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@joannagooney8342 Thank you for your feedback. I have made a note of this one so look out for a video for petite women very soon. BTW I am 5'3.5' so basically the same height!
@@capsuleclosetstylistthat’s great thanks oh good I am not as slim as you and I have a tummy and a bit busty lol not quite 10 stone a bit self critical lol
I find it relatively easy to follow 'the rules' regarding creating an hourglass shape, etc and generally this looks good from the front (or rear view). HOWEVER....turn to the side and the profile looks awful (particularly in a jumpsuit). I find the best way to combat the profile bulge is to wear well fitting (not bulky) jackets, waistcoats, cardigans etc over the top - but never fastened. That way my waist can still be seen from the front, and the pot belly shielded from the side!
I so agree. I look at myself front on and feel good then catch sight of myself from the side and feel like a giant blob. I do what you suggest and that’s s a great tip. Something that also works for me is to have a longer shirt/tunic that’s relatively fitted across the shoulders and bust then a gentle A-line to my knees. The open v neckline and rolled up sleeves help and then I wear wider leg cropped chinos underneath which give a more contemporary silhouette than leggings or skinny jeans. I also have some oversized tunic jumpers with wide boat neck but tight fitting arms. Somehow, the slim arms make it look as if I’m wearing an oversized garment rather than I myself am oversized. Again, wider jeans underneath looks good or straight leg jeans rather than skinny.
Thank you. Very helpful because I am very self-conscious of my torso area with my love handles so have not been buying anything that skins the body & will try to focus on this next time purchasing blouses!
Could you address how to deal with crepe-y arms when you live in a hot climate? Winters are fine but 4 months of over 110 are difficult! Thanks for all your ideas - they really help.
@@joannastrong20 Treating the skin, have you tried that? Many many treatments available from grocery store on up. Extra moisture is the key. Oils are great, I use castor oil. Then exercise, building the muscle will tighten the skin. Triceps, weights are cheap at Five Below. I did it you can too. Hot weather tip: gauze sleeves.
Hi Michelle, thanks for another informative blog, your helping me to get my mojo back after gaining weight from heart meds & in-activity! Cheers ma dear!!!
@mandarine9322 I am glad you found it helpful. I think it might be sold out in that colour but I got it here rstyle.me/+UzGl9dFQg9SMqq4EOwWIug, rstyle.me/+re0i6ls3mUSly3tbc2DUqg, rstyle.me/+YQ27MLNtxwYgCr6ViXLn1w
@CaroleDesrochers-bw6wv You are very welcome thank you for the feedback. It is not about doing anything wrong, I am sure you are not, but these tips will make a difference. I would sugest trying thesestyles and suggestions on in a shop to try it out.
Hi ive just found your channel and really enjoyed this. I work in a ladies clothes shop which caters for ladies up to size 28 so these tipss will be really useful when advising customers. Most of them do opt for the buffet style dresses and tent style tunics and always want to cover themselves up rather than emphasising their best features so i will now use your arguments to persuade them to try some alternatives. Tfs x
@juliehaig1216 Ah, I am so glad you found this helpful. Yes, gently encouraging them to try is perfect. Sometimes people need a gentle nudge in confidence. Thank you for the feedback.
Great video and really helpful ideas Thankyou Definitely agree with not using so much material and frills I tend to stick with black or navy and cream or navy I don’t wear many prints either I have bought a couple of black blouses for work from matalan cotton and elastin in as I am a bit busty Tend to wear a lot of m and s leggings but I feel after watching your video I need some straight leg elastic waistband trousers or jeans Thanks again
@joannagooney8342 You are very welcome. Just try them on in M&S and see how they feel on you. Prints are ok as they can often help hide the lumps and bumps, but of course, it is also down to your personal preference. Thank you for the feedback.
@CreamPuff-ek8fd So all of what I have suggested here would still apply if you are petite. I am slightly shorter than you haha. However, I take your feedback on board and will create a video dedicated for petite women.
I commend content creators for using ALL size and a variety of ages when suggesting fashion. However I am well over age 60, and am considered slim… So please don’t forget those like me when showing larger size styles! But again, yes, do give visual examples for ALL sizes!
@gigics6695 Thank you for your feedback. As this video is about helping you too look slimmer I wanted to mainly include larger models to demonstrate the difference. I do try to be as inclusive as possible but inevitably I will always miss somebody out.
Loved all the advice! Thank you. I bought a Japanese jacket in deep green. I realise now it will add bulk on my top. I a. Small on the top and bigger than I want to be in the bottom area. I thought by bulking out on my top half I am balancing my weight?! Do I wear it or shall I give it a miss?
@dienerism So if you are in the UK a vest is a camisole and if you are in the US it is what we call a waistcoat. Either way I agree haha. A camilsole vest is great to hold you in plus it acts as a tiny bit of cleavage cover up if work under a wrap top and if worn as a waistcoat then obviously it holds you in!
Hi I love beautiful knitwear but as a 63 year old short woman with weight around my middle, I find most knitwear overwhelmingly warm. Can you suggest a layer to wear underneath that doesn't A add warmth B add any extra bulk, and if I do need to remove the layer of knitwear still looks ok without looking like I'm wearing my vest!!! TIA. Love all your advice ❤
@suzanneharvey6153 Take a look at Become clothing as their layers are supposed to allow the skin to breathe. www.becomeclothing.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw9p24BhB_EiwA8ID5BooFqQzg-TYtur0Ej20kOT_R0tBgtVcpUQfX6zKtrT1On-5wzTT_xRoCMRAQAvD_BwE
You know, I went from a sz 7 -9 in my 20s, to a 12/13 in my 40s & am now 16W-18W inmy 60s (I always need a bigger top due to a large bust) but my basic silhouette did not change. Even when I was at my smallest, certain lines just looked better. I was never quite a perfect hourglass, my waist would be 8 inches smaller than my bust & hips about 2 inches smaller & I was always, always very short/high waisted. It wasn't a problem until the rises in bottoms dropped lower. So I am glad higher rise pants/jeans/trousers have come back. Mid rise hits me at my widest point :( Anyway, the dress you are wearing is exactly the silhouette I go for & own. Plus size tops are such a challenge for the reasons you mentioned. They are pleated at the shoulder, usually high neck & completely A line often with a dowdy elbow length sleeve. It drives me crazy! They are also usually very, very long because people want to cover up their bums when wearing leggings or yoga pants. I am happy to see the shorter peplum & wrap style fit n flare tops now in plus sizes. Plus size bottoms are a little challenging for me since I'm the opposite of a pear & most clothes are made for pear shaped women who carry their weight on their hips & thighs. Exactly where I am slimmer. I also don't have thick arms, why are the arm holes so big & nothing has a set in sleeve? Grrrr. So yeah, the challenge is not all plus size people are Apples or Pears. We still need some tailoring as thicker people 😮
@yensid4294 You are absolutely right. I totally agree. It is almost like they want to encourage women to feel ashamed, and that makes me sad. I think it's getting better. Those tea dress shapes often cater to all sizes of women. I think the best case here would be to find what works and have it adjusted if necessary.
You may think you have "a bit of a tummy" but LOL, you don't have much of a "tummy." Some of us have one that starts at the thickened shoulders/back and the tummy / hips could be confused with a pregnancy. From childhood, I was on get fat diets, terribly thin, until my 40s. We're not talking "a little bit of weight" now. I actually have no idea what I look like. I'm in sz 18 jeans, XL mostly in tops & dresses, 5'8". Was 5' 9 1/2" @ between 100 - 140, then it just kept going. Now 200 lbs. Please consistently use large size models who are older women, if that's possible,, for videos meant for those of us over 60. It's a little disheartening to be reminded of one's buldge-y body when shown models who would look beautiful in anything (and look like many of us when we didn't look like we do now).
@merrim7765 I made this video from many requests to address weight gain. I do not have very much of a tummy myself but have worked with hundreds of women who have. Regarding the images I used in this video, I tried to use larger models; however, I am limited as to what I can access and use legally. So I subscribe to an images service which means I can legally use those images, beyond that I can use some shown in stores if I am including the links to the garments. I can only access what is available to me, and as I do these videos for free, it is not within the budget to pay for models (£100s) or the rights to individual images, which can also be in the £100s. However, I do take this on board and am working towards a viable solution. By the way, all of the suggestions I have made in this video would apply to you or anyone with weight gain around the middle. I hope that explains everything and reassures you. Thank you for your feedback it is greatly appreciated.
Me, too, for the first half of my life, I was “too thin” even though I ate three huge meals a day, and sometimes snacks, I was always hungry. I don’t now think I was too thin, it’s just that other people got upset because I ate so much but was so skinny, they kept insisting I was secretly starving myself! (I wasn’t). That all changed on my 40s, now I’m 64, normal weight and barely get hungry at all.
LOL at your comment "out like that" and your arms do an aeroplane 😂....great advice, I have lots of those tiered summer dresses and knew something was off kilter.
@linda96538 haha Glad you enjoyed it! Some of them might work if you put a belt or a tie belt with them. Try that before you replace them just in case it works.
Please can you do a video on how to look slimmer in winter coats in cold wet weather? A wool coat would not be practical for me as I use public transport.
I have been 50 lbs. overweight and I know these two things look the worst: wearing tent-like, baggy clothes to “hide the fat areas” or wearing clothes that are too small and strain across the body. Actual size is not as important as wearing clothes that fit properly. I definitely sympathize with having to buy larger sizes than the one we used to be, or want to be, but it’s important, not only to look our best, but for comfort to buy the right size for what we are now.
@KimberlyPerrotis Another great point. I totally agree again. It is more about comfortably skimming the body rather than trying to restrain it or drown it in fabric.
@sarahweir4037 Thank you for your comment. I can promise you if it is the tea dress style or fit and flare like I described in th video it does. What it does is gives the impression that you go in around the middle rather than staright up and down. I hope that makes sense.
@sarahweir4037 I know what you mean. I'm generally a UK 12 but my waist is 14 to 16 so ' fitted' dresses are a big no no. Also, I've lost 2" in height resulting in a swimming ring effect around my middle!! For my daughter's wedding, I had to buy size 16 then have it altered at the top. Dress plus alterations around £200 or similar style dress made to measure over £300! Obviously for the occasion I was prepared to pay but not in 'real life'. Oh, and belts just dont work, they shout "look at my flab". Separates 90% of the time for me.
@gailsykes2691 Try clothes that gently come in under the waist. It is hard to cover everybody in one video and to give you advise without seeing you, but from what you have said that might work. 🙂
I know “fashion rules” and “fashion mistakes” make good click-bait, but I don’t really believe there are any. I try to wear mostly flattering clothes, i.e., those that makes us look taller and slimmer, but it’s not something I feel I always must do, either. If I love something, I wear it whether it makes me look slimmer, taller or not. Otherwise, I would be wearing black leggings and a fitted black top everyday and would die of boredom. I’m happy with my figure, I wish I still had my youthful height, I was 2 inches taller then, but it just isn’t going to happen. If we are healthy and fit, we should accept and love ourselves as we are. (Age 64).
@KimberlyPerrotis I think those types of phrases help women who are looking for advice find help. Some really struggle and do not have the confidence and insight you have. I think it is wonderful that you are happy in your own skin and I wish more women to feel like you do.
Plus-sized clothes are just awful, the styles are always unflattering, the color selection is mostly limited to black, and the fabric is hot, sweaty polyester, the last thing we want to wear when feeling a little fleshly. Those brands don’t understand the mature, somewhat overweight female body at all, the waists were smaller than in regular sizes, but virtually every mature woman thickens around the waist eventually. When approaching that size range in my 50s, at about a US size 14/16, I made the effort and lost 50 lbs. Not only am I healthier, I look a lot better in clothes and can wear regular sizes, where a full selection is available. I find that UK brands usually offer larger sizes in their regular lines, unlike the American brands where I live.
Why the definition of waist? It’s only one part of body and it’s more important to feel comfortable in your clothes than how to portray a body image to others. Only in developed countries is this an issue. In Asia, Africa and parts of Arabia the emphasis is on colour.
@maryosborne8417 Great question. Because if you are conscious of your tummy like many women tell me they are, having clothes that gently come in at the waist, or under the bust give you shape and definition. I Do also include advice on colour throughout as I agree that is also important.
Agree with you in all points, but there is one styling mistake, which in my opinion you make yourself: wearing sneakers with dresses. This is a real "proportion killer" which makes the leg look sturdy and the wearer clumsy. The same goes for ankle boots with skirts and dresses - very unflattering and a fashion no-go which should disappear - the sooner, the better
@andreaavnery2059 Hi Andrea thank you for your feedback. I disagree; I think it is a personal preference. That said it is absolutely fine that you do not like it. No everyone will. The beauty of building a capsule wardrobe is that you can fill it with what works for you and ignore what doesn't.
Hi everyone, I hope you found this helpful; if you are looking to edit your current wardrobe, download my FREE guide here: capsuleclosetstylist.com/free/. Let me know how you get on.
So I've been binge watching and love your content. Thank you.
@tracy8836 Ah thank you I am glad you are enjoying it.
Perhaps a video for shorter ladies I am 5’3”
@joannagooney8342 Thank you for your feedback. I have made a note of this one so look out for a video for petite women very soon. BTW I am 5'3.5' so basically the same height!
@@capsuleclosetstylistthat’s great thanks oh good I am not as slim as you and I have a tummy and a bit busty lol not quite 10 stone a bit self critical lol
5 foot 2 inches here, and shrinking
@joannagooney8342 I will cover all sizes.
@jdavery9684 I am 5'3.5 so not much taller.
I find it relatively easy to follow 'the rules' regarding creating an hourglass shape, etc and generally this looks good from the front (or rear view). HOWEVER....turn to the side and the profile looks awful (particularly in a jumpsuit). I find the best way to combat the profile bulge is to wear well fitting (not bulky) jackets, waistcoats, cardigans etc over the top - but never fastened. That way my waist can still be seen from the front, and the pot belly shielded from the side!
@@melaniegriffiths6389 Exactly. This is what I do
@melaniegriffiths6389 I think you have to pick and choose what works for you so you are doing the right thing. This sounds like a great idea 😊
I so agree. I look at myself front on and feel good then catch sight of myself from the side and feel like a giant blob. I do what you suggest and that’s s a great tip. Something that also works for me is to have a longer shirt/tunic that’s relatively fitted across the shoulders and bust then a gentle A-line to my knees. The open v neckline and rolled up sleeves help and then I wear wider leg cropped chinos underneath which give a more contemporary silhouette than leggings or skinny jeans. I also have some oversized tunic jumpers with wide boat neck but tight fitting arms. Somehow, the slim arms make it look as if I’m wearing an oversized garment rather than I myself am oversized. Again, wider jeans underneath looks good or straight leg jeans rather than skinny.
@carolinebennett5615 It sounds as if you have a pretty good grasp of what works for you which is fantastic.
Thank you. Very helpful because I am very self-conscious of my torso area with my love handles so have not been buying anything that skins the body & will try to focus on this next time purchasing blouses!
@karinanagel7358 Yes just try it. It should not be tight or super baggy just to skim your torso. Let me know how you get on.
Could you address how to deal with crepe-y arms when you live in a hot climate? Winters are fine but 4 months of over 110 are difficult! Thanks for all your ideas - they really help.
@joannastrong20 Yes I will add that to my list of suggestions thank you
@@joannastrong20 Treating the skin, have you tried that? Many many treatments available from grocery store on up. Extra moisture is the key. Oils are great, I use castor oil. Then exercise, building the muscle will tighten the skin. Triceps, weights are cheap at Five Below. I did it you can too. Hot weather tip: gauze sleeves.
Great tips! Thank you. Also, I love your hair which is beautiful!
@brendaw.7597 Ah thank you for the feedback. I am glad you found it helpful. Ah thank you the trolls tend to target their dislike of my hair.
Great advice!, I agree with everything. Thank you
@adesign3755 Thank you for the feedback I am glad you found it helpful.
Great tips. Unfortunately I've found some of these things out the hard way!
@nicolecattanach Oh bless you. Thak you for the feedback. I guess that is one of the ways we learn through trial and error.
Luv your ideas. I learned the invaluable asset of vests. It gives me options I can’t normally wear.
Yes please see above I love this idea. Thank you for your feedback.
Loads of practical tips there, thank you! Searching up pre loved merino wool jumpers 😊
Look on Vinted haha
Hi Michelle, thanks for another informative blog, your helping me to get my mojo back after gaining weight from heart meds & in-activity! Cheers ma dear!!!
@JosieCollard-Paine You are very welcome I am glad you are finding it useful. Thank you for the feedback.
Hallo and thank you for this helpful support. Your flowered dress looks fantastisch! Where can i get it?
@mandarine9322 I am glad you found it helpful. I think it might be sold out in that colour but I got it here rstyle.me/+UzGl9dFQg9SMqq4EOwWIug, rstyle.me/+re0i6ls3mUSly3tbc2DUqg, rstyle.me/+YQ27MLNtxwYgCr6ViXLn1w
Great ideas and absolutely love the dress you’re wearing but only xs left. Will definitely look out for that fitted under bust shape dress. 😊
@CazMet-ss3ek If you use that link to Simple Retro (It is in the notes) They have lots of similar styles there that they do get stock back in for.
Hi enjoyed your video and your correct in fashion advice thankyou and yess nipping in under the bust dresses
@joannanangle4876 I am glad you enjoyed it
I guess I am doing all the wrong things! 😅 Love your comments, I will certainly see that I change my style! Thank you!
@CaroleDesrochers-bw6wv You are very welcome thank you for the feedback. It is not about doing anything wrong, I am sure you are not, but these tips will make a difference. I would sugest trying thesestyles and suggestions on in a shop to try it out.
Yess lovely coats
@joannanangle4876 Yes wool is so much better in most cases.
Excellent x
@joannanangle4876 Thank you
Hi ive just found your channel and really enjoyed this. I work in a ladies clothes shop which caters for ladies up to size 28 so these tipss will be really useful when advising customers. Most of them do opt for the buffet style dresses and tent style tunics and always want to cover themselves up rather than emphasising their best features so i will now use your arguments to persuade them to try some alternatives. Tfs x
@juliehaig1216 Ah, I am so glad you found this helpful. Yes, gently encouraging them to try is perfect. Sometimes people need a gentle nudge in confidence. Thank you for the feedback.
Luv u channel!❤
@deborahedelman2659 Ah thank you for the feedback. I am glad you are enjoying it.
Great video and really helpful ideas Thankyou
Definitely agree with not using so much material and frills
I tend to stick with black or navy and cream or navy
I don’t wear many prints either
I have bought a couple of black blouses for work from matalan cotton and elastin in as I am a bit busty
Tend to wear a lot of m and s leggings but I feel after watching your video I need some straight leg elastic waistband trousers or jeans
Thanks again
@joannagooney8342 You are very welcome. Just try them on in M&S and see how they feel on you. Prints are ok as they can often help hide the lumps and bumps, but of course, it is also down to your personal preference. Thank you for the feedback.
So helpful, Thankyou.
V I am glad you found it helpful thank you for the feedback.
Great video. Can you please make a video for 60 plus that are on the shorter side! I am 5 feet 4 inches.
@CreamPuff-ek8fd So all of what I have suggested here would still apply if you are petite. I am slightly shorter than you haha. However, I take your feedback on board and will create a video dedicated for petite women.
I commend content creators for using ALL size and a variety of ages when suggesting fashion. However I am well over age 60, and am considered slim…
So please don’t forget those like me when showing larger size styles! But again, yes, do give visual examples for ALL sizes!
@gigics6695 Thank you for your feedback. As this video is about helping you too look slimmer I wanted to mainly include larger models to demonstrate the difference. I do try to be as inclusive as possible but inevitably I will always miss somebody out.
Loved all the advice! Thank you. I bought a Japanese jacket in deep green. I realise now it will add bulk on my top. I a. Small on the top and bigger than I want to be in the bottom area. I thought by bulking out on my top half I am balancing my weight?! Do I wear it or shall I give it a miss?
@carmensmagicalstorytime5679 No this sounds fine to me only maybe wear it open. I hope that helps.
A vest helps me with my tummy. Luv your ideas.
@dienerism So if you are in the UK a vest is a camisole and if you are in the US it is what we call a waistcoat. Either way I agree haha. A camilsole vest is great to hold you in plus it acts as a tiny bit of cleavage cover up if work under a wrap top and if worn as a waistcoat then obviously it holds you in!
Hi I love beautiful knitwear but as a 63 year old short woman with weight around my middle, I find most knitwear overwhelmingly warm. Can you suggest a layer to wear underneath that doesn't A add warmth B add any extra bulk, and if I do need to remove the layer of knitwear still looks ok without looking like I'm wearing my vest!!! TIA. Love all your advice ❤
@suzanneharvey6153 Take a look at Become clothing as their layers are supposed to allow the skin to breathe. www.becomeclothing.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw9p24BhB_EiwA8ID5BooFqQzg-TYtur0Ej20kOT_R0tBgtVcpUQfX6zKtrT1On-5wzTT_xRoCMRAQAvD_BwE
You know, I went from a sz 7 -9 in my 20s, to a 12/13 in my 40s & am now 16W-18W inmy 60s (I always need a bigger top due to a large bust) but my basic silhouette did not change. Even when I was at my smallest, certain lines just looked better. I was never quite a perfect hourglass, my waist would be 8 inches smaller than my bust & hips about 2 inches smaller & I was always, always very short/high waisted. It wasn't a problem until the rises in bottoms dropped lower. So I am glad higher rise pants/jeans/trousers have come back. Mid rise hits me at my widest point :( Anyway, the dress you are wearing is exactly the silhouette I go for & own. Plus size tops are such a challenge for the reasons you mentioned. They are pleated at the shoulder, usually high neck & completely A line often with a dowdy elbow length sleeve. It drives me crazy! They are also usually very, very long because people want to cover up their bums when wearing leggings or yoga pants. I am happy to see the shorter peplum & wrap style fit n flare tops now in plus sizes. Plus size bottoms are a little challenging for me since I'm the opposite of a pear & most clothes are made for pear shaped women who carry their weight on their hips & thighs. Exactly where I am slimmer. I also don't have thick arms, why are the arm holes so big & nothing has a set in sleeve? Grrrr. So yeah, the challenge is not all plus size people are Apples or Pears. We still need some tailoring as thicker people 😮
@yensid4294 You are absolutely right. I totally agree. It is almost like they want to encourage women to feel ashamed, and that makes me sad. I think it's getting better. Those tea dress shapes often cater to all sizes of women. I think the best case here would be to find what works and have it adjusted if necessary.
Yesss gonup size in blouse then rich it in were you want it cinch in the waist
@joannanangle4876 Yes it is better if it does not gape.
You may think you have "a bit of a tummy" but LOL, you don't have much of a "tummy." Some of us have one that starts at the thickened shoulders/back and the tummy / hips could be confused with a pregnancy. From childhood, I was on get fat diets, terribly thin, until my 40s. We're not talking "a little bit of weight" now. I actually have no idea what I look like. I'm in sz 18 jeans, XL mostly in tops & dresses, 5'8". Was 5' 9 1/2" @ between 100 - 140, then it just kept going. Now 200 lbs. Please consistently use large size models who are older women, if that's possible,, for videos meant for those of us over 60. It's a little disheartening to be reminded of one's buldge-y body when shown models who would look beautiful in anything (and look like many of us when we didn't look like we do now).
@merrim7765 I made this video from many requests to address weight gain. I do not have very much of a tummy myself but have worked with hundreds of women who have. Regarding the images I used in this video, I tried to use larger models; however, I am limited as to what I can access and use legally. So I subscribe to an images service which means I can legally use those images, beyond that I can use some shown in stores if I am including the links to the garments. I can only access what is available to me, and as I do these videos for free, it is not within the budget to pay for models (£100s) or the rights to individual images, which can also be in the £100s. However, I do take this on board and am working towards a viable solution. By the way, all of the suggestions I have made in this video would apply to you or anyone with weight gain around the middle. I hope that explains everything and reassures you. Thank you for your feedback it is greatly appreciated.
Exactly
@colleenjohnson4652 Please see my response above
Me, too, for the first half of my life, I was “too thin” even though I ate three huge meals a day, and sometimes snacks, I was always hungry. I don’t now think I was too thin, it’s just that other people got upset because I ate so much but was so skinny, they kept insisting I was secretly starving myself! (I wasn’t). That all changed on my 40s, now I’m 64, normal weight and barely get hungry at all.
@KimberlyPerrotis I hear this a lot I think it is very common unfortunately.
LOL at your comment "out like that" and your arms do an aeroplane 😂....great advice, I have lots of those tiered summer dresses and knew something was off kilter.
@linda96538 haha Glad you enjoyed it! Some of them might work if you put a belt or a tie belt with them. Try that before you replace them just in case it works.
Please can you do a video on how to look slimmer in winter coats in cold wet weather? A wool coat would not be practical for me as I use public transport.
@steps2truth6885 Yes I could but I would go for coats in a similar cut and shape to the ones I showed but in a trench coat or waterproof style/
That would be great I am 4ft 11 and struggle
@NHSborn It is on the list
I have been 50 lbs. overweight and I know these two things look the worst: wearing tent-like, baggy clothes to “hide the fat areas” or wearing clothes that are too small and strain across the body. Actual size is not as important as wearing clothes that fit properly. I definitely sympathize with having to buy larger sizes than the one we used to be, or want to be, but it’s important, not only to look our best, but for comfort to buy the right size for what we are now.
@KimberlyPerrotis Another great point. I totally agree again. It is more about comfortably skimming the body rather than trying to restrain it or drown it in fabric.
When you have no waist due to a (spare tyre look round the midriff) shaped dresses at waist don’t work?
@sarahweir4037 Thank you for your comment. I can promise you if it is the tea dress style or fit and flare like I described in th video it does. What it does is gives the impression that you go in around the middle rather than staright up and down. I hope that makes sense.
@sarahweir4037 I know what you mean. I'm generally a UK 12 but my waist is 14 to 16 so ' fitted' dresses are a big no no. Also, I've lost 2" in height resulting in a swimming ring effect around my middle!! For my daughter's wedding, I had to buy size 16 then have it altered at the top. Dress plus alterations around £200 or similar style dress made to measure over £300! Obviously for the occasion I was prepared to pay but not in 'real life'. Oh, and belts just dont work, they shout "look at my flab". Separates 90% of the time for me.
@gailsykes2691 Try clothes that gently come in under the waist. It is hard to cover everybody in one video and to give you advise without seeing you, but from what you have said that might work. 🙂
Wearing nice sneakers with dresses and skirts is now considered stylish in both America and Europe, as are ankle boots with dresses and skirts.
@ruthgrady2824 Yes I agree. With anything I think everyone should pick and choose the elements they like from it.
Im the opposite too skinny. But love fasion and dressing up.
@annayoung6610 And so you should ❤️
I know “fashion rules” and “fashion mistakes” make good click-bait, but I don’t really believe there are any. I try to wear mostly flattering clothes, i.e., those that makes us look taller and slimmer, but it’s not something I feel I always must do, either. If I love something, I wear it whether it makes me look slimmer, taller or not. Otherwise, I would be wearing black leggings and a fitted black top everyday and would die of boredom. I’m happy with my figure, I wish I still had my youthful height, I was 2 inches taller then, but it just isn’t going to happen. If we are healthy and fit, we should accept and love ourselves as we are. (Age 64).
@KimberlyPerrotis I think those types of phrases help women who are looking for advice find help. Some really struggle and do not have the confidence and insight you have. I think it is wonderful that you are happy in your own skin and I wish more women to feel like you do.
Sorry ruch in spelling was wrong x
@joannanangle4876 That is ok 😊
I think if you used pictures with more curvy models wearing what you were explaining you could’ve shown your theory better…
Hello thank you for the feedback. I used images that were legally available to me but I appreciate you taking the time to give feedback.
Plus-sized clothes are just awful, the styles are always unflattering, the color selection is mostly limited to black, and the fabric is hot, sweaty polyester, the last thing we want to wear when feeling a little fleshly. Those brands don’t understand the mature, somewhat overweight female body at all, the waists were smaller than in regular sizes, but virtually every mature woman thickens around the waist eventually. When approaching that size range in my 50s, at about a US size 14/16, I made the effort and lost 50 lbs. Not only am I healthier, I look a lot better in clothes and can wear regular sizes, where a full selection is available. I find that UK brands usually offer larger sizes in their regular lines, unlike the American brands where I live.
Unfortunately I entirely agree. A lot of the clothes are almost cut to make a woman feel ashamed. I find that incredibly sad.
Why the definition of waist? It’s only one part of body and it’s more important to feel comfortable in your clothes than how to portray a body image to others. Only in developed countries is this an issue. In Asia, Africa and parts of Arabia the emphasis is on colour.
@maryosborne8417 Great question. Because if you are conscious of your tummy like many women tell me they are, having clothes that gently come in at the waist, or under the bust give you shape and definition. I Do also include advice on colour throughout as I agree that is also important.
Puff a jacket equals Michelin man 😬😁😁😁😁
@joannanangle4876 Haha yes it can do.
Agree with you in all points, but there is one styling mistake, which in my opinion you make yourself: wearing sneakers with dresses. This is a real "proportion killer" which makes the leg look sturdy and the wearer clumsy. The same goes for ankle boots with skirts and dresses - very unflattering and a fashion no-go which should disappear - the sooner, the better
@andreaavnery2059 Hi Andrea thank you for your feedback. I disagree; I think it is a personal preference. That said it is absolutely fine that you do not like it. No everyone will. The beauty of building a capsule wardrobe is that you can fill it with what works for you and ignore what doesn't.