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  • @skyclarking-123
    @skyclarking-123 5 років тому +318

    Ya know - never in a million years, I thought, would I spend so much time watching videos like these. But circumstances brought me to you. I have learned from you.

    • @BanksdaLoneTraveller
      @BanksdaLoneTraveller 4 роки тому +7

      ClarksoninJapan well I can relate bro

    • @Rauls026
      @Rauls026 4 роки тому +6

      ClarksoninJapan his videos are life changing.. seriously

    • @mikecurtis7535
      @mikecurtis7535 Рік тому +1

      ​@@BanksdaLoneTraveller ❤❤❤

    • @SavedbyGrace7773
      @SavedbyGrace7773 11 місяців тому

      Amen

    • @SavedbyGrace7773
      @SavedbyGrace7773 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Rauls026I am just blessed I am one who knows about Corey

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 6 років тому +290

    Need a "Read the book 10-15 times" T-shirt

  • @roylopez5430
    @roylopez5430 6 років тому +140

    Read the book guys 10 to 15 times
    So you wont end up in 1 of his videos.

  • @championchuck929
    @championchuck929 10 років тому +183

    Wow...he took her all around the world ....and STILL got FREIND ZONE! #KnowTheBook

    • @Freddy1992100
      @Freddy1992100 10 років тому +16

      power of the p my brother

    • @andreagomera
      @andreagomera 7 років тому +2

      Robbie Cole not moved by emotions. Not begging nor stalking . I can't explain I just apply it.

    • @tommiegallegos5162
      @tommiegallegos5162 5 років тому +3

      Love takes more than money

    • @vtchevalier
      @vtchevalier 5 років тому +1

      10 to 15 times

    • @lucerovlogs3045
      @lucerovlogs3045 4 роки тому +8

      He became the gay Male girlfriend

  • @12121994
    @12121994 5 років тому +95

    Honestly, it may sound like Coach is trying to push sales for his book sometimes...
    But NO! He's telling you exactly what you need to hear and actually do! Read the MFING book, people (and 10-15 times)!! If you don't, then hey, it's your loss. More for us who actually put in the time and energy and do the work.
    You're the best, Coach!

    • @briandoile5011
      @briandoile5011 5 років тому +9

      Plus you read the damn thing for free. I'm on my first read right now. Absolutely free!

    • @Flosseveryday
      @Flosseveryday 5 років тому +5

      @@briandoile5011 me too, I sucked on a beautiful titty, shortly after getting the book.
      The book has saved me from making so many mistakes.

    • @briandoile5011
      @briandoile5011 5 років тому

      @@Flosseveryday Congratulations. I hope you set your sights a little further next time.

    • @omgurheadsgone
      @omgurheadsgone 4 роки тому +1

      And the books free just by signing up for his email letter

    • @bustinacupp7440
      @bustinacupp7440 4 роки тому +4

      Mahedi M And it's not like he's saying buy 10-15 of my books.

  • @Eternal996
    @Eternal996 7 років тому +107

    The phone is for setting dates.

    • @Fsn9HD
      @Fsn9HD 3 роки тому +8

      Indeed.
      The inner constant fight is: "Should i text something?"
      But, we already know that, attraction builds in space, and we must love in order to give freedom to the other.
      Love is outside the phone.

    • @derekenlow7607
      @derekenlow7607 3 місяці тому

      Life is outside the phone . ​@@Fsn9HD

  • @andrebaxter4023
    @andrebaxter4023 5 років тому +135

    Gotta have the full game (master the book). The videos are just dlc, extra.

    • @Dragon-lt8ze
      @Dragon-lt8ze 5 років тому +8

      Fucking brilliant. I love it !

    • @TheTylerHofer
      @TheTylerHofer 4 роки тому +9

      Wanna 100% the game? Get the audio book too, his read puts it into a prospective that was missing during my own read through. On my 5th read of the book and 5th listen of the audio book, just struggling with my own confidence atm but still kicking ass🤙

    • @flo_ridaa7074
      @flo_ridaa7074 4 роки тому +3

      Great analogy

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 9 місяців тому

      The absolute best way I have ever heard it put. As a gamer, this is 100% spot on!

  • @IsraelSocial
    @IsraelSocial 8 років тому +203

    Read the damm book for christ sake

    • @gareth6525
      @gareth6525 7 років тому +7

      Robbie Cole When you don't move from your masculine side to the feminine side and you remain focused on your male drive in life. Hope it helps

    • @nathanhoward1462
      @nathanhoward1462 6 років тому

      Lol

    • @HeyYoSurveyTime
      @HeyYoSurveyTime 5 років тому

      Lmao

  • @chrisp3834
    @chrisp3834 7 років тому +70

    Great video. He is absolutely right. have your own life and she has hers. If you make her the center of your life it will backfire.

  • @maikovela326
    @maikovela326 5 місяців тому +2

    Remember gentleman "you don't get what you deserve, only what you negotiate " Coach C.Dub

  • @davyjones9595
    @davyjones9595 4 роки тому +40

    I saw my ex I was centered but she was still bitter and a little of tilt. She stated how can you be yourself I told her you were the one that made yourself miserable by ending it. 2 weeks later she called and we went out for an awesome date. At 1st she was testing me acting snotty and bitter I stopped and said I'm gonna have fun tonight either with you or without you, your choice. Her attitude changed and actually made out later that night. Like Corey says women will test you til your death. Express to them why they picked you as there MAN

  • @luisanselmo6235
    @luisanselmo6235 5 років тому +42

    Have to be strong when falling in love 💪🏼😻💪🏼

    • @abc4781
      @abc4781 3 роки тому

      Gotta have the strength to break your fall.

  • @gonzalezj70
    @gonzalezj70 Рік тому +2

    I am in sales, and Corey is right phone only for making appointments, and keep the customer talking !!!

  • @helpman42k
    @helpman42k 6 років тому +25

    Coaches advice at the end of the last mail hit it on the head. If someone isn't going to stick by you and starts looking around as soon as times get tough... Red flag!

  • @DefinitionLegend
    @DefinitionLegend 9 років тому +32

    I fell victim to a situation relatively close to this one. I was 17 (about a year ago) and was doing similar things. The biggest problem I regret making was standing up for myself and telling this girl that I was talking to that if she didn't break up with her boyfriend I wouldn't hang out with her anymore. I stood my ground. The problem was I caved in about 5 days into this and texted her. You can imagine what happened after that point....then when she started ignoring me I panicked and texted her telling her about my feelings for her. Now that I look back I can't believe what the hell was going on in my mind. I read your book once and looking forward to reading it again. I learned 5 things from my experiences this that I am thankful for..... 1. Never snap chat or text a girl in order to get to know her. 2. Make sure you have a license and car before you decide you want to date someone. 3. Give her space and don't talk to her everyday. 4. Do not become emotionally attached to a girl when you barely know her. 5. Learn to counter shit tests in order not fail all of them.
    hahaha. It wasn't until recently that I looked back and realized how many times she actually tested me. It was quite a shock once I got more experience and an understanding of things. wow.

    • @alistairproductions
      @alistairproductions 9 років тому +2

      Carnage Why about the car?

    • @gareth6525
      @gareth6525 7 років тому +2

      Carnage thanks for your input I just fell victim to a similar situation when the girl I was vibing with just wants to be friends but I told her I wasn't interested and that she can message me if she changes her mind. Going good so far I haven't given in but I'll have to see her in the near future to exchange books with her... should be interesting 😂😂😂

    • @pssoa1112
      @pssoa1112 7 років тому

      scmog Not only that , you are restrained in your location options

    • @Shteedbee
      @Shteedbee 11 місяців тому +1

      Dooood…you are so lucky to have this knowledge at such a young age. Slay it!

  • @zizou357
    @zizou357 2 роки тому +6

    the hard work starts before you meet that woman. If you really enjoy your life as a single man, and doing stuff you´re good at, then you have something to fall back on. So if you meet a woman and things are going south, you won´t be afraid of walking away if necessary.
    conclusion: work on yourself and maintain that masculine core at all times! 💥

  • @masculinespeaks
    @masculinespeaks 5 років тому +12

    I love your blatant truthfulness. Listened to your audio book at least 20 times in the last six months. Really enjoy your content.

  • @sonicpowerr4068
    @sonicpowerr4068 Рік тому +2

    Corey is not just a man, this man is a relationship, personal life & self improvement god.

    • @sonicpowerr4068
      @sonicpowerr4068 10 місяців тому

      @@Sayed-du9px don't call me a dude, I am a man. maybe your are a dude. I know about my comment, you got nothing to say about it. you should google 'god meaning' that will help.

  • @HeyYoSurveyTime
    @HeyYoSurveyTime 5 років тому +56

    I read the book 9 times. Catastrophic divorce.

  • @miltonfogg2875
    @miltonfogg2875 7 років тому +18

    your videos are awesome I'm gonna buy this book I found myself to be the masculine in the beginning and being the leader but I got the whole relaxed deal and became the woman but now working on my peaceful center and reevaluating...she said she liked how I was before so I've been keeping in mind keep it light don't smother.

  • @MonotoniTV
    @MonotoniTV Рік тому +15

    Corey always says "read the book, learn the fundamentals"
    They aren't that hard to understand. It's actually pretty simple. You'll get the hang of it pretty fast. Only problem I have is the selfcontrol to actually use it

  • @klueboy131
    @klueboy131 8 років тому +23

    To quote "create an opportunity for her to have sex at your place" Love that. It's paramount that we don't neglect ourselves and all the hard work for a lady's approval.

  • @JZX619
    @JZX619 8 років тому +79

    Today's content would have saved me from a lot of months wasted on delusions I had for a couple of girls

  • @JessicaHeagy
    @JessicaHeagy 5 років тому +6

    You are absolutely brilliant, Corey Wayne!!! Thank you very much for sharing your tutorials. You are always SPOT-ON with your advice. I’ll be checking out your book!

  • @NicolasVidalGomez0
    @NicolasVidalGomez0 5 років тому +10

    I am 23 I was really immature in my relationship then I tried to make things right with my ex but she didn’t feel the same way then I act needy and beg for her love it was worse thanks Coach now I realize that if someone doesn’t want to be in your life you just have to let it go , learn and accept and I’m going to read your book coach certainly more than ten times thanks

  • @miltonfogg2875
    @miltonfogg2875 7 років тому +3

    I found that if you chase like you said, she will run farther away. So I don't chase now but hang back and relax but being assertive.

  • @DailyServers
    @DailyServers 6 років тому +8

    I remember my ex telling me I had changed and I couldn’t even believe it but past four months I’ve really realised that I had done and well just trying to work on myself and be that awesome guy I was haha

  • @MuttsWithGuts
    @MuttsWithGuts 4 роки тому +5

    I'm buying the audio book from Apple, but i'll convert it to play on my Android. I'll listen to it 10 to 15 times. I promise me.

  • @synon9m
    @synon9m 9 років тому +37

    wow dude, been there. trying to turn sex-playmates into girlfriends. not reading the writing on the wall. getting dumped. wondering what went wrong....

  • @griim0wnz
    @griim0wnz 10 років тому +23

    For my girlfriend i have a communication chart to make sure i never do more than 10-20% of the initiating. It works really well. At this point, i don't even initiate communication at all. Because once she reaches out i set the next date and there is no point to contact her after that at all. :)

    • @youngwarriorpopocaca
      @youngwarriorpopocaca 10 років тому +3

      Seems a little crazy Jason Arnold lmao but hey wat works for you!

  • @trooper744
    @trooper744 6 років тому +55

    There is a fine line between being your wife or girlfriends beta servant and being her rock, her leader and her man. It's funny, the majority of us are not born with the skills and tools to navigate the very Pandora's box of women's emotions. Now we may not be able to control the emotions of a woman, but we are able to control our reactions as men. The game here is, knowing when to step up and set them straight and when to (not passively) remain assertive yet quiet. Above all we must remain calm and centered. Women become bitchy for a number of reasons, hormones, a personality disorder, and or long lasting bitchyness due to your inattentiveness and excited spastic behavior which leads to her (emotional creatures) having to assume the role of a man.. and if that is not turned around quick, you will be cheated on and dumped. I am seeing it now in many relationships and the man is completely complacent thinking he is "safe" and when it finally hits you it is already too late. Being proactive by working hard on yourself and your relationship is key to a successful loving relationship with open communication. Love her, be physical with her, be spontaneous, work hard, be an individual, be a bit of an asshole sometimes but be centered and assertive. No one likes a fat lazy couch potato who is going no where in life because he is in his comfort zone, its boring and completely unfuckable. If you are that person who complains that his wife is a constant bitch, then maybe it is you who is the bitch.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 6 років тому +3

      Personality disordered individuals are the worst be it men or women.

    • @pdors94
      @pdors94 5 років тому +2

      @@ak-47intelligence75 if that's the case then Most people have a personality disorder..(especially women)..

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 років тому

      @@pdors94 😂😂😂 really ? Sounds like you're bitter. Sorry you think all of us are like that.

    • @pdors94
      @pdors94 5 років тому

      @@ak-47intelligence75 lol..just stating the facts baby doll..and plus i never said it was All of you..just Most of you..tsk..😜👍

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 років тому

      @@pdors94 ooohhhh. I'm so impressed. Great argument. NOT 😂🥳🤮🤭👍

  • @jesseroussellmusic
    @jesseroussellmusic 6 років тому +2

    my friend is 11 years OLDER than me and he THINKS he KNOWS woman... I pointed him in the right direction to your videos and encouraged him to BUY YOUR BOOK(s) ...I hope he will be smart and take the correct steps to become a 3% man!

  • @frankies1245
    @frankies1245 10 років тому +22

    Some girls are definitely trustworthy and faithful. For example today I started a conversation with this beautiful girl in my college and after a few, I said I gotta go but I'd like to take her out for a drink and then asked her number. She was a little shocked about how confident and easy I was without any pressure. She nicely said she is taken, I even made a little joke like he can keep you busy when you're not with me and she laughed and then I left. Obviously that's a great girl. If she wasn't she'd be a girl just like the one from the email. Great video coach! My skills are getting better and stronger everyday! I read the book every night! :D

    • @rogernkosi8420
      @rogernkosi8420 6 років тому +6

      Dude, or you were just not attractive to her...

    • @vivianholmes8637
      @vivianholmes8637 6 років тому +28

      @@rogernkosi8420
      The fact you had to leave something negative on a comment made 4 years ago says a lot about you man

    • @burnsyodice3049
      @burnsyodice3049 4 роки тому

      dude never say he can keep you busy when youre not with me to a girl that has a boyfriend! lol. that shows you have zero integrity that youd date and seduce someone else's girlfriend! really bad way to go never get involved with someone elses girlfriend, nothing good comes from that. Say, something like oh come on thats the oldest line in the book bc she could just be lying about the boyfriend and maybe you can push her a bit but after that if she says no I really do or you know she really has a boyfriend then just say well i dont wanna get in the middle of that but definitely give me a call if it doesnt work out be great to get together and see if shell take down your number and if it doesnt work out and shes interested you will definitely hear from her. but walk and never look back bc you have no idea she could end up marrying the dude, dont put your life on hold.
      this is what happens when people cherrypick info from corey and dont know everything. they are like oh i remember some line corey always says let me try saying that. when he says he can keep you busy when youre not with me, thats if things are progressing well with a girl and she starts to back off or feel unsure and brings up how she just got out of a relationship and still feels for him or she is dating some other guy. then you could use that line to just get her mind of the negatives and sad emotions.

    • @TheCromcrom
      @TheCromcrom 2 роки тому

      @@burnsyodice3049 well, you can say this to a girl whi is DATING another guy, but indeed, not to a girl wha has a boyfriend.

  • @sweetswing1
    @sweetswing1 7 років тому +67

    Hey Corey, may I suggest you create a follow up quiz or ten for your book. You always suggest reading it 10 times or more but studies show that quizzes are much more effective as a way to retain information. Thanks for the great content man.

    • @8d3g5af8
      @8d3g5af8 2 роки тому +9

      I feel like you gotta make that on quizlet. I like your idea

    • @hectorgutierrez5240
      @hectorgutierrez5240 2 роки тому +5

      Take these videos as quizzes, as he reads see if u can spot where he fucked up before corey points it out.

    • @robertsaget6918
      @robertsaget6918 2 роки тому +1

      why don't you make the quiz as a way of studying?

  • @titumiah2372
    @titumiah2372 5 років тому +5

    Main man Corey, Changed my life.

  • @tommiegallegos5162
    @tommiegallegos5162 5 років тому +6

    I'm going to read that book 10 or 15 times !!!

  • @brendanmcpike184
    @brendanmcpike184 2 роки тому +1

    Not only learn the fundamentals, but integrate them.

  • @christopherarmstrong2710
    @christopherarmstrong2710 3 роки тому +4

    13:14 If you don't respect yourself enough, a woman's gonna quickly lose respect for you as well. And if a woman loses respect for you, she will fall out of love with you. And if you're just simply dating, she will never fall in love with you.

  • @bloodwashedsaint
    @bloodwashedsaint Рік тому +2

    The fundamentals of what this man teaches is Godly wisdom… try it, it will make sense to you.

  • @Covarrubias2k
    @Covarrubias2k 10 років тому +22

    You should do bootcamps Coach.

  • @bigbiyyy
    @bigbiyyy 4 роки тому +2

    corey straight spitting fire on this video, favourite of mannnyy

  • @Mr.KymLLC
    @Mr.KymLLC 7 років тому +5

    SMH with Truth... thanks coach

  • @sandyshorewalker5364
    @sandyshorewalker5364 8 років тому +2

    I think a lot of the advice you give guys is bang on. You told this guy to think this girl's motives of not having sex temporary or changing their current dating pattern to take a breather was because she wanted a clear conscience to see other men was correct. This stipulation is used by men all the time when they do not be the exclusive lover and need permission to pursue other women while putting their current relationship on hold. Good that you advised against it as she is probably just wasting his time if he marriage minded.

  • @jonathanlutton1858
    @jonathanlutton1858 2 роки тому

    What a great video…Every guy needs to hear this👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @jasonhayes3944
    @jasonhayes3944 2 роки тому

    Coach is very well spoken the more you read his book watch his videos the more of his words an phrases you’ll pick up not to plagiarize him but use that as a base to form your own style the gift of gab will take you a long way with these women an if you can talk slick like coach cats n the bag pun intended 💯💪

  • @Zain.Basi1
    @Zain.Basi1 5 років тому +11

    I just watched this video 10 to 15 times

  • @methodunknownthemethodclon9253
    @methodunknownthemethodclon9253 8 років тому +13

    Ha, I like this guy.

  • @stevenf7564
    @stevenf7564 4 роки тому +1

    I pray you are doing well coach❣

  • @hypnotechno
    @hypnotechno 4 роки тому +3

    The problem it seems is largely dependent on one's nature. Corey seems to be a rather happy go lucky calm kind of guy, with a smile on his face all the time. Somepeople are anxious worriers by nature. They can fake this stuff, and food girls into bed, but it will be a short while before the girl sees the guy is a natural worrier and ditch him. Best such a person can hope for is to meet a girl that loves his as he is, even if this is not the naturally calm, patient, unemotional guy that he has to pretend to be

    • @TheCromcrom
      @TheCromcrom 2 роки тому +2

      This is the principle of dating, to find the right woman for you. That aside, I am a worrier myself, but I am working on myself.

  • @8754roberto
    @8754roberto 7 років тому +4

    thanks coach corey! another awesome video, unfortunately no body teach us how to be man in this society , but you doo😍😎

  • @astoria1111
    @astoria1111 10 років тому +6

    thanks Corey you the man

  • @blaxktruth8039
    @blaxktruth8039 6 років тому +7

    That last guy was a damn pawn

  • @kenediii_ryan
    @kenediii_ryan 4 роки тому +2

    I like Coach Corey

  • @roncall6065
    @roncall6065 2 роки тому

    Exceptional Video. One of the best one’s ever #CLASSIC

  • @cbournes100
    @cbournes100 5 років тому +2

    Corey you're the man👊👊👏👏

  • @Supafly1998
    @Supafly1998 6 років тому +1

    The intro quote is amazing!

  • @Lautaro95w
    @Lautaro95w 7 місяців тому

    Hi.. non english speaker here. Can someone please tell me if I correctly wrote the quote at the begining of the video? Because I really liked it. Thanks! :)
    -"No matter what is going on in your life, you should not loose your feeling of inner peace and optimism about your future.
    Only allow the circumstances of our lives to uncenter us or diminish us in any way by signing negative meanings of circumstances of our lives. This will negativily impact our happiness finances, business, relationships, frienships and our overall quality of life.
    The only thing we have control over in life is the meanings that we give to the events of circumstances of our lives.
    If we allow ourselfs to become uncentered and fearfull, many things we hold dear in our lives will unravel quickly and create even greater chaos and fear."

  • @thomasbrennan6303
    @thomasbrennan6303 5 років тому +5

    I'm confused about guy #3. Were they a bf/gf relationship, or were they just seeing each other and hooking up? If they're not in a committed relationship, who's to say that she can't keep her options open if this guy is starting to drop the ball?

  • @southpawrey3541
    @southpawrey3541 8 років тому +18

    i honestly don't think it's even possible for a guy to remain centered unless he's seeing other woman. i don't see guys having much control in their emotions at all. for example jealousy, a guy who isn't seeing other woman but feels his woman is seeing other men will have a difficult time staying positive around here or wanting to understand with that thought in their mind. for me seeing another woman on the side i am able to treat them both like my lovers and i'm centered confident and able to still give all my attention to the one i'm with. could this have any truth to it.

    • @dvdylan
      @dvdylan 8 років тому +12

      Thats a limiting belief, if you focus on your purpose you will get alot of satisfaction in life from that instead of your girlfriend.

    • @southpawrey3541
      @southpawrey3541 8 років тому +2

      True :) the two girls found out about each other so their both being distant now anyway lol I'm now seeing another one. But yea I need to really focus on my life instead of woman so true.

    • @Fakestockguru
      @Fakestockguru 5 років тому +5

      SouthPaw Rey I agree 100%. When im dating multiple women im laid back dont give a fuck. When its one woman I over analyze the situation and get thrown iff center.

    • @SamS-fd5qt
      @SamS-fd5qt 5 років тому +4

      SouthPaw Rey I completely 100% agree with you. I’m talking to 3 women right now to see who gets the furthest and I’m a lot more centered. If one takes off of starts acting distant, it doesn’t effect me one way or another.

    • @coreychad6993
      @coreychad6993 5 років тому +1

      I'd fuck up and call one by the others name haha

  • @johnkennedy8795
    @johnkennedy8795 4 роки тому

    It surely can't be only 3 % Man anymore,,, US guys at last are learning,, Think I'm 2% I'm nailing it now, Soooo read the God Damm Book never mind 15 times, I'm Changing it 20 times guys, Cmon", Thanks Corey top man,

  • @ChiragPooniwala
    @ChiragPooniwala 3 місяці тому

    I wish all this was in a book so i could read it 10-15 times...

  • @MelaniaSideWigga
    @MelaniaSideWigga 5 років тому +2

    "Hi...I'm Coach..." Luv the nasal quality & hard suface acoustics. Sincerly, it's endearing! Keep on Truckin' (so we can keep on fuckin') Coach Corey.

  • @Mr.KymLLC
    @Mr.KymLLC 5 років тому +1

    Thanks coach

  • @Samsonmanase
    @Samsonmanase 2 роки тому

    Love this ! To many 💎

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 7 років тому

    Thank you, Corey.

  • @dnydeltoro
    @dnydeltoro 5 місяців тому

    Having the patience is so tough

  • @bocacocasky3581
    @bocacocasky3581 5 років тому +1

    Coach, you are speaking such truths here. Some chicks are just sex buddies. I semi trusted a female that had her ex pop up twice. I reached out to him cause my gut said said she was lying. He said they were still dating and he knew about me. I said bro grow some balls- you can have her and ten more just like her. Once I caught her the lie game over!!! We deserve better- that's why we date!!!

  • @1125sherburn
    @1125sherburn 10 років тому +1

    Yea baby first one here!

  • @spraycheese743
    @spraycheese743 4 роки тому

    I love this guy

  • @aashorgashrestha495
    @aashorgashrestha495 3 роки тому +1

    Love you Corey

  • @Mr.KymLLC
    @Mr.KymLLC 7 років тому +1

    thanks,...

  • @unabridgeddick6645
    @unabridgeddick6645 Рік тому

    The guy spoken about in the beginning, I went through the same poor reactions and internalized anxiety and shit, but it wasn't until she started revealing her BPD and possible sociopathy. Don't ignore any red flags!

  • @zachdobson9981
    @zachdobson9981 6 років тому +3

    What if you live with your mother to help her get her financial legs back. It is a small apartment, and I don't see how inviting the girl over to make dinner will work if my mother is there. What else can I do?

    • @garyd3226
      @garyd3226 4 роки тому

      Good question bro

    • @mhaas281
      @mhaas281 9 місяців тому

      ​@@garyd3226 explain the situation to her before inviting. It's not rocket science.

  • @TomStick91
    @TomStick91 10 років тому +2

    I think Charles Trippy (CTFxC) needs to start watching your videos! A lot of the stuff you talk about could be useful in his current situation.

  • @ezengineering4363
    @ezengineering4363 2 роки тому +2

    Does Corey have a video on losing your center/ staying strong during financial stress ? I’ve just taken a heavy knock to my finances and I cut things off with my gf because I am not strong and centred right now. She’s also not in a great place emotionally but honestly I don’t think that should even be factored. Any advise or recommendations would be awesome

    • @grandnattygarage7355
      @grandnattygarage7355 2 роки тому +2

      Sorry to hear about that man, stay strong. I took a bad hit years ago and I can say, some times you have to just except the fact you lost $ get back on track and focus on making things better. They always get better. Best of luck!

    • @ezengineering4363
      @ezengineering4363 2 роки тому +1

      @@grandnattygarage7355 thanks man. Doing a lot better than when I wrote this post. Every challenge in life is the opportunity to grow and level up.

  • @diegotejera2742
    @diegotejera2742 9 місяців тому

    Corey you could have just as well be teaching a contractors licensing course very skillfully. Glad you chose relationships dude ✌️

  • @tomcaviar7651
    @tomcaviar7651 5 років тому +2

    what if you tried to make a date and she rejected you twice? I've completely given up on her and she still plays games and I stopped asking for a date. I've since moved on but she still plays games. I feel this is a hopeless situation. What does she want and why bother me. I dont react, I'm centered and focused on my purpose but she can't seem to leave it alone. I refuse to ask her out anymore and I'm not playing her games.

    • @burnsyodice3049
      @burnsyodice3049 4 роки тому +1

      dude definitely dont give in. some women are like this, who the fuck knows maybe shes lonely and not getting the attention from her boyfriend maybe she just wants to be friends flip a fucking coin. ive had the exact experience. but stay strong dont bullshit yourself into thinking shes interested unless things are moving forward, making dates etc.
      do what your doing, she texts, you say great to hear from you hope youre well im a bit busy/jammed up right now cant talk keep in touch. say it in 1 text! just like corey says 1 of 2 things are gonna happen either shell stop contacting you or bring up getting together! hes spot on.
      keep giving her the same response over and over if she keeps texting you. no matter what she says unless she brings up getting together.
      some women will say anything. I literally had a girl who i found out was fucking engaged doing this to me. refusing to meet up saying things like you know ive always liked you, idk if im even getting married anymore, maybe we have been together too long. she would have done anything to keep me in backup position or friendzone or whatever the fuck she was doing but bottom line was i couldnt get anywhere with her. after a long time of me not asking her to do anything. she felt like i was really gone. she even invites herself over to my place and comes over basically half naked essentially to torture me

  • @AJC8161990
    @AJC8161990 5 років тому +2

    And by the way...did i tell you to read the book?

  • @johnyrynjah184
    @johnyrynjah184 5 років тому +1

    After reading your book 9 times, I am now a Doctor, because I Treat all women the same. I will read 16 times.

  • @andreisaacs4170
    @andreisaacs4170 9 років тому +3

    what if i was being too clingy and she wants space and i already agreed??.....do i just wait for her to contact me ??

    • @4570Govt
      @4570Govt 8 років тому +2

      +Andre Isaacs Yup, let her come to you.

    • @macioluko9484
      @macioluko9484 8 років тому +12

      +Andre Isaacs Yes. The ONLY way you are allowed to contact her is if she contacts you first. Until then, no b-day wishes, no happy Hanukkah no FB likes NOTHING! Good luck. You can do it.

    • @Diazlsx07
      @Diazlsx07 8 років тому +4

      Andre Isaacs if you're a man, you're busy and that should steer your mind from her.

    • @Fakestockguru
      @Fakestockguru 5 років тому

      So what happened? Lol

  • @VeaireProductions
    @VeaireProductions 4 роки тому

    Lmaoooo 25:20 I can just hear the fire alarms going off in Corey’s head here

  • @ofertasimplepanama9875
    @ofertasimplepanama9875 4 роки тому

    Why why why? Why on earth I haven’t seen this long time ago, I lost a woman that truly loves me and am regretting soooo bad. Now I don’t know if she’s ever coming back after begging and pleading her for 2 weeks and even cried in front of her mom.

  • @devonscope6222
    @devonscope6222 5 років тому +3

    The intro sounds so intense at 1.75x speed 😂

  • @usmc3218
    @usmc3218 5 років тому +2

    25:23 .. "That is a big shitburger sandwich." 😂😂👍🏼

    • @VeaireProductions
      @VeaireProductions 4 роки тому +1

      usmc 321 that shit had me dying

    • @usmc3218
      @usmc3218 4 роки тому +1

      @@VeaireProductions right!?? ! 🤣

  • @underthetalltrees
    @underthetalltrees 5 років тому +1

    Would it be fair to try and get answers from her in this situation, months after.?

  • @bozgaming333
    @bozgaming333 10 років тому +2

    Everybody tune in at 11:43. best shit ever.

    • @TheMrgranted
      @TheMrgranted 9 років тому

      6Intuition and by the way... read the book ;)

  • @Starmaker908
    @Starmaker908 5 років тому +2

    Yo its crazy how natural backwards you can be when it comes to women...

    • @burnsyodice3049
      @burnsyodice3049 4 роки тому

      thats exactly it before youre in a committed relationship you really barely have to do anything but set dates, have fun etc. and when youre in a relationship just have to give her the love and praise and attention that you opened her up to receive and shell be calling and texting and wanting your attention all the time.
      it makes sense when you accept the fact that it makes no sense to our logical brain!! when you do it right you will prob feel like wtf how is girl liking me and wanting to be with me, im not buying her gifts, im not taking her to fancy dates, im not telling her how much she means to me, im not texting her everyday to make sure she know i still care, fuck im not even telling her that much about me! im just asking her questions.
      and it can be the smallest littlest things in the beginning when a girl doesnt really know you that make all the difference. I went on 1 date with a great girl, definitely girl that had a lot of options, blonde, tall, fit, smart, hot as hell, outgoing, date went great, couple hours connected well kiss at the end, then she had mentioned that 5 days later was her birthday. So my logical guy brain thought, hey this is a cool girl itd be nice if a send her a small something for her birthday. ask her for the second date and I get the oh im not ready for a relationship excuse which prob complete lie. guarantee it was that one little gift that completely blew my chances with her, to me it was hey this will be nice, to her it was hey i barely know this guy this gift just seems needy and approval seeking. and bame im out just like that!
      literally your game has to be textbook with beautiful women who you are really attracted to! the illusion of action and fear of loss absolutely destroys!!!!

  • @wintersthrall
    @wintersthrall 8 місяців тому

    So even the most functional, smart women are basically complex pets. Men can absolutely master them and give them exactly what they want - but then it's up to us to decide if that's enough for us. I always thought there was more, but experience has revealed this not to be the case.

  • @jimmywilliams6136
    @jimmywilliams6136 8 років тому +1

    Lee williams

  • @thelastofgus
    @thelastofgus Рік тому

    Is the book called 10 to 15 times?

  • @ZBasic64
    @ZBasic64 7 років тому +3

    I'm trying to read the book 10-15 times but my girlfriend is with me all day everyday. Literally I'm only by myself when I'm working. I hesitant to read it around my gf. I've never told her about Corey Wayne. Is it ok to read the book around her and tell her about him? I don't want to mess up our relationship from not knowing the material, but I don't want to mess things up from her knowing I'm reading a book of that kind, if that would affect things in a bad way.

    • @jovanjohnson5898
      @jovanjohnson5898 6 років тому +2

      Get the audiobook.

    • @jordangibbs6155
      @jordangibbs6155 6 років тому +6

      Read the audio book while your taking a shit.

    • @Danash2013
      @Danash2013 6 років тому

      Haha!

    • @ChandanKumar-hf3bm
      @ChandanKumar-hf3bm 6 років тому +8

      Dude, if you are around your girlfriend all the time, you are being too much available. That takes away the mystery as well. And women lose interest in such cases. (Been there, done that, and repented it a lot.)

  • @andrewdewar8159
    @andrewdewar8159 Рік тому

    Come on man !

  • @jimmywilliams6136
    @jimmywilliams6136 8 років тому +2

    Jimmy WWilliams
    MeissaLee williams

  • @betteryoubetter
    @betteryoubetter 4 роки тому +1

    This guy is fucking Yoda! "Do or do not, there is no 'try'"!....Thanks Corey!

  • @vlee7217
    @vlee7217 10 років тому +4

    Can women apply these principles to men?

    • @CoachCoreyWayne
      @CoachCoreyWayne  10 років тому +10

      absolutely

    • @vlee7217
      @vlee7217 10 років тому +4

      Cool, because I have been wanting to buy your book. I wasnt sure if it would serve the same purpose. Can you tell me whats your advice on seeing someone in a social setting, i.e. a bar you frequent, that rejected u for pursuing too much? Should you say hi, ignore them, address the situation? I would love your advice. Cant wait to download the book. Thanks!

    • @SamS-fd5qt
      @SamS-fd5qt 5 років тому +2

      Neisha L Homes Men are visual creatures..Was he ever attracted to you physically? If not, then hard to change a guys mind on that. Another thing about us guys.. if you’re only seeing him at bars, he might flirt with you sometimes and sometimes not depending on how much he drank. Not a great place to try to “work things out.”

  • @arorajivlogs1641
    @arorajivlogs1641 2 роки тому +1

    girls emotions are liike ocean storms which rocks the guys Ship as bad as they can. only experienced, expert sailor can survive.

  • @OLDPEDOJOE
    @OLDPEDOJOE Рік тому

    "tell me what to do Mommy" 😩😩😩😩

  • @neildelarosa8806
    @neildelarosa8806 4 роки тому

    What if she reaches out but makes it clear that she doesn't want to work things out again. She proceeds to tell me if I really want to see her again, we can meet up. I'm really on the fence on this one since it has been 5 months and she's the one who broke me off. Should I see her again or not?

    • @jaidynrensburg5954
      @jaidynrensburg5954 4 роки тому +1

      Doesn’t sound like it’s worth seeing her man.

    • @neildelarosa8806
      @neildelarosa8806 4 роки тому

      @@jaidynrensburg5954 I get you. Somehow I know what to do now. I would ask her out after the outbreak and if it doesn't work out and if I notice she's not really having a good time with me then I let it be. Just take it or leave it. I'm just all about having fun.

  • @Morbidfilthz
    @Morbidfilthz 9 років тому +4

    "like every Shmuck" LOL

  • @blaxktruth8039
    @blaxktruth8039 6 років тому +14

    Man I'm 😂😂😆🤣🤣
    Dude #2
    She's a concubine she's definitely lying to you 😂