Why You've Been Wrong About Your Self-Worth All Along
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- Опубліковано 20 лют 2024
- If there’s one thing to know about your self-worth that will change everything for you, it’s what I’m about to reveal over the next few minutes. And when you truly understand this, you’ll never struggle with low self-worth ever again. You will also experience a rebirth, a new life without this limitation.
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What No One Ever Told You About Your SELF-WORTH That Will Change Your Life Forever
• Why You've Been Wrong ...
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This hit it: "Fear of failure is the #1 reason people don't ever try.vAnd fear of lowering their self-worth is the #1 reason people fear failure.". Thank you for sharing this. 🙏
My pleasure. Glad you find it helpful.
Hit home super far.
3:49 Self-worth
Fascinating perspective.
Maybe the world needs to hear this.
Thank you. Help spread the message.
WOAAA 🤯 This blew my mind.
Everything you said makes perfect sense.
Your videos deserve millions of views.
Thank you.
I loved and love steve. He reached out to me at the lowest point in my life, he was then a stranger to me. yet sort me out to help me. Thanks for this video.
Steve was very generous and kind. I miss him a lot.
I use to think this but was still struggling. Then i realized it does matter bc the reality we live in has determining factors upon worth. Generally speaking, the greater your reality sees you as worthy and valuable the less you suffer from it. So to me at least, self worth is the sum of the love you feel for yourself while knowing you are capable of many things + your percieved value in the world.
With all that said, i am still struggling. I think i should feel more self worth than i do. Not sure where to go from here but i found your channel yesterday and im a fan. Thanks for your content.
You're welcome.
It's important to make the distinction between self-worth and self-esteem. Your worth cannot be measured so self-worth isn't real. But if you still pass your reality through that delusion, you will try to measure your worth by comparing yourself to others, which is destructive. Self-esteem is how you feel about yourself on your own terms. Align with your values, and self-esteem is a by-product of that. Don't try to go at self-esteem directly. Focus on your values.
@DamonCart thanks for the reply. I know my values and I try my best to live by them. With that terminology I would say my self esteem is high bc I think highly of myself and I am in alignment with most of my values. So then I'm not sure the right word but I need to work on whatever it's called that makes me feel inadequate to other people. It's like, I know my worth, but I feel like no matter what I do other people don't see it. If it was just me on this planet i would feel great. But bc humans need interaction with others I've been trying to make connections and it feels so uncomfortable. I've been trying for years now with little progress. What is it that I need to work on if it's not self-worth or self-esteem? Self-confidence, perhaps?
@@profesee6 I can tell by your word that you're still stuck in limiting concepts. I would have to poke around and ask you more questions to find out exactly what's going on. One thing is certain, you're focused way too much on what others think of you. This is a dead end. You don't control what others think of you so get on with your life and with fulfilling your values and never mind what others think.
Self-worth isn't real and you cannot work on self-esteem and self-confidence directly. When you're behavior aligns with your values, you will experience self-esteem. True confidence is about being competent. If you're competent at driving a car, you'll feel confident about it. When you know that you are a competent person, you will feel self-confident.
@DamonCart thanks. I spoke with Nathaneal a couple days ago, and it's still unclear what I need to work on. I just know I want to be able to feel comfortable in my own skin again. I'd love to get coaching but until I can at least figure out for sure what it is that I'm in need of fixing I don't think it's the best idea for me to move forward. Once I realize my exact issue I would be happy to recieve your company's services.
@@profesee6 don't wait until... When you're waiting, you're rotting on the vine. I'm not saying you need to sign up for our services now. What I'm saying is that waiting is a mindset that will bog you down indefinitely. Get on with your life while you sort it out. Waiting will never serve you.
Thank you Damon, in ten minutes you have helped me see why I felt so unworthy and fearful. Sixty years of conditional love and sibling comparing - explains why I am so afraid to try to succeed in anything. I am shedding it as I type.
You're welcome. Glad it helped.
Damon, you’re on fire. 🔥 ❤
Illuminating, empowering and liberating.
Truth. Based. 🙏
Thank you.
Many thanks Damon, an extremely useful video on how misinformed we can become in accepting the limiting beliefs of others. Concise, articulate and right to the point.
Thank you for the kind words.
I am glad you did this video Damo.
I came to a similar conclusion. I realised that deserving is bs because it’s usually a injected value from an authority figure and comparison to their value system.
Well said.
❤ “There is no such instrument.” ❤
Thanks Damon to share this short version about self worth. I think your previous longer versions were a real turning point in my life. I am very grateful for you to share your knowledge and hope many people will have the same transformative changes that I had 🙏🏻❤️
That's wonderful to hear. Glad you're using what I teach to improve your life. Really appreciate the comment.
Awesome perspective.
Much appreciated.
Loved the video Damon thanks ❤
My pleasure.
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This is my favourite video of yours
Thank you. I really enjoyed making it. I think it's one of my best.
One interesting question about this is how it connects to values, because in scenarios when you don’t align with your values or if you see others having more of a certain value than you, you could struggle with feelings of lower self worth.
When you're not aligned with your values, your self-esteem will drop. This is why it's important to know what your values are so you can align with them. You want the kind of sensitivity that when you feel your self-esteem dropping, you know to check in, identify the value or values of yours that you're violating and realign yourself.
If you're focused on the value of other people and that's causing you to feel low self-worth, it's because you're comparing yourself to them. Break this habit and either bring the attention back to yourself and your values and the choices available to you to align with your values or you can simply enjoy the value of other people without comparing yourself to them. The result will be that you use other people as inspiration to bring yourself up.
There is a lot of objectification at work. If person is not valued for some reason at work, age, color, culture, skill and treated differently how can this be ignored ?
I don't quite understand your question. You don't control what other people do. If you're seeking their validation to validate yourself, you're going to create a lot of anxiety for yourself. Please restate your question with more context.
How do you grasp that concept when you've grown-up with strong core beliefs? Beliefs ingrained by religion and mentally abusive parenting which tell me that I am inherently sinful and worthless and that I don't deserve to be happy? If anything good happens to me, i feel guilty and unworthy of enjoying it. This causes me to be anxious all the time.
I feel you. I grew up in similar circumstances and I overcame it. You can too. Know that your past and your upbringing doesn't have to define you. You can use NLP to truly discover yourself and become the you you want to be. Let me know if you would like help.