God forgive them because they don't know what they doing. Please don't let their illcomments get to you. Please keep up your good work. I appreciate your knowledge. I love you ma.❤ Please you can also consider speaking to single ladies too on character building and perfection 🙈❤️
Thank you so much! I know what I’m getting myself into as a follower of Jesus. He warned me and equipped me well ♥️🤗 I appreciate your encouragement and super kind words/support!
@@AnnaDysett awwww☺️. Thank you for responding. Looking forward to my suggestion on speaking to single ladies on character building unto perfection (please do a video on it) .🙈🥰
Unfortunately, if my wife said she respected me, I’d know she’s lying. Everybody needs to realize words, alone are meaningless. St. John said, “let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth” (John 3:18) If you don’t truly respect your husband don’t tell him you do, because he will sniff it out as a lie in two seconds. SHOW that you respect him through your actions.
@@mr.e8432 Great point! I do think it can come from a place of honesty though even though it’s a difficult thing to say for some women. Some of us are just a little shy being so bold!
I don’t want to sound like I’m being rude, but from my experience, it’s easy saying you respect your husband when you actually do, when you don’t or you try to but you don’t think it’s true in your mind, that’s where it gets tricky saying it.
@@leenah9898 from my experience it felt similar to saying I love you for the first time when dating. You certainly mean it, but it makes you nervous because you’ve never said it out loud before 🥰
this is all good, but bear in mind, a lot of little boys grow up physically into 'men' but nowhere in their life experience have they been 'nurtured'. Keep this in mind when picking a husband. You don't need to find a perfect man, you need to find a man who's honest, brave and learning. Only those kind of people are going to be receptive to 'nurturing'. Otherwise, you might find yourself 'hating men' because of the way they are and the way they respond to you and your 'nurturing'. Oh and, nagging isn't nurturing.
🔥🤍🌹🙏😇🌹🤍🔥 🔥John 4 🔥 22 🙏 Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation is of the Jews. 23 🙏But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. 24 🙏God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth. 26 🙏But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me: 🔥John 14🔥 17🙏“Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.” 13 🤍Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. 🔥John 8🔥 45 And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not. He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God 🔥John 15 🔥 7 🌹If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you. 8 🌹Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples. 9 🌹As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love. 10 🌹If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love. 11 🌹These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full. 12 🌹This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. 13🌹 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. 14 🌹Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. 🔥🔥🙏🤍🙏🔥🔥 🔥2 John 1:🔥. 6 🌹 And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it. 🔥🔥🙏🤍🙏🔥🔥 🔥Matthew 22 🔥 29 🔥“Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.” 🔥🔥🙏🤍🙏🔥🔥 🔥Matthew 22:🙏 37 🔥“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.” 38 🔥“This is the first and great commandment.” 39 🔥“And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” “40 🔥On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.” 🔥🔥🙏🤍🙏🔥🔥
Yes, I believe it goes back to Genesis and the curse after the deception. Genesis 3:16 Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you Deep down we want to control and rule over our husbands, but God said men would rule over us.
@@YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIESencourage instead of break down. marriage is a covenant made in the eyes of God. It’s not about what he *shouldn’t* have done, it’s about what *can* be done moving forward.
The planet where the Holy Spirit dwells inside! I used to not be this girl at all! Praise the Father for saving me and giving me eyes to see and ears to hear 🙌🏻
Walk in the spirit and Jesus will show you what is right or wrong. Repent from humanismn and psychology. Human wisdom will destroy you and your relationship. Dear Lady maybe you must be born again. Jesus loves you. Jesus has commanded me to love my wife. Fullstop.
Not sure how I landed here but have to say my wife does all those things. Never puts me down. I married a better person than I am and would die a thousand deaths for her.
Your wife is a lucky lady! 😊
I love this. ❤ I feel like belittling, and being patronizing towards our husbands is all we see on tv and in movies these days. Women forget that they chose their husband, and made that covenant with them. Love him the way you want to be loved.
Yes! I was just chatting with a friend about this last night. We chose our husbands, so when we talk poorly about them.. it’s really just a reflection of ourselves and our choices!
@@AnnaDysett This is exactly what Feminist MSM portrays; these women are never accountable for physically and verbally abusing their own husbands while husbands aren't allowed to talk back or defend themselves...
excellent point. i would recommend, ditching social media. my ex wife got on with one of these "ministries" that was founded by a bitter woman who was a DV victim and she turned her into one of them. She used DV to avoid any accountability for her own double standards and faults.
@@marvthedog1972yes so true. I was almost a victim and I left those groups and saved my marriage. I listened to my husband more after I left those toxic groups
I agree 👏 Sometimes we get caught up in the drama of these outrageous reality tv couples and make it seem like ALL of us ladies are like that with our husbands
Most guys just want to hear when they come home. I love you and I miss you. I'm glad you're back. Those words can be sweeter than a symphony of angels
Girl I needed this! My husband goes above and beyond to provide for us where I am able to stay home with my babies. And this just really encouraged me to honor the Lord by treating him better. Thank you ♥️
Loving honouring and respecting each other is Biblical because both spouses are of equal value in Gods eyes. It's not more right that you should treat him better because he works outside the home and you work inside the home or whatever arrangement you have decided together. The value is in the person themself, not in what they do.
@@KJ-lb4tj I appreciate that! It’s just something I value my husband works so hard for me to be able to do. But you are right!
My wife and I have been married 54 years+ now and at year 27 we started to seriously pray together each day. During that 1/2 hour there is an approximately 5 minute period where we swap prayers for each other out loud in each other's presence. We thank God for bringing us together and we describe what we like and love about each other. We also bring each other's needs to our creator. I would not trade those 5 minutes for any other daily activity.
Thank you for doing what you do so well!
That’s beautiful 🥹 thank you so much for sharing. What an inspiration!
Thank you for sharing op, and Anna thank you!
Thank you so much for your wonderful content.
My wife and I have been married for over 8 years now, and from the very beginning, before we got married, I read to her Ephesians 5:25 , and I told her that if I couldn't love her each and every day just as this Bible commands me to, that we had no business getting married. Through that verse and other verses, we have had the very best marriage you could ever imagine.
I want to thank God our Father for such a wonderful marriage.
I love my wonderful beautiful wife with all my heart ❤️
Anna i can remember when my husband was alive and we shared 33 yrs together...
There were times we degree with issues or spoke the wrong words to each other
But we always got on our knees and prayed for the answers and ask Forgiveness to each other...when you really Love your mate your truly one in spirit and strengthen each other everyday...iam so Thankful God gave me 33yrs with a Godly man ..
So i would say to all you young wives remember to Love your husband in all respect of life because you certainly miss them when they're gone ... but let me say he left me the best part of himself with me the 5 children and grandchildren and now greatgrand babies...iam blessed thank you Anna for this video Love to all ❤
Amen ♥️
As a husband, I often miss the mark God has called me to and I am so grateful for my wife’s mercy and understanding. She helps me to want to be the best husband and father I can be and to sacrifice for her.
Aww, we all fall short. How blessed she is to have a godly husband like you!
Younger guy in a beautiful relationship, wanted to leave my gratitude. Excellent points made and you seemed soft spoken, gentle, and humble about your short comings or previous mistakes. Obviously I’m not a woman but it’s so nice to see such content, I hope your marriage, as well as your family are and continue to be blessed by the Lord, God bless you.
Thank you Anna, I recently had my second child and I have been feeling overwhelmed lately and I feel like I don’t get enough help. My husband is gone 8 am-7pm most days, and I should be lifting my husband up instead of dragging him down when he gets home, because my toddler had many meltdowns between 5-7pm. By the time he gets home I feel like dumping all my frustrations of dealing with a toddler and newborn on him, I just want someone to listen. When in fact, I should be resetting my mood so he wants to come home and be with his family. I should be seeking more advice from my mom friends for solutions, so hopefully, I have less of a need to rant to my husband about common toddler issues. I should just be enjoying those precious few hours we get with him every day. Thank you for giving me the talk I needed the last few days.😊
You are in a very hard season that will pass quite quickly once everyone starts sleeping better. Give yourself grace. You are certainly not yourself right now.
I spent some time in prayer for you ♥️
I was in the exact same situation 5 months ago, my baby is no 7 months but i remember the first two months was no joke. I was thinking of running away, now baby is 7 months and it is so much better. I know at times you are so tired you cant even read your Bible or feel like praying. I felt guilty for feeling that way seeing you always hear you are blessed to have a husband and a baby, but it was the worst time. I changed my daily routine with baby in order not to feel stuck, i will make baby asleep with gospel music so that i can sit with the Lord, i had bible scripture notes on my phone all so when i wake up in the night and feel like its too overwhelming i can read them. You will feel better in no time.
I think you're halfway truthful here. It's ok to tell your husband you are not coping and to come up with a plan together as to what would help. It's very tough if he works long hours and cannot help in any way with the children. They are both of your children and your health and happiness matters not only for your sake, but also for your marriage sake and for the health and wellbeing of the children. A stressed mum does not make for healthy children or a healthy marriage. You are right, simply being in a mood with your husband when he comes in daily is not the answer, but neither is either pretending to him that you are fine or not feeling like you can discuss this with him. It's really a joint issue and together, tenderly taking and caring about each other and what would help to manage better would be the Biblical way to work together.
You should spend a day in his shoes and you’ll see how much harder his role is than yours. Then you’ll do your job without trying to get someone else to help you
@@yeboscrebo4451 This is very harsh. Peace be unto you.
It's refreshing to see a woman with a biblical perspective like this still exists. God bless you and family.
God bless you Anna, I will share this with my wife to make us better. Thanks 4 doing the Lord's work. You are truly a blessing 2 Christian homes ❤
I'm currently in courthsip with my furure husband (God willing) and I'm basically a future wife, in training! Please pray for the Lord to equip me as I sometimes find myself constantly disappointed at his short comings even though he tries so hard with everything else. I want to be the one he longs to talk to as sometimes I get into bad moods and end up complaining 😅. My name is Cristina - please hold me in prayer 🙏
Thank you for this ❤ I feel like I give my husband a hard time even though he is a very patient, diligent man. I'm trying to let him know I appreciate him more
I’ve learned to refrain from talking to my husband about my work. It started with a comment made from him that angered me and made me not feel like I could trust telling him about my work, but really it’s been a blessing. All I did was complain about work anyways, so now I just keep my mouth shut and I don’t get into a negative, complaining mood. Sometimes, if things are really stressful, it will spill over and I won’t be able to shakes it, but I just say I’m stressed and nothing more. It’s helped me stay happier.
Wow, that is wonderful and truly amazing self control on your part 🙌🏻 When you combine that with prayer and conviction of the Holy Spirit.. nothing is impossible!
I am still praying that the Lord make a way to lift the stress from you and for you to be home like you want ♥️
@@AnnaDysett Thank you, Anna. It has been a test of self control, because sometimes I just want to rant about how someone slighted me or annoyed me, but I remember that no good come from it and I just let it go. It’s amazing.
I was really upset one day this week and I remember Caitlin from Mrs Midwest talking about a Set Apart podcast episode called Victory Over Meltdowns and I listened to that while I cleaned the kitchen. I kid you not, it was like the most divine peace settled over me and I just kept cleaning and doing but so calm. I can’t even explain it. It couldn’t have been anything other than the Lord!
@@HeatherLaurenCocan you please send me the link to the Podcast? ❤
It sounds like you are learning emotional regulation. It's not about not acknowledging your feelings, but knowing that they are a warning system that God gave you. If you are feeling upset and annoyed that is telling you something. It's how you then process that and what you do with it. The interesting thing is, if it's because of someone else's poor behaviour, then that is what you need to work through. That's interesting that I'm annoyed, when really the onus is on the other person. If they have poor behaviour, then I might, feel sorry that they don't know how to regulate themselves and two, learn how to gray rock, not answer or give minimal attention to them... Like Jesus with the Pharisees. He didn't feel the need to answer any of their questions directly at all since he knew the motive behind them was unkind, to trap him or trip him up. He also walked away and didn't engage further, no need to make a relationship with them. He let people make their own mistakes... Peter, Judas, the rich young ruler....
@@KJ-lb4tj Yes, I think you’re right. I am learning how to regulate my emotions. I was not taught as a child. The old saying “if mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy” was law in my house growing up and I’m trying to break that cycle. I want to be a constant for my family. Someone they can come to, not a source or turbulence.
When you said "am i even a believer if i am worried?"YES! Pray "Lord, I believe! Now help my UNbelief!"
That is one of my favorite stories 🥺♥️
God gave you emotions. That worry is telling you something. Without emotions you would get into huge issues. Imagine not feeling scared, you might trust a very bad person, not feeling pain, you would walk into terrible trouble.
It's what you do with the worry that is either helpful or unhelpful. It's not that you won't feel worried ever, it's just that you then need to process that and know what you do with it. Look up therapy in a nutshell, Christian therapist that gives very helpful little sessions on emotion regulation.
I’m so grateful for having stumbled across your channel. It’s helping me understand how to be a better wife and a Godly woman. It brings so much peace to my soul and I hope with time it brings peace to my husband as well…and maybe leads him to God too. Thank you! ❤
All the glory to God! Comments like this make it all worth it! ♥️
Great message. Love the reminder of saying you respect your husband. Be sure to be touching his arm as you say it. Makes a big difference.
I love that ♥️
This is my first time seeing your channel. So wonderful. Thank you. As a woman who has been married for 42 years I can say that each thing you talked about is absolutely true! I wish I had know it in year 2 or even 10, but it has been a labor of love the whole way through. Through our journey we have run up against many of these things, but we took the time to talk about each one and humbly see our individual flaws and repent. Forgiving each other is key, too. The only thing I would add is that my husband and I pray together every morning before scripture study and again at night before we fall asleep. It has been so unifying.❤
I love this soo much! Thank you for sharing. Congratulations on 42 years 🥹 This is honestly so inspiring. We currently do our quiet time separate, but I pray all the time my husband and I can get to this very deep level of spiritual intimacy. So beautiful.
More content like this needs to be online. There's so much division sayan trys to create.
We have to make conscious decisions to fight the enemy and not fall from our own stability.
Anna, this is such an important message! Every night at dinner, when we are saying grace I thank God out loud in front of my husband while we hold hands in prayer and tell God how thankful and appreciative I am of my husbands faithfulness and hard work to provide for us. I try to never let a day go by without saying it out loud in that manner. I'm amazed that you spoke about limerence, as it is not talked about and recognized these days as being potentially harmful; it is accepted as a "feel good" thing. When I first became a new Christian, a lot of the Christian music at that time sounded like love songs to Jesus, reflecting a romantic Jesus. This was dangerous as many of the women developed an abnormal "romantic" image of Jesus, and not a solid, Biblical one. This is why I am still very careful about the Christian music I listen to. We have to be so aware and awake now days!
Amen! I love your comments and your influence here so much 🥹♥️
Been with my wife going on 37 years two boys 8 grandchildren. The secret is marrying someone smarter than me. We compliment each other. Religion is huge with our family and also donating to our faith 10 percent of our income. Family prayer and communication holding hands. It's all the little things. At 60 yrs old the sex is still fantastic
Great words of Wisdom! Thanks for sharing! Sometimes we need this reminder! God bless you and your family!
I’m reminded of a point I learned recently, that even Jezebel was submitted to Ahab. Still studying this but that we’re to submit (outside of physical abuse) to our husbands bc we chose them to be our “lord”.
We both must submit to God first. However unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen so having to submit to one who isn’t submitted to God, will be HARD & can be attributed to our not listening; submitting to God to choose a truly godly man.
There are pretty good con men out there too, who know how to perform “nice Christian guy” & the real them come out (narcissists, psychological /emotional abusers etc) after marriage. Would love for more pastors & Christian influencers to address this problem that I believe is growing. 🙏🏽
Wow. Yes. That is a serious can of worms to open. I’m definitely going to look into the relationship between Jezebel and Ahab further now.. you’ve sparked a new interest!
This was so good. Thank you for sharing!
@@AnnaDysett Thanks for the info...
Yes women are called to call their husband lord like Sarah did Abraham
Just wanted to say I found your channel yesterday and have been binge watching all your videos. Absolutely love your content, love your heart for the Lord and you’re a great inspiration for me. I have been Christian my whole life, but have been in a dry place and feel burnt out for a while, but you have given me some renewal, and hope, and the motivation I need to turn things around and get my life back in order. Thanks for being faithful and sharing your story! ❤
Praise 🥹♥️ thank you so much for sharing this with me. I started this channel as a pure act of obedience, and rarely do I get to see how the Lord uses it to work in peoples lives. I’m okay with that, but it is such a blessing to read comments like this!
@@AnnaDysett I think today especially, women need good advice and examples on how to live a godly life, how we’re supposed too. And you do it so humbly, and have such a calming spirit. ❤️
Anna I’ve been married 37 years in September and I have a difficult time after all these years to build up my husband or myself for that matter. And he has hard time with me too. I love him but all these years and three kids and 6 grandkids things are just different. I guess you could say we are friends also but of course we have our times. I definitely need more reading of the Bible. I love your channel!❤
I encourage you to start with the book of Corinthians and just read a chapter every morning! It takes less than 10 minutes. There is so much wisdom starting there ♥️ remember we cannot live by bread alone - we have to be in the word daily to sustain ourselves spiritually just like we have to eat daily to sustain energy for our bodies.
2minutes in, and all I can say is Amen!!! God bless you in making this video!
Well done Beloved, well done. may the Lord continue to use you too speak to younger woman.
Thank you for these tips, I grew up without an father figure , but I gave my life to Christ and I want to strive to be a good Christian wife and have a good man of God by my side ❤
You are so brave to say these things in today’s world. Your strength and character are to be commended. Please continue to stand and face the fiery darts and set the example for the younger generations.
A few months ago I commented on a video of yours and I was practicing Islam, but then I met a Son of God and he opened my eyes and through him I developed a relationship with God, I’m in love with him and your videos help so much, I am not married, nor am I his girlfriend but when I am, I intend to implement your advice 10 fold, I love being a woman, watching these videos and learning how to treat a man makes me Giddy, God bless all of you my beautiful sisters!
Jesus is Christ!
And thank you so much Anna for making these videos, never stop doing what you’re doing!
PRAISE GOD! I wish I could hear the full story.. but I am soo happy that you are walking with Yahweh the true living God who sent his Son Jesus Christ to die for us. This has honestly made my entire day/week/month/year ♥️
I'm not your normal target for your channel. Always believed that marriage is a partnership. I had this argument just recently. I was brought to task for describing my partner as MY wife. I don't own her I was told. But my reply was that I'M her husband. We are equals, and respect each other. It's our 50th Anniversary this year so we're doing something right.
I really enjoy your videos, and the common sense you speak. Thanks from England.
Thank you so much for your comment! You are right, my target is mostly women and building them up to be godly. It is so refreshing to see a man’s perspective on here so thank you so much for sharing! 🤗 God bless you, your wife, and your beautiful marriage!
If you described her as 'the' wife, I'm not sure that sounds very respectful. Nor is she someone else's wife. You are her husband and she is your wife. Playing with semantics doesn't sound very productive. That you're married and content for all those years should be enough.❤
@@KJ-lb4tj Perhaps I did not explain myself very well. We are equals in a partnership, but with the added element of equal ownership of each ownership of each others hearts.We owe each other obligations. For instance she is seriously ill , and so because we own/love each other I care for her. I know if the situation was reversed she do the same for me. After she's put up with me, I realize how lucky I have been to have met her. Hope it clears it up a bit. I believe the section on a wife being a "Help meet" is in Corinthians. But it has been awhile since I read it.
your videos are a blessing and biblical. A breath of fresh air on UA-cam
I’m so thankful. All the glory to God. Thank you for being here!
@@AnnaDysett you’re very welcome
Lovely video! I will share that in addition to all the wonderful things mentioned in the video, having scheduled intimacy/ physical affection time (on my own agenda minimum 3-4x per week) is also very helpful. I've found my husband feels loved when we are intimate in the way only husbands and wives can be, regularly. I heard on another channel, to take 10 -15 minutes to freshen up, shift my mindset into being ready to comfort and be comforted by my husband in gratitude even on tiresome days. He recognizes the sacrifice and sees my love for him in action. I want him to know he is so much more than my best friend, he's my Superman, a true blessing and answered prayer from Jesus. God bless you all!!
All such wonderful acts of Biblical love! Being cheerful when he comes home is so helpful to me as my husband works nights and I’m a grumpy am person haha
Whenever my husband has an ailment, I research/ make natural ways to heal such ailment. Gods medicine. Maybe it’s making him a watermelon lemon balm electrolyte drink after a day of 100 degree weather yard work, or infusing oils to sooth a pulled back. And I pray thanks to the Creator both as I make it and as I apply it to my husband. 🙏💛
I’m a grumpy morning person too 😆
That’s sooo beautiful! You just encouraged me so much by sharing this. I’m going to start praying over the little things I make like that for my husband now ♥️
Happily married Christian man here. Thank you, sister, for this good, kind and sweet Biblical counsel. May it reach the hearts of many.
Thank you for sharing your insight. As I am listening, I am curious to hear whether it would be best to show respect than say it out loud that you respect your hubby. Actions speak louder than words. Same goes with "I love you". I have seen how empty words can be if they are not backed up with deeds. And please keep on sharing what it takes to be a godly wife ❤
Showing is certainly more important! Definitely need to walk the talk - but I do think there is something really special about saying it out loud. Especially if your husband’s love language is words of affirmation 🥰
No amount of saying you respect him will help if you don’t show it through your actions. That said, sounding it out loud from time to time will help him see/notice is more. No harm in doing both, to solidify your position of certainty. Men don’t need as much confirmation but it’s nice once in a while. It also makes us reciprocate more, reminding us to respect back.
@@YaH_Gives_Wisdom, refreshing to hear a man's perspective on this. Thank you for your input.
Thank you so much for this! Our wives have such a wonderful opportunity to build their husbands up with genuine respect.
I believe this can literally make or break your husband’s spirit. Please ladies, hear how this encouragement can deeply affect your husband so that his love, affection and appreciation for you, his Godly wife will grow.
Great advice for wives. Thank you!
We need to be carful to not idolize our husbands/wives. There is a very thin line and it should not be crossed. It’s very simple the Lord left His instructions. Treat others the way you want to be treated, wives respect your husbands, love your neighbor as you love yourself, submit to one another, love as God loves us with patience, kindness, mercy not jealousy or hate or envy. We just need to follow His example, instructions and commandments. Seek FIRST the kingdom of God and everything else shall be added unto you. ❤
Great point. I think the same thing could be said about our children too! ♥️
@@AnnaDysett Children can become idols as well as jobs, careers, educational goals, hobbies, basically anything that we strive towards and make priority. It’s important to keep God as number 1 first and foremost and He takes care of the rest. We serve a good God, hallelujah!
@@InterwebUser-ps7ju Amen 🙌🏻♥️
amen Jesus must always have first place in our hearts
Please keep making videos like this, I needed these reminders ❤
I would love to see a hair tutorial, the way you style / cut your hair is absolutely stunning!
What’s so wild about this comment is that I was just putting myself down the other day thinking my hair was looking awful lately.. Thank you so much for your kind words 🥹♥️ I do cut it myself and I use the shark air wrap (similar to the Dyson but more affordable). Maybe I’ll be able to do a video in the future.
@@AnnaDysett Oh wow, I am very glad that I commended then! Your hair looks wonderful, please do not put yourself down for your hair, we love the way you put yourself together everyday. Hair can be difficult to manage at times but yours looks beautiful. That is wonderful that you cut your own hair! I hope to do that one day as well, for now I will stick to cutting my husbands ❤️
Great advice thank you so much for sharing it to the world 💛
Thank you so much! Please pray for my marriage
I have prayed for your marriage before, and I will keep praying! ♥️
Respect is one of the most important things for a wife to give to her husband. Respect by not over-talking, genuine interest in his goals & needs makes her worth more than gold or rubies that Proverbs talks about. So important and yet not taught.
Im excited! thank you Anna.
The title says it all. I actually found one by accident. Growing in my relationship with God, i see where i used to fill in the void with other things, but with God after praying and worshipping him, everything else falls in place
Great reminder ❤
very well balanced device
One when you are stressed or angry or scared wrap your arms around him burying your face in his chest or shoulder hold tight and just be held untill the stress leaves then talk about it while still being held. In time he will begin picking you up and carrying you somewhere comfortable to sit where he can hold you.
Two when he is stressed or angry or scared go put on something comfy eather soft T-shirt and soft shorts or flat out pajamas then take his face in your hands and gently kiss him a few times to get his attention on you while running your fingers through his hair. Lead him to the couch, I say the couch because your children need to see this. Lie back reclined with him lying back against you with his head on your chest and wrap your arms and legs around him. Hold him and run your fingers through his hair and wait. In time he will talk and in the completely safe space you have given him he will be able to put things into words that he would not be able to normally. Listen all the way through and keep running your fingers through his hair. After he goes quiet take a few minutes to think then acknowledge the circumstance and that that is definitely something that causes stress fear etc. let him know he is NOT weak to feel that way and then if you have advice and you know scripture to back it, give it. If not it is perfectly ok to say you don't know how to handle this situation and say let's pray about it and put it in GODs hands. Verbally tell him no matter what you are right here with him and each time he shows fear or you speak love squeezing just a bit harder silently saying how much you love him and give him that strength.
Use this as well any time you are relaxing, eather you should be holding him or you should be in His arms.
Any time you are in the same room (if) you can be doing your thing right next to him so you can be right next to him or go squirm your way in front of him take his hands off of the dishes etc and wrap them around your waist and lean back into him head on his shoulder and sigh contentedly then wrap his hands tighter around you silently telling him to stay and you take over the task. Any time you can be giving and receiving comfort with touch DO IT it's a lost art but we need it in ways we usually don't realize.
Back to the being in his arms face in his chest do the same when your mad at him. If you are going to address an issue, first show him you need your safe space and take time letting him hold you till you feel safe and he feels you relax and melt into his arms. Then when you start let him know you are frustrated with something concerning him but first kiss him then after saying that kiss him again like you are a pair of adolescents making out. When you are both feeling safe and safe in each other's love THEN Calmly begin talking. Address the thing it's self and not his connection to it and let him know how it makes you feel. Make sure to make it clear that your love for him comes first and that he and the issue are separate things, you are stressed at the issue, but you LIVE (punctuate with more kisses) your husband.
Wrap the little tiny (when compared to all the years of life) issue up in ALL the years past present and future of Love you have for each other.
Also after letting him know your frustrated and then lots of kissing begin with aaaaaaaaalllllllllllllll the things you love and appreciate about him and all the things about him that you find sexy THEN lovingly discuss the thing that's bugging you. As you two talk, each stress you bring up and ANYTHING that can be miss used as an attack? Kiss him or sit in his lap facing him with your legs wrapped around him and snuggle closer show desire for him and trust in him before and as your saying it.
When all is as resolved as it can be for now acknowledge that fact in love and then go for another round of kissing and then snuggle as close and as tightly wrapped around him as you can and bury your face in his shoulder again and let him know again all the wonderful things about him.
Later that day/evening do the lying on the couch with his head on your chest and you wrapped around him thing and put on something you both love that makes him laugh, if it's something like cartoons or lord of the rings or something else that brings out his inner kid definitely pick that one and reward that inner kid the way you do gallantry and sexiness.
Make your chest and your arms and legs wrapped around him His safe place and make being wrapped in his arms Your safe place. And get absolutely as much touch as you can. Again just the being pressed up against him or standing beside him and leaning into him. Any time you can steal one of both of his arms and wrap them around yourself. Standing in public ABSOLUTELY wrap his arms around you.
When you dress up pretty use it to say yup he is with Me and I have eyes only for him.
Let us be protector and use all touch to name us husband and safe space and don't ask to be our safe space just do it. We get used to you doing that when we ourselves don't yet know we need it.
First in your life is GOD then spouse third children. . . EVERY THING EVERY ONE AND EVERY TASK comes AFTER those at all times no matter what! Get into the habit of Dropping EVERYTHING and sealing and giving safe place.
If there's no time for that DO IT ANYWAYS and while you have him pinned on the couch with his head on your chest call your friends from church to come take over dinner and kids and chores etc and when others make that call the two of you grab your kids and answer. We have all the help we need we just have to start acting like GOD knows what he is talking about and work together to walk it out.
Wow... it's the first time I hear someone say a lot of times i pray for this person or that person but totally missing the point that God changes our hearts first..❤
Thank you for these reminders.
When we had a big fight he told me “I am respecting you for years!! “ so in our case he was the one to say he respects me even though it was through a fight but I realized how important it is for him to respect me and know I am respecting him back. And I guess he felt I didn’t respect him in that fight and this is why he said that. The problem is though that in his mind respecting me is so different than what I felt I needed from him and what I felt is most important to me… like back then in his mind he did his best and gave his best but for me it was far from my wishes of what I wanted from him. Tragic really.
Your husband is a lucky man! Wow! Single guy here just wanted to hear your voice.
Love this Anna!
Im a guy but im sharing your channel with my Christian friend Lexi she just turned 20
Great Content
Thank you for this rich exhortation. Unfortunately, both husbands and wives who lead their married life according to biblical standards are increasingly rare. But may the Lord help me to find this wife according to biblical prescriptions and also to be the husband according to biblical standards.
Thank you so very true and beautiful
Love this! Thank you ❤
This shows the importance of fellowship and the scripture where it says Older women teach the younger women how to love their husbands!
This is a really great message ❤
Unfortunately I was not married to a Godly husband but an abusive narcassist. If the husband can't love a wife the way she should be, very hard to submit and do anything nurturing for him.
Been free for 4 years now. Thank God
You are very right 🥺 I’m so sorry you went through that, but so relieved to hear you are learning on the Lord and did not turn your back on Him even when you were suffering.
So happy that you are free and out of that garbage and insanity. That is great! Now join a great community in a Baptist Church or Orthodox Church
Also watch videos by Suzanne Venker and Carrie Gruess. They have great advice on relationships.
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I am in a wonderful relationship right now with a Godly man who gives me unconditional love.
The husband is supposed to be 'in the Lord'.
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I was not a Believer when I married him
You're a blessing!
I think that verse in proverbs is interesting because honestly that’s how I feel. My spirit is broken because my husband doesn’t give me the things I need emotionally and though I try to be a good happy wife I just can’t do it because I am so unhappy and depressed because I feel alone.
But if I cry to him and try to bring up my pain because of that lack of connection and lack of his awareness of my needs then I’m just the nagging wife causing problems
I remember when mums use to teach us to look after our husbands and family's..... My mum did bless her I've been with my husband 26 years and I'm 43 and certainly didn't need a UA-cam channel on how to look after him ....... Thanks mum you were the best teacher you just went too soon
And that’s exactly how it should be! GO MOM! 🎉
@@AnnaDysett she really looked after my dad bless her and me and my brother and sister 💞 true star ✨
She is adorable
This was sweet❤
Apologize? Behave? Act the same way in public? Truth, amen
Keep up the good work, you might help someone
So it might sound silly, but I always say to use the "customer service" tone with your husband. Especially when in an argument/disagreement. It helps keep the situation from escalating but also it keeps YOU calm and respectful so that we do not sin in our anger.
@@mrslerious1297 that’s hilarious and I love it so much! 🤣
Respect... Ephesians 5:33 - "the wife should have deep respect for her husband." ❤
Ain’t gonna happen!
But thank you very much for trying to appeal to Christian women to embrace their ministry. Your husband is a blessed man clearly.
Lucky HUSBAND he is !
Love it
Can you include the scripture references used in the video description?
Thanks
Ideal Proverbs 31 woman.
❤ i love this
I wish my wife was like this.
I often feel under appreciated. I work a 12 hr shift from 2:00am -2:00pm. I come home wash the dishes, clean the house. We have a 6yr old, 10 month, a set of foster twins that are 6month old . On an average I only get 4-5 hrs of sleep per night. Most women think we only want sex but it would nice to have a back rub or foot rub to ease the sore feet at times.
Husbands must nurture their own wives as well.
There are several Bible verses that emphasize the role of women in society. One good one is Proverbs 31 - this whole chapter talks about how women should take care of their families and even their servants.
In particular, it talks about how good women get up early to provide for their families, and can even acquire property in their name.
Another Bible verse that emphasizes the role of women is Titus 2:4-5. This verse talks about how older women should instruct young women, especially about how to treat their husbands and children. It mentions issues of subordination, self-control, purity and kindness.
Proverbs 18:22 is a Bible verse that talks about what happens when a man finds a good woman. It emphasizes that when a man finds a good woman and marries her, he receives God's mercy. However, this is not the only Bible verse that talks about the importance of finding a good woman.
Even Proverbs 31:10 talks about it. In fact, comparing a wife with a noble character with a treasure more valuable than rubies goes even further. Even in Proverbs 12:4, this is repeated, referring to the fact that such a woman is an excellent wife and the crown of her husband.
Amen!
Shalom
Wow, now this girl is worth diamonds. 💍
Anna Dysett, I just came here to tell you that , please don't mind any body talking irrelevant things.
Don't mind the haters. May God forgive them because they don't know what they doing.
Please don't let their illcomments get to you.
Please keep up your good work. I appreciate your knowledge.
I love you ma.❤
Please you can also consider speaking to single ladies too on character building and perfection 🙈❤️
Thank you so much! I know what I’m getting myself into as a follower of Jesus. He warned me and equipped me well ♥️🤗 I appreciate your encouragement and super kind words/support!
@@AnnaDysett awwww☺️. Thank you for responding.
Looking forward to my suggestion on speaking to single ladies on character building unto perfection (please do a video on it) .🙈🥰
Unfortunately, if my wife said she respected me, I’d know she’s lying. Everybody needs to realize words, alone are meaningless. St. John said, “let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth” (John 3:18) If you don’t truly respect your husband don’t tell him you do, because he will sniff it out as a lie in two seconds. SHOW that you respect him through your actions.
@@mr.e8432 Great point! I do think it can come from a place of honesty though even though it’s a difficult thing to say for some women. Some of us are just a little shy being so bold!
I would love this. 😂
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I have never met any woman who's ever behaved like this. One can hope.
I don’t want to sound like I’m being rude, but from my experience, it’s easy saying you respect your husband when you actually do, when you don’t or you try to but you don’t think it’s true in your mind, that’s where it gets tricky saying it.
@@leenah9898 from my experience it felt similar to saying I love you for the first time when dating. You certainly mean it, but it makes you nervous because you’ve never said it out loud before 🥰
Estos consejos son oro puro. Yo diría que si los hombres los aplicamos también en nuestro trato a las esposas tendríamos hogares fabulosos
this is all good, but bear in mind, a lot of little boys grow up physically into 'men' but nowhere in their life experience have they been 'nurtured'. Keep this in mind when picking a husband. You don't need to find a perfect man, you need to find a man who's honest, brave and learning. Only those kind of people are going to be receptive to 'nurturing'. Otherwise, you might find yourself 'hating men' because of the way they are and the way they respond to you and your 'nurturing'. Oh and, nagging isn't nurturing.
I love to nurture my hubsand and please him in every way as usual. He would enjoy pleasure being with a good wife like me.
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🔥John 4 🔥
22 🙏 Ye worship ye know not what: we know what we worship: for salvation is of the Jews.
23 🙏But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him.
24 🙏God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth.
26 🙏But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, even the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me:
🔥John 14🔥
17🙏“Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.”
13 🤍Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
🔥John 8🔥
45 And because I tell you the truth, ye believe me not.
He that is of God heareth God's words: ye therefore hear them not, because ye are not of God
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7 🌹If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.
8 🌹Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.
9 🌹As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
10 🌹If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love.
11 🌹These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.
12 🌹This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.
13🌹 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
14 🌹Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
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6 🌹 And this is love, that we walk after his commandments. This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.
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29 🔥“Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God.”
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37 🔥“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.”
38 🔥“This is the first and great commandment.”
39 🔥“And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”
“40 🔥On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”
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Why is it so difficult for women to say and represent respect to their husbands?
I wonder if it is rooted in eve’s first act of defiance?
Yes, I believe it goes back to Genesis and the curse after the deception.
Genesis 3:16 Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you
Deep down we want to control and rule over our husbands, but God said men would rule over us.
My wife is impossible to please… living nightmare
You shouldn't have married her
fight for your marriage. pray for your wife.
@@YAHWEH-YESHUA-MINISTRIESencourage instead of break down. marriage is a covenant made in the eyes of God. It’s not about what he *shouldn’t* have done, it’s about what *can* be done moving forward.
@madisonmclendon7191 tell that to his wife
Don’t let her abuse you emotionally or otherwise. I’m so sorry to hear this. Women can be so difficult.
Wow what planet are you from?? I wouldn't know how to act to find a gal that acted like this.
The planet where the Holy Spirit dwells inside! I used to not be this girl at all! Praise the Father for saving me and giving me eyes to see and ears to hear 🙌🏻
@@AnnaDysett I found Christ in 1999 and finding someone healthy and like minded has been tough. Thank you for what you're doing!
Walk in the spirit and Jesus will show you what is right or wrong. Repent from humanismn and psychology. Human wisdom will destroy you and your relationship. Dear Lady maybe you must be born again. Jesus loves you. Jesus has commanded me to love my wife. Fullstop.