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КОМЕНТАРІ • 93

  • @scarletta.w8721
    @scarletta.w8721 Місяць тому +122

    I think the problem with me having a hard time receiving is because I assume when people give me something they are definitely expecting something back and I don’t want to have that burden of owning anyone anything. Because let’s be honest there’s no free lunch in this world. lol. 😂

    • @friimunya8488
      @friimunya8488 Місяць тому +11

      SAME girl, same.... i dont know how to get over feeling so uncomfortable receiving from men

    • @TheAustrianPainter87
      @TheAustrianPainter87 Місяць тому +19

      They expect gratitude in return

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 Місяць тому +16

      Look at it this way. When you deny offerings from someone who really was giving from their heart, you deny them the chance to do something nice and feel good about themselves.

    • @juleeanng
      @juleeanng Місяць тому +1

      This..yes.. how I feel when a guy wants to give me something or does smtg for me.

    • @Patricia_Odila
      @Patricia_Odila Місяць тому +3

      I thought i was alone😢

  • @dglenn815
    @dglenn815 21 день тому +5

    23 and after my almost three month relationship w someone I like, it helped my realize that I need therapy. Found a therapist and will be starting soon. I know that once I work through my traumas I will be aligning myself with the life that I know I am worthy of living. Relationships really help to amplify and provide feedback when your with secure individual. So grateful

  • @mammamehlape
    @mammamehlape Місяць тому +47

    I've learned a lot from u over the past 2 years and i enjoy being the feminine women ive became ,thanks a lot Dr Deff

  • @heyalexiajanee
    @heyalexiajanee Місяць тому +13

    I def have become more feminine in my marriage, but I can pull that masculine out when I need too. I'm a wild one😂

  • @KAgill123
    @KAgill123 Місяць тому +16

    I know this may be off topic, but can you do a makeup routine video? As a dark skin woman, it's hard to find classy beautiful makeup looks like you often have. ❤

    • @UMMH2000
      @UMMH2000 Місяць тому +4

      I agree, I'd love to see that.

  • @stanmb4646
    @stanmb4646 Місяць тому +11

    You look beautiful ❤❤

  • @Nurseaholic
    @Nurseaholic Місяць тому +5

    *Love love love the advice you gave about asking your man about a topic you are novice in so he can inform you about something he’s passionate about* . Also love the tip about letting him show up and accepting what he does. Thank you for giving practical advice on how we can rest in our femininity. I am trying to learn how I can improve myself and how I choose to show up in the world so I will be binge watching your content.🤗🧡

  • @keedasingz
    @keedasingz Місяць тому +5

    such a necessary message!

  • @REALtalkRenataTV
    @REALtalkRenataTV Місяць тому +1

    Love this!!! NEEDED THIS! 💛

  • @traumamom4338
    @traumamom4338 Місяць тому +3

    Dr. Daf is the business ❤

  • @YouCanStartLateAndFinish
    @YouCanStartLateAndFinish Місяць тому +1

    As always Dr Daf, spot on. Thank you ❤

  • @porshal.1052
    @porshal.1052 Місяць тому +6

    I just found your channel and I absolutely love love LOVE the way you breakdown these topics. I'm currently working on getting my bachelor's of arts in psychology and I've been drawn to Family & Marriage counseling because I've grew up seeing toxic relationships and its very important that I understand these things so that I can become successful within my own. Your channel has really inspire me to continue wanting to help women become their best selves even as mothers because that is something I've struggled with.

  • @gimmelife3717
    @gimmelife3717 Місяць тому +1

    Love the side stories - makes it more relatable and integrateable than straight up advice

  • @melanierosalie
    @melanierosalie Місяць тому +1

    Ohhh I was waiting for this video!!!! ❤

  • @Destinyystars
    @Destinyystars 6 днів тому

    As a teen, I love how you talk about femininity while also including Christianity

  • @KayonR
    @KayonR Місяць тому +3

    You are so right! This made me cry!
    Thank you

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому

      Aww *a big warm hug* thank you for watching!

  • @SkylitVirtue
    @SkylitVirtue Місяць тому +4

    this video is perfect!! thank you Michelle!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому

      You're welcome love. Thank you for watching 🤍

  • @Yamino752
    @Yamino752 Місяць тому +2

    Oh my! I'm so happy I'm not the only one that finds it odd that lots of femininity content is presented in a masculine way! 😆 I'm kind of new to your channel and what drew me to your channel is how feminine you are in your presentation. I've only found one other channel that also feels feminine. The second you started talking in this video a genuine smile appeared on my face and I felt a kind of femininity and joy in me that's been hard to feel lately especially with some hurt and healing that I need to work on. I've been wanting to heal and grow in my femininity but watching other content often would just leave me feeling worse because it came off as condescending, so I wouldn't continue watching.. I was worried that it was all in my head and I was just resisting change.. So I just want to say thank you for your content and I'm really excited to learn from you and do the work I need. You're a beautiful person and I hope one day my femininity and beauty can radiate to others as yours does ❤

  • @wisdomdivine4843
    @wisdomdivine4843 Місяць тому +4

    My sweetest mummy Micheeelle thanks for this wonderful inspired platform to change lives positively

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +1

      You are so welcome my darling 💋

  • @erikadobbins7759
    @erikadobbins7759 Місяць тому +8

    Beautiful content as always. ❤

  • @desireenunez7824
    @desireenunez7824 Місяць тому +12

    Amazing content ❤ I’ve been watching you since the beginning of my femininity journey. I must say at first it seems like a lot of work, but once we shift into that feminine identity, that is so natural to us, it just becomes so easy. Ive found a power that didn’t know existed .. Thank You ❤

    • @steyderlingcampos9440
      @steyderlingcampos9440 Місяць тому +1

      I’m agreeee!!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +3

      Yesssss it's true!! Thank you for your support darling 🤍✨✨

    • @Khannajmah
      @Khannajmah Місяць тому

      Can u give me nugget what is the exact way. I know all of these things but still. Cannot be in devine feminine

    • @desireenunez7824
      @desireenunez7824 Місяць тому

      @@Khannajmah Being energy. You know you are in your feminine when you are not thinking, sort of a meditative state. You can practice by meditating, going somewhere with no plan, flowing in the moment.

    • @ericafielder8134
      @ericafielder8134 Місяць тому

      I don't know how to start and execute. I can listen and rid the content but feel as though I'm in a stand still

  • @Maggs3
    @Maggs3 Місяць тому +1

    This is good.
    Thank you Dr.Daf

  • @user-hz6bj9gt5t
    @user-hz6bj9gt5t Місяць тому +1

    Love this video. Also can you please do a makeup video? Step by step guide on how you do it.. I mean look at you.. you look absolutely gorgeous girl 😍🩷

  • @shebbysavvas4040
    @shebbysavvas4040 Місяць тому

    It's spot on.

  • @maryreillyjo
    @maryreillyjo 10 днів тому

    I love this

  • @marissamarlett1346
    @marissamarlett1346 Місяць тому +9

    I have a huge problem with brain fog. We have 4 kids and i feel after each kid i got foggier and foggier. I felt my vocabulary was going away. My youngest is 4 and it seems i can think more clear now. I do have parts of my middle school/teen years blacked out too, so not sure if that has anything to do with losing my vocabulary as well... I'm guessing trauma at that age. Anyway, since I've been learning from you, i have felt better just asking my husband, "what does this mean? What is this word?" I was embarrassed before because i thought he would think i was dumb and i knew i wasn't like this in the past when i met him. Since I've been reading in the Bible, my brain has opened up again and I've been able to organize our house better. Im usually all over the place.
    Quick story:
    You reminded me of maybe 10 years ago, my motherN Law let me know my broNLaw had mentioned how, "Marissa twirls her hair with her fingers and just seems girly. My gf doesn't do that" and i guess he told her he liked that. Plus i was never girly amd always thought that was a bad habit bc teachers always scolded me in school for that all the time😂.
    *They just married in November and are super happy🥰

    • @savageornah7696
      @savageornah7696 Місяць тому

      Did you know that it a woman gives birth 5% from her brain is gone like you lose your intelligence because your brain structure changes I read that maybe that’s the reason

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 Місяць тому

      How are your hormones? Sound out of kilter if you have brain fog. You need to be on Vit B Conplex high quality supplements. VitD3 and Vit K2 to start with....

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 Місяць тому

      Complex*

    • @freefree1664
      @freefree1664 Місяць тому

      I found since starting keto/low carb eating that my general health & especially concentration has improved immensely. Plus I have lost weight & feel great

  • @brighterwithnzu392
    @brighterwithnzu392 Місяць тому +2

    Oh wow, I thought this Was an old video because it's a topic I wanted to search on your channel.
    I haven't resonated with your channel since I started consuming content on feminity. I'm only pointing this out because sometimes we don't resonate with content we aren't ready for ❤

  • @nyashachitiyo2915
    @nyashachitiyo2915 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much this is amazing ❤️❤️ learnt a lot

  • @_klovely_
    @_klovely_ Місяць тому +1

    Enjoyed this video! 😊🥰💛🙏🏾🍇🍇🍇🍇

  • @KhadijatHarsevoort
    @KhadijatHarsevoort Місяць тому +4

    Can you please do a video of assertive communication for feminine women?
    I've struggled with people pleasing and want to learn to better assert myself.

    • @CRISSGRULLON
      @CRISSGRULLON Місяць тому +1

      Yes! I've also struggled, I always associated people pleasing with my femininty and have struggled with people using this against me. Also, the flipside how to accept assertive communication from others? How to identify assertive language? What are appropriate language templates to change attitudes?

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +3

      Yes, I love this, thanks for the suggestion.

  • @daminiquerobinson3535
    @daminiquerobinson3535 Місяць тому

    I’m so grateful for your videos. I feel like God led me here because this is something I truly desire for myself.

  • @LB-ku6ry
    @LB-ku6ry Місяць тому +6

    Thank you. I learn so much from you. Let’s heal, Ladies! 🙏🏻
    “St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle, be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil. May God rebuke him we humbly pray; and do thou, O Prince of the Heavenly host, by the power of God, cast into hell Satan and all the evil spirits who prowl about the world seeking the ruin of souls.” Amen.

  • @superlisticsee
    @superlisticsee Місяць тому +10

    That scripture put me on my toes! Thank you for relating this to the word. 🙏🏾💕

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +2

      I love when the Word does that. You are so welcome love. 🩷

  • @FarAboveRubies1031
    @FarAboveRubies1031 Місяць тому

    Hello Dr. Daf. You have been such an inspiration and your videos have truly helped me. You may have already touched on this before but I would love to know more on how to NOT nag our husbands and how to stay in our femininity during disagreements because this is typically the only time I feel that I resort to masculinity because I begin to feel unheard by my husband at times. Please help! ❤

  • @Bonjour_Lisa
    @Bonjour_Lisa Місяць тому +1

    A video I did not know I needed!
    Thank you Michelle, and thanks to the persons who asked for this video ❤️🩷🤍
    I have book recommendations, from Gary Smalley: « For better or for best » (for women to read) and « If only he knew » for men to read 🫶🏾
    They are quite connected to this topic of feeling masculine, and they give ways to better understand the opposite sex.
    I read the one for pen too as it helps me validate and understand my behaviours as women!
    Blessings ✨

  • @nothandomahlambi3611
    @nothandomahlambi3611 Місяць тому +4

    Watching and loving your video from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @erind2261
    @erind2261 Місяць тому +1

    Dr. Daf is it masculine to suggest the majority ideas for hangouts?
    My guy friend specifically asked what I like to do on the onset. I didn't answer b/c I just relocated to the city.
    Over time I suggested different things never giving a deadline. I usually let him work out the details. He rarely suggests anything.
    I know his personality so I asked if it bothered him. He said no (but too much will get old).
    So I can't figure out if he's agreeing b/c it's new experiences or he's just being polite...

  • @vinylcollectors
    @vinylcollectors Місяць тому

    Do you happen to have any recommendations for feminine car scents? To me they all smell either super fruity or woodsy.

  • @iheart.krissy
    @iheart.krissy Місяць тому +1

    this is kinda off topic. right now I feel like I am struggling so badd. my faith is weakem day by day. I don't have anyone to talk to rn. I have cried my self to sleep for the past 2 weeks😔. idk what to do. anyone have any tips? I really dont want to fall into depression.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +1

      I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Do you have someone you can talk to? A family member, neighbor, church member? I have prayed for you. May the Lord heal your broken heart and bind up your wounds. May you never fall into depression for God is with you.

  • @ruthkaunda3343
    @ruthkaunda3343 Місяць тому

    ❤️❤️🔥🔥🙌

  • @kezia-joywilson9770
    @kezia-joywilson9770 Місяць тому +4

    I lost my baby and the person left me.i felt to pick up the pieces and it's hard.i don't feel like woman 😢. What can do to get back in sync..i am longer attracted to my hobbies that usually help me ..it's like I am drowning. I kinda lost that feeling.😢

    • @The-Oneness11
      @The-Oneness11 Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes circumstances can cause us to become disconnected from our emotions. I wish you healing.

    • @UMMH2000
      @UMMH2000 Місяць тому +3

      Take it one moment and day at a time. Even if you don't feel like it, take it one day and moment at a time. There's no need to rush. Also, watch more of these videos and encouraging videos to help with your mind as well as speak words of life and beauty to yourself. "I will make it", "I will live", "I'm an overcomer", "God is with within me, I will not fail".
      Renew your mind with positive thoughts of truth even when your emotions try to fight you.

    • @EstherMungai-xc8te
      @EstherMungai-xc8te Місяць тому

      But ur still great if ur alive just start allover d.a

    • @jessicahitchens6926
      @jessicahitchens6926 Місяць тому +3

      Vit B Complex take daily. VitD3 and Vit K2. Try out a Magnesium as well take at night. I'd also recommend Melatonin to aid sleep with Valerian/Camomile tea. You need to take care of yourself.

  • @nafeesadamier7592
    @nafeesadamier7592 Місяць тому +1

  • @Chris-hp2gg
    @Chris-hp2gg Місяць тому +1

    A little male bravado is appealing but not too much.😂

  • @MrsAnaelimont
    @MrsAnaelimont Місяць тому +1

    How about if you start asking ( in a feminine way) but his feedback is that you are asking to much...or he gives feedback that you can do that yourself. How to respond to this

    • @apollofateh324
      @apollofateh324 Місяць тому

      It means he doesn't want to be responsible for those things, and he's not compatible with you. The types of people that want you to be responsible for everything yourself are different then the types that want to help you: if you've begun the relationship as someone who generally didn't ask for anything, it will always be perceived as "too much" from the other person, because they expected to give nothing. You will have to find a new partner if you want your needs to be met: the old one has already informed you that he doesn't want to do it. Find someone who is more compatible with your needs.

  • @vibewithme425
    @vibewithme425 Місяць тому +1

    Am I High or is she a Bot 🤖 or something like omg….😬but she right tho this perfect looking lady.

  • @Fatimah-ey9ks
    @Fatimah-ey9ks Місяць тому

    UR voice kind of different, may you heal soon and as always great content. Thanx a lot 🙏🏼🩵

  • @OGFlowerArt
    @OGFlowerArt Місяць тому

    When you said about how we need to be careful on what feminine content we watch, I instantly knew who you were talking about it's that one female UA-camr named Love Dorsey. She very aggressive even she speaks the truth, never take advice from unlicensed people who think that they are life coach either.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  Місяць тому +6

      I've never heard of her so no, I wasn't referring to her. But I have seen lots of content with that nature.

  • @tvalenz4829
    @tvalenz4829 Місяць тому

    What is up with you only showing white couples. Even the women of color was with white man why ? It wouldn't surprise me if you are with a white man

    • @yippehanako
      @yippehanako 21 день тому +2

      23:09 and you say that like it's a bad thing if she was

    • @mfenderson2714
      @mfenderson2714 2 дні тому

      I believe that she is just showing stock footage of couples interacting. If you see her other videos she also has other black couples. But seriously, the fact this bothers you is really said. Her husband happens to also be black but God made people to be in relationships with people of the same and all colors. If you are a Christian talking like this, I sincerely implore you to check your heart with the Lord because it's sounding like prejudice at best and racism at worst to be bothered by seeing possibly fake couples of different backgrounds interacting. And you can't expect to go to heaven not loving others. Plus other people marrying people of different colors has nothing to do with you.... You can't miss out on who God has for you unless you choose to.