*_"When you're 2Ø you care what everyone thinks. When you're 4Ø you stop caring what everyone thinks. When you're 6Ø you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place."_* - Winston Churchill
Four things you learn, as you get older. 1. You can’t make real friends with fake people. 2. You sit back and observe, and realize that not everything needs a response. 3. You learn to trust your intuition… if something doesn’t feel right about a person, a place, or a situation, you don’t waste time trying to deny it. 4. The older you get, the less you feel a need for being included, understood, or accepted.
@@grindPracticeBLESSED Self-reflection is key. It's not about the others; it's always about you. Why do you get angry at someone? Why do you even get triggered? People often act as mirrors to us, and the stuff we don't like about ourselves. It takes patience and practice, so don't be hard on yourself. Cheers!
As a 44 year old man I've finally become comfortable with the idea that I can only be who I am. People can either accept it or not. I am unashamedly weird and I'm comfortable with that.
In a time of toxic social media where hungry ghosts & sociopaths thrive, this is the most important message of survival for those who value being genuine.
I feel other people's opinions are often the stifling dagger in our natural progression and tendency for freedom and truth in life. Especially opinions from those around us who are close to us and whom we care about. "Another problem for certain people is that they hear the voices of others speaking to them-the voice of their mother, the voice of their father, the voice of some other influential person in their life. And they either resist this voice or they follow it dutifully, but in either case, they are not really responding to their own Inner Voice. They are responding to their conditioning. They are responding to what has been programmed into their minds." The New Message, Inner Voice, by MV Summers
"Life is an unprofitable episode disturbing the blessed calm of non existence" I agree with Arthur Schopenhauer on this matter. Even though I have a pretty good life and things to be grateful for, I can't help but get the feeling that when I am nearing the end of my life as an old person, I will feel exactly as Schopenhauer did. That there is no point to our existence and we'd be better off not having been put here in the first place.
"Of course, as with anyone who dares to be different, one can expect ridicule, anger, pity, contempt, and being misunderstood. Which, as philosophers such as Epictetus and Schopenhauer also pointed out, are the price to pay for a better life" Thanks for the reminder that I'm on the right road. Then again, I couldn't be anywhere else.
The warrior in me knows he need not care what anyone else thinks, but also is aware that what the collective mob all thinks and agrees upon has the propensity to impinge on my freedom. I must therefore negotiate a path between the private and the public ideas.
I believe like anything in life, what you surround yourself with, is what you take on. You are free to choose what ever path you take, but it also means you are bound to the weight of those decisions. Meaning, we know that in excess of anything, we are bound to receive a negative outcome, or what seemed like a path of exploration becomes burdensome. Where you have to put thoughtful actions to get yourself out of the situation, then avoiding it entirely and not taking up that burden. Without the adventure, you would miss the shot that "could" possibly have turned into wisdom, but you also must know that you can sometimes pick a path, where you have to put time and energy to simply re-align yourself. As you can tell, if you do nothing but make bad decisions, well your then going to have a period of time where you all you can do is work at getting yourself out (which can be seen as a waste of time). But that the duality of choice!
Nothing outside is going to happen your way 100%...the only things that can happen your way are your own thoughts, emotions and life, if you take charge of it...NO ONE can influence your emotions and thoughts if you don't allow them...Rule The Empire Between Your Ears (Brain). 😊❤
Your videos always provide peace. The visuals, the way of speaking, and the variety of philosophers is really appreciative. Keep up the good work and keep providing peace. Thank you❤
I travel through this Journey called life without too much luggage. There is a lot of garbage, but thanks God philosophers have existed in all the centuries, in different professions but same pathway.
I recently I've been diving back into stoicism and I just wanted to thank you for ironically posting this at the same time that I'm trying to meditate on Marcus Aurelius.
Great video and conclusion. I have been very validated watching this channel. I must point out, however, that IMITATION is at first necessary for most people to learn/recognize the shortcomings of "being sheep." We first imitate our parents, siblings and individual family members in certain behaviors. Then we follow and sometimes imitate our school teachers as they give us local "facts," customs, reading and writing skills, and an initial setup of the world around us. It is after we've had some time to absorb, fit in, test and reflect on society and history that we BEGIN to form opinions, habits and attitudes that diverge (ideally without abandoning anyone in our family). There is intuition and some diverge earlier, as I did. But I believe I balanced both divergence and conformity (to make money and fulfill my ambitions, support a family and earn a pension, like most) for 22 years and was vested in a pension before I quit and began working creatively (and stoically) just outside my industry. I would credit imitation wholeheartedly as the principal way I learned ANYTHING. And at times, I probably even imitated Diogenes. I believe that alternation between the two helps us progress individually, just like walking and running have us alternate feet, and breathing has us alternate in or out. Call it yin-yang or living with paradox, but life doesn't seem to be either-or for very long.
When everybody is thinking about what others think of them, in fact, no one is really thinking about me. Right? They are self-centered. Because they don't care about me, they care only about what others think of them. Their focus lies only in their relationship to 'the other'. So, think good and honest about yourself. No one else is gonna do it for you ; )
10:23 "the divine spark...representing the God within us." Not just "representing," for God IS the "spark" within that gives ALL life, life. It is the "True Self." The "spark" within you is one and the same as the "spark" within me. Thus, when we do harm to others, we, in fact, harm ourselves. *The real meaning of "We are one."
Love this one I used to care now I careless my crying saw me crying in tears she said baby the hell what people think I’m stronger now man I miss Grandma she could tamp into me like nobody else 😢
Most ppl don't think...thinking is hard work..."thinking is always that which we know we have not yet begun to do" (Derrida) but..." the unexamined life is not worth living " (Socrates).
I suggest that you care less about how little others care for you and get on with your life. Find meaning in contributing towards the wellfare of the natural world - abused and neglected by man.
The Nietzsche part is intersting because all most of us know is the herd mentality and conformity. It is hard to even fathom a drastically different life from the one we are so used to living. This part of the video really got me thinking, and I am certainly going to dive into this concept further.
LOL. I was having a conversation with someone about philosophy, and I stated that it's a very priveleged person who can afford to take a degree which is largely useless in daily life, and won't lead to any well-paid job. I knew they were a fervent socialist, and worked on a zero-hour contract for Amazon. It was at that point that they told me they'd taken a philosophy degree. I got ghosted from that point, I'm guessing they weren't so good at applying philosophy to their own life.
I'm glad I'm not a king like Marcus Aurelius, because I wouldn't want to continually have to generate the patience and cheerfulness he talks about in dealing with difficult people. I prefer to just ignore them (not an option for Marcus A). Fortunately, social media gives us easy options to put the dinkuses of the world on Ignore (and most "difficult encounters" happen on social media, at least in my experience).
Well I don't care about Philosophers, AND I don't care what you think about them. And yet, here we sit by this lovely campfire, telling ghost stories. You next my friend. The Bones Within Speak. :D
Just saying dogs do feel shame and a range of emotions. I would say the most judgemental hypcrites are the Amish...And they are all about image for its their brand
they only feel shame in the Human Domain - like a potty training a puppy - eyes down when he makes a mess because the Human door was locked. They are trained to feel shame...
Thank you Einzelgänger- we need to be reminded how easily and almost unnoticed we let the herd mentality rule our lives. I'm afraid that the Übermensch concept is but an ideal in a dream reality - human society is by far too flawed. I blame stagnant spiritual growth caused by adopted religion.
Right but he was also rich royalty and lived in a palace and was surrounded by socialites he wouldn't get jumped on for contradicting his colleagues Stupid short sites and toxic people will also break your knees if they receive you as a threat to the statusquo Be careful who you piss off
Opinions of others are neither entirely outside our influence or entirely within it….But, despicable acts increase the likelihood of being despised. Conversely, kind & generous acts increase the likelihood of being appreciated. The vast majority don’t aim to live in reviled exile. So we’ll conform to some degree in order to avoid becoming complete outcasts. It’s a scale to balance on, where some care too much & others little to none. With a pathology available on either end of the spectrum. Anyone claiming absolute disregard for the opinions of others, betrays that exact notion, in demonstrating they want me to think that of them. Those who genuinely don’t care what others think, are most likely to be found in prisons or graveyards. Like it or not, most of us are putting some amount of credence & value on others opinions, simply to survive with minimal suffering.
So what do you subscribe too? Because being stoic; (which is the rock in the raging sea), is not being emotional spewing volcanic energy. So I’m curious. Because I thought there was either stoicism; or emotionally damaged characters?
The next time you leave the house wearing something other than the pajamas you walk around in or put on cosmetics and prep your hair, it's because you care about what others think
Help!?! Can anyone offer any advice to continue to be more like this (stoic and virtuous etc) amidst a family of narcissists alcoholic drug users who distort the truth for their benefit?? Really going through it right now and i know the folks in einzelganger comments are top-notch. Thank you for reading (and watching), continued blessings on your paths 🙏
@drewpanyko5424 thanks. I try as frequently as possible and/or to 'grey-rock'. But lately been attempting to 'embrace the chaos' more (as an attempt to better myself somehow). Unfortunately it's 'holiday season ' here, so more interaction is necessary. Sidenote: dad just passed recently and my mom is 90 and has alzheimers dementia and Charles Bonnet syndrome ... so I'm feeling 'forced' to step up even more.
Yes. Leave. That’s all you can do. Just have to live your own life… and for the love of god, don’t find a broken relationship to make you feel better. I learned years later the reason I felt ok around my xwife was because she was like my mom. She felt familiar, in the time I was in Iraq war. The way I did my journey. I joined the Army and left the country. I did not fool with social media cause that’s how they track you, one day you may run into them? But by then you won’t care. Do not fall for their tricks. Oh if you come home it will be better, narcissistic drug abusers only get worse not better over time.
@@mpv9866 my condolences on the loss of you father. Your mother's condition sounds bad, and I understand why you would feel obligated toward her. However, you must take care of yourself first before you can take care of anyone else. Moreover, if your mother is responsible for your bad feelings and has not made any attempt to reconcile properly, you must separate from her if you're going to begin to heal. I know that might sound rough, but it's the truth.
@@thomashenshallhydraxis many thanks for your service in Iraq, and for the very meaningful comment. I will definitely heed your sage advice. I've already ditched all social media a couple years ago, here is about as close as I ever get. And there certainly won't be any relationships in the near or distant future, if ever. Swore off of those a few years back too. Eimzelganger to the core lol no joke. Thanks again mate 🙏
When you have people persecute you for 9 years and some months and then they want to go so far as to try to make you be a simple caricature they alone imagined you would be then you can tell someone not to care how people think about them. With that being said, stop gaslighting and worry about yourself since you don't want to give any actual good advice that hasn't already been repetitively said. Every time I call out stalkers of mine people like you come out the woodwork and start telling me "oh, don't care about what people think about you". Take your brutality loving greek culture appropriating and piliging based nonsense somewhere else while you're at it because I'm not gonna be guilt tripped for calling people out when they clearly deserve to be.
Currently I suffer from masturbation and disgusting genre of porn, hope to see you making a video on Lust which is part of the seven deadly sins series
In biological terms we should help each other for the survival of the species unfortunately we just recently evolve a more complex brain a lot of people still has primitive perception of life i dont believe in a god i believe in evolution the problem with our society is we make misconceptions that being selfish is part of having that personality trait but its not true its just a gene expression inherited from an ancestor with an experienced of warfare and become a killer of clans that's why his aggressive and has sociopathic traits beacuse he inherited it from his warrior ancestor education of biology is better than religion or philosophy people will become more rational and emphatic if we remove completely religion from the equation and also religious people think they're special beacuse there imaginary god made them believe theyre superior to animals that's why farm animals are turtored like they dont matter like cows pigs chickens sheeps iam a vegan and i dont need religion and a god to be more emphatic but some people are just hardwired to be sociopaths unfortunately education is the key if we fucos on science we will reach a world with less suffering and closer to a utopia
First of all, you should not care what people think because most of people don’t think.
True..
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Statistically speaking, too much of the population survey was brought forth that there is nothing going on their minds.
“You’ll stop caring what others think of you, when you realize how seldom they do” ~ David Foster Wallace ?
*_"When you're 2Ø you care what everyone thinks. When you're 4Ø you stop caring what everyone thinks. When you're 6Ø you realize no one was ever thinking about you in the first place."_*
- Winston Churchill
Four things you learn, as you get older.
1. You can’t make real friends with fake people.
2. You sit back and observe, and realize that not everything needs a response.
3. You learn to trust your intuition… if something doesn’t feel right about a person, a place, or a situation, you don’t waste time trying to deny it.
4. The older you get, the less you feel a need for being included, understood, or accepted.
When there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do me no harm
Wise, how do you get to that point of no enemy within?
@@grindPracticeBLESSED Rid yourself of basic flaws, addictions & build character
@@grindPracticeBLESSED Self-reflection is key. It's not about the others; it's always about you. Why do you get angry at someone? Why do you even get triggered? People often act as mirrors to us, and the stuff we don't like about ourselves. It takes patience and practice, so don't be hard on yourself. Cheers!
@@Munkaa u don't be hard on yourself too k? 🤣
😮
The pursuit of social status creates suffering.
“It’s none of my business what people think of me.”
As a 44 year old man I've finally become comfortable with the idea that I can only be who I am. People can either accept it or not. I am unashamedly weird and I'm comfortable with that.
Kudos amigo.
Legend 😎
.. and life begins
@@tamshort2719 yes.
I’m glad you reached this milestone! Enjoy! Weird is good! 👍🏿
"have you ever seen a dog ashamed after laying a turd in the middle of the road?"
That's all I needed to hear.
In a time of toxic social media where hungry ghosts & sociopaths thrive, this is the most important message of survival for those who value being genuine.
I feel other people's opinions are often the stifling dagger in our natural progression and tendency for freedom and truth in life. Especially opinions from those around us who are close to us and whom we care about.
"Another problem for certain people is that they hear the voices of others speaking to them-the voice of their mother, the voice of their father, the voice of some other influential person in their life. And they either resist this voice or they follow it dutifully, but in either case, they are not really responding to their own Inner Voice. They are responding to their conditioning. They are responding to what has been programmed into their minds."
The New Message, Inner Voice, by MV Summers
"Life is an unprofitable episode disturbing the blessed calm of non existence" I agree with Arthur Schopenhauer on this matter. Even though I have a pretty good life and things to be grateful for, I can't help but get the feeling that when I am nearing the end of my life as an old person, I will feel exactly as Schopenhauer did. That there is no point to our existence and we'd be better off not having been put here in the first place.
Joe Biden could kill a billion people or so if he wanted to, but he's still a fragile old man who falls off his bike and is confused.
Don't look in the eyes of others, to find yourself.
"A dog simply dogs"
truer words have never been spoken
Copium maximus
"A man is better off hated for eternity for who he as opposed to being adored for one second for who he is not."
"What other people think of me is none of my business.” - Eleanor Roosevelt
"Of course, as with anyone who dares to be different, one can expect ridicule, anger, pity, contempt, and being misunderstood. Which, as philosophers such as Epictetus and Schopenhauer also pointed out, are the price to pay for a better life"
Thanks for the reminder that I'm on the right road. Then again, I couldn't be anywhere else.
The best channel in YT
being indifferent is the possible solution; whatever happens is fine
The subtle art of not giving a f*ck. That’s it !
Love the stoic videos.
Thank you!!
Dealing with that these days!
Your channel is a true oasis for the mind and soul. Thank you for your warmth and light that you bring into our lives!🤞🖼🛩
Well said.
The warrior in me knows he need not care what anyone else thinks, but also is aware that what the collective mob all thinks and agrees upon has the propensity to impinge on my freedom. I must therefore negotiate a path between the private and the public ideas.
10:01 “Imitation is suicide” - Ralph Waldo Emerson
I believe like anything in life, what you surround yourself with, is what you take on. You are free to choose what ever path you take, but it also means you are bound to the weight of those decisions. Meaning, we know that in excess of anything, we are bound to receive a negative outcome, or what seemed like a path of exploration becomes burdensome. Where you have to put thoughtful actions to get yourself out of the situation, then avoiding it entirely and not taking up that burden.
Without the adventure, you would miss the shot that "could" possibly have turned into wisdom, but you also must know that you can sometimes pick a path, where you have to put time and energy to simply re-align yourself. As you can tell, if you do nothing but make bad decisions, well your then going to have a period of time where you all you can do is work at getting yourself out (which can be seen as a waste of time). But that the duality of choice!
Nothing outside is going to happen your way 100%...the only things that can happen your way are your own thoughts, emotions and life, if you take charge of it...NO ONE can influence your emotions and thoughts if you don't allow them...Rule The Empire Between Your Ears (Brain). 😊❤
Your videos always provide peace. The visuals, the way of speaking, and the variety of philosophers is really appreciative. Keep up the good work and keep providing peace. Thank you❤
I travel through this Journey called life without too much luggage. There is a lot of garbage, but thanks God philosophers have existed in all the centuries, in different professions but same pathway.
Nothing to gain, nothing to loose ❣️ Thank you 🙏🏻
I recently I've been diving back into stoicism and I just wanted to thank you for ironically posting this at the same time that I'm trying to meditate on Marcus Aurelius.
Great video and conclusion. I have been very validated watching this channel. I must point out, however, that IMITATION is at first necessary for most people to learn/recognize the shortcomings of "being sheep." We first imitate our parents, siblings and individual family members in certain behaviors. Then we follow and sometimes imitate our school teachers as they give us local "facts," customs, reading and writing skills, and an initial setup of the world around us. It is after we've had some time to absorb, fit in, test and reflect on society and history that we BEGIN to form opinions, habits and attitudes that diverge (ideally without abandoning anyone in our family). There is intuition and some diverge earlier, as I did. But I believe I balanced both divergence and conformity (to make money and fulfill my ambitions, support a family and earn a pension, like most) for 22 years and was vested in a pension before I quit and began working creatively (and stoically) just outside my industry. I would credit imitation wholeheartedly as the principal way I learned ANYTHING. And at times, I probably even imitated Diogenes. I believe that alternation between the two helps us progress individually, just like walking and running have us alternate feet, and breathing has us alternate in or out. Call it yin-yang or living with paradox, but life doesn't seem to be either-or for very long.
I am not what you think I am. You are what you think I am.
I stopped that many many years ago and believe me I couldn't be more relieved.
Spectacular video man!! It was really Great!
Thank you for this 🙏
When everybody is thinking about what others think of them, in fact, no one is really thinking about me. Right? They are self-centered. Because they don't care about me, they care only about what others think of them. Their focus lies only in their relationship to 'the other'.
So, think good and honest about yourself. No one else is gonna do it for you ; )
Bravo, Einzy! Great video and message. 👏🏻
10:23 "the divine spark...representing the God within us." Not just "representing," for God IS the "spark" within that gives ALL life, life. It is the "True Self." The "spark" within you is one and the same as the "spark" within me. Thus, when we do harm to others, we, in fact, harm ourselves. *The real meaning of "We are one."
keep up the great work
Very good - thank you.
I always tell people, why do you want to be perceived, as rich? You will always be asked for money, and dispised if you don't give 😂
This one hit the spot today
Daring to be different and to leave the herd behind has opened my mind.
beautiful message, beautiful music!
Wow je kanaal is enorm gegroeid de afgelopen jaren. Heel goed gedaan hoor. Wees trots op jezelf gap!
Love this one I used to care now I careless my crying saw me crying in tears she said baby the hell what people think I’m stronger now man I miss Grandma she could tamp into me like nobody else 😢
Most ppl don't think...thinking is hard work..."thinking is always that which we know we have not yet begun to do" (Derrida) but..." the unexamined life is not worth living " (Socrates).
Thanks
I wish people cared about me but often times seems like they don't care about anyone but themselves
I suggest that you care less about how little others care for you and get on with your life. Find meaning in contributing towards the wellfare of the natural world - abused and neglected by man.
The Nietzsche part is intersting because all most of us know is the herd mentality and conformity. It is hard to even fathom a drastically different life from the one we are so used to living. This part of the video really got me thinking, and I am certainly going to dive into this concept further.
Always remember that what you think and feel matters more than what other people think or feel ~ A Millennial!
Comfort is a dangerous disease
To Dosteovsky “overthinking is a disease” for Sartrè the devouring gaze or look can bring us hell
Marcus Aurelius was a top bloke.
I believe he was indeed a top geezer
Good video. Thanks.
LOL.
I was having a conversation with someone about philosophy, and I stated that it's a very priveleged person who can afford to take a degree which is largely useless in daily life, and won't lead to any well-paid job.
I knew they were a fervent socialist, and worked on a zero-hour contract for Amazon.
It was at that point that they told me they'd taken a philosophy degree.
I got ghosted from that point, I'm guessing they weren't so good at applying philosophy to their own life.
People who take philosophy degrees are usually the worst at applying it.
I'm glad I'm not a king like Marcus Aurelius, because I wouldn't want to continually have to generate the patience and cheerfulness he talks about in dealing with difficult people. I prefer to just ignore them (not an option for Marcus A). Fortunately, social media gives us easy options to put the dinkuses of the world on Ignore (and most "difficult encounters" happen on social media, at least in my experience).
*_I am the Common Denominator of all my Problems._* I hear the call to Adventure .. _WHO AM I?_
I don't care what people think, especially philosophers.
Well I don't care about Philosophers, AND I don't care what you think about them. And yet, here we sit by this lovely campfire, telling ghost stories. You next my friend. The Bones Within Speak. :D
Great video
Just saying dogs do feel shame and a range of emotions.
I would say the most judgemental hypcrites are the Amish...And they are all about image for its their brand
they only feel shame in the Human Domain - like a potty training a puppy - eyes down when he makes a mess because the Human door was locked. They are trained to feel shame...
You seem proud to be a good judge of who is judgmental. _Interesting._ :D
good video, keep the channel going
0:47, dealing with all this, I came to the same conclusion!!!!
Thank you Einzelgänger- we need to be reminded how easily and almost unnoticed we let the herd mentality rule our lives. I'm afraid that the Übermensch concept is but an ideal in a dream reality - human society is by far too flawed. I blame stagnant spiritual growth caused by adopted religion.
Hey what's the background music, I love it.
Wait, I've heard it before.
Right but he was also rich royalty and lived in a palace and was surrounded by socialites he wouldn't get jumped on for contradicting his colleagues
Stupid short sites and toxic people will also break your knees if they receive you as a threat to the statusquo Be careful who you piss off
Sometimes you gotta pet the turd.
Beautiful
The painting on 10:20, what is the title and artist?
Opinions of others are neither entirely outside our influence or entirely within it….But, despicable acts increase the likelihood of being despised. Conversely, kind & generous acts increase the likelihood of being appreciated. The vast majority don’t aim to live in reviled exile. So we’ll conform to some degree in order to avoid becoming complete outcasts. It’s a scale to balance on, where some care too much & others little to none. With a pathology available on either end of the spectrum.
Anyone claiming absolute disregard for the opinions of others, betrays that exact notion, in demonstrating they want me to think that of them. Those who genuinely don’t care what others think, are most likely to be found in prisons or graveyards.
Like it or not, most of us are putting some amount of credence & value on others opinions, simply to survive with minimal suffering.
you should care...but not too much
be critical about it
I don't subscribe to Stoicism, but I do appreciate the beautiful artwork in your video! 😊
What does 'subscribe' mean? Did you know early Christianity beliefs are combined with Stoicism methods?
@Ripkittymi Perhaps you don't have access to a dictionary: "Subscribe (verb) express or feel agreement with." I never mentioned Christianity.
So what do you subscribe too? Because being stoic; (which is the rock in the raging sea), is not being emotional spewing volcanic energy. So I’m curious. Because I thought there was either stoicism; or emotionally damaged characters?
@thomashenshallhydraxis LOL. You're funny! 😅
I really love you man.
i dont care what people think, i care what i think❤❤❤ 3:57
I made sure Nietzsche was in the video
The next time you leave the house wearing something other than the pajamas you walk around in or put on cosmetics and prep your hair, it's because you care about what others think
If you’re going to a job interview you should look your best.
Hope next time can cover some philosophy from anime
"Having kids is such a cruel and selfish act"
David Benatar ❤
That might possibly be the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard
ok let me try to understand why?
Love is a battlefield.
Pat Benatar.
@@WordOfYahyou are the dumbest thing
👌
Help!?! Can anyone offer any advice to continue to be more like this (stoic and virtuous etc) amidst a family of narcissists alcoholic drug users who distort the truth for their benefit?? Really going through it right now and i know the folks in einzelganger comments are top-notch. Thank you for reading (and watching), continued blessings on your paths 🙏
For starters, get away... get far away....
@drewpanyko5424 thanks. I try as frequently as possible and/or to 'grey-rock'. But lately been attempting to 'embrace the chaos' more (as an attempt to better myself somehow). Unfortunately it's 'holiday season ' here, so more interaction is necessary. Sidenote: dad just passed recently and my mom is 90 and has alzheimers dementia and Charles Bonnet syndrome ... so I'm feeling 'forced' to step up even more.
Yes. Leave. That’s all you can do. Just have to live your own life… and for the love of god, don’t find a broken relationship to make you feel better. I learned years later the reason I felt ok around my xwife was because she was like my mom. She felt familiar, in the time I was in Iraq war.
The way I did my journey. I joined the Army and left the country. I did not fool with social media cause that’s how they track you, one day you may run into them? But by then you won’t care.
Do not fall for their tricks. Oh if you come home it will be better, narcissistic drug abusers only get worse not better over time.
@@mpv9866 my condolences on the loss of you father. Your mother's condition sounds bad, and I understand why you would feel obligated toward her. However, you must take care of yourself first before you can take care of anyone else. Moreover, if your mother is responsible for your bad feelings and has not made any attempt to reconcile properly, you must separate from her if you're going to begin to heal. I know that might sound rough, but it's the truth.
@@thomashenshallhydraxis many thanks for your service in Iraq, and for the very meaningful comment. I will definitely heed your sage advice. I've already ditched all social media a couple years ago, here is about as close as I ever get. And there certainly won't be any relationships in the near or distant future, if ever. Swore off of those a few years back too. Eimzelganger to the core lol no joke. Thanks again mate 🙏
Except others are our only reference, our only connection to life. So, choose God or suffer in vain.
When you have people persecute you for 9 years and some months and then they want to go so far as to try to make you be a simple caricature they alone imagined you would be then you can tell someone not to care how people think about them.
With that being said, stop gaslighting and worry about yourself since you don't want to give any actual good advice that hasn't already been repetitively said. Every time I call out stalkers of mine people like you come out the woodwork and start telling me "oh, don't care about what people think about you". Take your brutality loving greek culture appropriating and piliging based nonsense somewhere else while you're at it because I'm not gonna be guilt tripped for calling people out when they clearly deserve to be.
Is this a repost?
The being a loser video is almost exactly the same
“according to philosophers” ? This title leaves me with the feeling they may be wrong.
Marcus was Emperor. It beehooved him not to care, he was Boss Man. I bet he cared what people think when he was campaigning! _LMAO_
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Currently I suffer from masturbation and disgusting genre of porn, hope to see you making a video on Lust which is part of the seven deadly sins series
Get off the internet bro. Go outside.
Would a dog jck off to disgusting pron shamelessly?
@@Brownkevin7 He may live on a submarine. _You_ don't know.
@@youbetyourwrasse good point.
“Keep your head down and work like I do, but understand everybody ain’t gon’ like you.” - Kendrick (on new album)
Don't worry. I don't care about what others think. I only care about money.
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Money will betray you and never make you whole
I never met a dollar I didn't like
Money can keep you warm. That’s I made a quilt out of hundred dollar bills and now I can sleep with my money!
A true capitalist you are.
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In biological terms we should help each other for the survival of the species unfortunately we just recently evolve a more complex brain a lot of people still has primitive perception of life i dont believe in a god i believe in evolution the problem with our society is we make misconceptions that being selfish is part of having that personality trait but its not true its just a gene expression inherited from an ancestor with an experienced of warfare and become a killer of clans that's why his aggressive and has sociopathic traits beacuse he inherited it from his warrior ancestor education of biology is better than religion or philosophy people will become more rational and emphatic if we remove completely religion from the equation and also religious people think they're special beacuse there imaginary god made them believe theyre superior to animals that's why farm animals are turtored like they dont matter like cows pigs chickens sheeps iam a vegan and i dont need religion and a god to be more emphatic but some people are just hardwired to be sociopaths unfortunately education is the key if we fucos on science we will reach a world with less suffering and closer to a utopia
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