This guy literally speaks the truth! I've been doing things this way for the past 8 years since turning 30 and I've nailed far more women than I've ever done in my 20's. And these women are in their 20's too.
Joseph Christian Roldan Let him discover the harsh truth. At first they will text back and forth a lot, then it will peak. Then she will start responding less and less and finally he will learn the hard way just like all of us did.
@@mae88b.16 If you like a guy, you should try and spend more time with him face to face on a date, or if you're a long distance thing, videocall. Texting should never replace talking face to face while looking into each other's eyes and slowly getting lost in each other while hours fly like minutes
This is so true. You opened my eyes, coach. Too late for a certain girl, unfortunately. I freaked out da cat and she' s gone for good. But life goes on
Corey is an inspiration for all walks of life. My son is 21 and recommended how book to him. Which I had the knowledge I do know at that age. I used to half of what he teaches when I was younger but was clueless about how to actually understand the full range of it all. I have read his book 12 times now and have been applying what he teaches. Some of it is natural but I have learned to go 2 steps forward and one step back. I’m 53 and it’s amazing how this works. He helped me with my last girlfriend who wasn’t worth the heartache. It was an eye opener. Now I’m attracting quality woman and I’ll forever be grateful. Thanks again Corey you are a true inspiration!!
Coach Corey does it again!!! Your book and videos are changing my life man!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!!! I'll be donating real soon!!
Damn, I posted this comment so long ago. So much has changed in 6 years. I started watching Corey’s work in 2015 and I have learned so much. I still watch these videos nearly every day. He feels almost like a father figure at this point. Keep it up Coach Corey Wayne, I appreciate you and your work so much.
Corey. You're the best. Simple high yield advice that works and no hint of misogyny or advocating to put on a fake persona. Just basic rules for competent dating. And if every guy did this, it's not like it would ruin the dating market, it would just make dating more straightforward and less of a headache for everyone involved. Both men and women should follow this pattern anyway because guys that are genuinely good catches are busy and don't have time to txt on the phone all day or waste time with women that have low interest. Thanks again. Peace out✌️
I’ve read your book and watch a lot of your videos (would like to watch them all but I just discovered your work 6 months ago and there are just too many videos lol). I consider myself (so do women) to be a good looking guy. Tall, light, built, handsome etc. Women love me at first but then lose interest. I have to say....this is one of the most HELPFUL videos right here. The topic of “less is more” is a fundamental teaching of yours. Perhaps you could make a refresher course on this topic soon for viewers who haven’t seen this video yet. Believe me, as a follower of yours who has a lot of the problems these other guys do, this is one of your more important topics that you talk about (even though everything you teach is important lol).
Corey, you are so funny dude. I love watching your videos and they always offer great advice. I read your book in 2 days last week..gonna read it consistently from now on. I feel great knowing all of the techniques you teach in your book and also here on youtube.
I have never found more conservative and universal dating advice than CCW. Following it never seems to present excessive risk, and it almost always works. I’ve done well in dating, and I still learn something every time.
Dude, I just discovered your videos. On-the-money. I've learned around about dating psychology from reading,learning, and personal experience and your videos are dead on. I still find myself being unsure or losing confidence sometimes and your demeanor and presentation are awesome and confidence inspiring.
Great video! I've said it before, but the e-mail/case studies really help viewers connect the dots and apply those experiences to their own life stories. Also like the analogy/metahor of cats/women...perfect! I have been a viewer now for about 6 months, read the book 7 times and I'm not completely there yet, but making lots of progress. More importantly, I understand now what I have done wrong in past dating experiences with really hot women. Corey keeps saying it over and over...do NOT overpursue...and that was the biggest mistake that I was making.
Update: she pulled away. I stayed strong in pain for a week. It was so hard. I focused on my goals. Hung out with my friends. Time passed and she talk to me more at work. I know she wanted to hang out tonight but didn’t wanna be too available. Made a date and she said when she gets her work schedule she will let me know. Things are going good so far
Can you imagine have someone like Corey as your wingman? I am now doing that for some of my guy friends and it has helped tremendously and I have one buddy who has helped me as well. The bottom line in terms of living your life to the fullest possible fulfillment is to make great connections. Not only romantically but in our businesses, with our co-workers, and in our friendships. My two favorite quotes: “Before anyone else will believe in you, you have to believe in yourself first.” “I always have room for one more....” I may actually someday get married again. And because of everything I have learned, it will be a much better experience than the first one. I have no doubts about that at all.
In other words, if you wanna understand women, order Coach Corey's book, read it 10-15 times, practice dating out in the field, and most importantly, adopt a cat. LoL!
Cat analogy is my favorite analogy. Just let it go do it’s thing and wait - have you ever had a cat in your lap and had to do stuff and it won’t move. When it does be grateful and do the things you had to do That and Tennis. Hit ball over and wait for return. Don’t turn on the jugs machine 😂
Does the no contact thing only work after having had sex? I'm pretty sure if I leave the cat alone when it seems less enthusiastic, it'll just run away and I'll never see it again.
That cat analogy is so true!! I met this girl on an online dating site, asked her out, she gave me the let's go to know each other first reason then we texted for about a week straight (yeah, I know...) then she completely stopped texting me & it's been a week since I've heard anything from her.. women are strange lol. Once/if she reaches out, I'll make the definite date!
Online dating sucks anyway. There are too many women out there who use it for a quick ego boost. It's easier to see if you click with someone in real life.
I'm in a situation where this girl is really enjoying my time. Some odd and uncomfortable situations have occurred so far but they didn't seem like a big deal...or were they? Well one was..I got extremely quiet on one date..another was at the club where we went together and her friend snapped a pic of us then posted it on social media which to me felt like..ok were just dating but that made us look like a couple. I've always tried to avoid over pursuing and spilling my guts but I tend to do it because I'm usually quiet and I want them to know me well enough to determine how they really feel but I see that is not the way.
Thank you. I hope this works for women too, since I am a woman. I do get an icky feeling if a guy is clambering all over me about going out, meals, etc. I need a little space. Also I work with the public all week long and need a little alone time on the weekend to regroup.
Every time I see his videos and "that shaved head bastard" opens his mouth I picture a little green guy saying "Yes! To Obe Wayne you listen!" Great Advice Coach. Thank you.
I believe this is less to do w gender and more associated with inner dynamics. I'm a woman and I mostly attract cats. I exhibit the dating behavior you describe; not the men. ;-)
but what happen if she say, "you to good to call me" haha there not much to say since we live 24hr away and always on the phone...but then she get mad cause i need a break on the phone.
I was driving and that chic needed a ride she use my mode of travel [ THE CATS BACK TO CATCHING THE BUS AGAIN] THANKS COREY PERFECT ANALOGY! [ ON TOO THE NEXT ONE] THREE YEARS LATER / SHE (F) UP, I'm over my best gal house, I was wit when I met the so called one...
I think this is what im sorta going thru but a bit different maybe. Im not seeing some one new, ive recently reconnected with a highschool fling. Shes sending me mixed signals, at times she seems intrested others a bit distant. I also looked at your "going with the flow" video makes sense but who sets the pace? We hang out practically every day we live in the same neighborhood. Sometimes i ask to see her others she asks to see me. I catch her staring at me and she catches me aswell. Kisses are at extreme random most times i make the move and get rejected others she makes the move, should i reject her? I find myself too available for her should i not be?
All these videos are excellent but this one is an especially great on for setting up first date. I met a nice woman, seems to have act together. single mom w polite kids : 17yo daughter & twin 9yo daughters by same ex husband. She chats me up (3-4 times) when she sees me at my workplace-Target when she is shopping. I told her let’s grab a coffee when you’re free” . She said sure, I got her contact info. I asked which days available she said Saturday. I had to get next customer in line so I couldn’t set a definite date before she left. She said bye, I told her we’ll figure it out. I I messaged her next day(Monday) Asked her how she was, she replied quickly. Then asked her “How’s this Saturday at 5:00 sound? I can pick you up or we can meet up at Carrabas( Italian chain restaurant) She replied 15 min later, said “I can ➡️possibly😬⬅️ meet after I drop my daughter off at work. She has to be ther by 5:00” I replied :”great give me a buzz when you’re free. I’d love to see you. Have a good night at work.” She replied:” Okay, will do. You as well.” So I won’t message or contact her until she messages me based on the “ possibly “. Correct?
Robsparksaz Yeah but then you'll be a "pussy" magnet 😉 Just don't smell like cat food though. Then we'll eat ya, when it should be the other way around 😂😏
Perhaps but anything that is female-specific on the surface may not apply if you are gay but *many* of Corey’s respondents are gay and many of the principles he teaches still apply. Especially about enforcing boundaries, maintaining self-respect, and *especially* maintaining walk away power (and mean it!) when someone is not treating you appropriately. I believe Corey is close to my age (I am 52) and much of what I learned over the years I had to learn the hard way (like he did) before I even read his book. I first read his book three years ago and this guy absolutely knows!!!! What is even better is that the advice and information is fresh and current. At 52, I can text and do selfies as good as any 22-year-old. But Corey is correct - the technology is only meant to be a tool to set up in-person interactions. People my age are much less self-absorbed but everything he teaches I have found to be right on. I have read his book 8 times now and listened to it on audio 4 more. If I had sons, this would be *required* *reading* before they are out on their own embarking in a pretty crazy world. I do have two teenage daughters and much of his advice certainly applies to their friendships.
This guy literally speaks the truth! I've been doing things this way for the past 8 years since turning 30 and I've nailed far more women than I've ever done in my 20's. And these women are in their 20's too.
Excellent analogy. As a woman I feel the cat metaphor is an accurate representation of who and how I am in the game... Love you Corey, come to London!
+SupremeLogic1000 lol
ellajo 1209 Yes dogs are much easier to approach than cats!
That is why texting kills challenge and phone is only for setting for dates
I agree with this. My friend, he doesn't agree at all. Gets on my nerves.
Joseph Christian Roldan
Let him discover the harsh truth. At first they will text back and forth a lot, then it will peak. Then she will start responding less and less and finally he will learn the hard way just like all of us did.
Is this also applicable for us women. We women likes texting the guy we like lol
@@mae88b.16 probably not applicable for women as women being the prize have large margin for error
@@mae88b.16 If you like a guy, you should try and spend more time with him face to face on a date, or if you're a long distance thing, videocall. Texting should never replace talking face to face while looking into each other's eyes and slowly getting lost in each other while hours fly like minutes
This is so true. You opened my eyes, coach. Too late for a certain girl, unfortunately. I freaked out da cat and she' s gone for good. But life goes on
You'll find someone better.
@@BlaximilianD00d Yes or sometimes freaked out cats come back, it may just take longer because it got freaked out.
They always come back. Hang in there.
@@businessmeetings5807SO FUCKING TRUE! Just appointed the second date after changing the mindset to ‘less is more’ one
Love the cat analogy at the beginning. It's so true.
Corey is an inspiration for all walks of life. My son is 21 and recommended how book to him. Which I had the knowledge I do know at that age. I used to half of what he teaches when I was younger but was clueless about how to actually understand the full range of it all. I have read his book 12 times now and have been applying what he teaches. Some of it is natural but I have learned to go 2 steps forward and one step back. I’m 53 and it’s amazing how this works. He helped me with my last girlfriend who wasn’t worth the heartache. It was an eye opener. Now I’m attracting quality woman and I’ll forever be grateful. Thanks again Corey you are a true inspiration!!
That cat story made my day 😂😂😂
Freddie Paneque yes it made perfect sense ! Bang on
that purring LOL
Your Driver Mike LoL! I know right?? It's like, what's wrong with that kitty, purring like that? 😂😂😂
"I'm done with this pettin shit" lmao
@@vicariouspunishment Love the cat analogy *meow*
Coach Corey does it again!!! Your book and videos are changing my life man!!! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!!! I'll be donating real soon!!
Her ex boyfriend was weak when she backed off. She will test you to see if you’re the same way.
Man Corey you are the real deal. I've been slowly getting better by watching these videos. Thanks!
Alkaiser 10-15 times
"Alright I'm done with this petting shit." Hahahahahahaha
Damn, I posted this comment so long ago. So much has changed in 6 years. I started watching Corey’s work in 2015 and I have learned so much. I still watch these videos nearly every day. He feels almost like a father figure at this point. Keep it up Coach Corey Wayne, I appreciate you and your work so much.
@@davidaustin8424 lol
@@davidaustin8424lol
Corey. You're the best. Simple high yield advice that works and no hint of misogyny or advocating to put on a fake persona. Just basic rules for competent dating. And if every guy did this, it's not like it would ruin the dating market, it would just make dating more straightforward and less of a headache for everyone involved. Both men and women should follow this pattern anyway because guys that are genuinely good catches are busy and don't have time to txt on the phone all day or waste time with women that have low interest.
Thanks again. Peace out✌️
I’ve read your book and watch a lot of your videos (would like to watch them all but I just discovered your work 6 months ago and there are just too many videos lol). I consider myself (so do women) to be a good looking guy. Tall, light, built, handsome etc. Women love me at first but then lose interest. I have to say....this is one of the most HELPFUL videos right here. The topic of “less is more” is a fundamental teaching of yours. Perhaps you could make a refresher course on this topic soon for viewers who haven’t seen this video yet. Believe me, as a follower of yours who has a lot of the problems these other guys do, this is one of your more important topics that you talk about (even though everything you teach is important lol).
"Fuck you, cat." Golden.
Haha, was a funny little phrase :)
I love the cat impression!
Corey, you are so funny dude. I love watching your videos and they always offer great advice.
I read your book in 2 days last week..gonna read it consistently from now on. I feel great knowing all of the techniques you teach in your book and also here on youtube.
I have never found more conservative and universal dating advice than CCW. Following it never seems to present excessive risk, and it almost always works.
I’ve done well in dating, and I still learn something every time.
Dude, I just discovered your videos. On-the-money. I've learned around about dating psychology from reading,learning, and personal experience and your videos are dead on. I still find myself being unsure or losing confidence sometimes and your demeanor and presentation are awesome and confidence inspiring.
That purr is spot on!
"Ding, please eat me." xD
Great video! I've said it before, but the e-mail/case studies really help viewers connect the dots and apply those experiences to their own life stories. Also like the analogy/metahor of cats/women...perfect! I have been a viewer now for about 6 months, read the book 7 times and I'm not completely there yet, but making lots of progress. More importantly, I understand now what I have done wrong in past dating experiences with really hot women. Corey keeps saying it over and over...do NOT overpursue...and that was the biggest mistake that I was making.
Update: she pulled away. I stayed strong in pain for a week. It was so hard. I focused on my goals. Hung out with my friends. Time passed and she talk to me more at work. I know she wanted to hang out tonight but didn’t wanna be too available. Made a date and she said when she gets her work schedule she will let me know. Things are going good so far
When she gets her schedule???? She would of known bro. Sounds like a false alarm. Wouldn’t get my hopes up. Hope she came thru
What happened mate?
attraction grows in space
Red Pill discovery brought me here. Best coaching videos ever!
less is so much more . corey is so correct about all this stuff . looking back i cant help but agree with him
I wish I had the chance to meet young Corey haha
Can you imagine have someone like Corey as your wingman? I am now doing that for some of my guy friends and it has helped tremendously and I have one buddy who has helped me as well. The bottom line in terms of living your life to the fullest possible fulfillment is to make great connections. Not only romantically but in our businesses, with our co-workers, and in our friendships.
My two favorite quotes:
“Before anyone else will believe in you, you have to believe in yourself first.”
“I always have room for one more....”
I may actually someday get married again. And because of everything I have learned, it will be a much better experience than the first one. I have no doubts about that at all.
If you are anxious and mess up the first time, she will take a stab at that over and over again - stay grounded. She will be back, I promise!
I checked a lot of dating coaches here on YT and picked only four of them. You are all great, all different and you are one of them. Big thank you!
impac01 who are the other 3?
@@avantegarde123 CCW CCW CCW
Corey then Lucas aka Datinglogic, are the best
In other words, if you wanna understand women, order Coach Corey's book, read it 10-15 times, practice dating out in the field, and most importantly, adopt a cat. LoL!
Excellent advice as usual Mr.Wayne. You are the man.
I watched the cat story like a dozen times so far, and it makes me laugh every time :D. Just hilarious.
Best description of a cat ever ...haha!
Familiarity really does breed contempt
Quote of the day! “Fuck you cat” Hilarious dude love your videos.
Jason
OMG the first minute and half of this video 🤣 You're the best Coach!
There is no right or wrong, its really dependent on the person themselves and their needs more than anything.
U are the best coach Corey Wayne!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Best video on youtube!
Cat analogy is my favorite analogy. Just let it go do it’s thing and wait - have you ever had a cat in your lap and had to do stuff and it won’t move. When it does be grateful and do the things you had to do
That and Tennis. Hit ball over and wait for return. Don’t turn on the jugs machine 😂
LOL @ "Alright. Fuck you cat."
Does the no contact thing only work after having had sex? I'm pretty sure if I leave the cat alone when it seems less enthusiastic, it'll just run away and I'll never see it again.
That cat analogy is so true!! I met this girl on an online dating site, asked her out, she gave me the let's go to know each other first reason then we texted for about a week straight (yeah, I know...) then she completely stopped texting me & it's been a week since I've heard anything from her.. women are strange lol. Once/if she reaches out, I'll make the definite date!
What happened?
She gone bro.
Online dating sucks anyway. There are too many women out there who use it for a quick ego boost. It's easier to see if you click with someone in real life.
Corey, are you married or have kids? Are you with any women who are in love with you?
Wonderful video!!!!!! Excellent video and content. Thank u so much for making this great video!
This is a good one!
Is it okay to not see them for a week sometimes? like if i only can see her next week?
Is it ever to late to implement this technique
I'm in a situation where this girl is really enjoying my time. Some odd and uncomfortable situations have occurred so far but they didn't seem like a big deal...or were they? Well one was..I got extremely quiet on one date..another was at the club where we went together and her friend snapped a pic of us then posted it on social media which to me felt like..ok were just dating but that made us look like a couple. I've always tried to avoid over pursuing and spilling my guts but I tend to do it because I'm usually quiet and I want them to know me well enough to determine how they really feel but I see that is not the way.
Being quiet can make you look mysterious ands that’s good 😎
Thank you. I hope this works for women too, since I am a woman. I do get an icky feeling if a guy is clambering all over me about going out, meals, etc. I need a little space. Also I work with the public all week long and need a little alone time on the weekend to regroup.
Awesome insights!!^^
Thanks so much... I am experiencing this same situation at the moment.~~
"absofuckinglutelynot" -CCW haha
Every time I see his videos and "that shaved head bastard" opens his mouth I picture a little green guy saying "Yes! To Obe Wayne you listen!" Great Advice Coach. Thank you.
Jesus Christ thank you coach you have not failed yet…
I believe this is less to do w gender and more associated with inner dynamics. I'm a woman and I mostly attract cats. I exhibit the dating behavior you describe; not the men. ;-)
Coach Worey Cayne is the Best Coach ever
Phone is for setting dates !
be the opposite of being what she wants you to
Danny killa1998 be what she needs not what she wants.
Got a Cory Wayne ad on a Cory Wayne vid
Went upstairs trying to talk to the big man, but there was only a sign on a desk saying: "Being downstairs, taking a video!"
but what happen if she say, "you to good to call me" haha there not much to say since we live 24hr away and always on the phone...but then she get mad cause i need a break on the phone.
That cat...was fucking gone. Hilarious.
"Eh, alright fuck you cat!" LMFAO
Motto in Life:
LESS IS MORE!!!!!!
"purrrin again"....kinda got that from the gutteral noises ma G
I was driving and that chic needed a ride she use my mode of travel [ THE CATS BACK TO CATCHING THE BUS AGAIN] THANKS COREY PERFECT ANALOGY! [ ON TOO THE NEXT ONE] THREE YEARS LATER / SHE (F) UP, I'm over my best gal house, I was wit when I met the so called one...
that first 1 minute is funny
Corey, you just saved my fucking life. Exactly what I needed to hear!
I think this is what im sorta going thru but a bit different maybe. Im not seeing some one new, ive recently reconnected with a highschool fling. Shes sending me mixed signals, at times she seems intrested others a bit distant. I also looked at your "going with the flow" video makes sense but who sets the pace? We hang out practically every day we live in the same neighborhood. Sometimes i ask to see her others she asks to see me. I catch her staring at me and she catches me aswell. Kisses are at extreme random most times i make the move and get rejected others she makes the move, should i reject her? I find myself too available for her should i not be?
alright I'm done with this pet and shit! 😂😂😂
What about you feeling boring with your girl... does it apply the same technique for her?
The cat analogy is good. I’m not a pet person, but I can see it.
“Fuck you, cat!!” - Coach 😂😂
i got a chance no matter how i look
That's it works with married woman??
This is what causes men to not even bother. Dating isn’t complicated but women make it complicated
Awesome video
The cat returns, return of the cat, great movie titles for Jedi cats
Why isn't Corey advising him to invite her straight over to his house if she reaches out?
"Ding, please eat me" Baha!
You are the fucking man. Lets go for a beer.
All these videos are excellent but this one is an especially great on for setting up first date.
I met a nice woman, seems to have act together. single mom w polite kids : 17yo daughter & twin 9yo daughters by same ex husband.
She chats me up (3-4 times) when she sees me at my workplace-Target when she is shopping. I told her let’s grab a coffee when you’re free” . She said sure, I got her contact info. I asked which days available she said Saturday. I had to get next customer in line so I couldn’t set a definite date before she left. She said bye, I told her we’ll figure it out.
I I messaged her next day(Monday) Asked her how she was, she replied quickly. Then asked her “How’s this Saturday at 5:00 sound? I can pick you up or we can meet up at Carrabas( Italian chain restaurant)
She replied 15 min later, said “I can ➡️possibly😬⬅️ meet after I drop my daughter off at work. She has to be ther by 5:00”
I replied :”great give me a buzz when you’re free. I’d love to see you. Have a good night at work.”
She replied:” Okay, will do. You as well.”
So I won’t message or contact her until she messages me based on the “ possibly “. Correct?
what happens when you back off....then nothing happens....i guess its dead right?
Yeah, shake it off, you’ll forget her by the time you’re with the next woman.
"Fuck you cat" that had dieing bro loooool
10:33 in his book
Thanx man!
@1:28 Coach Corey shows us what it sounds like when he nuts
Bru🤣
Such good shit crazy how this has so low views.
Less is more, slow is best
Oh, i keep my cats inside. Wouldn't want them to get hit by a car or attacked by something, haha but I get what you're saying.
TheWaynelds LOL
Anyone who has ever had or has cats can relate to the cat analogy.
Well, I literally went looking for my cat around the neighborhood after it hadn't come home in three days loool !!!!
well that’s the thing. it’s YOUR cat
Well if women are like cats Guess I gotta be cat food
Robsparksaz Yeah but then you'll be a "pussy" magnet 😉 Just don't smell like cat food though. Then we'll eat ya, when it should be the other way around 😂😏
Lol that cat purr
Unfortunately the cat analogy is spot on.
I started to get like that. I realized what i was doing so im backing off. Ima let her come to me. I still wanna be with her but fuck that shit
1:28 is my only approach to women
*Ding* "Please eat me!" ROFL
Is there a coach corey wayne bumper sticker?
Ha ha, I liked the comparison with cats 😂 and with growing plants!! What do the girls think about the comparison with cats?
You’re funny 🤣
Thank god I'm gay
Sarfraz Momin
No I'm watching all his videos, I came here because I'm struggling with my business
omfg thats funny
Perhaps but anything that is female-specific on the surface may not apply if you are gay but *many* of Corey’s respondents are gay and many of the principles he teaches still apply. Especially about enforcing boundaries, maintaining self-respect, and *especially* maintaining walk away power (and mean it!) when someone is not treating you appropriately. I believe Corey is close to my age (I am 52) and much of what I learned over the years I had to learn the hard way (like he did) before I even read his book. I first read his book three years ago and this guy absolutely knows!!!! What is even better is that the advice and information is fresh and current. At 52, I can text and do selfies as good as any 22-year-old. But Corey is correct - the technology is only meant to be a tool to set up in-person interactions. People my age are much less self-absorbed but everything he teaches I have found to be right on.
I have read his book 8 times now and listened to it on audio 4 more. If I had sons, this would be *required* *reading* before they are out on their own embarking in a pretty crazy world. I do have two teenage daughters and much of his advice certainly applies to their friendships.
@@volleyballjerry When would you be free to get together for a drink?
Cindi Heaton - Busy schedule but this Saturday 4PM onward or either the following Friday or Saturday will work!