5 Ways to Avoid Looking Heavy and Outdated After 50 and 60! - Fashion Mistakes Mature Women Make!

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  • Опубліковано 27 гру 2024
  • In this video you will learn;
    1. Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look Older.
    2. How can a woman look good at 60.
    3. How to look more attractive at 60!
    4. How to look graceful at 60!
    5. How to be classy at 60?

КОМЕНТАРІ • 141

  • @susanhoward2305
    @susanhoward2305 4 місяці тому +37

    I would like to see the same model in both the wrong and best way to wear the item
    Love the video. Very helpful ❤

  • @ladywytch129
    @ladywytch129 4 місяці тому +149

    The tops are cute. But it would have been nice if the "best choice" were on larger models. Nobody looks larger when they're a size 2!

    • @Linda-k1d
      @Linda-k1d 4 місяці тому

      Absolutely Here’s a fat girl in an ugly top. Now compare that to this skinny girl in a pretty top. See the difference? YA! There’s a fat girl and a skinny girl! Hahahaha!

    • @alisonainsley7745
      @alisonainsley7745 4 місяці тому +19

      Are we looking at the same video? All these models are large size women

    • @loriella6250
      @loriella6250 4 місяці тому +8

      @@alisonainsley7745I respectfully disagree. There were definitely single digit size models in this video.

    • @alisonainsley7745
      @alisonainsley7745 4 місяці тому +8

      @@loriella6250 we're not watching the same video then because at the beginning of the video the ladies modeling those tops are large size ladies, they're very attractive ladies but they're large size I don't think we're seeing the same thing then.

    • @cyndimanka
      @cyndimanka 4 місяці тому +3

      I don’t know what video you’re watching, but they’re showing larger women. I wouldn’t say I’m a larger woman but of course by their standards I am. At 5’7 I wear a 14 at the time but I have been a 10 and 12 over the last few years but had gain weight because of a back injury, and being on prednisone this year. Besides, if they do show slimmer models, you’re looking at the tops, not necessarily the model.

  • @lisamarieleyva520
    @lisamarieleyva520 4 місяці тому +52

    If you choose a model to wear a tan/white check top (no disrespect ---looks like a plus size model) keep that person to wear the different length sleeve with the same pattern top.
    You put a slimmer person with a different sleeve, different color, different texture of material. This makes a HUGE difference if you're selling or buying a product.
    Compare apple to apple VS 🍎 to 🍊. We are women of wisdom. 😇

    • @TK-J7
      @TK-J7 3 місяці тому +3

      My thoughts exactly.

    • @mrsmucha
      @mrsmucha 2 місяці тому

      I was thinking the same thing. Use the same plus size model for both-all the ladies clothing channels use thin models to show how to dress thinner.

  • @momiowa9509
    @momiowa9509 4 місяці тому +28

    Nice but trying to find these tops is next to impossible!

  • @cjbeck270
    @cjbeck270 4 місяці тому +54

    Please show the choice style on the larger model

  • @itsjoannotjoann5070
    @itsjoannotjoann5070 3 місяці тому +21

    Tops that are cinched in below the bust that drape over the tummy area just look like maternity tops on we larger women. No getting around it.

    • @seabreeze3906
      @seabreeze3906 2 місяці тому

      The sewing term for this is “empire line waist”. (Waist positioned at the underbust line).
      Some clothing retailers include this in the description of the item, some don’t.

  • @trishagoodwin4069
    @trishagoodwin4069 4 місяці тому +26

    Well, what to say, I am 70 and would not wear any of those clothes, they all look frumpy to me. I agree with the advice about choosing bags though, so many women do not consider their size or shape when buying them.

  • @MarlaBarrett-q6o
    @MarlaBarrett-q6o 4 місяці тому +16

    I would like to know where I could find these tops

  • @stellarsjay1773
    @stellarsjay1773 4 місяці тому +12

    Flattering tops and jackets are exceptionally hard to find, so when I find one, I tend to buy them in more than one colour so my style doesn’t vary much.

  • @brendadukes5989
    @brendadukes5989 День тому

    Thank you for sharing this most helpful information ❤

  • @cyndimanka
    @cyndimanka 4 місяці тому +31

    I have to disagree with the first one. I don’t think either top is correct. I am 5 foot seven and about 175 pounds and a size 14. If I wear a top like you suggest I look pregnant.

    • @leslielippert9623
      @leslielippert9623 3 місяці тому +2

      Extra fabric around the middle with gathering…..I’m 5’4” and 130….and I’d never wear that!

  • @hopetiffany5952
    @hopetiffany5952 4 місяці тому +9

    Hello, I am 74 and looking forward to each and every video you make. Thank you so much for tips that are easily applied to my wardrobe.

  • @vanitamann7985
    @vanitamann7985 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for this helpful video. I found you just in time. I'm trying to clean my closet out and this will help me donate those items that draw attention to the areas that I don't want them to. I didn't think about most of these suggestions until now. You're greatly appreciated.

  • @victorias9639
    @victorias9639 3 місяці тому +8

    Showing the “correct” top on a smaller sized person is just so very wrong

  • @susanruppel434
    @susanruppel434 4 місяці тому +15

    Thank you so much. I'm 64 over weight and you include people and styles for my types.

    • @jackiemonk3542
      @jackiemonk3542 4 місяці тому

      I'm there with you.

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      You’re so welcome! I’m truly happy that the styles resonate with you. I’m committed to continuing to create content that celebrates all body types. Stay fabulous! 😘

  • @Sharolynn10
    @Sharolynn10 Місяць тому +3

    There are some beautiful clothes in this video; I wish we knew who made them and where we can buy them!

  • @mia4472
    @mia4472 4 місяці тому +33

    What about wearing bags that cross the body - practical & preferable.

  • @lucindajones2892
    @lucindajones2892 4 місяці тому +1

    I am so happy that I discovered your channel! Thank you so much for the practical tips that I can immediately incorporate in my wardrobe.

  • @angelavittucci4030
    @angelavittucci4030 4 місяці тому +2

    Great job and well communicated and presented! I too need some shoulder bag tips.

  • @mattmelanie4707
    @mattmelanie4707 3 місяці тому +2

    I've just subscribed. Thx for a great video & lovely tips. Greetings from Australia 💕

  • @angelaboniface451
    @angelaboniface451 4 місяці тому +9

    Lots of good tips but, as for the bags…those of us who are reliant on mobility aids, such a walking canes/frames, have no option but to opt for crossbody bags as our hands are otherwise occupied. It would be nice to see this taken into consideration. Also, the use of wheelchairs and mobility scooters also impact fashion choices. Long jackets and cardigans to create a lengthening column really don’t work. It would be good to see some inclusivity 😀

  • @SewHealthy8
    @SewHealthy8 4 місяці тому +2

    The line & fit of the shoulder seam can make a big visual difference too 😊

  • @likeargamanflaming940
    @likeargamanflaming940 Місяць тому

    Wow, you really dis an excellent job wirh this video. In addition you showcased women of all sizes and proportions. This video eas very helpful.

  • @winifredbrown5406
    @winifredbrown5406 3 місяці тому +6

    Anyone even near a city will find the bag carrying choices asking to be pick-pocketed or robbed of the bag. It could result in a broken arm or wrist, as well. Bags are generally stylish when crossed over the torso and carried in front of the belly with a sealed opening worn inside, not flapping insecurely. as a welcome to intruders! Cute or sophisticated styles work this way. A clutch is impossible to deal with on a plane or train, gets lost in a cab, ends up on your lap or the floor at a party or restaurant or concert. Safety can be stylish!

  • @dale3404
    @dale3404 2 місяці тому +7

    It’s a mix of large-and small- sized models. I do think it would have been better to have all plus-sized models.

  • @robinsmith4499
    @robinsmith4499 3 місяці тому

    Great video, very helpful! It’s the little things that make me feel good!

  • @JaneCrossan
    @JaneCrossan 3 місяці тому +1

    Great video. Thanks for the tips ❤

  • @nenitaconcha5220
    @nenitaconcha5220 3 місяці тому

    I am really thankful that I come across your video's it's so stunning and very informative how to dress up properly with appropriate colors. God bless you.❤❤❤

  • @mawmawkaren2801
    @mawmawkaren2801 Місяць тому

    If you had links for some of the clothes, it would be great. I love your channel. Keep it up.

  • @debraamboyer6775
    @debraamboyer6775 4 місяці тому +4

    Why do the models leave the long purse straps hanging down? Why not tuck it in the purse or remove it if it’s buckled on?

  • @madhumittal7887
    @madhumittal7887 3 місяці тому

    Very useful information, I loved it and learn many good tips 🙏

  • @Carpediem2689
    @Carpediem2689 4 місяці тому +4

    First time subscriber here! Do you have links where to buy this clothes on your channel?

    • @Deborah-so8mv
      @Deborah-so8mv 3 місяці тому

      Torrid? Macy’s, some lower-tier lines by designers like Calvin Klein and Ann Taylor.

  • @poppylove3673
    @poppylove3673 4 місяці тому

    I just found your channel and love your ideas! Would you please let us know where the cloths ( especially the tops around the 2 minute mark)? I loved the sleeves and under bust then longer tops! Thank you! ❤

  • @myinnermagpie
    @myinnermagpie 2 місяці тому

    What a helpful video, thank you 😊

  • @juliestephens8472
    @juliestephens8472 4 місяці тому +2

    Love it. Thank you!! (From a waistless woman.)

  • @Sarahthompson2237
    @Sarahthompson2237 3 місяці тому +1

    I love your voice and script!

  • @angelarenfro7907
    @angelarenfro7907 4 місяці тому +6

    Could you tell us where you buy the “good” tops?

  • @rebeccapatterson649
    @rebeccapatterson649 4 місяці тому +6

    This old age stuff is hard!

  • @jhal90s
    @jhal90s 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your suggestions 😊

  • @nancysullivan6827
    @nancysullivan6827 3 місяці тому +2

    Agree with many of the comments. I’m a 66 Apple type. A big girl. I was just shopping yesterday. I know a lot of these things. I’ll see a top love it and try it on and hate it. I’m careful of prints colors and sleeves. Must skim my stomach and butt but not be a mummu. As far as purses. I have to have cross body bags. I walk and use public transportation. Casually holding strap in my hand is ridiculous. What I have is close to an envelope style. A hanging strap can catch on things and trip me. Also hints on where to buy something you show. I go to a well known woman’s plus size store local mall. It’s well known. Online I have a hard time because I need to try it on. I go in the store and part of the sales staff is trained to help you shop.i always walk out with a nice ce full outfit and with sales etc it fits my budget. Black slacks, denim jeans, flatter sleeve cream top with small black flowers running down vertically. 3/4 sleeve black and white top with a cross over near breast. And to go with both a long slim textured black cardigan. Rounded off with sales and discounts. $160! Same place I buy my bras. Some really supportive silky lacy and sexy. Never full price always a sale.

  • @EstaRidley
    @EstaRidley 4 місяці тому +5

    THANK YOU...I AM 65 AND HAVE A BEAUTIFUL FIGURE.....BUT I KNOW I AM A GRANNY AND MUST CLOTH MYSELF LIKE 1.....WITH RESPECT......

  • @lynelessard
    @lynelessard Місяць тому

    Merci, pour tous vos bons conseils.

  • @annedauvergne4427
    @annedauvergne4427 3 місяці тому +6

    Sorry that most of your photos and exemples are on thin persons. In that case, everything fits. Wish we could see the same with larger women

  • @barbarabelet1743
    @barbarabelet1743 4 місяці тому

    Super enfin un site de mode dédié aux femmes de 60 ans et l'élégance. Cela manque énormément. Vos modèles sont top. 👍👏

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      Thank You!! I'm delighted you’re enjoying the content. It's my goal to celebrate elegance at every age, and it's wonderful to hear that the styles resonate with you. 😘😘

  • @minapapillo52
    @minapapillo52 Місяць тому

    Thank you, very nice

  • @margolawnerd2776
    @margolawnerd2776 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your tips! I truly believe I look better because of it!

  • @DetraDavisDavis
    @DetraDavisDavis 3 місяці тому

    Which type of jacket/sweater to top a dress?

  • @gloriazimmerman4242
    @gloriazimmerman4242 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, you are valuable to us!

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for your feedback! I’m so glad to hear you’re finding value in the videos and that they’ve been helpful to you. Your support is truly appreciated! Thank You!

  • @dianethompson6804
    @dianethompson6804 3 місяці тому

    Im plus sized and would like to wear my bags over the shoulder or the over the shoulder, under the armpit hold but----- the straps never stay on my shoulder!! My shoulders are slightly sloping, but not a lot. Is there a trick to keeping the straps on your shoulder?

  • @LeAnneTraybsza
    @LeAnneTraybsza 3 місяці тому +8

    I am heavy. I am outdated. I don’t care. I like my authentic self that has developed over my 60 plus years. I am beautifully me! 😊

    • @jayneestrycker8691
      @jayneestrycker8691 3 місяці тому

      Same here. Besides, if its not from Wal-Mart, I can't afford it anyway.

    • @robinsmith4499
      @robinsmith4499 3 місяці тому

      Do you, nobody is telling not too! Oh, you needed to tell us. Okay

  • @Virgograce
    @Virgograce 3 місяці тому

    Great content!!

  • @RabbitSlippersBlog
    @RabbitSlippersBlog 2 місяці тому +1

    The ways mentioned for carrying bags/purses, etc. are an invitation to have someone easily grab/snatch your purse. I personally don't want to carry more crap in my hands because it supposedly creates some look.

  • @Art_lover_4f4
    @Art_lover_4f4 3 місяці тому

    I appreciate your video.. I love the styles but haven't found any stores that sell items I like. Forget ordering online! Big disappointment after receiving the items... I learned to Google the companies before ordering anything. If you know of any reputable companies, please let me know.. 😊

  • @marissaclaridge7627
    @marissaclaridge7627 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your lovely ideas❤

  • @Rdkhk335
    @Rdkhk335 Місяць тому

    Ty❤

  • @LorieArias
    @LorieArias 4 місяці тому

    Great job 👏

  • @bmackillop9937
    @bmackillop9937 4 місяці тому +1

    Enjoyed this video

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for the feedback! I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Your support keeps me inspired!😘

  • @mrsmucha
    @mrsmucha 2 місяці тому +1

    Please use more plus sized models and please tell us where to purchase the clothes.

  • @tash4122
    @tash4122 4 місяці тому +2

    Just want to thank you as ive employed some of your suggestions and friends have noticed . So thank you

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому +1

      I’m so happy to hear that! Glad you’re seeing results! Keep embracing your fabulous self! 😘

  • @MargaritaGunn-z6b
    @MargaritaGunn-z6b 3 місяці тому +1

    Comparing tops when one model is pale, larger,with unstyled hair with a slim tanned model with styled hair and accessories (necklace/earrings) Style is what you make it. At my age now I like wearing colorful clothes that are comfortable….. not to advertise I have money to purchase all this high end styling .
    Is there advice for men to look stylish? Dress in beige with expensive watch and hand made shoes …. also trim your nose and ear hair…. don’t wear pink shirts ?

  • @Dit1160
    @Dit1160 3 місяці тому +1

    With the economy as it is…we are being asked to spend money to replace clothing for “ fashion”? Or is it so you can make a little change on our purchases?

  • @aelson7658
    @aelson7658 Місяць тому

    How much larger do you want them I am 75 and I look flysize 4

  • @MonikaLaubsch
    @MonikaLaubsch 4 місяці тому +1

    Dankeschön

  • @sylvialeung9938
    @sylvialeung9938 4 місяці тому +11

    Sorry you need to use the same model to try both the do and don’t outfit, otherwise, your points are not convincing

  • @darlenerobinson9086
    @darlenerobinson9086 4 місяці тому +4

    How about someone that is round in the middle. That would be nice to see.

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      Thank you for the suggestion! I’m working on a video that will address this, so keep an eye out for it soon. Your input is appreciated. Stay tuned! 😘

  • @trishalivingston9171
    @trishalivingston9171 2 місяці тому +1

    White pants? Thise are for people who are size 2

  • @womanladyAk
    @womanladyAk 4 місяці тому +2

    PLEASE, WomenLadies that are size 12 and more!

  • @janlang5999
    @janlang5999 4 місяці тому +10

    I’m almost 74 and I really don’t give a crap while you know I put on clothes that I’m comfortable in and if if you don’t like it, don’t look

    • @raffaellavitiello1762
      @raffaellavitiello1762 4 місяці тому +1

      Exactly, dress to please yourself and feel confortable, what is good today is ridiculous tomorrow so who care, life is short, enjoy the moment .

    • @alexmarcus9009
      @alexmarcus9009 4 місяці тому +3

      How charming!

  • @rschindler9965
    @rschindler9965 4 місяці тому +3

    I’m not fond of any is those suggestions / choices.

  • @Lucille-q8e
    @Lucille-q8e 2 місяці тому

    What about elegance after seventy or eighty?

    • @jenjen.rutherford8559
      @jenjen.rutherford8559 2 місяці тому

      Same as any age I would think . Quality fabrics , colours that suit you snd a good fit .

  • @sue1577
    @sue1577 4 місяці тому +1

    False Wrap tops with a slight gather on one side not any of those maternity smock tops .. Slight flare ok.. for hiding tum .

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому +2

      You're right! It’s all about finding those perfect details that work with your body and make you feel confident.

    • @sue1577
      @sue1577 4 місяці тому

      @@EleganceAt60 thankyou I do love your videos .. just thought it would help those with a tummy problem ❤️

  • @daphnekivinen9482
    @daphnekivinen9482 4 місяці тому +3

    Well, a sweater with crosswise stripes makes anyone look heavier. You have to be skinny to wear that.

  • @laurafreedman8770
    @laurafreedman8770 3 місяці тому +1

    Frenchies. “What would Susie Wear”. Perfect

  • @AZsunflower
    @AZsunflower Місяць тому

    I didn't much care about 'fashion' when I wax young. At 74, I could not care less. I buy whatever my local thrift shop has in my size. :)

  • @tetetalk
    @tetetalk 28 днів тому

    All these tips are great, but in most stores, plus-size clothing is exactly the kind you advise not to wear. Such styles which you show are mainly available up to size L. Often, you have to shop online and then send items back because what you receive is frequently not what was shown in the picture, but a poor imitation. Decent clothing can sometimes be found in boutiques, but even then, not always-and it’s very expensive. Few middle-class people can afford such expenses. For these reasons, plus-size women often dress poorly.

  • @laurafreedman8770
    @laurafreedman8770 3 місяці тому

    Check Pantaloonies

  • @bonniebenz8792
    @bonniebenz8792 4 місяці тому

    Great video

  • @cevhawaii7840
    @cevhawaii7840 Місяць тому +1

    These looks are not reflective of current American attitudes about women and fashion… They are based on a lot of outdated, thinking about clothes and style. Modern senior women are much more active and less decorative.

  • @Deborah-so8mv
    @Deborah-so8mv 3 місяці тому

    Personally, I wear half or full sleeve, which are rare.

  • @cindiloowhoo1166
    @cindiloowhoo1166 14 днів тому

    If you wish to show how a woman might avoid looking "heavy and outdated," it would be logical to show a fuller figure in the Do's and not just the slim ones. As one ages, joints can wear causing pain to holding a large handbag in certain positions. IMHO, the fairly recent "style" of smooshing the front edge of a loose top down the front of a waistband, with the sides and back hanging out all over is just plain sloppy. I do not care for "Trends." Who wants to look like everyone else? One should wear the outfits in which one feels pretty and comfortable; The behavior tends to follow the clothing.

  • @maryellenyork2819
    @maryellenyork2819 28 днів тому

    Holding any bag in the hand is easily grabbed and taken from you. You must hold your bag closer to the body.

  • @sandrashea1732
    @sandrashea1732 4 місяці тому +3

    They all look frumpy ☹️

  • @lyndabruce6077
    @lyndabruce6077 4 місяці тому +5

    A bag hanging on my arm will get set down and lost.

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      I totally get that! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!😘

  • @cheryldias4269
    @cheryldias4269 3 місяці тому

    Older petite women styles please

  • @reonafarmer2233
    @reonafarmer2233 4 місяці тому +3

    What about woman with big busts and big build ..try it on the womantoo

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      I appreciate your feedback! I’ll be sure to include more tips for women with a fuller bust in upcoming content.

  • @ellemim2239
    @ellemim2239 Місяць тому

    The models started out plus size and got thinner as video went on! These models didn't even look 35!

  • @sheilas1599
    @sheilas1599 3 місяці тому

    Wow--watching the section on tops makes me think that all women over 50 are obese. Just not so! And, sadly, all of the recommended tops seem matronly to me.

  • @darlenerobinson9086
    @darlenerobinson9086 4 місяці тому +1

    How come ya'll don't say anything about over the shoulder

    • @EleganceAt60
      @EleganceAt60  4 місяці тому

      Thanks for bringing this up! I'll definitely be covering over-the-shoulder styles in a future video.

  • @simplyme-88
    @simplyme-88 2 місяці тому +1

    The music is dreadful, repetitive, and exhausting. If its presence is essential and necessary, make another choice!

  • @RitaVernoy
    @RitaVernoy 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @inciakis8137
    @inciakis8137 3 місяці тому

    ❤👏👍🇹🇷

  • @cindiloowhoo1166
    @cindiloowhoo1166 14 днів тому

    Also, to be blunt, pants should never ever display "kitten smiles," or "Dromedary Toes." Period. End Of.

  • @nonasmith2405
    @nonasmith2405 3 місяці тому

    But I am outdated lol 😅

  • @helenavalentine891
    @helenavalentine891 Місяць тому

    i will never get caught in a denim jacket. feel it cheapens any outfit. plus they are just ugly. have never seen a cute/nice one i would care to buy.

  • @JoWyrick
    @JoWyrick 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for overthinking , Why not put this info on someone’s site who doesn’t know anything about STYLE. My Site didn’t send for this, Is it your moms style?????

  • @Canuck13
    @Canuck13 3 місяці тому

    How about losing some weight. I did and now mostly all styles look good on me. Stop camouflaging. Lose weight. You will look and feel better!

    • @iampaperprincess
      @iampaperprincess 3 місяці тому +1

      Wow! Nothing like fat shaming to inspire. How about stfu and worry about yourself? I prefer to lift people up instead of knocking them down. Or perhaps I’m missing something and you’re just an internet troll?!

  • @taurielelf6886
    @taurielelf6886 2 місяці тому

    You don't need to tell anyone what to look like, you have 34 subscribers, that should tell you some thing.

    • @RRMarkham
      @RRMarkham 2 місяці тому

      Uhh ... the stats say 35-point-something *K* -- which means over 35 THOUSAND subscribers. 😊

  • @MsLouisVee
    @MsLouisVee 3 місяці тому +1

    Too frumpy.

  • @ireneholmeide3240
    @ireneholmeide3240 3 місяці тому

    I might be wrong but a jeans jacket on an older woman looks as if she is trying to appear more like her daughter.