Don't focus on the pain of how it feels in the moment rather think what's this pain teaching me... what's the lesson to be learnt. I learn lessons from my pains.
@allurelanajay This happened to me. Within 3 months of knowing him, I found out I was pregnant as a result of him forcing himself (rhymes with "grape"). Ladies have to be careful if a man is rushing things. He did what he did because he knew he was going to jail soon for something that happened before I even knew him. He wanted to baby trap. If you meet someone, please go to God about him before getting attached and spending too much time with him right away.
An advice from my 23 year old self...... The more you'll do for a man you'll get attached to him but he won't...... In the long run he ain't gonna respect you either..... If you want commitment from a man let him do the most..... He'll get attached......
Do things for a person who reciprocates duh! Men use women, women use men. Stop generalising it like all men are toxic or all women are blah blah. Be a better judge of persons.
"Listen, honey, your 20s are a time for growth and learning. Don’t let anyone dim your shine! The lessons you learn, even the hard ones, are what shape you into the fierce woman you’re meant to be. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, own your story, and never settle for less than you deserve. Keep pushing and keep thriving-you’ve got this!"
If you're living at home, once you're working create a savings account and put atleast half your paycheck in. I can not stress how important this is because that helps you save up for big life events, holidays and eventually helping you get a place to live
Focus on God Take care of your credit Say no to drugs Stay in the gym Don't get hung up on designer Buy a house Talk to yourself out loud as if you're talking to a therapist. It's therapy, I promise ❤
"That thing that you are craving so much... That means that your future self has it. " That means I am a geoscientist, bringing more awareness of learning disabilities and in a loving relationship?
“Nobody has life 100% figured out. No matter what it looks like, we’re all struggling with something so stop comparing yourself” that was very comforting and she’s younger than me. I needed to hear that being 27 ☺️
I just turned 23 yesterday. Crazy how time flies. I recently graduated college and now I’m focused on my mental health, inner peace, and being kinder to myself. It’s amazing how the perspective of life changes when you’re in a good headspace, something I wasn’t used to in college. I’m actively working on not getting so stressed on the little things. I think to myself, “will this matter in 5 years?”🤔🤔If not, then it’s probably not worth getting worked up over.
"Your body always knows before you do" is not superstition. Higher cortisol levels can worsen quality of sleep and skin and gut health. Of course many things at once can affect your hormonal levels, not just a single relationship/thing, but know to listen when something is quite literaly draining you out!
"The reason you're craving that one thing so vehemently is because your future self has it" UGHH the lines I NEEDED to hear. Thank you for letting me know I'm rich and I'm getting married to my fictional daddy 😩🤌🏻
Man, as a 28 yo, I WISH I had had an older female role model in my family to teach me all this when I was still a teen/ in my early 20s. You're dropping gems that I had to learn the hard way 🥲 Best of luck to all you early twenty-somethings 😘😘😘
I just turned 20 and I'm already working on myself peace. I had satan's workers come up to me but I rebuke.And so far my high school and childhood friends are slowly drifting apart. But my 20 moto is "If it does not benefit me I ain't stressing it".
For the young 20 year olds, the second girl doing her make up wearing back is talking shit most of the time. A lot of that advice is wrong and is filled with hate and will make you just lose people who may be good for you. ❤
yeah i clocked that too, and her rhetoric is super harmful towards disabled people as well? society is not built to acommodate me, why would i fuss to get a job and give myself unnecessary burnout? and how does that make me a bad friend lmfao
As usual with advice videos for women, rarely, if at all, managing her money to build financial security ISNT discussed. But time is given to dealing with males
For me personally money can be a problem, but it has never fucked me up. It has never ruined my life. It has never purposefully tortured me. It has never abused or assaulted me. Men have harmed me more than money or lack of it. And I grew up poor, so it's not coming from a place of privilege. I can handle poor. I will not have to handle another narcissist ever again, because I know better now.
I am a woman in my early 20s and grateful for all the advices. But damn, the second woman sounds like she’s in so much pain. I genuinely hope she finds peace and healing-whether through God or whatever gives her strength. To everyone that has the same anger or any form of pain, may you find healing. May we be the generation of women that breaks free from all that's wrong with the world as we embark on the journey of finding ourselves and our purpose.
The first girl had lots of good advice, the second....meh! Don't get me wrong here. There are people who are not for you and by all means, run away from them. But don't for a minute treat people like they are disposable, they are on their journey to also becoming their best versions and being graceful to them and yourself is important. Listen to your heart and let your mind decide. Make mistakes and fix them, you are allowed to mess up, no one came with a tutorial on how to live!
@@tamerapratt1383 shw wasn't resentful or selfish, I have two of the red flags she mentioned and I agree with her in staying away from people that are like me
@cabbage042 There's a way to convey that you can tell in how someone speaks about a situation, whether they're bitter or not. Her advice is valid, it's just how it's presented
Its better to invest in physical and mental health then consumerism through beauty products brands etc. I started gym and look better in even in bad clothes as comapred to my old self in expensive clothes.
The thing is I just turned 24 and I’m realizing I’m kinda wasting my early to almost mid 20’s already. Like I’m literally gonna be 25 next year and that’s gonna come by hella quick because these years are going by so fast. I don’t know what I’m doing with my life tbh. I have no money to travel and to just do the things I want to do for beauty maintenance or whatever. Any advice and tips would be greatly appreciated ❤
Don't listen to that second lady. My sister is happily married to her high school boyfriend and first love. I almost got married too to MY first love, a wonderful man❤
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now (I'm 22) and we knew each other from school; that being said, age does not define if someone is a good person or not. The second lady, with love, is making huge generalizations. My partner and I have been through hell wrt our families not accepting us, years of long distance, health conditions (I have a tumor); and we always showed up for each other. WE put in the work to be there for each other. He encourages me to BE more independent and do my own thing; I am very career oriented and so is he; because we know how to balance those aspects of our life, not because it came to us naturally but BECAUSE we learnt through practice. There surely are people who need to do that bit of growing on their own, but my lord is that take poor. (most people I know married their college/high school sweethearts. I feel like this could also come across to a few as "do not put in any effort into your relationship; just break up! They're meant to do it all perfectly from day 1" like come on, you yourself are someone's partner; uphold the expectations you have of your partner on your end too
super long comment; this triggered me a bit lmao. My family adores my bf but refuses to take our relationship seriously and I am so tired of hearing the whole "yeah sure, we'll see in a couple years if he's really family" I get being protective and not getting too attached because we're figuring out life rn, but my narcissistic parents are disrespectful to my boyfriend no matter how hard he tries to be there for them. I am so done eugh
I got this, "We alone", Even if you have a good family .We born alone and We die alone.If we sick we cannot share our pain with someone.One day there will be a day that we all have to leave the world.We cannot bring our lovelies or anything with us.I beleive this as so powerful ,think deeply.
I don’t agree with different friends for different needs. That will leave you and your friends unsatisfied with your bond in the long run. Any relationship based off of need is strained or disingenuous. It may be better to be friends with someone because you actually admire them as an individual and you see them as someone you can see yourself being friends with for a truly long time. That doesn’t mean you will be friends for a long time or that you have to, but having that in mind that you’re vetting your friendships based on longevity and actual friendship chemistry, you’ll be able to put more care and intention towards respecting yourself in respect to those you have a companionship with. It really is a butterfly effect though. It helps you respect yourself and your friends more than that kind of attitude often translates to other areas of your life. What is your relationship to self? To your family? Your work? Your passions? Your gut? Your sleep? Nature? Food? Animals? Your body? Is it healthy? Do you want it to be? How can we bridge that gap? I’m almost 24 in a month and I’ve been trying and successfully finding the answers that sit right with me over the course of my existence but it is a process and it definitely doesn’t come easy. I’ve lost so many friendships repeatedly in life that were admittedly almost always toxic. My only friend is my older sister and honestly, I love that because of the people I’m around right now… they’re lovely to associate with but we just don’t click like I feel I’d want when it comes to a genuine friendship and so I only consider them associates. It’s refreshing af
Second girl has it too intensely. Dont break up if a relationship is making you happy, omg! What she means is: dont do anything at 18 years old or age thinking it will last forever. Dont move in with someone, dont give up college for a relationship, dont get kids, dont get MARRIED!! Because *if*,not when, it doesnt work out, it easier to get back to normality. Its easier to break up with a highschool boyfriend when yall arent splitting bills.
A tip from a much brighter side…I literally dated a man with zero losses zero regret zero emptiness I never thought I could just exit so peacefully…!, honestly being so religious I’m grateful I have a map to follow…I treated him with respect yet respected myself even more….no private dates whatsoever no lending money…nothing physical not even daring to touch my hands before we’re in a marriage…boundaries sky high Now we’re done cause he didn’t commit but I lost nothing..he still respects me but i don’t honestly…do the bare minimum girls don’t be the one with the heavier investments ever…
Yeah I’m not in a relationship rn but the advice of breaking up with your boyfriend is wild. Obviously if it’s abusive, or there’s no love, or you aren’t on the same path it’s fine, but breaking up with them just to be alone is self sabotage
@@midnightgalaxy3793 Exactly, my bf treats me right. Also the move away from your family part. Everyone is different and has different motivations in life and family dynamics, I don’t see the point of isolating yourself from your family unless they treat you poorly. But I definitely agree with the sentiment of protecting your own peace
@@midnightgalaxy3793 it’s wrong to paint all men under 25 as only caring about you know what. I could never generalize a group of people like that, everyone is different no matter their sex, race, class, etc.
Imma need sis to get back on camera to tell me how broccoli and cauliflower is good for my boobs 😂. Put me on some game sis. What do my boobs need, tell me please!
I take all of these with a grain of salt because God knows my circumstances and such in and out and more. So the advices are good and i will write them out but the ones that make me seem "self-sufficient" is not my way as a Child of God in Christ Jesus. Love you pookies ❤😊
I'm 27 and this is good advice to women of all ages, you’ll be shocked how clueless some older women are But for me most of this info is general knowledge i figured in my teenage years.. some people need to hear this nonetheless
Girls i need your advice. I am a medical student and i have to find a side hustle that can make me legit money. Please is there something any woman is doing a side hustle and wants help or an honest partner plz let me know here
maybe do tutoring for aspiring med students by helping them with necessary subjects or uni applications, where I live tutors earn $40 or more per hour and you can even do it online using zoom. u can also work whenever works best for you :)
Stop focusing on men all the time ! That’s all most women talk about and it’s so overrated !!!!!! Stop having children with random guys , Don’t have children at all until you you have your life figured out , Finish school , don’t date until you’re out of school/ College , stop falling in love with attention and mainly focus on your spiritual journey. God will guide you but if you think you know it all you’re doomed .
Never disclose your financial information with a man despite your ages; some men will take that information and use to his advantage. He'll cry poor with the goal of you spending while saving his money or spending on other women. Move in silence even more when it comes to your finances, just hush! Another thing women should pay close attention to regardless of age is his relationship/rapport with his family particulary his mother figure. Men who has dysfunctional relationships with his own mom will likely end up no different with you. Watch them mommy's boys- they're no good either. As his partner, last thing you want is to compete for a spot with a grown woman, his mother on top of that!
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"do not chase boys, is never worth it" 🍻🥂💯
100% agree!
So true
@@gracebasubi6692 very !
Do not commit Haram, its never worth it. I learned the hard way.
This advice is really a good one ❤❤❤❤
Don't focus on the pain of how it feels in the moment rather think what's this pain teaching me... what's the lesson to be learnt. I learn lessons from my pains.
I heard someone say your pain leads to your purpose 😊
My advice: when you pray for a husband, be watchful of the counterfeit the devil will send to you first.
100% true
@allurelanajay This happened to me. Within 3 months of knowing him, I found out I was pregnant as a result of him forcing himself (rhymes with "grape"). Ladies have to be careful if a man is rushing things. He did what he did because he knew he was going to jail soon for something that happened before I even knew him. He wanted to baby trap. If you meet someone, please go to God about him before getting attached and spending too much time with him right away.
Hmm 😮
@@TrueLoveWarnings Wow i am sorry what happened to you. I pray you are well taken care of
@@AyaNichelle-gi9cd Thank you. 😊 Although I never wanted to become pregnant that way, I was blessed with a little girl who I adore.
"Comfort and growth do not go together " 💖
Trueeee
I stayed in my parents home for 25yrs and now am trying to get oit so far away 😭😭😭😭
An advice from my 23 year old self......
The more you'll do for a man you'll get attached to him but he won't......
In the long run he ain't gonna respect you either.....
If you want commitment from a man let him do the most.....
He'll get attached......
I’m 22 and i couldn’t agree more
Do things for a person who reciprocates duh! Men use women, women use men. Stop generalising it like all men are toxic or all women are blah blah. Be a better judge of persons.
@priyansha1950 understandable
I'm 31 and that's the dumbest advice 😒
@@samanthalatrucka your opinion 🤷🏽♀️
"Listen, honey, your 20s are a time for growth and learning. Don’t let anyone dim your shine! The lessons you learn, even the hard ones, are what shape you into the fierce woman you’re meant to be. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself, own your story, and never settle for less than you deserve. Keep pushing and keep thriving-you’ve got this!"
Thanks
My second piece of advice: if you meet a man dealing with some troubling circumstances, pray from a distance. Don't become his victim.
Agreed
If you're living at home, once you're working create a savings account and put atleast half your paycheck in. I can not stress how important this is because that helps you save up for big life events, holidays and eventually helping you get a place to live
Yess , wish I would’ve done this 😭!
Focus on God
Take care of your credit
Say no to drugs
Stay in the gym
Don't get hung up on designer
Buy a house
Talk to yourself out loud as if you're talking to a therapist. It's therapy, I promise ❤
Yess 💓
"That thing that you are craving so much... That means that your future self has it. "
That means I am a geoscientist, bringing more awareness of learning disabilities and in a loving relationship?
That’s good 💓
Yes!❤
Im craving a connection, nearness, deep attachment and closeness To God.
One suggestion from a well-wisher: do not talk about your dreams until you achieve them. Just DON'T. Evil eye(negative energy)is real.
@Sadiya1508-h5h noted ✍🏽
“Nobody has life 100% figured out. No matter what it looks like, we’re all struggling with something so stop comparing yourself” that was very comforting and she’s younger than me. I needed to hear that being 27 ☺️
💓
And it's so true 😊
Hey, im also 27 (1997 baby) im so lost in life and i'm relieved reading these comments knowing im not alone.
I just turned 23 yesterday. Crazy how time flies. I recently graduated college and now I’m focused on my mental health, inner peace, and being kinder to myself. It’s amazing how the perspective of life changes when you’re in a good headspace, something I wasn’t used to in college. I’m actively working on not getting so stressed on the little things. I think to myself, “will this matter in 5 years?”🤔🤔If not, then it’s probably not worth getting worked up over.
Same we’re all learning 💓
@@allurelanajay absolutely❤️❤️
"Your body always knows before you do" is not superstition. Higher cortisol levels can worsen quality of sleep and skin and gut health. Of course many things at once can affect your hormonal levels, not just a single relationship/thing, but know to listen when something is quite literaly draining you out!
!
"The reason you're craving that one thing so vehemently is because your future self has it" UGHH the lines I NEEDED to hear. Thank you for letting me know I'm rich and I'm getting married to my fictional daddy 😩🤌🏻
lol
Always lead with kindness and respect. Find yourself a good therapist now. It may take a while, but you will know when it's a good fit.
Yes 💓
Man, as a 28 yo, I WISH I had had an older female role model in my family to teach me all this when I was still a teen/ in my early 20s. You're dropping gems that I had to learn the hard way 🥲 Best of luck to all you early twenty-somethings 😘😘😘
Thank you & no seriously this advice has taught me so much as a woman 💓!
I just turned 20 and I'm already working on myself peace. I had satan's workers come up to me but I rebuke.And so far my high school and childhood friends are slowly drifting apart. But my 20 moto is "If it does not benefit me I ain't stressing it".
As you should ! 👏🏽
For the young 20 year olds, the second girl doing her make up wearing back is talking shit most of the time. A lot of that advice is wrong and is filled with hate and will make you just lose people who may be good for you. ❤
Exactly. That’s what I thought too
Agreed! I had to pause at her and check the comments.
Agree
Real❤
yeah i clocked that too, and her rhetoric is super harmful towards disabled people as well? society is not built to acommodate me, why would i fuss to get a job and give myself unnecessary burnout? and how does that make me a bad friend lmfao
As usual with advice videos for women, rarely, if at all, managing her money to build financial security ISNT discussed. But time is given to dealing with males
We can do a video on the topic 💓
Agreed .. planning fir retirement is something we should be really be talking about ..these 401ks are a joke
That is true , I’ve been hearing that lately .. I’ll definitely do a video 💓
For me personally money can be a problem, but it has never fucked me up. It has never ruined my life. It has never purposefully tortured me. It has never abused or assaulted me. Men have harmed me more than money or lack of it. And I grew up poor, so it's not coming from a place of privilege. I can handle poor. I will not have to handle another narcissist ever again, because I know better now.
I know it’s like cmon we get it you said they ain’t shit but we need real advice
you cant be a passenger princess PERIODD 💅
I am a woman in my early 20s and grateful for all the advices.
But damn, the second woman sounds like she’s in so much pain. I genuinely hope she finds peace and healing-whether through God or whatever gives her strength.
To everyone that has the same anger or any form of pain, may you find healing. May we be the generation of women that breaks free from all that's wrong with the world as we embark on the journey of finding ourselves and our purpose.
Yess💕💕
The first girl had lots of good advice, the second....meh! Don't get me wrong here. There are people who are not for you and by all means, run away from them. But don't for a minute treat people like they are disposable, they are on their journey to also becoming their best versions and being graceful to them and yourself is important. Listen to your heart and let your mind decide. Make mistakes and fix them, you are allowed to mess up, no one came with a tutorial on how to live!
Valid
I was just gonna say this. The first woman came from a loving place. Second woman was resentful and selfish 🤷🏽♀️
@@tamerapratt1383 understandable
@@tamerapratt1383 shw wasn't resentful or selfish, I have two of the red flags she mentioned and I agree with her in staying away from people that are like me
@cabbage042 There's a way to convey that you can tell in how someone speaks about a situation, whether they're bitter or not. Her advice is valid, it's just how it's presented
this needed to be done. thank you.
Of course 💓
Loved the First Lady
Yes , they gave such great advice 💓
Its better to invest in physical and mental health then consumerism through beauty products brands etc. I started gym and look better in even in bad clothes as comapred to my old self in expensive clothes.
I totally agree with this one
The thing is I just turned 24 and I’m realizing I’m kinda wasting my early to almost mid 20’s already. Like I’m literally gonna be 25 next year and that’s gonna come by hella quick because these years are going by so fast. I don’t know what I’m doing with my life tbh. I have no money to travel and to just do the things I want to do for beauty maintenance or whatever. Any advice and tips would be greatly appreciated ❤
Start now. You're too young.
Do you live at home or alone?
It’s ok you’re not alone & it will get better 💓 I’ll make a video on the topic so stay tuned
@@Bewise-gq4ru at home with family
@@allurelanajay I’ll be keeping an eye out. I just subscribed
Don't listen to that second lady. My sister is happily married to her high school boyfriend and first love. I almost got married too to MY first love, a wonderful man❤
I will keep that in mind ❤️
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now (I'm 22) and we knew each other from school; that being said, age does not define if someone is a good person or not. The second lady, with love, is making huge generalizations. My partner and I have been through hell wrt our families not accepting us, years of long distance, health conditions (I have a tumor); and we always showed up for each other. WE put in the work to be there for each other. He encourages me to BE more independent and do my own thing; I am very career oriented and so is he; because we know how to balance those aspects of our life, not because it came to us naturally but BECAUSE we learnt through practice. There surely are people who need to do that bit of growing on their own, but my lord is that take poor. (most people I know married their college/high school sweethearts. I feel like this could also come across to a few as "do not put in any effort into your relationship; just break up! They're meant to do it all perfectly from day 1" like come on, you yourself are someone's partner; uphold the expectations you have of your partner on your end too
super long comment; this triggered me a bit lmao. My family adores my bf but refuses to take our relationship seriously and I am so tired of hearing the whole "yeah sure, we'll see in a couple years if he's really family" I get being protective and not getting too attached because we're figuring out life rn, but my narcissistic parents are disrespectful to my boyfriend no matter how hard he tries to be there for them. I am so done eugh
@ as you should’ve , don’t let them disrespect him and if they won’t respect yalls relationship I think you should set boundaries with them
@@allurelanajay absolutely. I'm notorious for loudly calling them out for it :P
I got this,
"We alone", Even if you have a good family .We born alone and We die alone.If we sick we cannot share our pain with someone.One day there will be a day that we all have to leave the world.We cannot bring our lovelies or anything with us.I beleive this as so powerful ,think deeply.
True
The first one give me so much peace ❤
Yess
I love women
Same💓
I don’t agree with different friends for different needs. That will leave you and your friends unsatisfied with your bond in the long run. Any relationship based off of need is strained or disingenuous. It may be better to be friends with someone because you actually admire them as an individual and you see them as someone you can see yourself being friends with for a truly long time. That doesn’t mean you will be friends for a long time or that you have to, but having that in mind that you’re vetting your friendships based on longevity and actual friendship chemistry, you’ll be able to put more care and intention towards respecting yourself in respect to those you have a companionship with. It really is a butterfly effect though. It helps you respect yourself and your friends more than that kind of attitude often translates to other areas of your life. What is your relationship to self? To your family? Your work? Your passions? Your gut? Your sleep? Nature? Food? Animals? Your body? Is it healthy? Do you want it to be? How can we bridge that gap? I’m almost 24 in a month and I’ve been trying and successfully finding the answers that sit right with me over the course of my existence but it is a process and it definitely doesn’t come easy. I’ve lost so many friendships repeatedly in life that were admittedly almost always toxic. My only friend is my older sister and honestly, I love that because of the people I’m around right now… they’re lovely to associate with but we just don’t click like I feel I’d want when it comes to a genuine friendship and so I only consider them associates. It’s refreshing af
Understandable
what a pretty way to say isolate yourself from everyone around you, so when you need help no one will be there.
You’re entitled to an opinion
Second girl has it too intensely. Dont break up if a relationship is making you happy, omg!
What she means is: dont do anything at 18 years old or age thinking it will last forever. Dont move in with someone, dont give up college for a relationship, dont get kids, dont get MARRIED!! Because *if*,not when, it doesnt work out, it easier to get back to normality. Its easier to break up with a highschool boyfriend when yall arent splitting bills.
Agreed
I needed this! Thanks for compiling these ❤.
You welcome , I’m glad you enjoyed 💓
There's still value in what the second lady said.
Exactly
A tip from a much brighter side…I literally dated a man with zero losses zero regret zero emptiness I never thought I could just exit so peacefully…!, honestly being so religious I’m grateful I have a map to follow…I treated him with respect yet respected myself even more….no private dates whatsoever no lending money…nothing physical not even daring to touch my hands before we’re in a marriage…boundaries sky high
Now we’re done cause he didn’t commit but I lost nothing..he still respects me but i don’t honestly…do the bare minimum girls don’t be the one with the heavier investments ever…
Agreed
I don’t agree with some of the stuff girl #2 is saying.
Understandable
Yeah I’m not in a relationship rn but the advice of breaking up with your boyfriend is wild. Obviously if it’s abusive, or there’s no love, or you aren’t on the same path it’s fine, but breaking up with them just to be alone is self sabotage
@@midnightgalaxy3793 I can see that
@@midnightgalaxy3793 Exactly, my bf treats me right. Also the move away from your family part. Everyone is different and has different motivations in life and family dynamics, I don’t see the point of isolating yourself from your family unless they treat you poorly. But I definitely agree with the sentiment of protecting your own peace
@@midnightgalaxy3793 it’s wrong to paint all men under 25 as only caring about you know what. I could never generalize a group of people like that, everyone is different no matter their sex, race, class, etc.
Turning 28 next month . I feel like a failure sometimes
No , don’t you’re only human ... just work on changing your life to look how you want and strive for the best 💓
I am 28 as well. We're gonna be alright, baby steps.
@ZoeyKiritu yes we all will make it 💓
The woman with the curling iron said it all. Follow that and you gooooood! 🎉
!!
I love!!! Great advice from all these strong women!
Yes , glad you enjoyed 💓🫶🏽
11:53
Spot on!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Clock it !!💕
The second girl is absolutely too severe. She was traumatized
Understandable
She’s direct and honest. No sugar coating!
If it doesn't make sense to you as per what lady#2 said it makes sense to other girlies
Exactly !
1:21 WOAH, TOOK ME AWHILE TO GET THAT ONE 😭⁉️
😭
I don't chase men anymore i delete
Same
Imma need sis to get back on camera to tell me how broccoli and cauliflower is good for my boobs 😂. Put me on some game sis. What do my boobs need, tell me please!
No seriously 😂
1st girl is gorgeous
She is 💓
I really needed this today!
Glad you enjoyed 💓
No lies detected here🎯
Okk , all women need to tune in ! 💓
@@allurelanajay period! I wish I would’ve had something like this to watch when I was growing up💗💗💗
@@missmonica7005 exactly why I do it 💓
Im starting afresh
That’s good 💓
Best of luck girl ❤❤
SOON I AM GOING TO RELOCATE
Same
take me with you lol jk but SAME. Just a fresh start
@@leahshaw8417 same 😂
1:09 wow.
I take all of these with a grain of salt because God knows my circumstances and such in and out and more. So the advices are good and i will write them out but the ones that make me seem "self-sufficient" is not my way as a Child of God in Christ Jesus. Love you pookies ❤😊
Yess
Loved the Second Lady
If anyone can tell who is the first woman, please
Her TikTok is on the video
The second woman is completely right
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Motivation 🫶🏻✨💐💐💐 I love this Video 💖💖💖💖💖
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Can these changes no longer be made after 25? What happens after 25. I'm about to be in a few months
You have time , it’s never to late to improve 💓
Love this through this as a gay man i created a UA-cam channel inspired b these woman chase your dreans babe❤❤❤
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I'm 27 and this is good advice to women of all ages, you’ll be shocked how clueless some older women are
But for me most of this info is general knowledge i figured in my teenage years.. some people need to hear this nonetheless
That’s so true , I’ve met some women way older than me who seem so out of touch with life !
name of the track at the beginning
It’s called ok by jt, but it’s a UA-cam remix
I'm glad I didn't have to navigate this goofy nonsense when I was in my 20s. Ohh Jesus. Talk about silver plated turds.
Yeah it’s wild out here
I fucking wish I saw this earlier
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Girls i need your advice. I am a medical student and i have to find a side hustle that can make me legit money. Please is there something any woman is doing a side hustle and wants help or an honest partner plz let me know here
maybe do tutoring for aspiring med students by helping them with necessary subjects or uni applications, where I live tutors earn $40 or more per hour and you can even do it online using zoom. u can also work whenever works best for you :)
@Lujayn-u9w yeah that's a good option
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Stop focusing on men all the time ! That’s all most women talk about and it’s so overrated !!!!!! Stop having children with random guys , Don’t have children at all until you you have your life figured out , Finish school , don’t date until you’re out of school/ College , stop falling in love with attention and mainly focus on your spiritual journey. God will guide you but if you think you know it all you’re doomed .
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Never disclose your financial information with a man despite your ages; some men will take that information and use to his advantage. He'll cry poor with the goal of you spending while saving his money or spending on other women. Move in silence even more when it comes to your finances, just hush!
Another thing women should pay close attention to regardless of age is his relationship/rapport with his family particulary his mother figure. Men who has dysfunctional relationships with his own mom will likely end up no different with you. Watch them mommy's boys- they're no good either. As his partner, last thing you want is to compete for a spot with a grown woman, his mother on top of that!
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The second woman definitely shouldn't be giving any advice😂 She really sounds like she is projecting her own trauma and generalizing everything.
Could be possible
Not trying to be mean, but the young lady that said that she turned 25, she looks like she’s pushing 40. 🫢
That’s not nice 😭
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Why you hating like a man?? 🙄🙄
U r absolutely trying to be mean. Ngl.
Lmao 40 is a little much but i did think she was older than 25, maybe it's just her tone of voice
Hey , could u make a video on advice for younger woman finance 💗 i took the advice and left the guy , next steppp😂🤌💖 THANK UU
Yes , turn on the post notifications, I have a finance video dropping Thursday @6 💓💓
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