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Unsolicited advice - How to be happy
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- Опубліковано 15 бер 2021
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My dear friend, advice from you is never unsolicited. You are a wise and beautiful soul whose advice helps many.
I want to reach her state in life 😭
me too
Don’t we all
With age comes wisdom that is for sure. There definitely are some perks in aging.
Yanghaiying: “particularly quiet”
🚗: 🔊🔊🔊🔊
Yeah bloody noisy af 🤣
My "go outside" has been visiting a beach i recently found and its been one of the best things ive done for myself in a long time. I really enjoy just sitting and listening to the ocean until i get too cold to sit there and listen to it.
That’s so smart!
I feel like the person you were describing is my now ex-fiancé. 😔 I’ve tried for two years to help him, understand him, and forgive him, but in trying to heal him, I’ve damaged myself. I made the difficult decision today to end things and my heart hurts. Thank you for this comforting video. Sending you lots of love. 💓
Wow...my fiance has made me cry all day today. Maybe I should break with mine too.
I recently went through a break up and it stings like nothing else. I still miss them, so much. But I know in the end, what I did was right for myself and my happiness even if it doesn’t feel like it now. You’re not alone. ❤️
I have gone through the same thing it had gone for 3 months it was so detrimental to my mentality. I had tried to save him I thought but instead it destroyed me. Hope that sun shines on your side. I am now pregnant and about to marry one of most adorable man in this world
I was raised by my mother (single mum until I was 9) to always respect my elders. This woman is the very embodiment as well as my mother of why. Wisdom is gained with age, with listening to others stories, and by living your own experiences. When life seems stagnant and at a low point - hear others who love you. If you can't, then please dont stay silent. Let someone hear you. ❤❤❤
When she says her advice is unsolicited but I need advice 😳
Not all psychologists put emphasis or delve into our roles in childhood family and how they carry into adulthood. There is can be some insight to be had there, but it also has limitations as you point out. There are other styles of therapy, some focusing on thought and behaviour, some more on how we frame and perceive things, some more philosophical, some focus on problem-solving and pragmatism. There are many different styles and some suit each of us more than others. 👍
You know my moms Mother died when she was 9 and well my mom never had the option to listen to someone like you during the time she was was my age and was pregnant by me : to listen to your therapeutic words.I think we under estimate creators and the life of experience you have decided share with us- and our opportunity to hear wisdom. Thank you for this message made my day start feel positive
My mommy passed away when I was 8 now im 18.It gets really hard sometimes:/
Does your mom have any tips that helped her when she was 18
@@user-tj8gy9to1u Well , I think she unfortunately never really got over it because what she faced after the loss was more life changing and traumatic for her. As her daughter I would say seeking healing is vital, because keeping the emotions in becasue you have to "move on" only causes issues :(
@@Motivex3 thank you im trying my best to heal even tho its been 10 years ot seems to feel like I will not get over it even if I'm 100
So many bad things are happening in the world but your videos ground me and remind me to breathe and that not everything is on my shoulders.
You're so pure and wholesome. Thank-you for existing!
My favorite happy time is spent taking my furbaby Louie for a walk in the park, in nature and surrounded by the beautiful sky, warm breeze or cool and pretty trees. This makes me the happiest.🐾💓
i've been going through a lot recently and i felt like i needed this, haven't felt the best for the past few weeks and days but this somehow calmed me down
I love the unsolicited advice
I love you so much! you give me hope and light in a sea of darkness
Glad you are our internet grandma
This is great! Thank you Haiying! It was very windy in NY over the weekend, too. I love when you are saying something and people walk by talking loudly or the dog begins to bark. I have to laugh with you. I am always encountering this myself and it makes me feel better knowing we all have to share our solitude.
Thank you for your wisdom amd for the beautiful scenery 🙏
You have respect for others and listen no one does that much. Not because you are pulled into that no it is respect I don’t know many people today or anytime who say they have respect (and show it honestly)❤️You do that’s a strength. But not found much With true respect witch can feel as though your are drowning in your weakness. But no. Really think about it it’s strength... Like for example you was the youngest you was taught right to listen to elders and adults and you (will learn) and goes for learning off others as well.... That is right! But.. Sort out what’s good for and bad take care of your self when you care for yourself you will know (HOW) to care for others better. Life’s a chain i want to keep myself on a healthy one! ✨❤️✨ Stay Healthy Mind Body and Spirit‼️💯
It’s been about two weeks since I broke up with my ex. It was my first ever real relationship, the first time I had ever experienced real love and affection. It was my first time for a lot of things. And now, all those broken promises and time I wasted trying to believe that we could make it work, I feel so drained. I feel so- tired and like I did it all for nothing. Like I spent two years of my life trying so hard to keep something dying, alive. I feel so sick to my stomach, everyday I feel like I’m being punched in the gut, it all hurts so much. I want to move on and I want this pain to stop. And these videos are helping me get there. The reason I wrote this was just to vent since this feels like a safe space for me.
Hey, I don’t know you, but I’ve been in your position before. I had an ex who I thought I’d never move on from, but eventually I did. You will too. You don’t see it right now and I know nothing I say will make the pain immediately go away, but you are not alone. What helps me get past these things these days is to remember that we don’t own people, and that in life most people are temporary. But don’t let that stop you from giving out your love and receiving it. Use these experiences as lessons though, of when enough is enough and when you know it might be time to have a talk and walk away. Take all you learned from it, it was not a waste. You will grow so much from this, and it will lead you up to where you are supposed to be. This is all preparing you for what is to come. I wish you the best and good luck.
Okay I will try and be happy :,(
Thank you. I feel like this episode was specially sent to me from above and beyond at just the perfect moment. So strange but so appreciated.
Thank you for never stopping with your videos, 14 years is a long time.
You’re a real angel 🥺🥺thank you for your genuine kind words
Hello dear friend. Thank you so much for my order. I am so excited to try the tea...🥰also how happy I was with the gift of the lemon curd....mmmmm yummy💜💜💜
I love her energy ❤️😌
hearing your positive words really puts a smile on my face, hearing your voice is warming and comforting and i definitely needed to hear these things. after a rough breakup from about a week ago, i now have a lot of free time to focus on myself, my school, my work, and more time to spend finding things that make me happy, thank you for beautiful advice, as always. ❤
Advice that will improve your life is never unsolicited
There is a squirrel climbing up the tree at 6:31
You are such a beautiful soal ❤️ You help me overcome depression day by day. I listen to your videos when I cook, drive or sleep. You are a true angel
I love this so much🙌🏻❤
Beautiful. ❤❤
So good to see you hear. Stay strong.
Thank you, @@yanghaiying . You make us all feel and think better. I took this video for both husband and wife. Life "gets in the way" for sure and times can get sticky. But stop, think what is reasons first before reacting to the other. Such a positive and thoughtful video lesson.
And thank you for listening. My mind is a bit better. I feel less lost, less hopeless, less alone. Thank you, Haiying.
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you 🥺💕
I am SO glad I found this channel. You words give me such peace, such joy, so much understanding. Thank you.
your soo wholesome
This makes me happy, beautiful video
Love these videos in nature, so peaceful & refreshing
Listening to your wise talks are one of the most soothing experiences ever 🌸
I love you too
Another beautiful video. 谢谢!
Thank you so much! I love your advice!
Thank you so much for this beautiful video. I touched on a few of these things with my therapist as well, and they have been really important for me in dealing with my depression and addictions. The footage is also so calming and serene. Thanks again :)
This video offered an interesting perspective for people, mainly myself, to consider. Thank you for your thoughts❤️
What a blessing at just the time I need it. Your video came to me and i am so grateful, Thank you💖
This is so inspiring. I hope everyone gets all their wants in life 💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹🌹 you can do it!
love this creek ❤🩹
I get so calm listening to your voice 🤭
I’m so glad you were in my recommended videos! Beautiful 🥰
Great advice
Thank you & lots of love to you
Nature is so beautiful
Helps us to ground so much more
15:15-end made my day 💛 thank you friend 💛
I just found you today. I’m enjoying your videos very much, thank you for the insight
amazing video ❤️ i love everything you say and your soft-spoken voice is so relaxing. thank you thank you thank youuuuuu
You are such a beautiful soul, thanks :)
Thank you. Namaste.
this was so, so lovely, thank you mrs yang
youre the sweetest !!❤️❤️❤️
This is so helpful!
i’ve recently stumbled across your videos and i’ve taken a lot away from them. you are a very knowledgeable and wise woman, it makes me feel comfortable because i’ve never had someone to tel me these things such as my mother, what is your advice on dealing with loving someone who you feel could never love you back ?
I have just uploaded the video on parents. It will be up soon.
Would you consider doing whispered positive affirmations in English and Chinese, maybe calligraphy included 🥰
Yes! Whispered affirmations please mama Chinese!
I love you! 💕❤️
planet earth
I don’t know if I can ever be happy.
I feel i have no future. I keep trying to improve my life but nothing goes right.
❤️❤️❤️
what’s your zodiac sign ?
how are the rabbits today
These are great