I think there's a difference between not introducing a partner to a family member who you have an emotional attachment to vs a family member you're estranged from. I wouldn't want to introduce a trans gf to my father, not because i would be ashamed of her but because i would be ashamed of him.
@@honda-s2k "Pan-" means "many" and "bi-" means "two". Men+Women+Trans is more than two. So term "bisexual" is not enough and clearly not the same as "pansexual".
@@honda-s2k luke no disrespect to you and i say this as a strait man but if you dont like trans people then go away!!! you seem to be talking on a lot of these comments you got something to hide bro??????
I thought sexual preference wasn't a choice. People fought for decades for this to be recognised. I'm confused. So is it a choice to date a girl with a penis or it isn't?
This is my tiny speck of "wisdom" after 50 years on this planet. Falling in love with someone who actually also (somehow) is in love with you is like trying to catch a meteor with a fishing net so, if you're lucky enough to find that, hold on with both hands and don't get hung up on pronouns and other people's opinions. In the long term the two of you (or three... or four, I won't judge) are the only people that are really in the relationship. If your "friends" can't accept who you love then find better friends. Just my two pennies. Stay safe everyone. Cheers from Florida.
Two cents of wisdom is worth a treasure compared to millions of comments for closeted haters. Thank you Brutus XXVI for declaring what should be universal logic.
You're an amazing ambassador for the Trans community because of how humble, sweet but yet outspoken you are, who can resist that!? How could any Transphobe or anyone at all look at your videos and NOT just change their mind a little or just make a 180° Uturn!! You're amazing...
I know!? She's so stunningly beautiful that for a long time I thought that she was a cis girl playing games with the you-tube community by posing as a trans woman. But like she says here, when you boil it all down, it's about attraction and what makes you happy. For me it's a combination of personality and physical attraction, and how we interact with each other. Robin is the new tomorrow that has arrived here today, and the world is a better place for it.
Lol there's a reason she looks just like them. They're just like her. All VS models and high fashion runway models are trans just like most A list celebs to top sports superstars.
@@achiepalaago thats like not true. VS actually has a past of discriminatory behavior against trans people and in the past they said they would not hire trans models.
@@pepethelastsamurai3480 Just shut up. You know nothing. Not even one of the top models was born female. NOT ONE. WTF do you think their secret is? You think you can be a regular female and get that far in the modelling world? Just like all first ladies in America, tennis superstars, News anchors, A list movie stars, european queens to the us women's national team etc., they're all transgendered. Of course you won't know this cos you're one of the sheeple who are fast asleep in our world of scripted reality.
How about liking/loving someone for who they are. I know someone who married the same sex because they love them. They are both cis females. She’s not gay. If you’re attracted to someone inside and out.. what difference does it make? I brought up an analogy: “If they change the bottle of your favorite pancake syrup.. does it matter what the outside is as long as it’s the same syrup you always loved the same inside?” Attraction is attraction. Go with YOU. Not pressure from society. Don’t be fed. Be the feeder.
I'm not so sure about this "Family" Point. I almost never introduced my GF's to my Family, but not because i'm ashamed of her, but because my Family is weird and i don't enjoy that much to visit them.
@Dustin Stich For myself it's not all about sex; relationships are tough work. I am sorry you had the experience of wanting to go on a date and it turned out to be something else. This also happens in many cis gender relationships. I believe consent is ongoing not a matter of just going to someone's house. Sorry you had this experience.
As a 24 year old cis man I haven’t had the same perspective on this. I even remember talking to my godmother before she transitioned about dating trans women she’s not even my biological parent, but a month after she transitioned all the men at restaurants and bars thought that she was my biological mom she’s very happy that without surgery’s how passing she is. As a person of color it’s really hard for me to not feel worried about peoples safety it would’ve been interesting to hear your opinion about partners you have dated being overprotective and if that’s good or bad. Because my God mom recently transitioned I am very overprotective she just goes wherever she wants and I get worried about her sometimes. I’ve been single all my life and I would not be ashamed to date a trans woman I think I would be overprotective not necessarily in a bad way, but if I met any girl as beautiful as you I would be worried because men are creepy and can be physically dangerous so I would probably be on alert a lot lol. Great video Robin given this a thumbs up 👍 and a sub.
As a Trans girl, I personally think it's a beautiful feeling when people around me are over protective. I'm sure not all trans folks feel the same way but I do. All my friends and my family are overprotective of me. And I've never taken it the wrong way considering the point you made about the fact that there are creepy men outside and it isn't always safe. So I personally feel cared for and loved when I see people around me be overprotective like that. But, if you're concerned about how your god mother feels about you being over protective, I would highly suggest having a conversation about it with her. I'm sure she can answer it the best. But I think it's really sweet that care enough to be over protective towards her :)
I met a beautiful trans girl after my divorce - literally out of the blue we met while I was on a vacation we ended up having dinner and an amazingly deep conversation - ling story short we went out separate ways she met someone we live on different coasts and literally since then I have been very open to dating a trans woman...I know it takes a special connection but I have no idea how to meet someone seeking a real relationship I guess it is just fate...
Basically it's no different than dating anyone else, basic communication goes a long way as well respect for the other person. I personally prefer trans women over "biological" women, mainly because trans women seem to know better what they want and are less into head games as well are usually more open minded in general (not sexually speaking on this point).
Do you realize how cool you actually are Robin ? Your one of the most down to earth ladies on UA-cam. Total respect girl. I hope and pray you find someone to treat you like you wish to be treated . In my honest opinion you are really cool and down to earth you just want to be happy and be respected for who you are . I applaud you for making a stand and speaking out and trying to show the world their is nothing wrong with your life choices or the choice any LGBT person desided for themselves. I just wish the rest of the world would wake up pull their heads out of their but so to speak and not push their negative thoughts and believes on others . Never give up the good fight. And Don't let those people put you down . Have Faith in yourself . and know your words have a positive effect on others and will help more people than you think. And those words will echo to others and help them to learn how to live and treat another human being with respect and dignity like everyone deserves. God Bless you Robin .
As a man from a highly religious Muslim family living in Belgium the only obstacle would be for her to meet my parents, I think you can understand why and how it complicates things... But yeah you are right about everything, Great video
For what it worth, I am a straight man and I have dated TransWomen. I find that treating her with respect and being completely comfortable and honest with her yields a very enjoyable experience.
@@oggeeboggee It's funny when one person denies the work of thousands of psychologists... They concluded that a man who is attracted to a trans woman is not gay in any way or form. But that's okey. Keep livin' in you hateful dreams.
Viktória Szabó Biology says different. Females are XX and have XX pheromones. Males have XY pheromones. XX is not XY. I personally couldn’t care less what 2 people do behind closed doors. It’s not my business. But the shrinks are full of it if they say otherwise.
@@jewswhoswingssnakes923 it is interesting how people can quote biology here yet (likely) these same people forget all about biology when the subject changes to Female Bodybuilders.
Jeez, you're the bomb!! Too many trans youtubers are soooo harsh toward guys especially Trans oriented guys but you are so sweet and still bringing your point across in such a strong, determined but positive way and obviously you're incredibly beautiful!! OMG, I'm just freaking speechless....
Just wanted to say I think you have such a lovely personality and you're really cute and pretty too. Also, you're very right about how guys have to walk a narrow path to be straight and masculine enough for society. I know this very well myself.
Sometimes "fucking up is fun" especially when it's someone else's first time too... It's about laughing and being silly and having fun in a respectful and healthy way
I've never dated trans, but I wouldn't hesitate if I were attracted to someone. I would just hope there's a very honest discussion up front about pre or post operation. I don't want a relationship with two penis in it...
You are so incredibly down to earth, I 🙏 that someday I’ll be fortunate enough to meet and become friends with a woman like you, and hopefully become much more than friends. Please keep up all the positive energy and work that you’re doing ❤❤
I see all of these points as referring to any relationship. Whether you want to be with a man or a woman or a trans man or a trans woman or a binary person you should still treat them with respect, not be ashamed to be seen with them or to introduce them to the people you care about and not get hung up on any part of them but love the whole person.
You are a beautiful and sexy woman. Everything you said should be common sense to everyone. Always treat women with respect no matter who they are. Keep up the good work. ❤️❤️❤️
I met this girl from my home town, and I really like her, and I had on idea that she is trans, it throw me off for a bit, but I was still really into her, but I got so much shit from my own family and friends who wanted nothing to do with me, and when they ever got the chance to put me down they did, telling everyone they know who I was and how they can fix me throw going to church. it never change shit, I still love her and will always love her. but she got the same bullshit and just split from me and dropped me to leave town to the USA and never seen her since .
Thank you for posting this. ♥ I'm going to study these pointers religiously. I want to date a transgirl, seriously... and I suck at, how they say, "Mack Daddy" skills. I always get nervous, but once I get her, they always become overwhelmed by my charm, honesty and sex appeal. Again... Thanks a lot. ♥
I’m a guy, you’re a beautiful woman, i would treat you like any other woman, with total respect. I hope you find some one who respect you and loves you.
I'm dating to someone at the moment he didn't know i was trans because he was just a random guy at the store where i work he gave me his number ofc i made it clear right after he was kinda alright with that but he had very awkward questions on our first date :) i wouldn't say he was rude he was just kinda uneducated about the whole trans things more like a curiosity., but he still fine with me and the situation so we are keep dating which is great :)
Each relationship is an adventure. I am glad you made this. So many great points. Enjoy being with the one you like/love and not as what the public stereotypes are. You are beautiful 🌹
Good video! I think it's sad how men still use being gay as a way to insult one another's masculinity. I agree with what you said though, respect is so important!!! Keep glowing, girl, it's nice to see a down to earth perspective on these things!! New subscriber now! :)
It's all about the person not about the gender.It's all about the personality and whether you get along with that person.It's not always about the gender
"I suck at life!". So do most of us honey. Then again, what is a "perfect" life? The answer to that is the same to the question, "What is normal?" There's no answer to that, it's subjective. And you're acing it, by the way, and looking beautiful
Guys, dating a trans girl takes some personal strength. She will need you to have the courage to date trans, if you have the courage the rewards can be amazing. I found most guys are kinda jealous because they do not have the courage themselves. The only negatives were from people I really didn't want in my life. One must show you are proud to be by her side and love to see her shine.
I was just thinking about when you were gonna upload a few days ago, and my wish came true :) Nice content as always, awesome to see you growing so fast!
I dated a woman who was a lawyer and 15 years older. She didn't want to be seen in public with me. It was kinda cool, but it finally hit me. When it hit me, it didn't feel cool at all.
I absolutely agree with everything you've said. My issues is actually finding trans girls to date. It's hard for me who is only attracted to trans girls.
I'm a pretty open minded straight guy and I would date you without keeping it a secret, you are more attractive than most cyst women! I think you are absolutely gorgeous! 😊
By definition that is not straight. A biological male who’s attracted to other biological males(pre post or whatever) is gay. Words have meaning. Straight ≠ Gay
@@stevensgarage6451 If you have to put a label on it then fine, I just find Robin attractive. I am not into masculinity or men whatsoever. I have been with a lot of beautiful cis women before and continue to be, so if thinking Robin is attractive makes me gay according to your assessment then so be it. Whatever you say Mr. Black or White!
@@stevensgarage6451Long ago, I made a vow that I would never have an argument with someone about the definition of a word. If you like someone you like someone, if you don’t you don’t. Is it gay? Idk man. Who the hell cares!
I see a wonderful person that is living her life the way she wants to and i wish i could meet her someday. Thanks for sharing Robin. You are a hero to so many out there. You are truly beautiful on the outside and in. Love you. Thomas
Gorgeous my biggest problem is trying to find transgender women I'm in Texas and transgender women are extremely hard to find plus I have always had straight relationships so I don't know how to approach them!! I don't care about what anyone thinks or says I just think that transgender women are always so amazing ,and I have always found transgender women incredibly attractive ever since I was well old enough to start thinking about girls!! And I really want to meet someone that I can bring home and introduce to my family!!!
Just because you like trans women that doesn't mean you wouldn't be in a straight relationship with one. We are women in the end, "trans" is just a label. You just have to treat us and approach to us just like any other girl, with respect.
I absolutely agree I was kinda trying to mash up my life in one reply and it came out wrong I Consider all sexes to how they Identify,and I have always called transgender women and cd's women if they identify themselves as such I just meant that I have hidden the facts that I have always wanted and been attracted and wanted to be with but because of family and where I live I had to pretend to be someone I'm not
@@thanos7459 well dear, I stand by previous statement,the fact that you are here in the first place proves that you are at least mildly interested,be true to yourself,trans ladies take beauty and femininity to another level,more and more men now feel confident to say that and admire these ladies,times they are a changing.Rgds,
No, but certainly many more than are comfortable admitting it - because they're wimps about it. No disrespect to Ms. Jaspers, but I'm confident she knows or at least wonders how many of her subscribers are chasers - some undercover, some not so much.
If a guy introduces you to his family do you think he should he come right out and tell them you're transgender or wait for them to figure it out on their own?
I follow another trans girl right here on YT. I came across one of her videos completely random. I then found myself watching all of her vids. I think she is absolutely gorgeous. If I didn't know she was trans I would never have known. I like her sense of humor, her personality, her mannerisms, and her smile is infectious to me. I think she's amazing. I know I'll never meet her, but I'd proudly take her in an instant, and I really don't know (or care) what is between her legs. She's beautiful on the outside, as well as inside.
Trans people can date whoever they want, but ridiculing straight people for not dating a non-straight person? Its not actual love if one of them is held hostage. 😮💨
Honestly heartbreaking. Here I am looking for actual relationship advice and the bar is apparently low enough that 'don't be a creep or accept bigotry' is the biggest take-away... Girl YOU DESERVE BETTER. Edit: you're DUTCH? Toevallig!
Very informative. I am 46 and just now questioning my sexuality. I could care less what labels anyone has here or there. Like you said just respect people boundaries and love people for who they are not what they are.
Thank u this video helps a lot im a 15 year old high schooler and there’s this girl that seems like she likes me and it helps me understand that I just treat her like I do any other girl I date thx
Other people should always be treated like human beings and not like an experiment. Finally it's the divine light that shines in everybody of us. Dear Robin my best wishes to you.and greetings from Germany.
i just found out that i like trans women and after a long time of not realizing it i want to let my parents know about it, i know that people don't give af about me as much as my parents do, i just hope i don't break their hearts honestly.
I regard myself as straight, at least when it comes to anatomy. Hearts and intellects are very important to me but so are parts. I have no sexual desire or interest in male anatomy, Its just way I'm programmed. So for me I have no problem dating a post op-trans women. If I find chemistry and attraction I’m proud to be with whoever I chose to date and proud to share them with the world. Regardless of if they were born with XX or XY chromosomes proving they have the female anatomy I feel sexual attraction to. I have been with an non-binary person. I have been with two pre-op, pre-hormone trans men over the years. Because the attraction and chemistry was there plus anatomically they were female. I’ve always been honest with people about my attraction being based on them as an individual and in their female anatomy. I have never been disingenuous by pretending I’m attracted to men when I’m not or that body parts aren’t important to me. They (clearly) respected my position, understood and were not offended that my attraction would not be the same (with regards the tran-men) if they were fully transitioned. With the two trans guys we had some really nice times and just enjoyed it for what it was and it was just understood for what it was. Which I understand sound shitty (same as with me not dating pre-op trans women) but my sexuality is intrinsic and why would I date someone who’s male anatomy would be turn off for me? Whether others regard me as straight or not I don’t really give a dam, I’m my own man and I will stand proud who I am. I am attracted to whom I’m attracted to. I make no apologies for that and feel no shame in that. Its a really complicated issues. Just understand yourself, be respectful to whoever you date and simply love who you love with no apology. Do that I think you’re on the right track.
I’m lesbian, and honestly, I do not care if you’re amab, as long as you’re a nice person, then being with you is just the same as being with an afab. Have a good day 😊
For me my main concern is like to make her feel save and good. Thanks for making this Video it really helped me to emphatize better with trans ladys (and the one transe dude who i fought alot with pre Transition but as dudes we kinda get along^^)
It all comes down to: you're dealing with a person who's just like any other common person, don't be a pain in the a** if you want that person to stay close to you.
I think there's a difference between not introducing a partner to a family member who you have an emotional attachment to vs a family member you're estranged from. I wouldn't want to introduce a trans gf to my father, not because i would be ashamed of her but because i would be ashamed of him.
So show respect and affection, I really hope most people are able to do that regardless of gender identity
That would make them pansexual
@@honda-s2k
"Pan-" means "many" and "bi-" means "two". Men+Women+Trans is more than two.
So term "bisexual" is not enough and clearly not the same as "pansexual".
@@honda-s2k luke no disrespect to you and i say this as a strait man but if you dont like trans people then go away!!! you seem to be talking on a lot of these comments you got something to hide bro??????
@transwomen are sexist men yes well you can only speak for your self
How about that respect be extended both ways and stop sending material to people who has made it clear that they are not interested in such subjects.
Spoiler alert: Treat them just like any other women.
@@honda-s2k NO, I'm a trans woman, if that where true, we wouldn't be transgender.
I thought sexual preference wasn't a choice. People fought for decades for this to be recognised. I'm confused. So is it a choice to date a girl with a penis or it isn't?
To each is own on who you date..
Im just saying treat whom ever you date well ..
@@curtisstapleton7167 well, that's a given it doesn't need an instruction video.
@@Bergerons_Review just sayin
This is my tiny speck of "wisdom" after 50 years on this planet. Falling in love with someone who actually also (somehow) is in love with you is like trying to catch a meteor with a fishing net so, if you're lucky enough to find that, hold on with both hands and don't get hung up on pronouns and other people's opinions. In the long term the two of you (or three... or four, I won't judge) are the only people that are really in the relationship. If your "friends" can't accept who you love then find better friends. Just my two pennies. Stay safe everyone. Cheers from Florida.
I'm in love but she only loves me.
Hard to feel like we r on the same page. Frustrating to say the least
Exactly what King said.
Greetings from Florida as well! I appreciate your advice
Spank
Two cents of wisdom is worth a treasure compared to millions of comments for closeted haters.
Thank you Brutus XXVI for declaring what should be universal logic.
You're an amazing ambassador for the Trans community because of how humble, sweet but yet outspoken you are, who can resist that!? How could any Transphobe or anyone at all look at your videos and NOT just change their mind a little or just make a 180° Uturn!! You're amazing...
You mean she's attractive. Yeah, that's a privilege and it should be used, if possible /s
damn, she looks like one of those french fashion models
I know!? She's so stunningly beautiful that for a long time I thought that she was a cis girl playing games with the you-tube community by posing as a trans woman. But like she says here, when you boil it all down, it's about attraction and what makes you happy. For me it's a combination of personality and physical attraction, and how we interact with each other. Robin is the new tomorrow that has arrived here today, and the world is a better place for it.
@@samualyumkins7373 well said Sir.
Lol there's a reason she looks just like them. They're just like her. All VS models and high fashion runway models are trans just like most A list celebs to top sports superstars.
@@achiepalaago thats like not true. VS actually has a past of discriminatory behavior against trans people and in the past they said they would not hire trans models.
@@pepethelastsamurai3480 Just shut up. You know nothing. Not even one of the top models was born female. NOT ONE. WTF do you think their secret is? You think you can be a regular female and get that far in the modelling world? Just like all first ladies in America, tennis superstars, News anchors, A list movie stars, european queens to the us women's national team etc., they're all transgendered. Of course you won't know this cos you're one of the sheeple who are fast asleep in our world of scripted reality.
How about liking/loving someone for who they are. I know someone who married the same sex because they love them. They are both cis females. She’s not gay. If you’re attracted to someone inside and out.. what difference does it make? I brought up an analogy: “If they change the bottle of your favorite pancake syrup.. does it matter what the outside is as long as it’s the same syrup you always loved the same inside?” Attraction is attraction. Go with YOU. Not pressure from society. Don’t be fed. Be the feeder.
All you gotta do is treat a lady right.
I dont see any lady.
@@calistafalcontail YWNBL
@calistafalcontailThen you’re either blind or don’t know what a lady is.
I'm not so sure about this "Family" Point. I almost never introduced my GF's to my Family, but not because i'm ashamed of her, but because my Family is weird and i don't enjoy that much to visit them.
That’s a little different. If you have a strained relationship with your family and don’t want to see them, then that’s okay!
I think all anyone wants is to be loved and respected by their partner , gay straight or otherwise .
Tom Evans perhaps you need to do the same ?
otherwise what?
I agree it's tough being trans and dating... I found some people just wanted to treat me as an object. I am a person with feelings not an object.
welcome to womanhood.
@Dustin Stich I said I found some people who treated me as an object not all men. There are many good guys out there too.
@Dustin Stich For myself it's not all about sex; relationships are tough work. I am sorry you had the experience of wanting to go on a date and it turned out to be something else. This also happens in many cis gender relationships. I believe consent is ongoing not a matter of just going to someone's house. Sorry you had this experience.
@Jessica Your words have touched my heart
So are you happily married and happy in life? I am ready to find a girl that I will love for life
As a 24 year old cis man I haven’t had the same perspective on this. I even remember talking to my godmother before she transitioned about dating trans women she’s not even my biological parent, but a month after she transitioned all the men at restaurants and bars thought that she was my biological mom she’s very happy that without surgery’s how passing she is.
As a person of color it’s really hard for me to not feel worried about peoples safety it would’ve been interesting to hear your opinion about partners you have dated being overprotective and if that’s good or bad. Because my God mom recently transitioned I am very overprotective she just goes wherever she wants and I get worried about her sometimes. I’ve been single all my life and I would not be ashamed to date a trans woman I think I would be overprotective not necessarily in a bad way, but if I met any girl as beautiful as you I would be worried because men are creepy and can be physically dangerous so I would probably be on alert a lot lol.
Great video Robin given this a thumbs up 👍 and a sub.
Did y'all fug
@@alphaotakux 🤮
As a Trans girl, I personally think it's a beautiful feeling when people around me are over protective. I'm sure not all trans folks feel the same way but I do. All my friends and my family are overprotective of me. And I've never taken it the wrong way considering the point you made about the fact that there are creepy men outside and it isn't always safe. So I personally feel cared for and loved when I see people around me be overprotective like that. But, if you're concerned about how your god mother feels about you being over protective, I would highly suggest having a conversation about it with her. I'm sure she can answer it the best. But I think it's really sweet that care enough to be over protective towards her :)
I met a beautiful trans girl after my divorce - literally out of the blue we met while I was on a vacation we ended up having dinner and an amazingly deep conversation - ling story short we went out separate ways she met someone we live on different coasts and literally since then I have been very open to dating a trans woman...I know it takes a special connection but I have no idea how to meet someone seeking a real relationship I guess it is just fate...
Wish I could meet a guy like you
Can’t live without the 🐱 though😭
If you love someone, you love them completely and respect them utterly.
Basically it's no different than dating anyone else, basic communication goes a long way as well respect for the other person. I personally prefer trans women over "biological" women, mainly because trans women seem to know better what they want and are less into head games as well are usually more open minded in general (not sexually speaking on this point).
Do you realize how cool you actually are Robin ? Your one of the most down to earth ladies on UA-cam. Total respect girl. I hope and pray you find someone to treat you like you wish to be treated . In my honest opinion you are really cool and down to earth you just want to be happy and be respected for who you are . I applaud you for making a stand and speaking out and trying to show the world their is nothing wrong with your life choices or the choice any LGBT person desided for themselves. I just wish the rest of the world would wake up pull their heads out of their but so to speak and not push their negative thoughts and believes on others . Never give up the good fight. And Don't let those people put you down . Have Faith in yourself . and know your words have a positive effect on others and will help more people than you think. And those words will echo to others and help them to learn how to live and treat another human being with respect and dignity like everyone deserves. God Bless you Robin .
easy answer is trans women are women
EXACTLY
Yes, this exactly. Just treat them like normal people and treat them like you would dating anyone else.
@Reggie Brigham your bigotry is as disgusting as your illiteracy.
@Reggie Brigham na my guy
@@honda-s2k yeh but he didnt bleach his skin did he!!!! at it again luke!! you just trolling or running from your own gender confusion?
As a man from a highly religious Muslim family living in Belgium the only obstacle would be for her to meet my parents, I think you can understand why and how it complicates things... But yeah you are right about everything, Great video
Manners, civility and respect: they cost nothing - use them always.
Whatever gender: You are loved. Wherever you are.
WHO'M EVER YOU ARE.....🤗❤️
I am Chris live in the USA NY State 50yr old m
Hope ur day was awesome 😘
For what it worth, I am a straight man and I have dated TransWomen. I find that treating her with respect and being completely comfortable and honest with her yields a very enjoyable experience.
You have to understand one thing: you are not straight and you live in denial.
@@oggeeboggee it is you that is ridiculously delusional.
@@oggeeboggee It's funny when one person denies the work of thousands of psychologists... They concluded that a man who is attracted to a trans woman is not gay in any way or form. But that's okey. Keep livin' in you hateful dreams.
Viktória Szabó Biology says different. Females are XX and have XX pheromones. Males have XY pheromones. XX is not XY. I personally couldn’t care less what 2 people do behind closed doors. It’s not my business. But the shrinks are full of it if they say otherwise.
@@jewswhoswingssnakes923 it is interesting how people can quote biology here yet (likely) these same people forget all about biology when the subject changes to Female Bodybuilders.
Jeez, you're the bomb!! Too many trans youtubers are soooo harsh toward guys especially Trans oriented guys but you are so sweet and still bringing your point across in such a strong, determined but positive way and obviously you're incredibly beautiful!! OMG, I'm just freaking speechless....
Just wanted to say I think you have such a lovely personality and you're really cute and pretty too. Also, you're very right about how guys have to walk a narrow path to be straight and masculine enough for society. I know this very well myself.
" I suck at words. I suck at life." I can relate.
She is so precious ugh my heart ❤
My best friend transitioned. She is working hard at what she wants to be and I really respect her for it and she really has come a long way.
As someone who is on the outside but willing to learn, I very much appreciate your content. Keep it up!
Treat someone you care about with intelligence, courage and compassion.
I'm a straight guy and I am extremely attracted to you. (Truth)
if thats the case then your not straight, since this person regardless of appearance either way is a man.
@@john-si9yc mind your own business.
@@alyaaloverst5218 u and the original poster have fun together at the pride parade. He'll be there too. 😂 😂
@@john-si9yc was that supposed to be funny?
@@luixpaproductions It is.
It’s straight to date a trans girl. Look at her, she is a girl and if you like girls you like her.
I would be loving and caring but I have never had this kind of experience so if i fuck up don't take it personally.
Sometimes "fucking up is fun" especially when it's someone else's first time too... It's about laughing and being silly and having fun in a respectful and healthy way
She is so cute. i love her advice.
I've never dated trans, but I wouldn't hesitate if I were attracted to someone. I would just hope there's a very honest discussion up front about pre or post operation. I don't want a relationship with two penis in it...
You are so incredibly down to earth, I 🙏 that someday I’ll be fortunate enough to meet and become friends with a woman like you, and hopefully become much more than friends. Please keep up all the positive energy and work that you’re doing ❤❤
I don't need advice, I just watched this cuz you cute. Btw, "normal" is boring!
I think women or more than man as long as they are real women, not a male who thinks that being a man is to tough.
I see all of these points as referring to any relationship. Whether you want to be with a man or a woman or a trans man or a trans woman or a binary person you should still treat them with respect, not be ashamed to be seen with them or to introduce them to the people you care about and not get hung up on any part of them but love the whole person.
Love seeing you upload 🧡
@Kylie ❤
If you're a dude and you really want to date someone who says they identify as 'trans'', think very carefully about it.
YWNBL
You are a beautiful and sexy woman. Everything you said should be common sense to everyone. Always treat women with respect no matter who they are. Keep up the good work. ❤️❤️❤️
I met this girl from my home town, and I really like her, and I had on idea that she is trans, it throw me off for a bit, but I was still really into her, but I got so much shit from my own family and friends who wanted nothing to do with me, and when they ever got the chance to put me down they did, telling everyone they know who I was and how they can fix me throw going to church. it never change shit, I still love her and will always love her. but she got the same bullshit and just split from me and dropped me to leave town to the USA and never seen her since .
Good riddance! I hope you find a really good woman who will love you forever 🥰
Very seriously... How this video became part of my UA-cam recommendations?
Thank you for posting this. ♥ I'm going to study these pointers religiously. I want to date a transgirl, seriously... and I suck at, how they say, "Mack Daddy" skills. I always get nervous, but once I get her, they always become overwhelmed by my charm, honesty and sex appeal.
Again... Thanks a lot. ♥
I’m a guy, you’re a beautiful woman, i would treat you like any other woman, with total respect. I hope you find some one who respect you and loves you.
Also i dont know if thia is wrong but i say girl women etc because to me thats how it is in my eyes personally. And i always try to be respectful.
I'm dating to someone at the moment he didn't know i was trans because he was just a random guy at the store where i work he gave me his number ofc i made it clear right after he was kinda alright with that but he had very awkward questions on our first date :) i wouldn't say he was rude he was just kinda uneducated about the whole trans things more like a curiosity., but he still fine with me and the situation so we are keep dating which is great :)
@Victoria Your words have touched my heart
Each relationship is an adventure. I am glad you made this. So many great points. Enjoy being with the one you like/love and not as what the public stereotypes are. You are beautiful 🌹
Good video! I think it's sad how men still use being gay as a way to insult one another's masculinity. I agree with what you said though, respect is so important!!! Keep glowing, girl, it's nice to see a down to earth perspective on these things!! New subscriber now! :)
It's all about the person not about the gender.It's all about the personality and whether you get along with that person.It's not always about the gender
"I suck at life!". So do most of us honey. Then again, what is a "perfect" life? The answer to that is the same to the question, "What is normal?" There's no answer to that, it's subjective. And you're acing it, by the way, and looking beautiful
living up to your name bro!!!
When she first said “I suck” then paused, I thought - well that will keep a guy around!
I didn't get reply 😪 like videos tho
@@learningtolivewithhumans1859 I try my best 😊
@@ronaldyeater3322 not everyone dose i replied though
3:25 Yes, simply put: if it makes you uncomfortable, don't date :-)
Nobody:
This lady: 👈👈👉👉🙏🤙🤙✋✋
Guys, dating a trans girl takes some personal strength. She will need you to have the courage to date trans, if you have the courage the rewards can be amazing. I found most guys are kinda jealous because they do not have the courage themselves. The only negatives were from people I really didn't want in my life. One must show you are proud to be by her side and love to see her shine.
I was just thinking about when you were gonna upload a few days ago, and my wish came true :)
Nice content as always, awesome to see you growing so fast!
Be respectful. Open minded. Honest about what you want and ask them what they want. And appreciative and kind. Doesnt matter what labels are.
Your a lovely girl, hope you find respectful dates in future x
Imagine being Dutch too and understand the thing she was saying in Dutch🇳🇱
Welcome back, beautiful Trans-Sister!
I dated a woman who was a lawyer and 15 years older. She didn't want to be seen in public with me. It was kinda cool, but it finally hit me. When it hit me, it didn't feel cool at all.
I absolutely agree with everything you've said. My issues is actually finding trans girls to date. It's hard for me who is only attracted to trans girls.
Then you need a trans. You are what you are
Why on earth would you only be attracted to trans women?
Why not.. each person has their own personal likes
@@danielknox5043 but what's different about a trans woman?
@@rainjaydd8213 it's what I'm attracted to
I would date you but you would reject me like all the other girls.
Love ur smile 😍 and ur hair was in a ponytail ❤️
If you love someone stand by them and stand up for them no matter what. If you can't do that you don't deserve them.
I would want to date a trans and I wouldn’t be ashamed
I want to date trans women
Transwoman or natural born woman doesn't matter. It's about the person. Hope the world really changes on this matter. 🙏
I'm a pretty open minded straight guy and I would date you without keeping it a secret, you are more attractive than most cyst women! I think you are absolutely gorgeous! 😊
By definition that is not straight. A biological male who’s attracted to other biological males(pre post or whatever) is gay. Words have meaning. Straight ≠ Gay
@@stevensgarage6451 If you have to put a label on it then fine, I just find Robin attractive. I am not into masculinity or men whatsoever. I have been with a lot of beautiful cis
women before and continue to be, so if thinking Robin is attractive makes me gay according to your assessment then so be it. Whatever you say Mr. Black or White!
@@stevensgarage6451 YWNBL
@@stevensgarage6451Long ago, I made a vow that I would never have an argument with someone about the definition of a word. If you like someone you like someone, if you don’t you don’t. Is it gay? Idk man. Who the hell cares!
I see a wonderful person that is living her life the way she wants to and i wish i could meet her someday. Thanks for sharing Robin. You are a hero to so many out there. You are truly beautiful on the outside and in. Love you. Thomas
Now how do I get a date ? Lol
So beautiful! I love your SMILE!!
Gorgeous my biggest problem is trying to find transgender women I'm in Texas and transgender women are extremely hard to find plus I have always had straight relationships so I don't know how to approach them!! I don't care about what anyone thinks or says I just think that transgender women are always so amazing ,and I have always found transgender women incredibly attractive ever since I was well old enough to start thinking about girls!! And I really want to meet someone that I can bring home and introduce to my family!!!
4:47 I think this point may apply to you bud.
Just because you like trans women that doesn't mean you wouldn't be in a straight relationship with one. We are women in the end, "trans" is just a label. You just have to treat us and approach to us just like any other girl, with respect.
I absolutely agree I was kinda trying to mash up my life in one reply and it came out wrong I Consider all sexes to how they Identify,and I have always called transgender women and cd's women if they identify themselves as such I just meant that I have hidden the facts that I have always wanted and been attracted and wanted to be with but because of family and where I live I had to pretend to be someone I'm not
@@fragileasglass3192 Your words have touched my heart
It's nice to see a trans-girl not wearing tons of makeup, not having huuuge boobs, fake hair....you look so naturally beautiful 🙏
Every straight man would love to date a trans woman .
What??
@@thanos7459 well dear, I stand by previous statement,the fact that you are here in the first place proves that you are at least mildly interested,be true to yourself,trans ladies take beauty and femininity to another level,more and more men now feel confident to say that and admire these ladies,times they are a changing.Rgds,
No, but certainly many more than are comfortable admitting it - because they're wimps about it. No disrespect to Ms. Jaspers, but I'm confident she knows or at least wonders how many of her subscribers are chasers - some undercover, some not so much.
Hardly makes them straight then huh. Lol
Oh my god this is 4 years ago🥹🥺 you rlly have glown up since then, and this is amazing advice for the ppl who need to hear this!!!!!!🏳️⚧️
I'm a straight guy and I really want to date a trans
If a guy introduces you to his family do you think he should he come right out and tell them you're transgender or wait for them to figure it out on their own?
I've been straight my whole life but your so so s amazingly beautiful I'd date you & do any thing to win your heart for keeps!!!
Sorry dude. Sounds like you are gay. She is a HE. Just own it
@@cpaul69 she is a SHE so it wouldn’t make him gay it would make him straight
I follow another trans girl right here on YT. I came across one of her videos completely random. I then found myself watching all of her vids. I think she is absolutely gorgeous. If I didn't know she was trans I would never have known. I like her sense of humor, her personality, her mannerisms, and her smile is infectious to me. I think she's amazing. I know I'll never meet her, but I'd proudly take her in an instant, and I really don't know (or care) what is between her legs. She's beautiful on the outside, as well as inside.
I certainly would date you you're pretty , but I'm sure you must likely have a boyfriend 😞 but yeah like I said you are gorgeous.
Trans people can date whoever they want, but ridiculing straight people for not dating a non-straight person? Its not actual love if one of them is held hostage. 😮💨
Sos hermosaa🥺❤️
Thank you for helping us allies in the dating world of trans women. Nicely designed, useful info.
I want to date you
Communication! In any relationship. If not there, it will fail.
THERE ARE NO DO'S IN REGARD TO DATING A CASTRATED DUDE, JUST ONE BIG FREAKING DON'T.
Honestly heartbreaking. Here I am looking for actual relationship advice and the bar is apparently low enough that 'don't be a creep or accept bigotry' is the biggest take-away... Girl YOU DESERVE BETTER. Edit: you're DUTCH? Toevallig!
Very informative. I am 46 and just now questioning my sexuality. I could care less what labels anyone has here or there. Like you said just respect people boundaries and love people for who they are not what they are.
Thank u this video helps a lot im a 15 year old high schooler and there’s this girl that seems like she likes me and it helps me understand that I just treat her like I do any other girl I date thx
I look for the personality first, looks second, thank you for the advice.
In life no matter who you are all anyone wants is to be loved and appreciated.
These are things that any one should know, no matter sexual orientation. The biggest thing is always be honest with one another.
Other people should always be treated like human beings and not like an experiment. Finally it's the divine light that shines in everybody of us. Dear Robin my best wishes to you.and greetings from Germany.
The hardest part about dating trans women is that they generally look at most trans attracted males as chasers :/
If you love somebody it shouldn't matter if they're transgender or not treat everyone as if they're equal
I like your personality, I can see you getting rlly good at speaking infront of the camera. I relate to the robot mode 😂
Long answer short: date them like you would a normal girl.
i just found out that i like trans women and after a long time of not realizing it i want to let my parents know about it, i know that people don't give af about me as much as my parents do, i just hope i don't break their hearts honestly.
I regard myself as straight, at least when it comes to anatomy. Hearts and intellects are very important to me but so are parts. I have no sexual desire or interest in male anatomy, Its just way I'm programmed. So for me I have no problem dating a post op-trans women. If I find chemistry and attraction I’m proud to be with whoever I chose to date and proud to share them with the world. Regardless of if they were born with XX or XY chromosomes proving they have the female anatomy I feel sexual attraction to.
I have been with an non-binary person. I have been with two pre-op, pre-hormone trans men over the years. Because the attraction and chemistry was there plus anatomically they were female. I’ve always been honest with people about my attraction being based on them as an individual and in their female anatomy. I have never been disingenuous by pretending I’m attracted to men when I’m not or that body parts aren’t important to me. They (clearly) respected my position, understood and were not offended that my attraction would not be the same (with regards the tran-men) if they were fully transitioned. With the two trans guys we had some really nice times and just enjoyed it for what it was and it was just understood for what it was. Which I understand sound shitty (same as with me not dating pre-op trans women) but my sexuality is intrinsic and why would I date someone who’s male anatomy would be turn off for me? Whether others regard me as straight or not I don’t really give a dam, I’m my own man and I will stand proud who I am. I am attracted to whom I’m attracted to. I make no apologies for that and feel no shame in that.
Its a really complicated issues. Just understand yourself, be respectful to whoever you date and simply love who you love with no apology. Do that I think you’re on the right track.
I’m lesbian, and honestly, I do not care if you’re amab, as long as you’re a nice person, then being with you is just the same as being with an afab. Have a good day 😊
I don’t mind to date Transgirls, I think a real heterosexual person who isn’t unorthodoxy would date Transgirl, I love them 🫶🖤❤️
For me my main concern is like to make her feel save and good. Thanks for making this Video it really helped me to emphatize better with trans ladys (and the one transe dude who i fought alot with pre Transition but as dudes we kinda get along^^)
2:29 to 2:40 what if the person is naturally low key or prefer to keep his life private?
It all comes down to: you're dealing with a person who's just like any other common person, don't be a pain in the a** if you want that person to stay close to you.