Cherishing Moments We’ll Soon Forget | {THE AND} Sidra & Ben (Part 2)

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    In Part 2, Sidra and Ben explore how they’ve changed since they’ve met, and talk about what is still to come. Sidra can’t wait to see the role Naiya will play as a big sister, and Ben hopes his daughter can break an alarming trend he has noticed in the women in his life as she grows older. If you missed out on Part 1, catch it here: bit.ly/SidraBen...
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    Cherishing Moments We’ll Soon Forget | {THE AND} Sidra & Ben (Part 2)
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  • @JeanetteKramer
    @JeanetteKramer 6 років тому +724

    These two are so damn poetic.

    • @ylonely3649
      @ylonely3649 6 років тому

      Jeanette Kramer nothing soo dam poetic at all about watching a guy who is being so dam hard left out. LOL

  • @njameela92
    @njameela92 6 років тому +483

    Ben: "Being shaped like clay in the hands of her mother"
    Me: 😭

  • @Oheyimchar
    @Oheyimchar 6 років тому +590

    I think such a huge part of their communication is honesty, but also respect. when they hear the other say something to them that was hard for them to say (how they truly felt about a situation etc.) rather than being offended in some form or challenging what was said, they seem to take a step back and appreciate that it was said to them, because they realise that this can help them to grow & their relationship to grow, and then they thank them for having said it. I feel this is the most important lesson I can take from these two (its so so easy to get caught up in the moment and react with ego instead of heart)

    • @Oheyimchar
      @Oheyimchar 6 років тому +26

      I also like that they thank them for having said it, rather than always having to give a full response right away. because this makes the other person feel heard and respected, while giving the receiver time to contemplate a real full response to what was said, instead of it having to be rushed. thank you Sidra & Ben for the lessons

    • @ANya9281
      @ANya9281 6 років тому +4

      yeeeeesss i feel like this is the essence of their relationship! This is what relationships are made of. :D

    • @DeeDubb247
      @DeeDubb247 5 років тому +2

      Absolutely agree! I've watched all of the videos with this couple and they're active listeners, which is very difficult to find! It's refreshing to watch

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 4 роки тому

      Yesss!

  • @flashingredd
    @flashingredd 6 років тому +582

    these two set such a beautiful example of how communication needs to be between a couple.

  • @laurafertile9284
    @laurafertile9284 6 років тому +280

    Watching them is unlike watching any one else in this series. They are truly engaged in such a persona private conversation. Straight from the heart, no ego based responses. It’s so entrancing to watch. They’re meant to be.

  • @chiaramaffei3739
    @chiaramaffei3739 6 років тому +361

    We asked for Ben and Sidra - The And listened and they delivered! Thank you! ❤

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  6 років тому +31

      Our honor and pleasure. We do our best :)

    • @loravipperman3061
      @loravipperman3061 4 роки тому +1

      They're the reason I subbed to this channel

  • @OnaSalvatFebrero
    @OnaSalvatFebrero 6 років тому +314

    he really just said COMBUSTIVE or MERCURIAL, who are these people

    • @rubenestrada3561
      @rubenestrada3561 6 років тому +8

      My exact thought lol

    • @nocegyrpo6082
      @nocegyrpo6082 5 років тому +1

      It doesn't matter.. I like them.

    • @pepper1188
      @pepper1188 4 роки тому +2

      Actors

    • @Niasmar
      @Niasmar 4 роки тому +1

      Scientists lol

    • @lakep7798
      @lakep7798 3 роки тому +2

      Yesssss!!! Yes indeed, these two are the most articulate people I’ve heard in a VERY long time. How refreshing!

  • @natcourt8719
    @natcourt8719 6 років тому +482

    Ben is a poet. That last answer brought me to tears.

  • @katelynhuff8008
    @katelynhuff8008 6 років тому +185

    I love the first thing she said to him and the last thing he said to her. Imagine someone being so enamored with you that he or she is turned on by watching someone else experience the magic of meeting you for the first time.

    • @immers2410
      @immers2410 4 роки тому +2

      I know right?

    • @MrKry
      @MrKry 3 роки тому +3

      Yes, and it's very emotionally clever as well. Instead of feeling left out or jealous it feeds her passion instead. Great stuff.

  • @wow-si6th
    @wow-si6th 6 років тому +109

    Some of my favorite moments between these two is when they finish answering a question and they just stare in each others eyes for just a couple seconds longer. You can truly see their souls intertwined. I’ve never seen any two humans connect on this level before and they are a huge part of why I believe in soul mates.

  • @nehadee8719
    @nehadee8719 6 років тому +149

    Been following them since their first video in 2015, even though they kinda look different now, they're still exactly the same beautiful couple they were back then. Absolutely adore them! ❤️

    • @CrustyUgg
      @CrustyUgg 6 років тому +2

      Neha Deë in 40 years their beauty will shine through.. Its their souls.

  • @kirathelightworker
    @kirathelightworker 6 років тому +116

    I could listen to these two beautiful beings articulate their deepest thoughts and feelings toward each other for hours. They are both so naturally poetic! Their ability to communicate so openly and honestly is the key to a strong and healthy relationship.
    P.S-- Can we take in how BOMB Sidra's boots are?! Yesssss

  • @Meggs93_
    @Meggs93_ 6 років тому +144

    * Googles “mercurial” *

    • @michaelneal3162
      @michaelneal3162 5 років тому +14

      I did the same and now imma use the mess out this word.

    • @JuliaPedro
      @JuliaPedro 4 роки тому +1

      Paused the video to go check it lol

  • @abigaillagarde8309
    @abigaillagarde8309 6 років тому +91

    They are both so articulate with their words and I can't help but feel tears building up just watching how intimately they speak to each other

  • @Feedaneeshaqua
    @Feedaneeshaqua 6 років тому +104

    I wish I knew how to communicate like this

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle 5 років тому

      It's a learning process ;) do you know the Podcast "where should we begin" and so you know non violent communication by Marshall Rosenberg?

  • @tangled55
    @tangled55 6 років тому +70

    That whole monologue at the end Ben gave was...something else. I just sat here like 5 minutes after the video ended frozen.
    That's a good dude to even have the wherewithal to speak about his wife and child in that way.

  • @nataliaamorim77
    @nataliaamorim77 6 років тому +216

    I think the only reality show I would ever watch would be one about their lives, honestly

  • @MrSchokomuffin97
    @MrSchokomuffin97 6 років тому +162

    I wanna share a relationship like this one day. This shows how communication is THE most important aspect of a relationship

  • @GothiQhaQer
    @GothiQhaQer 6 років тому +75

    I'm so in love with the 2 of them together. Their maturity and self expression is so beautiful

  • @SuperMariposa91
    @SuperMariposa91 6 років тому +77

    “Creativity is not vertical, it is a force” 👌🏾👌🏾

  • @nadakassem8473
    @nadakassem8473 6 років тому +82

    Wish to see more videos of this couple..they are pleasant to watch...and importantly they give a hope for those who wants to get married

  • @fnguyenify
    @fnguyenify 6 років тому +106

    THIS IS WHAT LOVE IS

  • @khanhlyt
    @khanhlyt 6 років тому +54

    This is more than skin deep this is Soul Deep!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @annaklimas1614
    @annaklimas1614 6 років тому +34

    Jeeez, I've got a goosebumps. I dream to have that type of relationship. The way these two people talk to each other and love each is just out of this world.

  • @LonyeaMaiden
    @LonyeaMaiden 6 років тому +414

    CAN WE PLEASE GET A VLOG CHANNEL Sid & Ben?! PLEASSEEEEEEE I love you guys so much, and I’d SO follow y’alls life!! 😍🙌🏾
    Also we’ve gotta get you guys on The Ellen Show!!!

    • @6Nouran
      @6Nouran 6 років тому +81

      Although i would love that but a vlog channel i feel will add more stress to their relationship. Hope they stay happy and blessed

    • @LonyeaMaiden
      @LonyeaMaiden 6 років тому +10

      Nora Ali very True!! I just think they have such a beautiful family!!

    • @icecoldpinacollada
      @icecoldpinacollada 6 років тому

      Lonyea Maiden pleeeeeaaassseee

    • @sonquatsch8585
      @sonquatsch8585 6 років тому +2

      i would wet my pants everyday if ben was my husband. no, the toddler kind. not the cool sexy kind.

    • @sonthelow
      @sonthelow 6 років тому

      agreed, i can watch them all day. also.... i wish someone would look at me like Ben looks at Sid.

  • @SierrawithaT
    @SierrawithaT 6 років тому +90

    I feel like they are the real life Jack and Rebecca Pearson 😍

  • @EvolvingMama_
    @EvolvingMama_ 6 років тому +39

    The way she glows when he speaks of his admiration and love for her ❤️

    • @ronjacobe
      @ronjacobe 4 роки тому

      everevolvingmama Indeed! And vice versa!

  • @kirathelightworker
    @kirathelightworker 6 років тому +36

    These two should seriously write a book to help other couples or individuals with their relationships with each other and themselves!

  • @hanablakqori4432
    @hanablakqori4432 6 років тому +160

    I really hope they never break up!

  • @dahabeyussuf8764
    @dahabeyussuf8764 6 років тому +35

    The ways they articulate their feeling is amazing.

  • @AmanaRain
    @AmanaRain 6 років тому +55

    These two human beings are the definition of Art.

  • @jasonargent8817
    @jasonargent8817 6 років тому +20

    God .... I wish if I have a man like him he's really smart and the way he looks at her made me cry and the relationship between them r incredible and inspiring ...

  • @natashaf416
    @natashaf416 6 років тому +35

    Yep I tried not to cry...but failed. Thanks Ben 😩

  • @whiskers392000
    @whiskers392000 6 років тому +15

    This is what love is, this is my goal relationship. Not a copy and paste of their personalities but the willingness to be open and share. The amount they care and admire each other is not anything you could find with just any person. It takes two adult people to share their souls and the pure support for each other. The “I’m beyond lucky to have you” the honesty is so beautiful...

    • @spazdude1
      @spazdude1 6 років тому

      dont assume they are happy just because they look in love in videos. To many couples over compensate with PDA and fake happiness when they are having problems so I dont assume anything about them.

  • @destinym4528
    @destinym4528 6 років тому +22

    *THIS IS DEEP IN THE SKIN*

    • @TheSkinDeep
      @TheSkinDeep  6 років тому +5

      Nice!!! we haven't seen this comment before but WE LIKE IT!!!

  • @tatakiminu1691
    @tatakiminu1691 6 років тому +18

    Ben and Sidra's videos are my happy place

  • @chiamaka_barbara4820
    @chiamaka_barbara4820 6 років тому +34

    I am in love with this couple seriously.
    I just love how comfortable they are with each other.
    how they validate each other feelings.
    how they let each other speak about how they feel without trying to give reassuring feedbacks” the usual everything is gonna be ok”. They just listen without minimizing how the other feels. It is so refreshing

  • @thewalkinghijab7384
    @thewalkinghijab7384 6 років тому +74

    I just love these two ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cutiebeargirl4240
    @cutiebeargirl4240 6 років тому +22

    Wow are these two even real?

  • @kimberpower1
    @kimberpower1 6 років тому +14

    How is this guy even real.....

  • @anabluu
    @anabluu 6 років тому +31

    They both are an inspiration

  • @kimbyts9045
    @kimbyts9045 6 років тому +14

    Omgeeee I so love this couple. Watching them grow and change and talk with such openness about it with each other is relationship goals 101. I hope they continue to come back and share their lives with us. Love you guys

  • @yasmilady
    @yasmilady 6 років тому +22

    so beautiful to watch. They are both amazing. So inspiring to be able to have that honesty in a relationship.

  • @regina7419
    @regina7419 6 років тому +23

    One word, Beautiful.

  • @EllaBethMusic
    @EllaBethMusic 6 років тому +12

    A love their conversation, a reason they are so perfect for each other is because they have these utterly eloquent conversations❤️ a lot of people wouldn't understand half the words they use but their vocabularies are so rich!! Love it

    • @miralabualjadail4206
      @miralabualjadail4206 5 років тому +1

      Ella Beth Walls a lot of people wouldn’t understand half the words they use? TF thats so fucked up. They are not even using difficult words.

  • @JayyyD12
    @JayyyD12 6 років тому +25

    Ughhh, these two burn a fire of hope in my soul!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @morountodunokedara
    @morountodunokedara 6 років тому +36

    ahhhh they're back !!!

  • @Hamerbeng
    @Hamerbeng 6 років тому +7

    Thanks for coming back again and setting an example of a true, honest, loving, healthy relationship. Beautiful to watch and very much inspiring!!

  • @Noob___Noob
    @Noob___Noob 6 років тому +7

    freaking Ben and all his words, ugh...

  • @sj1345
    @sj1345 6 років тому +4

    okay they're a cute couple... but can we talk about their banging posture!!! geesh making me look like hunchback of notre dame

    • @EJay8906
      @EJay8906 5 років тому +2

      Lol, I noticed their posture every time the camera zoomed out... Guess I better start walking around with books on my head

    • @sj1345
      @sj1345 5 років тому

      EJay8906 it's amazing. sitting up straight makes my back hurt but that's probably from a weak core.... i'm impressed. people with good posture often leave great impressions on people

  • @copiebb
    @copiebb 6 років тому +5

    Ben and Sidra are amazing but let's talk about the real magic here... that bun though!! I need tips please!!!

  • @carlar.8823
    @carlar.8823 6 років тому +8

    My favorite 2 people on
    {THE AND}

  • @keraalea
    @keraalea 6 років тому +11

    They're definitely cute

  • @hpis4me
    @hpis4me 6 років тому +5

    SIDRAS LIP COLOR IS DOIN SOME THANGS FOR HER

  • @svetlana_morgan_tattoo
    @svetlana_morgan_tattoo 6 років тому +8

    Oh, God, they are so beautiful!!!

  • @emilymalene4146
    @emilymalene4146 6 років тому +2

    “I am watching the woman she will become being shaped like clay in the hands of her mother” 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @hazelveg
    @hazelveg 6 років тому +3

    Amazing how they seem so unreal and yet so real. By far my favorite couple ever! So much to learn from them. It’s been great to see them change as a couple and as a family through these screenshot interviews representing a different stage of their path together.

  • @tiny_ninja31
    @tiny_ninja31 6 років тому +3

    I swear I think these two were also married to each other in their past lives. I love how they communicate with each other.

  • @valeriejackson7729
    @valeriejackson7729 6 років тому +2

    They make me cry every time... just such a beautiful love and partnership.

  • @Noob___Noob
    @Noob___Noob 6 років тому +5

    Ben is so freaking smooth.

  • @JohannaRaventos
    @JohannaRaventos 6 років тому +3

    Do they know we all look up to their relationship?
    Love them.

  • @divamariahcarey2
    @divamariahcarey2 6 років тому +3

    Favorite couple ! So well articulated and so much love in their eyes for each other! I absolutely Love them!

  • @TehCubeGirl
    @TehCubeGirl 5 років тому +3

    they need a podcast.

  • @MnstersNMagik
    @MnstersNMagik 6 років тому +5

    I would love to see one with Ben and Naiya. I wish he went into more detail about why he feels she doesn’t like him

    • @Miidi8787
      @Miidi8787 6 років тому +1

      Khia Glover they just posted one of them!

    • @MnstersNMagik
      @MnstersNMagik 6 років тому

      Omg! they read my mind! Lol

  • @peanutpie999
    @peanutpie999 6 років тому +4

    What is that welsh fairytale she was speaking about? I want to read it so bad!

    • @Lydzist
      @Lydzist 6 років тому +2

      Megan Oliveri ikr!! To Google we go!!! Lol

  • @stevenbell482
    @stevenbell482 5 років тому +2

    there so brutaly honest. wow. keep the love in your heart.

  • @noellesilvia8319
    @noellesilvia8319 6 років тому +2

    I’ll just be over here waiting for part 3 -> 🧘🏽‍♀️

  • @katelync.765
    @katelync.765 6 років тому +1

    I feel the same way about being attracted to your partner when you see them in social settings... when I watch my boyfriend interact with people, I imagine what they're seeing, getting to know such an awesome person for the first time and it gives me a momentary refresher of how attracted to him I am and how just.. great he is to know.

  • @MaximovaTatiana
    @MaximovaTatiana 5 місяців тому

    WOW! Goosebumps over goosebumps from seing SUCH profound thing LIVE!!

  • @ladyd6371
    @ladyd6371 5 років тому +1

    Wachting them is like a "Calming Therapy" for my nerves💞

  • @MegaXxxJULIExxx
    @MegaXxxJULIExxx 6 років тому +1

    I cry watching all their videos. What a beautiful and honest couple.

  • @evelynengugi70
    @evelynengugi70 6 років тому +1

    Wow! Ben is just... he has such a way with words. Love these guys, probably my favourite couple!

  • @indrinita
    @indrinita 6 років тому +2

    You can tell these two are amazing parents

  • @audrahmusazaben5463
    @audrahmusazaben5463 6 років тому +1

    I'm completely fascinated by these two 💗💕

  • @lipsbreeze
    @lipsbreeze 6 років тому

    Holyyyyyyyy SHIT. like Ben talks like flowery written poetry...sooo articulate!! hot damnnnn

  • @ANC_505
    @ANC_505 6 років тому +1

    "Being shaped like clay in the hands of her mother." What a powerful statement! This is so true, and what an immense responsibility it is for us parents.

  • @sydneyrobson4757
    @sydneyrobson4757 6 років тому +1

    Holy shit... these two 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😍😍✨✨✨✨

  • @priyanshisharma750
    @priyanshisharma750 6 років тому +1

    They are my favourite couple. The conviction, love and care that shine in their eyes resonate through their souls. I wish their love never fades away.

  • @Rubylove48
    @Rubylove48 4 роки тому

    The skin deep. You should start a matchmaking site. Priorities non violent and compassionate communication. I’d help you, and I’d be in. ❣️

  • @r.a.28
    @r.a.28 3 роки тому

    Anybody knows when are their birthdays? Or their zodiac signs, maybe? This is a different kind of a relationship altogether.

  • @wildflower9065
    @wildflower9065 6 років тому +1

    Their reflection upon the different experiences they went through is truly such a raw and beautiful thing!

  • @shars3511
    @shars3511 6 років тому

    Holy fucking shit I’m in love with them and their words.

  • @Ohtrisarahtops0
    @Ohtrisarahtops0 6 років тому +1

    The most beautiful couple inside and out. 😭❤️

  • @Cuupi
    @Cuupi 6 років тому +2

    OH MY LORD. They are two perfect couple. I don't even have a child but suddenly I want one just because of how they picture this perfect story in our heads AAAAAAAAAAAAAA

    • @goodasgoing
      @goodasgoing 6 років тому

      Cuupi Won't do you any good unless you let them have your baby.

    • @user-gk3lu1gg9t
      @user-gk3lu1gg9t 5 років тому

      They're probably just as disfunctional as you are. Anyone can look good when a camera is there to show how 'perfect' you are.

  • @NaturallyLit
    @NaturallyLit 6 років тому

    Ben’s answer makes me really consider having children. That was so so so deep.

  • @hanumac9124
    @hanumac9124 3 роки тому

    I hear these two and realised how mumble jumble I speak..

  • @kristinalarue3866
    @kristinalarue3866 3 роки тому

    You two are just something else. Words just can't express. Makes me want to better a better partner!

  • @nisreen1589
    @nisreen1589 3 роки тому

    What I think makes these people work is that they are perfect balance of masculine and feminine. They are an incredible pair to watch.

  • @ste6203
    @ste6203 4 роки тому

    are they real human being? …. waow really one of a kind!!! beautiful

  • @visalnip7789
    @visalnip7789 6 років тому +1

    What's the name of the Welsh's tale is she talking about?

  • @marinab3750
    @marinab3750 6 років тому +1

    Why is everything they say so poetic!?They better chill out

  • @briethompson439
    @briethompson439 6 років тому +1

    Ben's dimple! Wow!

  • @raywordsman6422
    @raywordsman6422 5 років тому

    you can see her blush instantly towards the end.

  • @shannonpost6908
    @shannonpost6908 6 років тому

    okay but where the actual fuck do i find myself a ben

  • @Seapatico
    @Seapatico 6 років тому +1

    May I someday be the man he is.

  • @scarlettdunwell
    @scarlettdunwell 6 років тому

    Who are these people?? Are they real? Is that rehearsed??? They sound like a good movie script

  • @saaambs
    @saaambs 6 років тому +1

    THEY ARE SO IN LOVE

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 6 років тому

    Ben seems very introspective and articulate.

  • @allenivory23
    @allenivory23 5 років тому

    These people make me feel like shit

  • @AnaFiamatta
    @AnaFiamatta 6 років тому +1

    My favorite couple!