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  • Ratna Pathak Shah talks about her relationship with Naseeruddin Shah and how she used to bully Supriya Pathak during childhood. She shares how her upbringing defied societal norms, thanks to her progressive parents, who never discriminated between Supriya and her and encouraged both sisters to learn to drive. She recalls her grandmother's reaction to the birth of two granddaughters.
    Ratna Pathak Shah with Siddharth Aalambayan for the 75th episode of 'The Male Feminist'
    Location courtesy: Mitron Bandra
    1:20 - Was Mumbai safe?
    1:48 - Eve teasing incidents
    2:12 - Delhi is unsafe for women
    2:50 - Family being against girl child
    3:15 - Influence of their mother
    3:30 - Ratna Pathak’s father was a liberal man
    4:00 - No gender discrimination at home
    5:08 - Motivation from home
    5:35 - Ratna Pathak’s father was unhappy with marriage
    6:00 - Ratna Pathak’s mom being Naseeruddin’s Bestfriend
    6:10 - In laws never asked to ‘Convert’
    6:28 - Supportive in-laws
    6:55 - Hacks for a successful marriage
    7:35 - Naseeruddin coming from a traditional background
    7:56 - Ratna Pathak on not having gender roles after marriage
    8:08 - No labels in relationships
    8:20 - Ratna Pathak and Naseeruddin Shah as parents
    8:35 - Ratna Pathak on kids growing up backstage
    9:18 - Being a mother of 2 boys
    9:46 - Imparting period and sex education to boys
    10:00 - Parsis are not cool about menstruation
    10:20 - Getting sex education from books & gossip
    11:10 - Didn’t want to know sons’ love life!
    12:08 - Having Supriya Pathak as a sister
    12:25 - Ratna being an emotional bully to Supriya
    12:50 - Comparison between Ratna & Supriya on sets
    14:00 - Breaking stereotypes
    15:25 - Portrayal of women in films was very limited
    16:30 - Sexualization of women in movies
    17:05 - Lipstick Under My Burkha
    18:35 - It’s not easy for men to stand up
    19:15 - Kaamwali Bais are an inspiration
    20:50 - Old fashioned ideas of men and women
    21:25 - “Main Mard Hoon” dialogue in Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
    22:50 - Pay disparity during Sarabhai VS Sarabhai
    23:50 - Consenting adults having sex is not wrong
    25:10 - Idea of a modern woman today
    25:30 - Feminism
    26:10 - Changes during menopause
    27:54 - Red flags
    28:42 - Green flags
    29:00 - Message to your 16-year-old self
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 127

  • @joyouslife09
    @joyouslife09 2 місяці тому +97

    She’s a delight to watch every time she’s on an interview! Wisdom, dignity and strong persona do come very rare these days and she’s one of them for sure.

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому +6

      She is full of grace and wisdom. We loved having her on our show!

    • @kalahasan2284
      @kalahasan2284 2 місяці тому +2

      Totally agree.

    • @revivebs7388
      @revivebs7388 19 днів тому +1

      100% . Cant agree more !

    • @rajaniradhakrishnan302
      @rajaniradhakrishnan302 16 днів тому

      Absolutely smart, confident witty and dignified 💖💖

    • @varshakaurav
      @varshakaurav 5 днів тому

      Watch exmuslims sahil zafar heretic sameer Sachwala

  • @ushabhat4568
    @ushabhat4568 8 днів тому +3

    You are one interviewer who stands different, matured and knows what to ask the opposite person based on their life experiences and make them open up. Thanks for such conversations which brings awareness.

  • @subhradharbiswas2428
    @subhradharbiswas2428 2 місяці тому +26

    Why label relationships..actually this is what spirituality teaches us, and believe me once we put it into our daily life being life's great!
    Thank you hautterfly for bringing her and the candid show is just amazing 😊

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому

      We are glad you loved the episode! You might want to check out our other interviews here: ua-cam.com/video/KkJ6MZ1YUno/v-deo.html

  • @KukrejaLata
    @KukrejaLata 2 місяці тому +16

    Everyone loves her bindaas attitude towards life and people's ideology in our society BOLD with brains

  • @anitafernandes807
    @anitafernandes807 Місяць тому +4

    Love listening to her! Everything she says is absolutely true. We need to see her in some good roles on the OTT platform.

  • @mayak2676
    @mayak2676 2 місяці тому +26

    Wonderful conversation...she's always a delight to listen to ...so uninhibited

  • @RakshitKulkarni-eg3hl
    @RakshitKulkarni-eg3hl 10 днів тому +1

    Such a beautiful , sharp , crisp interview.. thank you :)

  • @gaganwadhwa9535
    @gaganwadhwa9535 День тому +1

    Very nice interview 👌👌
    Great Conversation 👍👍

  • @TruthLover1208
    @TruthLover1208 9 днів тому +2

    I only love to watch her and Naseer sir’s interview in Bollywood. It’s a treat always!

  • @nehasangra3197
    @nehasangra3197 2 місяці тому +5

    👏 Thank for this interview

  • @nalinisharma3752
    @nalinisharma3752 2 місяці тому +4

    Always look forward to her interviews

  • @__Reena_P
    @__Reena_P Місяць тому +1

    Amazing woman, amazing interview!!🎉🥳
    Ratna Ji is in excellent epitome of the modern thinking woman!!👏🏻👏🏻
    I totally can relate to her…👍🏻
    Love from London ❤️

  • @Exist247
    @Exist247 Місяць тому

    Maza aaya ye interview dekh ke . Bht kuch sikhne ko mila . Kafi interesting laga .

  • @4getify
    @4getify 7 днів тому +1

    Shes wonderful to listen to....well articulated wisdom.
    Kudos to the interviewer - you allow your guest to speak and ask just the right questions at the right time.

  • @mariumtariq2536
    @mariumtariq2536 2 дні тому

    It is always a pleasure to listen miss Ratna Pathak ❤

  • @sabinasurty9027
    @sabinasurty9027 4 дні тому

    Very nice interview. I like her boldness and she is a superb actress. Very well spoken.

  • @kalahasan2284
    @kalahasan2284 2 місяці тому +10

    I so relate to her views about songs like " Aap ki nazron ne samjha pyar ke kaabil mujhe". God so damn regressive. Why should I be considered kaabil by some damn male?? Or " Sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye“ or " Charnon mei jo na jagah paoon ". I hate these patriarchal songs. When will men learn?????

    • @vidhikgdu
      @vidhikgdu 5 годин тому

      "Tumhi mere Mandir, Tumhi meri pooja ,Tumhi Devta ho"
      is also Supermysoginistic song .

  • @rajyavardhanshetty6463
    @rajyavardhanshetty6463 Місяць тому +3

    I love this lady ...oh ..god.. where has this breed of artists gone...

  • @sugandhadogra1781
    @sugandhadogra1781 2 місяці тому +20

    Meanwhile Monisha , Mummuji wahan gae he they toh free ki coffee pi aate ! 😂

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому +3

      Meanwhile mummy ji, Don't be so middle-class Monisha! 😂

  • @archanakumaridasgupta5536
    @archanakumaridasgupta5536 2 місяці тому +1

    She always reminds me of and has a huge resemblance with my friend Divya. I absolutely love this lady.❤

  • @Ayesha_F
    @Ayesha_F 7 днів тому

    God, I love this woman 🔥❤️
    And great interview as always, Siddharth!

  • @abhinavrana1116
    @abhinavrana1116 2 місяці тому +4

    Was waiting to see Ratna Mam on the show. ♥️🤌🏻
    Thanks Siddhaarth for bringing her. ✨🌻

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому +1

      We really had a wonderful time interviewing her. So much to learn from her!

    • @abhinavrana1116
      @abhinavrana1116 2 місяці тому

      @@hauterrfly IKR❤

  • @ashwinikhedkar4713
    @ashwinikhedkar4713 2 місяці тому +3

    Always love to watch her nd listen her❤❤boss lady❤

  • @manishamali19
    @manishamali19 Місяць тому

    Very nice episode

  • @jyotilewale
    @jyotilewale 23 дні тому

    So inspiring❤

  • @Wanderlust1988
    @Wanderlust1988 20 днів тому

    Wonderful conversation

  • @Deadpool-rh1up
    @Deadpool-rh1up 2 місяці тому +6

    Why camera change so much it's distracting

  • @ss-ib8gm
    @ss-ib8gm 2 місяці тому +8

    punjabi grandmother married gujju pathak so love marriage so why no to girls . i am from matriarchy nairs in kerala we celebrate girl child at least in oldtimes. now ig is changing.

    • @praagyaanandjha8691
      @praagyaanandjha8691 2 місяці тому +2

      Not gujju pathak is Brahmin up bihar😊

    • @Yhibvdawxcvgnhjj
      @Yhibvdawxcvgnhjj 2 місяці тому

      Maybe because the first married someone of totally different ideology sort of man and the second daughter married a second hand husband , already married with children.
      As she said her mother and her husband had a Rocky relationship.
      So, parents are usually tensed for their children.
      She is the same woman who criticized karwa chauth,the brainwash is evident.

    • @DevanChauhan
      @DevanChauhan 22 дні тому

      ​@@praagyaanandjha8691 Her mother was Gujarati (Dina Pathak) also a film actress, married to Pathak, someone from North.

  • @zinam4980
    @zinam4980 2 місяці тому +1

    Always a pleasure listening to her❤❤

  • @onkarthorat1630
    @onkarthorat1630 2 місяці тому

    I liked the interaction.💌

  • @Btsthvislife
    @Btsthvislife 2 місяці тому +2

    She is so intelligent

  • @pranoditasahoo9082
    @pranoditasahoo9082 2 місяці тому +6

    Is it only me or does the video feels really rushed? There are no pauses in the video to give a thought or feel anything.

  • @aratiunadkat6739
    @aratiunadkat6739 Місяць тому

    She is just too good. Point about Mills and Boon is so to the point

  • @amvisible
    @amvisible 2 місяці тому +3

    Really important topic.

  • @Paricahere
    @Paricahere 2 місяці тому

    Absolutely love her thoughts

  • @ChintanShah01
    @ChintanShah01 2 місяці тому +4

    I love Ratna pathak as a person. ❤
    Superb Siddharth Greta job 🎉

  • @technicaltreasures7297
    @technicaltreasures7297 15 днів тому

    She's so right about delhi and mumbai crime scene

  • @LAKSHMIVIYER
    @LAKSHMIVIYER 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow it was worth watching ..superb loved it

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому

      We are glad you loved it. What was your favourite part of the interview?

  • @vandana2524
    @vandana2524 2 місяці тому

    Always favourite ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @CrazyWatcher670
    @CrazyWatcher670 2 місяці тому

    Ratnajee never fails.

  • @BhuvanaAdyaRakesh
    @BhuvanaAdyaRakesh 2 місяці тому +5

    With consent sex is wrong when an lover misuse women for sex in the name of love

  • @fatimarashidali4061
    @fatimarashidali4061 7 днів тому

    She is so amazing ❤

  • @saumyamishra6631
    @saumyamishra6631 2 місяці тому +7

    Why she gives her opinion on serious stuff , why can’t she stays in her zone & do her stuff
    These pseudo intellectual overtly glorified with weird world view are nuisance

    • @fantuabadir8151
      @fantuabadir8151 3 дні тому

      If India is a democracy then every citizen has the right to give their opinion on subjects that interests them, serious or otherwise,
      Just like you did with your comment. You may agree or disagree with her opinions.
      Peace to all

  • @rahnumakhan5234
    @rahnumakhan5234 2 місяці тому +1

    I like love her views... Sadly I dont know any women like her..

  • @bhavikarathod4442
    @bhavikarathod4442 Місяць тому +1

    Why is the video soo short? Seems like it is edited to much

  • @leelabangera6467
    @leelabangera6467 2 місяці тому +8

    I just luv ratna mam...so spontaneous n intelligent 😊

  • @ASY.3
    @ASY.3 2 місяці тому +6

    So much of camera shifting. Really distracting.

  • @nellymirchi
    @nellymirchi 8 днів тому

    Loved the interview but the best part was Sid asking her if she was a hugger. That’s a green flag right there. ❤

  • @NV-oi9ov
    @NV-oi9ov 2 місяці тому +3

    Heeba is her step daughter right..The same girl who was found hitting veterinary doctors and helpers at a vet clinic for not attending her pet first just cause she's Naseer's daughter.

  • @user-mw9kc1xz2v
    @user-mw9kc1xz2v 2 дні тому

    Pandit and muslim love story ❤
    It exists in our society

  • @ShubhamKumar-of1rb
    @ShubhamKumar-of1rb 2 місяці тому

    no i couldnt help it. i was helplessly in love with and dreaming about something like mills & boons all my life, and I always will. genre: soft romance. it wasn't too raunchy and had just the right amount of everything.
    god, I always hated saas bahu soap opera. they were so toxic. i was dying for something fresh all my life during teens and I just hated my mom being glued to those dumb, shitty k soaps. all I remember is my good old Doordarshan programs.
    I'm glad someone finally said it. patronizing is a red flag.

  • @nb4u1983
    @nb4u1983 15 днів тому

    ❤❤

  • @boyman9787
    @boyman9787 2 місяці тому

    I find her very animated when she speaks….reminds me of Frances mcdormand

  • @shraddhawarang65
    @shraddhawarang65 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful and intelligent, in and out ❤

  • @nehabhalerao076
    @nehabhalerao076 2 місяці тому +3

    How the way she is keeping her leg on the table ?? Is this Nice mannerism Attiquites ?

    • @raulera5202
      @raulera5202 26 днів тому +4

      Yes it's absolutely fine since she isn't interviewing to get hired for a job. It's a very casual setting just like chatting and hanging out with a friend.

    • @bhargaviyathiraj5597
      @bhargaviyathiraj5597 9 днів тому

      @@raulera5202its disgraceful for a person

    • @raulera5202
      @raulera5202 9 днів тому

      @@bhargaviyathiraj5597 to each their own, if Ratna effin Pathk Shah felt like doing it she did it, the interviewer beared it why does anybody else need to point it out and keep the hell continue talking about it. As I'm very sure she is very unapologetic about it. We need to get out of the sanskaar trap. Aisa kuch nahi hota hai.

  • @gracienunes2604
    @gracienunes2604 Місяць тому

  • @Btsthvislife
    @Btsthvislife 2 місяці тому +1

    Maya sarabhai 💅🏻

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому +2

      Forever favourite character! But we also loved as Imran Khan's mom in Jaane Tu ya Jaane Na😍

  • @rajeshwarihemmadi3229
    @rajeshwarihemmadi3229 Місяць тому

    👍👍👍👍👍❤

  • @zacryan8333
    @zacryan8333 46 хвилин тому +1

    She demonizes hindu rituals. Why doesn't she say the same stuff for the concept of conversion for marriage, burqa, hijab, halala, naming kids only islamic names etc.

  • @dr.khushbooagarwal786
    @dr.khushbooagarwal786 3 дні тому

    Maya sarabhai

  • @ss-ib8gm
    @ss-ib8gm 2 місяці тому +4

    ekta kapoor should be banned those serisls ruined our lives we were not watching but there was nothing good coming because of them the movies of 199oscwere bad songs were cheap , old doordarshan seriels rajini , udaan etc were so envouraging but by thevtime we came to high school these regressive serials came up

    • @kavi1501
      @kavi1501 Місяць тому

      So true .. Doordarshan serials were the best

    • @sunitasraj3309
      @sunitasraj3309 2 дні тому

      What about the horror serials and shows. They are terrible.

  • @anjalitarade7214
    @anjalitarade7214 4 дні тому +1

    Yes after all it is love jihad

  • @SeemaNamirani
    @SeemaNamirani 10 днів тому +2

    She comes across as a Fake.

  • @MehwishLiakat
    @MehwishLiakat 2 місяці тому +2

    So privileged 😂

  • @SomshekarG
    @SomshekarG 12 днів тому +2

    The interviewer seems to be paid by the guest....unke har ek baat pe haan haan...yeah yeah...interviewer is supposed to understand their view not necessarily agree to it. And it's so disrespectful to show such good songs in bad light...it may have seemed regressive but the song might have fit in the situation of the movie... By disrespecting the song u have disregarded all those people who worked hard on that song. Aur yeh jo itna modern bank phirti hai...apne time pe kisi ke liye aawaz uthati Hui Nazar nahin aayi...only thing she could say is "shayad main tab yeh position mein nahin thi" ...to bring the change, to voice out opinions u don't have to be in a position to do so. She always is seen demeaning hindu culture and traditions. This is the same woman who spoke vile about karwa chauth. U r free to express ur views but not by disrespecting one's own culture or tradition or way of living. Just like u have ur own choice...rest also have their own choice.

    • @roso7963
      @roso7963 10 днів тому

      its called a personal opinion.. you seem to be a snow flake

    • @roso7963
      @roso7963 10 днів тому

      she never disrespected any culture she just spoke the truth,, there Is no evolution in this culture.. I will say the same thing. why is there so much feminism in India.. you may be the type to observe karma chauth, and hide your menstrual cycles hush hush types and who knows maybe you sit at your mans feet.. I agree with Ratna, Karva Chauth is a stupid tradition I do not care what the significance is. Its my personal opinion. and tumhe kaise pate k isne awaaz nahi uthayi.. tab kaha social media tha? koi awaz Utha tha ta to koi print nehi karta tha.. you should go and enjoy your saas bahu serials.. that suits your personality best. :)

    • @roso7963
      @roso7963 10 днів тому

      if its your choice then go live your stupid traditions.. why do you care to point out Ratna.. but you have to come n bark here!! no wonder India isn't growing n people aren't changing.. its because of people like you

    • @SomshekarG
      @SomshekarG 10 днів тому +1

      Another woke ..woke up.... If u have guts put out a video on halala, and burkha and yes about taharrush jamai ( kabhi suna bhi hai ya pata nahin)

  • @bhuletansingh7981
    @bhuletansingh7981 Годину тому

    Madam, now who restrict u to convert, what about your offsprings.

  • @nunpr
    @nunpr Місяць тому

    I wish I understood Hindi. I like really her attitude. Fortunately some parts of interviews are English. 🤍

  • @124tripathi4
    @124tripathi4 2 місяці тому +1

    Wonderful conversation

    • @hauterrfly
      @hauterrfly  2 місяці тому

      We are glad you enjoyed it. What was your favourite part of the interview?

  • @thesentientvibe
    @thesentientvibe 2 місяці тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @swapnilkamble2429
    @swapnilkamble2429 2 місяці тому