If they don't call or text you, they're not interested in you - no matter what they told you before. Don't believe in words or messages, believe in the truth of their actions. No action - No interest.
I'm stronger because I HAD to be. I'm smarter because of my mistakes, happier because of the sadness I've known, and now wiser because ---- I've learned !
If they dont call you for a long time ,they dont miss you,can easily do without you, have compleatly forgot you even exist, hide there where abouts from you, no use waiting for someone like that. You will be wasting your time!
I have a sister & brother like that. We haven't communicated since our mom's passing 7 years ago. Sad that your own family can sometimes be your worst enemy 😢
@@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox I'm going thru the same thing too. My sister was never supportive when my husband passed away from Covid. We have no children. Not once she came to see me. I moved to SC to be near by my brother and my sister, in hope that we might be able to be together again. She's only 40 mins - not once she came to see my new home. My brother and I have been meeting for coffee or lunch or dinner once a week. He came to my house to watch my dog while I go away for vacations. I will never see my sister again. It's just the way it is. I think she's insincere. I've asked many times to meet up with her. I have stopped trying. I don't call her anymore. It's been total of 7 years. 3 years since I moved. It is sad. but why? I don't know what's her reason? My brother thinks it's all jealousy, she's always been that way. That's not my problem. She has more things in her life than I do. She has 3 beautiful children and husband to go to home, I don't. It's just me and my dog. What's there to be jealous of? That's crazy to throw away a sibling over senseless. Someday your siblings will come around when it's ready. God is with you all the time.
@@Chuncy566 What are great gift. The Evil Spirit who hates you and wants to destroy and who pretends that they love you just left you. You didn’t even have to do anything to stop the torture. It was done for you! What a Gift. Now take your life and go live in peace and love and happiness and never look back! If you Value your Life then that’s exactly what you will do! Good Luck 👍🏽 ❤️
Same scenario for me. Since my parents have both passed, I feel I have no family. I just concentrate on my children. It's a shame they don't have aunties /uncles that show interest in them.
The sad thing in my situation is its my own 3 Daughters, We weren't just Mother and Daughters we were all best friends. Very close until my Husband and I were both diagnosed with Treminal illnesses and needed help. My Husband was very sick with Lung and Brain Cancer. They didnt visit call or text. When i did they seemed like they didnt have time. The last 4 weeks of his life he had to be in a nursing home. Then they came.i guess to be seen.im still here but never see them. We have one Son who never left our side.Hes living with me and does almost everything for me when i get bad. This has been so awful with the girls. I still cant believe it. I never thought in my wildest dreams they would be like this. There 41,38 and 35. My Son 44 and he was a cna for 12 years. So is very good with me. Im so Thankful. My Precious Husband of 49 years Died on my 65th Birthday January 2nd this year. We had such a blessed life together 5 Precious Children, our oldest Daughter is in Heaven with Him. 11 Precious Grandchildren. Sorry to ramble, Good to get it out.😢😢😢😢😢
@@TammyHultquist I'm so sorry for everything you've gone through. I know it's a lot, & thats putting it mildly. But just keep praying for your daughters & trust God to do the rest. That's what I'm doing. I only have 1 daughter, she is almost 40 now. I myself am going on 64. My daughter began pulling away from me at age 10, then left home at age 17. Even to this day she has nothing to do with me & even slander me on facebook and maybe on Instagram too. We used to be so close, I did my best to give her everything I never had including my love. I always bought her gifts, and took her to Knotts Berry farm & Disneyland quite often. I just wanted my daughter to know I love her so much and just wanted her to be happy. Like I said she was until age 10. At age 10 she wanted to date the 26 year old men. I told her no. And that's why she pulled away & turned on me. I do consider myself to be a good mother, But I'm not about to let a 10 year old date full grown adult men. Now that she is an adult and moved out of state, all I can do is continue to love her and keep her in my prayers.
@@irinewest5377 Just continue to love them & pray for them. That's the best love a mother can give. I literally had to put my daughter in God's hands & trust Him to do whatever is best. Just trust God.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
Hard, painful lesson to learn but i understand my solitude much better these days. I need to heal my inner child anyway, so she likes to be alone. Amen. Praise to TMH
"Things that hurt you actually teaches you" this is the one that is encouraging me @ the present moment but i've learned and loved all the quotes thank you for sharing❤🙏🙌
People are mean and cruel. Best to stay away and keep to yourself much as possible. Took many let downs, but after 50 years I finally accepted it will Only get worse..not better.
Even online they are. I could have said the same thing, but probably got around HALF as many upvotes/people agreeing. Especially with my old username. Edit: Scratch that, probably 1/4 or 1/5 as many. And no, my user name was NOT innapropriate.
No matter what u hear as an elderly. Remember u are a recycled. Teenager. Have a sense of humour eat plenty fresh fruit. Walk as fast as u can. Avoid toxic people. An sing. Yes Sing. It’s great therapy I’m 76. Never let me down God Bless 8:098:09
From now on if anyone asks how old I am or comments on my age I will say I AM A RECYCLED TEENAGER FANTASTIC and THANK YOU FOR ADVICE NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN 😂😂😂😂
LIFE GOES ON IT MAKES YOU STRONGER DON'T FEEL DISILLUSIONED THE PERSON IS NOT WORTH IT .... NOT RESPONDING IS CALLED BAD MANNER'S YOU LEARN AND BECOME WISER LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL DON'T WASTE YOUR TEAR'S HUG'S N KISSES TO THE LOVELY PEOPLE I LOVE 💕 YOU ❤❤❤❤❤
GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY PPL NEED TO TEACH TEACH THEIR CHILDREN TO FOCUS ON GOD AND HELPING AND SERVING OTHERS AND GETTING AWAY FROM THE NARCISSISTIC SEXUAL LIFE LOOK UP ACIDIC JEWISH PEOPLE FROM BROOKLYN LOOK UP THE MORMONS THE AMISH THE MENNONITES THE OCCASIONS AND HOW THEY LIVE OKAY LOVE YOURSELF AND BE OKAY WITH BEING ALONE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND TO BE HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE HAPPY AS A CHILD WHO HAS PEOPLE NEED TO BE TAUGHT TO LOVE THEMSELVES OKAY AND NOT COULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE AND NOT BE ADDICTED TO TO FAMILY AND PEOPLE BECAUSE MOST FOLKS ARE NOT WHAT THEY USE TO BE 🙏
I had a former best friend who I cared a great deal about as he was going through the very same things I was going through in life and tried to encourage him to continue onward, until one day he left a message saying because he doesn't have a university degree, and other things that were abusive, then calling me a a-hole. Never heard from him ever since. I do miss him, and care about him however it's what he wanted so, so be it. I don't beg anybody for their friendship, best to let others go and not get involved with people at all. This way, you'll never get hurt ever again.
Wonderful. I’ve applied these wise words into my personal development journey and it works beautifully. Although it can be painful losing friends in your life it’s a good thing in that your Soul is progressing and you’re true to yourself 🦋
@sallycreitzman1953 What is really hard is having a best friend since were 21, and now at 70, hardly ever hear from her. I have been trying to keep the friendship going, but it just makes me feel sad
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
It is very clear that I need solitude as so many people; family and friends have disappeared from my life. I am cleansing and healing ✨️ it is truly a magnificent journey, one that was initially challenging, but now I simply embrace with ease. Thank you for this video.
Sometimes you just have to REMOVE people without warning! We're getting too old to be explaining what they already know they're doing wrong ! Don't waste your time ! I didn't !
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Best from my experience not to join any civic organizations or churches either. People try to take advantage of others if they can, also gossip andtry to control others. People can meet in small groups or spend time online.
For me to be Civilized, kind & Etiquette towards others has always been my nature, That's just the way I am. Yet for many years now, people who say they are my friend's belittle me, gaslight me, ostracize and ghost me. ect. After so much of it, decided to cut them loose & move on for my own inner serenity & joy again. Now I live my life without toxic people in it. & I'm so glad too. Because now Im much more happier & Serene.🤗💕💕
Wouldn't even know what my nieces and nephews and their kids look like if I passed them on the street!! It's sad but the truth, COVID didn't help with not seeing people either!! This is depressing!!
There is no singsingle answer to this point. No answer is black or white. Without question and communication, we're always guessing. The ego loves guesswork, it's easier to corrode. Love trust, take risks, never isolate. Yes take some time for you, but always stay connected. Too much love from you, is never wrong. It is what the world is short of. There is no I, in us x
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
You'll thank her for leaving as its going to allow you have an amazing life and meet really good people. Starting is the hard part , enjoy your journey 🫡
They can do without u or they struggle with their parents insecurities finances doubts yes without knowing a person. My very own experience. I know who I am in life and live live as it comes. My own peace and happiness comes 1st. I don't go near negativity..in family is what I can't avoid. Sure enough my success shut their mouth
It means that they never care nor had any intentions to be with you. Taking advantage of people's love. That he didn't plan on keeping. Liar's who denied knowing each other. Strong but weak. Regretting to help a person. Knowing that one survived the unthinkable. Nothing is what he thinks i am.
Yes, we need to talk so that no doubt, to know and analyze.before you jump into conclusion.clarity arise.im sure you understand me.Tell a mediator to talk so that we can manage.ok needed to talk because to release' the things to settle.
People seem to forget that communication is a 2 way street. If a person is upset that someone hasn’t called/texted them, why haven’t they called/texted that person?
Then the question is....who makes the first move? Who reaches out to the other person first? And, what if you find yourself being the person that usually or always makes the first move (reaches out)?
@ Does it matter who makes the first move? First, listen to how enthusiastic they are when you call, if it’s somewhat cool then you might have a good idea of the relationship.
Friday evening we said. Good night. Love you etc. haven’t heard from him since. Ghosted me all weekend. We’ve been in a relationship that’s complicated for 8 years.
IT'S NOT THEY WHO IS THE PROBLEM BUT MYSELF WHO NEITHER CALLS OR TEXTS. MY FAMILY HAS TO CALL ME OR FRIENDS AND ALL IT MEANS IS I HAVE TOO MUCH IN MY MIND DEALING WITH MY OWN CRAP!!!
What about people who keep calling you even though you rather they didn’t! someone who calls regularly just to off load their problems... they quickly turn the subject back to them after grudgingly asking you how you are and you have just begun to tell them
That's the way my narcissist friend is you'll say something he'll change the subject completely different from what what I was talking about let's say for instance hey Jeff I Got a Brand New Pair of Shoes and he says it's supposed to rain today I think I'm going to go do this and I'm going to go do that and I'm doing this and I'm doing that I'm sick of this dude for real
Al Anon teaches you can love someone dearly and still live a life yourself that isn't dependent on everything the other person is doing. Sometimes less clinging and just finding your own personal stability becomes healing for both of you. I think the others are correct when they say "work on your own independent person" and see where it goes. It does produce maturity if nothing else. Truly wishing you the best😊
I have many friends I do not hear ffrom months at a time.I also know so many people I can not stay in touvh with everyone.many people I know travel. It would be a huge job to stay in touch with everyone all the time
If they don't call or text you, they're not interested in you - no matter what they told you before. Don't believe in words or messages, believe in the truth of their actions.
No action - No interest.
Exactly.
I'm stronger because I HAD to be. I'm smarter because of my mistakes, happier because of the sadness I've known, and now
wiser because ---- I've learned !
If they dont call you for a long time ,they dont miss you,can easily do without you, have compleatly forgot you even exist, hide there where abouts from you, no use waiting for someone like that. You will be wasting your time!
I have a sister & brother like that. We haven't communicated since our mom's passing 7 years ago. Sad that your own family can sometimes be your worst enemy 😢
@@AngelaGibbs-ue8ox I'm going thru the same thing too. My sister was never supportive when my husband passed away from Covid. We have no children. Not once she came to see me. I moved to SC to be near by my brother and my sister, in hope that we might be able to be together again. She's only 40 mins - not once she came to see my new home. My brother and I have been meeting for coffee or lunch or dinner once a week. He came to my house to watch my dog while I go away for vacations. I will never see my sister again. It's just the way it is. I think she's insincere. I've asked many times to meet up with her. I have stopped trying. I don't call her anymore. It's been total of 7 years. 3 years since I moved. It is sad. but why? I don't know what's her reason? My brother thinks it's all jealousy, she's always been that way. That's not my problem. She has more things in her life than I do. She has 3 beautiful children and husband to go to home, I don't. It's just me and my dog. What's there to be jealous of? That's crazy to throw away a sibling over senseless.
Someday your siblings will come around when it's ready. God is with you all the time.
@@Chuncy566 What are great gift. The Evil Spirit who hates you and wants to destroy and who pretends that they love you just left you. You didn’t even have to do anything to stop the torture. It was done for you! What a Gift. Now take your life and go live in peace and love and happiness and never look back! If you Value your Life then that’s exactly what you will do! Good Luck 👍🏽 ❤️
Same scenario for me. Since my parents have both passed, I feel I have no family. I just concentrate on my children. It's a shame they don't have aunties /uncles that show interest in them.
What about tit for tat
Also forget you never e ven knew they were on Planet Earth. Revenge ! In other words
Have been living this for 18 years now. Peace is an amazing feeling
Freedom too.
The sad thing in my situation is its my own 3 Daughters, We weren't just Mother and Daughters we were all best friends. Very close until my Husband and I were both diagnosed with Treminal illnesses and needed help. My Husband was very sick with Lung and Brain Cancer. They didnt visit call or text. When i did they seemed like they didnt have time. The last 4 weeks of his life he had to be in a nursing home. Then they came.i guess to be seen.im still here but never see them. We have one Son who never left our side.Hes living with me and does almost everything for me when i get bad. This has been so awful with the girls. I still cant believe it. I never thought in my wildest dreams they would be like this. There 41,38 and 35. My Son 44 and he was a cna for 12 years. So is very good with me. Im so Thankful. My Precious Husband of 49 years Died on my 65th Birthday January 2nd this year. We had such a blessed life together 5 Precious Children, our oldest Daughter is in Heaven with Him. 11 Precious Grandchildren. Sorry to ramble, Good to get it out.😢😢😢😢😢
Oh boy that is rough. All I can say is take care of yourself and learn to just move forward to make your life peaceful.
My gosh what a story. This is bloody sad. If you were good parents to them girls then this is very sad. Your son is amazing. 🍀
@@TammyHultquist
I'm so sorry for everything you've gone through.
I know it's a lot, & thats putting it mildly.
But just keep praying for your daughters & trust God to do the rest.
That's what I'm doing.
I only have 1 daughter, she is almost 40 now.
I myself am going on 64.
My daughter began pulling away from me at age 10, then left home at age 17.
Even to this day she has nothing to do with me & even slander me on facebook and maybe on Instagram too.
We used to be so close, I did my best to give her everything I never had including my love.
I always bought her gifts, and took her to Knotts Berry farm & Disneyland quite often.
I just wanted my daughter to know I love her so much and just wanted her to be happy.
Like I said she was until age 10.
At age 10 she wanted to date the 26 year old men.
I told her no.
And that's why she pulled away & turned on me.
I do consider myself to be a good mother,
But I'm not about to let a 10 year old date full grown adult men.
Now that she is an adult and moved out of state, all I can do is continue to love her and keep her in my prayers.
@Sereneandmiraclefreespirit my all kids are awful ... But, at least, she has a son who is caring ❤
@@irinewest5377
Just continue to love them & pray for them.
That's the best love a mother can give.
I literally had to put my daughter in God's hands & trust Him to do whatever is best.
Just trust God.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
I promise you will not regret it
Never beg for love ,attention , & recognition .Ceasing pursuit is the answer .
I am learning every day not to get attached to anyone God' is my faithful companion ❤
In Jesus' name amen 🙌
Agree...
@@lornahaynes7886 👍🩷
Hard, painful lesson to learn but i understand my solitude much better these days. I need to heal my inner child anyway, so she likes to be alone. Amen. Praise to TMH
Amen 🙏
Absolutely, when someone says something nice to me anytime, it makes me feel
so so good 👍 and make my day.
No contact for 1 yr and I delete their number, that's how I weed out lukewarm half hearted ppl....
No hearted people towards me.
After a year I don't delete their number, I put it in digital purgatory, works for me.
"Things that hurt you actually teaches you" this is the one that is encouraging me @ the present moment but i've learned and loved all the quotes thank you for sharing❤🙏🙌
People are mean and cruel. Best to stay away and keep to yourself much as possible. Took many let downs, but after 50 years I finally accepted it will Only get worse..not better.
Even family members. Especially family members.
Nothing like your. own company music from the 60 70 and your needlework or which ever hobby you interested in. Patricia South Africa 🌍🌍
@@dannyvestal299 🩷👍🙏
Even online they are. I could have said the same thing, but probably got around HALF as many upvotes/people agreeing. Especially with my old username.
Edit: Scratch that, probably 1/4 or 1/5 as many. And no, my user name was NOT innapropriate.
I find peace attending Catholic Mass/receiving the Holy Eucharist and praying the Holy Rosary🙏
No matter what u hear as an elderly. Remember u are a recycled. Teenager. Have a sense of humour eat plenty fresh fruit. Walk as fast as u can. Avoid toxic people. An sing. Yes Sing. It’s great therapy I’m 76. Never let me down God Bless 8:09 8:09
Yes, we should always sing the song of our souls to live a musical life. And that's it.
From now on if anyone asks how old I am or comments on my age I will say I AM A RECYCLED TEENAGER FANTASTIC and THANK YOU FOR ADVICE NEVER TOO OLD TO LEARN 😂😂😂😂
Move on think about your self give it to god😇
LIFE GOES ON IT MAKES YOU STRONGER DON'T FEEL DISILLUSIONED THE PERSON IS NOT WORTH IT .... NOT RESPONDING IS CALLED BAD MANNER'S YOU LEARN AND BECOME WISER LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL DON'T WASTE YOUR TEAR'S HUG'S N KISSES TO THE LOVELY PEOPLE I LOVE 💕 YOU ❤❤❤❤❤
GREETINGS FROM KENTUCKY PPL NEED TO TEACH TEACH THEIR CHILDREN TO FOCUS ON GOD AND HELPING AND SERVING OTHERS AND GETTING AWAY FROM THE NARCISSISTIC SEXUAL LIFE LOOK UP ACIDIC JEWISH PEOPLE FROM BROOKLYN LOOK UP THE MORMONS THE AMISH THE MENNONITES THE OCCASIONS AND HOW THEY LIVE OKAY LOVE YOURSELF AND BE OKAY WITH BEING ALONE THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AND TO BE HAPPY AND HAVE PEACE HAPPY AS A CHILD WHO HAS PEOPLE NEED TO BE TAUGHT TO LOVE THEMSELVES OKAY AND NOT COULD NOT BE DEPENDENT ON PEOPLE AND NOT BE ADDICTED TO TO FAMILY AND PEOPLE BECAUSE MOST FOLKS ARE NOT WHAT THEY USE TO BE 🙏
I had a former best friend who I cared a great deal about as he was going through the very same things I was going through in life and tried to encourage him to continue onward, until one day he left a message saying because he doesn't have a university degree, and other things that were abusive, then calling me a a-hole. Never heard from him ever since. I do miss him, and care about him however it's what he wanted so, so be it. I don't beg anybody for their friendship, best to let others go and not get involved with people at all. This way, you'll never get hurt ever again.
No communication from someone is pretty easy to figure out and it doesn't mean they're waiting to hear from you 🤔
It's a blessing in certain cases!
Amen 🙏
1 thing for sure / two things for certain ; spot on Ladd 😮😊
Dam.....even from a "friend" right?
@@marcusknoll9500 yeah unfortunately 😔
Let go and let God! It’s so peaceful and rewarding!
@@Sci-d9c yes!🩷
Great Words Of Wisdom/ Knowledge 👍🌟✨💯
I let him go cuz he was hurting me over and over again, enough is Enough !!!
So Inspiring I'm going to apply all these messages to myself Thank You 🙏🙏🙏
Up to myself.. And negativity doesn't help anyone
Wonderful. I’ve applied these wise words into my personal development journey and it works beautifully. Although it can be painful losing friends in your life it’s a good thing in that your Soul is progressing and you’re true to yourself 🦋
@sallycreitzman1953
What is really hard is having a best friend since were 21, and now at 70, hardly ever hear from her. I have been trying to keep the friendship going, but it just makes me feel sad
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
When a man does not call you, your women friends will tell you that he is shy or afraid of his own feelings-your men friends will tell you the truth.
😂😂😂🖕. 🎸🕺🏍️🏉🍺👍👍😊👍
When a woman doesn't call you, she doesn't like you.
@@debaser_666 It is that simple!
When a man don't call you ,no message and font coming în visit don't love you, don't like you .😊
@@LăcrămioaraLianaBuriana Improper grammar but right idea.
It is very clear that I need solitude as so many people; family and friends have disappeared from my life. I am cleansing and healing ✨️ it is truly a magnificent journey, one that was initially challenging, but now I simply embrace with ease. Thank you for this video.
I love my peace thankyou for the life lessons.
It means she doesn't care plain and simple.1111
Multumim! 🙋♀️Pretuiesc aceste povete, le citesc cu placere si le am insusit si respectat !
Duminica binecuvantata!
Noapte buna🙏
Thank God , she and i are now together.our love is infinite.
Long. Absence. Makes. Forget. Or. Otherwise. Yes. ❤❤❤❤
Sometimes you just have to REMOVE people without warning! We're getting too old to be explaining what they already know they're doing wrong ! Don't waste your time ! I didn't !
Best from my experience not to join any civic organizations or churches either. People try to take advantage of others if they can, also gossip andtry to control others. People can meet in small groups or spend time online.
I have been trying to end this situation for years now i'm done with everything
Some of these truths can depress the hell out of you
Mumbo jumbo mind-boggling crap
For me to be Civilized, kind & Etiquette towards others has always been my nature,
That's just the way I am.
Yet for many years now, people who say they are my friend's
belittle me, gaslight me, ostracize and ghost me. ect.
After so much of it, decided to cut them loose & move on for my own inner serenity & joy again.
Now I live my life without toxic people in it.
& I'm so glad too.
Because now Im much more happier & Serene.🤗💕💕
Move on take care of your self things will get better😇
Thank you for this message
Trauma makes people dissociate. Maybe you should check on them!
"Your past doesn't define you. It just gives you the starting point of who you are to be" // game over :)
Sometimes life gets so Real that you don't want to burden someone else with your problems, just offer it up to God. Live & let it go.
They don't want you in their life and that's fine with me. Not ever going to be in his life again. Last time was the last time.
That means… they lost their phone and your number wasn’t backed up😂
What ever.. Don't care.. No call no message.. Won't die
I agree
Facts
I wish that I could get there
If you r less than perfect a lot of people just don t bother with you.
I sometimes look in the mirror and think have I done something wrong?
Excellent video thanks brother
Sometimes just let it be.
Yes i learnt that the hard way.
Very nice thoughts and advice Thanks sir
Wouldn't even know what my nieces and nephews and their kids look like if I passed them on the street!! It's sad but the truth, COVID didn't help with not seeing people either!! This is depressing!!
Best advice ever❤
A few reasons, Too busy,,,, Trying to distance the relationship, ...Maybe the person is ill , try contacting the person
If you want forgiveness forgive others
There is no singsingle answer to this point. No answer is black or white. Without question and communication, we're always guessing. The ego loves guesswork, it's easier to corrode.
Love trust, take risks, never isolate.
Yes take some time for you, but always stay connected. Too much love from you, is never wrong. It is what the world is short of.
There is no I, in us x
I dont need people full stop. I have quite a few ex-friends i totally ignore and can live without very easily.
So true and beautiful, I sure can learn a lot from this.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
You'll thank her for leaving as its going to allow you have an amazing life and meet really good people. Starting is the hard part , enjoy your journey 🫡
Good advice thanks for sharing
They can do without u or they struggle with their parents insecurities finances doubts yes without knowing a person. My very own experience. I know who I am in life and live live as it comes. My own peace and happiness comes 1st. I don't go near negativity..in family is what I can't avoid. Sure enough my success shut their mouth
Deepest Gratitude ❤
Profoundly Amazing Quotes 🙏💯
"When A Person Doesn't Call Or Message You For A long Time ' it may be because they've felt used or slighted by you.
the big hurt, changes you, its time for self reflection. stand alone be wise, never give up, love yourself do right, love others, just know love hurts
It means that they never care nor had any intentions to be with you. Taking advantage of people's love. That he didn't plan on keeping. Liar's who denied knowing each other. Strong but weak. Regretting to help a person. Knowing that one survived the unthinkable. Nothing is what he thinks i am.
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Right! Thank you!💥
It means nothing because one can't change anyone.
A loser falls down and stays down, a winner falls down and gets back up.
Bravo!!!!!!! Great ones.......Thanks
It is all true, but not evident to live like this.
I AM FILING IN THE MORNING I BEEN IN A DARK SPACE THREE MONTHS IM DONE I NO LONGER WANT HIM OR THE MARRIAGE MY KIDS ALL I NEED WAT I CREATED💔🙏🏾💔🙏🏾💔
People, places and things come into your lifetime for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Yes, we need to talk so that no doubt, to know and analyze.before you jump into conclusion.clarity arise.im sure you understand me.Tell a mediator to talk so that we can manage.ok needed to talk because to release' the things to settle.
People seem to forget that communication is a 2 way street. If a person is upset that someone hasn’t called/texted them, why haven’t they called/texted that person?
Then the question is....who makes the first move? Who reaches out to the other person first? And, what if you find yourself being the person that usually or always makes the first move (reaches out)?
@ Does it matter who makes the first move? First, listen to how enthusiastic they are when you call, if it’s somewhat cool then you might have a good idea of the relationship.
And even if you die they won't give a damn.
Great wisdom! Words to live by!❤
It could mean they are dead .
There really is an art to living life
Tq for yours kind lessons.
Really it's good advice thank you
Protect my life from danger amen
Thank you.
Friday evening we said. Good night. Love you etc. haven’t heard from him since. Ghosted me all weekend. We’ve been in a relationship that’s complicated for 8 years.
Yes it happened to me.But there wont be a next time.
Love every quote of this vidio
Very uplifting!
IT'S NOT THEY WHO IS THE PROBLEM BUT MYSELF WHO NEITHER CALLS OR TEXTS. MY FAMILY HAS TO CALL ME OR FRIENDS AND ALL IT MEANS IS I HAVE TOO MUCH IN MY MIND DEALING WITH MY OWN CRAP!!!
Very good.
What about people who keep calling you even though you rather they didn’t! someone who calls regularly just to off load their problems... they quickly turn the subject back to them after grudgingly asking you how you are and you have just begun to tell them
I ended a 20 year friendship because of this.
That's the way my narcissist friend is you'll say something he'll change the subject completely different from what what I was talking about let's say for instance hey Jeff I Got a Brand New Pair of Shoes and he says it's supposed to rain today I think I'm going to go do this and I'm going to go do that and I'm doing this and I'm doing that I'm sick of this dude for real
You're a good listener.
The truth always comes out in the end is the only unmovable bar in thesr words of advise.Others are contingent
Yes 💯 amen 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
7:47 truee
Amazing!
Oh, great this is real uplifting.
Al Anon teaches you can love someone dearly and still live a life yourself that isn't dependent on everything the other person is doing. Sometimes less clinging and just finding your own personal stability becomes healing for both of you. I think the others are correct when they say "work on your own independent person" and see where it goes. It does produce maturity if nothing else. Truly wishing you the best😊
I have many friends I do not hear ffrom months at a time.I also know so many people I can not stay in touvh with everyone.many people I know travel. It would be a huge job to stay in touch with everyone all the time
..here is talking about whom you are supposed to hear form.
Thank you for this ❤
Imo, happiness is just an illusion! 😖
Thanks brother
Amazing 🕊️
The stupid thing is they listen to the wrong people, Can’t make their own mind up.
All these comments are true I knew from the start
Some well placed wisdom!
Give me Trista. You guys are killing her