If he loves you, he will ignore you because...| psychological facts about human behaviour

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  • Опубліковано 13 гру 2024

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  • @emmanuellaguerrero557
    @emmanuellaguerrero557 14 днів тому +63

    This is exactly what I experienced..the person is trying to be angry, aloof and harsh sometimes.. But i am not convinced of the actions that the person shows me externally. I am fully aware he hide deep inside. There are times spontaneously the person was very caring.. He confused me..But i know the energy never lies. It just he was trained to hide the emotion.

  • @lynnhall8720
    @lynnhall8720 4 дні тому +19

    Five years ago, a dear friend started "ghosting" me. When I asked him if there was something wrong, he told me that he couldn't be friends with me anymore because he couldn't stop thinking about me and could no longer cope. I was devastated. I haven't heard from him again, but I still miss him and it still hurts enough to bring tears 😢 to my eyes. 😞💔

    • @stephaniescott5757
      @stephaniescott5757 2 дні тому +2

      I’m sorry! I pray one day he comes forward with how he truly feels. My sister is I walked away from my best friend. We were dating then we broke up. Then one day he called me years ago and we started back hanging out. Fast forward I walked away in January 2021 because God spoke to me and told me he was seeing someone else. And I found out he was. That relationship didn’t last at all. So we haven’t spoken to one another and go to the same church. A few months ago my credit card went to his house and I didn’t know. And he gave it to the Sunday school secretary and she gave it to me. After church, I thanked him. And asked him how long he had the card. I can tell by his eyes he stills love me. And I still love him. I pray one day he would just reach out to me and talk. But oh well.
      I pray you are doing okay

  • @aichasenhaji6850
    @aichasenhaji6850 4 дні тому +15

    That's has put my mind at peace...
    He is definitely holding his feelings in a very subtle way🤭
    All my gratitude for this explanation🙏

  • @NibuniPfithu-nd5nk
    @NibuniPfithu-nd5nk 2 дні тому +5

    Couldn't agree more... this is wat exactly happened in my life...n we are together again ❤😊

  • @Abirami-b5v
    @Abirami-b5v 3 дні тому +9

    Once we are in a long distance relationship... I don't think so he loves me still... "It's an infactutaion. Take care of ur family. Don't think about me anymore" he said and left me without proper reason. I can't forget him. He's still on my mind. And he is happy now I konw he is happy without me😔😓But I'm still in love with him😢 How can I change my mind?? I'm trying a lot to forget him but I can't😕

  • @kasiastar552
    @kasiastar552 4 дні тому +8

    IT LOOKS AND SOUNDS LIKE WE ARE ACTUALLY THE SAME. I LOVED HIM SO DEEPLY ( STILL do ) and was behaving like this. Being afraid of loosing him, thinking if he really loves me, feeling so vulnerable and scared ….
    Not knowing how to fully express my feelings 🥹

  • @cryptozain-6069
    @cryptozain-6069 День тому +1

    In my own case, I had someone I really love. Two years ago we met up, had great time, the next day he went back to his base and after some weeks he stopped talking to me. I began calling and texting but he wouldn't reciprocate. Then some months later I stopped to see if he would care the check up on me but he didn't till date. He left without an explanation and it hurts so bad, the silent rejection hurts. It's been two years now I'm still trying to heal, I can't even open my heart to anyone because I love him so much. I feel so miserable while he's there posting on social media and enjoying his life.

  • @mitulsunderaj2150
    @mitulsunderaj2150 2 дні тому +3

    Oh God!!!! You made me see the other side of the coin...Oh God!!! How lo....ng have I been misjudging my husband and causing misery to myself and to him too!!!! I shall mend my ways and become more kind hence forth!!!! Thank you dear Akka, who ever posted this. You have truly de bugged my mind!!!! Thanks a lt.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 2 дні тому +1

      ..don't fool yourself..this video Is about early stage of a connection...usually after a short break a man could turn back the either with a yes or with a no...or Never come back which means no.

  • @Isjmj
    @Isjmj 3 години тому

    He does all the above❤I am blessed, and so is he😘🙏🤝

  • @vickyferreira3259
    @vickyferreira3259 2 дні тому +1

    This is the first video I've seen explain his absence in this way. It is giving me hope. He's ghosting me after an argument, but he hasn't blocked me on social media and he hasn't taken his things back. He does have depression and ptsd from past traumas. He tells me he loves me and things about his past and his concerns about his life in the future.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 2 дні тому +1

      Don't t fool yourself...the video does't speak about arguing..

    • @deeptibhongade9760
      @deeptibhongade9760 День тому

      I m going through the same , it has been 1 year now

  • @UmarSaleem-ep9op
    @UmarSaleem-ep9op 11 днів тому +10

    I luv psychology as a Great Subject of Interest!

  • @nargishnusrat8197
    @nargishnusrat8197 8 годин тому

    I misunderstood him but this video helped me to view my unconditional love from a different angle,Thanq for uploading this video.Thanq Universe,Thanq God for our positive reunion and reconciliation 100 percent.I strongly claim it positively and release all the bad karmas1000000000000000000000000000000000percent.

  • @ankitkullu9811
    @ankitkullu9811 Хвилина тому

    Thanks a lot for the well explanation...... though he has been sharing every plan of his life I feel he doesn't have any interest on me. But this of your video gives me hope of our love. God bless you

  • @donnameyerssister2018
    @donnameyerssister2018 7 годин тому

    Thank you so much ❤ this video helped me to understand the silent distance taking place.

  • @NanaMartinsonKankahMensah
    @NanaMartinsonKankahMensah 4 дні тому +3

    Hmmmm, I am really blessed by this message. It really helped me over my great worries

  • @mebithajames6010
    @mebithajames6010 День тому

    It's very true... Thank you for sharing this.. I didn't even know about this part..

  • @sadiyyahgovan7661
    @sadiyyahgovan7661 4 дні тому +3

    I really appreciate this positive energy
    healing message ✨️ Thank you understand
    alittle better now❤❤

  • @poetgallery
    @poetgallery 4 дні тому +2

    Very helpful especially at a time as this. Thanks bunch!😊❤

  • @beenachacko4113
    @beenachacko4113 20 годин тому

    Exactly...it's very true❤

  • @marysuzettecatipon6147
    @marysuzettecatipon6147 10 годин тому

    You have a point there. ❤

  • @virgosep10
    @virgosep10 8 днів тому +13

    Haven't you heard the term SITUATION SHIP?? In our generation people are more interested in having fun rather then something long lasting and seriously stable. Don't fool us.

    • @parishadnz.6048
      @parishadnz.6048 2 дні тому +1

      ..what Is fun about not hearing or seeing spmebody you are supposef to have fun with?? Even when we play with cards we get serriously focused so that we enjoy really playing!

  • @DJUniMekaju
    @DJUniMekaju День тому

    This actually sounds like what my husband and I were going through but that took some years after abuse and neglect. Now, my survival needs aren't being neglected anymore but he says he doesn't want to be with me yet he says he wants to take care of me for the rest of my life as a SAHM to our daughter in a house together... Not only that but my daughter and I have been noticing him looking at me in a way as if to get me to look back but it's so uncomfortable. It was funny cuz we were at a department store eating food. I was so hungry I kept moaning from enjoying it. He asked me what was wrong or going on twice. 😆 Can't deny this is way too confusing, and messes with my mind and heart too much though.

  • @louisehamilton1286
    @louisehamilton1286 6 днів тому +4

    This is sy beautiful and l have been experiencing exactly what this beautiful blessing and message has said to me I am speechless as it has confirmed so much what is happening with me with an amazing person, who l love passionately and intensely. I can't thank you enough for confirming something that has bothered me not knowing what was going on but now l know. Whoever you are who brought brought this amazing message l love you and may God bless you so very much as l can't control my tears 😢 l knew My Heavenly Precious Father would show me 😂 what was happening. Thank you My Loving Lord and KING OF KINGS AMEN ❤😂👑❤️🙏⚔️🛡️

  • @MonicaGomes-l3i
    @MonicaGomes-l3i 5 днів тому +3

    Yea this msg has helped me for understanding ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @YOLO09122
    @YOLO09122 4 дні тому +4

    Even I understand him; I cannot build a relationship when he insists on ignoring me. I change my reaction in too many ways to find a road for our relationship, to make him feel comfortable. But nothing works. What should I do? Left and convine myself that I am nothing to him.

    • @anzu6895
      @anzu6895 2 дні тому

      I'm in the same situation as you

    • @Monika23ization
      @Monika23ization 2 дні тому +1

      He's definitely not in love with you!

    • @YOLO09122
      @YOLO09122 2 дні тому

      @ only he knows that

    • @YOLO09122
      @YOLO09122 2 дні тому

      @@anzu6895 God bless you😘

    • @anzu6895
      @anzu6895 2 дні тому

      @@YOLO09122 for the time being, ignore him. If he values you he will come, he will reflect on what you have done for him.

  • @Isjmj
    @Isjmj 3 години тому

    I feel the same way🤝

  • @jenniferjulian4119
    @jenniferjulian4119 21 годину тому

    Thanks for this video ❤I am going through the same thing

  • @mariacristinaorgasan7855
    @mariacristinaorgasan7855 4 дні тому +1

    Thank you for enlightenment ❤ i overthink the situation even if i don't have proof enough. ❤❤❤

  • @ss-xe4jn
    @ss-xe4jn 3 дні тому

    Thank you so so much...am so relieved bcoz i had been overthinking lot.....been experiencing same for some years...anger,pushing away etc

  • @YOLO09122
    @YOLO09122 3 дні тому +8

    Yes, he checks on me indrectly
    Yes, he supports me silently
    Yes, he listens even when he doesnot speak much.
    But all I want is him. I can tell him what he wants to know; I can explain his misunderstanding; why doesn't he choose to ask me directly? Before I met him, I handled my own problems. It matters to feel love, not to help me solve my problem.

  • @angeltaurus58
    @angeltaurus58 15 днів тому +6

    I wish this all is True in Zee nd my case ...
    Missing u Zee seriously 😔

    • @louisehamilton1286
      @louisehamilton1286 6 днів тому +1

      Trust keep Trusting l will be praying and know nothing is impossible with God and like that beautiful song by Don Moen GOD WILL MAKE A WAY. God bless you xx❤️❤️🙏

    • @angeltaurus58
      @angeltaurus58 5 днів тому

      @louisehamilton1286 Thnku so much for ur prayers

  • @Missbrdl
    @Missbrdl 5 днів тому +3

    He already clearly said there's nothing between us, these are only attraction, this is not love, go live your life happily, he is ignoring me and he is silent because he doesn't love me I'm not the person he wants😂 but he should clear all these things before we attached to each other😢

  • @JenkaMaria
    @JenkaMaria 5 днів тому

    🙏 Thank you so much for sharing. I guess, that's the state, he's in for the last 4 weeks. Distant and calm.

  • @KoditsoeMorai
    @KoditsoeMorai 3 дні тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this helpful information I used to lose my mind when he starts ignoring me ❤❤❤

  • @Ajinny1010
    @Ajinny1010 3 дні тому

    Thank you so much. I now understand the situation more clearly

  • @sangitasaikia2927
    @sangitasaikia2927 День тому

    Thank you so much universe for everything ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @victorious-xs8od
    @victorious-xs8od 11 днів тому +2

    Thank you 😊

  • @stayreal120
    @stayreal120 День тому

    Thank you beautiful soul ❤️

  • @mayizhikanswata9605
    @mayizhikanswata9605 6 днів тому +1

    Thankyou very much❤❤❤

  • @Ventfulmuch
    @Ventfulmuch День тому +1

    this is so stupid if a male loves you it should be upfront and loud, he’s selfish and only thinks about himself.

  • @nadjilab.madsig1231
    @nadjilab.madsig1231 14 годин тому

    My current situation 💔😭

  • @Anjaliwhoelse_
    @Anjaliwhoelse_ 3 дні тому

    Ya that's helpful 💕

  • @F16wing
    @F16wing 2 години тому +1

    My husband loves me all the time, so this post is not for me. This post need a person 's critical thinking to figure out what the truth is. Ppl who ignore a person is mostly for a man who has low self esteem and mostly the guy has nothing to offer. My former classmate is like this with horrible low esteem and low confidence. I think ppl who are diagnosed with terrible vitrovirus disease has been suffering mental illness. Folks, never pick someone who could not spend time with u or they are mute weirdo. I never consider any guy who is shy or quiet as someone special or someone to whom i want to get to know about. I have no time to deal with any weiro with dysfunctional personality. The korean dramas are not realistic, and please do not allow anyone u care to watch them.

  • @berthavasquez1949
    @berthavasquez1949 4 дні тому

    Thank you so much for posting this because I don’t understand why a mango silent🎉

  • @lakshmipriya9855
    @lakshmipriya9855 2 дні тому

    Yes ,of course it's true 😂

  • @idolcarol5264
    @idolcarol5264 4 дні тому

    I think it’s true!

  • @tikatizyanendhlovu4607
    @tikatizyanendhlovu4607 3 дні тому

    Very wired just came across this video after being ignored, I can't take this anymore I feel like his messing around with my emotions. 😔

  • @vyshnaveenagakumar2928
    @vyshnaveenagakumar2928 8 днів тому +3

    GREAT ,GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, GREAT, MADAM SUPERB AND VERY ,VERY FANTASTIC, THANKS A LOT MADAM, A VERY GOOD VIDEO MAM, THANKS A LOT MAM, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 NAMASTE

  • @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen
    @journalistjude.ginuwinesqueen 2 дні тому +1

    Okay!

  • @joycegoes266
    @joycegoes266 15 днів тому +1

    Today is 'our lady' at our house. You come for 'our lady'. Today evening at 6.30 is our lady.

  • @happywanderer111
    @happywanderer111 4 дні тому

    Thank you

  • @BananiRoy-u8h
    @BananiRoy-u8h 2 дні тому

    This is exactly

  • @NehaRana-h8k
    @NehaRana-h8k 4 дні тому

    Thank you❤🌹

    • @suhaibkhalid2792
      @suhaibkhalid2792 4 дні тому

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    • @suhaibkhalid2792
      @suhaibkhalid2792 4 дні тому

      Are you doing job in Amazon , olching dmu 1 , germany?

  • @shrutisangavishrutisangavi965
    @shrutisangavishrutisangavi965 2 дні тому +1

    But he was obsessed withe that time but he is ignoring meike I am stranger....what to do?.....

  • @Renee-nt9ws
    @Renee-nt9ws 10 годин тому

    Amen 🙏

  • @nurulnasrudin
    @nurulnasrudin 4 дні тому

    Yes thank you because I love you full

  • @Extraordinary15
    @Extraordinary15 3 дні тому

    How much the time😊.....its a question in this journey😊

  • @Che_etah
    @Che_etah 5 днів тому

    Exactly 🎉

  • @ponakaveena2496
    @ponakaveena2496 5 днів тому +1

    S it is happening with me❤

  • @sangeetadhar4127
    @sangeetadhar4127 14 днів тому +2

    He is doing the same with me.
    I am confused if he loves me❤

  • @Elizabethanadozie
    @Elizabethanadozie 16 днів тому +2

    Nice

  • @MeA79
    @MeA79 4 дні тому +1

    Is there any man if so then please do let me know if its exactly true because my man is showing mix emotions in front of me he forgets everything just reminding me and then on phone he shows mix emotion sometimes get ghost for 8 days then came back all this in loop

  • @hee_ra107
    @hee_ra107 11 днів тому +1

    Rite!!!❤️

  • @kritikachaudhary5947
    @kritikachaudhary5947 День тому

    And sometimes we thought that he has now no interest in us
    Is that true

  • @sreeparnaray7512
    @sreeparnaray7512 16 днів тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Redge-
    @Redge- 3 дні тому

    How about telling you that he loves you,but blocked you as you told him..

  • @osasieimadonmwuyi4853
    @osasieimadonmwuyi4853 День тому

    🥺🥺🥺🥺

  • @meenakshia6439
    @meenakshia6439 5 днів тому

    Mother of two kids

  • @beautyfashionandvlogsbysamayra

    But when i purposed him he ssid he dont feel thd same for me

  • @Creophagous
    @Creophagous День тому

    No, someone ignoring someone is just an idiot. It may work on women who are superficial. But on me it doesn't. I take it at face value that they are not interested and move on. Simple as that.
    Psychological Impact on the Ignored Woman
    -Hurt and Rejection: Ignoring someone can be interpreted as a form of rejection, leading to feelings of hurt, sadness, and lowered self-esteem.
    -Confusion and Anxiety: Being ignored can create confusion and uncertainty. The woman may wonder why she's being ignored and what she did wrong, leading to anxiety and stress.
    -Anger and Resentment: If the ignoring continues, the woman may become angry and resentful towards the man. This can lead to further conflict and damage the relationship.
    -Self-Doubt: Prolonged ignoring can erode a woman's self-confidence and make her question her own worth.
    This suggests that the man is intentionally ignoring the woman to diminish her value, both in the eyes of others and in her own self-perception.
    What happens when a woman who loves herself is ignored?
    When a woman who loves herself is ignored, she is likely to respond in a way that prioritizes her own well-being and self-respect. Here are some potential outcomes:
    1. Disappointment and Disengagement:
    -Initial Disappointment: She may feel disappointed and hurt, especially if she valued the connection.
    -Emotional Detachment: She will likely begin to emotionally distance herself from the person ignoring her.
    -Reduced Effort: She will reduce the effort she puts into the relationship, as it's clear her efforts aren't reciprocated.
    2. Setting Boundaries:
    Clear Communication: She may directly communicate her feelings about the situation, setting clear boundaries.
    Reduced Availability: She may limit her availability to the person, prioritizing her own time and energy.
    Cutting Ties: In severe cases, she may choose to completely cut ties with the individual, recognizing that the relationship is not healthy or beneficial.
    3. Self-Focus and Growth:
    -Prioritizing Self-Care: She may turn her attention inward, focusing on self-care, hobbies, and personal growth.
    -Strengthening Self-Worth: She may use this experience to further strengthen her self-worth and confidence.
    -Seeking Support: She may seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to process her emotions and gain perspective.

    • @LadduXt
      @LadduXt День тому +1

      So basically it's your pov ... And it shows that you are narcissist
      If she truely* loves u then she I'll never ignore u and never stop doing efforts on her relationship/love ....
      That's my pov~👍

  • @katarina7292
    @katarina7292 4 дні тому

    I ❤ my husband only

  • @diamondlove6891
    @diamondlove6891 3 дні тому

    And behind this video is a bread crumber of a man 😂😂😂😂

  • @ligiaproenca1211
    @ligiaproenca1211 3 дні тому

    It is two sided not one sided

  • @kalaikalaiseivi8921
    @kalaikalaiseivi8921 11 днів тому

    Sry no idea.....

  • @mrs.shaluverma7412
    @mrs.shaluverma7412 8 днів тому

    😯🙄

  • @geekgoddess3738
    @geekgoddess3738 4 дні тому

    I don't even know anymore. I just want to be free from this crap that's all I know. Lmao

  • @ChristinaLubumad-l7u
    @ChristinaLubumad-l7u 2 дні тому

    😂 Wahahaha another one talking to herself 😂

  • @lipsaraniboxi3614
    @lipsaraniboxi3614 2 дні тому +1

    Stop this nonsense

  • @RedmiMi-n9e
    @RedmiMi-n9e 5 днів тому

    Idk what's going on or what's waiting in the future but i trust my man won't make me upsett !! 💗🫀

  • @vs7711
    @vs7711 2 дні тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @maristella525
    @maristella525 2 дні тому

    Thank you

  • @Archulamz2246
    @Archulamz2246 7 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤