Your Silence After their Rejection is Killing Them | Stoicism

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  • @melanieoreilly2565
    @melanieoreilly2565 14 днів тому +69

    I am worth way more than his disrespect and crumbs. So I switched the music off. I'm dancing elsewhere, and loving it

    • @marytaylor9504
      @marytaylor9504 12 днів тому +4

      I'm saying the sapme!!! I'm of GREATEST WORTH!!!

    • @mantra9wolf
      @mantra9wolf 11 днів тому

      Beautifuly said 👍🏼😇

    • @Zeepjeliefs
      @Zeepjeliefs 11 днів тому +2

      I'm proud of you, you are your own friend 🌻

    • @bettyfelton1362
      @bettyfelton1362 10 днів тому

      @@melanieoreilly2565 Go tidda girl 🥰

    • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
      @TheStoicBeacon-TGG 8 днів тому +1

      You deserve so much more than disrespect and empty effort. Turning off that "music" and dancing elsewhere is such a powerful move-focusing on your own happiness and growth is the best thing you can do for yourself. Keep loving yourself first, and watch how your life transforms. You’re worth everything!

  • @marytaylor9504
    @marytaylor9504 12 днів тому +37

    Silence IS GOLDEN and GOD Is MY Advenger!!!

    • @sandie4870
      @sandie4870 12 днів тому

      Amen. 🙏🏽

    • @mmff5242
      @mmff5242 11 днів тому +1

      silence is indeed golden. Shut up and get rich.

    • @Scorned405
      @Scorned405 11 днів тому

      A genie up in the clouds is your avenger??

    • @privateuser8511
      @privateuser8511 10 днів тому

      @@Scorned405leave other people alone and focus on your own beliefs

  • @maribelavila272
    @maribelavila272 13 днів тому +23

    Silence is my superpower, Jesus is my strength. I will no longer make him an idol above my Lord Jesus Christ my Messiah

  • @TheTropics4
    @TheTropics4 11 днів тому +15

    It's been a long 46 days since he dumped me. I broke the NC two times at the beginning, but I've held strong 21 days now & haven't broke the NC! I'm very proud of myself. Tomorrow is Veterans Day & he was in the Army 22 yrs & served in combat in Afghanistan 4 yrs which he suffers from PTSD. It's going to take every ounce in me not to acknowledge him, but I must keep silent. This will reveal his true feelings for me as you said. Either he'll face his fear and reach out to me, or he'll stay in his own silence which I will begin my new adventure on my own! Thank you for this video!!❣️

    • @claita26
      @claita26 11 днів тому +2

      Are you sure you want someone with PTSD! Think abt that 🙏

    • @Reina10
      @Reina10 11 днів тому +3

      You don't need him dear. Move on...

    • @harryquinn8911
      @harryquinn8911 8 днів тому +2

      True love never dies, fake feelings never existed. You sound like the kind of person all men dream of so be strong it will be worth it ❤

  • @MargaretFrank-hg7bz
    @MargaretFrank-hg7bz 11 днів тому +10

    Silence is my power now. I cannot continue the abuse. Thank you.

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 12 днів тому +13

    Yeah!!! I have gained self respect

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd6512 13 днів тому +11

    Iam unshaken by their absent i am building my own strength

  • @zenaashworth4950
    @zenaashworth4950 15 днів тому +16

    Silence my superpower

  • @bettyfelton1362
    @bettyfelton1362 15 днів тому +13

    Silence is deadly 😊🔥🫦

  • @tommylee2544
    @tommylee2544 15 днів тому +7

    Silence is my superpower

  • @stevenmcclam4627
    @stevenmcclam4627 13 днів тому +5

    Silence is my superpower😊

  • @vrushalideole3337
    @vrushalideole3337 11 днів тому +3

    No amount of books will bring in such deeply profound psychological truth. Thank you very much for the realist life altering insights shared🙏

  • @julieryan8179
    @julieryan8179 9 днів тому +1

    Silence is my super power! It's not a weakness it's my strength and he will feel it.

  • @abasstiger26
    @abasstiger26 14 днів тому +4

    Silence is my superpower🙏

  • @defalcotransport
    @defalcotransport 13 днів тому +3

    I am Unshaken by their indifference. I’m building my own strength and worth! Amen 🙏🏻

  • @SammieDuncan-v3u
    @SammieDuncan-v3u 4 дні тому

    Staying strong

  • @florencekafumbe7966
    @florencekafumbe7966 6 днів тому

    Silence iz my super power

  • @Heaven_2U
    @Heaven_2U 8 днів тому +1

    Thank you for the comfort of knowing and acknowledging the strength and power that is within us. Our silence is indeed our superpower🩵

  • @manischafer1919
    @manischafer1919 14 днів тому +4

    Silence is my super power

  • @larverncatron5360
    @larverncatron5360 11 днів тому +2

    Silence is my Super Power!!!

  • @redbertiethechampion1863
    @redbertiethechampion1863 17 годин тому

    I was her anchor, her safety net for several months. All of a sudden she told me it was over, I got devastated…shocked! I decided to go completely silent; blocked her from every social media there is, no texting, no contact at all. Today, 12 days later, she reached out to me. I haven’t answered her…Not sure i want to! But silence is pure power..💫

  • @Brightestlightt
    @Brightestlightt 15 днів тому +7

    This helped me tremendously thank you 😊

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd6512 13 днів тому +3

    Silence is my supper power

  • @debbieumah6343
    @debbieumah6343 10 днів тому +2

    I'm free now in Jesus mighty name and thanks for thus great video

  • @MariaPeros-Bradica
    @MariaPeros-Bradica 11 днів тому +2

    Keep it up! 3 months into my silence and I’m feeling strong 💪🏻

  • @BruceMatsche-qi5vx
    @BruceMatsche-qi5vx 15 днів тому +10

    I have been used by this Women . On these sites that they are payed to Chat. I have learned a lot about these Women . And worth every penny. Now I disconnect when . I feel they are playing a game . Even though I have been taught. To street outs as I would like to be treated .I am so grateful for your information. Which give me the assurance that . I will stay strong and stay Disconnected.

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 12 днів тому +3

    Am staying strong....

  • @beautifulspirit2973
    @beautifulspirit2973 10 днів тому

    Silence is my superpower ❤
    I claim me back!

  • @tayechbelete7381
    @tayechbelete7381 10 днів тому +1

    Silent is my super power

  • @defalcotransport
    @defalcotransport 13 днів тому +2

    Silence is my Super Power. Amen

  • @StoicPerson0312
    @StoicPerson0312 11 днів тому +1

    This video was incredibly empowering and insightful! The message about the silent strength we hold and how it reshapes our worth was so moving. It’s a powerful reminder that silence can speak louder than words, fostering growth and clarity. Thank you for this profound perspective on reclaiming self-worth and understanding the true power of silence. Truly inspiring!

  • @opudo
    @opudo 12 днів тому +2

    Keep it ooooh this is the best channel for heart break,yes am taking notes...the pain in my heartache is cooling down this video has saved my heart break

  • @MarinaSvensson-w9d
    @MarinaSvensson-w9d 5 днів тому

    Thanks for this wisdom. This made me realized that by still trying to soothe them and make them feel better (although my intent was to help them and support them) I unknowingly enabled them which has prevented them from growing and learning from their mistakes. This was a wakeup call for sure. It might take some time for me to be able to let them go fully, but you made me realize and acknowledge how crucial letting them go is for my own growth and theirz.

  • @patriciazello1308
    @patriciazello1308 5 днів тому

    Am progressing forward in my quiet withdrawal from family members.
    It's hard but I realize my silence is what I need to do for self preservation.

  • @lynnbain2909
    @lynnbain2909 11 днів тому +1

    I am open to God for my new chapters 🙏 ❤ Thank you so much for all of the confirmations!!😊

  • @jemimamentoor
    @jemimamentoor 9 днів тому +1

    Lord strengthen me,empower me with super power from above

  • @thoudamindibati1505
    @thoudamindibati1505 9 днів тому +1

    Karma is real. Karma will judge equally. Om namah shivay 🙏

  • @aishablacksa8632
    @aishablacksa8632 12 днів тому +2

    This video make me stronger than ever😊 thank very much

  • @User-z1j
    @User-z1j 15 днів тому +3

    From start to finish - powerful speech and thank you so much for sharing ❤️.

  • @LiamScanlan-p9m
    @LiamScanlan-p9m 9 днів тому

    Silence is my super power.

  • @jemimamentoor
    @jemimamentoor 9 днів тому

    Silence is my superpower.

  • @paulclarke3621
    @paulclarke3621 12 днів тому +2

    Brilliant advice and so important in these times of mental health increase.

  • @joelmalcolmstewart4868
    @joelmalcolmstewart4868 14 днів тому +16

    Silent is my super power.
    This is my so called Family Members.
    Am finally alone with God Again and I’m feeling so relieved,Happy And Strong.
    Snapchat is the only social media I have left and finally they are sending me request.
    The best thing I’ve ever done is block all of them.
    I don’t need and more Narcissistic people around me.
    I have had enough.
    And living in Paris France is another Narcissistic place.
    I don’t have Friends
    I enjoy my own company.
    People Drain my energy.
    Everybody looking for something.
    If I could live on another planet alone or on an island 🏝️
    I would be more happy.
    I want to leave France but it’s just a matter of time.
    Don’t forget in your prayers 🙏🏿
    God bless you and keep up the amazing work❤

    • @graceokoye84
      @graceokoye84 8 днів тому

      Everyone is looking for something

  • @abj99861
    @abj99861 13 днів тому +2

    This was brilliant, watching again to fully digest

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 11 днів тому +2

    Silence is OUR super duper pooper scooper power 😮in Christ

  • @sandraharding6890
    @sandraharding6890 5 днів тому

    I'm strong and deserved more than an indifferent

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 9 днів тому

    Thank you too, for this excillent self management.

  • @SheilaMaher-x6y
    @SheilaMaher-x6y 10 днів тому

    Silence is my power to rebuild my own Life

  • @evelindasuchiang9641
    @evelindasuchiang9641 9 днів тому

    Inspiring ! Thank you. God bless

  • @naysilverspirit5411
    @naysilverspirit5411 12 днів тому +7

    My situation is a little different.. we both love each other but he needed space. He has a kind soul not narcissistic… I haven’t reached out to him because of the space 😢 it’s just sad

    • @poohsroadful
      @poohsroadful 12 днів тому +4

      I have a similar situation you and I just did this to my man it took 4 days before he was begging me back and showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed from our relationship. He recognized my worth in his life and it didn't take long it's not always about self-reflection or whatever your man seems to think he needs it's about what you need don't wait around too long if you're worth isn't enough for him it will be for someone else and I know how hard it is because I just did it and I was a complete mess for those days but it had to be done life is short and no one is promised tomorrow take care of yourself be true to yourself put yourself first then you can truly love and be loved I hope everything works out for you the way you want it to and you are truly loved the way you deserve

    • @naysilverspirit5411
      @naysilverspirit5411 12 днів тому +2

      @ thank you , your words mean a lot❤️❤️❤️

    • @Brutalismus_
      @Brutalismus_ 10 днів тому +1

      Same here. He needed space to reflect on his problems but he left lines of communication open and no bridges were burnt. I told him I'll give him space. It's been almost a month and it hurts but I'm not giving in. The ball is in his court.

  • @MaryWanjiku-nh7cs
    @MaryWanjiku-nh7cs 7 днів тому

    Lets keep going we have to do this my dear lovely friends give beast long

  • @lizcc6833
    @lizcc6833 7 днів тому

    Keep it up. Its been 18 days

  • @YasminFisher-o9o
    @YasminFisher-o9o 11 днів тому +1

    Keep it up!

  • @JodiScott-e6f
    @JodiScott-e6f 14 днів тому +2

    Keep it up.

  • @LiamScanlan-p9m
    @LiamScanlan-p9m 9 днів тому

    I choose myself & silencce

  • @florencekafumbe7966
    @florencekafumbe7966 6 днів тому

    my silence is my tregth

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 12 днів тому +2

    They need to face their journey alone

  • @rinkledtomato
    @rinkledtomato 9 днів тому

    Keep it up!!

  • @lynnbain2909
    @lynnbain2909 11 днів тому

    Keeping it up 🙏💯

  • @dododoreen1
    @dododoreen1 14 днів тому +1

    Keep it up

  • @scallacamp
    @scallacamp 11 днів тому +1

    I am ready to move on

  • @brendapezeron4984
    @brendapezeron4984 13 днів тому +1

    Thanks

  • @maryanndiamond1690
    @maryanndiamond1690 11 днів тому

    Wow, now I see I was weak in showing all of this in showing kindness. .. You don't know your worth when you give.

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 10 днів тому

      Kindness is not weakness.

  • @SammieDuncan-v3u
    @SammieDuncan-v3u 4 дні тому

    New people ❤an want what I'm hoping 🙏 for

  • @Marinaknetge
    @Marinaknetge 13 днів тому

    30 years and I'm now understanding what I was dealing with. Now it's silence and he disappeared into the night. So painful..

  • @Lightwhite136
    @Lightwhite136 15 днів тому +5

    Iam free now

    • @mariajosefinagravides3711
      @mariajosefinagravides3711 14 днів тому +1

      I'm happy to see comments that they're healed. I hope I can post a comment like this

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 11 днів тому

    Drop the WORLD 🌎 CHANGE THE WORD love TO trust AND UNDERSTAND THE MICRO AS WELL AS THE MACRO

  • @monikakpos7667
    @monikakpos7667 12 днів тому +2

    Am irreplaceable...

  • @Unrattled
    @Unrattled 9 днів тому

    She said she wanted me to leave her alone, so I left her alone. No calls, no texts. I stopped existing in her world.

  • @carolynshook1053
    @carolynshook1053 12 днів тому

    Amen been there

  • @RichardSansone-y8u
    @RichardSansone-y8u 6 днів тому

    Iam Julie I need this to help me with the choice my adult child has made to not communicate with me n cut me out only to see me when she is acting in a show she invites me but that's it she went almost a yr not seeing me or talking n now another year. There was nothing in particular like a conflict or anything that happened I was not there 20 yrs ago but I thought that was forgiven. It hurts so much my only child 33 yrs old. I was diagnosed with cancer 3 yrs ago n now in remission. I am happy for that.n if she loves me time will tell. This silence is worth a try. Love to all n anyone that read this n prays for all hurting n lost . Pls know you r not alone. Xxoo ❤❤❤

  • @PhilTate-s1g
    @PhilTate-s1g 14 днів тому +3

    forget apart past relationships if they didn't work either a cheat ??or just move up be happy with yourself meet someone else or not 😮

  • @RichardSansone-y8u
    @RichardSansone-y8u 6 днів тому

    I want to live again happy

  • @melanieorcia4631
    @melanieorcia4631 14 днів тому +4

    My silent is reality, my silent is my power, my silent is my truth, my silent is killing them??sarot??? hehe my silent is God honor and glory🙏

  • @bugzdesilva8216
    @bugzdesilva8216 8 днів тому +1

    I built the power of silence, he seems happy and replaced me with a bauble. I don't care though. I don't want to see myself step back into a garbage pile. I see and work with him most of the time however I see in his eyes that he repents the high quality prize he lost.

  • @Cocoabeanandvanibean
    @Cocoabeanandvanibean 13 днів тому

    Kp it up!

  • @dedereimer5472
    @dedereimer5472 14 днів тому +2

    The end of his last text said, "I'll come visit you this summer sometime.". I saw thru his lies & texted that back. 4 mos. later, I accidentally touched his number but I hung up right away. He called back but I did not answer. He asked for me to do him a favor. He then said, "We (his mom) miss you, I miss you.". I still kept silent, never called back. Did my accidental call ruin my "silence?"

    • @nancyaustin4665
      @nancyaustin4665 13 днів тому

      I am free now

    • @ellakidd6512
      @ellakidd6512 13 днів тому

      My silence is my strength

    • @poohsroadful
      @poohsroadful 12 днів тому

      I don't think so. I think he admitted his discomfort. But sometimes it's hard for a man because of their pride to admit that he needs you back. But I think that you are doing the right thing by staying silent so please stay silent. Stay strong and just stay committed to being true to yourself and true to your needs at this time. I just did this with my man and it took 4 days before he realized my worth in his life and he was showering me with gifts and asking me what I needed in our relationship and we're doing better now. So just stay strong but don't wait too long because life is short and everybody deserves to be loved the way they want to be loved

    • @uagang3872
      @uagang3872 12 днів тому +1

      Do yall have a child together or any other ties that cause you to still have their number in your phone? If not, it may be best to delete his number and block it to prevent any further accidents.

  • @ellakidd6512
    @ellakidd6512 13 днів тому +2

    I am irreplaceable

    • @poohsroadful
      @poohsroadful 12 днів тому +1

      I know, right? That is a good point in this message.

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 11 днів тому

    Alone

  • @wildflowerfreetobe9532
    @wildflowerfreetobe9532 9 днів тому

    What if they are waiting for us to reach out? What if we are both expecting each other to?

  • @jenelynceb0731
    @jenelynceb0731 14 днів тому +4

    My situation now 💔

  • @RobinetteWortham
    @RobinetteWortham 12 днів тому +2

    Im not worried. Silence. Is. Golden 😂😂😂😂

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 9 днів тому

    I won't see, for i am in no contact mode,and silence is my navigation mode.

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 9 днів тому

    So what about the new supply? Is she not able to help the narcissist in times of these desperation?

  • @KingStoic101
    @KingStoic101 4 дні тому

    Staying silent after being rejected is not about hurting others, it is about maintaining your dignity and peace. Could this quiet strength be the ultimate sign of self control and resilience?

  • @marywarrior47
    @marywarrior47 10 днів тому

    KEEP IT UP
    SILENCE IS
    GOLDEN 😂❤
    I'M FOCUSING ON BUILDING
    MY VALUE
    I'M MORE THAN
    ENOUGH ""
    GOING ON 4 DAY'S OF NO CONTACT & COUNTING,
    HE NEVER SAW IT COMING,
    😢I MUST ADMIT THAT IT STILL HURTS " BECAUSE I KNOW THAT HE'S HURTING
    I WILL MOVE ON THE HEARTACHE IS LESS & THE TEARS IS LESS
    BECAUSE THIS IS THE 2nd. TIME THAT I LET HIM GO,
    THE FIRST TIME I LET HIM KNOW,
    THE 2nd TIME
    I DIDN'T EVEN TELL HIM ANYTHING, I JUST DISAPPEARED.
    SO I FEEL MUCH STRONGER 💪

  • @beverlygarcia6475
    @beverlygarcia6475 9 днів тому

    I am on that silent journey because the ex lie to me so I was done and I went silent

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 11 днів тому

    The dead IN Christ SHALL rise 1st... says so ....can't wait sir

  • @sandie4870
    @sandie4870 12 днів тому +1

    Unfortunately, I broke my silence and he never responded. It’s been 2 wks and I haven’t reached out again.

    • @mommafoxxdiaries6509
      @mommafoxxdiaries6509 11 днів тому +3

      Yeah..Don’t forget the reason you went silent the first place💯🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 11 днів тому +1

    This whole thing about “ no contact” and “ Playing little games to make them miss you” is ridiculous. I’m seeing this everywhere. Gents if she walks out on you it’s over. She is not at all interested in you. A woman is not wired that way. Women do not emotionally bond with men. It’s a transaction to them. That’s all it is. This video is so wrong. She’s not replaying anything or even thinking of you. She is not thinking of you anymore than u think of the clerk at the convenience store. When she leaves, delete her and quit trying this getting her back thing. You’re just running in circles cause she does not miss you or even think of you. Actually she’s glad u are gone. You’re a pest to her. Yes dude emotionally she is going somewhere. She is not like a man. A man has the ability to miss a person when they walk out. The vast majority of females are not like this. This video is very misleading and not correct. You never meant anything to her. You were just a transaction. Please don’t sit there in depression and pity. There’s plenty more chicks out there. When she moves on, u move on. Actually u should be spinning plates because most women are spinning plates too.

    • @lisa5821
      @lisa5821 8 днів тому

      Do you think it's the same if the man was the one that walked on the woman? My ex's never come back to me, not sure how all these women get ex's to come back who left them 🥲

  • @PhilTate-s1g
    @PhilTate-s1g 14 днів тому +1

    actually this would work of they actually were bothering about you ,if not move on to something else, give them nothing if you wanted to come back lol 😆

  • @florasadoa-nm6bs
    @florasadoa-nm6bs 14 днів тому +1

    Is silence means anything when he is already has another girl

  • @theophilusmaccado6101
    @theophilusmaccado6101 11 днів тому +1

    I'd say it works for some people, in my case,I gave the woman the world,all the vacations,the flowers time,love, care,protection, in the end I got dumped coz I asked why she never want to spend her money on me,4 days of no contact,she already monkey branched,and she did told me once tht she'll never be single,😂😂😂,I don't believe this will work on someone that cold,but either way,her loss,and it hurts,a lot.

  • @RichardSansone-y8u
    @RichardSansone-y8u 6 днів тому

    It's julie😢😊

  • @stevieblackburn3811
    @stevieblackburn3811 11 днів тому

    The hyenas have had their last laugh at the creators yes yes yes

  • @lisa5821
    @lisa5821 9 днів тому

    Unfortunately I lashed out after he got distant after sex. But I blocked in everything, didn't sit and wait for a response. and never looked back. Saw him on a dating app recently and he looks sad in his new pics lol

  • @sallydaly5597
    @sallydaly5597 9 днів тому

    Keep it up😂.

  • @SomesaAn
    @SomesaAn 11 днів тому

    UA-cam found just few it’s sound makes sense 😂 & Facebook none different earth 😅

  • @tamraholland2285
    @tamraholland2285 9 днів тому +1

    staying strong… 🎉😂 hope he finds a new victim. i did my time

  • @nirmalasanjiv7624
    @nirmalasanjiv7624 День тому

    No never such cunning cheaters waiting us to move on ourself n enjoying thier life bzc what they wanted from us to set thier life is served. Loss is for us hence we r in tear my question is with universe r u always with cheaters? Why?