HABIT NUMBER 5: RUNNING OTHER PEOPLE'S RACES. Usually, it's a function of self-devaluation 🤔

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  • @KitchenSinkIssues
    @KitchenSinkIssues  10 днів тому +3

    Greetings family, HABIT NUMBER 5: RUNNING OTHER PEOPLE'S RACES. 😢😢😢

  • @raphaelrranganayi1251
    @raphaelrranganayi1251 10 днів тому +1

    Thanks Claris/ Clorisa. Well said as we have brought up our children on this principle- run your own race. It helps manage stress levels by reducing the gap between expectations and reality. Yes Run Your Own Race with God at the center of one’s race.

    • @KitchenSinkIssues
      @KitchenSinkIssues  10 днів тому

      You’re right, God’s at the centre of all things 😊

  • @maimukanya5036
    @maimukanya5036 10 днів тому +1

    Tawanirwa nyasha. Tiri kudzidza. I receive every word in the name of Jesus. Amen

  • @PatienceShiri
    @PatienceShiri 8 днів тому +1

    Thank you. You see its easier to run other people’s races because its comfortable and you dont have to apply yourself. Running your own race requires that you face yourself, draw internally and connect with God, which is all not easy to most of us. This we must change going forward! Thanks again maiRanganai

  • @masimbavhiriri2392
    @masimbavhiriri2392 9 днів тому

    Am always looking forward to each day’s nuggets from you. Surely not everyone is meant to be Bolt and there is nothing wrong with being a marathon runner or any other discipline
    Thank you

  • @chiposvisva5981
    @chiposvisva5981 6 днів тому

    Behaviour patterns that should remain behind in 2024
    Habit 1, 2 ,3 ,4 and 5.
    Habit 1 [manufacturing excuses ]
    Proverbs 22:13
    [13] The sluggard says, “There’s a lion outside! I’ll be killed in the public square!”
    Justifications one may use include : fear, laziness, unwillingness to act, dressing up excuses
    Results may include: Hardships, self defeating , false rationalising
    Habit 2 [Analysis paralysis ]
    Def : State of overanalyzing a situation to a point where no action is taken
    Ecclesiastes 11:4
    [4] Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap.
    # Perfectionism
    Def : Setting unrealistic standards that prevent action
    # decision paralysis (overthinking, over considering)
    Def : Fear of not making choices due to the fear of imperfect outcomes
    # paralysis of analysis
    Def : stuck with a choice or decision to the point of not taking action
    # Perpetual planning syndrome
    Def : Forever on the starting line but you don't implement or assess your actions.
    #Tsiurika !. Learn to Receive correction.
    Habit #3 [Past memory prison]
    Def : You are imprisoned by your past glorious or dark memory.
    Leave behind the tendency of looking back and holding on to past glory and past memories behind. Whatever failures and hurts should remain behind in 2024.
    The successes of failures of the past if not careful will hold us back from moving forward .The successes and the failures must not keep us from moving forward.
    That way you will break stagnation from this behaviour pattern
    Luke 17:32-33 NIV
    [32] Remember Lot’s wife! [33] Whoever tries to keep their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life will preserve it.
    Habit #4 [Childish behaviour ]
    You and I have capacity to change, to adapt , to adjust to conditions around us, we have capacity to act like adults and to stop behaving like children.
    Choose to adapt and adjust in 2025
    We choose to leave addictive behaviour behind. Turn away from childish behaviour
    1 Corinthians 13:11
    [11] When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.
    Ecclesiastes 10:16-17
    [16] Woe to the land whose king was a servant and whose princes feast in the morning.
    [17] Blessed is the land whose king is of noble birth and whose princes eat at a proper time- for strength and not for drunkenness.
    Proverbs 29:1
    [1] Whoever remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed-without remedy.
    Habit #5 [Running other people's races]
    There is a race set out for each one of us. Life is the race, whether you are aware of it or not. Run your own race.
    Come out of other people's races and run YOUR OWN race. Do not enter 2025 under the shadow of other people.
    Do not be ignorant of your purpose, calling and identity in the Lord. Who are you?
    Leave these in 2024...
    *Reflecting other people's values and aspirations.
    *Devaluing oneself,will lead to people who will further devalue you
    *Self imposed limitation
    *Rejection
    *Perpetual resentment of self
    *Self preservation
    Hebrews 12:1
    [1] Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.
    And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us
    Psalms 40:7
    [7] Then I said, “Here I am, I have come- it is written about me in the scroll.

  • @rutendomatuvhunye
    @rutendomatuvhunye 8 днів тому

    This one really touched a nerve, we surely need great wisdom to be able to see that this is not my race

  • @stellakamau7184
    @stellakamau7184 5 днів тому

    🎉🎉

  • @memorymukondomi-t8u
    @memorymukondomi-t8u 9 днів тому

    Thank you, mbuya. Thanks for sharing real-life nuggets. Running other people races results in misaligned priorities

  • @enniekundi2025
    @enniekundi2025 8 днів тому

    Wow, thank you Mai Ranganayi
    Word in season
    Thank you so much for being real🔥

  • @gracemutandiro2025
    @gracemutandiro2025 10 днів тому

    Self-actualization projected in a positive way, well conveyed!!!!!! Thanks Clorisa❤

  • @shuuvzchikombah427
    @shuuvzchikombah427 6 днів тому

    Thank you for this important lesson. Need to work on this one.

  • @mother0762
    @mother0762 10 днів тому

    Chokwadi. Ndoifarira topic iyi. As i have grown older the more i have realised so.... that im running my own race....and that i must finish strong. Having impacted well on my family friends and community. It is my daily goal🙏🏽

  • @nomamachiri5102
    @nomamachiri5102 9 днів тому

    Wow...these are truly precious pearls of wisdom....this speaks to me so deeply....I identify with your experience so much Mum.Yoh thank you....

  • @KundaiMazarura
    @KundaiMazarura 9 днів тому

    Yes to the live!

  • @harrisonkariuki8937
    @harrisonkariuki8937 9 днів тому

    Great Lessons and encouraging teachings. Thank you Pastor Clarisa for obeying the call of God and doing this series of habits that we need to leave behind. I am really blessed.

    • @KitchenSinkIssues
      @KitchenSinkIssues  9 днів тому

      @harrisonkariuki8937 Eeeh, my brother. Thank for watching. Thank you for the support

  • @Surprise321able
    @Surprise321able 9 днів тому

    Thank you for the nuggets. I will keep to my lane and not look to the left or right but straight ahead 💯

  • @tapiwamashava4258
    @tapiwamashava4258 10 днів тому

    Thanks Claris for the inspiring teaching.

  • @lindamarange2957
    @lindamarange2957 10 днів тому

    Thank you thank you ❤

    • @KitchenSinkIssues
      @KitchenSinkIssues  10 днів тому

      Thank you very much Linda, you bless my heart❤❤❤

  • @florencedangarembizi913
    @florencedangarembizi913 9 днів тому

    A live video would be great. ❤

  • @shumirainyamadzi-xw7cq
    @shumirainyamadzi-xw7cq 8 днів тому

    Tongue anointment 😆🙌🏾

  • @ThembelihleMloyi
    @ThembelihleMloyi 10 днів тому

    Poweful. It hit home my sister. Thank you for the confirmation 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @danaisamakande3308
    @danaisamakande3308 4 дні тому

    Powerful lesson ❤

  • @pelugiusmadziva6591
    @pelugiusmadziva6591 10 днів тому

    Thank you for the powerful teaching.

  • @SibonginkosiMunemo
    @SibonginkosiMunemo 9 днів тому

    Wooow Thank you for such a holy spirit inspired word

  • @trusterch
    @trusterch 7 днів тому

    💃

  • @shongedzaimazonde
    @shongedzaimazonde 10 днів тому

    Thank you we continue to learn

  • @netsaimukwena3558
    @netsaimukwena3558 10 днів тому

    Thank you Mama, I have learnt

  • @rahadiachogo
    @rahadiachogo 9 днів тому

    Sadza!

  • @faithmanjonjo9476
    @faithmanjonjo9476 8 днів тому

    Imposter syndrome is not coming with me into 2025🎉