I could write a whole damn essay on why this is - in fact, some day in the near future, I will do exactly that. It's both a shame and an interesting phenomenon, because I think we have such a fascinating psyche as Irish people and would have so much to contribute if we could only get out of our heads. I'm pinning your comment as a reminder that I'm built different and the same animal. Thanks for commenting and keep an eye out for that future vid!
@@TrueUnsettlingFuel I haven’t forgotten about this video btw, I’m working on it and I want it to be a total, rational analysis with as little bias as possible. Hope you’re doing well!
That’s a shame! Not my personal experience, but the whole concept of ‘family’ has evolved massively in the last few decades from what I’ve observed. I actually plan on making videos about the evolution of families soon so stay tuned
Family isn't family then, just relatives. The real family is the ones that stick around and like the anti-title to this video, the ones that care about you.
People live inside of their own heads not others. Therefore, they only care about their own happiness, how they feel, their status quo, needs, reputation, and will prioritize them before anyone else's. That's life.
As someone that has a mild form of autism, It really doesnt matter if they dont... Keep learning, invest in courses, develop skills, thats the way Ive grown and developed
Word. Most people are too worried about what you think about them to have a thought about YOU (beyond what you think about THEM). Humans are self a sorbed and self concerned.
What you share at the beginning is exactly why I started doing youtube completely disconnected from people I know in real life. I knew it was my opportunity to just be completely myself and free. I may link up both worlds again, but actually love the clean slate feeling.
I feel that totally. It is definitely hard to bridge the gap between the real and online world. I’m not sure that we even should tbh. Either way, I wish you the best and thanks for commenting.
@@TadhgMiddleton I'm reading a book about that now. Part of it is because of the Church. I'm sure that capitalism, education, and industrialization played a part, too.
@@TadhgMiddleton The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous. WEIRD is an acronym for Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic.
Wishing you well on your channel. I was so worried about people's opinions when I started and now it's hardly a thought. I've found a whole tribe of friends on UA-cam that come to hang out on live streams. Apparently I'm not that weird. Very few in my real life care about my channel but people on here do. People do come and go but it's a great way to connect. The people meant to find you will. And the ones that want to stay and support will. Stay encouraged
Yea...I this hit mecacfew days ago. Ive been wrapped up about being judged, abd realize nobody gives a shit about anyone for bad and good. It is pretty liberating and also a bit depressing in a way.
For sure, I agree with ya bro. However, if you’re looking to view it in a less depressing light, I can give you a tip - there ARE people out there who will be willing to care about you in the way you want them to… you just gotta be present and open enough to find them. I’ll be posting a video later that might make this comment make more sense… stay tuned 👀
Self love is all that matters if no one cares about you love yourself enough not to care my family doesn't mess with me and I have no friends and couldn't be happier!! Idgaf about others opinions, suggestions, etc.. Its your life nobody else's plus who's getting in the casket when its time to check out no one!!!
I can certainly see the utility in this mindset - I think self love is a fantastic starting place, and is more necessary in this modern age than ever, in my opinion. Having been someone who's had the "born alone, die alone" mindset before though, I can tell you that it is unsustainable long term. At least, for me it was unsustainable, anyways. For reference, you can check out my latest video ua-cam.com/video/y2_Iess9ACo/v-deo.html Like everything in life, I think it's largely dependent on the individual themself - some people have a greater tolerance for being alone, while others need more company. Where each person falls upon that spectrum is for each person to figure out on their own. I don't think there's a right or wrong answer, I think it's just a case of knowing yourself and your needs - which, I suppose, is synonymous with self-love. Thanks for commenting!
I'm not so sure mate,my work place for example is terrible for people "caring" a bit too much what other people are doing,i have never worked with such a bunch of curtain twitchers in my life honestly, The more i keep guarded the more they want to know about my life and what im doing,
@@Wyrmwoodwarpig interesting. I get what you mean, it's probably like a "small town mindset" kind of thing. However, I'd argue that that's more nosiness than people ACTUALLY caring about what you do. Now, of course, I don't know your situation, and I could be completely wrong, so do correct me if I am. But at least in my own experience, some people might care to the degree that they're nosy and/or gossiping about what I'm up to, but I highly doubt that they REALLY give a shit at the end of the day. But hey, who knows?
Why do we think they care about us in the first place? Is it something in how we're brought up? Or because when we're kids adults have to care and we get used to having people take notice and care until we turn 20 and then everyone starts not caring. I do think people care, it's just that they're not that invested. They might think about you every once in a while. I think it's kinda freeing
@@Harry-fk5of I agree, it’s very freeing. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with us being kids and being dependent on adults. It’s a beautiful thing to realise you’re good on your own, and in my experience, then realising you’re even better with others, when they’re the right people.
I know the feeling, Julie. Two suggestions: firstly, eliminate as many distractions as possible. My biggest distraction is social media, so I simply just don’t have the apps on my phone. Not easy, but necessary, at least for me. Second, read the book ‘Mastery’ by Robert Greene. Absolutely life changing for me, for the better. My favourite book of all time. Wishing you all the best!
Bro last time i broke my ankle , and this girl i was talking too didn't give a fuck , she block me I realize yeah some people don't give an fuck they have there own problems and its fine its part of life.
Hello. When I began my journey here I didn't think about views at all. I just filmed a few videos, and kept doing other things. I filmed myself creating art work, or drawing them. Everything I've created has been for the enjoyment of just creating.
Everyone has way too much going on in their own lives to rip on you for being on UA-cam, and anyone who does have time to do that isn’t worth very much to anyone tbh
It will be nice to see if you can show landscapes, local restaurants in the wall to go eat, the good and bad about people that live in Ireland, places to have fun in Ireland…just a thought…
I m 44yo male from Poland. I would be proud of rised kids by me. I would like to have them in near future and meybe I would like to buy or build house on south of Europe - Italy, Portufal , Spain.I am also single nie and have no friends now in the city.
just lift your phone and see how many people will call you without you calling them first? now you've it figured out, you're even more lucky if they are more than 3, thx.
I just want to share you that there is always love, hope, forgiveness of sins and eternal life in Jesus. If you come to Him with a sincere and humble repented heart, He can save you and forgive you and give you abundance of joy, love and peace and eternal life. Believe in Jesus: He is The Son of God, He died for our sins and He rose from the dead, Believe in Jesus. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” -John 3:16
That’s very true about people in Ireland not doing UA-cam. Even up north there’s barely any. I’m not sure why
I could write a whole damn essay on why this is - in fact, some day in the near future, I will do exactly that. It's both a shame and an interesting phenomenon, because I think we have such a fascinating psyche as Irish people and would have so much to contribute if we could only get out of our heads.
I'm pinning your comment as a reminder that I'm built different and the same animal. Thanks for commenting and keep an eye out for that future vid!
@@TadhgMiddleton looking forward to that video. Subscribed. Keep up the good work !
@@TrueUnsettlingFuel I haven’t forgotten about this video btw, I’m working on it and I want it to be a total, rational analysis with as little bias as possible. Hope you’re doing well!
I'd love to see this video as I'm Irish too
These days even family don't care about you
That’s a shame! Not my personal experience, but the whole concept of ‘family’ has evolved massively in the last few decades from what I’ve observed. I actually plan on making videos about the evolution of families soon so stay tuned
Family isn't family then, just relatives. The real family is the ones that stick around and like the anti-title to this video, the ones that care about you.
So true
I agree.
Yeah
sips coffee "most people dont care about you" man im dead
People live inside of their own heads not others. Therefore, they only care about their own happiness, how they feel, their status quo, needs, reputation, and will prioritize them before anyone else's. That's life.
That’s life, mostly anyways. No harm in having a goal to find people who DO care about us and we DO care about them too though :)
@@TadhgMiddletonyou'll be disappointed nobody cares. I want to cares about someone so if you wanna find someone I'm here but it's tough
As someone that has a mild form of autism, It really doesnt matter if they dont... Keep learning, invest in courses, develop skills, thats the way Ive grown and developed
Way to go !
You have to care about yourself before anybody else!!!
Very wise - same goes for love, respect, help, and so on.
So true and most people are fairly stupid so you shouldn't care what they think anyway
I've noticed that most don't have a care for even concepts and ideas.
@@Last_E_iz_A_thre3 I have found most don't know how free speech works and they don't really believe in individuality
The only time they care is when you fail or they have something to use against you. Majority of ppl are in it to help themselves over you.
Lol
Word.
Most people are too worried about what you think about them to have a thought about YOU (beyond what you think about THEM).
Humans are self a sorbed and self concerned.
Very well put. I’m more concerned with what you think about me, rather than what I think about you.
What you share at the beginning is exactly why I started doing youtube completely disconnected from people I know in real life. I knew it was my opportunity to just be completely myself and free. I may link up both worlds again, but actually love the clean slate feeling.
I feel that totally. It is definitely hard to bridge the gap between the real and online world. I’m not sure that we even should tbh. Either way, I wish you the best and thanks for commenting.
The English speaking world is incredibly individualistic and obsessed with achievement.
Interesting observation 🤔 why do you think that is?
@@TadhgMiddleton I'm reading a book about that now. Part of it is because of the Church. I'm sure that capitalism, education, and industrialization played a part, too.
@@shiptj01 cool, what’s the name of the book? On the lookout for good books myself at the moment
@@TadhgMiddleton The WEIRDest People in the World: How the West Became Psychologically Peculiar and Particularly Prosperous. WEIRD is an acronym for Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic.
@@TadhgMiddleton By Joseph Henrich
When you’re there for everyone, but you look around and realize no one is there for you.
@@Kingsley_717 damn bro I’m sorry to hear that. Sounds like you gotta find better people in your life. Wishing you all the best
Wishing you well on your channel. I was so worried about people's opinions when I started and now it's hardly a thought. I've found a whole tribe of friends on UA-cam that come to hang out on live streams. Apparently I'm not that weird. Very few in my real life care about my channel but people on here do. People do come and go but it's a great way to connect. The people meant to find you will. And the ones that want to stay and support will. Stay encouraged
Appreciate the comment a lot mate, thank you :)
It helped me to have a new perspective on what is worth it in life and what is not
@@Имя-о9ъ I bet! Glad to hear it.
Great video. Oddly enough, I was just thinking about how freeing it is that no one is more invested in what you do than yourself
Thanks man 👍
Yea...I this hit mecacfew days ago. Ive been wrapped up about being judged, abd realize nobody gives a shit about anyone for bad and good. It is pretty liberating and also a bit depressing in a way.
For sure, I agree with ya bro. However, if you’re looking to view it in a less depressing light, I can give you a tip - there ARE people out there who will be willing to care about you in the way you want them to… you just gotta be present and open enough to find them. I’ll be posting a video later that might make this comment make more sense… stay tuned 👀
Self love is all that matters if no one cares about you love yourself enough not to care my family doesn't mess with me and I have no friends and couldn't be happier!! Idgaf about others opinions, suggestions, etc.. Its your life nobody else's plus who's getting in the casket when its time to check out no one!!!
I can certainly see the utility in this mindset - I think self love is a fantastic starting place, and is more necessary in this modern age than ever, in my opinion.
Having been someone who's had the "born alone, die alone" mindset before though, I can tell you that it is unsustainable long term. At least, for me it was unsustainable, anyways. For reference, you can check out my latest video ua-cam.com/video/y2_Iess9ACo/v-deo.html
Like everything in life, I think it's largely dependent on the individual themself - some people have a greater tolerance for being alone, while others need more company. Where each person falls upon that spectrum is for each person to figure out on their own.
I don't think there's a right or wrong answer, I think it's just a case of knowing yourself and your needs - which, I suppose, is synonymous with self-love.
Thanks for commenting!
It’s not tho. Self improvement and self care. Self love is bull shit we need human touch and human love from another person.
I love your mindset I hope you go so far in life
@@intellectualsta why thank you, I plan to do so.
@ keep going with the vids! I’m sure your channel will grow big. Keep being great 💪🏽
I'm not so sure mate,my work place for example is terrible for people "caring" a bit too much what other people are doing,i have never worked with such a bunch of curtain twitchers in my life honestly,
The more i keep guarded the more they want to know about my life and what im doing,
Curtain twitchers 😂😂 what generation do your coworkers come from?
@@TadhgMiddleton Oh the age ranges vary really,they aren't old let's put it that way,they just can't help themselves!
@@Wyrmwoodwarpig interesting. I get what you mean, it's probably like a "small town mindset" kind of thing. However, I'd argue that that's more nosiness than people ACTUALLY caring about what you do. Now, of course, I don't know your situation, and I could be completely wrong, so do correct me if I am.
But at least in my own experience, some people might care to the degree that they're nosy and/or gossiping about what I'm up to, but I highly doubt that they REALLY give a shit at the end of the day.
But hey, who knows?
This is true, when people find out about my channel or my tik tok they usually say it’s cool or cute, I haven’t received any negative comments.
Truly insightful commentary to make; other people have different things going on in their life. Wow.
“Goo goo gah gah I’m so intellectually superior but still feel the need to drop rage bait comments” says the already-enlightened dork
We must adapt, We must adapt and rise to a level worthy of living in strength and not just breathing. Everybody breathes but not everybody lives
@@joshuarichards9365 preach brother
thanks for the wise words Mr. Irishman
I gotchu brah
What laptop to edit 4k videos?
I use my iPhone 14 Pro for all recording and editing :) CapCut is the editing software I use too
Why do we think they care about us in the first place? Is it something in how we're brought up? Or because when we're kids adults have to care and we get used to having people take notice and care until we turn 20 and then everyone starts not caring. I do think people care, it's just that they're not that invested. They might think about you every once in a while. I think it's kinda freeing
@@Harry-fk5of I agree, it’s very freeing. I think you’ve hit the nail on the head with us being kids and being dependent on adults. It’s a beautiful thing to realise you’re good on your own, and in my experience, then realising you’re even better with others, when they’re the right people.
I have a hard time finding what I would like to do trying to come up with ideas with 500 distractions I tell myself nobody cares as a motivation daily
I know the feeling, Julie. Two suggestions: firstly, eliminate as many distractions as possible. My biggest distraction is social media, so I simply just don’t have the apps on my phone. Not easy, but necessary, at least for me. Second, read the book ‘Mastery’ by Robert Greene. Absolutely life changing for me, for the better. My favourite book of all time. Wishing you all the best!
I been know since I was born I already know nobody cares about me thanks for sharing
The people I love the most, the ones not in my life.
Blessings.
Bro last time i broke my ankle , and this girl i was talking too didn't give a fuck , she block me
I realize yeah some people don't give an fuck they have there own problems and its fine its part of life.
@@Kifworldd damn bro, it’s tough out here. Glad to hear you moved on
I will be watching dis video in a few hours.
What you say is 100% true! Listen up … learn this early and your life will be great…I learned this way too late! X
@@melodyw1917 thank you Melody :)
The world pop is massively less than 100 million meaning the niche community of Ireland is even more niche than the propaganda has u thinking
Most dont care about anyone. Who cares😊 dont care carry on 😊
Keep pushin 🗣️
Keep going son🎉❤
I just subscribed to channel bro.
That’s sick bro, welcome.
Hello. When I began my journey here I didn't think about views at all. I just filmed a few videos, and kept doing other things. I filmed myself creating art work, or drawing them. Everything I've created has been for the enjoyment of just creating.
That’s cool Norma, thanks for sharing! What’s your favourite thing you’ve created to date?
Blessing from india❤
Appreciate it brother, many blessings in return 🙏
Yeah that's the problem people don't care sad
What's up Ireland good stuff keep this going this 1 percent thinking
Everyone has way too much going on in their own lives to rip on you for being on UA-cam, and anyone who does have time to do that isn’t worth very much to anyone tbh
Yup, basically.
It will be nice to see if you can show landscapes, local restaurants in the wall to go eat, the good and bad about people that live in Ireland, places to have fun in Ireland…just a thought…
You should check out my Instagram reels! I have 52 reels showing 52 different locations around Ireland 🇮🇪
@@TadhgMiddleton will do…great…thank you.
UA-cam videos are good for poopy time. Keeps me occupied. Ur not weird bro.
Thanks dude, hope you enjoy.
well that isint surprise let it be just focus on yourself forget others
I m 44yo male from Poland. I would be proud of rised kids by me. I would like to have them in near future and meybe I would like to buy or build house on south of Europe - Italy, Portufal , Spain.I am also single nie and have no friends now in the city.
Very good sir, wishing you all the best. Hope you enjoyed the vids!
@@TadhgMiddleton Thank You, wish You the best too ! You are very clever guy :)
Bruh you just now figuring this out😂
Bruhhh he's telling his truth
Naw, blood. He just now made a video about it.
My mom doesn’t even care about me. No I’m serious.
"most ppl don't care about you"
Most ppl don't care for themselves, who gaf
just lift your phone and see how many people will call you without you calling them first? now you've it figured out, you're even more lucky if they are more than 3, thx.
Those people are the important ones. Hope you have a few like that. Peace
Why did you think they would care. Lol
I don't care that no one cares about me lol I do what I want and give no F***s lol
Based
I just want to share you that there is always love, hope, forgiveness of sins and eternal life in Jesus. If you come to Him with a sincere and humble repented heart, He can save you and forgive you and give you abundance of joy, love and peace and eternal life. Believe in Jesus: He is The Son of God, He died for our sins and He rose from the dead, Believe in Jesus.
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” -John 3:16
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Your video is 11:11 minutes long.
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Oh boo bloody hoo , NEXT
All those videos and so little subscribers