How Laziness Leads to Lust

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  • @gregoryvenarsky4910
    @gregoryvenarsky4910 6 років тому +199

    Please pray for me. I've been struggling with this for a while now. I'm 15 and am in sincere need for prayer from others. God give me strength

    • @michaelhudecek2778
      @michaelhudecek2778 6 років тому +4

      🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @luzclara3855
      @luzclara3855 6 років тому +3

      I will pray for you! God bless you always.

    • @clairepitre7407
      @clairepitre7407 6 років тому +4

      Just said a prayer for you. You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!

    • @jonathanmolina7690
      @jonathanmolina7690 6 років тому +4

      Gotcha, and please pray for me as well since I am struggling with my own temptations! -(Coming from a college student)

    • @gregoryvenarsky4910
      @gregoryvenarsky4910 6 років тому +4

      Thanks you guys so much!!! I will pray for each and every one of you ( especially you college man)

  • @mdg6117
    @mdg6117 6 років тому +162

    Praise God. This video came to me at a moment of struggle. Thank you Bobby.

    • @AnonymousAnarchyst
      @AnonymousAnarchyst 6 років тому +5

      Please pray for me to not be slothful in my faith and to overcome the sin of lust.

    • @mdg6117
      @mdg6117 6 років тому +6

      @@AnonymousAnarchyst May our holy Mother cover you with her mantle and give you strength. St. Joseph, terror of demons, pray for all those who struggle with lust. Press on, Prayer Warrior!

    • @nellykbora9977
      @nellykbora9977 5 років тому +1

      Same here, thanks Bobby

  • @jesusm.burgos1021
    @jesusm.burgos1021 6 років тому +101

    " sloth, I don't mean the animal and if you came to this video to get tips on how to fight a sloth which would be the slowest fight known to man I am so sorry" 😂😂😂 love it that was funny to me. Love the video, I get this show this video to my youth group kids, it definitely would be a great topic.

  • @winfredkiarie2944
    @winfredkiarie2944 6 років тому +65

    This was spot on. Just when I was getting comfortable with my slacking spiritually. To be honest I was slowly giving up because my spirituality fluctuates. Thank you for the reminder

    • @ThatMOMLife188
      @ThatMOMLife188 6 років тому +3

      You're not alone, it has seemed like my faith fluctuates and I've gotten lazy, but recently God has woken me up to the power of his love, and that's when I realized all the other stuff I was keeping myself busy with doesn't satisfy like keeping God in my life does. For me, I am spiritually lazy at praying and reading the bible, when I finally opened up the bible and read even one verse in Luke yesterday, everything changed, I received the grace of God. If it's possible for me, it's possible for anyone! All we have to do is be humble and open to receive him and his Holy Spirit into our hearts.

    • @poetlover30
      @poetlover30 6 років тому +2

      Don't give up b/c it's hard or inconsistent- that's Ok! Keep trying! Praying always transforms you & your heart.

  • @josephmclaughlin1
    @josephmclaughlin1 6 років тому +11

    First time I’ve heard the word “Spiritual” attached to laziness for the full definition of Sloth! Now I know why the battle to say “no” to ANY addictive temptation cannot be overcome without “God’s intervention” aka “Grace!” Thanks for this important video. And to all you guys seeking purity and chastity, I’m praying for ALL OF US. “Blessed the Pure Of Heart, for they shall see God. May St. Joseph and Our Lord Jesus Christ be our models for Perfect Masculine Purity! Amen!

  • @alfredolibreros5134
    @alfredolibreros5134 6 років тому +29

    Please pray for me cuz I've been struggling with this 2 issues (Sloth and Lust) for sooo many years and I'm at a point that it has hindered my life a lot to have confidence to keep going and do new stuff

  • @rajvo1
    @rajvo1 6 років тому +13

    I think I've never ever regretted I had subscribed to this channel. Thank you so much!

  • @MarkHowellPaulAgain
    @MarkHowellPaulAgain 6 років тому +38

    Stop scrolling through the comments and go do something

    • @eastm.1110
      @eastm.1110 6 років тому +2

      Hhhaaa, you must have had me in mind

    • @poetlover30
      @poetlover30 6 років тому +1

      Like what?

    • @whatisinpi7689
      @whatisinpi7689 6 років тому +1

      Diana Hayden like Permaculture.com or picking up a good read like 'Alcohol can be A gas' by David Blame which can be found at AlcoholCanBeAgas.Com with that book actually increased my awareness of what I can do about the ever so changing Earth I breathe in. For a time this had to be the most remarkable and inspiring books I had yearned for, and ever read, until of course I became Catholic.
      Laudato Si

    • @praytherosaryeveryday2709
      @praytherosaryeveryday2709 5 років тому +1

      I will tomorrow

  • @kevinchahine7553
    @kevinchahine7553 6 років тому +8

    Where has this been all my life. I needed to hear this so much.

  • @mikewilson6773
    @mikewilson6773 6 років тому +5

    Amen! In my experience, it is indeed sloth that precedes a fall. Thanks, Bobby!

  • @jersonjames2732
    @jersonjames2732 5 років тому +4

    Thanks. that made a lot of sense. i had experience it and praying to God really helps a lot. this is what i need for today. thnk you so much

  • @christinewalker9115
    @christinewalker9115 6 років тому +3

    Sloth spiritual laziness.... boom mind blown. Wow great video.

  • @maedrosbott5274
    @maedrosbott5274 4 роки тому +6

    Lust is not an emotion; it is a demonic entity and when it comes up, remember this; it isn't you, its the demon that is around you at that time; resist the demon and he will flee.

  • @user-fy2ox9ep9t
    @user-fy2ox9ep9t 6 років тому +1

    I can't agree more than this. It is simple, in the state of sluggishness or lazy, the mind looks for excitement or relieve thus dopamine lurks at the back of the mind and then temptation of flesh delights if persists in that state. As Aquinas says : " Suggestion, delight and consent "

  • @emberflash1641
    @emberflash1641 6 років тому +21

    Great video! Haven’t done anything productive today. I Think I’m gonna get off my phone and go do something productive now. 😅

  • @FrankBlanchard_engineering
    @FrankBlanchard_engineering 6 років тому +5

    Thank you, God and Bobby. This video has helped me understand my struggle a whole lot better.

  • @elcompalex31
    @elcompalex31 6 років тому +6

    God knows his timing. Thank you Bobby

  • @Michelle-fr1fw
    @Michelle-fr1fw 6 років тому +5

    Thank you this meant a lot to me and I learnt a lot. I’m so grateful for this channel and it’s content!!

  • @arvisconti
    @arvisconti 6 років тому +1

    That is great advice. The closer you get to God the further you will get from sin.

  • @Dabu-Dabu
    @Dabu-Dabu 6 років тому +35

    Hey Bobby. Here's a subject you don't here much about: you're single and sexually frustrated - how to cope with that. Literally no one tackles that.

    • @Dabu-Dabu
      @Dabu-Dabu 6 років тому +1

      @Rashad Foux God bless, dude :) +

    • @mollycule2792
      @mollycule2792 6 років тому +19

      Would definitely agree with thinking about your future spouse and how much they will appreciate your sacrifice now for the benefit in the future. You’re thinking about your future spouse now, putting God and them before your lustful urges now. It’s not easy, but it is worth it!

    • @baryl3969
      @baryl3969 3 роки тому +4

      I definitely agree with MollyCue. To encourage you, I once met a brother in Christ whom the Lord revealed would be my husband, but when I met him, he wasn’t ready to receive me. He gave himself away and was still living a sinful life. Satan had lied to him that his actions wouldn’t hurt anyone, but Satan didn’t tell him how his actions would hurt his future wife and children. The future comes, we meet, he wasn’t ready to receive God’s blessing. His actions from his past and current sexual sins ended up hurting the both of us so much. The emotional impact of one person’s sin goes beyond yourself. Brother, save yourself. Ask God to satisfy you physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Seek His face by reading His word. Seek Him. The pain you would save your future wife and children is worth it. The emotional pain I still carry from that person is great and never goes away. God bless you :)

  • @eselga8
    @eselga8 6 років тому +13

    Prayer Request: FOR my Young Adult Daughters- In GOD'S Time, to Meet/Marry Strong Spiritual Catholic Men/Leaders of the Family (And for My son/To be)- Marian/Eucharistic Spiritual Young Men. I KNOW they exist. Waiting Upon the Lord!! Thank You!!

  • @carlosrodolfo2019
    @carlosrodolfo2019 4 роки тому

    You all Ascension have been a HUGE channel of God's Grace to all of us!! Thank you so much for the charity and God bless you!!

  • @nogalsmetalica
    @nogalsmetalica 6 років тому +6

    cool video, never thought of that connection between sloth and lust. Made me do a big think now

  • @luv4da80s
    @luv4da80s 6 років тому +1

    Great one Bobby. Starting to realize this more and more and making some good strides combating lust after watching Fr Mikes video on developing a clear vision. This video really complemented that one and is helping. God bless you and your lovely family.

  • @iking3049
    @iking3049 5 років тому +1

    This is a clear explanation of the connection between the two vices.

  • @Selahsmum
    @Selahsmum 2 роки тому

    Just to add a little bit to the conversation here, lust doesn't have to involve the eyes. It can be all in your head! I think women in particular struggle with fantasy and lust in our minds, withut even having to seek out anyone r anything to look at. And its still lust!
    And this video is great, thank you.

  • @eristonmansambu8225
    @eristonmansambu8225 6 років тому +4

    I needed this. Thank you Bobby🙏🏻

  • @Eneanyogo
    @Eneanyogo 5 років тому

    this makes so much sense bobby! I remember growing up and we used to pray the rosary together and we would say 1 decade per child. It didn't last long cause we all then went to boarding school so it no longer became customary for us. But i want to do better now though for not only my kids but for those around me

  • @Mr_Fairdale
    @Mr_Fairdale 2 роки тому

    This is great perspective. Found this video right after closing a very… immoral dating app. It’d be nice to be free of lust.

  • @Anthony_2877
    @Anthony_2877 2 роки тому +1

    I'm praying the rosary for almost a month day and night, I've seen that my desire about impurity decrease, but recently I fall again, please pray for my soul, knowing it is a mortal sin

  • @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj
    @heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj 5 років тому +2

    Great msg..ur speaking directly to me. Blessings

  • @michaelmcevoy5282
    @michaelmcevoy5282 6 років тому +7

    Great video Bobby God bless you and your family 😆 ❤ 🕇 🌼

  • @somnicide
    @somnicide 6 років тому +1

    Love your videos, but man, I just have to say that churchwarden on your desk is gorgeous!

  • @michaelhudecek2778
    @michaelhudecek2778 6 років тому +2

    Thank you! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family! Your baby is precious! Mike

  • @shen6250
    @shen6250 6 років тому +48

    That's one cute baby 😂

  • @doseofemily
    @doseofemily 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the great message. God bless.

  • @ankereisenman4824
    @ankereisenman4824 Рік тому

    This video was 5 minutes too late to show up on my feed but I will keep it in mind

  • @jrockrad7126
    @jrockrad7126 4 роки тому

    Thanks for fighting the good fight!

  • @Chrisplumbgas
    @Chrisplumbgas 6 років тому +4

    Great talk, and agree fully. Now just have to apply to my life. Recommended Rosary , must be Catholic. Thanks again.

  • @johnayala2540
    @johnayala2540 3 роки тому

    I love, love, love this message. Thank you. Thank you

  • @jonin2288
    @jonin2288 6 років тому +1

    Thank you sir for your video... Praise be to God..

  • @cristiangarcia6984
    @cristiangarcia6984 10 місяців тому +1

    If you read this please pray for me to overcome my struggle with the sin of lust I beg of you 🙏

  • @DragonMurbah
    @DragonMurbah 6 років тому +1

    i really needed this video, thank you. God bless!

  • @czube83
    @czube83 6 років тому

    Just what I needed and just when I needed it. Thank you Bobby and God bless!

  • @patriciadevela3312
    @patriciadevela3312 6 років тому

    Very insightful video! Super needed this.

  • @stormyaudio9969
    @stormyaudio9969 6 років тому +5

    I really needed this I stumble with sloth/ spiritual laziness alot even though I want to get closer with God

  • @kathyagalidis8822
    @kathyagalidis8822 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much. God bless you

  • @tzaoriana
    @tzaoriana 5 років тому +1

    This actually makes sense

  • @goodcatholic2
    @goodcatholic2 6 років тому

    Great job Bobby very powerful and something I will do with the my idol time is to read more scripture and praying

  • @ginad9189
    @ginad9189 6 років тому

    Thank you for sharing your video been really insightful and a huge wake up call. God bless.

  • @nicolenicastro4519
    @nicolenicastro4519 6 років тому +1

    My struggle is I genuinely feel remorse, go to confession and then slip up again a few days later, it's so hard. Once this happens I feel defeated, cant receive communion until I go to confession again and then feel almost ashamed to continue praying and working on my relationship with God which is so discouraging. Dont get me wrong I love the sacrament, but it's become almost a chore because if I fall i automatically feel like a crappy person and like nothing will help.. go to confession 2 weeks later, struggle a few days later and the cycle continues. Prayers are appreciated! :)

    • @TF80s
      @TF80s 6 років тому +1

      I am exactly the same..I get to the point that I'm embarrassed & ashamed to go to confession because I have to confess the same cycle of sin every time. I don't seem to grow spiritually at all no matter how much I pray and receive Holy Communion.

    • @ucheanagor5720
      @ucheanagor5720 3 роки тому

      @@MJ-nd7cj pray the whole Rosary everyday. You will defeat it Amen.

  • @brendanguinee850
    @brendanguinee850 6 років тому

    Great vid. I really like this new series

  • @Hotsauce2522
    @Hotsauce2522 6 років тому +1

    Great Video, thank you!

  • @Guitarded500
    @Guitarded500 6 років тому

    Another great video! Thanks

  • @nw24153ns
    @nw24153ns 3 роки тому

    Great video & Oh it is so true that what you feed your mind WILL affect your mind for years to come. It was suggested, in a post, on a comment in this video " spirituality as an escape mechanism" but in this world is it a bad thing to want to feed your mind something positive?

  • @AlvinaRayne
    @AlvinaRayne 6 років тому

    Awesome as always!

  • @GeoffreyChilesTV
    @GeoffreyChilesTV 2 роки тому +1

    I really need prayers I have myself in a bind. My loneliness is leading to lust and I need all the help I can get from the BVM and the Son.

  • @rg32022
    @rg32022 11 місяців тому +1

    I don't even want to and I pray for it to leave but its hard. I need your help brothers and sisters to pray for me to the LORD our GOD.

  • @websurfin9575
    @websurfin9575 3 роки тому +1

    This Godly man is a voice crying in the wilderness!

  • @toddkrump4520
    @toddkrump4520 3 роки тому

    Thanks I needed this

  • @enzotorres1273
    @enzotorres1273 2 роки тому

    So much truth!!!

  • @alakes100
    @alakes100 6 років тому

    Thank you I needed to hear this

  • @pierreschiffer3180
    @pierreschiffer3180 6 років тому

    Good video. Good contents.

  • @camissleepy8542
    @camissleepy8542 Рік тому +3

    Fasting helps with lust

  • @zeomarmob
    @zeomarmob 4 роки тому +1

    Where in the Bible it says that we need to pray with rosary?

  • @Joe-dh2bf
    @Joe-dh2bf 6 років тому

    Thanks, Bobby.

  • @ethiopienqueen
    @ethiopienqueen 6 років тому +20

    I have a reverse sloth, I am full of zeal when it comes to my spiritual life but lazy when it comes to temporal things. Does that count?

    • @bret6484
      @bret6484 6 років тому +9

      In theory, your zeal for God should spill out into the rest of your life. If you're struggling with sloth, lust, or any other sin, perhaps serving God can help you do something meaningful and fruitful that gives you a more lasting sense of joy, instead of the fleeting happiness that comes from lazing around. Perhaps ask God to show you how to serve him or serve others, or strengthen healthy relationships; those sorts of things help me when I'm struggling with sin.

    • @ethiopienqueen
      @ethiopienqueen 6 років тому +2

      Nerds thank you :)

    • @rayrayndiema
      @rayrayndiema 5 років тому

      This is so relatable in my life

    • @frankk.777
      @frankk.777 4 роки тому

      You are using spirituality as an escape mechanism

    • @ethiopienqueen
      @ethiopienqueen 4 роки тому +2

      @@frankk.777 hmmm..not really. I lack interested in passing things and more dedicated in doing spiritual deeds including works of mercy. I don't necessarily cloister myself and pray non-stop. It just means I don't for worldly motivation but only for the glory of God and for the good of mankind.

  • @mattberg916
    @mattberg916 3 роки тому

    I can attest to this now if I could just kill my temper

  • @briankelly85
    @briankelly85 6 років тому +13

    little by little. day by day.

  • @laureneonunkwo4519
    @laureneonunkwo4519 4 місяці тому

    "Idle hands are the devil's workshop" Nigerian proverb.

  • @robonymous4620
    @robonymous4620 6 років тому +2

    Excellent, thank you very much, sir!! 🕆📿👍

  • @chissstardestroyer
    @chissstardestroyer 6 років тому

    Well, it may be more like the more active you are in moral fields, that that detail helps to dominate lust to the highest degree... I well remember how happy I was in school when I was overloaded with studies, it helped me to behave myself, so for instance by 6th grade in elementary school I was at the top of my game: involved in three music groups and trying to get into Drama Club's Back Stage Crew as well as keeping at the top, or near there, of my studies- as far as the flesh went, I was completely unchallenged, and to boot, I was also active in the faith at that time! I regard that as my golden years overall.

  • @MP-er1zk
    @MP-er1zk 3 роки тому

    I'm not sure I totally agree with going to the gym as a good use of someone's time, more an illusion of doing that. Watching a box set and/or going to the gym accomplish pretty much the same thing. Either use your time wisely or don't.

  • @spidernymph8964
    @spidernymph8964 6 років тому +11

    5:04 WAKE ME UP INSIDE!!!

  • @IONov990
    @IONov990 5 років тому +1

    The baby looks so much like him

  • @josephsawczyn1145
    @josephsawczyn1145 5 років тому +1

    How do you find the motivation to change your life?

  • @liam606
    @liam606 Рік тому

    " So that the genuineness of your faith, more precious than gold that is perishable even though tested by fire, may prove to be for praise, glory, and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. "

  • @Cleveland_Chris
    @Cleveland_Chris 6 років тому

    Kids do what they want. Parents can't control them. That's an illusion. If children were controllable there wouldn't be so many young people losing their way. Everything else that you said I agree with.

  • @Sola040710
    @Sola040710 6 років тому

    the devil targets good families like yours and others, good example of a family man just what we need in these hard times, God bless you all

  • @davecampbell9803
    @davecampbell9803 3 роки тому

    Man I feel like I'm getting closer to knowing Jesus. I come from a Catholic family, but I'm just not making the connection. I'm 45 and I feel like my time is short.

  • @FrancesShear
    @FrancesShear 4 роки тому

    Just ask anyone just over the age of 65 who have not spent much time in reflection while having to be making calculations most of the time until fatigue before then how hard of a battle it is to fight.

  • @giancarlofermin5719
    @giancarlofermin5719 3 роки тому

    Hi sir

  • @diegoperalta196
    @diegoperalta196 5 років тому +1

    #askbobby Hey Bobby, how can we connect our spiritual life with our work life. I'm a teacher, and sometimes they seem like two separate worlds. I would like to integrate God in all of my activities. Thank you!

  • @daltondavidson7997
    @daltondavidson7997 6 років тому

    I've been reading Suma Theoligica, and I'm not too embarrassed to say it often goes a bit over my head lol. What's perhaps an easier way to learn and reflect on the virtues, and the sins that get in their way?

  • @lizetrocha
    @lizetrocha 6 років тому

    SO TRUE

  • @powerliftingcentaur
    @powerliftingcentaur 6 років тому

    Interesting.

  • @mrbabluep
    @mrbabluep 5 років тому

    Sometimes it saves us from sin though.

  • @TheUltimateMarioFan
    @TheUltimateMarioFan 6 років тому

    The sin of "sloth" is actually pronounced "SLOWTH", rhymes with "loathe". Very common error when Catholics talk about the sin.

  • @DamienSawyer
    @DamienSawyer 3 роки тому

    Lol at the opening joke

  • @krzysztofmitko4953
    @krzysztofmitko4953 6 років тому

    Right time

  • @lizcuero9065
    @lizcuero9065 Рік тому

    Yikes! Sloth leads to weight gain.

  • @annaholley2885
    @annaholley2885 5 років тому +1

    💜💜💜💜

  • @Guitarded500
    @Guitarded500 6 років тому

    #askbobby thought of doing a podcast for men?

  • @jacobnevills18
    @jacobnevills18 6 років тому +1

    #askbobby does everything happen for a reason?

  • @mcgelloe
    @mcgelloe 5 років тому +1

    Why does Bobby always look so sad? :(

  • @davelaz5582
    @davelaz5582 5 років тому +2

    Oddly I guess, and perhaps it is because I am 62, sloth in my life makes me too lazy to lust.

  • @AtticTapes14
    @AtticTapes14 2 роки тому

    6:30

  • @maryjosephine6744
    @maryjosephine6744 6 років тому +1

    Sorry but I don't agree. Honestly you should have talked more about "being single (not married) and desire of sex". Maybe there are some situations that comes from laziness but most of the time lust happens - being single and healthy desire of healthy sex -. Some people believe that it's a sin because it's written in Bible. But another fact is we are weak and human at the same time. So any solutions for this kind of people? Because all the things you mentioned in the video will not help at all. Thanks. I hope you'll read this comment.

  • @vicentemodesto
    @vicentemodesto 4 роки тому +1

    Who else had to do this for Cyberday at DeMatha

  • @JohnnyWalkerBlack142
    @JohnnyWalkerBlack142 2 місяці тому

    Disappointed. I came to learn how to fight sloths in trees