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  • He still has unresolved feelings about his biological mother after being abandoned as a baby, but Steve Harvey offers a positive perspective on the emotional situation.#steveharvey #relationship
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  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy 3 місяці тому +65

    Sometimes you don't know what your mother is going through in her life.

    • @johnson5725
      @johnson5725 3 місяці тому +3

      Unless it’s a bad disease , you should not leave your son.

    • @TJ-gt1zz
      @TJ-gt1zz 3 місяці тому +10

      ​@johnson5725 She was 13 years old 😢I cannot imagine.

    • @cydapoet5522
      @cydapoet5522 3 місяці тому +9

      ​​@@johnson5725You missed the entire message. SHE WAS 13... and obviously scared to death. She didn't kill him, she didn't abort him ...she left him where someone could find him and love him. I think he should open his heart to her.❤

    • @babypicassoeisenstein
      @babypicassoeisenstein Місяць тому

      @@johnson5725 13 YOU FKN LUNATIC. Ridiculous the way men are so creepy about children/little girls, treating them like adults. It is SO CREEPY and frankly, frightening. She was a child. You should be concerned FOR her.

  • @deestevens2883
    @deestevens2883 3 місяці тому +88

    Very touching...but Steve told him the truth 💙

    • @user-hm3lu4ri5f
      @user-hm3lu4ri5f 3 місяці тому +10

      At 13 mum was obviously being abused. She was a mere baby. My granddaughter turned 13 yesterday. This brought me to tears. I hope he his mum and grandmother can spend many wonderful years together.

    • @sylviafray5884
      @sylviafray5884 3 місяці тому +3

      Absolutely 😊❤ truly said. He got a whole lot more to be thankful for. When he has his first child he will realize how much he owe his mom for taking care of him until he was 9months. For his mom to do that, she must have been going through and wanted to spare him from it. That's the only way she could do at the time.

    • @leonorababoolal5825
      @leonorababoolal5825 2 місяці тому

      Baby daddy step up.

  • @patriciahillman2866
    @patriciahillman2866 3 місяці тому +60

    What great advice Mr. Harvey expressed for this gentleman. Thank you both for all who view this video

  • @eileenmarter6993
    @eileenmarter6993 3 місяці тому +25

    Don’t cut ties they want you in your life

  • @user-en1zc5vd6y
    @user-en1zc5vd6y 3 місяці тому +19

    In a situation like this you have to get down to the basics. I have a pretty negligent mother. She let my siblings get abused by our father, sexually, emotionally, etc(God separated me from the family early so I didn’t go through the abuse).
    As a young adult I struggled to accept my parents especially my mother coz she’s always been very detached from us but I remember finding one important thing in all that which was that THEY GAVE ME LIFE and I decided to honor them for that. May God help this man find the beauty in his mother coz am sure it’s haunted her all her life.

  • @dollesfantashia4277
    @dollesfantashia4277 3 місяці тому +22

    Steve always get it in the right prospective, the young man has a lot to be thankful for no matter what his past or whom his biological mother is or not have been for him. God has blessed him enormously. Show her some love, you're here.

  • @ameliaalmond9759
    @ameliaalmond9759 3 місяці тому +27

    Honestly this made me cry must learn to live and forgive bless him and his family may he find closure for him and his life

  • @user-en1zc5vd6y
    @user-en1zc5vd6y 3 місяці тому +21

    God bless you Mr. Harvery for helping people tap into something deeper.

  • @Purplegurl108
    @Purplegurl108 3 місяці тому +17

    Absolutely full of wisdom,uplifting,and truthful!

  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul 3 місяці тому +58

    When we listen to the good OG's (older generation), we gain wisdom, clarity, and direction. Everything Steve went through prepared him for moments like this! What profound advice he gave. You could see the relief come over this young man's face. He lit up and his smile was palpable. Steve, thank you for continuing your show online. You are a blessing to so many people. Much love!

    • @DigitalDaffodil
      @DigitalDaffodil 3 місяці тому +1

      OG’s doesn’t mean old generation hahahahha

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 3 місяці тому +9

    Pray they will be able to develop a great relationship. This young man is a credit to his adoptive and biological families. Even though his life began with a tragedy, it is clear that God protected him, ordered his steps and has now blessed him with his own beautiful family. Wish them all the best!♥️

  • @sybilblake-zd8gl
    @sybilblake-zd8gl 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank you, Steve. I always look at what is Wrong and I never look at what's right. I am looking at life just like this young man. My husband died but the good I do to compensate for his loss is not important to me. I still pity myself.

  • @mikemoonde9599
    @mikemoonde9599 3 місяці тому +19

    Good counsel, however , father needs to be discussed too in a way

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 3 місяці тому +1

      The guy who pregnant his mother should be put behind bar.

    • @mikemoonde9599
      @mikemoonde9599 3 місяці тому +3

      He may've been a minor too. Issue needs nice cleaning, I feel for the young man

  • @mamiejones146
    @mamiejones146 3 місяці тому +13

    Blessings To All 😢🙏🏽

  • @P.A.M.79
    @P.A.M.79 3 місяці тому +4

    Life will make you bitter or make you better your choice.

  • @isaiasvalentim5322
    @isaiasvalentim5322 Місяць тому +2

    Steve, no words for this. Just made me remember my mother.

  • @zukiswajamela6581
    @zukiswajamela6581 3 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤GOD BLESS THE FAMILY ADOPTED U HER GENERATION AND STEVE HARVEY FOR WONDERFUL ADVICE

  • @lavermerogers4414
    @lavermerogers4414 3 місяці тому +3

    God bless you Steve for dropping Some jewels on this young man 🙌🏾

  • @jeanneolie7683
    @jeanneolie7683 3 місяці тому +11

    THEY MAY SAY YOU SELL YOUR SOUL TO THE EVIL TO BECOME FAMOUS I WILL SAY I LOVE YOU STEVE FOR THIS . I AM FOLLOWING FAR FROM US BUT YOU JUST MAKE ME IN PEACE BECAUSE I WAS LIVING THE SAME STORY LOOKING FOR WHY UNTIL YOU ANSWERED ME THROUGH
    THIS VIDEOS... YOU WASN'T TALKING TO THE DUDE BUT TO ME TOO😢 SO THANK YOU SO MUCH UNCLE STEVE❤

  • @chiedmon7503
    @chiedmon7503 3 місяці тому +11

    Thank you Steve ❤🎉

  • @bellagrace9812
    @bellagrace9812 Місяць тому +2

    Steve knocked this one out of the park. 100%❤❤❤

  • @supremesteam3604
    @supremesteam3604 3 місяці тому +8

    I love uncle steve❤

  • @starshanae80
    @starshanae80 3 місяці тому +5

    Whew. Well said Steve! Thanks young man for being vulnerable. Much love to you and your family ❤

  • @emmapablo7321
    @emmapablo7321 2 місяці тому +1

    I need to sit here someday. Some real wisdom here.

  • @jenifryson2516
    @jenifryson2516 Місяць тому +1

    Good direction Steve. May God continue to bless this young man.

  • @rebeccawright2001
    @rebeccawright2001 3 місяці тому +9

    Steve thank you this is why I love you ❤️

  • @patriciapage4860
    @patriciapage4860 3 місяці тому +2

    That a blessing that God gave him to learn from him 🙏 good words

  • @sheilarichard4610
    @sheilarichard4610 3 місяці тому +4

    Good answer explanation Steve. Look at the blessings and not the problem. ❤

  • @zusterhalima5367
    @zusterhalima5367 3 місяці тому +1

    He knows how to speak, well said Steve!

  • @laurice8056
    @laurice8056 3 місяці тому +2

    Some people like to throw stones at Steve Harvey because he’s not led a perfect personal life especially in his past. But I think it’s exactly what makes him qualified to give good advice.
    No one is perfect. And we can’t change our past. But when we can reach out and help to lift up, and advise others in a positive way it can make a world of difference.
    God moves in mysterious ways. And He chooses us to do His will. Lord knows that none of us are perfect. But God chooses the one among who is perfect for the job.

  • @sunshine44ify
    @sunshine44ify 3 місяці тому +2

    God bless you Harvey. Keep touching lives.

  • @patriciowilliamsburg4537
    @patriciowilliamsburg4537 3 місяці тому +1

    Very touching story.
    I wish I was able to speak with this young man, and I hope he took all the solid advice that Steve gave him.

  • @mzmack-su4fg
    @mzmack-su4fg 3 місяці тому +2

    Not a dry eye in the house 😢💙

  • @melmar99
    @melmar99 3 місяці тому +2

    I am touched to the core.. I am speechless and I have so much to say.

  • @kimeshageddes09
    @kimeshageddes09 3 місяці тому +2

    Tanks Steven I wish I cud meet u one day 😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @deborahwilliamson5655
    @deborahwilliamson5655 3 місяці тому +4

    This was the greatest moment of wisdom, encouragement, and inspiration that I have ever heard from Steve Harvey. I LOVED IT!!! I am sure that I have missed many, but this was amazing. Young man, go find that family, and make up for lost time!!! The God of Heaven is giving you all another chance. GLORY TO GOD!!!

    • @deborahwilliamson5655
      @deborahwilliamson5655 Місяць тому

      ​@@TylerEPerryJr Oklahoma City, OK.

    • @deborahwilliamson5655
      @deborahwilliamson5655 Місяць тому

      @@TylerEPerryJr I'm confused. These comments are on a Steve Harvey video. Are you reaching out to me by accident?

    • @deborahwilliamson5655
      @deborahwilliamson5655 Місяць тому

      @@TylerEPerryJr Sorry for the delayed reply. At work. My mother and I watched Steve Harvey on his game show until she passed away. I have watched Madea on several movies, and was glad that you "unretired" her. I don't like to call myself a fan, because some define that word differently. However, I appreciate great talent and creativity!!! I love and need to laugh every chance I get. I spend most of my time focusing on growing in my relationship with my Heavenly Father.

    • @deborahwilliamson5655
      @deborahwilliamson5655 Місяць тому

      @@TylerEPerryJr My phone is doing something weird today, so if you are receiving repeated replies, I apologize. I can't see for sure that they are actually being sent. Thanks for your condolences. I am happy to speak with you. If you would like to call me, I will shoot it over to you, and delete it immediately. Or, if you have an office number, I can call and leave you a message. Be blessed, Mr. Perry!!!

  • @user-vy7iy7sm8u
    @user-vy7iy7sm8u 3 місяці тому

    Very uplifting and reasonable. Embrace what's right.

  • @hazelanglin5907
    @hazelanglin5907 3 місяці тому +2

    Steve gave great advice

  • @philipalakhume1983
    @philipalakhume1983 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Steve!❤❤❤

  • @nikkiperry1509
    @nikkiperry1509 3 місяці тому

    What amazing advice given by Mr. Harvey.

  • @maggieshelton1476
    @maggieshelton1476 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤ I really liked that show. It was sad, but it was good and positive words. Thank you, Steve

  • @pursequeen6148
    @pursequeen6148 Місяць тому

    Sage wisdom❣️Love you Steve!!!

  • @simeonzulu4449
    @simeonzulu4449 3 місяці тому

    Great advice SH

  • @ilyesdaiku4870
    @ilyesdaiku4870 3 місяці тому +1

    God bless steve

  • @beverlyjohnson5503
    @beverlyjohnson5503 3 місяці тому +4

    She could be rape by a family member back in the day they say what happened stay in this house 13 I'm sooooo sorry for all the pain your beautiful family went through I agree unk Steve Harvey forgive and love moved on 😢😢❤

  • @myracornell9115
    @myracornell9115 3 місяці тому

    Sometimes, you have to look at what you have to understand what you don't have. He lost a mother and gained a mother and grandmother! Now that's a blessing!!

  • @user-wb6us9hl4g
    @user-wb6us9hl4g 3 місяці тому

    Good advice Think about what you got not what happened 💯

  • @brooklynrocks2396
    @brooklynrocks2396 3 місяці тому +1

    I don't care what they say or don't say about Steve. He's got more common sense than 30 ppl put together.

  • @kwametenkorang2019
    @kwametenkorang2019 Місяць тому

    Steve is the best. Steve just demonstrated the importance of father's and father figures in a man's life. I don't know if this man had a father in his life, but a true father would have walked him through what Steve gave him in five minutes. This is more difficult on the soul than it seems, and whereas Steve gave him the best advice ever, in just in a few minutes, situations like these requires more than a 5 minute therapeutic session to fix.

  • @lynnettejohnsonmapp8405
    @lynnettejohnsonmapp8405 3 місяці тому

    😢 He can't imagine 😢😮

  • @dianesimpson2979
    @dianesimpson2979 3 місяці тому +1

    Young man you are blessed. No matter how your life started; look where you are now. The woman (your adopted mother) who found you; was placed there to find you by God; because he knew your real mom was too young for the responsibility of a baby; coupled with what was going on in her young life. Look upon it as a blessing; that God placed you back in her life; to find out the truth. That was God's way of healing you. God bless you! 🙏🏾

  • @tinabissegue3975
    @tinabissegue3975 3 місяці тому

    Keep thanking God...
    You now have a Mom and a Grandma... Make it work...
    Share a grateful heart ❤️

    • @tinabissegue3975
      @tinabissegue3975 Місяць тому

      @@TylerEPerryJr
      From Nassau Bahamas 🇧🇸

  • @longlivedemocracy756
    @longlivedemocracy756 3 місяці тому +1

    It wasn’t ideal what happened to him, but it seems like he had a better upbringing than many. And much to be grateful for. I’m guessing if his adoptive mother was still with him, she would also encourage him to forgive his biological mother as she must have been loving and compassionate.
    His biological mother was a scared child, and it looks like God provided him with a better life than he would have had with that child. Continued Blessings to all.

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 3 місяці тому

    Love you Steve Harvey with all your wise life knowledge 🙏

    • @debbieechiribel1860
      @debbieechiribel1860 Місяць тому

      I wish I could of learned some life lessons from 24 years some years ago 🥹

  • @thesisterhoodspot
    @thesisterhoodspot 3 місяці тому +2

    Woo Lord, that means someone impregnated this child at 12yrs old she was definitely a baby having a baby! She’s suffered forgiven and let it go! She did the only thing she knew to do at that time! It wasn’t right but she had to be in jeopardy to make that decision and I’m so glad she got to see that you’re alive and well! My mom is gone and I wish I could have her back so bad!! Mo

  • @frandy_df2908
    @frandy_df2908 3 місяці тому +2

    DR in the House✌️

  • @colony1
    @colony1 3 місяці тому +1

    All right.

  • @eisa3242
    @eisa3242 Місяць тому

    Hearing them talk about “wholesale” on national TV and actually dating one as if it’s something ethical and normal is so mind blowing first someone who’s not American

  • @wasclit11
    @wasclit11 3 місяці тому +1

    I hope it wasn't an adult that got his Mother pregnant. I can't image how scared she was and then delivering the baby on her own.

  • @zukiswajamela6581
    @zukiswajamela6581 3 місяці тому

    ABOVE ALL SHE NEVER ABORTED YOU ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤SHE GAVE A CHANCE TO LIVE

  • @zukiswajamela6581
    @zukiswajamela6581 3 місяці тому

    EMBRACE HER YOU ARE THE ANSWER TO HER PROBLEMS GOD BLESS YOU MY SON AND YOUR LOVELY WIFE LOVE HER

  • @Marie70272
    @Marie70272 3 місяці тому +1

    Not,T.D.Jakes I wouldn’t’t take his advice about nothing.Steve you gave him good advice.❤️🙏🏼

  • @mearly7047
    @mearly7047 3 місяці тому +2

    Please forgive your mother, she thought at age 13 that was all she could do at that time.

  • @Tenseiken_
    @Tenseiken_ 3 місяці тому +1

    It's really solid advice to sooth the soul Steve is giving. However I can't help but feel the young fella a little bit. Letting go of the very deep feeling the questions he has is work of a lifetime. You gonna live with that for your entire life. "Why did she have me at 13?" "Why did she abandon me?" Ain't nothing gonna silence those questions. You gotta make peace with them. Don't go down the rabbit hole and speculate. Accept it as is and live in the present.

  • @craigcp7455
    @craigcp7455 3 місяці тому

    It’s NOT LUCK that STEVE HARVEY is what he is!

  • @peeweecrawford3349
    @peeweecrawford3349 3 місяці тому +1

    🙏🏽Amen👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️

  • @user-bi5kn1eb4o
    @user-bi5kn1eb4o 3 місяці тому

    She was only thirteen 😢😭Forgive her. She needs you to love and appreciate her. At least she didn't strangle you and she didn't terminate you. 😢😭Please forgive her and love her and pray for her reunion with you as her son. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼. You are both blessed and loved by God .😭🙏🏼😇😇😇😇

  • @zukiswajamela6581
    @zukiswajamela6581 3 місяці тому

    To HER CC THANK YOU FOR NOT ABORTING YOUR SON

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 місяці тому

    Bless his heart. He seems like a sweet and respectful and intelligent and humble young man. ❤❤❤

  • @mhizplease2685
    @mhizplease2685 Місяць тому +1

    ⛅️🇧🇧🙏🏾TEARS TEARS TEARS TEARS TEARS 🙏🏾FORGIVENESS 😭😭😭😭📖⛪️🙏🏾

  • @user-ph7lu1lo1b
    @user-ph7lu1lo1b 3 місяці тому

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Chrissanthumum
    @Chrissanthumum Місяць тому

    Steve was speaking to this young man.That's what was most evident,but he was speaking to other people in the audience (and probably many people who watched this).Sonetimes God uses people to tell is what we need to know...or frankly tell us would be terrifying for us hearing "the voice of God. "

  • @user-es3ft9ec3g
    @user-es3ft9ec3g 3 місяці тому

    I wanna meet Steve

  • @candaceclark2930
    @candaceclark2930 3 місяці тому +1

    She was 13 She disnt know what she was doing I unfortunately was 15 when I had my first son Noone had taught me anything I didnt wven know what sex was when I first had it I chose anyother family for the baby which was my best choice Dont try to figure it out She probably doesnt fully have the answer ❤

  • @juliesayerworship
    @juliesayerworship Місяць тому

  • @ladyofsaints8782
    @ladyofsaints8782 3 місяці тому +1

    At 13 was pregnancy from love or other terrible circumstances.

  • @starshanae80
    @starshanae80 3 місяці тому +1

    😢😢😢😢

  • @rackybernard896
    @rackybernard896 3 місяці тому +1

    Your mother had no mental capacity to care for you. Forgive her.

  • @jazzycola
    @jazzycola 3 місяці тому

    Chile I thought that was Raven Simone

  • @crystalalvarez3790
    @crystalalvarez3790 20 годин тому

    At 13, she was probably groomed and forced into it. This is sad for everyone.

  • @zukiswajamela6581
    @zukiswajamela6581 3 місяці тому

    Look at u now

  • @frandy_df2908
    @frandy_df2908 3 місяці тому +2

    ❤️✌️

  • @moniquehamilton5195
    @moniquehamilton5195 2 місяці тому

    No one knows what that pregnant 13 yr old girl went through. How could she possibly provide for a child?

  • @cydapoet5522
    @cydapoet5522 3 місяці тому +1

    SHE WAS 13...and obviously scared to death. She didn't kill him, she didn't abort him ...she left him where someone could find him and love him. I think he should open his heart to her.
    It's funny how the world ALWAYS points the finger at the mom, and the dad ALWAYS gets a pass. 🤔
    It's very possible she was impregnated by an older man. I can almost guarantee it.

  • @peacefreedom4930
    @peacefreedom4930 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m sorry to be the one to say this, but it’s very likely a 12-13 year old child was taken advantage of by an adult. Many people gloss over the statistics that most pregnancies of preteens and teens happen with adult men. His mom was a baby that probably was being abused.

  • @jamesdunn8893
    @jamesdunn8893 3 місяці тому +3

    To those who have hurt me I won't forgive you because you 💔 my heart

    • @deestevens2883
      @deestevens2883 3 місяці тому +3

      Release the hurt and forgive. Be free... Matthew 6:14, Ephesians 4:31-32 🙏🏽

    • @BlaqQtee
      @BlaqQtee 3 місяці тому +2

      Praying for you to soften your heart & forgive... to set yourself free of hurt. Jesus loves you. Turn to HIM, HE is our salvation.

    • @Nicole-wp1ye
      @Nicole-wp1ye 3 місяці тому +1

      What if God said that to you?
      Imagine your life without God's forgiveness

  • @marianturenne3567
    @marianturenne3567 3 місяці тому

    🎯🎯🎯

  • @user-es3ft9ec3g
    @user-es3ft9ec3g 3 місяці тому

    Hello can someone talk to me

  • @marthafredendall5733
    @marthafredendall5733 3 місяці тому

    Why isn't he mad at the Dad too?

    • @jasminerobertson4913
      @jasminerobertson4913 2 місяці тому

      What the hell? Don't even say the word "dad" because the "dad" could've been the rapist. Also, naturally, she's the mother. SHE had him. So, it only makes sense to ask her these questions because she HAD him AND abandoned him. He might not know his "father" but he sure as hell knows his mother.

  • @rugundanagisa3255
    @rugundanagisa3255 Місяць тому

    Your adopted mother picked u from under the bridge ....she became the bridge for your future success...including meeting your biological mother...again!

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 2 місяці тому

    Think about it. She was only 13. That is your why. AMEN. GLORY BE TO GOD. GOD MADE AWAY OUT OF NO WAY. AWE. HIS STORY WAS KIND OF LIKE MOSES. MOSES MOTHER PUT HIM IN THAT RIVER IN ORDER TO SAVE HIS LIFE. GOD MADE AWAY OUT OF NO WAY FOR MOSES AND HE DID THE SAME THING FOR THIS YOUNG MAN. ❤❤❤

  • @kirkslayden834
    @kirkslayden834 3 місяці тому +1

    That is so hard that somebody would abandon a baby how can anybody forgive them 😳🙏
    But you must forgive them so you may be forgiven by God
    In Jesus name amen 🙏

  • @babypicassoeisenstein
    @babypicassoeisenstein Місяць тому

    He'a quite childish about this. She was 13. Men please STOP being creepy about little girls. They are NOT women and should never be seen that way.