Jayda Wayda : Pretty Privilege Will Only Get You In The Bed & On Your Back!

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  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 3 дні тому +28

    Who is really telling these ppl they have pretty privilege? It’s extremely subjective 🤕 We are all ugly to someone.
    Focus on your character, salvation, and money.
    This is sad.

    • @taylagaddis6707
      @taylagaddis6707 2 дні тому +3

      Some of these women’s look are their money maker. Of course we all are ugly to someone but that doesn’t mean the beauty standard randomly doesn’t exist. Some people will be more attractive to a larger margin of people. These girls are those women

  • @twilson951
    @twilson951 7 днів тому +249

    As a woman who does not have the PP, I can say that a lot of women discount how desire truly works. We who remain invisible understand this.

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 7 днів тому +50

      And I bet you're one of f the Most Beautiful women around!! Don't discount yourself, you are beautiful too and also, Beauty starts on the Inside and Then follows out of the body. Have a great evening, Queen!! 😊😊💖💕💖💕✨️✨️✨️

    • @twilson951
      @twilson951 7 днів тому +37

      @@pambeforethestorm9784 I appreciate it, but again I know/knew since kindergarten, when your darker it kind of equates to being in the invisible army, and let’s not start with weight. What I’m saying- PP is very visible to the people who do not have it.

    • @Ummnowtfc
      @Ummnowtfc 7 днів тому +8

      @@twilson951 you know what the sad part is , your discounting the bullying and negative energy that’s given based off of something that cannot be controlled, - sincerely the tried to be invisible 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

    • @knowledgetree7134
      @knowledgetree7134 7 днів тому

      @@twilson951 invisible? 😂 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @twilson951
      @twilson951 7 днів тому +8

      @@Ummnowtfc I’m not. Never did. I said a lot of women discounts how it works. I did not negate any of the mistreatment.

  • @natashastcyr6903
    @natashastcyr6903 7 днів тому +69

    My looks got me in the door. My Mind kept me there! I wouldn’t have anything without JESUS!!!!!!! Praise The LORD!

  • @shakarihughes
    @shakarihughes 7 днів тому +49

    Being pretty gets u in the door personality signs the deal

    • @cosmiccrush22
      @cosmiccrush22 7 днів тому +4

      There's women that don't even get in the door, there's women who never even seen the doo😥

    • @Imanimaryam
      @Imanimaryam 6 днів тому +1

      @@cosmiccrush22if the door closes then it means there’s a better one waiting for you !

  • @eugenaarnold3965
    @eugenaarnold3965 7 днів тому +38

    I always tell me daughters don’t just be beautiful. Be beautiful with a brain

  • @LaFaRa-LoVe
    @LaFaRa-LoVe 7 днів тому +32

    It’s sad that pretty girls go through the worst, I think every woman is beautiful in their own way,especially black women 🙌🏽

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 7 днів тому +2

      How can you say they go thru the worst when you haven't even hear the pov of the other sides. I can guarantee those consider ugly would share worst stories than these. In fact none of these things they are talking abt touched my heart bc women whether we are average, or pretty go thru all of what they are saying. I didnt hear one thing that stood out to me... Please!!!

    • @llaylal5126
      @llaylal5126 4 дні тому

      @@ToniaAlex13 I’m saying like…. Gurl no they don’t go thru the worst ugly women get it worse in every way shape or form because they not beautiful men treat them like they are trash and highly expect them to just accept it because they not pretty enough ugly women can’t call themselves queens cause pretty women and men beat them down and tell them their looks aren’t worthy of that title like gtfo pretty women got it easy especially if you got brains

  • @awhailnawh
    @awhailnawh 4 дні тому +19

    i used to be ugly to society's standards, then i got in the gym, started doing my hair and nails, changed up my wardrobe and glo'd up. life is so so so different... in a social sense. in an academic, career, and alm any other sense... it's the same ;__;

  • @TyraHigh
    @TyraHigh 4 дні тому +25

    A lot of people are confusing beauty performance with pretty. Not the same. Lashes, good hair and lip gloss does not equal pretty.

  • @zooweemamabilly
    @zooweemamabilly 6 днів тому +31

    Im so tired of pretty women complaining about something they’ve been blessed with. Sure it has its negatives, but it has a HELL OF A LOT MORE POSITIVES!!!! Good for yall honestly.

  • @besthotchocolate
    @besthotchocolate 4 дні тому +21

    Aesthetic plays a HUGE part in pretty privilege. The thick, mixed-looking aesthetic may garner you privilege in blk spaces. However, brown/dark skin, leaner builds, unambiguous features garner you more privilege in larger society if you are a BW. Hence why the Jayda’s don’t get the same result as the Quenlin Blackwell’s or Anok Yai’s for their good looks.

    • @Icewater789
      @Icewater789 3 дні тому +1

      Facts ❗️beauty has different standards.

  • @lyfeasmemecsit6203
    @lyfeasmemecsit6203 7 днів тому +24

    I was an "ugly duckling" That grew into a pretty woman. Over and over there has been conflict, within my workplace, relationships, friendships ECT all because of the Misconception that I don't have to try or work hard like the average person. Sooo I just to get what I want?? because of my looks?? 😑 I WISH 😂. As I am older, wiser, self assured, I know how to combat these obstacles., to every woman , you are beautiful but to my Pretty girls/women DO NOT shy away from what God Has Given You.
    Believe in yourself REGARDLESS of others perceptions of you.
    Use what you have to kick down The doors, once in, prove just how intelligent, and strategic you truly are. ❤

    • @Tearra092
      @Tearra092 7 днів тому +1

      This resonates with me. I believed i was unattractive the majority of my life, but because people perceived me as pretty, they often projected their insecurites and misconceptions on me. I never understood why, then I learned about the pretty privilege concept.

  • @californiumcoati
    @californiumcoati 7 днів тому +34

    Ladies, I say this with all the love I have inside of my heart: Please stop getting chest tattoos, especially big ones. I’m begging. It is never, ever a good look. Ever. They draw the attention down and away from your beautiful face. Your cleavage will NEVER look better with drawings on it. I promise.

    • @sherricaroberts783
      @sherricaroberts783 7 днів тому +16

      It looks ghetto and dirty to me. It makes women look masculine and takes away the beauty

    • @anniebandana
      @anniebandana 7 днів тому +2

      To you.
      Some people like it, but thanks for letting all of us know that you don't. It's OK.

    • @jaymeeka7998
      @jaymeeka7998 7 днів тому +4

      Right, just looks dirty

    • @d.asiatp
      @d.asiatp 7 днів тому +1

      or them face tats!

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +1

      I agree and I have one 😂🗣️ . Got it at 16 . Can’t take it back now .

  • @kendradrayden8814
    @kendradrayden8814 6 днів тому +31

    Some pretty girls get stalked by crazy obsessed ppl as well and that can be scary.

    • @briserenity
      @briserenity 6 днів тому +2

      Yes I was thinking that. Getting hurt and k!ll3d smh it’s sad.

  • @zamiaski
    @zamiaski 7 днів тому +39

    Pretty Privilege isn’t a thing unless the other person is getting something in return and it’s DEFINITELY A SHORT TERM TYPE OF THING, NEVER LONG TERM!!

  • @Ummnowtfc
    @Ummnowtfc 7 днів тому +29

    Only people that’s insecure speak on pretty privilege 😂

    • @pambeforethestorm9784
      @pambeforethestorm9784 7 днів тому +3

      Boom 💥 and there it is!! Facts 💯💯✨️✨️✨️

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 7 днів тому

      I'm starting to think it's definitely not a real thing bc I'm not pp and experience similar things so to me these are just things women go thru.

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому

      @@ToniaAlex13 I think “pp” is more so your spirit and not so your appearance. Because if you have a pretty soul, you’ll pretty much attract everything dark under the sun.

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 7 днів тому +1

      @@angel1883 no, pp in this context that is talked about on social media refers to your facial features mainly.

  • @kittydollsxo189
    @kittydollsxo189 6 днів тому +22

    I hated being pretty growing up I felt that it was the reason I was being targeted by predators so I became a tomboy , no make up, cover up head to toe and it didn't work. it gave me aniexty that I became a loner and seem to keep me out of drama and depression, I really just be in my own world.

    • @imParisthoee
      @imParisthoee 3 дні тому +3

      That makes me so sad. You deserve to enjoy your beauty and femininity without fear or shame

  • @mjchooseygurl
    @mjchooseygurl 7 днів тому +21

    She wasn’t lying. As a person who has been considered pretty, it really means nothing if you have the personality of a brick wall, the education of a middle school child, and nothing else going for yourself. Also you cannot lead every situation in how you look because there are people who are going to be in that same room, interviewing for that same position, auditioning for that same opportunity just as pretty or prettier than you. I also have to be honest and say LOOKS ARENT EVERYTHING. A lot of people aren’t concerned with how you look but they are concerned with how you can benefit them or their situation. You can live in Atlanta and be a 10 but go down to Miami and be a low 5 too. So in terms of being pretty and benefiting from it, the act is simply situational and has a lot to do with how you are capitalizing off opportunities and people you meet. A man/woman who isn’t as pretty as you on the outside CAN be just as beautiful in different ways and can use those to their advantage too.

  • @tahirahcurry1675
    @tahirahcurry1675 2 дні тому +19

    All the conversations around pretty privilege are centered around men. Everyone already knows that being pretty doesnt protect you from misogyny. However, there are plenty of studies showing that attractive men and women receive more career opportunities, more grace, and more success. They are also more likely to be seen as intelligent, kind, and capable than other people. This doesn't mean that their lives are perfect, but it does mean that they benefit from some form of privilege.

    • @Miraebee
      @Miraebee День тому +2

      Not really girls will also be kind to you cause they kinda envy you

    • @HunnifredBee
      @HunnifredBee День тому

      This the comment 🫂

    • @tahirahcurry1675
      @tahirahcurry1675 День тому +2

      @Miraebee It's not about gender. Data shows that men and women are nicer to more attractive people. I never said that people aren't jealous of attractive people. At the end of the day, they are treated better than average and below average looking people.

  • @m.d.5050
    @m.d.5050 7 днів тому +25

    A lot of people are mean to you because they don't want you to know you're pretty they will try to pick at any little thing about you, also you get used and abused a lot, people only want to be around to use you for your privilege and people will intentionally try to hurt you, men and women.

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому

      And the sad thing is it usually only happens to us black women thoe why with mixed or none black women social media glorifies them goes out there way to let them know there beautiful I mean sis can be sitter there looking like a whole naked mole rat but as long as she’s not dark she’s beautiful gtfoh

  • @MoNeeTah_Simone
    @MoNeeTah_Simone 7 днів тому +21

    We are all beautiful in our own way❤❤

  • @nyatigre5670
    @nyatigre5670 7 днів тому +19

    The lady in the pink is absolutely right !! People are mean to you intentionally. Sometimes you don’t even realize you are pretty - b/c of it

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому

      @@nyatigre5670 👏👏

  • @AllIWantIsTati
    @AllIWantIsTati 7 днів тому +20

    You dont have to be the prettiest to go through what the girl in the pink said. You can just be successful and on your shit. Men and friends will do the same thing to a woman who is confident

    • @slimebeast5499
      @slimebeast5499 7 днів тому +5

      I so relate to all them but yes when you confident you get hate

  • @kayyc
    @kayyc 5 днів тому +25

    I’m so tired of the same messages being recycled, as if they teaching something new🙄 everybody knows you gotta have SUBSTANCE to sustain in this world & not just be an attractive airhead.

  • @GoddesssofMind
    @GoddesssofMind 7 днів тому +21

    PP is a myth beauty is in the eye of the beholder. ❤ pretty taught me ugly lessons..

  • @anandajjane
    @anandajjane 7 днів тому +20

    i wasn’t “pretty” until junior going into senior year and i saw such a major difference it’s crazy. men act different and women get jealous i’m not even on no cocky ish but it’s true. the family member jealously is true as well. now i have a petite shape (i used to have big boobs wit no ssa) so now i get more stares and more looks from women looking disgusted because i’m in good shape. like why do women see another woman in good shape and immediately hate like it’s crazy it makes me feel ashamed sometimes like damn

    • @parislife04
      @parislife04 7 днів тому +2

      Girl same I was ugly in middle schooo I had a gap and everything 😭😭😭😭 and now I don’t know how I had a glow up I was so insecure until people literally started not liking me because I would try to look nice because I had a big glow up fr 😭😭

  • @chelseashamim9148
    @chelseashamim9148 5 днів тому +14

    *Pretty privilege* is better than *ugly disadvantage*
    I've had plastic surgery to go from a 2 to an 8

  • @andreannelea7664
    @andreannelea7664 7 днів тому +16

    I think pretty privilege is good in certain environments. But really when you are “pretty” a lot of women hate on you low key. It’s hard to make friends and a lot of people just hate you for no reason. The truth.

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +5

      @@andreannelea7664 and people just assume your a hoe . Or sometimes they make it their mission to actually destroy your life. Men try to lower your confidence, and women . Omg just keep them away from me I’m so traumatized.

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому

      True but I think it’s worst for the genuine innocent pretty girls who becomes everybodys emotional punching bag now those scumbag pretty girls who treat everybody like trash robbing men setting up people fighting picking on other girls deserve the hate they get.

  • @llaylal5126
    @llaylal5126 7 днів тому +23

    It’s giving woow yall go thru the same thing everybody go thru but because ur pretty u think it shouldn’t happen to you 😑 imagine this with no privilege. That’s every woman’s struggle. Only Jada said the truth the other girls said a bunch of nothing. Omg men like me it’s soooooooo hardddddddd 😑😑😑

  • @justinebailey5333
    @justinebailey5333 7 днів тому +25

    But thegirl in the pink looks like a lot of other women. She just has eye lashes , make up and hair. A lot of these women be looking normal they just know how to dress up.

  • @Kaos_Magazine
    @Kaos_Magazine 7 днів тому +17

    The worst part is I can't work a 9-5 because of the women trying to get me fired and the hire-ups wont fire me so I had to always quit.. But the good thing is I don't have to pay bills 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +9

      @@Kaos_Magazine every job I go to ! It’s an envious woman trying to sabotage me . Sometimes it’s coworkers , and shit sometimes it’s the same woman who hired me 😂🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ .

    • @jillanejames4590
      @jillanejames4590 7 днів тому

      Me too

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому

      @@angel1883I think it’s kinda effed up thoe especially if u one of those down to earth hotties fun to be around smart nice personality I don’t see y anybody would want to hate

  • @ThatGirlMoi
    @ThatGirlMoi 7 днів тому +10

    “That’s why it’s so important to be intentional, have discernment, and *KNOW* what’s for you, bc, you will keep getting played”
    2:40

  • @lelegeo7204
    @lelegeo7204 7 днів тому +22

    Pretty girl do get treated bad

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +8

      As a woman who people say have pretty privilege.. it’s not as easy as people think it is. Most the time people just use you. Or other women just choose to dislike you without even getting to know who you are. Jealousy became so predominant in my life, that I don’t have any real friends . And because woman thought I get pp, every chance they got to reveal something that’s not so pretty about me they ran with it just to lower my confidence. It’s so annoying cause ima girls girl . I think everyone is beautiful besides people with ugly spirits.

  • @Adoseof_Ri
    @Adoseof_Ri 2 дні тому +11

    Girl In the pink wasn’t telling any kind of liess lol … get closer to God , grow in discernment to know who is for you for you , and keep ya business to yourself is what I learned ❤

  • @natashastcyr6903
    @natashastcyr6903 7 днів тому +12

    Sometimes pretty privilege can get you all the fun little perks, but then there are sides where because you’re attractive people make it harder for you out of jealousy envy insecurity who knows that’s not talked about enough because people don’t want to seem egotistical but it’s a reality The privilege I need and want is from the Holy Spirit

  • @iamlorrainev8614
    @iamlorrainev8614 7 днів тому +18

    “We go through it the worst” is actually crazy to say 😭🫠

    • @eugenaarnold3965
      @eugenaarnold3965 7 днів тому +2

      Naw I actually believe her

    • @GoddesssofMind
      @GoddesssofMind 7 днів тому +1

      It’s true tho

    • @Daph-hp6ux
      @Daph-hp6ux 7 днів тому +2

      @@eugenaarnold3965you really think “pretty “ people go through it worse than “ugly “.(don’t get me wrong,they all have there ups and downs)….but you can’t tell me pretty isn’t easier than ugly .

  • @tf8187
    @tf8187 7 днів тому +17

    Pretty girls do go through it the worst.

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +2

      And Don’t be pretty , with a pretty heart 😩 . Your fucked .

    • @Imanimaryam
      @Imanimaryam 6 днів тому

      💯

  • @Lisalisells
    @Lisalisells 7 днів тому +28

    The girl at 5:07 is totally right if you get with a hateful insecure man he will try to bring you down real bad. That’s what this guy did that I dated he tried to destroy my confidence

    • @sarab3417
      @sarab3417 7 днів тому

      I agree that can happen but it also depends on the quality of a man.

    • @GoddesssofMind
      @GoddesssofMind 7 днів тому +2

      Sorry that happened to you

  • @ChocolateGumDrop89
    @ChocolateGumDrop89 7 днів тому +12

    Jayda is growing up y’all she’s wealthy asf she knows what’s up

  • @yolowllandmifamilia2371
    @yolowllandmifamilia2371 День тому +8

    This pretty topic is weird. Everywhere I go ppl stare or stop me It’s not the outside it’s within. No matter what hand you’re dealt you’ve got to learn to play the hand like it’s a winning hand. PERIODT 😻

  • @pambeforethestorm9784
    @pambeforethestorm9784 7 днів тому +17

    Some things they say are true, some are not, but FILTERS can make Everyone a degree of pretty. It's best to work on your INNER beauty, which then makes your NATURAL beauty Shine thru!! 💖💕✨️✨️✨️✨️

  • @AlracXxAttack
    @AlracXxAttack 7 днів тому +20

    I don’t mean to be negative I just wanna be real…. Some women who claim they have pretty privilege aren’t really that pretty they can inherent ugly personalities and with that it makes them ugly … and that can reflect on the response that they are given to make them feel like ppl treat them bad … just sayin.

    • @Mai-in1we
      @Mai-in1we 7 днів тому +6

      Thank you cuz I’m sitting here watching this like, ummmm, that’s literally not pretty privilege lol that just means that you thought sleeping around was gonna get you somewhere simply because you of how you look. You gotta be both pretty and smart 🙃

    • @Queenlibra22
      @Queenlibra22 6 днів тому +3

      This comment needs to be mf pinned💯

  • @mahoganeexv
    @mahoganeexv День тому +3

    pink shirt & black shirt hit the nail on the head! im pretty & tall, i get stared at everytime i leave my house & it gives me anxiety, like at least stare and say HELLO OR SOMETHING. i have no real friends i can hang out with or confide in. most women i come across are envious & most men are creeps. i have an older cousin who can’t hide her jealousy. it’s sickening. i learned to just enjoy solitude & be pretty in peace.

  • @snatched.4513
    @snatched.4513 7 днів тому +21

    Some of these “pretty” girls on this video have an inflated view of self cause I’m not seeing it lol

    • @kennediii9392
      @kennediii9392 7 днів тому +10

      if you’ve never experienced it YOU wouldn’t understand. but do not downplay the next woman’s experiences because u feel
      like it’s not true. she wouldn’t just be lying and having multiple other women b vocal abt the same experiences as her for no reason. it’s real and this world is evil. WAKE UP

    • @ToniaAlex13
      @ToniaAlex13 7 днів тому +5

      You want to know what's real, I consider myself to be average and nothing that they complained abt is unique to me. So is it pretty privilege or just what women generally goes thru all over the world. Someone make it make sense lol

  • @ivythegreat4943
    @ivythegreat4943 7 днів тому +10

    OK, so here’s a thing having pretty privilege is a thing and I do have it however here’s the trick. My grandmother told me at a very young age. She said you’re gonna be a beautiful girl when you’re older be more than your looks don’t rely on just being pretty that’s why you invest in your education, your morals, the way you treat people and a lot of these girls don’t do that because they feel as if they’re gonna be gorgeous fiber which may happen but I do believe a lot of that goes away once that you start to treat people

  • @nowexistparty
    @nowexistparty 7 днів тому +21

    men try to break pretty women down eve if they have to beat you

  • @msgemini5484
    @msgemini5484 7 днів тому +6

    Each one of them has a valid point

  • @royaldainties7
    @royaldainties7 7 днів тому +13

    From my experiences, everything each one of these girls said is true.

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +4

      @@royaldainties7 they left out how nobody cares when you go through life devastating experiences, just because, “ hey you’re pretty” . Everything I went through in life , people actually told me that’s what I get. And just had no heart , at all . Because hey “ you’re pretty “.

    • @slimebeast5499
      @slimebeast5499 7 днів тому

      I all they experiences and men will only like you for looks but not be in love as I get old met different men I learn men value other men opinions so they will be with a woman they don’t like just for looks

  • @fluffy3950
    @fluffy3950 7 днів тому +12

    People don't understand the difference between pretty privilege and cute privilege. It's how you carry a conversation. Pretty privilege comes without speaking.. cute privilege is with speaking.. ga ahead!
    Ooohwee, let me clear this up too! If you're getting anything done.. you are not in the pretty privilege lane...unfortunately you got other issues; people pleasing

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому

      @@fluffy3950 I guess I get “ cute privilege “ . Whatever privilege this is . Shit sucks .

  • @alexhoward1516
    @alexhoward1516 7 днів тому +20

    Pretty privilege is real look at ice spice. 👀👀

    • @zaire-aniyarobinson2928
      @zaire-aniyarobinson2928 7 днів тому +2

      It helped her get her foot in the door but ice spice is struggling with her career because she has nun to offer other than bending it over. Her brand is to sell sex to her audience.

    • @TeaSipperEsq.
      @TeaSipperEsq. 7 днів тому

      I love a comment that said pp gives you more CHANCES which is so true. It's the brain and character that determines how far u get with that chance and ice did not have any. I doubt she would still be big in 2 years

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 6 днів тому +5

      No that’s called lyteskin privilege because facially she doesn’t have “IT”

  • @noglitznoglamour7386
    @noglitznoglamour7386 6 днів тому +16

    Before I ever saw this I thought to myself Jada Cheves doesn’t give pretty without the $$$$$$$. Not to say she’s not pretty she just not pretty privilege pretty imo

    • @dehjhunaeday5743
      @dehjhunaeday5743 6 днів тому +4

      I get what you saying I agree

    • @libraxoxo3
      @libraxoxo3 5 днів тому +1

      Same thing I wad thinking tbh

    • @LoverStar1111
      @LoverStar1111 4 дні тому

      She’s bleaching her skin too!

    • @taylagaddis6707
      @taylagaddis6707 2 дні тому +1

      But jayda was famous for her looks since a child BEFORE she was a influencer Lmao

  • @theperfectescape5785
    @theperfectescape5785 5 днів тому +18

    These conversations are so annoying 🙄

    • @zainafyl
      @zainafyl 3 дні тому

      Just because you don’t benefit from it doesn’t mean u should be that angry black woman… take some notes 📝

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 3 дні тому +3

      @@zainafylNo one is angry 😂
      Some of us pretty girl have real substance and realize these looks can be taken in an instance. Hence, why these conversations are moot.
      We are focused on our character, money, and salvation- just to name a few. You need to take some grown woman notes.
      Your comment screams grown girl.

    • @theperfectescape5785
      @theperfectescape5785 2 дні тому

      @@zainafyl WTF im gorgeous what does looks have to do w constantly focusing on that tho! I benefit sooo much from my looks actually but I’m very aware and not shallow

  • @libraxoxo3
    @libraxoxo3 5 днів тому +16

    No shade but the girl in pink not pretty. She look average to me. But that's my opinion 😅.

  • @d.asiatp
    @d.asiatp 7 днів тому +7

    I'm happy people are slowly letting go of celeb culture and seeing how toxic and self-hateful it can be.

  • @ForTheDivine_2000
    @ForTheDivine_2000 5 днів тому +9

    Pretty gyal, no friends no man 😂

  • @onlyh8720
    @onlyh8720 7 днів тому +11

    Jayda saying that bc she knows getting with Baby helped her a lot. Of course being pretty isn’t enough. 🙄 it’s a big help being pretty, and that is not debatable.

    • @thebarbieinvestor5428
      @thebarbieinvestor5428 3 дні тому

      Jayda looks completely different than she used to. She used to look like her sister and was teeny tiny. This topic is tiring.

  • @sarab3417
    @sarab3417 7 днів тому +11

    The girl in pink with the bad lashes and GIANT CHEST TATTOO just may not be putting herself in the most desirable situations. Hate to say it lol

  • @cautrey8925
    @cautrey8925 6 днів тому +15

    Pretty privilege only has limits when you allow it to. Some have it easier than others but ultimately if you want it to benefit you outside of dating then be proactive, have situational awareness and be a bull in business if thats the avenue you want to take. But to say you’ll only get male attention from it isnt true.
    However i also see how the lack of pretty privilege can propel a person as well bcuz they can sort of fly under the radar and run laps around the girlies who only use their privilege to get attention and not use it to work towards achievements. Lot to chew on, but i digress

    • @keishabe3045
      @keishabe3045 6 днів тому

      I agree with you point. But if I may add I think she was keeping it simple for her audience a lot of social media influencers ( just using that as an example) may feel like just because they are beautiful that a man will support them. However I agree with you and it's many layers to it. In fact she has made the best of her pretty privilege by branding herself. So that part makes me chuckle a bit😂

    • @cautrey8925
      @cautrey8925 6 днів тому +1

      @@keishabe3045 youre not wrong at all! Its annoying sometimes how ppl have to dumb down their commentary to be more digestible but those of us who know, know lol

  • @Camillyahreal
    @Camillyahreal 5 днів тому +15

    So y’all don’t think y’all pretty???? this is very sad that 188 of y’all like this comment, you can’t tell me I’m not pretty!!!! Beauty is in the eye of thy beholder. Y’all are telling on y’all self-esteem! And I don’t like this for the 188 of y’all 😔😮‍💨wtf🫨

    • @taylagaddis6707
      @taylagaddis6707 2 дні тому +2

      I’m ngl I think all of the women in the video were actually pretty at least to me a lot of these women seem a little bitter and envious ngl because we can’t even see most of them but theyre acting like they’d look like Naomi 💀

    • @Camillyahreal
      @Camillyahreal 2 дні тому

      @@taylagaddis6707 and you know what ????? We only see Naomi with makeup 💄 we don’t know how she really looks.

  • @Dannielle-kl7vn
    @Dannielle-kl7vn 7 днів тому +9

    Lol she has this mindset but still got used at least she's smarter than her sister 😂

    • @Jelly4rm904
      @Jelly4rm904 7 днів тому +11

      She has this mindset because she experienced it firsthand. One thing life will do is teach you, treat you and humble you! I much rather take advice from someone with experience than someone without.

    • @Whyyoucryinggg
      @Whyyoucryinggg 7 днів тому +3

      I mean.. we gotta fuck up to learn.

  • @NarinDeliah
    @NarinDeliah 7 днів тому +11

    Idk how to explain properly but I feel like one thing pretty privilege does is at least give you a chance to try something (friendships, romance, a career and so on) even if it didn’t last long for whatever reason, you were still given a chance and could work from there. It opens the door for you and then it’s up to you to go further. Opposite to when you’re ugly. People won’t even look at you twice and you arguably have to work twice as hard to get acknowledged etc. just look at the music industry. I will say that having pretty privilege won’t always be that beneficial (Madison beer for example. She’s mostly just known for her pretty face and that’s that. Her music is actually good but bc she’s only really known for her looks, her music gets overlooked or ppl don’t even know she makes music at all and no matter how hard she tries, she’ll always be known for that thing cause her image was basically built on that) but it’s still preferable than being ugly for most people. At least that’s my opinion

  • @dimplez8330
    @dimplez8330 6 днів тому +4

    True about men trying to break me down. Hang out with more boys than girls because of Jealousy. It has its perks too.

  • @LifeisaBeautifulting
    @LifeisaBeautifulting 2 дні тому +13

    I think most people overestimate their looks 🤷🏾‍♀️ when I think of pretty privilege, I think of women that are clearly conventionally attractive and not regular pretty, bc there's a difference. If you can't get popular off of your looks alone you aren't that pretty. A great test to tell if you're truly attractive is if you can attract all races and both genders

    • @taylagaddis6707
      @taylagaddis6707 2 дні тому +1

      This 100% if you have to ask if other races of people “like you” you’re automatically disqualified 💀

    • @BrianaMcElroy-bn3cs
      @BrianaMcElroy-bn3cs День тому

      @@taylagaddis6707damn

  • @Roachnae
    @Roachnae 6 днів тому +9

    Also what light skinned at 5:14 said about jealous men it’s not exactly that they jealous it’s the stray bullet affect most mean have been completely dogged by they choice of women to the point they think all beautiful women the same all men ain’t the same all women ain’t the same

  • @KayLove22
    @KayLove22 7 днів тому +4

    I feel so good knowing I’m not alone with going thru this! girl in black with fro went in too lol

  • @zeetaroberts6692
    @zeetaroberts6692 4 дні тому +7

    Society give to much time to the bs fr, 🙄

  • @icalotdonthide2646
    @icalotdonthide2646 8 годин тому +2

    Pretty privilege is absolute BULL shit because its SUBJECTIVE. Every person has their own idea of what pretty is, you can think someone is a 10 and someone see them as a 4. But the spiteful behavior people have towards 'pretty' people is fking ridiculous. How your treat people says more about YOU then them.

  • @brib6046
    @brib6046 7 днів тому +8

    Is that how Jayda sounds normally??? I don’t think I’ve ever heard her voice before

    • @sarab3417
      @sarab3417 7 днів тому

      I don’t think so… I think it was a voice filter? lol

    • @VenishaSmith777
      @VenishaSmith777 7 днів тому +3

      No it’s a voice filter lol

  • @Isrealbeauty
    @Isrealbeauty 7 днів тому +5

    Girl in the pink speaking facts

  • @MichelleWilliams-ob1go
    @MichelleWilliams-ob1go 7 днів тому +9

    Good night

  • @DMoses76ix7
    @DMoses76ix7 7 днів тому +17

    Pretty face and bad character

  • @ericapetty2318
    @ericapetty2318 7 днів тому +4

    Only people who say it isn't long lasting are people who don't got it but there is a lots negatives

  • @Miraebee
    @Miraebee День тому +3

    All things comes with a good and bad side, it depend on the place and you you will be confronted to there but let's be honest there are a lot of advantages when you take care of your apparence without doing too much (fillers bbl long lashes too much tattoos.....)

  • @dawtalk.xtaycassomadethat
    @dawtalk.xtaycassomadethat 7 днів тому +7

    that jayda girls lifestyle is hypocritical. i can’t even listen to her.

  • @tempestafields
    @tempestafields 7 днів тому +4

    This made me like her a bit more❤ good job Jayda 😊

    • @LuluWilliams-h7n
      @LuluWilliams-h7n 7 днів тому +2

      Too bad she realized this after she became a bm and washed up

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 6 днів тому +4

    Jayda, and the girl in the pink are right. Even when you aren't invited to functions and you show up usually by yourself u will looked at like they don't suppose to be there

  • @tf8187
    @tf8187 7 днів тому +16

    Girl in the pink told no lies

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 7 днів тому +2

      @@tf8187 not one 🗣️ , and she still left out some things . She forget to say when you go through things in life , real devastating things that would make any human being sad and lose they shit. NOBODY CARES . If anything they feel like that’s what we get .

    • @tf8187
      @tf8187 7 днів тому +1

      @@angel1883 TRUE!!! This one especially damn.

    • @angel1883
      @angel1883 6 днів тому

      @@tf8187 people try to humble you,your whole life for no reason.

    • @tf8187
      @tf8187 6 днів тому

      @@angel1883 all the time. It’s all people have ever tried to do family, friends and lovers. It’s actually sad.

  • @queennubianuniverse
    @queennubianuniverse 7 днів тому +6

    We ALL have our cross to bear

  • @lashayrobinson4397
    @lashayrobinson4397 7 днів тому +9

    Ughhh the comments take away from the video everybody so busy saying who cute and who ugly instead of actually diving in talking smh 🤦‍♀️ some of y’all saying the girls ugly ain’t cute yourselves couldn’t even get in the same rooms as some of the ladies .. ion even wanna watch it

  • @DarriaWalker
    @DarriaWalker 7 днів тому +8

    If Jayda was not lil baby baby mother yall wouldn’t have said anything to her because she’s not cute at all

    • @leagalore
      @leagalore 7 днів тому +1

      be fr she look better than u tf

    • @DarriaWalker
      @DarriaWalker 7 днів тому +1

      @@leagalore bitch you don’t know me so you can kiss my ass fr tf bitch !!!!!

    • @LouisianasSweetheart
      @LouisianasSweetheart 7 днів тому +2

      Aww.... she's gorgeous to me. She seems a little nasty (attitude wise), but she's very pretty imo.

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому

      Jayda is fyeeee and her skin is gorgeous

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому

      We do not care about baby at all(we do) but not in the way u tryna say it to

  • @andreataylor4503
    @andreataylor4503 13 годин тому +1

    The in the pink preach 🙌🏽 girl i thought it was just me im quiet stay to myself respectful and what do i get ppl trying to treat me like shit constantly being bullied all my life throughout child hood and adulthood guys trying to hurt me because i dont want to talk to them girls that i dont know trying to fight me by lying and starting trouble remind you i live in the hood so i guess that another reason why its probably like this I've developed social anxiety because of this i always had depression but because of the trauma i endured i now have major depression disorder because of what because they have internal issues that have nothing to do with me don't even let me start with they think im stuck up because i choose to mind my business even though im polite and kind that never matters ppl still try to find ways to pick and pull me apart i had to therapy and still am because i was extremely depressed lost a ton of weight all because ppl just wont leave me TF alone even on my job my 2nd week at ups warehouse my male supervisor would instruct me to show me the ropes but he would always start off by saying literally i swear for no reason he would say to me are here to look pretty or are you here to work im like WTF i do my job mind my business and go home what is the problem I'm like there Ninja go with this bullshit again girl on the job female supervisor same job i never talked to her i didn't have a problem with her until i had to work in her area what does she do gossip about me to everyone like i actually talk to her or know like i know her try to get everyone to dislike me especially men im like i just catch a break can i bitch even try to play with my money the female coworkers i had to work with did the same thing i remember i try to help her pick up her bags in the warehouse she looked me up n down like i cursed her out i was trying to be nice im like really a person can not be that insane never had a true female friend without them trying to fuck my boyfriend or trying to copy/compete so i gave up trying to make female friends men everything is cool until they hit me with the i like you more than a friend and when i Don't like them like that they don't rrally want to talk to me either or there being shady just like other women im learning to spiritually accept this is the way it is for me im going to make peace with it and learn to be happy regardless but it tough but the bullying is the hardest to deal with ive learned to protect myself spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically i just pray that god protect me from those evil beings and send them away from me amen 🙏🏽

    • @reinadinerrro
      @reinadinerrro 8 годин тому

      Virtual hug baby because I endure the same phuck sh😢… 🫂 🫂🫂🫂🫂

  • @dixanna27
    @dixanna27 3 дні тому +5

    Pretty on the outside and ugly on the inside don’t match. People won’t see you past the surface instead of knowing what that heart do. Gif made me just how he made me, gotta dig a little deeper than beauty for anyone that’s not shallow. Sighs

  • @lifelikebutter
    @lifelikebutter 7 днів тому +6

    jayda you ight the body is just tea!

    • @slimebeast5499
      @slimebeast5499 7 днів тому +4

      lol you don’t have to look super bad to have pretty privilege lol

    • @lifelikebutter
      @lifelikebutter 7 днів тому +2

      @@slimebeast5499 yeah, but she was talking about the overly pretty face like Tati, India, Miracle Watts!

    • @HealingMariah
      @HealingMariah 7 днів тому +2

      That’s probably why she knows what she’s talking about she sees it from both angles… she’s pretty but not as in she can rely solely on looks compared to the girls who have and failed or are miserable

    • @Roachnae
      @Roachnae 6 днів тому +1

      @@slimebeast5499honestly all u really need is a cat these days frfr these men so desperate and thirsty

  • @itsslamyhiaa
    @itsslamyhiaa 7 днів тому +6

    thats so real doe

  • @AllIWantIsTati
    @AllIWantIsTati 7 днів тому +1

    she aint never lied

  • @blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77
    @blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77 7 днів тому +1

    It seems like we ALL go through the same thing rather "friends" or men. Sounds what I go through, and I walk around natural. I've learned that in school, and the rest during living life.

  • @Lmarie300
    @Lmarie300 7 днів тому +8

    You have to use your brain all the time, not with just pretty privalleges cause its hard out here too and you would definitely get fucked over twice as hard

  • @megalattie3824
    @megalattie3824 2 дні тому +5

    At 4:30 that Woman is overestimating her looks..Not to throw shade or anything, but she's not what I would call "Pretty"..I'm sorry.

  • @blackelvis
    @blackelvis 7 днів тому +6

    Pretty much. Don’t put all your eggs in that basket queens. Develop skills. That’s the long game.

  • @liahknowsbest5092
    @liahknowsbest5092 6 днів тому

    I can relate👏🏽thank you for this topic. Gave me clear understanding on how some people think within the box. 👏🏽

  • @Cuffem_likea_draco
    @Cuffem_likea_draco 6 днів тому +2

    Jayda, pink shirt and Afro nailed it🙌🏾🔥

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 6 днів тому +6

    Its true what the girl with the curly hair said we know eyes are on us so we try to look good stepping out. U kinda know all the women watching mad at u cause a guy is looking at u and u may not know he exists.

    • @mizkaponi4853
      @mizkaponi4853 6 днів тому +2

      Most but not all women. All women are not threatened nor jealous of other women....PERIOD. No matter what they look like or what they have.

    • @latashahumphrey769
      @latashahumphrey769 6 днів тому

      @@mizkaponi4853 I don't feel like all women are like that

    • @ria0991
      @ria0991 5 днів тому +2

      @@latashahumphrey769it would be an untrue statement if you said all women are like that though. It’s not possible that every woman you encounter are jealous or is jealous of any woman prettier than them.
      I’m actually about to create a channel for men. It is true what men say pretty will only get you played and on your back if you’re not careful sure you’ll get paid maybe but most women who are considered bad sh*** their money away men give them on material things and end up c with nothing in return
      I don’t count baby mamas paid or not paid as a win as that needs to be back shamed in our culture babies before marriage isn’t cool. I was this statistic and turned that around
      Honestly I really don’t care if a friend is prettier than me or not as it’s hard already to find anyone you can trust

    • @latashahumphrey769
      @latashahumphrey769 5 днів тому

      @@ria0991 Listen I don't feel like every woman is like that let's be clear I simply agreed with what the influencers voicing their opinion. You know something maybe I have encountered some of the same things. Just because being pretty can get you a lot things doesn't mean it's a life of not having to work or try to earn a degree or have your own money. And I have my own money , I have my own life, my own everything. I think we all beautiful in their own way.

    • @ria0991
      @ria0991 5 днів тому

      @@latashahumphrey769 I agree !

  • @KayLove22
    @KayLove22 7 днів тому +1

    Yes girl in pink went in told nothing but the truth!❤

  • @sagitterroist1287
    @sagitterroist1287 7 днів тому +17

    What's pretty?

    • @Bravetreee
      @Bravetreee 7 днів тому +4

      🎯🎯🎯💯

    • @onlyh8720
      @onlyh8720 7 днів тому +7

      Attractive enough to desired by the opposite sex more often than not. Pretty enough to be in magazines, tv shows, movies etc. they use pretty interchangeably with “hot”. There are many ppl that aren’t pretty, but have nice enough bodies and are dressed in a way to still receive the pretty privilege.

  • @krislabell
    @krislabell 7 днів тому +2

    I understand from both sides because I'm androgynus. A lot of people think that I'm one or the other but I have literally turned into something that I don't like, by going to certain stores with nightgowns and stuff and binance so people would leave you alone 😂😂but they still don't. I understand what they're saying about harassment, it is extremely ignoring but when I go to work I literally play on those features and it helps out😂 It's a lot more to my masculine wardrobe that has to do about my childhood but when I'm doing that it be the women that harass me😅 It definitely has its privileges but the harassing the stalking the uneasy feeling that you get. Not knowing if a person is going to take it a little too far. It's crazy

  • @brandana4857
    @brandana4857 7 днів тому +4

    This convo wild. Ofcourse you have to work lol

    • @branthlysauveur359
      @branthlysauveur359 21 годину тому

      right like…that made me lol..everyone has to work!

  • @CorneishaStory
    @CorneishaStory 7 днів тому +2

    The third girl told the truth pp ! Cause i go through it too

  • @girllbandz
    @girllbandz 3 дні тому

    The girl in the pink tank was right on the mark

  • @jillanejames4590
    @jillanejames4590 7 днів тому +4

    She would know, thats how she got started.

  • @latashahumphrey769
    @latashahumphrey769 7 днів тому +4

    People will dislike u for no reason trust I know , they feel like just cause u are who you are u r after something they have I'm here to keep it real Im speaking on a situation I'm dealing with I have friend who was dating a guy I'm talking long term now he knows me and her cool he got my number from someone that should not given my number but she did I told him he was wrong and I'm not going out with him, nothing I didn't think it was right he had offered me money to go buy things, fill my gas tank up anything I wanted I turned him down but I'm caught on weather I should tell her or not cause I just thought it was wrong

  • @thisqueenieisunique2896
    @thisqueenieisunique2896 7 днів тому +1

    Okayyyy celest from TikTok got that natural beauty perioddddd